I'd never ever get rid of my pets for anyone! Never!! Period!

Jeremy, RUN, RUN, RUN!! You married a child

She really has no friends and expected him to fill all her needs.

She made him quit college. She made him sell his horses. This woman is so insecure. Its quite sad.

People should have friendships and hobbies outside of their spouse. No person should meet all of your needs. She sounds codependent.

I found Tamarra and Jeremy online. They’re still married, have 4 kids now, and she recently got a masters in special education. It looks like she has a job after getting her masters. I hope they healed!

How can she possibly love him and simultaneously strip him of everything he loves?

Tamarra needs to get her life, 24/7 want husband, get a pet, hobby too, also a job

Why are they giggling? This is weird. She is throwing red flags all over the place. I hope the 1st guy got out of this marriage

How could you get rid of your animals for someone? Ughh What a witch!

HOW IN THE WORLD DID THESE TO EVEN DATE LET ALONE MARRY EACH OTHER OMG!!!!!! SHE'S BEYOND CLINGY & BEHAVES LIKE A BABY!!!

She's not clingy. . . . .she's selfish and narcissistic

She needs hobbies, interests and friends.

She has weird separation anxiety 😬 I couldn’t imagine wanting to spend that much time in my house with someone 😂

I think he should have divorced her before he got rid of his horses. She's selfish and insecure. She shouldn't be surprised if he resents her and doesn't want to be around her.

Is this chick for real????? She lucky he hasn't already bailed. Like what is she kidding . He needs to put his foot down and they both need to grow up. 😂

These two have nothing in common. One is active, the other is sedentary. One has hobbies, the other expects to be entertained. One is bossy, one is passive-aggressive. One works hard, I do not know what the other does if anything.

This woman must get a few hobbies so they can each have alone time doing what they enjoy even if they don't do it together.

I can’t believe she made him get rid of his horses I would never ever do that

Lots of comments saying Tamarra is essentially a bad person but all I see is someone that has an unhealthy need to depend on someone else. She reminds me of my brother's dog that cried when my brother wasn't home, spent it's whole day waiting for my brother to come home, and got jealous when my brother was spending time with someone else. It's not that she's a bad person. She's just been living a very sheltered life and that has stunted her personal growth.

Marriage shouldn’t be a prison sentence

She needs to build her own life.

This couple should divorce. No biggie. Bad match. Happens all the time. Huge red flag: she told him to get rid of his pets (horses). Never, never, never.

That clingy chick is crazy . He didn’t know she was like this before marrying her

46 years married, and we only met 3 months before our wedding! He is the most wonderful man and a great father. Life is not always the perfect, but without him, it would be much harder!

This bride is selfish....Leave the guy alone, Girlie.

OK, going to work is not your“personal “time because you have to get up at crazy hours and work for usually eight hours. It’s not like he is going out drinking with his friends or riding horses in his case he is working.

Omg, I couldn’t even be her friend. Sir, run for the hills! I couldn’t tolerate this at all😩

The first woman isn't clingy, she's controlling. If she were a man we'd probably call her abusive. She seems to have no job, no friends, and to do nothing except watch tv (maybe she cooks and cleans) and wait for hubby to come home. I'd be a lonely basket case too. But it's time for her to get a life, almost literally. Trying to give her grace, that maybe she's had some trauma that makes her live so abnormally, but she's got to come to terms with it whether they stay married or not

The clingy wife is not all there! She is definitely a narcissist! Poor guy! Married 43 yrs. and if you keep it up you'll be divorced ASAP!

In hindsight we should of never married. Very sad😢.

We met, got engaged in four months, married a year later........33 years later...guess we are lucky. But we communicate very well, I don't mother him, he doesn't father me. We are equal.

My wife works 60 hours a week lol. And I never complain. This lady is so annoying

Maybe it's just me, but the way she says the word "clingy" is grounds for divorce 😂

My husband and I are the same way but we both see things the same way. We want to be together all of the time. We go to bed at the same time, we are best friends and we have the same interests. That’s the key, find someone with the same interests and life style. We’ve been together for over 30 years and look forward to the rest of our lives together.

She’s so selfish and immature and unlikable. I don’t know why he even married someone like that. She sucks at being married and isn’t grown up enough to be in any relationship. Toxic

There is no way I would have gotten rid of my horses! Get her out there and see how great they are, take a ride.

First dude: Run for the hills.

This guy did not take the lead in the marriage. He should have said no multiple times and put his foot down.

The second couple, it's sad that all she wanted was to stay in the hotel on their honeymoon.

He should take her camoing ,hiking , horse back riding etc...get her out of her comfort zone . Dr phil should tell her she has to do it and find more out of life

The first lady, if the roles were reversed and it was a husband preventing his wife from leaving the house, socialising, making her give up her horses, going to school etc it would be domestic violence via coercive control.

Together 43 years. We each have our own hobbies and friends, but also love spending time together. We can talk, and joke, and also just be quiet together. He is my rock, and I am his. It takes both people putting the other first. 💥

She Needs a JOB!!!

This gal is codependent with severe abandonment issues. She reminds me of myself in my twenties, before I found recovery in AlAnon. I hope she gets help too.

I just want to take a moment and put my husband on a pedastool here. We have been together for 14 years. Just had our 14th anniversary on July 4. While our state doesn't acknowledge common law. We do. This means he and I have been married 4 years. We recently hit a huge bump in the road this year. I had a second round of clots in my aorta and common illiac arteries. This caused me to lose the ability to walk. It was extremely painful. Like a bad cramp you can't work out. They were reable to restore blood flow to my legs and I woke up in the ICU. You would think the horror ends there right? Nope we just getting started Hon. A few weeks into recovery I had 2 cardiac events and while the doctor was looking at the latest event my right leg went ice cold out of nowhere. I already had sever reduced sensation in my legs but that icy cold feeling will forever haunt me. I knew exactly what happened and I slowly started to freak out. One CT scan later revealed the horror I already knew was there. A clot, this time in my femoral artery. They tried for 12 hours to restore blood flow and they failed. They presented me with 2 options. 1) I could do nothing and my leg would rot off and I could die from sepsis. Or 2) they take the leg and I live relearning all the basic functions. I chose the second one. I've been in and out of hospitals for about 6 months. I'm finally home and hopefully for good this time. My husband has been my rock through this whole thing. He is the best caregiver a woman could ask for. I am bed bound at the moment but I will walk again if I have anything to say about it. But my husband and I have grown VERY close through this. There isn't much else we could know.

I think there is a huge double standard. If a husband was demanding all his wife’s time, not allowing her to connect with her friends or have any sort of social life, people would see it as a huge red flag. Isolating her, controlling her curfews… he would be made to look like an abuser. But just because she is bubbly blond girl, they just laugh it off. Run, dude!

She's asking how do they find a compromise where he spends time with her and has everything he wants to? The thing is is she spending time with him? She wants him to stay home and watch movies and be a homebody and he does that for her but does she offer to go horseback riding with him does she go on a hike with him? Sometimes marriage means doing things you don't necessarily want to do or aren't interested in but you do them to be there with your spouse because that's the thing they like to do or are interested in. Then a lot of the time people find that they end up looking forward to that thing because it means quality time with their spouse and they have a good time. As she's going now she's just going to end up getting fat and lazy. Then he'll really be resentful.

Married for all the wrong reasons...only want a wedding not a marriage..no wonder there is so much divorce😂

Not sure if it’s codependency because it’s on her end….but her neediness is off the chain. I know I wouldn’t be able to handle it…that’s too much.

She needs a network. Friends, job, hobbies ect…seems bored

My husband would never take my horse away. He knew how important getting a horse was for me and last year for my birthday we found a rescue horse for free. I had a talk with him because she was costing us a ton of money and asked if we should sell her and he said absolutely not, that he would never do that to me.

The first lady needs a full time job.

Jeremy I would run!

Don't have children!! Get a divorce!! Narc

First has no life, she is a child and doesn’t want to be an adult!! She needs to get a job and learn to grow up!

Marriage is hard. It’s hard job and compromises all the way. Being this clingy will tear him and the marriage down. I see a lot of people say:” “Just get a divorce” like it’s not a big deal. I’m of the opinion you do what you can before you divorce. Marriage should ideally be the one time, of course if it can’t work and they just make each other unhappy, divorce is an option, but I understand they want to try therapy and help first. Bless them both. They probably married too fast and too young. Not everyone is ready for marriage this young.

To the wife, pray pray and pray, prayer moves mountains

This girl needs to get a job and a hobby. She must have her own life outside his. She's too needy

I think the woman in the first couple should become a flight attendant and broaden her horizons. She should not demand things from her husband, she needs to be way less available and not wait for him to get home.

OMG, so absolutely stifling.

She’s isolated him. That’s a red flag for abuse. There’s more ways to abuse someone without being physical

When I had problems in my marriage I told my family Dr. who was my Dr. since my youth. He said this and I remembered it all 60 yrs of my marriage. Bottom line..learn to cope or get out!! My hubby was bipolar and did get on meds, when the good ones became available. That was a life and marriage saver!

I was like this when I was younger. I was very insecure. No one person can meet your needs. Years later my husband (we met in our 40s, both our second marriage) and we both have many different hobbies and we both have friends we spend time with apart. We also spend alone time apart. We did not consider marrying until we had been together for years and knew we were compatible. This is easy to do when you are secure with yourself and with your relationship. She needs to practice being comfortable spending time alone or with family/friends away from hubby. She can work this out. ❤❤❤

If your partner isn’t your best friend then don’t get married

She has the wrong idea of what marriage should be. He will leave and that’s what she is trying to avoid.

Living together is not the answer! You will try to impress and not be yourself?

He's working to get away from you. His free time away. Sir, get you some backbone and put your foot down!!!

Dude…….leave her. She’s not that hot.

I don't know much about horses, so I'm assuming here. But, wouldn't it feel like getting rid of a family member? I would feel resent as well.

I pray for the husband’s faith. He should’ve been honest. God has healed my husband and I or we wouldn’t be married. ❤. We’ve been married 29 years and have six beautiful kids( four are ❤🎉adult children)

I believe that an angry atheist,&& a vegetarian ABSOLUTELY go hand-in-hand!🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯

Any update on the couple? Did they stay together?

I’ve been married for over thirty years. If my wife acted like that clinging vine it wouldn’t have lasted a year.

The fact that this guy was willing to give up everything for, it blows my mind. I don’t understand how you can give up your entire self just because you love someone.

I would appreciate it Deeply if anyone could pray for me I'm very Sick suffering with chronic pain from long time illness please pray for me I'm Suffering praying for Everyone everyday God bless you all

How did they meet and why did they even want to do a 2nd date?

I always say who wants to be married, it’s difficult. If there wasn’t a wedding, most people wouldn’t be married…it’s not fun.

The 1st girl is Amber Heard all over again. He needs to RUN RUN RUN!!!

Checked out after giving up friends, horses, judo, hobbies and even choice of his bedtime 😅😅

She is basically smothering him.. she made him give up a job.. 😱

Guaranteed she thought of getting pregnant real FAST. Run mate RUN........FAST. She isn't normal.

Where do all these women find horse-men and why do they choose women that don’t want their lifestyle? It’s just not fair

I feel so sorry for the guy not allowed to do anything. His wife is ruining his life and he will grow to hate her in the future. All she cares about is herself. She is sitting there laughing at everything which tells that she just doesn't get it and she will never get it. What he want has no relevance, it's all about her. She need to get friends and some hobbies so he get some time to do things he likes to. She is suffocating him.

Together 20 tears and married 18. We have known each other for 30. We encourage each other to have time apart with friends. We accept we don’t agree on all activities. He likes to camp. Me? Nope. So I get a hotel near campsite to visit but usually go back home after a couple of days. I like shopping and museums when we travel. He puts in a bit of effort then finds a pub. He adores the beach, but I don’t. So we mutually love deep sea fishing and do that. We find happy mediums that work for us. It’s called compromise. We discussed it BEFORE we wed. Are there disagreements? Absolutely! Then we agree to disagree and motor on if it is something not life changing. We can vacation together and spend time apart without upsetting the other. We also agree wholeheartedly to not go to bed disgruntled. Works fir us. We are a couple with a complete life both with one another and solo. Makes and keeps us happy and not missing out.

I think they are both immature . Every one focused on her but she intuitively knew on the honeymoon he had regrets , felt him pull back and that can make someone clingy and extra insecure. She said he gave her lots of attention before the marriage and everything changed after that . He needs a woman that rides horses and has a black belt. She needs an academic book reader that hikes. Good luck to them both.

The first young couple, the young man is speaking of severe alienation of friends, the things he loves, no privacy & telltale signs of a controlling partner, at the minimum. If this was a woman, Dr. Phil would be yelling how he's a good ol' Texas boy & how the newlywed husband belongs gone or in jail. Why the role reversal, why not warn this young man he's going down a dangerous DV road? Exactly, why I stopped watching!

No one wants to be with someone that is stuck up their butt 24/7

Before I got married, I attended a lesson where I learned that 1. It's hard to know while you're dating what questions to ask and what to look for. It's like being a tourist in a town vs. being a homeowner. You see things differently once there's commitment. 2. The first year should be spent together, building the foundation for the marriage. Not to the extreme that Lady A wants, perhaps, but definitely making the effort to spend most of their free time together to begin with. In the case of the first couple, they apparently just went with the fantasy version of romance without asking any of the right questions and with building no healthy balance or boundaries, so now she doesn't know how to ask for affection, and he just wants to get away. No communication. Very sad.

They do not have to have things in common. They need to support and care about who the other person is. My husband is a country boy and I am a city girl. He loves seeing me thrive and I love seeing him do the things he loves to do. The wife needs to have a different perspective. The husband will love her more if she allows him to thrive with who he is and what he enjoys.

I love spending time with my wife but she is also my best friend !!! She is my ROCK !!

I’d bet $1,000,000 that his family told him not to marry her and now it’s too late.

8 years married here! You need to know everything that is important and a deal breaker to you. You always will learn new things. Now, I learned that picking up the underwear on of the floor, is not important and it is more important to focus on other things. Also, communication:) and learn each other love languages, to make them feel loved and important. Finally, give yourself your own space! Tamara, you will saturate him.

My husband and I fight about good things. "You made me dinner last night, it's my turn to make it for you !", "Is there anything I can get you?" If I want the toilet seat down, I put it down. I suggest he hang with friends and go golfing when he wants. If we have angry words, we apologize quickly and are happy again soon. It's about selflessness.

i’m glad everyone in the comments is as mad about him having to get rid of the horses as i am lol i would NEVER! they’d be gone before my horses

I would never marry anyone who doesn’t share my faith

She didn’t make him give up anything he chose to do it. He could have told her no

Had a friend that left her hubby on their honeymoon. It was destination wedding, she just bought a ticket and left him behind.

Do NOT indoctrinate your children. Teach them love and compassion. I was raised in the church as well. I allowed my child to make her own choice. She went to many different churches with neighbors and friends growing up. I sent her to “Jesus camp” in MS, because she was interested. She was able to make her own choice. She later came to me crying and said, “I know you no longer believe, but thank you for showing me the groundwork to being a loving and caring Christian that I’ve decided to be. You’ve showed me through your kindness to the homeless, your volunteering that I want to be like you, I just am going to do it through Christ”. I cried as well.

Jeez how did they even get engaged in the first place