Any other things you'd like to learn about the 16 Personalities? Let me know in the comments!

INFJ: think->overthink->anxiety->therapist->cry->learn->become therapist

I think my favorite part about these is Frank doesn't come across as some arrogant expert like so many others do. His expertise is undeniable but the delivery makes it feel like you're discussing it with a friend and not being lectured.

I wonder how many times Frank laughed while taking the pictures for the thumbnail

“Everyone feels feelings” _The Thinking types would like to know your location_

INFP here. I process emotions that shouldn't even exist and hide them until I get home to scream.

How INTPs process emotions: *we don't*

I’m an INFP What I usually do is pretend I have none and drown my sorrows in books

Feeling for TP types be like: Oh no! Anyway

I’m an INTP, and I absolutely loathe talking about feelings. But I really like figuring out why I feel what I feel. I’ve never had a meltdown, and I think that’s why. When I feel strongly enough about something, I have to know WHY. Why do I care about x thing so much, that it affects me. And after I figure it out, everything is okay again. So, I think my problem is that I try to overanalyze and rationalize my emotions instead of just... feeling them.

"how the TP types process emotion" INTP & ISTP: *no*

INFP here. Many emotions make me overthink which causes disappointment from the whole universe at last.

How INFJs process emotions: *more processing*

21 years of my life and i still refer to emotions as "human emotions" whenever i talk about it An INTP.

I don't process my feelings, my feelings process me

Next do 16 personalities: As Coaches At Funeral At Gradation As sports fans

I'm an INFP but I love talking about my feelings, at least with people I'm confortable with.

Me an INTJ ignoring my emotions until I go into a breakdown point 😃

INTJ: I don't have time for feelings I shove them in a box with a timed lock so I can effectively schedule breakdowns.

INTJ : Eating emotions is our thing

Him every video: "Let's see if youtube would like to show a commercial." KZfaq every video: No I don't think I will

My friends: sis, talk about your emotions. Me, an ISTP: We don't do that here

I hope you get the full amount because your videos are good and you might be the first time I've seen cognitive functions discussed in tandem with MBTI.

ENTP processing emotions with no one else who can talk to them: Here, let me just construct a hypothetical person in my head and have a five hour long debate.

I'm an INTJ and the aspect about dealing with emotions only when you're forced to is so true for me, I recently talked to my parents about my future and so on and suddenly started to cry because I realized how important that actually is, thinking about it on my own I just went through it thinking logically

*me, an INTP trying to process my emotions:* hey, brain, what are we feeling? *my brain:* idk lol

as an istp I say: We feel emotions, and we know how to deal with them ALONE. emotions are too personal to be discussed with anyone and even when we want, it seems complicated and the other person doesn’t understand, so it’s easier to just leave. It's just our way

a sample of an INTJ (me) trying to use Fe and an INTP (my friend) being asked about Fi: He had a car accident, I asked him how he was, he only said he's ok and then he asked me to play a video game with him, so we did.

INFJ here , I am confused on the way of how I process my emotions. I want to be sad alone but when I am happy I want to share it with someone else

ENFP here. I turn my emotions into logical thoughts to figure out why I feel the way I do about a certain situation. It's a pretty productive way to understand myself and others. Also, figuring out people's intentions, biases, and motivation are good ways to turn your emotions into logic. This way, it is easy to find solutions to either cut toxic out people from your life or to keep people who are "rude" but ultimately want the best for you.

INFJ- yeah sometimes I have no idea what I feel because I have x amount of possible feelings I am feeling and I just end up getting confused. I can understand what others are feeling but sometimes I dont understand my own feelings. If that makes sense...🙃 I just can't filter...to many feels. When I found out I was INFJ I realized that's just how I'm wired...and I'm not alone! Which is very nice to know. 😊😊

All the IxTx's saying they simply don't process their emotions LMAOOOOO

Intp: we feel emotions but we put them into a bottle and hide them where we can't find them. until they overflow onto a random person for unknown reasons in the form of sarcastic ridicule. Which make us feel much better.

INTJ My feeling only really overwrites my thinking when I have a VERY intense emotion My focus is moving on from that feeling thinking what's next instead of feeling in the moment

As an INTP, I suppress my emotions but still feel them, if that makes any sense. I don't like thinking about them but they still show up in my body language and facial expressions, so the people around me know what I'm feeling but don't know why I'm feeling them because I don't talk about it. I have trouble articulating my feelings without snapping and ruining all of my personal relationships. But that's more of my problem rather than an INTP problem.

Enfp is so true. I mean I mostly just joke through pain and not let myself feel it. I show surface level feelings but when it’s deeper things I don’t want to talk about it, and like I said will try and distract myself to feel better, not with logic more like replacing a bad feeling with something I know makes me feel good,

As an ENTP I've said for years that I don't even know what I'm feeling until I talk about it out loud. I'll even record myself and listen back, so I can quantify what I think I might be feeling. Everything you said about extraverted feeling resonated, even though it's my third function.

As an ENTJ, my feelings are so deep, that you'd have to drill through earth to actually find them. In short, do not try to find them. Abort mission.

Thank you!! I can now understand my family’s way of expressing emotion (and their confusing emotional outbursts). Spot on. ~INTP, with a family of INTJ INFJ ESTJ and ESFP.

xxFP on the bed: "This feeling is so important to me, that's why I can't move it"

I think it is best to think of INTPs emotions as being fire contained in a box. A small fire can be contained, but the bigger the fire gets, it will eventually consume the box and the area around it.

As an INFP I do spend a lot of time processing my emotions by myself, but within the last few years I’ve definitely opened up to a few people in my life about my feelings. I’ve been going through a lot of confusing negative emotions due to personal problems, and it was hard handling them on my own. Sometimes I feel like I talk about my feelings too much with certain people.

As an ENFP I really like writing poetry to express my emotions especially if I’m upset about something I’ll just turn it into something really dark and dramatic instead so it’s like a piece of art..I turned bad experiences into good things basically

I (intp) realized i can't cry on my own, it's only while talking to people that i can get to cry. I realized that i don't live through emotions of what happens to me, but i'll process them later while having empathy for fictional characters. I guess Fe is the reason i got into slice of life animes...

I’m processing my emotions rn because this KZfaq guy has the audacity to make me wait for a premier of this MBTI video.

I’m an ISTP and this is how I can best describe emotions from my angle. I know I feel emotions, but I struggle to pinpoint how I am feeling at any point. Like right now, I feel stressed because I have a lot of work to do, but I’m content and I’m happy but I’m not happy. So when somebody, like my husband, wants to talk about feelings I just dismiss it because I don’t really know and I can’t really be bothered to figure it out. I do know that if people try to pull emotions from me I will shut down and seem like I don’t care, and sometimes I don’t care. Like therapy for example, there’s not a chance I’m gonna open up. Another thing is when I find people over emotional, I struggle to empathise if I think they are overreacting and in general find people that I see as over emotional annoying. So yet again I will shut down and come across cold.

I'm an infp and I always thought I'm an open book, I thought I'm sharing enough with my friends but I really wasn't. I'm always lost in thoughts, cant stay in a moment and become invisible for months... I only recently realised how difficult I've become to deal with because of my overwhelming emotions

Me, an INTJ going through a break up atm : "What is the pain but a data i have to add to my daily plan ?"

Me, an ENFP when I have negative emotions: Baby you ain’t even here you’re just my ✨hallucinations✨ **Acts like a happy 5 year old at a birthday party**

As an ENFP, I find people can easily talk to me about their emotions, and while I usually always engage, I almost never talk about my own emotions. It’s just much harder to get out there bc I feel like I need to process them myself, like no one will understand if I tried to let the emotional diarrhea out. Not even I understand my emotions sometimes, lol. When I’m feeling strongly about things (usually negative) I have a million thoughts bouncing around in my mind, and sometimes I feel like I’ll go crazy if I don’t let them out. So naturally instead of talking about it, I now I just keep a stress journal where I scribble down everything I’m feeling/thinking about, and it’s all so messy and random and heavy that I literally never read it ever again. After that’s done, I’m good as new (-:

ENFP: I was depressed for the longest time so now when I feel ANYTHING (positive or “negative”) that doesn’t spiral me into hopelessness, I see it as a work of natural beauty that I have the privilege of experiencing. Crying is my favorite thing because it rarely happens, I can’t get it to happen, and when it does happen like once every 3 months it’s like the northern lights. Usually have to scream to get that energy out.

being a INTP dealing with emotions it's the most scary and uncomfortable thing ever cuz you don't want to have them but they are there at the surface

As an INFP I just need to completely shut people out of my life to process my emotions, I absolutely cannot deal with human interaction at such time and sometimes it take me a month or two to get back to reality and converse with people again but then most of my friends just think that I am ignoring them or have some sort of problem with them and will create unnecessary arguments in which I have no energy to participate because here i am going through my own personal crisis and I cannot deal with people who think i don’t care about their “Friendship” and that i am ignoring them on “purpose “ Why can people just understand “Live and let live”

How do I process my emotions? Simple: I just don't. I choose to ignore them and it's been working out just fine for me. I'm 100% not having mental breakdowns on the inside from bottling everything up. - INTP

INTJ here. I've worked with developing my feeling functions for years. I know a few IXTP's, and I would like to tell all of you here that feelings are not that scary / dangerous. You will not betray your inner self, but rather strenghten it :)

Frank has a friendly way of explaining everything

I feel like someone actually understands me for once. I’m ISTP and whenever I have deep emotions I’ll hold it in for a few days then throw everything up onto whoever’s poor soul I happen to be friends with at the time, and they never really understand me: they’ll be like “oh yeah, don’t put pressure on yourself” LIKE THAT HELPS. Thanks FJ this made me feel like I’m not completely alone- not in a creepy way 😂

Intps processing emotions: Confusion Rationalizing our emotions and applying logic to not letting it take control over our decision making abilities. Alone thinking/pondering If we are offended by someone we have a delayed anger phase. We will make light of the situation at the moment but after thinking we will began to feel anger and so it builds up until we can't suppress that anger anymore.

It surprises me how deeply you seem to understand the different types.

I'm an INFJ and one of my best friends is (I think) an ISTP who has really shut down her emotions. When I poured out my heart to her, she just stared at me and smiled. She has told me she doesn't feel much of anything. The best thing she could do when I'm upset is to pat my hand and say, "I don't understand, but I'm sorry you're hurting."

This is so spot on! I'm an ENFP, and since I was a kid, I always get pretty withdrawn when I'm feeling my feelings (to the point that I wondered if I'm introverted). I just like to write down how I'm feeling alone and think about it until I feel better. Including other people in that process feels so clunky to me? Because then I have to pay more attention to what others are feeling ABOUT my feelings instead of just paying attention to my own feelings, if that makes sense. I guess it's a little hypocritical because I'm the emotional support friend who's always ready to listen, but I rarely open up about my feelings until after I've processed them alone

As an INTJ I think, that I just know a few go to emotions very well... some that are fairly simple to detect, like excitement and anger. But others are complicated, like general sadness or lingering frustration for example. I don't like how thinking them through slows me down... and the result is not important most of the time anyway, 'cause they'll pass after a while... and I've got things to do. And I don't know if it's just me, but I don't mind shoving some feelings away. It is not unhealthy if you genuinely don't care. It's just practical.

“Don’t let it pile up” is simultaneously the best advice I’m given and the most unfollowed advice I’m given when it comes to emotion.

As an ENTJ, once I started giving space to my Fi to breath I was able to find some peace of mind and came in terms with myself in differents part of my life. I like to say ''I used to want an empire, now I only want a bass. I've been humbled'' Hahaha. It gives a whole new perspective to things and to whatever plans I am making. Still pretty anoying to have it most of the times, but you gotta let it shine once in a while!

I'm ISTP. It really is like that. Emotions only felt real if I try to talk about it with someone.

ENFJ here! I spent so much time paying attention if everyone was alright that only now I'm learning how to recognize and validate my own emotions...? It usually came all rushing in after school so I didn't understand exactly what I was feeling... Those mixed feelings only made the process harder-

Enfp here and I got an INFP friend just an year ago, I never shared my true emotions with anyone but ever since I've met her, it's just that everything gets out of my mouth, the personalities click so much that I really want to share. But I only share when I actually figure out what I was feeling. If I was hurt I'd share once the thing stops hurting me.

I've watched the whole educational playlist ( and noted some things), I FEEL SO EDUCATED! Please don't stop making these, FJ. 🥺❤️

This was actually very helpful to me, James. As an ENTP, I do notice that I understand my feelings better once I speak about them with a friend/friends. 🙏 Thanks for coming through!

I’m so glad you’ve been going over cognitive functions; it’s really helping me as a writer to get into the heads of my characters!

Thank you for this. I am going through something difficult. Thank you for saying it’s okay to feel whatever it is you’re feeling and you don’t have to judge yourself for it.

ISTP, how I would process emotions would be I simply just do it in private. I do not allow my emotions to be seen by any other human being that knows me off screen.

If emotions are data, then you simply create a new folder eg "Garbage", put them in and make the folder unreadable. Also make sure there are no pets, kids or weak and fragile creatures around when the folder becomes too big and you activate Hulk mode to delete some of the content. It's not that we give a damn about weak and fragile things, but there are laws which protect them nowdays and you might get into trouble. INTJ advice.

As an INTP and an autistic person I would recommend getting interested in human psychology and sociology. Just use analysis, memory and ability to learn to understand how humans think and function. Learn how the brain works, how emotions work on the neurological level, where they come from in different people and how they affect them. It usually comes down to the basic psychological needs and how different people try to meet them. On deeper levels Myers-brigg is a good tool to understand It. When you learn It on a one-person level You can add social dynamics on both big and small scale and soon It all will start to fit. It's true that It seems like a lot of work but It's interesting and for INTP's It's what matters, I think. Being undiagnosed as autistic most of my life and trying to adapt It was a natural way of masking developed since childhood but now It's both a tool and an interest to me. Just remember to keep in mind that other people have different priorities and ways of interacting with the world and processing information, It's the key to communication. Even If You don't want to fit in anymore, It's good to understand yourself and surroundings. I think that an INTP can adapt their introverted thinking to meet the role of extroverted and introverted feeling, at least when interacting with people they know well and to deal with their own emotions, which to most of us seems to be the priority considering our lowered social needs and a preferance to interact with smaller groups of people. Not always, but very often. Also, accept Your own emotions and a fact that they affect You. They do. You are a human. It's an objective fact. Deal with It. ☕

Other peoples' emotion's? Yeah they're easy to understand. But *my* emotions? Nah, no clue how to process those, they aren't important anyways, lol

I'm ENTJ and this perfectly explains why I now deal with my feelings bit by bit, rather than waiting for them to explode into regrettable decisions!

Who else remembers frank from the personal infj vids, he’s grown his platform so much honestly even though I wanna be selfish and say “GIVE US MORE INFJ ADVICE”, really GOOD JOB FRANK!! Thanks yous🥺💟

I'm an ENFJ and I recognize that enormous need to share my feelings with others, but at the same time, I don't trust many people with my feelings and vulnerability, because I was bullied as a kid. So that's confusing and it feels limiting.

ISFP here, I love storytelling so explaining my emotions in a relatable, funny, and accurate way is really appealing to me. Using it as a way to connect and putting on a show helps me get out of any spirals and view my emotions in a more positive lens. Even if it all happens in my brain lol. There’s an imaginary therapist living rent free in my head. 10/10 would recommend for fellow broke ppl.

Hey! I'd be happy to see your brother, Tommy, in your future videos, he ads contrast to your personality plus, he reminds us of family and togetherness and it's comforting to watch 😄

11:24 “Interesting” is just the word that I say when I feel something, so u better stop reading my mind -INTJ

As a depressed INFP I process my emotions ignoring them and escaping to the ideal world that only exists in my head

great video! i liked how u gestured to one side or the other when talking about the introverted feelers vs extroverted feelers ...it kept clarity on the subject matter to which u were referring. thanks 🙏

really needed this. lately been feeling the need to cry, but havent felt like im in a safe enough space to do so. dont want to be ridiculed or patronized for it, and just really really want a warm hug

As an INTP i deal with my emotions just fine by myself most of the time, but when it comes to share the emotions with other people i can't deal it nicely. Like i would like to let my emotions out but it can go out of control because i can't handle them i don't really know how, and after that i would think that by doing so i am hurting the other person but it's better than hurting myself. Emotion is just a difficult thing to handle with. Any INTP who experienced similar thing?

Really excited for this one

This was really insightful and I'm very thankful

My bf does not want to take the tests and doesn't really get into psychology. So I've been trying to figure out his personality type. This video helped me narrow it down to either ISTP or INTP. Thank you, FJ!

Whenever I can get my ISTP husband to simply say "I feel upset" I consider it an absolute win.

As an ENTP, I feel like I don't understand my feelings until they come out in my behavior, and then after they do, I look back on the situation and empathize with my past self and figure myself out as if I was a different person. This lets me use Fe and Ne to figure out myself in the same way I do with other people, and then process that and figure out what to do with it.

The intro track and dialogue be so smooth! So much rhythm :))

Thank you for this video! I've always been an INTJ, but I was confused about Fi vs Fe, so I thought I might be an INFJ or INTP or something. This made it super clear! I definitely use introverted feeling and not extraverted feeling!

12:17 as an ENFJ who is also a 5 on the enneagram (aka the INTJ equivalent of the enneagram), I find that this is one of the reasons I've struggled a lot with the personality I have because I am not very open about my emotions at all, I mostly express them with as little effort as I can manage and hardly EVER talk about them. I also love people and get super lonely but because of the two-faced personality I have I haven't managed to find a healthy balance whatsoever also due to my health problems. Man this comment turned out longer than I thought, maybe I do sometimes talk about my emotions but only in spaces I feel are very safe and where I can be understood, like here on this channel

i’m scared. i’ve never related to something so much in my entire life. I’m ALWAYS looking for things to describe and relate myself (ps: i’m a ENTP) and when i find it it’s just mind blowing. Thank you so much for this videos, they’re really helping me out on knowing myself. ps pt2: Through the intire video i felt the urge to run and tell my friend about how relatable this was for me... and yes, i was blaming myself through the intire feeling.

I enjoy your offerings. I am an INTP and I do not like to externally express my feelings, or talk about them. When I was younger I didn't know how to deal with feelings but as I have matured I have realized that I can process my feelings and give myself permission to feel, realizing that feelings are transitory and they are not necessarily who I am but what I'm experiencing. I've also realized that I I'm not the slave to my feelings and I do not have to being miserable or upset or overly excited. It is important for me to experience but to remember that I am not that experience but I am experiencing that experience and observing that experience and using that experience to understand more about life as a human. It has really helped me to realize this, and also to realize this in relating to others. My daughter is an ENFJ and she loves to talk about her feelings. At first this was uncomfortable to me and I tried to help her resolve the situation for which she was upset. But I realized that she needed to express her feelings to come to resolution,....after experiencing resistance to my desire to help her resolve the situation. What she needed was to talk and to have me listen and validate her, as a person, who was experiencing internal conflict. This involves me going to and accessing emotions on what I call a heart level, that also integrated, let's say, thinking, with feeling on the Heart level,.... I was then willing to hear her without expressing my own opinions, hearing and validating her in dealing with and processing her inner conflict. The thing I love about being an INTP at this point in life, is that I can, through a maturing process, and learning and observing, now integrate feelings with an expanded rational and logical approach, that is more inclusive. By observing, I can understand better and come to some resolution. Instead of painful,....now my experiences are more interesting and intriguing in learning how to synthesize and integrate this Human Experience with my tendency to analyze and be more like a computer. People felt that I was cold and rejecting of their feelings. Yes, I felt misunderstood also. As I realized that I could use my T faculty to understand, others, and myself, I could thus integrate T and F, using T in it's ability to synthesize.

Thanks for the squarespace and personality tips!

I am an ISTP yet i do have a profound sense of sensing and talking about emotions. I guess i got this from having like a lot of experiences when I was a teenager or when I was young when life exposed me early on about this. Thanks for giving insight for us IPs 👌

Can you do 16 personalities in a haunted house :D

Thanks for the video!

This was such a good video!! I feel very validated as an extroverted feeler who struggles so much with not knowing what the heck is going on in my head until all of a sudden I talk to someone and it all comes out. I’d love some more in depth videos relating to the cognitive functions !!