NTR teros

That's the TEA

agreee, ı lived there for a while didnt met a person who has multiple wives. But cheating then divorce very common

GOD DAMN TRUE

Same here in Malaysia.

Hahaha lot different huh

I know right!!

It feels so goddamn good

@@ogacules5827 It's like watching a movie in your language against the original one 😂 you feel weird knowing everything instantly

HAHAHAHA SAME HERE

I love that girl

I have been living in the west for last 20 years and trust me most people practice polygamous relationship thru their entire life. Most women had more bfs than men having gfs. This Asian boss instead of going after Muslims should focus on Non Muslim polygamy as well.

@@k_tomoya4635 What about all the prophets in the bible ? Furthermore, polygamy is not prohibited in christianity nor in jew scriptures.

@@k_tomoya4635 connection betwn Adam & Eve with Poligamy its like using triangle formula to find area of a square, pointless

adam and eve represent humanity in their perfect state

Yes same. I'm Indonesian, but I never saw polygamy around me. I have also never seen Indonesian artists who are polygamous . Usually, polygamy is done by ustad ustad in Indonesia , that's what I know

@@vvvvvvvv1645 yeah by famous people i meant Ustad and Ulama but I wasn't sure that foreigners from non-muslim countries have an idea of what they are, so i said famous people instead lol

@@k_tomoya4635 lol 😂

@@abiez4018 apasih, ganyambung

Go to pesantren my dude... you'll find them

I'm wheezing

This is made me laugh but The person who practice polygamy is usually a loaded man. So his in-laws usually just gonna sucking up to him or they are become his some sort of subordinates?? like they will do everything the man said

This man right here. Lmao

🤣🤣🤣

LMFAO

Well I don't think the youngsters have enough money to do that anyway right? They're more likely to do what the rest of the world does which is having multiple girlfriends.

Thats right

@@Misaki11111 and this is right too

@@Misaki11111you can't do polygamy if you can't even afford marriage in the first place.

We youngsters need to get religiously educated tho.starting to get fed up with the western ideology that have been moulding our brain since the last decade.

Your English is 100% perfect!

I wouldn’t mind having you as a 2nd wife

@@marcusantonius117 U r smart bro... 🤣🤗🥳

Only 2% of the human population practice polygamy according to pew research. And among those 2% only 0.5% polygamist reside in Indonesia.

lol that's the case here too in Malaysia, even if it's pretty rare. my friend has 3 mothers, with his dad marrying 2 more women at the same time.

@@kv-1912 Haha, shouldn't be proud of that, but I guess it's due to the cultural similarities of our countries 🇮🇩🇲🇾. Boleh cakap melayu kah?

@@yofa1 wkwkwk saya bisa berbicara bahasa Indonesia sedikit fasih (that's how Indonesians laugh right lol, and boleh = bisa?)

@@kv-1912 Nailed it lmao 💀

what is your opinion on other ASEAN countries mainly, Burma, Thailand, Vietnam? just wondering.

If the man is rich. Then I don't think women would divorce him

Lmao yes very true. I mean even the act of getting a new wife, i can't imagine how could the first wife not leave. The only people that i know of who has more than two wives are those of high political power and are very rich.

Totally agreed..

@@user-yq7ud5vt2j disgusting 😝

Education has nothing to do here. Only people who are capable financially and mentally does poligamy and yes its not common.

same

sama, kayak mau bandingin "transletan indo ke english dalam kepala" vs " english subtitle di video"

Me too

@@amarfajri5525 Totally agree. Translating from indonesian to english is actually hard af. The grammar is totally different and such. That's why it is always nice to read subtitle for indonesian language

Looking for translation mistakes to roast asianboss

Iya sama lol

@@LinkinParkIndonesia ngapain 'sad' segala...

Kan gak dilarang, jadi bahasanya kan legal 😀

Lah kan emang legal bang

@@LinkinParkIndonesia ngapain sad dah...kan izin istri dulu tong kalau gk boleh yah gk bisa

TRUTH

Exactly

Jealousy won't kill you-it's just an emotion. And typically it's irrational. Most people in open relationships feel jealousy at times, but you learn to deal with it, and you can both comfort each other when those feelings arise.

@@Paul-yk7ds comparing the US with Muslims would not be fair. Muslim man has to provide for all the necessities of the family. So, logic dictates that a man has to be extremely rich to start a polygamous relationship. Polygamy (in a muslim society) can be used as a solution for unfortunate women.

@@Paul-yk7ds Indonesian women are extremely jealous....lolz...more so than from many other countries...in Western culture jealousy is seen as insecurity often and a negative...in Indonesia jealousy is seen as a sign of a deep love...the more they are jealous the more they love you... thats how it is often in Indonesia....date an Indonesian woman...she will pick up yout fone often and go through it daily....its acceptable in Indonesia lolz

failtolawl It’s there but rampant?! Sources pls this is some alarming news.

tmcrz yeah i agree,i think the man have a missconception about polygamy

@@failtolawl Children by current day standar but back then 1500 years ago marrying a 12 years old is very common even for a christian. Hell, even in current day the legal age in Japan is 13 years old yet no one complain about it.

@@failtolawl read more about history around the world. I know you're just an anti-islam.

Emphasis on the "Only, if the first wives allow". But seriously, how cold hearted are you to even suggest saying such a thing to your wife

Hahaaha

Iba namn kasi ang ORIGAMI sa POLYGAMY 😂😂😂

Yolo

Comment of the year 😂

Loool

Danny lol, that was my favorite response from the whole entire video. The look on his wife’s face was hilarious. 😂😂

He was like, are you asking for my second, third and fourth death? Lol

Look at his wife face, when that man asked for polygamy LMAO

2 wives, twice the headache.

Especially young woman

yeah actually, I'm Indonesian and I don't like it. But some elders or the older citizen don't have a problem with it.

As a muslim, we cannot disagree or oppose what stated in The Quran, but if you read the next verses after limitation of polygamy to 4 wives maximum, Quran also strongly suggest we only have one wives due to the lack of us to act just.

Bcse he understand whats going on like he said more women than men. In China the same more aged pple than young pple big problem for the country!!!

Sinners!

Yup

dude is handsome tho lol

Dude.. I agree with you. that s fact. that s why I against it IF the reason like this.

poor widow with beautiful eyes and hot racks

@@andreassimanjuntak8765 nah you're wrong, old poor widow (middle aged) who lost her husband due to wars.

Up

If the widow is non Muslim forcefully converting her and marrying her

So true Unfortunately that's the case in most of the cases in modern times

Exactly

Yup it shouldn’t be because it’s a way to prevent cheating. Polygamy should be just a way to have fun tbh

Its already stated that men will be men we have plenty of urges and wanting. Even the best of men who is religious enough is not perfect as well

yangerek deone well, then i hope you have this same mentality when it comes to women having urges too

Yes, as of men don't have control of themselves. Men are powerful and get to control their power.

Exactly

He already say that, if the wife can't do it anymore or has other things to do

It's a way better option than cheating. Most of you live in western countries were cheating is probably more frequent than marrying, I think none of you has right to act moralizingly toward the polygami question

Up to four

🤣🤣🤣

More thing to reconsider polygamy

4 MOTHER IN LAWS AND 4 DAUGHTERS

The headache that comes with 2 wives is already a huge penalty.

LoL

:v

😁

The same with many places

Wkwkwkwkkw selingkuh 🤣

You're an arab? I heard that arab people usually do polygamy. In Aussie.. mostly Arab descent people who did polygamy even in Indonesia/Malaysia

@@KimAhrina11 you are most mistaken I'm not even near to an Arab.

True Bro v:

Mee

ME!!!!! Its just habbit..

Mood 😂

Yes

kawin cerai kawin cerai yg dilakukan artis mngkin mnrt pndangan dia itu poligami wkwkwk

khusni ja'far viesta : XD HAHA......haha.. iya Kali

Poligami yang bener jarang, lebih kaya simpenan dan pelakor yg sering

Yeah I think the guy mistaken divorce as part of polygamy

Not polygamy are common, but divorce and Cheating.

really?

that's also how i feel whenever i heard filipino as Indonesian

And it's funny because there are so e words that I can understand, I'm filipino to btw

For Malaysia, we always watch indonesian, filipino, thailand,brunei drama etc because we find similar language and culture are relatable than east asian and western drama.

if you learn history then it wont feel too weird cos most south east asian comes from austronesian family so they shared the same culture.

not really, it is how it is back in the old days, but actually what Islam told us is how you should practice it, the motive should be righteous too, but as of people's motives..we can't really control that..same with marriage in general. some people get married for money, some because they really in love, etc

Yes, that's the main reason for polygamy.

@smile Muhammad's wives is all widows except Aisyah

Actually polygamy is not just for orphan or widow tho.. but it's not because of the pure pleasure of the men too. How do I explain this..

You can have upto 4 wives as long as you can provide for them equally. It isn’t for orphans or widows. It can be for any purpose

Because you people were Hindu earlier and somehow there is Hindu culture still exits in Indonesian people. But polygamy exists equally for both men and women in Hindu culture.

So how do you explain the majority of men in the interview saying that polygamy is common there?

@Afruza Ahmed there is Hindu culture in Indonesian bcoz you call your navy chief ' LAKSHMAN' You have GARUDA airlines. YOU gifted goddess saraswati statue to US embassy. You have Hindu island names. Even you people have Hindu names little little.

@@SuperAvocadoo im speak indonesian and the sub not that accurate. Polygamy is allowed in indonesia. And to answer your qurstion, here's my answer. IMHO Most people in indonesia has their own circle. And that circle they choose is what they believe. For example, if someone is too religious and want to hangout, they'll choose someone that they think religious too. This is my opinion and my answer. But for 26 years i spent my whole life in indonesia, many people won't open their mind if they think you're not that right in their mind (especially about religion)

@@SuperAvocadoo They said that because the number of Indonesian people are so big...We have about 270 million people here....But actually it is very low in precentage. ...Maybe only 0.1% Indonesian man doing polygamy..or maybe lower than that number..Sorry for my bad english..

that means you accept the fact that polygamy is not progressive? and other muslims who support polygamy are not progressive?

srajatji OFC POLYGAMY IS NOT PROGRESSIVE

​@@theexposer5303 he means progressive Muslims do not uphold polygamy while other conservatives Muslims uphold polygamy.

@@alesandroalbert I'm guessing it's because the limited time the Father has to dote on his children are even more limited. Wives would also start getting jealous of each other and start feeling insecure. At least, that's what happened in Chinese polygamy based families back then. I'm not really sure, but people view it as that the children might be neglected. Btw I'm using a nonpolygamy based viewpoint so I'm not really sure if having it ingrained in culture would also affect how they would feel

World is changing...I’m hopeful for the future...

Indo and pinoy are austronesian genetically, so there is no different 😑

Is there a man not to love more than one woman?

@@antoverstappenburik3711 what burik?

So, u're okay if your wife has s** with you 2 days a week, and with 3 more guys on other days?

@@k_tomoya4635 I think more that there are natural things which we all know, only when you start to make rules about them we all get screwed, no pun intended lol

Yes, she's blessed too.

@@k_tomoya4635 yes in the first place, its not just about what religious books say, morally it is wrong to have multiple spouses if your partner isn't okay with that. if your partner is okay with being in a polyamorous relationship there's no problem since it harms no one.

@@k_tomoya4635 me a it

or he was saying that for the benefit of the wife. there are reasons to support polygyny as well.

Because most of them are not registered. The first wife don't even know, and it's not a requirement to do a polygamy.

It's not common but is it legal by civil law? I only saw it from employment contract's perspective (that you cannot register more than 1 spouse for tax break and insurance) hence I always thought that it's not legal

Jaman sekarang? semuau mau dimadu asal dpt duit

Banyak yg kasusnya itu suaminya nikah diem2 dan baru bilang ke istri pertama setelah menikah sirih, istri pertama merasa tertekan karena tkt ditinggal dan gak dibiayain jaman skrg susah nyari nafkah (misalkan si istri ibu rumah tangga gak kerja) jd cuma ngangguk2 sedih aja nerima suaminya nikah lgi. Padahal yg rosul melakukan poligami karena untuk menafkahi janda ditinggal mati karena perang bukannya yg masih muda, sehat dan berkecukupan. Beda sih tujuan atau kriteria laki2 yg mau poligami jaman skrg

There is common misconception in people perception in general about Polygamy in Islam. Polygamy is not an obligation in Islam, God offer an alternative for Man " who can afford to divide their attention , divide their wealth and divide their sex life for more than one woman to help the woman who in need for protection, economy, care, love and attention in a legal marriage under the law and obligation as husband." Do not ever think polygamy is an easy thing. Islam forbid Man to do Polygamy if they cannot divide their love, attention, economy and life and forbid for Man to do Polygamy if their only reason is to only seeking sex alone. Islam forbid injustice Man who mistreated their wives or their woman, and will be punish by God severely if they neglected to divide their attention to their wives. As we know Polygamy is a tradition that has been common along time ago far before Islam came. Islam just limit on how many woman Man can married , (usually Man can married for more than 10 woman before Islam came, but in Islam for normal person 4 is the max ). Also with Islam, the rule has been more strict to protect the woman, contrary to people believe . Islam exist to stricting the rule and make Man have obligation to do justice to their wives and have obligation to divide their attention, loves, care and life equally for the woman their married. Woman in nature are very fragile in psychology and physics. There are a lot of woman live alone in need of Man care, love, economy support and attention. Other reason is because human by nature especially Man easily to cheat, rather doing adultery, marrying is more preferable in Islam and in reality. Because having a safe sex with commitment and responsibility is in logic and by nature is more acceptable.

yeaa hahaha, they're joking on it, they're not serious when they say like "yeaa i wanna have multiple wives" cause as an indonesian, i never saw some of my family, neighbour, and sumtn like that do poligamy, bcs poligamy in islam is not about sex and lust, poligamy is used to supporting the economy of some women or widow, almost every men in here are unable and not capable to do that,but poligamy is feared to be misused by some people.

yeah, I think it's really rare for someone to practice polygamy, and if they did it especially in central java, I'm 100% percent sure their family will be the star of neighborhood talk and gossip until more than a decade, and the second wife and her child will be seen negatively by people or maybe get isolated from social circle.. i think asian boss should address it too.. unfortunately, the people that get to be interviewed in here isn't diverse enough to represent Indonesian insight of the topic

No, the translation is perfect. Tidak ada yg salah dengan translasinya. I'm an Indonesian. Many won't admit it, but polygamy is slowly trending in Indonesia, as fundamentalism and radicalism grow. There are even "support" groups for women who were in polygamy marriage. It is said, if they still feel hurt about it they're not fully obedient of the religion teaching.

@@MissNulis no one would do polygamy except youre a crazy rich dudee😏 dont over react

@@MissNulis menurut data aja dari 250juta rakyat indonesia, yg melakukan poligami hanya sejumlah 600, what a number😅

Indeed, southeast asian woman is so beautiful.

That's me 😆

I do the same with Hindi. An Indian here 😂

same bro wkwk

Because i dont understand Jakartan/Javanese dialect when their speak in bahasa.

I'm deaf ! (not really, just refuse to admit it 😓)

nah, it's correct.

True, It was never a command. Its a choice It just that us man, a human that getting way too greedy. Using religion as an excuse.

@@Hansaki Religion is an excuse of weakness and fear itself.

Yes it's just a choice ( not a very good one)

I think Asian Boss just translate what the man said. He said "diperintahkan" so technically "command" is correct. In journalism you can't change the interviewee context. No matter how wrong it is. You must tell the truth, what the interviewee tell you in the interview.

There is common misconception in people perception in general about Polygamy in Islam. Polygamy is not an obligation in Islam, God offer an alternative for Man " who can afford to divide their attention , divide their wealth and divide their sex life for more than one woman to help the woman who in need for protection, economy, care, love and attention in a legal marriage under the law and obligation as husband." Do not ever think polygamy is an easy thing. Islam forbid Man to do Polygamy if they cannot divide their love, attention, economy and life and forbid for Man to do Polygamy if their only reason is to only seeking sex alone. Islam forbid injustice Man who mistreated their wives or their woman, and will be punish by God severely if they neglected to divide their attention to their wives. As we know Polygamy is a tradition that has been common along time ago far before Islam came. Islam just limit on how many woman Man can married , (usually Man can married for more than 10 woman before Islam came, but in Islam for normal person 4 is the max ). Also with Islam, the rule has been more strict to protect the woman, contrary to people believe . Islam exist to stricting the rule and make Man have obligation to do justice to their wives and have obligation to divide their attention, loves, care and life equally for the woman their married. Woman in nature are very fragile in psychology and physics. There are a lot of woman live alone in need of Man care, love, economy support and attention. Other reason is because human by nature especially Man easily to cheat, rather doing adultery, marrying is more preferable in Islam and in reality. Because having a safe sex with commitment and responsibility is in logic and by nature is more acceptable.

TRUE TRUEE. It's just nowadays, the arabization issue that suddenly come up to the society make polygamy highly associated with islam.

@@mightyhadi6132 and yet that is the case some of them do it for religious reasons because islam allows it and with the growing islamism in indonesia, there have been a growth in polygamy along the recent years. The guys do it for lust, but the woman? do it because islam told them thats approved and the husbands can take multiple ones the female ones , the first wife for example, 'accept' them under the indoctrinated state by religious reason, or else why would anyone wants their spouse to have another partner? simple logic

But they use religion to justify it

@@andi2658 Not all the guys doing for the lust , even the prophet are doing it for multiple reason solely politic and helping the woman. And also Polygamy in Islam teach Man to be responsible, doing it for God, to help the woman that in need , avoiding adultery, cheating, embrace safe sex, helping growing up population and helping building a family. But there are man that doing it solely for lust only, but it was their fault not learning how to do polygamy in Islamic way. Don't blame Islam, Islam exist to limit and put a rule and restriction on it. Like I said many time, Polygamy was an old tradition far before Islam came. It was not brought by Islam, Islam just modernize it. The same thing like slavery. It's an alternative for people who can ( committed to divide their attention, and the wives willing to accept it) . Also to do Polygamy both party (husband and wifes) need to have agreement . So it's logic because in reality there are many woman left alone with children that need partner in life to help growing up their kid. A lot of woman living alone in need for financial support, and even there are a lot of woman live alone because their numbers is more than Man alone. At the same time Man was created with higher libido and easily tempted by woman. We cannot hold or erase those nature, just provided it with a responsible way , which is by doing a polygamy. It's safer rather then go to prostitution or embracing pornography.

Huh, how does that work? I thought polygamy is legal in Indonesia, how could they do it illegally?

@@Verxx-sc2tl polygamy is regulated by law. However, some of these people want to avoid the legal consequences of having polygamy. some bad people in the marriage berau use this chance to get extra money. They do their second marriage (or third, or fourth, or etc) without registering it at the marriage bureau. We called the unregistered marriage as "Sirri". This is happen to my aunt. She know she is become the third wife. And she is agree to marriage his husband.

@@Verxx-sc2tl some old generation thought that unregistered polygamy and polygamy it self is OK. Although, polygamy isn't common for youngsters.

@@Verxx-sc2tl they dont want to pay the tax

@@okky_fr lol Sirri marriages are not illegal...it simply means the woman forfeits any legal protections she might seek in event that the man divorces her later....Polygamy is protected by Islamic sharia and there is no legal mechanism in place to take any action (by govt or police) against it..

susu yg mna

Coba dicover 😂

7:53

Bengek bgt tapi iyah ih 😁

"Susu murniii, nasionaallll,...."

cs skuy

soal nya poligami cuman org2 tertentu aja mereka yg punya duit + bisa berlaku adil buat istri2nya... klo org selingkuh banyak... :v

What? I've been here 8 years and I've met several already.

@LST then those ustadz got sacked afterwards XD

Should go out more bro

Rodrigo Santoro artisnya : Rhoma Irama, kiwil yg tampang gembel. 🤮

@@rickyfernandez8360 still, in reality you can only count on the fingers of one hand the number of Indonesian celebrities who have done polygamy. Far from "very common" like the guy in the interview said,

Rodrigo Santoro i think he have a narrow minded and only said what he said, and dont care the other way

His celebrities are only the polygamy clerics then...

I think there's a,wrong word u take in your statement.. the youth generation of Indonesia not refuse the polygamy, but they just don't want to practing it and just let everyone who want to practice polygamy as long as they have capability to practice

good view. Shame that your username doesn't morally represent your view

@@freakyholic yea, love this username. Did this on purpose to make so many triggered. Goes to show that even with this kind of username, my view in life is better than those with religious but hypocrite usernames.

She's brave and smart

secara gk langsung dia ngebilang nabi muhammad gk bersyukur dong?

@@radistyaarbein4359 obviously

What does that mean?

@@radistyaarbein4359 ada bedanya, Nabi SAW sama kita, manusia biasa. Nabi nikah nya bukan karena nafsu belaka, ada hal-hal yang menyebabkan Nabi melakukannya, misal memerdekakan budak, dll. coba dibaca lagi riwayat istri-istri Nabi tsb. sedangkan, kita manusia biasa justru seringkali menyalahgunakan 'poligami', makanya mbaknya blg 'gak bersyukur'. lagipula, perintah untuk poligami menurut ulama itu sekedar boleh saja. Tapi, perintah boleh ini bisa naik hukumnya menjadi sunnah, wajib dan juga haram pada kondisi tertentu. Seperti misalnya, seorang suami yang sadar dirinya tidak bisa adil, Merasa kalau hatinya tidak bisa condong pada yang satu, maka suami tersebut bisa berdosa. Atau suami yang sadar kalau dirinya tidak bisa memberi nafkah, namun tetap memaksakan diri untuk poligami maka itu akan menjadi dosa. Karena memberikan nafkah kepada istri wajib hukumnya.

What is that???

@@raggedyexynos6826 There's a lot of milkmen here who sells 'susu murni nasional' or 'nation's whole milk' with a catchy jingle as they go around selling the milk. This jingle is very popular.

*SUSU MURNI NASIONAL*

@@raggedyexynos6826 don't ever try to listen that jingle, cuz it wont stop ringing in your brain😂😂😂😂😂

@@kirschblute thanks for the explanation, really appreciate it

Wtf?

then, a woman who is married to 2 men should be normal too

And we all know that what muslims can do for their religion....

Those people know nothing bout Islam, they just use Islam as an excuse without knowing the real rule in Islam. If I were that girl I'll fight back with THE REAL Islam rule, this is why you have to be smart and independent as a woman 😪

@@IA-gs5cm but fighting yours parent is wrong too right in islam?

Then what should you do?

@@farhanmuzaki6364 you know if your parents are being unreasonable and unfair such as the friend's parents mentioned above then I see nothing wrong with standing up against her parents. Or are you suggesting that her friend should have agreed and marry the guy against her will because her parents said so?

THIS. i dont believe it is encouraged. much more like a way out if absolutely necessary. and there are many many regulation and responsibility

@@ardiharyadi5020 it is sunnah rasul..which means deeds that rasul s.a.w. Does. It is different when we talk about sunnah as law (haram

It's immoral and not to mention that it is such an abominable act in the eyes of the Creator, lust is included in the eight circles of hell.

Yes that's right

Agree

Bb bu but.... I really wouldn't want to hurt your feelings, babe.. 😂🤣

🤣🤣

So she is a wise wife.

@@somekindwitch6774 it's more likely that the 2nd or 3rd wife would be widow. Prophet (saw) there are rewards for taking care of them. I don't know about the "84 year old" part.

Dude my family are so so conservative and they think polygamy except rasul muhammad is beyond ridiculous. No one except the rasul wives felt incredible fairness in polygamy financially, mentally

Polygamy is a shithole practice actually. Sorry but that's the reality

even in middle east its not common we dont have money who is crazy to think about another woman while he cant feed the first one hehehe

Not always. Soekarno wasn't religious conservative and he had many wives. Some artist who hasn't religious background also practicing poligamy, like Parto and Kiwil, and some people from religious circle only has one wife.

my grandpa is from traditionalist. but he did it. we have been living together peacefully until the rest of their life now. can u explain this phenomena ?

DawnMaster anjerrr, kamgen rasa strawberry. Wkwkkwkwkwkw

@@haryantofusheng7795 aku kangen semua, tapi yoghurt nya gak enak

That tune is also legendary 🙌

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Lmao😂😂

Lmao i would say 15-20% Indonesian are polyglot

@@erlandrizkram4434 effing true

LOL. True.

i agree wholeheartedly, Asian Boss is herding opinions here, this channel is biased.

Good to hear that. I recently watched a DW documentary about growing religious intolerance in Indonesia and the demand for sharia law all over the country and also saw an imam poisoning the minds of young children with antisemitism. Is it really the case? . Is Indonesia leading towards religious fundamentalism? . Just wanna know from a native. P. S. : I am not a bigot , just a fellow muslim.

@@shimab8898 islam is true religius bro, if u want to learn And intolerance has many definitions depending on who defines it

@@shimab8898 well it's kinda true. In 90s, islam in Indonesia is so traditionalist. Now, traditionalist is still the majority, but there're also the fundamentalist and the liberals that growing rapidly. But the fundamentalist is not really big, around 5% of the population i think

I'm considerably older than you are, so I know people in my family. My aunt is the first wife, after her husband converted to become Muslim, he married another woman. Since he's unemployed, the first wife (my aunt) gets to pay for both household. And a good friend of mine was a child from the 2nd wife...

@CIA well I think they do have a good topic to be discussed and share it's just they didn't deliver it like a pro. then again it's a good thing independent companies like Asian boss want to magnify these topics brought in on the lens and make conversations about it. but is just like elementary school talking about how to do a heart transplant. I hope they train more their recruits, not just accepting anyone. words is very powerful if you ask the wrong qustion or said a wrong thing it'll become a problem for them.

This interviewer asked good and balanced questions too. (I also speak this as an Indonesian)

Exactly

I agree to this. Polygamy has to be just and that’s the most difficult part of it. Overall, financially, physically, mentally, and spiritually, it’s so hard to maintain. I seriously baffled why these regular men think so highly of themselves that they could do it if they’re ‘able’. I think a man has to be selfless to be able to practice the real polygamy according to Islamic law

I think of it like this. You must be selfless if you agree to have/agree to let other party to have other wives/husbands. Like you pour all of yourself out to the other partners and they return you the same, trust each other, think for each other to the point that you don't think of yourself at all because the others already think for you. Sounds impossible isn't it? So does "happy polygamy" :)

Since its almost impossible for most men to be equally disposed and just to multiple women i.e. there will almost be favoritism, and also mostly would be used to _justify_ Lust, I must say allowing such a provision for everyone following a faith shows *bad design* in part of its creator. There is a need for some *serious revision* in this religion w.r.t. aspects e.g. treatment of kafirs, death for apostates & blasphemers, polygamy, halala... otherwise its presence becomes a serious threat by providing *religious sanction* to lots of humanely _immoral_ activities

Islam doesn't encourage it? But it does, why else would it be specifically mentioned in the Quran.

Cannot agree more.. i dont think wives would be happy if her husband ask her to share his love with another women.. yes of i believe islam certainly doesnt encourage poligamy but many people misunderstood it, as you see the guy with hat n blue polo shirt say that they are encourage to do so..

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First and foremost, it is NOT a must to marry more than 1 in MUSLIM community. It is NOT compulsory. But if anyone chooses to marry and both are willing (including first wife allows) plus treat all fairly, then it is allowed by the state. In general there are more women population in this world than man. This gives all women a chance to get married if a man is willing to be responsible for her too. So this is how it is.

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Yeah but their man are ugly 🤣 unfair

It is impossible to be fair with them. Even our prophet Muhammad (SAW) was unable to do this. Don't scold me, I'm young, but wasn't it said that he favored Aisha radhiallahu the most? How does that equate to fairness between all?

@@Shutra he was fair to them and responsible and treated them equally. You will always have someone especial to your heart and he married Aisha at a young age so she was special but still no one of his other wives ever complained about being treated less. It is like a mother with three children for example, of course the youngest will have a special place, it will be harder to say no to him or her. 😄

@@Shutra I think you don't understand the difference between having a favourite and being fair, you could love one of your kids more than the other because the listen to you and help you more than the others but that doesnt mean you will treat them diffenent from the others , or you have a favourite friend or employee , you could be responsible for more than one person in your life and have a favourite but at the same time give equal shares to everybody whether it's time or money , and that's wat the prophet ment wen he said Aisha was his favourite, he still spent one night with each wife and didn't give her more time or money than the other wives , I hope this gives you a better explanation. :)

Doesn't it say somewhere in the Hadith that it's impossible to be fair to more that three wives? I seem to remember that from somewhere.

@@SiCaRiO0o0 stop justifying your prophet's lewdness xp

Yep

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Indeed

its like metrotv interview lul

youre so low if you think women should be more sexier...

What

i could see your point.. agree.

@@gaburii women and men really are in equal level on job places in Indonesia (atleast in my region) but many women didn't have a job because they can push men to do that and if the man can't give the life necessities the social enviroment will blame and bully the man.

@@bebekdragon7604 women and men are equal but different

@@gaburii i reccommend you to see korean drama's Reply 1988 episode 14. So you can see why even woman can going to work, they still need a man to holding her.

@@gaburii So, if women become a jerk, man can puch her?

@@mayaparamita2254 Imagine how entitled someone can be to believe that "low class" people have no right of opinion...

@@amirulhakim9898 I know right. people are entitled to an opinion low income or not.

@sweet potato Tracey Allowed and Required are different.. Don't teach something you don't understand.. Yes, you are allowed to marry 2 wives, but it is not a requirement, So 1 is enough..

@sweet potato Tracey you just love to attack the religion without understanding it.. If you are a women, why not? try to marry 4 guys. Then make a documentary how it feels and upload it here on youtube. For us to see the result.. Be an example for what you are trying to impose. And we will take a lesson from it.

@sweet potato Tracey too much talk? No documentary? Boohoo 👎 Believe what you believe. Don't worry, in the end there's a Judgement Day.. Everyone will die, the world will end.. So keep your Hatred within yourself, instead of spreading it..

Well, they say if the first wife allowed them to. Guess it's not an affair if they are allowed to do it.

In every case it is

fahmi ibrahim that sucks

@@vijaykumarreddyt3287 I wonder then how many women Krishna cheated?

@@wresni00 it is according to Islam though so it isn't a valid argument for them. even if their wife gives permission, they need to actually be married for it to not be an affair and be allowed in Islam

@@s0ul216 ok einstein! 1:07 and 1:12 👍 its clearly say "common"

@@s0ul216 shut up police

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Please like this comment guys !

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I am guessing the punishment is just a slap on the wrists that’s why it is harder to implement the law.

Your comment needs to go to the top. There's so much misunderstanding

I don't think this video is misleading, they never say that legal polygamy is easy to do. and as you say, it's pretty hard to do polygamy legally, and most polygamy aren't recorded. and it's pretty common to do 'illegal' polygamy in some religious area. some people are just denial and it's hard to proof that it's common because as you say, most of them aren't recorded. :)

also when one guy said there are a lot of polygamous esp celebrities, they meant outside marriage, not having many wives/ husbands. Duh! Asian Boss need to do better job next time.

Why would you look down at him?

I have been living in the west for last 20 years and trust me most people practice polygamous relationship thru their entire life. Most women had more bfs than men having gfs. This Asian boss instead of going after Muslims should focus on Non Muslim polygamy as well.

@@lombo5293 polygamy means MARRYING more than one spouse not dating in their whole lifetime. It isn't an aggregate of the sexual relations they ndulged in throughout their life.

@@leezaaneja1213 many marriages ended in divorce and dont last rest of the life. Most westerners are involved in extramarital relationship which is also polygamy.

@smile thats why i used 'think' cos i wasnt sure and you just told me how my thought was wrong :D and if you actually watch the vid, the oldet people are the ones who want multiple wives and doesn't mind but the younger ones are like *no*. which is just my observation which lead to me to _think_ the way i did.

@@imaginatedenemy yeah no more polygamy but a lot of sex friend

When you get older and have work, you will understand about it. Even for me i still shocked about this

Baca mas ad aturannya, di UU tentang perkawinan.

It's in grey area tho.. It's not legal or illegal

ikr. I'm Indonesian and I dont know it is legal. I don't like how this interview was asked to people with low-middle income/class. And there are 5 religion in Indonesia, they only asked 1 specific religion. So it doesn't represent Indonesia as a whole. It's as if Asian Boss indonesian team intentionally choose the low class guy who agreed to polygamy. Eww. Do better job next time Asian Boss Indonesia!

Ustad tu banyak

Well im Indonesian too that aren't many do this, just who think their rich enough

@@mayaparamita2254 "Low-middle income/class", "choose the low class guy". Oh oke, this interview's only for the high class then "Only asked 1 spesific religion". 1 spesific religion that has the most population, and has the story of polygamy itself, hmm

I had a driver in Batam who was the son of the 9th wife. His father had something like 36 children. He was about 28 and his oldest sibling was in his 50's. The family was from the Medan area. While in central Java I met a number of people who had more than one wife. It wasn't common, and often the 2nd wife was much younger and poorer than the first wife.

Because wife now ugly lol

You understand that line rigth?. Itu berarti buat lelaki yg nafsunya besar (ini beneran ada) jangan sembarangan celup sana sini. Harus dinikahi, itu tandanya poligami itu mengangkat derajat prp. Harus ada yg resmi dulu sebelon digoyang. Tapi persyaratan utk poligami g cuma itu doang. Bukan krn napsu doang. Harus mampu dan adil. Ilmu keagamaannya juga harus mumpuni, baik dr pihak istri, suami dan juga si pihak ke 3 dst. Kalo g bisa maka sebaiknya hanya 1 saja.

Bottomline: poligami melegitimasi hawa nafsu yang besar dengan alasan klasik "mengangkat derajat perempuan." My-ass.

Reza Anindito beneran kog mas.. daripada maaf jadi "pelacur" karena ekonomi atau tak dapat suami mending poligami .. ya kan

Big question "NGAPAIN BERZINAH KALAU UDAH MENIKAH" Don't marry a woman if you still want celup sana celup sini. Ugh

yep, patriarchy is very very common in indonesia

I know right? I hate it too, like, a lot.

Not if you are a muslim. In Islam, a woman is only half as worthy as a man and a wife is a field to be ploughed by the man to sow his seeds. I have read the quran and most of the older guys in the video dont know their own religion. Polygamy was started to help the destitute women who became widowed by the endless wars during the older days. Be thankful that you are not a muslim but a catholic in the Philippines.

@Jimmy Ang There is right and wrong everywhere... what is important is to adopt the right and shun the wrong. But some scriptures hold onto the wrong as they are god's words and should not be wrong and cannot be questioned.

@@fourlimbedmartian5262 so one part of the book is telling you to kill, the other part that killing is bad. This is the dilemma ~