How Couples Therapy Destroys Relationships | Talking Doesn't Fix Things

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How Couples Therapy Destroys Relationships | Talking Doesn't Fix Things

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Therapy can be more damaging than helpful. This is because so many therapists can be biased. They stack the decks against you from day one. However, there are some very good therapists but they are few and far between. You will be able to tell fairly quickly if she's a good therapist or not. If you talk about problems in therapy it can actually make things worse as this forces you to talk about the relationship and makes you look relationship focused. Remember, the worst thing to do is become overly focused on the relationship which creates more stress and drama.
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@donh1572 Ай бұрын

Couples therapy was very destructive in my past marriage. Hence, how I found this channel. We focused on the problems of our relationship rather then focusing on reattracting each other. Statistic even prove how high the failure rate is with marriage counseling

@DevelopAttraction Ай бұрын

Very true

@thomashilmersen711 Ай бұрын

Haha this is SOOO true! Imagine the guy sitting there a bit teary, talking about all his feelings and what he neeeeeds from the woman. She will lose all respect and desire for him, if she has not already.

@brookvalley907 Ай бұрын

Yes, exactly right. Women do not want men to talk about their "relationship". One woman said that she would rather have a man who acted like a man, even if she had to remind him that their anniversary was coming up. In fact, a man forgetting anniversaries was a man acting like a man. I have a feeling that talking about the relationship kills the relationship. Like Fight Club, the first rule of a relationship is that you don't talk about the relationship. You might say, "I would rather that you do this than that," but don't have a full blown discussion about the relationship. In my limited experience, that kills the relationship. If you get a therapist, get a personal therapist and make changes you need to make, but don't even let your woman know that you are in therapy.

@NedAznir Ай бұрын

It is true, few years ago I went to see couple therapy with my exgf, yes her woman therapist sided her most of the time. Most of all, she listened and trust her therapist than me. The fact that we have to go to see a therapist is already a red flag to me, for not being able to solve our own issues

@beinline2278 Ай бұрын

I read a post where a men told that after two month of therapy. That women behave that its always his mistake, And her mistake is also cause by him.. Most women go to therapy to feel good about themselves.

@Ace.0.0.0. Ай бұрын

To my mind, people must work on themselves to become better people. Therefore it pays to see a competent therapist without your partner. Become a better person, and you will attract better people (you will still attract the dregs, but you will have better options). Also know that nothing lasts forever. If she no longer enhances your life, then it's time to fly solo. If you stay on your grind, a better woman will find you.

@femidaramola3850 Ай бұрын

You're right...100% ...I never encourage therapy

@meme-zv7kw Ай бұрын

The therapist sided with my fiancé and tried to disrespect me in front of her. My friend is therapist and didn't recommend it he said most therapist are useless but we did uncover a very important issue. My fiance would use the silent treatment and stonewalling because she didn't know how to communicate her feelings

@paulbeharrell Ай бұрын

I remember therapy! To quote the woman therapist, "I'm telling you, the husband, what you are doing wrong". Everything, apparently 🤣

@robwebber1217 Ай бұрын

Go to couples therapy and end up parting anyway from a position of weakness or just walk away from a position of strength. I chose the latter. Trust me, when other women see that you can just up and go without looking back the attention you get from them is astounding.

@plasmaarmelund Ай бұрын

A therapist has zero interest in fixing problems. They want to keep you coming so they can squeeze as much money out of you as possible. Talk about a conflict of interest.

@PyroShields Ай бұрын

If this was true than they would be out of business. Therapist have a reputation to uphold, they are recommended if they fix problems.

@plasmaarmelund Ай бұрын

@@PyroShields Did you watch the video? Have you ever been to couples therapy?

@antonyjosse Ай бұрын

Absolutely right ✅️

@MrYoooki Ай бұрын

Love the new comic like thumbnails Chris

@cheezinhoweree Ай бұрын

I'll take this truth even farther .She had already left you several months before the therapy and probably has had replacement lined up during that time

@StrongBodyandMind33 Ай бұрын

The fact that the guy wanted to go to therapy is complete idiotic

@user-se8hh4uh6x 27 күн бұрын

Pussycat warrior 😂

@buddymutt123 Ай бұрын

For the algorithm

@DevelopAttraction Ай бұрын

Not really. No contact is for the algorithm

@G-spot911 Ай бұрын

Indeed. It's better and way more efficient to know the opposite gender's nature and biological hardwiring so we can know how to deal with them under any circumstances.

@Ashish-ud8mm Ай бұрын

Hey I had a doubt is compatibility important between a husband and wife should you focus on that or if attraction is there then no need to worry about compatibility? Please reply