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How To Flirt: 3 Easy Techniques (+INFIELD VIDEO)
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6 жыл бұрынHow to flirt. One of the most important but misunderstood topics in game. This video teaches 3 easy techniques, but also the attitude and philosophy of flirting, as teasing and flirting are an easy way to turn a platonic set into something more intimate.
The three flirting techniques are "push-pull", "exaggeration", and "disqualification". While a lot of people know what these words mean, far fewer are able to flirt with fluency. I show you here with exercises and infield video.
@superhuman5857 6 жыл бұрын
5:25 push pull 23:27 exaggerations 35:03 misinterpretation
@saviorjunior3543 6 жыл бұрын
Brandon Blackmon 🙌🏾🤙🏾
@typeg3n135 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@akashneo5315 6 жыл бұрын
Brandon Blackmon thanks 🤗
@trunglam9401 6 жыл бұрын
time saver is here for us to praise
@stepbystepielts 5 жыл бұрын
you are a god
@nicehorn5250 6 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your content bro. I can't even watch RSD anymore and their click baity titles and obnoxious editing. The way Tyler "talks down" and the exaggerated speaking style, it gets culty and weird. Your chill vibe and energy is more conducive to natural, effortless game. Thanks a bunch
@enlightenedinvesting7739 6 жыл бұрын
Ya boi
@pallaviparikh1007 5 жыл бұрын
Nah.He's too big
@vishnushanker5430 5 жыл бұрын
💯 true. There editing may be wierd but the video worth it
@LeelosAdventure 6 ай бұрын
Who’s RSD? I just started studying game so I’m new to the people in it
@XanderL 6 жыл бұрын
Todd is going to exhaust modern game. We won’t need another PUA teacher for years, until game evolves and we need it explained again.
@luka7442 6 жыл бұрын
Thing is, every teacher has a different perspective and method of teaching. I think this will all provide huge value to the community.
@SawItWithMyOwnEyes 11 күн бұрын
Thank you the game by Neil Strauss started it all
@randomboy123ify 6 жыл бұрын
Todd i did my first approach this week and i really gained a lot of respect for you because that shit is scary
@BrianChoiOfficial 6 жыл бұрын
The technical breakdowns make the concepts a lot easier to understand. Great video
@akashneo5315 6 жыл бұрын
Brian Choi that is Todd ❤❤
@sheldon6307 6 жыл бұрын
The Asian legend =-O
@enterradade3 6 жыл бұрын
Alekk Wolf "i Will let u know, i drunk but im not drunk and i do find u attractive"
@Paul-yk7ds 2 ай бұрын
Legendary video. I need to somehow burn these flirting formats deep into my subconscious mind and become automatic with them.
@sperk01 6 жыл бұрын
so glad you left RSD. great content.
@guitar300k 5 жыл бұрын
RSD is sucks, shouldn't work with them
@alexanderwindh4830 5 жыл бұрын
@@guitar300k why
@amkool6135 5 жыл бұрын
Not sucks but confusing. They speak the truth but they also talk whole buncha stuff u don't need. Once u know basics u don't need em unless u enjoy watching them lol. From what I seen they got good products except transformation mastery. U can see that scam a mile away
@Muathalshareef2 5 жыл бұрын
Nhat what’s mean RSD ?
@OpTiclightning 4 жыл бұрын
RSD is branching out help with problems everyone has, not just single men hunting for true love, they do a very good job at this allthough I could recommend some points to improve them, for instance the way you drag in and captivate the audience (either physical or 2D through KZfaq). All they did was branch out into a market that has a way wider audience than the pickup community has, possibly because of Tyler's spiritual journey. (and let's be honest, Tyler doesn't want to be spoken against and is suffering from Napoleon complex a fair bit) Todd realized this but stayed true to his passion to teach men how to act towards potentially favorable women eligible for dating and possibly a relationship.
@MrMalum 6 жыл бұрын
Todd must open his school of seduction.He is a great teacher.
@SawItWithMyOwnEyes 11 күн бұрын
Dude he hired her to participate you moron
@christopherpowell9220 Ай бұрын
I'm writing a story with a charismatic character-- these videos have *really* helped me craft his dialogue
@masoncerny6236 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Todd I used to get made fun of a lot and didn’t know what to say to defend myself. your push pull techniques have not only helped me keep my value when guys get too high and mighty but also in flirting with girls. your new channel and this video has literally changed my life.
@cxa011500 6 жыл бұрын
Amazing breakdown. I'll need to watch this a couple of times...and probably practice it a hundred.
@scottstewart8737 6 жыл бұрын
Todd is one of the best teachers I've ever heard. So good man.
@wizardddy3023 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This has been very eye opening. Gonna watch this a few more times. Best push pull explanation I heard yet.
@joydeepbhattacharya7546 5 жыл бұрын
There is a lot of useful content in one video. I would have to watch it again and again. Practice even more times. His breakdown make it possible to grasp these subtle skills on the execution level. Thanks Todd
@thelifeofhebah5358 6 жыл бұрын
Girl viewer here and I’m gaining so much knowledge from you Todd, thank you for explaining and then giving actual examples!
@thelifeofhebah5358 6 жыл бұрын
Dayvon Bryant To be honest, I watch mostly to help me gain more knowledge about social interactions but I have such a problem with flirting that’s why I’m here
@charlesholland1895 5 жыл бұрын
@@thelifeofhebah5358 I can help you with that sweetie.
@thelifeofhebah5358 5 жыл бұрын
Nice one Charles but we root for the same team! Sorry it's a harsh world out there lol
@SH3player 5 жыл бұрын
@@thelifeofhebah5358 You must be very observant, seems like mostly a guy channel teaching them how to flirt. Unless you're into women, but women to women interaction is different usually.
@cm2956 4 жыл бұрын
5:51 Low-key roasted the SHIT out that man lol. Great vid
@casternet100 5 жыл бұрын
todd man u rock ive watched lots of time the vids and yes it has to become second nature but the comdie watching which u say helps its so easy when u know how thankyou u have changed my life and im like 9 and 0 results but ur vidoes man u are a smart guy and pls keep it coming me all need to keep on learning cant stand still great stuff fella thanks
@TheEpicBrionac 6 жыл бұрын
One of your best videos to date. Looking forward to seeing more of this content my dude
@xavierflores8936 6 күн бұрын
This video has opened my eyes. Thanks for the video . I have to re watch this a few times A little too fast but very important details
@chrisrios3904 6 жыл бұрын
Todd V, you're changing the game. This video monumental. Good work man.
@dzllz 5 жыл бұрын
So important topic, so few videos about this. Thanks for the great content !
@JovanovskiH 6 жыл бұрын
Always loved your approach and how you break things down. Thank you Todd :)
@phurian_6560 5 жыл бұрын
I like how Todd comes off as a really chill guy and can some how come up with the funniest shit
@ToddVDating 6 жыл бұрын
Flirting is definitely one of the most important techniques in the entire arena of dating and attraction, yet it's almost never taught. That's CRAZY! Here is a good overview as well as three quick practical techniques, along with exercises and infield footage. Enjoy! And be sure to check out systembytodd.com
@deeperpurposelive 6 жыл бұрын
Good stuff around the 17th minute mark with the subtle push pull demonstrations. Now that's worth!
@Peter-dp6wb 6 жыл бұрын
Todd everything you do is so on point! That intro "The System" gave me goosebumps!
@TeamDrif-Tastik 5 жыл бұрын
that was probably 1 of 10 he talked to before one actually complied 😂
@moleedaboi 7 ай бұрын
This guy's video's are the best I've ever seen when it comes to dating advice.
@combatmedic_took_you_out1331 6 жыл бұрын
The Nutty Professor is back, n oh shit hes gotten slim, always come thru with badass concepts. Good job Bro
@Tigers.i 6 жыл бұрын
Perfect topic I was waiting for
@DmitryHimself 6 жыл бұрын
Simply gold. That's it.
@swaggydaddy7881 6 жыл бұрын
Todd, we can't hear what the audience said. Especially the "I, you, we" demonstration part. Thanks. Much appreciated. Your content is the best.
@karmaschen4035 6 жыл бұрын
Todd at his best ! LOVE IT !!! thx
@mahiganti 6 жыл бұрын
If by X you mean Y then... That formula has helped me with misinterpretation as a humor format more than a flirtation formula. It got me to the point I use it on my mom and she says “stop talking” because she can’t rebuttal anything. This format is also used a lot in the Tv series Suits.
@ben_dixon 5 жыл бұрын
This made me lol. I'm gonna try it.
@periteu 5 жыл бұрын
Could u give an example?
@AnteP-dx4my 5 жыл бұрын
@@periteu Girl says to you : " you are wierd " and you reply with "If by WIERD you mean INTRIGUING then thank you, girls have been telling me that for years.
@scrtwpnx 5 жыл бұрын
Did you break both your arms?
@weirdandtrue4441 6 жыл бұрын
Rewatched your vid and mainly focused on push and pull at first. Then exaggeration. I did not know how powerful misinterpretation was.
@pickupart1846 6 жыл бұрын
When you see 353 likes and 0 dislikes, you better listen to the video and like me you end up adding one more like making it 354. Great job man, Flawless victory!
@tonyfromthebronx8191 6 жыл бұрын
This was a super helpful video
@tomektomalos9088 6 жыл бұрын
You are my hero Todd!
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 5 жыл бұрын
Flirting is deciding you're going to play and be playful. Push-pull, exaggerate, misinterpret
@franbatista9062 5 жыл бұрын
More than I like your comment, your username
@finishme2753 5 жыл бұрын
I like watching your stuff dude. I think im gonna give that improv thing a go
@peterers3 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd V(?), I have a video suggestion for you. Do another one with JP, love the humor and charisma you both have when talking to each other just like the "You mention that you actually live in Miami. -Jp responds: Yeahhh, I do that a lot more often than I realise..." xD The humour is almost better than the content because you are both honest. Keep it up, Todd, you helped me a lot with Approach Anxiety and not rejecting myself. I have realised that my reason not to approach was just like yours (WinINNERgame: 7. Emotional Solution to Aprroach Anxiety) the fear of not accepting my personality.
@Aelle2000 6 жыл бұрын
A true master of the craft
@ChrisandSohee 6 жыл бұрын
Superb Video, Keep up the good work!
@FWVO 6 жыл бұрын
When the first infield popped on i started dancing. GG Todd.
@urib101 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome video.
@iamspencerx 4 жыл бұрын
This happened just yesterday in a club: girl and guy dancing in a very platonic way Me: I like the way you guys dance: it's so bad yet so cool. Her: My friend just told me that his grandma died and you're criticising the way we dance?
@minobutterfingers 6 жыл бұрын
Please Todd put subtitles on your infields!!!! I know your new product will be awesome.
@rauln9273 6 жыл бұрын
fair point, I'm fluent in english and in woman product was really hard to understand the dialogue because of the music.
@infinity2012rmx 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah subtitles make it a lot more valuable, as you can focus on the important things going on, rather than trying to seperate a voice from noise
@rauln9273 6 жыл бұрын
yeah, kind of wtf she said or he as well,
@Thebuttsinferno 6 жыл бұрын
Subtitles are a community driven volunteer thing.
@minobutterfingers 6 жыл бұрын
I expect quality subtitles from a quality product. It's a very common thing in Europe. Almost all movies are sold with subtitles here.
@Crus0e 5 жыл бұрын
Your videos are amazing, it's goldmine of informations. Why that super fitted shirt?
@newsentertainment1550 5 жыл бұрын
Todd please keep it real you re the goat
@marchelomarchol5367 5 жыл бұрын
hi Todd!! very very neat videos!! please, if you can add subtitles in english when you do infield would be incredible, ln my case (international viewers) i don't talk english and some times it gets difficult to understand all the scene with the noise or other people talking, and even if you speak english some times is a noisy place and is hard to understand what is going on and the example or dubt that you want to deliver gets misunderstood. ty!!
@johnsknows3135 5 жыл бұрын
cheers tom and crew!
@CatLordu 6 жыл бұрын
This was a masterpiece
@sundvallen 6 жыл бұрын
extremely good stuff as usual, system release in june?
@AsheetingBull 6 жыл бұрын
Yo Todd thanks for putting up your program for free. That is Fuckin amaysing 🙌🏼 👍🏼👍🏼
@jaspergabriels8933 6 жыл бұрын
Todd the Godfather he that teachs real game! But please i hope so your new product is about Every thing about open to close and with a structure
@jamesferguson1460 6 жыл бұрын
Ahhhhh this Amazeballs Cheers hunni xx
@Punisher13LukaBoyka 6 жыл бұрын
I know exactly how to do it, but still, here I am watching it.
@ArsenElMentalista 6 жыл бұрын
Todd should do a product only about frame control and re-framing
@YondaimeApproved 8 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🙂
@TravelBandit 6 жыл бұрын
More and longer vidssss todd. Im done with rsd. Make your company bigger and get real good coaches. we need that
@Kali23Yuga 6 жыл бұрын
Tyler is just too obsessed sucking RSD Luke's snapchat and how insane his lifestyle is by being Eckhardt Tolle. This is helpful to no one trying to reach up. It's like a Roman emperor, taking a rest after their conquest of the known world, telling you to remain 'stoic' if you want to do the same.
@wwatkin21 6 жыл бұрын
Love the content Todd. One suggestion: let the audience know that q&a can come after the instruction. I noticed a lot of the attendees interrupt your talks and derail you from the original subject matter which is a bit frustrating.
@markymark6229 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd - any holiday sales planned? I missed the summer sale for the system and would love a second crack at it
@Eladbransky 3 ай бұрын
Gold!
@GulliversFlo 6 жыл бұрын
Good stuff buddy
@LOGOASSASSIN 6 жыл бұрын
My mother used misinterpretation as her default humour, it always worked. I couldn't hear the audience statements at 36.40 maybe you should do a more granular vid on this subject per se with examples you CAN hear or maybe have them in type at bottom of screen. It's often hard to hear the girls in your infields too so maybe type on them would be very well received.
@avalanche9142 6 жыл бұрын
Loved the part at 1:05 when Todd runs his fingers through her hair but then backs off and ends up having both his hands in his pockets. Great escalation and calibration to the situation at the same time
@infinity2012rmx 6 жыл бұрын
Avalanche I think he just teased her with the hair grab and never planed to go any further at that time It was a smart move (probably also a physical ping), but no calibration was involved
@avalanche9142 6 жыл бұрын
Indeed, a smart move and adjustment to the situation or maybe can be sort of push-pull?
@jeffycrew5084 6 жыл бұрын
There was definitely calibration in there. From the looks of it she pulled back alittle and he noticed and then took pressure off.
@liandro0 6 жыл бұрын
todd you rock bro
@HONESTWISDOM 5 жыл бұрын
"Is that your pick up line?" "Didn't think I needed one, but for you we'll say it was" 😘
@lag7367 5 жыл бұрын
Yo Todd can u make a vid or explain to me on the delivery of tease like when u say tease while you talking to someone else
@edoboss505 6 жыл бұрын
MAN this was good . Loved all of your products but this one seems to be the best of them all .
@Broxine 6 жыл бұрын
edoboss505, is the product "the system" out yet?
@jeffycrew5084 6 жыл бұрын
no, it comes out next month. :)
@steffenvergeylen475 6 жыл бұрын
jeffy Crew how long?
@jeffycrew5084 6 жыл бұрын
its out already sexy
@steffenvergeylen475 6 жыл бұрын
jeffy Crew i noticed, did you buy it?
@realavx 5 жыл бұрын
12:32 When your inner RSDTyler kicks in.
@heisenberg3004 5 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@1Superpacman 5 жыл бұрын
Lmao i saw that too
@timv1.082 5 жыл бұрын
Very good info. I’d recommend working to curb the swaying a bit. I used to do the same thing subconsciously.
@LtVadim 6 жыл бұрын
It's so funny to watch yet another video starting with "X is the most important thing in the Game", because every time it is different thing.
@e-mman240 6 жыл бұрын
VadimCC There's more than one thing that is important in game my young pedawan
@Blue_collar_fitness 6 жыл бұрын
This is gold!
@rico4974 6 жыл бұрын
Like before watching.
@chad1405 6 жыл бұрын
+1
@heycory1 10 күн бұрын
😊😊😊😊😮😮😊😊😢😊😮😊😊😮😊😊😢😢😢😅😊😢😢🎉🎉😊🎉❤🎉😮😢🎉🎉😮😊🎉😊😢🎉🎉@@chad1405
@0Beyonder0 5 жыл бұрын
todds pulls got me like damnn everytime XD
@sumosam1980 4 жыл бұрын
For those with low volume for Todd's misinterpretation at minute 35: The first guy said: "You and I will not get a long" The second guy said: "You are boring." The third guy said: "I drove to Chicago just for the weekend." The fourth guy said: "I live in Minneapolis"
@alexblapar 6 жыл бұрын
Cartagena represent🇨🇴
@whyis8063 6 жыл бұрын
When I saw The System By Todd i got so hyped
@RezznT 6 жыл бұрын
Interesting that you call this a "mini-tutorial" in your email newsletter, I can't possibly guess what's actually inside The System. Really looking forward to it, looks like it's gonna be a game-changer.
@alimp2730 6 жыл бұрын
3 times more useful than rsd stuff👌
@avairal5936 6 жыл бұрын
y is that?
@jcfernandez2687 6 жыл бұрын
Todd do you have a digital course? send link
@colbyp7464 5 жыл бұрын
Alright so I understand the concept but I just don’t understand how long you do the push pull? The second thing I don’t understand is like do you repeat like push-pull back to back?
@drkvaladao 6 жыл бұрын
Dope.
@cheyno237 3 ай бұрын
"Very hard to stop a flirt in progress" 😂
@NickWisda 6 жыл бұрын
wish you would subtitle the stuff we cant hear: the audience inputs.
@amazingrecords8484 6 жыл бұрын
what do you say if she says can i Trust you in a serious way a low tone?
@phatshah7377 4 жыл бұрын
This guys abdomen is really something. Great content tho. On point 👌
@br0cket 5 жыл бұрын
The spare tire around your belly tells me your techniques work
@Fullmetal_christo 4 жыл бұрын
citizen000 come on bro, this dude is dropping knowledge and putting it out there for people. He could easily make you pay for this; but they fact you searched this and are watching it and payed enough attention to this detail makes it so weird to comment this. Todd is amazing with spitting game. We should praise this guy for putting out this free content.
@AnasKhallouk 6 жыл бұрын
YEAH BOI!!
@budsyremo 5 жыл бұрын
question: Todd , will it take time to become subtle and make it look smooth ?
@V12509 5 жыл бұрын
5:52 This was really amazing
@ashurasrage8206 6 жыл бұрын
Todd are you still in chicago? i live there bro
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 6 жыл бұрын
Todddd.. Could you please make a video on your plan to close from when girl comes into your house 1st time? Thanks!
@lukass1700 5 жыл бұрын
"I need to get outta here" - "sure, the toilet is right there"
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 6 жыл бұрын
Non caring, non emotional, non reactive
@Learning2BeBrave 5 жыл бұрын
It's playful yo, remember primary school where you had girlfriends. It's that but now sexual.
@gyldandillget4813 5 жыл бұрын
Your username speaks truth brother
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 6 жыл бұрын
TODD PLEASE ANSWER. WHAT ARE YOUR BEST QUALIFYING QUESTIONS? ... I JUST ASK LOGISTICS, WHAT SHE DOES AND WHAT HER PASSION/NEEDS IN LIFE ARE
@guitarthrasher81 6 жыл бұрын
RP watch the manifesto
@epicsillyrainbowdog9858 5 жыл бұрын
yeah interesting
@jaro6146 4 жыл бұрын
5:51 ok that was so clean wow
@victorhernandez4207 6 жыл бұрын
So much fucking value in this video! Thanks Todd
@Broxine 6 жыл бұрын
Why do i hate being teased as a guy if i should be all cool about it? It just isnt fun to me to "tease" or be teased. How can i change that? Being teased just triggers me internally. I can be cool about it but i dont have comebacks and it angers me :/
@bizbite2 5 жыл бұрын
12:30 epic lol... loved it... that would work too... 😁😁
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