How Dressing Well Can Give Women A Boost In Confidence And Help Take Charge Of Their Lives

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9 ай бұрын

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@cathyhanson5885 9 ай бұрын

Even if I am only going grocery shopping, I still get dressed and do my makeup and hair. It makes me happy to look good…

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Love that!

@susanbanton6338 9 ай бұрын

Me, too, Cathy. I moved a few years ago from Montreal to a much smaller city and the difference in the way people here dress is so obvious. I also never leave home without my makeup on and clothes that make me feel good regardless where I'm going. I've sometimes been told that I don't wear enough floral and bright colours by people I thought were friends. I do not like the way they dress but that's their choice. I dress for me and will continue to do so because I feel so good about myself when I do.

@janelleespinosa6247 9 ай бұрын

Yes, I do that everyday, even if I am walking to the mailbox, it's true! You take better care of your skin, ect.

@annn8389 9 ай бұрын

I hate to dis my retired neighbor but by looking at my her, I vow never to get out of the house looking like her. It is like she gave up on life. Granted, if you are sick, it is ok to dress down

@brendaroberts881 9 ай бұрын

Although I am 70 next year, I still put make up on every day and take care what I wear when I go out. Thank you so much for your inspiration.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Love that!

@musicmom614 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Beth for the pep talk. I was beginning to feel out of place lately because so many people dress so casually like exercise tights, baggy clothes in general just not good. As I look around it's unfortunate that a good deal of people don't take the effort to dress well. You have given me the continued confidence to dress for my day everyday even if I just working around the house.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

You are so welcome! Looking good and feeling good go hand in hand! People just don't know what they're missing.

@virginiagirl6628 9 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this. I’ve been depressed lately and definitely not taking care of myself. I will dress up to feel better!

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

It's been scientifically proven that looking good and feeling good go hand in hand. Remember when you had to stay home when you were sick and stayed in your pajamas for one or two days. How did you feel when you took a shower and cleaned up? A big difference.

@virginiagirl6628 9 ай бұрын

Great point! Yes, doing that raises my mood!

@erinj1360 9 ай бұрын

Maintaining routines and schedules is actually a survival skill taught during military training.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

We can learn a lot from our military!

@dianecyment1715 9 ай бұрын

I am retired, but I still want to be modern and relevant with my wardrobe. All your tips were so inspiring. Even when I am going to the grocery store, I put together an outfit that speaks confidence. I suppose I too want to exude good manners when I leave my house and interact in public. Thanks, Beth.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Good for you! Good manners are always on trend!

@lynnevogt6643 9 ай бұрын

Agree! I’m also retired & do the same

@dennyb759 9 ай бұрын

Don’t leave the house without her done ,makeup on n clothes that r for outside not gym or bed 😬I’m 72 My husband says why do u have to get so dressed up to run to the store. My Mom always said to don’t have to have money to be clean n neat when you go out. Great video 👍

@pearlbrandwein4731 9 ай бұрын

The Dress for Success philosophy of the 1980s coupled with N.V. Peale's Power of Positive Thinking enabled many women to climb corporate/non-corporate ladders of success into the boardroom and beyond. Those ideas and goals are still true & valid today -- 40+ years later! A confident woman in her suit of armor -- a power suit or power outfit can accomplish anything she sets her mind to in spite of many obstacles. I completely agree with you. Being well-dressed=a positive mindset, healthy outlook, radiant personality & optimistic approach to life.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

It makes a difference. A big difference!

@mikkiismyname 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Beth for this PSA! I've been on my soap box about this topic for awhile now. Lately, just watching yt videos of how ppl over 50, 60,and beyond dress in Milan for normal street wear has been very eye opening. They are classy, stylish but not over the top. We Americans could take a cue from them. Overall, we dressed better in days gone by.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

You are so welcome! It's so important to put our best foot forward each day. We're worth it! I love to watch that channel too. And you don't have to break to bank when it comes to style.

@jeanmostrom7195 9 ай бұрын

You are a CLASS ACT!

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

What a lovely compliment. Thank you!

@maureenturk8578 9 ай бұрын

I couldn’t agree more with you Beth! I make an effort every single day to look my best and take care of myself. When you look your best, you feel your best - and you emanate confidence. You attract what you project.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Love that! And it's so true!

@sylviamcneil7721 9 ай бұрын

So true!! Love this!! Thank you for all the style tips and lifestyle tips!!

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

WE are worth it! Thanks for stopping by!

@rosemarycrabtree5892 9 ай бұрын

So true and forgotten by any today. Thank you Beth for this encouragement.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

It is forgotten by many. But those of us who know the power of an outfit know it's transformative!

@allsquaredup9717 9 ай бұрын

When so many were joking about pajama pants and pandemic snacks, I was having nothing of that! I dressed everyday with the goal of at least looking cute, if not completely chic. I did my hair and makeup and put on something as IF we were going to have some guests drop by. I also found a produce company who started selling boxes of fruits and veggies in a local parking lot. Even though we are plant-based and typically eat pretty well, we never ate better than we did during 2020/21.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Good for you! And I'm happy to hear you were able to support a local vendor. And I bet you didn't have to shed any "covid" weight as so many complain about.

@leslieb4553 9 ай бұрын

I did the same thing during the lockdown. Got on a nice outfit, hair , and makeup every day. It sets the tone and you are ready for anything..

@wannabe41 9 ай бұрын

It seems to be hard for some people to let go of the super casual way of dressing that they adopted during the height of the pandemic. It’s discouraging to see so many people who think it’s acceptable to go grocery shopping or run errands dressed like they just rolled out of bed. Even when I’m less than enthused about going somewhere, I still make the effort to present my best self to the world. I find that by doing so, I feel better about myself.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Good for you! And the best thing is YOU feel better about yourself. And that's what it's all about. People just don't know what they're missing!

@MsAshmomma 9 ай бұрын

Thanks Beth. This was encouraging. You inspire me with your great fashion choices. Your advice transcends body type and ethnicity. It's all about aging gracefully. Thanks again and keep it going.

@sharonerenaldo3466 9 ай бұрын

Miss Beth, thank you for confirmation and you're 100% correct, one does feel better, when making an effort to look their best. God Bless you, and by the way, you always look good. Again, thanks for confirmation.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

You are so welcome! This is an important topic in so many ways. Thanks for stopping by!

@janetgraf905 9 ай бұрын

Thank you, Beth, for the inspiring and encouraging words. When I travel either in the car or plane, I put myself together with makeup and a nice outfit. I remember when everyone was dressed nicely to fly. Now it's anything is acceptable. I choose to get dressed comfortably but stylish . Thanks again, Beth.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Love that!

@tgardenchicken1780 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for the reminder!

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

@Grazilla52 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for this eye-opening video, Beth. I will keep Tom Ford’s quote in my ‘Reminders’ app & schedule it to pop up every day.

@gabrielleparis3532 9 ай бұрын

So much wisdom and wonderful philosophy in this video, Beth. I found this profoundly meaningful. Thank you🌹

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

You are so welcome! Thanks for watching!

@Avoid_Low_Frequency 9 ай бұрын

You relayed every single reason I dress well every day. I invest in my appearance every day!

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

And it makes a difference! How we dress and how we feel walk hand in hand.

@juliemycock648 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Beth for this pep talk. I am 63, I've always made the effort, clothes, makeup every day but this last 12 months after having one stressful situation after another plus my health having a funny turn as I phrase it, I have felt more negative than I've ever done and I admit I've said what's the point, and have found myself saying it too often. I've been diagnosed with several Thyroid nodules recently, so a Goitre, I've been referred to an ENT specialist, my appnt is Sept 8th hopefully thats been one of the reasons I've felt not myself. BUT, after listening to your video I am going to get my positive attitude back so thank you, and thank you for inspiring and encouraging us all. Kind regards Julie xx❤

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Health is such a big factor in our overall well being. I hope all goes well, Julie!

@juliemycock648 9 ай бұрын

@@BethDjalali Thank you Beth, it's much appreciated x

@janicerice8810 9 ай бұрын

Thanks Beth, you are a great role model. I had an amazing work wardrobe for 35 years, but have struggled to look good now I am retired and spend days walking the dog and looking after my home. I have found a nice outerwear wardrobe and scarves make me feel good even when just walking the dog. I also volunteer once a week that I always try hard to dress well, even though it is a casual environment. I still struggle with choosing everyday wear that is practical yet looks good. I appreciate all the casual looks you put together.

@SWIdaho2 9 ай бұрын

You might enjoy Kay Harms at Dress for My Day. 😊

@americanstyle6280 9 ай бұрын

Yes... agree 100%

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Glad to hear it!

@jackieedwards7672 9 ай бұрын

Yet another fabulous and encouraging post.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Thanks, Jackie!

@yamigonzalez50 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Beth ❤

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

My pleasure! Thanks for watching!

@patriciagodwin5036 9 ай бұрын

Thanks Beth for the reminder. Pat in North Carolina

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

It's a reminder we all need in an ever-casual environment.

@CanadianDivaDi 9 ай бұрын

Your channel has inspired me to step up my game. I love dressing up to go out even if it's to the grocery store. The other day a young women said to me as I was walking to the store (I'm 61) I love your style. Well she made my day. I could never go out in pajama bottoms and sloppy top like some do. It's all about self care.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Good for you! And you're so right about this being self-care. We are worth it!

@anakemple5698 9 ай бұрын

I worked in the office during the pandemic and the dress code was relaxed. I always made an effort to still get dressed with style. I totally agree, it does give me confidence and does show a kind of respect. Great video 👍 loved it!

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!!

@Nini51963 9 ай бұрын

Thank you !

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

You're welcome!

@melissabutler4633 9 ай бұрын

Beth-absolutely the truth! I cannot believe how causal people attire themselves today. Professional?? No!

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

But we'll just keep making the right choices. When we look good we feel good!

@marielb7881 9 ай бұрын

Thanks from Spain. All true. Gracias!! Kss

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@leticiainocentes4924 9 ай бұрын

Good day beth.stay safe an take care.God bless.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

Thank you! You too!

@jojodancer5016 9 ай бұрын

I fully agree, Beth. Thank you. How can we help those around us who seem to have lost interest or just don't care?? Without offending, of course. Thanks

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

We just keep showing up looking out together!

@madelinekimbro2440 9 ай бұрын

This is Mary Kay's philosophy as well. I need to step up my game.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

The good thing is it's never too late!

@rivert3dove254 9 ай бұрын

I think that was the main reason my mother gave up 2020 shut down, and her dementha took hold she totallu fave up 2021 April. She loced to go out travel spending time with friends, going to lunch and going to chruch. All that gone was her losing who she was and will to live.

@user-xt2se5qu6s 9 ай бұрын

Very true but some colleagues feel threatened by this and tried to say negative comments to put you down

@arwenhardy1995 9 ай бұрын

I'm 59 and recently diagnosed with an autoimmune condition. It has aged me, rapidly, so I don't bother with hair (falling out) or makeup. I'm not convinced it will help.😢

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

It's challening when faced with a health issue but it's been scientifically proven that there's a deep connection between looking good and feeling good.

@arwenhardy1995 9 ай бұрын

@@BethDjalali When I was young, my motto was "life looks better when you do". I was very pretty then. Now, I look like a scarecrow. If I'm modestly dressed, not sloppy & clean; that's all I can hope for. I'm an Atlanta native and enjoy your channel and sense of style very much.

@BethDjalali 9 ай бұрын

@@arwenhardy1995 I so appreciate you being part of the SaaCA family. Health issues are so challenging. But I will just remind you to "hangeth thou in there!" xo

@karlaristow3816 9 ай бұрын

It really does, pull it back and pin up in messy curls or bun and nice earrings and lipstick.

@arwenhardy1995 9 ай бұрын

@@karlaristow3816 Unfortunately, my hair is falling out and skin, lips, eyes are so dry, lip balm is all that works.😞

@mmcs4973 9 ай бұрын

My pet peeve is the habit of gym wear as clothing, which is specific to North America. This is NOT dressing well for all the reasons you listed. It's lazy, sloppy, unflattering, inappropriate and, yes, bad manners. And it does not matter how much it cost..🤨

@mariadelrosariopardofiguer5011 9 ай бұрын

If you cant do your Illanes ask to Any help😂

@user-xt2se5qu6s 9 ай бұрын

That’ll not put me off

@elisagorton31 9 ай бұрын

Just returned from a trip abroad. It was eye opening to see everyone including the younger generation dressed appropriately. No OMG moments seen. When returning home, the OMG and the what on earth wardrobe moments were seen everywhere. The attire and attitudes were deplorable and disgraceful.