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How Attraction Works

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Todd V Dating

Todd V Dating

Күн бұрын

Todd shows what attraction is, what attraction ISN’T, and how you can use it to improve your game.
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📑Outline
00:00 - Intro
00:40 - Attraction EXPLAINED
03:00 - The relationship between ATTRACTION and SEX
06:35 - Value & Attraction
08:16 - EVOLUTIONARY attraction
10:00 - Why attraction is KEY to good game
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@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating 3 жыл бұрын
Attraction is step one... and without step one, you can't even get to the other steps. Hope you enjoy the video!
@senseiminamoto4668
@senseiminamoto4668 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, appreciate your vids, i like to read in my spare time, is it worth it to read psychology magazines to optimise game and charisma etc.?
@George-Chris
@George-Chris 3 жыл бұрын
@@senseiminamoto4668 not Todd but I think it's a good idea to understand women's thinking as long as you're not gonna be too overly in your head while talking to girls/women, especially in real life. Btw if you wanna be more charismatic do things that make you happy and be good at them (basically the last point on the list in Todd's great video), then talk to girls about those things and you'll be easily charismatic and attract girls' attention (though this is just one way, another one is to be a great listener and to make compliments sometimes)
@givdb5513
@givdb5513 3 жыл бұрын
That's true! Needless to say
@givdb5513
@givdb5513 3 жыл бұрын
@@George-Chris you completely missed the point of self development. Not only will help you understand women's mind, it will get you to avoid fights, subsequently relationship problems and getting more close to her. It's complementary to NLP. When you study Gnosis the first thing they recommend you to study is psychology, to understand the truth you need a clear mind. So it's not only for her it's for you benefit as well. Adding to that NLP is more important, and useful for pick up game.
@George-Chris
@George-Chris 3 жыл бұрын
@@givdb5513 of course, I didn't say that wouldn't be the case. I just said that it's helpful but if he's gonna be in his head at a date thinking of all the psychology stuff then it's possible that he won't be natural and the girl will sense that. Like, there must be a balance in the end imo
@nigherperu
@nigherperu 3 жыл бұрын
"I didnt want to get my heart broken, so I became a heartbreaker" I'm stealing that line from you Todd.
@edgaral
@edgaral 3 жыл бұрын
a girl who speaks your language and didn't find you attractive physically is gonna laugh at you lol
@TheRumpelstinskin
@TheRumpelstinskin 3 жыл бұрын
@@edgaral Sure, but you don't just deliver that line just like that. That line is mostly dlivered when she already have some interest.
@edgaral
@edgaral 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheRumpelstinskin Meh, find too cheesy, too tryhard for my liking, i rather just speak to her as a normal human being, works well for me
@JamesWitte
@JamesWitte 3 жыл бұрын
@@edgaral when why bother commenting. my guess is its not working for you
@hivisboys
@hivisboys 3 жыл бұрын
He said it when they both knew it was an over the top corny line. If you deliver it sincerely it will be lame.
@ErichuEdits
@ErichuEdits 3 жыл бұрын
Im going on a date tomorrow❤️ wish me luck boys
@dr.strange6458
@dr.strange6458 3 жыл бұрын
Good luck man, just be yourself and be playful with her, tease her and be assertive.
@affluentcommunity2097
@affluentcommunity2097 3 жыл бұрын
Goodluck bro
@austinjrb
@austinjrb 3 жыл бұрын
If we're wishing you luck, you better get an us update afterwards my guy 💪🏾 go get her. She's lucky to be going out with you. That's not hype btw lol plenty of girls that've never been on a date and never will. You're doing her a favor.
@thisisrandomphrase
@thisisrandomphrase 3 жыл бұрын
Good game 😉
@TheRumpelstinskin
@TheRumpelstinskin 3 жыл бұрын
If it doesn't work out send me her numba
@sonofsanguinius176
@sonofsanguinius176 3 жыл бұрын
Todd: a guy who doesnt have a job but looks cool is more likely to get sex than a guy who is an accountant with 0 game Me: *laughs maniacally during jobless corona outbreak"
@Trump-A-Bad-MF
@Trump-A-Bad-MF 3 жыл бұрын
Of course he's alpha just by his vibe and mindset Meanwhile the accountant is just the beta provider ;//
@George-Chris
@George-Chris 3 жыл бұрын
@@Trump-A-Bad-MF that's only true if the accountant decides to be beta and not know how to create attraction or how to be confident. Also being a provider isn't a bad thing or always a Beta trait as long as the woman/ girl has something to offer (other than her V) as well. Leaders (alpha males) can be and often times are providers too.
@TheRumpelstinskin
@TheRumpelstinskin 3 жыл бұрын
@@George-Chris Well sure, but you know how rare it is for a guy to being able to display alpha qualities in order to create attraction? With everything else you said, I agree 100%
@George-Chris
@George-Chris 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheRumpelstinskin in my opinion it's quite rare just among my fellow younger men, in older men not as rare. At least from what I'm seeing, many older men tend to be very masculine/leaders in relationships. Though this may be related to the fact that is men get better and more valuable as we age
@Trump-A-Bad-MF
@Trump-A-Bad-MF 3 жыл бұрын
@@George-Chris being a provider isn't a bad thing?? Oh man with that way of thinking you'll be a S.I.M.P Women don't want a S.I.M.P, they want a P.I.M.P Being a "provider" Suckz, nowadays women don't need providers, Because they can get resources by themselves, and take care of themselves. They just want the other part of their dualistic sexual strategies: the good genes of the alpha male, they want to fck and experiment short term gratification, that's what they want Maybe being a provider in the last decade wasn't so bad, but nowadays with feminism, laws in favor of women, women being able to work and getting their own things, there's no need for such a thing as a "provider"
@chr1staki
@chr1staki 3 жыл бұрын
He protec He attac But most importantly he attrac
@iridiumx957
@iridiumx957 3 жыл бұрын
Stupid wnkr comment
@TheRumpelstinskin
@TheRumpelstinskin 3 жыл бұрын
@@iridiumx957 huehuehue
@chr1staki
@chr1staki 3 жыл бұрын
@@iridiumx957 thanks 🤩
@iridiumx957
@iridiumx957 3 жыл бұрын
@@chr1staki ur frkn welcome anytime
@chihaya2299
@chihaya2299 3 жыл бұрын
That metaphor with the gun is interestingly spot on
@eyesburning
@eyesburning 3 жыл бұрын
Not really because the spark and explosion fully happen inside the bullet, not the gun.
@OctogonOxygen024816
@OctogonOxygen024816 3 жыл бұрын
@@eyesburning the bullet is in the gun, so technically it's included by function, the bullet needs the pressure of the chambers ends to release the energy in the general direction of the bullet
@matheuslopes871
@matheuslopes871 3 жыл бұрын
@@OctogonOxygen024816 i totally agree with u
@MegaKaran83
@MegaKaran83 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing metaphors Todd! Love your breakdowns that make it some simple to which you've obviously put in a tremendous amount of thought. Thank you for for all your work!
@flamingjob2
@flamingjob2 3 жыл бұрын
You sir are the goat of game and dating videos. The message , the editing , the choice of words , perfect.
@verveblack
@verveblack 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for using a dark background so my eyes don't hurt when watching on my tv. not easy to adjust brightness often on the tv like the phone.
@evelic
@evelic 3 жыл бұрын
lol
@toothdoc8206
@toothdoc8206 3 жыл бұрын
I love your frequent references to David D's material and concepts..these classic ideas are timeless as otherwise game evolves...
@AnonymousAnonymous-wk8fb
@AnonymousAnonymous-wk8fb 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely one of the best videos. Great stuff Todd
@Fernando.Vivanco
@Fernando.Vivanco Жыл бұрын
Wooooo!! Well said. This to someone new into this subject is amazing advice.
@voxsportssg1858
@voxsportssg1858 3 жыл бұрын
Good job todd v. Love your truth advice and information on dating. truly appreciate your videos
@AceRain213
@AceRain213 3 жыл бұрын
Back to your channel after a couple years... damn Todd getting older with the salt and pepper! But still pulling the ladies😎 Glad to see you’re still one of the best
@AA-nx8ki
@AA-nx8ki 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd you are one of my heroes and I'm glad to call you my teacher.
@ucharan95
@ucharan95 3 жыл бұрын
First Principles Approach breakdown of Attraction. Quality content!
@patrickmiguelargon1647
@patrickmiguelargon1647 3 жыл бұрын
bro youre so good! you got that psychology in you! love your video!
@Chris-sx4qw
@Chris-sx4qw 3 жыл бұрын
great vid like the subtitles make the vid easy to stay focus and get the message
@MrHav1k
@MrHav1k 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video Todd!
@RelaxingMusic--SIeepMusic
@RelaxingMusic--SIeepMusic 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful explained Todd great video
@goandroidtech2105
@goandroidtech2105 3 жыл бұрын
His content is gold.... 🔥
@michaeljeacock
@michaeljeacock 3 жыл бұрын
Todd: "i'm going to tell you what attraction isn't." Me: "he is going to say a choice isn't he." David DeAngelo: "you know it!"
@nephilimshammer9567
@nephilimshammer9567 2 жыл бұрын
Damn I wish I was this smooth. I always just ramble and ask dumb questions. Love your videos and watch them to live through you. Being forever single isnt so bad
@SherlockMen
@SherlockMen 3 жыл бұрын
Great video Todd
@DanteLikesRock
@DanteLikesRock 3 жыл бұрын
Good video production Todd. Classy. I like how it doesnt look cheap haha.
@mariomaslik
@mariomaslik 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, Amazingly explained, can you go into detail how to create and spark attraction while gaming a girl through you behaviour, body language, examples what to say, etc. and what to avoid. Flirting, bantering and laughter are key to attention but examples would help
@victormaravi5627
@victormaravi5627 3 жыл бұрын
Pick better tittles for this new KZfaq mobile view setup. Will help maximize reach. Keep preaching Todd! 🙏 💯
@asdfasdf6606
@asdfasdf6606 3 жыл бұрын
The reason I respect this man so much is because while he is not ugly, he also is not some herculean god. 1. Not fit 2. semi patchy beard 3. not perfect teeth 4. not perfect skin Tired of watching all these shredded herculean men with perfect beards and teeth preach how to get women.
@HomeIdeasYT
@HomeIdeasYT 3 жыл бұрын
Great video :)
@fortuneeeeeeeeeee5220
@fortuneeeeeeeeeee5220 3 жыл бұрын
Best of the best 🐐
@willmesko
@willmesko 3 жыл бұрын
this guy is a genius
@TheMostH4teD
@TheMostH4teD 3 жыл бұрын
all these new "alpha" channels u see y they talk about self improvement and thats all good, but none of them has this much knoweledge about game,not even close
@alecel1450
@alecel1450 3 жыл бұрын
Factz they try to dismiss game
@escetity
@escetity 3 жыл бұрын
I love these videos, they’re so helpful especially since I’m so introverted, this helps a lot for me when it comes to talking to females. 🙏
@Trump-A-Bad-MF
@Trump-A-Bad-MF 3 жыл бұрын
Read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi Once you read that book, it'll super duper izi to understand women and improve at game Believe me that book clear a lot of the noise you hear when looking for advice about Relationships and women
@adelfhipster3936
@adelfhipster3936 3 жыл бұрын
@@Trump-A-Bad-MF hm, its okay for a casual read but it wont help you with women. If anything, it will make you hate women and society. Don't watch videos or read books to figure out how to talk to girls. No matter how many you read/watch, you will never become better at it. Its all fake pleasure, excuses your brain makes to trick you into feeling good. Go out and talk to random people for half an hour and you'll learn more in a week than you did with years of watching videos. Something Ive found out after 3 years of watching videos and reading everything I could find on this topic. Dont make this mistake
@Trump-A-Bad-MF
@Trump-A-Bad-MF 3 жыл бұрын
@@adelfhipster3936 hate women?, No dude that book was written exactly to prevent men from hating women for what they can't be to men That book just spits you the cold hard truths of life in da face, if you're not ready for that that's your problem,(if you want to call misogynistics or bitter the men who read that book go ahead) but recommending that book to other men is like a task that should be done And yes that improves your game, why? Because cut through the bs that the media has told us we haffta do to attract women, and clear a lot of the ideas that puas channels contradict among each other (and the rules of Tomassi are pretty useful to remember them whenever you're cold approaching new women or feeling like you find the "one" lol)
@adelfhipster3936
@adelfhipster3936 3 жыл бұрын
@@Trump-A-Bad-MF One of the problems with rollo is that he made his iron rules and thinks they are accepted overally by everybody but some of them are plain stupid. Rollo is still to this day squeezing that book for sellings and content every day. Rollo is a cult leader that knows nothing, marrie an ugly, degenerate wife. Talks about not getting married while hes married. Adresses thousands of problems but never offers a solution for one. I advise you go watch Playing with fire's new video stream on yt where they expose rollo for what he is.
@Trump-A-Bad-MF
@Trump-A-Bad-MF 3 жыл бұрын
@@adelfhipster3936 oh yeah sure, watching that semi blind dude would be like taking seriously the vids of jmluv when he shit talks RSD, especially Derek and Julien when their game were million times better than him Pwf his vids about text game are cool but the other content is just pathetic, like the vid about single moms, when he said it's nothing wrong with date a single mom 🤦 You believe everything Rollo says is wrong and he knows nothing, his wife is ugly and her iron rules are wrong, well go and ignore her rules, hopefully female Hypergamy kck you around and you end up raising another man's children and then maybe, maybe you'll realize what a bum you're
@iamactuallyover18
@iamactuallyover18 3 жыл бұрын
Any updates on live programs Todd? Are you planning on doing any immersions this year?
@pineapplejoose4812
@pineapplejoose4812 3 жыл бұрын
write a book already 🙄 love the stuff
@brisan3830
@brisan3830 2 ай бұрын
2:26 “if you understanded that metaphor” you mean understood 😂 Great video though, the tips are 👌🏼
@gadgets40
@gadgets40 3 жыл бұрын
Some girls get turn off sometimes even hurt if you come off as playerish even if they're attracted. You can have all the attraction in the world but it doesn't mean nothing to them if they don't see a chance that they can get you one day.
@Trump-A-Bad-MF
@Trump-A-Bad-MF 3 жыл бұрын
That's why is important to qualify them She gotta feel special even when she ain't it
@TheRumpelstinskin
@TheRumpelstinskin 3 жыл бұрын
@@Trump-A-Bad-MF Yes and even in some extreme cases you have to lower your perceived value relative to them in order for them to feel that you're attainable.
@scowlistic
@scowlistic 3 жыл бұрын
Confidence level will determine this as a challenge or a barrier, and the challenge can make her chase.
@johncorbin5332
@johncorbin5332 3 жыл бұрын
the thing is they know they can get you because they see that you're pretending to be a player and they get turned off, there are not many guys that can start a conversation with a girl out of nowhere and trick the girl into thinking they're too good for the girl when they were the ones who initiated the whole thing to begin with
@dje-foxx9691
@dje-foxx9691 3 жыл бұрын
100%
@hectorperez9811
@hectorperez9811 3 жыл бұрын
I think the message was that is not much about looks but more showing masculine traits is what attracts women like confidence, boldness, leadership ect. So showing that you are a man. a lot of guys act beta so they cant get women.
@Trump-A-Bad-MF
@Trump-A-Bad-MF 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, your value as a man is determined by your BEHAVIOR not by the dumb stereotypical things society brainwashes us You have to focus on your subcommunications (aka your behavior/personality) The emotions the girl feels when she's around ya And the dynamic of validation ( he has to feel like she's more of a woman when she's with ya) Those 3 things in a nutshell are what constitute attraction, EVERYTHING you do, every Technical tool is based in these 3 things.
@George-Chris
@George-Chris 3 жыл бұрын
True, I've seen it before that some good looking guys were very insecure and didn't have any social skills or friends, while some average, fat guys like me attract girls usually because we understand what works and what doesn't (+ taking care of ourselves even if we're fat, like dressing well, good hygiene etc which are attractive too), though being fit is a nice bonus. But too many guys focus on excuses about not looking good enough to talk to girls or thinking that their looks is the only thing why they get rejected
@hectorperez9811
@hectorperez9811 3 жыл бұрын
@@George-Chris also the fact that they are not rich that is an excuse guys make.
@Trump-A-Bad-MF
@Trump-A-Bad-MF 3 жыл бұрын
@@hectorperez9811 tbh being rich is not necessary to attract and fck women BUT it is for keep em Because if you're broke she can be attracted to you but her Hypergamy will make her leave you or cheat on you with someone with more resources Why? Because a lack of cash shows that you're not a pretty good provider, which is essential in a LTR, but who wants a girlfriend anyways, so who cares
@George-Chris
@George-Chris 3 жыл бұрын
@@hectorperez9811 yeah those guys will always be sad and lonely if they keep making excuses why they can't succeed with women instead of learning game and how women think. Todd is the best example of achieving great success with women even when starting from the bottom, as he sometimes describes his youth experiences
@michaelhurin
@michaelhurin 3 жыл бұрын
I dont know how its work, but every theme that Todd teach blow my mind and i think: THIS IS IT!! THE MOST IMPORTANT ELEMENT! And than another video and same shit)) Todd, you are great
@shankar_vshankar
@shankar_vshankar 2 жыл бұрын
appreciating your unexpectedly mature thoughts about arranged marriages.
@omni1562
@omni1562 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, what's your thought on the "there is no reason why you're not enough" mindset?
@christopherfrost3333
@christopherfrost3333 2 жыл бұрын
0:30 I like how your playing into, how woman normally do used men great job with your videos keep it up. Question I was listen to a podcast that talk about, some guys will have Cold Streaks. I’m wondering how much of that might be how someone’s energy is that day... like because of No Fab and that. I just know a order guy that I’ve gotten Gym tips from and he’s point out that matters.
@kwrbt2979
@kwrbt2979 3 жыл бұрын
Contrary to the initially believed orthodoxy in genetics, more recent research has uncovered that the human species has evolved quite a lot in its more recent existence, and not just since the out of Africa migrations, but even in more recent times (relatively speaking). However, it's quite possible that sexual selection isn't among those traits and hasn't evolved much or even at all relative to other aspects of the human phenotype. I do wonder how much the agricultural revolution impacted (or didn't) sexual selection and the evolution of attractiveness traits. It would be a fascinating area of study. Thank you for inspiring further research.
@Kanjiro0
@Kanjiro0 2 жыл бұрын
can u please send me the link sir ?
@caseyfixterfixter4447
@caseyfixterfixter4447 3 жыл бұрын
4:11 that edit to make the screen shunt to the left for no reason really confuses me. Just like when girls are attracted and don’t act up on it. Love the metaphor shown in the edit Todd
@udittiwari8240
@udittiwari8240 3 жыл бұрын
Hey todd love your work I have a very simple question for you How to text a girl who is shit at texting ?? My observation is that hotter girls are generally good at texting as compare to cute girl's. I am currently in my starting phase so i have to take what i can get for the sake of experience
@davi8708
@davi8708 3 жыл бұрын
How to be a leader? How to make people respond? Can we, please, get a video on that theme?
@Faz-Ahmed
@Faz-Ahmed 3 жыл бұрын
I don't get notified of new vids missed a lot
@damonkent4810
@damonkent4810 3 жыл бұрын
I dig the evolution explanation. But how then did we end up with so many losers in our society if women only went after the those specific character traits?
@yousiflavinfernando6853
@yousiflavinfernando6853 3 жыл бұрын
Is this a reupload? I feel like I've seen this one before
@GStar1
@GStar1 3 жыл бұрын
What about step 2?
@ammargless7990
@ammargless7990 3 жыл бұрын
anyone knows the intro music?
@AfroLatinoJG
@AfroLatinoJG 3 жыл бұрын
I figured it was filmed in Florida lol
@1298Lewis
@1298Lewis 3 жыл бұрын
I've been subbed to your channel for a while but today I wondered why you hadn't been uploading - turns you you have been all this time, youtube have like shadow banned you from my feed or something. Don't know if this is happening to other people?
@titothesixth316
@titothesixth316 3 жыл бұрын
I had to click the notification bell.
@TheDanShaikh
@TheDanShaikh 3 жыл бұрын
What are some basic ways to show attraction?
@michaeljeacock
@michaeljeacock 3 жыл бұрын
strong eye contact. sexual misinterpretation. push pull. teasing. qualification and disqualification.
@richardw3347
@richardw3347 3 жыл бұрын
Would u date you? Helps to put things in perspective and if not why and change those things.
@aaronjohnstone2800
@aaronjohnstone2800 8 ай бұрын
Leadership General confidence Social proof Physical attractiveness General competance
@darkred4228
@darkred4228 3 жыл бұрын
I've heard also that attraction is the story that the girl have for you. Can somebody elaborate a bit more on that topic?
@Trump-A-Bad-MF
@Trump-A-Bad-MF 3 жыл бұрын
That's the "narrative" is the history she tells herself and her friends about why you're a champ alpha ass male, and why she's lucky to get with you ( why you're a win for her)
@TheRumpelstinskin
@TheRumpelstinskin 3 жыл бұрын
No, that's "narrative".
@TheActionTourist
@TheActionTourist 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheRumpelstinskin Same thing
@dje-foxx9691
@dje-foxx9691 3 жыл бұрын
First! Give it a like Todd
@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating 3 жыл бұрын
Done ;)
@DanteLikesRock
@DanteLikesRock 3 жыл бұрын
Lol, Savage.
@lololllolo
@lololllolo 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Todd, I'm from Russia. Lately, I often approach some girls and get some results, but I have a problem that you did not mention. A girl in text communication after meeting comes up with excuses not to meet and they look like "I'm sick", "I'm not in the city", "My washing machine has broken down, I need to go home." What to do with such logical arguments?
@nephilimshammer9567
@nephilimshammer9567 2 жыл бұрын
You just say okay cool and move on
@SS-ud6nt
@SS-ud6nt Жыл бұрын
It means she is not interested. Move on. Hey atleast u got a number..
@datingshit3258
@datingshit3258 3 жыл бұрын
If your public content is this useful? I wonder about your premium things. I'm considering about buying it!
@gavinwolda5548
@gavinwolda5548 3 жыл бұрын
not worth it
@sergeyc5528
@sergeyc5528 2 жыл бұрын
Which Bike is it at 8:20 ?)) Model)
@ZM-dm3jg
@ZM-dm3jg 3 жыл бұрын
Still waiting for verbal game academy
@andromedagalaxynebula5751
@andromedagalaxynebula5751 3 жыл бұрын
*"Attraction is not a choice"*
@Shakor77
@Shakor77 3 жыл бұрын
hm, where was the part "how to use it to improve your game"?
@phizics
@phizics 3 жыл бұрын
Thanos: i am inevitable Todd: hold my ex 😂
@Mass-produced
@Mass-produced 3 жыл бұрын
How much did you pay the actress?
@faridzabihian1694
@faridzabihian1694 3 жыл бұрын
Todd what about a guy like me who lives in a country (Iran)that sex before marriage has legal punishment (death and prison).should I die virgin?
@CoolGobyFish
@CoolGobyFish 3 жыл бұрын
I've had a guy that went to Iran for a few months. He told me that he had sex with local girls all the time. He is German.
@aumnamashivaya4
@aumnamashivaya4 3 ай бұрын
Todd, it's impossible to know what exactly occurred to " over confident" guys in the caveman times is not an easy task. However today there's a bunch of very confident people who are not even competent professionally who are getting away with a lotttttt. Wouldn't you agree 😅
@jude_210
@jude_210 3 жыл бұрын
I noticed that humor isn't part of the evolutionary attraction list at all so is it more a comfort building tool then?
@mademax1
@mademax1 3 жыл бұрын
I think humor is more something to use as a comforting or distracting tool exclusively for when everything around you is going bad, so if you are used to life going well, I don't think humor is necessary.
@ozunu1437
@ozunu1437 3 жыл бұрын
How to learn verbal game without approaching? (My approach count: 1000+) My verbal game sucks shit still.
@MamaliFeshFesh
@MamaliFeshFesh 3 жыл бұрын
Following up on that gun example, when you're 5'2 guy out here, well no bullets will leave the chamber, right?... that's why many ppl deny the effectiveness of game for some genetically unfortunate men....
@alberthernandez5318
@alberthernandez5318 3 жыл бұрын
Todd looks like dr Fontaine in la noire
@DeleteTheElite_
@DeleteTheElite_ 3 жыл бұрын
What is the intro supposed to say/mean? Not sure what I'm supposed to do with it, it's just you walking with a girl and having a random chat...
@marselshtylla
@marselshtylla 3 жыл бұрын
This needs to become an anime the pick up master . How many people are there that watch anime and pick up and do apply it
@respeezy
@respeezy 3 жыл бұрын
I am having trouble going from non sexual kino to lightly sexual kino. I hug when I see them, I lead with a hand on their lower back, I grab her hands and jewelry to check things, I poke her when joking, touch her leg. But these are all non sexual and I feel I am missing a step between these and the kiss. When a woman is into me I can go from sitting next to her and touching her leg to just kissing her, but with more passive/ neutral women it still feels like there is a small escalation step missing. Like holding and caressing her hand or her leg, but these things feel very awkward and incongruent to me and are almost as big of a step as just going for the kiss.
@prodwilno
@prodwilno Жыл бұрын
found a way?
@occulte2501
@occulte2501 3 жыл бұрын
Second...
@connorsmith1280
@connorsmith1280 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry for making jokes guys. I don’t want to feel beta or not manly. I want to feel alpha and manly. It was just harmless teasing like you told me to do. It’s not serious guys .
@PedroMunoz-ti8bu
@PedroMunoz-ti8bu 3 жыл бұрын
If Todd can, anyone can trust me.
@learn1718
@learn1718 3 жыл бұрын
Attraction is simple. You need to be Good looking and girls will melt around you 😆
@connorsmith1280
@connorsmith1280 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t want to pick up girls at bars or clubs. I want the 9 year experiment to end now. The more I learn about dating the less I want to do it. I want a social life but not as much as I want to focus on myself and my future. I want to have a future that isn’t dictated by dating or my dating life.
@mws2546
@mws2546 Жыл бұрын
Find God and your purpose in life and get a god fearing wife. Build a family and focus on your goals.
@bennybenny7382
@bennybenny7382 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Todd I need your help and I don't want to come across as negative here but I'm a little worried and it's destroying me mentally. Basically I know that brain plasticity exists, but I watched a toxic self talk by Meg Jay saying that your twenties is what dictates the rest of your life. And I stupidly have made dreaful decisions up until age 28, I have zero friends havent been with a girl for 6 years and I look sad 24/7 according to people, I do have a lot of sad thoughts and I think it has shown up in my body language.. I don't want to be this way anymore I am just wondering can I change my personality? I want to have a happy succcesful life with some sexcual partners, I don't care about being a pro pick up artists but I'm scared that I have "missed the boat". I love your content by the way and I hope you reply or at least someone else. Thank you.
@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating 3 жыл бұрын
I promise life isn't over at 28... You're not going to change decades of habits overnight, but consistent small changes can take you very very far.
@bennybenny7382
@bennybenny7382 3 жыл бұрын
@@ToddVDating Thanks for replying back. I want to get my life sorted within 2-5 years
@SS-ud6nt
@SS-ud6nt Жыл бұрын
Einstein didn't have his first paper published till 61. Donald Trump was 73 when he became president. Elon musk didn't become ceo till 41.
@bennybenny7382
@bennybenny7382 Жыл бұрын
@@SS-ud6nt I understand that, I have done my research about the brain and it does indeed retain the ability to change throughout life. However I'm nearly 30 now and still want to date 18 yr old females and keep worrying that I can't lol
@SS-ud6nt
@SS-ud6nt Жыл бұрын
@@bennybenny7382 why not date 30 yr old females
@evelic
@evelic 3 жыл бұрын
4:10
@charlt7670
@charlt7670 3 жыл бұрын
Stop stealing lines from David DAngelo. Ha!
@nonenone2669
@nonenone2669 3 жыл бұрын
Attraction is not a choice!
@chefd786
@chefd786 3 жыл бұрын
Casey Zander and Darius M offer better information
@rsdsindy
@rsdsindy 3 жыл бұрын
@cussyrichards6121
@cussyrichards6121 3 жыл бұрын
Here's how it works. Round 1: are you over 6ft? No? Game over. Yes? Move on to Round 2: are you good-looking? No? Game over. Yes? Move on to Round 3: are you rich? No? Game over. Yes? Well done, you maybeeee are in with a long-shot (of hooking up with a 45 year old overweight, unemployed single mother).
@dathunderman4
@dathunderman4 3 жыл бұрын
Brad Pitt isn’t 6’0, you’re gonna say it’s game over for him?
@julio1982
@julio1982 Жыл бұрын
You obviously have no game 😅
@josesantana770
@josesantana770 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing natural in his interaction, just keep a series of scripted lines that he uses in an automated way according to the circumstances. When he has in mind using a line he programs to use it and intentionally look for the occasion. You wonder how come his conversations never look similar to normal interactions that people usually have.
@NzRazor
@NzRazor 3 жыл бұрын
How many women have you slept with in your life? I'm 23 and only slept with maybe 4 😂
@junegod5203
@junegod5203 3 жыл бұрын
Wow you make sex without attraction sound horrible 😂
@Holypikemanz
@Holypikemanz 3 жыл бұрын
buzzword soup from a derpy dating coach..."Frame, value, premise" repeat repeat repeat.
@fractalzoomgoggles
@fractalzoomgoggles 3 жыл бұрын
How to deal with masks
@AfroLatinoJG
@AfroLatinoJG 3 жыл бұрын
Facts. I’m a guy who likes girls with nice smiles
@treasurewuji8740
@treasurewuji8740 3 жыл бұрын
@@AfroLatinoJG then work hard to have her take it off.
@nonenone2669
@nonenone2669 3 жыл бұрын
@@treasurewuji8740 just say "pull the mask down real quick"
@edgaral
@edgaral 3 жыл бұрын
Scissors lol
@Trump-A-Bad-MF
@Trump-A-Bad-MF 3 жыл бұрын
Say: "hey take down your mask one sec, I wanna get sure I'm not attracted to a monster" Say it while you laugh, it have been helping me a lot
@andrei1971
@andrei1971 3 жыл бұрын
Gold digging is the same as prostitution in my opinion.
@danielgil9651
@danielgil9651 3 жыл бұрын
First 45 seconds were pure cringe my god
@brandonford4474
@brandonford4474 8 ай бұрын
Love me some Todd V, however he needs to stay in his lane.. Speaking on Evolution needs to be Deleted from his repertoire
@jcransome5616
@jcransome5616 3 жыл бұрын
DON"T BUY THIS BS
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