I feel really bad for chris h. in that interview because you can tell how he's trying to telepathically tell brie to calm down but she doesn't get it edit: this is the most likes ive ever gotten on a comment omds-
@khumanthemhelga79285 жыл бұрын
Exactly. He's like 'Girl, for your own good, STOP'
@pin2peen9725 жыл бұрын
Titi Hilda I'm the 666th liker, hail satan
@natsukilovestobake44275 жыл бұрын
bAkA Congrats dude! I saw the 666 likes :D
@frederickrueger78615 жыл бұрын
What if she telepathically got it and just didn't want to.. who knows what went on between those two before..
@elgurideparana27965 жыл бұрын
@@frederickrueger7861 she became a feminist that happened
@SeanLunny5 жыл бұрын
Constantly redirecting the conversation on yourself makes people not want to talk to you.
@djoakeydoakey10765 жыл бұрын
I knew a guy that had an anecdote for fuckkking eveerrryytthingggg. Always had to have a fucking story, jesus.
@freeman72975 жыл бұрын
Fr
@jimmysgirl10295 жыл бұрын
I want this quote as wall decor at my house
@SunflowersAreCute5 жыл бұрын
i’m not gonna say any names but meghan mccain knows who she is
@solomonelijah5 жыл бұрын
OMG THISS
@kr3642 Жыл бұрын
I hate how complicated human interaction is.
@Anwelei10 ай бұрын
SAME HERE! I have always been so lost interacting with people.
@HankTheTank2310 ай бұрын
Life would be kind of boring if it was simple.
@cahidijoyoraharjo78339 ай бұрын
@@HankTheTank23 True, it would feel like talking to robots.
@vice2versa9 ай бұрын
@@HankTheTank23 maybe to you but to other people who arent as fortunate as you seem to be it would make gor less painful social interactions.
@HankTheTank239 ай бұрын
@@vice2versa I apologize if I came across as being insensitive to those who struggle with social interactions. That was not at all my intention. I enjoy talking to people, but I frequently find myself in situations where I don’t know what to say or do. That’s part of learning, growing up, and what makes life fun. From my perspective, if you could reliably predict exactly how someone would react to everything you said or did, life would be pretty boring. Nothing would be funny, and there would be no such thing as suspense or mystery. There’s a reason why (until perhaps recently with the advent of ChatGPT) automated chat bots have never been a substitute for real human connection and conversation. That’s just my perspective, but I understand where you are coming from.
@redluna8865 Жыл бұрын
1. Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation 2. Sarcasm requires a "tell" 3. You should not jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself 4. You should not try to win every moment of banter 5. Handling a compliment / conflict improperly
@Khoalinski69 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@angeldemonica9087 Жыл бұрын
Those are the points they tried to make. Idk if they all really applied here- I’m not convinced. But it’s great advice all the same 😅
@WeartheGoodSocks11 ай бұрын
It's really good. Now I can finally articulate why one coworker gets on my nerves sometimes although we get along great, in general. She does #3 quite a lot, turning any casual conversation into a competition. Or if we're in a meeting and the group praises me for something, she immediately tries to turn attention back to herself. Blegh.
@gingerisevil0211 ай бұрын
Thanks saved me time
@mooshway200011 ай бұрын
In psychiatry we call number 1 'hostile attribution bias'.
@khaoscero5 жыл бұрын
Feels like Hemsworth tries SO HARD to make it comfortable for everyone and he just can't catch a break.
@claudioortiz58305 жыл бұрын
he's been trying all day and Brie thinks that's an attack, so they fight. she is a sociopath.
@MercurialIris5 жыл бұрын
Claudio Ortiz are you aware of the definition of “sociopath”?
@br97605 жыл бұрын
@@claudioortiz5830 Better term is, toxic. Or combative.
@claudioortiz58305 жыл бұрын
@@br9760 not for me
@calirooster4115 жыл бұрын
A point break?
@youraverageguy49305 жыл бұрын
Why do I watch these videos as if I'm some kind of alien trying to assimilate into human culture?
@MeowPictures5 жыл бұрын
LOL
@metasprite56485 жыл бұрын
Or an AI trying to understand human kind
@mark01835 жыл бұрын
So you become a likeable alien
@skyz3ra5 жыл бұрын
It's to understand psychology in x context
@jacobreid70775 жыл бұрын
Hello fellow humanoid’s
@AryBerry85 Жыл бұрын
I know of somebody like Brie. God, it's exhausting and drains my energy just having a conversation with her. I would compliment her works and she is triggered for no apparent reason. As the conversation goes on, it almost feels like I was walking on eggshells. She thinks every single thing I say is like a personal attack on her. I wish to never have any conversations with her anymore. I'm tired.
@mielthesquid6536 Жыл бұрын
leave, far away
@leiea2000 Жыл бұрын
I know someone like this and she is exhausting too. I have minimized my interactions with her over time. Her insecurities are pretty obvious when you engage her and she comes across like a victim most times. I have complimented her before and she actually negated and shot down the whole compliment. She does exactly what this video suggests NOT to do.
@beauli5011 Жыл бұрын
this could be a sign of depression. When I start seeing ill intent in people's comments I know my mental health needs attention
@LethalByChoice Жыл бұрын
It really is exhausting and its no wonder why her co-stars don't like her. Brie Larson can't handle fame very well and its obvious that she isn't very well socialized.
@jeremy4375 Жыл бұрын
She reminds me of that female terminator from Sarah Connor Chronicles. Like, she's been sent back through time to singlehandedly destroy all that was fun...
@3Xero3 Жыл бұрын
I didn't quite understand why everybody didn't like her till watching this, and now it makes SO MUCH SENSE.
@nomoskarramin637 Жыл бұрын
For one, her character felt like a token character. Came outta nowhere, and somehow OP than others. And second, her acting felt mediocre at best. Endgame would've been better if they defeated the villain without a "new powerful ally".
@FreedomAndJustice4All Жыл бұрын
Idk much about this lady but just bc said she did her own stunts bc she "thought that's what everyone did", that wasn't praising herself at all. In fact I believe assuming she was gloating is assuming negative intent.
@nomanejane5766 Жыл бұрын
@@nomoskarramin637so u didn't like the movie, so u take it out on the actor? 🤡
@ramonew7815 Жыл бұрын
Hate tends to make people defensive, which then feeds itself when you're interpreting ambiguous situations in a negative way. Couple with the fact that you have someone (in this case, Don Cheadle) actually being hostile and to her it probably justifies her defensiveness. Then someone like Chris who seemingly has it all is being somewhat patronizing but fairly sincere on the other side. Not defending her actions really, but there are reasons to everything.
@ramonew7815 Жыл бұрын
@@FreedomAndJustice4All true, but that's what most people are going to conclude since Chris was actively putting himself down to give praise to his stunt doubles, and Brie challenged him on the whole notion.
@BeChickaboom4 жыл бұрын
It's cringy because it's like watching yourself at your worst.
@wtfmario4 жыл бұрын
Feels, especially when you watch drunk videos of yourself
@krixpop4 жыл бұрын
me at my worst i'm 10 times better than that overentitled B**** ! ! !
@wtfmario4 жыл бұрын
krix pop I would still smash though
@krixpop4 жыл бұрын
@@wtfmario I don't know mate : to each its own ... I would run. The amount of nagging, judgment, etc, from her, would silence even an Apostle of Christ. And really: have you seen her a**, I've heard she used a double for that too , lmao ! She is a very troubled person that will project her insecurities, shortcomings (etc) on the person most close to her (a man, that is) and literally f***up his life. edit: Stay away from crazy !!!
@stopbeinginsecure47864 жыл бұрын
BeChickaboom YESSS
@originalblob4 жыл бұрын
The whole interaction with Chris Hemsworth about stunts and strength is so cringey.
@snoox274 жыл бұрын
Feminism ruins women
@WhatJuliaLoves4 жыл бұрын
I just recently read this online: Because I‘m a feminist, people often ask me, if I hate men and I answer that it’s the opposite - because I‘m a feminist men hate me ^^
@Eduardo146984 жыл бұрын
@@WhatJuliaLoves Well, if man(in general)hate feminism there is a reason why, its a good idea to try to understand our side as well. Maybe man hate feminism because the movement dont care about man and only wants to put women on top of us and not on the same level.
@yungamurai4 жыл бұрын
@@WhatJuliaLoves If you're not a nagging, insufferable man-hating feminist then it's fine but if you're the kind like Brie where you read offense into everything and project your gaping inferiority complex into all aspects of life, yeah I probably would hate you.
@lordofebony8164 жыл бұрын
B 27 Emoji man bad.
@polderpaul1672 Жыл бұрын
I think most of us do not do any of things Brie does when we are happy and confident, and in our element. Problems begin when we are anxious and trying to be someone that we aren't.
@heatherrogers5486 ай бұрын
Good point.
@emiquintana509 Жыл бұрын
She comes off SO insecure. There's a point where you can be insecure while still being able to interact with others without projecting, however, all she seems to be doing is victimizing herself, and roping others into feeding her insecurity. It's not only her as a person, it comes out in her characters as well, especially Captain Marvel.
@aishaalamoudi599 Жыл бұрын
She's an Oscar Winner, the only woman leading her own action film making over a billion.... she cleared the mantel very early on. She's not the one whos insecure. what interests me is how depressing is it to live in a world were the so called men in our society get hurt so deeply by Brie Larson's words that one time, and continue to this day bitching and moaning about it..... here it is, the men crisis; bitching about this to no end. A real man wouldn't care....this video and the response to it perfectly captures my point.
@420rollinup3 Жыл бұрын
@@aishaalamoudi599hold this L
@avril.227 Жыл бұрын
@@aishaalamoudi599 What?? Are we watching the same video? I like almost everyone at first but she is unfortunately very off putting.
@sathira_anuk517911 ай бұрын
@@aishaalamoudi599nah she's terrible 😅
@s.a.854811 ай бұрын
@@aishaalamoudi599Come on she’s just doing too much. There’s thousands of leading ladies who are extremely charismatic
@memebot52164 жыл бұрын
The best thing about Chris Hemsworth is that he isn't even mad that Brie is attacking him, he only gets mad when she attacks other people
@enayatchoudhury54314 жыл бұрын
He's such a good man
@wrestlinganime4life2884 жыл бұрын
God of Thunder
@lindai69884 жыл бұрын
Brie wasn't attacking Chris lol. Do you Americans not know what banter is?
@darthvader5664 жыл бұрын
@@lindai6988 most don't, they get offended over everything
@lindai69884 жыл бұрын
Darth Vader it seems so
@Solar-em2ld5 жыл бұрын
*Alternative title for this video:* dude on youtube makes me regret every conversation I've ever had
@sen78265 жыл бұрын
Then you're such a mess. (sorry, I had to)
@frankmiller13915 жыл бұрын
a mess 😂
@marianagoulart1965 жыл бұрын
Here I'm trying to remember every interaction I had in the last party I went to discover how much of a jerk I was 😂
@_Gabyo_5 жыл бұрын
I swear the points about sarcasm and not accepting compliments is me. (I guess the point about calling attention to myself also works here)
@nicolemartinez64405 жыл бұрын
@Gabyo Relatable. XD *laughs and proceeds to ugly cry* :’)
@MastaChafa Жыл бұрын
"If a literal interpretation of your sarcasm would make you look like a jerk, try again" is great advise
@anbay32139 ай бұрын
The older I get, the more grateful I am that I grew up with a family who made sure I knew how to be kind and understanding in all social situations. This video really made me have so much more appreciation for Hemsworth and Pratt because it really highlighted their kindness, even in scenarios when I would had been bothered. Thank you for the video!
@tapist348218 күн бұрын
I was taught to be kind and understanding but my parents weren't social persons themselves so I kinda get lost along the way. So right now I'm a kind, understanding introvert.😢
@edennis85784 жыл бұрын
I've met people who read an insult into everything. It must be hell living inside their heads.
@artygunnar4 жыл бұрын
it is, they need help
@darrylgibson35754 жыл бұрын
What about inside our heads when dealing with someone like that ?
@krableja25174 жыл бұрын
It is, the thing is those people probably had someone who was real close to them who would always criticize them for everything which makes it natural for them to see everything as an attack on them.
@mogaman284 жыл бұрын
Yeah, feminism does that to people.
@glitterdragon91974 жыл бұрын
It could be bc they’ve had so many people give them backhanded compliments in the past. I used to be like Brie, rude defensive and bitchy bc I used to have childhood “friends” that would lowkey mock me so I became tense
@aminthemar5 жыл бұрын
How not to be Brie Larson: Stop acting like you're better than everyone while you're trying to be funny. No one likes that.
@KerioFive5 жыл бұрын
aminthemar I thought thats how you get people to like you? 😒🙃
@Matthew-ob7vb5 жыл бұрын
Right she's not perfect for LA
@kikilocket5 жыл бұрын
aminthemar unless your name is RDJ
@AnonYMouse-ky4sg4 жыл бұрын
K S Yeah a lot of people can get away with that kind of sarcasm, but it doesn’t work when people are being primed to dislike you already as they will just take it as you being serious.
@Authenticmemes14 жыл бұрын
aminthemar just realised I do this thx 👍
@Bunbunfunfun Жыл бұрын
So happy I found this channel. One of the things that truly separates successful people from non successful people is all about social interactions. The master of social interaction will advance above more qualified people every time.
@EdgeSanityGaming Жыл бұрын
Sadly, that's true.
@milliesaysokboomer Жыл бұрын
this is only true when everyone is in the same social class
@Rog.Tiks._ Жыл бұрын
I respect your opinion but, out of curiosity, why is that fact SAD to you?
@dazzle470811 ай бұрын
@@Rog.Tiks._If you have a stroke, do you want to be attended by the doc who can make the boss chuckle, or the one who was top of his Harvard med class?
@j3nnacat11 ай бұрын
Definitely not always true. This is also a very abliest way to look at this. People who are neurodivergent (autism especially) are usually VERY bad at reading social cues but people with autism can still be successful. You don’t have to be charismatic to be successful
@jollypoco2899 Жыл бұрын
Simply put, don't let your emotions take over everytime, learn to sit back and enjoy the show until it's your time to perform, clap for others and clap for yourself.
@JimDandy-rn4vd4 ай бұрын
It's called passive aggression .
@jollypoco28993 ай бұрын
@@JimDandy-rn4vd thnx man didn't know that, vocab updated
@JimDandy-rn4vd3 ай бұрын
@@jollypoco2899 You be welcome
@aidenaberration67405 жыл бұрын
I feel like a sim gaining a charisma skill after watching this
@sussanachen49285 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahahahah RT
@unicee5145 жыл бұрын
That is literally me
@mckennacal_pencil5 жыл бұрын
I’m dead !!!!!
@enigma99095 жыл бұрын
Most relatable comment
@consolemainnoob81025 жыл бұрын
Bro--- gotta use hacks next time
@selfimprovement4634 жыл бұрын
I think she has low self-esteem and may feel like everyone is always attacking her. Her responses definitely seem defensive.
@andrewgust-anderson56124 жыл бұрын
Never speak to me again on the Paris consulship AS LONG AS YOU LIVE
@scarlettelisabeth56444 жыл бұрын
I’m sure it also comes from years of acting a facing constant criticism weather it’s your looks, what you where, what your opinions are. If people are always judging you it’s easy to understand how someone could develop poor self esteem
@fexbio4 жыл бұрын
I think she let that "women are oppressed" stuff enter her head. This kind of thing makes one very defensive.
@offminus39114 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson has addressed multiple times that there is no such thing as self-esteem. It's something particular that she isn't happy about that she takes everywhere, whether it be a thought or a physical/emotional insecurity.
@JanieBee4 жыл бұрын
Especially since everyone always is attacking her
@PureBlackNiltiac Жыл бұрын
I'd say that she is deeply insecure. The reason she did so well with Craig's interviews, I think, is because he is so charismatic himself and was always charming to his guests. His aim i think was to make them feel as comfortable and secure as possible, relaxing them and getting them to drop their defences, buttering them up a bit, thus getting the very best interviews out of them. It really shows in his awesome interview with Harrison Ford.
@mikerandom1959 Жыл бұрын
People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done
@mikerandom1959 Жыл бұрын
brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.” So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week. And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?
@mikerandom1959 Жыл бұрын
I've noticed this channel only talks about how men have charisma, i mean use women's example too? You mostly show bad examples of them. And why tf is everything supposed to be about how to become a chick magnet? In this vid, unfortunately Chris hemsworth was in the wrong, not brie as much. He interrupts her as she tries to complete what she wanted to say and then insults her…pretty biased of you
@jamesbrice6619 Жыл бұрын
@@mikerandom1959 she's a c..t🤣😅😆😂
@Commander_Shepard. Жыл бұрын
@@mikerandom1959 lol
@stephanledford9792 Жыл бұрын
I dropped sarcasm completely from my communications with others, even though I mentally still think of sarcastic things. Nothing positive comes from sarcasm and it is too easily identified as just "meanness".
@abemartinez962316 күн бұрын
Yeah to me it’s juvenile
@bplup64195 жыл бұрын
"Be like Chris" "Evans, Hemsworth or Pratt?" "Yes."
@maddie101735 жыл бұрын
Or Pine;)
@megadeth18185 жыл бұрын
"Chan"
@steveduvell9075 жыл бұрын
@@megadeth1818 No... Please no. One is enough
@smitemus5 жыл бұрын
Redfield. The biggest Chris.
@Robdee9995 жыл бұрын
Benoit?
@lauradurango97524 жыл бұрын
Brie Larson when someone asks for an autograph: Do you want to fake my signature or something?
@jeethechamp74584 жыл бұрын
Jajajaja
@blueseptember21744 жыл бұрын
Omg😂😂
@mochi46544 жыл бұрын
😂
@skinnyturtle93354 жыл бұрын
Laura Durango hahaha nice one
@yashkaliapiano4 жыл бұрын
Haha
@atroyz Жыл бұрын
This seems like a list of manners/politeness/etiquette that most kids (should) get from their parents, but maybe not everyone gets the same set of instructions. Glad this video is here to fill in those gaps.
@zakosist Жыл бұрын
I think in modern times there is often not enough time spend together between child and parent. Both parents work and it could be long hours just to get by (that can be the fault of the workplace not paying enough or demanding overtime), in addition children go to kindergarten as toddlers, and then spend a lot of time at school when they get a bit older (education is important, but many things about it could improve), and when kids get home they have to do homework. And the parents may be too exhausted from work in the short time they spend at home. Modern technology also worsens the problem, its easy to just give the kids a smartphone or similar to play on and not give them much direct attention. Kids getting addicted to that technology only worsens the problem again.
@tapist348218 күн бұрын
Those who did not get those instructions grown up to be those who hurt those whom did get the right instructions.
@seanfarley8586 Жыл бұрын
This is why it's so important to understand that someone's perception of you is a reflection of them. Someone that chooses not to like you is the same thing as someone thinking they are better than you. That person probably has little to no self awareness, and will go through their life believing that they don't have any flaws. Which ultimately means they will go thorough life not understanding that they are self sabotaging all of their relationships. And instead of considering that they are part of their own misery, they will consistently place all of the blame for their own failures on other people.
@SGWV Жыл бұрын
this comment is a hot-take meta response lmao. it's not only a criticism of the actress, but it's a criticism of the public response to her, the interviews after the fact, this KZfaq video itself ("5 Awful Habits That Make People Think You’re Low Status"... bruh), and all the commenters who are convinced they're "higher status" - well done 👍
@hanswoast7 Жыл бұрын
Good point. That is a great description. I think this can be seen as being insecure, delusional and denying/projecting your (usually negative) feelings to others. Reminds me a lot of emotionally immature / narcissistic people which are often feeling insecure but want to hide it.
@ImNotaRussianBot Жыл бұрын
This perfectly describes the vulnerable narcissist (as opposed to the other type, the grandiose narcissist)- it's the eternal journey to victimhood. Nothing, I mean NOTHING is ever their fault even though they self-sabotoge their entire life in every aspect either through inaction or action. Another really obvious thing they all do is project something they are doing as they accuse you or some glaring character flaw they have. For example, if they are demanding something (money, a favor, stuff) and you refuse, they will to accuse you of being selfish. It's such a cliche that it's like that Reddit list of phrases a cheater uses when caught. These folks are often twice, thrice divorced and all their exes are "crazy' and/or "evil". It never occurs to them that the common denominator in all of the failed marriages was them. They also have burned every conceivable bridge on their personal life with friends and family and end up alone and bitter because "everyone has abandoned them" (it never occurs to them why- even though they have been told over and over again why). This is why it's a red flag when you meet a seemingly nice and normal person who offhandedly (and sometimes repeatedly) mentions that everyone always leaves them/all their friends left. ✅ Low contact/no contact adult kids. ✅No friends. ✅Colleagues who despise and tolerate them. ✅Unfortunate subordinates that acquire a life-time of trauma from them. ✅Neighbors that barely tolerate them due to them using the local police to intimidate/harass/control. They often are the fuel of juicy gossip of the "nasty old man" or "crazy old lady" of the neighborhood in their old age. They tend (not always, but there is a pattern) to become hoarders (junk and/or animals)- this is due to their perceived abandonment issues. They die alone, surrounded by piles of crap, and their family reluctantly deals with their funeral/possessions/residence.
@ImNotaRussianBot Жыл бұрын
The faux superiority always baffles me. One thing I do is when they are on a roll, I ask them where and who gave them their sense of superiority. I repeat it in honest bafflement. And then if they have an answer (they always do), have them break down what EXACTLY they have accomplished (not not accidental birth to the right race, class, genetic appearance, region, culture). It's always nothing. This shakes them up and they get really, REALLY defensive. This makes them hate you but you lose nothing here. Sleep easy.
@MElixirDNB Жыл бұрын
Lol, no it's that brie is unlikeable because of her attitude, it is not a reflection of the ppl disliking her at all.
@tylerdarroch55123 жыл бұрын
The worst part is that Chris gives her so many opportunities to correct herself and she fails to grab hold of any of them
@ImDrizzt3 жыл бұрын
It's strange that she's struggling with stuff like this, because in the movies I think she is playing her part really well. So she clearly knows how to act, hmmm
@alenciaga213 жыл бұрын
@@ImDrizzt maybe she doesn't know how to REact
@violet-trash3 жыл бұрын
It's like throwing an olive branch into a fire.
@ahnrho3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. It was very noticeable.
@illarionbykov74013 жыл бұрын
@@ImDrizzt what part has she ever played well, in your opinion?
@sabrinazarogoza86864 жыл бұрын
Honestly, as a blind person, I cannot over emphasize the importance of the tone of a person's voice. With the first point, the third clip is the only one I was able to tell was sarcastic because with the other two, the delivery was so flat.
@impossible96904 жыл бұрын
That is really good input
@estheay36114 жыл бұрын
Sabrina Zarogoza wow.. this is the first time I’ve ever encountered a blind person in the KZfaq comment section!
@precioussketches10084 жыл бұрын
If you don't mind me asking, how did you type this as a blind person?
@estheay36114 жыл бұрын
Precious Sketches maybe he or she is using one of those “text-to-speech” accommodations on their phone, where a synthetic voice reads out different pieces of text on their screen and converts it into an auditory message that they can understand. You can’t exactly convert a KZfaq comment to Braille lol
@estheyliborges35964 жыл бұрын
How’d you watch this
@havestrength5802 Жыл бұрын
be yourself. trying to be anything else is usually a fail. some people are over the top, some people are shy. love people for how unique they are.
@damenation Жыл бұрын
How if people don’t like you when you are yourself
@katec9893 Жыл бұрын
One thing I've noticed about popular, successful people is that they rarely if ever seem to be triggered in public anyway. My guess is they either had stable, loving childhoods or have done trauma work. If you have unresolved trauma certain social things can be massively distressing and will trigger a trauma response, which most people won't understand and will interpret negatively. Brie seems either triggered from past put downs/abuse/bullying or she's trying to be funny and it's falling flat.
@MsMckenzie201110 ай бұрын
Yep!
@TheMockingjay747 ай бұрын
This hits different 💀
@ukbloke284 ай бұрын
Some of them are trained to deal with it, depending on the profession. Also another way to look at it is maybe some of them are successful and popular BECAUSE they don't get triggered.
@hnklee26075 жыл бұрын
Talking to someone like Brie Larson, person who tries to win in every conversaton, every topic, is really exhausting.
@trevorhouff11735 жыл бұрын
One of my closest friends is like that and yea, exhausting is a good word to describe it
@MiyagiDo95 жыл бұрын
@@trevorhouff1173 till now never noticed that i might be like that..
@wrightguyz5 жыл бұрын
re: 'win every conversation' - - it's narcissism right? or at least part of the equation. Very obnoxious behavior
@quarantinelife.5 жыл бұрын
Listening to her gave me PTSD hahahahah
@gemberss5 жыл бұрын
yeah you're right. it's so annoying. i think the best thing to do is like the dude above me said just let them win, or don't talk to them.
@edpotter11705 жыл бұрын
i love how Chris was trying to save Brie from going down that path but Brie just won't get the hints, and continued on just to win an argument.
@snoopymochi5624 жыл бұрын
Ed Potter Don Cheadle was also next to her, trying to remedy the situation.
@ultrabigfella4 жыл бұрын
I feel like with her below sub-par acting, her sucky emotional range, and the fact that she can't pick up on any context clues at all, she might be somewhat sociopathic.
@lordfabulous61984 жыл бұрын
@@ultrabigfella she's a narcissist. She probably wasn't before but there's a lot of signs to it now. Fame can do that.
@adumdumdum4 жыл бұрын
@@ultrabigfella I know this is totally off topic but how do I apply to your sanctuary?
@ultrabigfella4 жыл бұрын
@@adumdumdum It's a sanctuary made just for you, No.😂
@AshleyWilliams-xq7lj Жыл бұрын
What works for me is flat delivery with a smile at the end. People look over at me with confusion because I'm not sarcastic often, then they see the smile on my face and laugh.
@beetalius Жыл бұрын
She could have been a MASSIVE star. But she shat on it with her personality
@theheavenlyfb40713 жыл бұрын
when you're taking negative intent from a question as simple as "are you left-handed" then you need to reassess how you perceive people's intent.
@OfftoShambala3 жыл бұрын
Yes, but that can also be a manipulation depending on the context and maybe what seems ambivalent to the observer is an attack upon a person based on previous engagements that the observer may not be privy to... sociopathic manipulators love to do that kind of thing.
@theheavenlyfb40713 жыл бұрын
@@OfftoShambala Not sure how you can manipulate someone over something as simple as asking "are you left-handed", I mean the context HERE is a yes or no question. It's not really anything philosophical or deep, it really was just a yes or no response. It's like being asked "would you like some water" and the response given is "Are you going to waterboard me?!". It's extreme, but still a huge leap in logic just like what Brie did here.
@headphonic83 жыл бұрын
The point was she was being sarcastic at that part and joking
@OfftoShambala3 жыл бұрын
@@theheavenlyfb4071 see how well that sort of thing would work now?
@theheavenlyfb40713 жыл бұрын
@@OfftoShambala my stance on the matter hasn't changed
@rileymclellan89533 жыл бұрын
I never understood why people didn’t like her until seeing how she behaved in these interviews. It’s really uncomfortable to watch.
@lambgaming13473 жыл бұрын
Definitely
@brynbrew3 жыл бұрын
Meh, these types of interactions happen regularly in real life.everyones battling their own inner insecurities. It's really not that bad. Just seems bad cause it's on big shows where everything has to be perfect cause showbiz.
@melonytoni90163 жыл бұрын
@@brynbrew The fact that she cant even keep it together as a professional in a few minutes of spotlight, makes me think she is much worse in normal life.
@brynbrew3 жыл бұрын
@@melonytoni9016 Everyone has flaws. Get over it.
@hambeshdahfer95313 жыл бұрын
@@brynbrew Yes we all have flaws. being entitled and dismissive to negative traits makes you toxic.
@geronimomiles312 Жыл бұрын
Social grace often competes with truth ... And folks may find themselves in a dilemma as to which is their higher calling. The blended situation of presenting herself , both, as she is , and yet still being on a stage at the same time may be awkward. To find out how any of these folks are , is a thing which really needs to be seen in person off screen.
@procrastnwriter4 ай бұрын
What a great way to explain it.
@ed.z. Жыл бұрын
I I could could time travel back 50 years I’d take this video back with me. Such great insights for self improvement.Much thanks.
@carazy123_5 жыл бұрын
The titles look like clickbait, but they aren’t What sorcery is this
@jadenn.hernandez77845 жыл бұрын
Carazy123 m a g i c
@ShinyPotato775 жыл бұрын
This is Clickbait,but its the good clickbait cuz it delivers
@iyankku5 жыл бұрын
That's what I appreciate about the channel, it feels like he actually cares y'know!
@FreakyFeline885 жыл бұрын
I know right haha
@SuperIvysaur5 жыл бұрын
"is that like a personal attack or something?"
@mariannahunny5 жыл бұрын
Brie sounds like she is always on defense mode.
@chunkbaby75445 жыл бұрын
Famous rich feminist actor. The title explains it all
@kennapersonal5 жыл бұрын
True
@kweku2825 жыл бұрын
TRUE
@kweku2825 жыл бұрын
@@chunkbaby7544 EVEN TRUER
@pukljica5 жыл бұрын
Yeah true..maybe she grew up in codependency with borderline parents wich makes her defende her self all the time even now idk its hard to be around people that takes everything so personal!
@tessapuccini9788 Жыл бұрын
Reading positive intent in an ambiguous situation - Sarcasm requires a 'tell- You should not call into every opportunity to draw attention to yourself - You should not try to win over each moment or banter - Handling a complement (with humor), playfully with humor. Sincere thanking the other person ❤
@mikemick7543 Жыл бұрын
brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.” So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week. And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?
@mikemick7543 Жыл бұрын
People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done
@mikemick7543 Жыл бұрын
People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done
@kinderkarr Жыл бұрын
brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.” So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week. And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?
@andymelendez9757 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate this. I was in a sticky situation at work (that didn’t involve me) where I thought a male coworker was being rude to a female coworker. She had voiced her displeasure at his remarks. I thought he was harassing her. Turned out the real dynamic between them was totally different. Who knew. It’s all about context apparently?
@oldtimer5316 Жыл бұрын
Slow your role, Cap't Save-a-Hoe. Stop simping, nerd. You might just save yourself a beating.
@milanpenk95374 жыл бұрын
she is trying to be funny but ends up being rude.. classic mistake of insecure ppl
@AverageAlien4 жыл бұрын
either that or americans don't understand sarcasm
@cliffordbenenati73734 жыл бұрын
@@AverageAlien I'm american, I understand it perfectly, and love it 😂
@peterparameter11254 жыл бұрын
Maybe, but no reason for all the incel hate
@jkad13634 жыл бұрын
@@cliffordbenenati7373 no you're not American and you don't understand sarcasm,.. 🙌👏Boom bruned💥
@cliffordbenenati73734 жыл бұрын
@@jkad1363 "I'm american and understand sarcasm" "No you don't" Sounds like a meme lmbo
@chewingpeppers4 жыл бұрын
The sad thing is that you can actually see how insecure she feels the whole time... otherwise, there would be no need for all of those weird actions. Hope that she can grow comfortable into her own skin, I'm sure that she can be great if she deactivates her defensive mode!
@bug54604 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I feel like she’s just masking her insecurities in this whole “I’m so confident and amazing” act. I really hope she finds out who she is instead of faking it :,((
@randybobandy6784 жыл бұрын
Shes just self absorbed
@kledi38174 жыл бұрын
@@randybobandy678 she's really not, she said herself that she has a lot of anxiety all the time and is really socially awkward and you can definitely see that
@CriticalHater4 жыл бұрын
Hey You a public figure will be judged regardless.
@metanoia34384 жыл бұрын
Overlord Supreme so public figures aren’t people too?
@AA-yc3cc Жыл бұрын
I always assumed Brie had been sarcastic and joking in all these interviews because I have the same sense of humor as hers. I was really surprised when people viewed it maliciously. It's the same way I'm sarcastic to an extent where you're just saying silly over the top things. It was a technique to make an uncomfortable situation more comfortable. But I used to make people feel awkward as well not realizing they weren't picking up on my jokes. I've since realized this and only go to this level of sarcasm with people I'm comfortable and closer with. People are more likely to assume negative intent with sarcasm even if you never mean it that way.
@yunawinx Жыл бұрын
i mean i’m one of the most sarcastic people and i could hardly tell if she was being serious or not because her tone not body language doesn’t change which is the point of sarcasm😭 otherwise u get someone who seems defensive
@milliesaysokboomer Жыл бұрын
I think it's the delivery of the sarcastic joke. I have the same problem. I have a personality that comes off as serious or quiet, and this bleeds into my sarcasm as well. it all really depends on what people already think of you.
@aquilifergroup Жыл бұрын
It’s not a sense of humor. It’s being unpleasant
@incarnate327611 ай бұрын
Personally I find sarcasm the funnier, the more serious the delivery is. Making it obvious, makes it to shallow for me.
@ncs905911 ай бұрын
Same... I thought that was the point of sarcasm. I also thought the example of "good" sarcasm with the eye squint was much more serious and I thought she was genuinely offended saying "thats my family".
@MrSzymonurai10 ай бұрын
These videos are incredibly useful. This helps people who never get to practice their social skilss
@liligonzales65344 жыл бұрын
damn im gonna come out of quarantine with a whole new personality
@feedstacker4 жыл бұрын
LOL
@kala-adaidakariopusunju68094 жыл бұрын
@@feedstacker lol you been binge watching Charisma on Command?
@SNTMLI4 жыл бұрын
as you should
@liii36224 жыл бұрын
and a pshycology degree
@x0aei4 жыл бұрын
@@liii3622 INDEED HSHHS
@PronkDaMonk5 жыл бұрын
Don Cheadle is just sitting there like "please end this I just wanna go home"
@issykali_inc5 жыл бұрын
Priyank Bhatia lmao and their characters are supposed to get all lovey dovey pretty soon
@kingmuizz7085 жыл бұрын
Lol
@kingmuizz7085 жыл бұрын
@@issykali_inc ifkr😂
@Jay_Script5 жыл бұрын
Imagine when they have to kiss? Imagine the passion that will go into it 😂
@LarissaCerqueira5 жыл бұрын
After doing like 62362783624 interviews, of course he is, who wouldn't?
@Athena023611 ай бұрын
I find the fifth point especially interesting from a cultural perspective. In some cultures people tend not to accept compliments because they are educated to “stay humble” or even to deny compliments. A typical (yet unfortunate) example is when someone praises a child for his/her academic achievements, parents brush it off as the child “just being lucky”
@Laf63111 ай бұрын
The example in the video isn't her downplaying a compliment, though; it's her using it as another opportunity to keep the "fight" with Chris going. She says "that's really nice, I'm still stronger than you though." If she had said "that's really nice, but I think you're exaggerating" or something like your example, it would have read completely differently.
@aymane974 Жыл бұрын
Having a conversation after watching these videos feels like a chess game 😂
@bartsimpson8330 Жыл бұрын
It’s not it’s just you overthinking it. 1. Someone comments you negative way then respond positive 2. Stay humble by making a joke about yourself at times. 3. Don’t take things too serious
@Corrocon5 жыл бұрын
What further hurt her in that interview, is that she has stunt doubles and she just chose to not acknowledge them.
@carsonrush33525 жыл бұрын
I know she had a butt double, but did she have any other functionality out of any double(s)?
@MrAnonymous6505 жыл бұрын
She even have a butt double.. lying biatch..
@geethsan15675 жыл бұрын
@@MrAnonymous650 a Butt Double?! Seriously?
@martintieber77565 жыл бұрын
@@geethsan1567 I'm not sure myself (it seemed true ac ouple of weeks ago, but somehow a lot of info on that topic vanished), but apparently she doesn't have the backside for her costume...
@setakh5 жыл бұрын
Yup, she has 2 actually...
@samuelf71635 жыл бұрын
Gosh, I feel bad for Chris. Just look at his face. He's just trying to save the interview whilst she thinks it's a competition
@leeniraukola51685 жыл бұрын
Samuel F Exactly what I thought
@NewG_JL5 жыл бұрын
which Chris?
@irvanwiguna74155 жыл бұрын
@@NewG_JL yes
@BabeRuthXX5 жыл бұрын
Ikr and he's not the most outgoing or talkative of the cast so I can't imagine how awkward he must have felt trying to put out that garbage fire :/
@samuelf71635 жыл бұрын
@@NewG_JL maybe Chris Hemsworth but idk
@steelmadness290311 ай бұрын
I’m not good at aspects of my job, and yet I keep advancing and the higher ups tell me how much they like me and how well I get along with my supervisors and peers.
@czr7j9 Жыл бұрын
Just be yourself and if people take it the wrong way then it is their problem.
@razibbaraljoy99784 жыл бұрын
Thanos has more supporters than Captain Marvel.
@visionist74 жыл бұрын
Thanos has actual charisma
@aspennnnnnnn4 жыл бұрын
Thanos probably has more supporters than most characters in the MCU, honestly. He's hard not to love.
@micanikko4 жыл бұрын
I actually was supporting Thanos during her fight with him
@murphie_45594 жыл бұрын
Razib Baral JOY I hated captain marvel tbh
@mai.vancon4 жыл бұрын
Because society loves whether you are good or evil. They hate awkward.
@mi_na00135 жыл бұрын
She protecc She attacc But most importantly She thinks it's a personal attacc
@rithikachhetri96385 жыл бұрын
😂
@WingsofStarlight5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this XD
@rithikachhetri96385 жыл бұрын
@The Name Is Evian Heyy ✋can u pls reply dat why she is hated so much as captain marvel? ( she is strongest avenger) 【because I dont know much abt marvel】
@RagingRavioli225 жыл бұрын
@@rithikachhetri9638 I'm sorry, I kind of had a stroke reading that. Are you asking about why people don't like her as Captain Marvel or how people just dont like her?
@mt-zf6xp5 жыл бұрын
She protecc She atacc But most importantly She catch lots of flacc
@corrisauls9453 Жыл бұрын
Positive vs Negatice intent when viewing/receiving the universe. In otherwords -- interpretation.
@ronwrong-ef6ws3 ай бұрын
actor John Goodman does have one good friend who happens to be a newly minted Oscar winner: Brie Larson. "I love her. She is so charismatic. She would organize - she was like the only girl there, on set... every weekend she would organize stuff to do for people," he said of his Kong: Skull Island costar. "We'd go look at kangaroos and she'd organize a trip to an amusement park after they closed. Just stuff for people to do. Because she's over-sensitive about people getting nervous and angry and on each other's nerves. She's incredible."
@ShaunRF5 жыл бұрын
The incredibly stark contrast between her old interviews and her more recent ones is astonishing. Like watching two different people.
@AutumnSoldier4135 жыл бұрын
Possibly something psychologically bad happened to her. She seems defensive, rather than rude. People accuse her of not being able to read situations, whilst it is them who cannot read her
@aglayamajorem95465 жыл бұрын
@@AutumnSoldier413 Her PR didn't do a good job on that then.
@protokhaniapetos31585 жыл бұрын
rotaryfreak3 fame can do that
@anishinaabae5 жыл бұрын
it's almost as if people change as they age.
@sicemic5 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure if the format of the interview had anything to do with it. Talk shows are usually scripted or at least the guests know beforehand what to talk about, whereas film interviews are, to my knowledge, unscripted. But yeah, she is definitely different.
@aria_chatt4 жыл бұрын
She was straight up rude in the interview with Chris hemsworth
@Pinkielover4 жыл бұрын
lol shes rude period.... even war machine dislikes her
@btCharlie_4 жыл бұрын
I liked her in Scott Pilgrim, but her takes and composure seem really off since she got with Marvel. Perhaps she was hired as a sort tool for Marvel to show they empower women too? Idk if that's even plausible.
@_Chad_ThunderCock4 жыл бұрын
Can marvel just replace brie Larson. I just think she causes too much drama. I would be better and most people wouldn't mind the change(If they even notice lol)
@IvoryMane4 жыл бұрын
Pobrecita maybe she wants to stand out in this sea of famous people by playing quirky but she comes off as too serious and high strung...
@taurusdragon47634 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I think just because Marvel chose her to represent women's power, she thinks she's special or something. Hemsworth was trying to rescue the interview, but she's just too good at destroying it
@DeeperCurrents Жыл бұрын
If you look for bad intentions you will find things that make it appear as if there are bad intentions everywhere, it will poison every interaction and situation in life. Assume good intention, protect incase it is actually bad
@debbiesaunders181511 ай бұрын
Isn’t it funny, I’m British and a girl and I didn’t see anything wrong in how Brie came across. I took it that she was saying stuff with tongue in cheek. Trouble is with men, they THINK they are better than girls all round and when a girl highlight her strengths, men become defensive as if they are being challenged. Maybe I’m no good at ‘reading’ people, but I saw this as point scoring banter??? I have no idea how men and women ever get together, we are so different in the way we think, stranger still that they are raised by women in the main
@andersbillington65 жыл бұрын
*Brie Larson watches this video* "Is this like a personal attack or something?"
@jackalope23025 жыл бұрын
Depends Larson. What us old folks used to call "constructive criticism" is often interpreted as personal attacks. Its funny how much more charming she used to be.
@marcoglara20125 жыл бұрын
Anders Moe Billington “Yes... yes it is Brie. Everyone doesn’t like you.”
@mynamefrank65675 жыл бұрын
@@marcoglara2012 That's badly worded, "Nobody likes you" works better, just helping
@PedroARCruz5 жыл бұрын
Marco lara “Is this like a personal attack or something?”
@LuckySmurf5 жыл бұрын
@@jackalope2302 Well when some of the constructive criticism consists of just "I hate Brie Larson and here's why..." then yeah, it's easy to see why people might view it as a personal attack. But not this video though.
@bea49124 жыл бұрын
i feel like she was bullied or something when she was younger as she’s clearly extremely defensive. maybe it triggers something in her where she thinks everyone is being horrible-just a thought.
@drtaha49464 жыл бұрын
Or she could be an introvert, a lot of introverts have this problem
@esssymee72274 жыл бұрын
Yea, so why hate her
@msk-qp6fn4 жыл бұрын
I do so too and as someone who did go through bullying and have seen what bullying does to people, I know this type of behavior is not so uncommon among those who were bullied
@addibro42844 жыл бұрын
yeah, you'd just wish she could be a little more like she was in the Craig Ferguson interviews, where she seemed much more charismatic and likeable
@moodsofkiwi92854 жыл бұрын
Yea I struggle with being defensive too. I think it’s bc my mom used to be verbally abusive and I used to be bullied in high school. I always wonder why I feel the need to stand up for myself at every sharp joke. I’ve been working on being humble and laughing at myself but it’s so hard bc it makes me feel like I’m just getting bullied by everyone around me and I’m just rolling over
@Patrickbatemanharvard Жыл бұрын
As an introvert and a laid back person I really get her
@wherethequietbeingsgo Жыл бұрын
Same.
@pxrays547 Жыл бұрын
I've done this as far as being completely sarcastic and playing it straight. People give you that look and it can be damaging around people who don't know.
@danielandanthony89395 жыл бұрын
The way Chris Hemsworth moves his head around in disagreement was honestly the funniest thing I’ll see all week
@lukasakantu26425 жыл бұрын
That is an bold statment. Its only monday
@irondolphin15595 жыл бұрын
i know right. That was so funny. He honestly is my favorite lmao
@HiveDes5 жыл бұрын
He’s naturally funny as hell.
@tjw9375 жыл бұрын
Always timestamp!
@JohnWuWei5 жыл бұрын
@@tjw937 @7:35
@Krazyloko5 жыл бұрын
How to make yourself more likable: sit down, be humble
@purefatdude25 жыл бұрын
True, except there are a lot of people that like arrogant assholes.
@amaracea5 жыл бұрын
nobody will like you then. They can’t like you if they don’t know you exist. Be humble. But don’t sit down.
@edin4105 жыл бұрын
Being humble might be a showing a fake personality
@campkira5 жыл бұрын
Everybody at work.... Cannot be humble or no bonus...
@amaracea5 жыл бұрын
Edin To be humble does not mean to have a fake personality or to put yourself down. It simply means to listen to others when they speak. Michael Jordan was one of the most humble people on Earth but you’d never know it from his TV personality. But off the screen and off the court he’d listen to everyone who gave him advice, and it was listening to people that gave him his edge.
@bt862310 ай бұрын
I think it really just comes down to tone and body language. If she said all these same things in a certain tone it would be likeable and make her appear strong.
@tiarm-vh7pc9 ай бұрын
The gaslighting in this comment section. As an Australian Chris Hemsworth is acting like a typical Aussie bully they’re rude and make you uncomfortable but disguise it with “that’s my humour, that how I am”. When he’s knows he’s rubbing her the wrong way
@RottenZombieChick15 жыл бұрын
The Chris Hemsworth/Brie Larson interview made me physically uncomfortable
@winturs22015 жыл бұрын
Haley Waldow Don Cheadle in the interview kind of represented all of the viewers imo
@bubblegumplastic5 жыл бұрын
Everyone is so quick to blame Brie for it :( Maybe she feels pushed into a corner during promotions/on set and we're seeing the result of that. I've read countless unkind things about her role in the universe and her performance, rooted in her being "overly" strong as a character. A level of scrutiny that doesn't seem to befall Chris, his character is allowed to be strong and praised for being strong. I wouldn't be at my best either if I were her.
@BuumanJS5 жыл бұрын
So it wasnt just me LOL
@moonmothh5 жыл бұрын
@@bubblegumplastic the problem is that there is a lack of understanding between them in that interview. it was one of those things where some playful poking quickly became a real competitive argument because while both of them were joking around in the beginning, neither of them picked up on the others' jokes. they both ended up feeling insulted and became defensive.
@samsamsammy20135 жыл бұрын
bubblegumplastic Chris’s character is “allowed” to be strong and “praised” because of good character development. His strength is earned through 3 separate films compared to Captain Marvel’s mediocre single. She deserves every bit of scrutiny that is thrown her way.
@idino9245 жыл бұрын
As a person with asperger, this channel is really helping me a lot to understand people
@PrettyPinkPeacock5 жыл бұрын
I was thinking similarly.
@asstroeongdong-min17095 жыл бұрын
I Dino was gonna look for aspie comment and its right at second
@shame21895 жыл бұрын
Thats great to hear, i used to have severe aspergers as well, but i like to believe the internet, my therapy and smoking dope (yeah... Not recommended though i got addicted) made me able to understand how others feel alot better and i am now able to show empathy to people in a manner i could never have before, probably because of the way people can express themselves with freedom on the internet. I _almost_ feel normal.
@WingsofStarlight5 жыл бұрын
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS. I... THIS. I just IMMEDIATELY tagged this as "FOR MY FELLOW AUTISTIC FOLK"
@wowjennawow5 жыл бұрын
same here lol
@christopherlynch33147 ай бұрын
Reading positive intent into ambiguous situations is a superpower. Also, if someone is trying to cut you on the sly, taking it positively just pisses them off more. WINNING! As for praise. ALWAYS praise others! Believe me folks know your role. But if you constantly spread the praise to subordinates, peers, and superiors, you will be thought of highly by all. Great video! Subscribed thanks.
@gwotaharrve7 ай бұрын
hollywood actor John Goodman does have one good friend who happens to be a newly minted Oscar winner: Brie Larson. "I love her. She is so charismatic. She would organize - she was like the only girl there, on set... every weekend she would organize stuff to do for people," he said of his Kong: Skull Island costar. "We'd go look at kangaroos and she'd organize a trip to an amusement park after they closed. Just stuff for people to do. Because she's over-sensitive about people getting nervous and angry and on each other's nerves. She's incredible."
@rmar7081 Жыл бұрын
It seems like a nightmare to deal with Brie. I will not watch one movie of hers. I even rush to exit the commercials.
@balighy14725 жыл бұрын
Thanks now im gonna overthink every social interaction I have even more
@missbrooke6665 жыл бұрын
balighy IKR?! I often overthink my overthinking 😳
@richardbottom98435 жыл бұрын
just always think that people you interact with like you so you won't go defensive and the assholes will expose themselves soon enough anyways
@zeeshansyed5115 жыл бұрын
@@richardbottom9843 That's actually a really good tip, dude.
@sita4875 жыл бұрын
no need for that
@rosegold-beats5 жыл бұрын
Never think, go with the flow, you'll learn from your faillures
@elliottdennis20143 жыл бұрын
Imagine getting offended on your fictional characters behalf
@MichaelJakcsonMusic3 жыл бұрын
Modern Feminism at it's finest
@amiigogameshd70943 жыл бұрын
@@MichaelJakcsonMusic might as well call the police
@thomasbrown73283 жыл бұрын
@@amiigogameshd7094 lol right- he offended my fake character
@lollipopsfordays36103 жыл бұрын
Isn’t that what this whole woke era is based upon-being offended on someone or something else’s behalf. When we see it played out in immediate context it’s glaringly obvious how obnoxious, unbecoming and unproductive it is.
@oapeleftherotisaftistisepo95403 жыл бұрын
@@lollipopsfordays3610 except, your character is still an extention of yourself. So woke culture is much worse.
@leysin45611 ай бұрын
This is EXCELLENT. Wow I love this. Such a powerful analysis and clever. And not over judgy, just good.
@TheJofrica10 ай бұрын
I think she treated the Google questions like it was Mean Tweets and so was just in defensive mode because she thought it has to be like mean Tweets
@Fuzzy_Barbarian5 жыл бұрын
I always felt like people were overblowing things a bit, but that interview with Hemsworth is... wow.
@holo15605 жыл бұрын
He's a pretty chill guy too, if he doesn't like her something is definitely up..
@tiaaaron32785 жыл бұрын
The one with Jeremy Renner is even worse. He really looks like he can't stand Brie.
@iw69575 жыл бұрын
Yeah Hemsworth is the most easygoing guy to hang out with and if he feels uncomfortable then things are really not ok right there. But Brie was great back time, I wonder what changed her of being so offensive about every statement toward to her. It’s really cringy to watch her talking😕
@taliajee15 жыл бұрын
Neo L Probably once she got her Oscar
@kyushirokun5 жыл бұрын
@@iw6957 the sjw rhetoric I'd guess. I have experienced some of my formerly lovely ex aquaintances flip their personality after being exposed to the talking points and identifying with the ideology I'm guessing? Then it becomes a game of gaining acceptance from the, erm, "community", and by the time you realize you're in the race for the oppression Olympics well, it's already too late
@LaniakeaLeathercrafts4 жыл бұрын
Brie seems like a COMPLETELY different person in that older interview than in everything post-Marvel.
@free224 жыл бұрын
Something must have happened to her between those two interviews
@AlphaLuna4 жыл бұрын
Some people change for the worse when they get rich and famous.
@TheSwauzz4 жыл бұрын
@@AlphaLuna Great way to cast assumptions and judgment without knowing anything at all. For all we know she was assaulted and it unnerved her forever, or she lost someone that was her rock or she began having mental health problems due to people making grandstanding statements about her. Who knows? That's why we shouldn't speculate and say things about people we don't know.
@WiloPolis034 жыл бұрын
@@AlphaLuna Sometimes the internet attacks you like a pack of wild dogs
@garfan854 жыл бұрын
@@free22 Feminism happened
@kerik71769 ай бұрын
When you are comfortable with yourself, it comes across in all sorts of situations, even uncomfortable ones. When you're not, that's every bit as obvious.
@Sam-zt2sj9 ай бұрын
I don't hate her rather I understand her more, there are people will always find it hard to feel belong to society by not faking their attitude, I'm not saying you don't need to adapt just to fit in but she's kind of a person who need understanding, I say she lacks interpersonal skills and don't expect that most people have this kind of skills.
@fadedtoblue51774 жыл бұрын
Damn so this is what insecurity looks like on the outside👀
@winterblommetjie4 жыл бұрын
So cringey
@chichi77tim4 жыл бұрын
@John J Lucas Do you came out from the same cringey reddit page, like clones? How does It feels to share everyone the same one brain cell? 😂
@leobryant10114 жыл бұрын
Chizumi ??? You completely missed his point
@chichi77tim4 жыл бұрын
@@leobryant1011 I don't think so. Pure stupidity and cringey redditism isn't a point, no more than a tantrum. No need to nobilitate it with a serious response.
@leobryant10114 жыл бұрын
Chizumi well I think your misinterpreting his point. I’m fairly certain he’s referring to modern day feminism. And the modern day feminists have a history of doing terrible things so they don’t have the cleanest track record. I’m pretty sure he’s not against feminism, just today’s 1st world feminism.
@Phoenix_flame5 жыл бұрын
I like how you used both "do this" and "don't do this" examples from Brie. I thought it was gonna be more of a hate video.
@cceerrs5 жыл бұрын
Same...turned out to be just a somewhat funny video on how to avoid being like Brie haha yikes
@joetedrick47985 жыл бұрын
Yeah that’s the beauty of constructive criticism, it doesn’t feel like criticism really, more like guidance. It’s the best way to do these types of videos.
@SheldonBird5 жыл бұрын
Unrelated, but I like your tree peace symbol picture. It was supposed to be that way long ago
@pascalvanbeek63945 жыл бұрын
Yes, he did this amazingly well! Very well thought out criticism, with also room for praise. Too bad that a lot of the commenters on this video didn't see it like that and are dead-set on hating her. Praise to CoC for not cherry picking, and praise to you for noticing!
@RomanDiaries5 жыл бұрын
@@pascalvanbeek6394 Yeah. Shame to see the responses because I actually like her humor. I like dry humor and when things aren't in-your-face. Unfortunately, American media lacks subtlety and I feel like people assuming she's so serious about everything shows why that's the case.
@jirensentry7609 Жыл бұрын
This is when someone asks you a question and instead of answering, you pause and you try to figure out their angle for asking and then answer the question with an assuming, premised accusatory question. Usually that response as a question indicates something that you are well aware to be true about yourself or an act that you actually did against that person, but you state it as if you're implying that person is accusing you of what you bring up.
@jenniferschuessler3992 Жыл бұрын
I’ve never followed any of these people so the background with Marvel and how she may be feeling from those movies is interesting. Without that context my initial reaction or assumption would be that she and Chris had a thing going that ended badly where she now feels hurt, insecure or wronged in some way.
@deiz10834 жыл бұрын
Basically, "Don't be a Brie Larson, be a Chris Pratt".
@jhboob4 жыл бұрын
Or be a Russell Brand. Lol
@deliarebaudengo54404 жыл бұрын
'Be a man'
@Alresu4 жыл бұрын
Well, "Be Chris Pratt" is the answer for many questions regarding charisma.
@takitogoestoNY4 жыл бұрын
pretty much. sad but true
@arjunarun91474 жыл бұрын
Or be Hemsworth
@tavadaardendrian3194 жыл бұрын
When Brie brings up doing her own stunts, Hemsworth goes “ehhh okay” as if he senses the inevitable crap storm like a farmer senses rain
@uselesshero.official4 жыл бұрын
I really felt that it wasn't the situation to bring up that context.
@jemert964 жыл бұрын
I think anybody's reaction would be like ' jeeez okay there lady'
@goldenstatewarriors94184 жыл бұрын
Uh she doesn't do her own stunts.
@lepotato1354 жыл бұрын
I would like your comment but you currently have 666 likes. Hail Satan...
@vincentgodinez51444 жыл бұрын
5:44
@mattli911 Жыл бұрын
I once tried to date a girl that was extremely sarcastic all the time, but also in a dry way/like shown here. It was super awkward, especially when I'm more introverted/didn't get she was joking. So it just came across as almost being mean/serious. Needless to say, that only lasted a very short while.
@davidsinch Жыл бұрын
People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done
@davidsinch Жыл бұрын
brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.” So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week. And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?
@Broken-xp1lh Жыл бұрын
@@davidsinch also their looks but whatever
@MarklovesAngels Жыл бұрын
@@davidsinch Didn't you used to be mike random? You're saying the same thing word for word.
@alhusseinfarah41942 ай бұрын
I’m literally learning how to be a human, like an alien trying to integrate.
@leleprtk11 ай бұрын
People who think the world is against them and everything you say they interpret it as a personal attack ARE EXHAUSTING
@TheChuckfuc5 жыл бұрын
Why does she look so relaxed in her earlier years but so uptight in her recent interviews. Thanks for all likes
@washablejunk2815 жыл бұрын
Feminism
@Stratacaster875 жыл бұрын
Because her success has inflated her ego
@yotsuyu44185 жыл бұрын
I personally think she's under more pressure to be funny and likeable and therefore tries too hard. Her personality is more on the calm and shy side but now she's between people with big personalities and she tries too hard to be like them which makes her seem fake and annoying.
@summushieremiasclarkson47005 жыл бұрын
@Good Boy Points to expand, one of the major influencers is feminism, the insistence of superiority, and a false assumption that portatraying herself as a strong female character(tm) (the failed one dimensional cliché that it is, but that's not relevant) will also endear her to the masses. Unfortunately for her, neither women nor men like being preached to about a rich, narcissistic brat's self-assumed virtuosity. In actuality, she is neither strong nor brave, just annoying.
@frooitbox5 жыл бұрын
i realized that too. she seems pretty charming in her earlier years.
@zed30634 жыл бұрын
I think she’s a bit insecure which makes her defensive
@thebrightestsun46854 жыл бұрын
@@asimhussain8716 yeah, I mean I couldn't believe she is the same person
@l_will_be_great13264 жыл бұрын
I'm a very insecure person as I have ADHD and bad self-image, but I don't act like her, I instead always use humour and sarcasm to defuse any situation, it works all the time. Until people want me to be serious, at that point I just lock off and stay silent.
@stopbeinginsecure47864 жыл бұрын
Will H idk because I do this and people take it as an opportunity to make fun of me and AGREE with me. This always made my insecurity 1000x worse because it was like everyone was confirming what I was already thinking
@l_will_be_great13264 жыл бұрын
@@stopbeinginsecure4786 I know how you feel, thankfully I kept my circle of friends close and low overall maintenance, nothing to prove. Have 5-6 friends I've known since grade 7, it is hard sometimes for people like us but we'll get through it eventually..... hopefully.
@Owen-ub3fv4 жыл бұрын
I don't think she's insecure. 😏
@sagedandy1233 ай бұрын
Her acting in Room was outstanding
@goowan3 ай бұрын
I wish people would point out that Don cheadle was very hostile and Chris hemsworth were interrupting her and insulting her while she was trying to explain what she meant. Maybe she can be abrasive but honestly in this moment, it felt to me like Don and Chris were just ganging up on her and it felt very immature, like school-yard bullying immature. I feel the hate she gets is way too much, the MCU fans are VERY toxic and mean.
@goowan3 ай бұрын
actor John Goodman does have one good friend who happens to be a newly minted Oscar winner: Brie Larson. "I love her. She is so charismatic. She would organize - she was like the only girl there, on set... every weekend she would organize stuff to do for people," he said of his Kong: Skull Island costar. "We'd go look at kangaroos and she'd organize a trip to an amusement park after they closed. Just stuff for people to do. Because she's over-sensitive about people getting nervous and angry and on each other's nerves. She's incredible."
@jontalbot1 Жыл бұрын
Sarcasm and irony falls completely flat when you signal in such an obvious way - except for dimwits who have trouble identifying them. These are people who need to be told something is a joke before they laugh
@ru89814 жыл бұрын
There's always that one person in class like Brie
@artofreusing104 жыл бұрын
ikr!
@vyngo78254 жыл бұрын
If there's none, it could be you :v
@c3ntravaswani4274 жыл бұрын
I think thats me
@etheriusmoon18094 жыл бұрын
@@c3ntravaswani427 sme
@slytherinwife75924 жыл бұрын
@@vyngo7825 boom!
@Dredan1435 жыл бұрын
The avengers cast have perfected that friendly, jokie banter they do with each other when they’re in interviews and you can tell Brie just doesn’t get it.
@gemmapecorinigoodall91335 жыл бұрын
They've also been doing it for 10 years and this is her first time - they have history and she was thrust in there.
@Praying_ManTas5 жыл бұрын
@@gemmapecorinigoodall9133 Lol it has little to do with how long one has been cast in Avengers for.
@Dredan1435 жыл бұрын
@@gemmapecorinigoodall9133 While I agree that may factor in it, very few have been doing it the whole 10 years. The cast has grown and grown with every year and this is the only time I've seen someone just not mesh well.
@DomHowardsFluoPants5 жыл бұрын
@Sav Drako he's British, banters part of our culture. Best friend ? A shall call him a nonce. That's how we work. She wouldnae last 1 min over here
@Luke-kc9li5 жыл бұрын
brie reminds me of a feminist always having to wear the pants wherever she goes and nobody can stand being around her for more than 30 seconds
@vinson3114 ай бұрын
The first Brie interview proves something different to me. I think its pretty obvious she's being sarcastic. The problem everyone has is she's already done things to make herself unlikeable, so no matter what she does or how well it's done it's taken poorly.
@ralee-dp3gd4 ай бұрын
I wish people would point out that Don was very hostile and Chris was interrupting her and insulting her while she was trying to explain what she meant. Maybe she can be abrasive but honestly in this moment, it felt to me like Don and Chris were just ganging up on her and it felt very immature, like school-yard bullying immature. I feel the hate she gets is way too much, the MCU fans are VERY toxic and mean.
@beetalius Жыл бұрын
Hermesworth makes the “ugh, this person again” sound