Thank you Kelly, truly, thank you! ❤Thank you for posting this video and speaking your truth, emotions, anger, sadness, heartbreaks and struggles BUT, ALSO, your courage, triumph’s, determination, and endurance!! You my friend are a true inspiration to me and I know definitely for others as well. You’re an AMAZING mother!!❤ The values and strength you show and raise your daughters with each day has such a profound impact on how they’re going to also be as well.❤ You can see it with your son and how he lived his life, I know you’re beyond proud of the young man he became.❤ Never change who you are Kelly, because we’ve both have had our hearts crushed by the people we thought and who we called “friends”! Like I’ve said before, “ when someone shows you who they are, believe them”! That’s how I choose my friends now and for the most part, it works.☺️ I try not to have expectations in others because it seems like I always get let down. What I would do as a friend, in a friendship, doesn’t mean that’s the kind of friend they are or can be. 😢 Sending you and the girls big hugs and continued prayers.❤🙏🏼

Let all of us start praying for Kelly say !!Amen!!!

Dear, dear Kelly - that was not a dream. Ray was talking to you. He is with you always! Talk to him. He is with you. ❤

Taking control back is powerful. One minute, one hour, one day at a time. Ray is cheering you on! ❤

Awe, Kelly, May you feel the love of all of us wrapped around you and your girls. You are loved. You’ve got this 💖💐

Jesus be the healer of Kelly's heart protect her from these attacks and let her know how much YOU love her. Let her feel your presence and LOVE

Thank you Ray, we love you for giving Mom the strength to pick herself up, again. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

God is our strength for those who trust Him.

Praying for Kelly and her girls that they find comfort and peace.

Kelly, I know exactly where you are. I woke up on 12-14-21 to find my husband of 39 years gone in the bed. He wasn't sick so it was a shock to say the least. My life spun into a world I didn't know how to navigate and still don't sometimes. When your normal disappears it's natural to feel lost, I still feel lost and likely always will. What I can tell you is while the heart ache and wanting our lost one back is always there we do learn to move forward. Let me tell you I watched you tube videos also, I put a new backdoor on, put new trim up, painted my entire house, replaced my kitchen faucet, landscaped and bought a lake property all on my own. I miss my husband being by my side every day, I cry almost daily. A word, a smell, a movie, a memory, just about anything can rip off the still forming scab but I have come to appreciate those things because they make me feel love. What I have come to understand is it's our love that keeps us going and without it and all the feelings we endure in the aftermath we would have no reason to go on. We find our strength but are not afraid of the weakness anymore when it comes, you will be okay Kelly, different but okay. Sending big hugs and much love to you and the girls, I always have you in my thoughts.

Let's watch more of Kelly's old videos and bring her income back up.

Kelly, someone once told me that grieve is a rollercoaster. Please give yourself grace. We are here for you and will always support you.

He visited you! He knew what to say. You know it was him. That makes all the difference. When my brother passed he did everything in his power from the other side to let me know he still existed. It changed everything for me. To absolutely KNOW that he still existed. Love never dies.

Dear Kelly, this is one of my favorite quotes. "Always REMEMBER you are BRAVER than you know, STRONGER than you seem, SMARTER than you think and LOVED more than you know." 💪 Continued prayers for you and your family. 🙏

Kelly, you’re stronger than you give yourself credit for! Hang in there! We care bout you!

Kelly, you are a beautiful, strong woman who is an inspiration to not only your girls but to all of us. Praying for you and your beautiful girls to find the strength to pick yourselves up again. Ray is so proud of you all. I appreciate you sharing this with all of us and know we all love you so much!

Hi Chatters, Commenters, please say a quick prayer, shout out, well wishes, for Kelly. And please give a like for her informative video and her instructional videos. Helps so very much. Just a real nice thing to do for a good person to us.

Kelly - you are an amazing woman. Stay strong and know that you inspire so many. Ray is so proud of you.

Kelly, make a note of people in your life who like to help others. It gives them joy and fills their ‘tank’. They would love to come and help with something like a broken toilet.

People that have the conscience to knowingly do something that hurtful just shows that they are extremely broken inside. Pray for that person to cast out the demons they hold so dear. Much love your way. Stay strong and wise. ❤

I've got goosebumps- that absolutely was your beloved Ray talking to you. Kelly, YOU GOT THIS!!! I am so proud of you. God bless you

Oh sweetie, I am praying for you now and lifting you up to God. I've been knocked down by people. I have learned that if I can get up, just enough to get on my knees and talk to God, I keep talking to Him till He gives me strength to stand.

Ray is watching over all of you. So live the life he wants to have. Find happiness again, As you said, "You deserve it."❤

Thank you for sharing. You are stronger than you thought. You proved it. You’ll all be okay. ❤

You can do this. Lean on Ray’s words. You’re strong!

That person that did that to you 3 is a HEARTLESS PERSON! SHAME, SHAME!!!!

You handled that toilet problem like a pro! Sometimes small challenges can feel overwhelming when you're already feeling down. Glad Ray came to you to remind you that you can do it!! Yeah momma! Your girls can learn a lot from you and become crafty, capable women like their mother.

Kelly, from one soul to another, YOU are AWESOME! We love you and your strength. However, I’m not so certain what you had was a dream of Ray, rather an encounter. He was showing you that he is still right here. He is still in your life and ALWAYS will be. You make me realize that we choose how we react to our challenges. And you have met yours with grace and determination. May you and your daughters be filled with joy. You are such a being of light and love. And you are an amazing crafter. ❤❤❤

How devastating my God you don’t deserve this harassment how despicable is there a way to get some cameras at your son’s house so you can see what’s going on!!

Ray is going to be your angel. He’s going to help you through your darkest moments. He knew exactly when you needed him most!

Absolutely loved your story. Thank you for sharing. Dreams have such a powerful way of getting us to see what we cannot see in waking time. I think Ray is smiling and is VERY PROUD of his Mom. Keep up the good work, Kelly.

You are in a delicate time in your life, where your emotions, life is overwhelming. You and your girls are going be strong for each other. May God continue to give you peace and strength.

Well, look at you go girl! This is a rough time but you did it. You fixed that toilet, cleaned the house, and straightened the craft room. There will be more rough days but those experiences help us to heal and move forward. No one said it would be easy but you have many people to support you. We love you and are praying for you and the girls.

Kelly please continue living. Ray coming to you in your dream was his way of saying he is there, and he knew you needed to hear it. As you always say”Stay strong, stay positive.” Love a friend

Congratulations, Kelly. God sent your son to give you the strength to go on and to realize you CAN do it!! You did, and proved you CAN!

Prayers dear Kelly. I totally understand. I lost my daughter, my beautiful daughter, my best friend. We worked together her whole life. She was 34yrs old. She had a wonderful husband and life. It has been 7yrs. And I am still going thru my grief. Prayers going up for U and your family.

What an evil person. Karma will get them

You did what you had to do and you won! Your crown is on straight. It never fell off. You are Queen Kelly and your royal court, Princess Kayla and Princess Allie. Wear those crowns proudly you are all so very strong.

Kelly, you didn't have a dream about Ray. Ray came to you in a dream when you needed it most! That's so beautiful!

I am proud of you. You finally see sunshine breaking through the grey clouds. Be happy.

Praying you feel Jesus loving arms around you.

Kelly, you my dear are a strength for others. You have given me the hope that things will get better, between crafts, divorce, loss, new you and your faith! You are beautiful

I think your son would be so proud of you for so many things! The best way to honor him is to continue to live a good life. He loved you all so much and he really would want you to be as happy as you can be.

I am so glad that you are standing up straight and brushing these bad things off. Stay strong.

You Got This ! God Bless you and your family. ❤❤❤

You got this girl! Ray is right beside you sharing your life along with your girls! Make it magical!

You’re better than ok Kelly! You’re amazing! Ray is still taking care of you! Bless you and your girls!

WOW Kelly!!! The best part of everything that happened was your message from Ray ♥️ He came to you when you needed him and I know in my heart he will always be guiding you and your girls Many hugs to you all!!!

Yes Kelly through all the heartbreak I think you have turned the corner. Keep the faith and press on my friend. You are all in our prayers. God has bigger & better plans for you all. Sending lots of love from your friends who love and support you .❤❤❤❤❤

Kelly I consider you a good friend a strong person who's made it back from the darkest days a mother should ever have had to go through. Your friends you have many, have your back. We pray to God to give you strength to get past this. Sending a hug, from me in Iowa

Oh my.....Ray would be so proud of his girls! I admire your determination. You got this, Kelly. Bless you all.

P.S. I'm still processing and contemplating how you took that charging bull by the horns and took care of the flood situation. The clean up and repair. You INSPIRE me. For real. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Kelly, SO sorry you're going through this! You are SO very LOVED and supported by many!!! Continue to share what you want. It not only helps others but I'm sure is cathartic for you! We are here for you!!❤

Kelly you are absolutely amazing ❤

I’m so glad to hear that you’re standing tall through all that’s being thrown your way. You’re stronger than you give yourself credit for

Kelly, here is a big hug for you.... I can't say how much I admire how strong you are! And the girls... What rocks you all are! 🙏

You go girl! You’re a powerhouse! Bravo! Ray is so proud of you!❤

Kelly, I’m so glad Ray visited you! He is resting peacefully and he’s letting you know it’s okay for you to heal and move forward. I pray you and your daughters will continue healing and I look forward to seeing more wonderful crafty videos from you! Thank you for sharing your journey with us. ❤

Kelly, you and the girls will be ok. I see a new spirit in you and life in you again. Praying for you and your family.

What a beautiful dream, Ray is letting you know he’s still around you and wants more for you. I’ll keep you and the girls in my prayers. Keep strong Kelly, we’re all here for you ❤

Many many hugz to you & the girls.

WOW, Glad you are staying positive. When my husband died I was called back to work 4 days later. I was not prepared but it provided a distraction from the loss. We all have to find our way at our own pace Kelly you are finding yours. God Bless

Praying for you all Kelly. Love you so much ❤ You are WORTHY You are ENOUGH❤️❤️❤️❤️

EDIT: YOU ARE MY HERO! YOU DID YOU ALL BY YOURSELF! I AM SO PROUD OF YOU! I call it the balance beam with pendulums that are swinging and knocking me into a foam pit! The longer you stay in the pit, the longer the depression and sadness lasts. The faster you visually see yourself climbing out of that pit, the quicker and better your life gets. I am 56 years old and have had 2 heart attacks and 2 forms of cancer. I am just now leaning to live life. I love you, Kelly, you will find your way.❤ You are that type of person! Hugs

Ray would be sooooo proud of you!!! Your resilience is a testimony to your dedication to his memory and to the future of your girls!! This is a win! (But, remember, you get to have your "bad" days, too!)

Kelly, thank you for sharing and keeping us updated. Ray knows his momma, and knows you can do it! Praying for strength and comfort for you all.

You can do this Kelly! Don't let others make you feel down on yourself! Praying going forward from here, for you, will be a learning experience to know who you are, and who you have in your support system.

Kelly. You are an Amazing Person. Don't anybody ever let you feel like that anymore. There is such cruel people in this world that one day. I look forward to all of your DIYs your puppy dogs with you. Your girls are very lucky to have a mom like you. 💕

Bless you Kelly you sound like you are just overwhelmed but you’re the kind of person that’s gonna do what you have to saying prayers for you honey we love you Kelly nothing will keep you down you have the greatest little family in the wolrd

Amen!! Our family is praying for you and your family!! We are so touched by your story!

Kelley, that was no dream, that was Ray. He was there, to tell you what you needed to hear. I’m so proud of you for strapping on your boots and fixing that toilet. I am a single parent and I have fixed my oven, my dryer 3X, fixed and replaced toilets as well as many other things. So I absolutely know if I can do it so can you! So so proud of you, Kelley! ❤

I’m sooooo sorry about your son! My heart goes out to you. 😢

Kelly, You are so brave and so strong!! We all see it and I know you’re getting there! Keep your head up and know we’re all praying for you and the girls!!!

You are very fortunate that you have two grown daughters, who cannot only help physically but financially until you get everything sorted out. Imagine if they were under age.

Ray WAS there. My mom. Ame to me about 1 month ago, she passed 8yrs ago. When we are in difficult moments, our loved ones know and will often visit to reassure us. We do not die, we change. Love is forever and Ray loves all of you. I am so happy he visited, IK you needed it.❤❤❤❤❤

Oh sweetie you are stronger than you thought. Ray is right. Don’t let anybody pull you down. It’s all going to get better. Hugs and love to you my sweet friend. 🥰

I’m so sorry for what happened to you and your family. Ray will always be with you . Sending you love and prayers ❤ for you and your family.

Kelly you have such a beautiful soul and so forgiving and one of the strongest person's i know. Everything takes time and thats allowed so please don't be hard on yourself and allow yourself to recieve the outpouring of love and strength from us all❤ What a blessing that Ray visited you at the time you most needed him. We love you! ❤

Ray is so proud of you!! Praying you can always remember how strong you really are 🩷

I don't know how people can be so vicious.

Kelly you are one of the strongest women I have ever saw! With God all things are possible! BLESS YOU, THE GIRLS & THE DOODLES!

You are amazing, Kelly!!! Prayers to you and the girls!! And pups!! ❤❤❤❤🐾🥰

You are such a blessing to us all, Kelly! Thank you for sharing and being such a wonderful example of what humanity should be. I send you and your girls love, hugs, and strength. ❤

You're a beautiful person. Your grace and kindness are always expressed poignantly. God bless. ❤️🙏

So this is why I was impressed to say an extra prayer for you today Kelly. God is so good! You and your daughters will be ok. Continue to trust in God for strength. He won't let you down. Thanks for sharing; there's strength in numbers, and we're here for you.

Your sharing has helped me too! I have been doing the 2 steps forward 1 back for this full year..... you're videos are always a blessing . I think of you often, remember most people are good.

Kelly, God Bless you and the girls. You are a very strong, inspiration to all of us. I am very grateful for all that you share ... good, bad and the indifferent. You have been handed a ton of lemons and have persevered and made lemonade each time. You and the girls are cherished and loved by your "youtube family." 🤟🤗🙏💚

Some people are so cruel. I am so sorry that happened to you and the girls. Stay strong they will p a y for their sind. Sending love and hugs your way

Kelly, Thank you for sharing your heart. You have been in my prayers and we all adore you. There are really no words that can make anything easier for you and the girls, but please know we care and are praying for you.❤

Girl , you are a beautiful person . I too know Ray was talking to you . Please know that you are supposed to travel this road to be able to begin the healing process . You can do it !!!! God Bless you and your girls .

YES!!!!!! you go girl!!! You can do it, you have to, for your girls. Hope you can have a family fun vacation (maybe a mini one) this summer. praying for love and happiness to return to you.

You have never been "less than." You've been real. Love and prayers, honey.❤️🙏

Dearest Kelly, Kayla & Alison…I’ve been praying constantly for you girls. You’ve been beaten down, but somehow you recover. I hope the person who wounded you will see what they’ve done. It’s mind boggling that someone can be so cruel. All of us who love and care about you are HERE for you. Thank you for being so transparent. May God grant you grace, strength and peace of mind as you continue your journey.

Kelly, please be kind to yourself. Give yourself some grace. Sending prayers, love, and hugs.

Kelly, you are fast becoming one of my favorite inspirational heroes... praying for you and your family... Much love from across the country...

You've got this Mom. Even Ray said so 💕💕💕. I had a moment also that strengthened me after losing my son. God bless you...I know the feeling & remember it still. 33 years later. Long distance love, hugs, & prayers Kelly.

You are going to make it Kelly. Ray will always be your strength.❤️🙏

God bless you Kelly. I've been watching your channel for a few years now. Love your crafts your ideas. Keep your chin up. God loves you. What don't kill you makes you stronger. Love you you my dear.

God loves you and the girls so much Kelly. And Ray is watching over you. God will give you more strength than you ever thought possible. Blessings and prayers...

The whole of 2013 and I to 2014 that was the way I felt. I lost my rock, my dad, and when things looked up some other issue or disaster was there. I prayed a lot during those times, for my mental health, my financial health. Keep praying!!! And we will keep Praying for you also.