How Habits of Honesty and Transparency Can Transform Your Life | Jennah Dohms | TEDxWhiteRock

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6 жыл бұрын

What if there was a habit that could help people break out of unhealthy patterns and into their dreams and goals? Jennah Dohms shares the need for true transparency and accountability with others. She experiences the benefit of this by using an accountability trio which regularly goes through a list of ten life questions together. She emphasizes that hard truths can come from a place of love and not judgement. To learn more about the list of questions visit jennahdohms.com.
Jennah Dohms is a motivated young woman who loves problem solving, empowering others and being a life-long learner. Some learning experiences include working on Parliament Hill, teaching English in the Middle East and China, directing events for different industries and working with Executive leadership teams. She is inspired to use her variety of international and professional experience to contribute to human development and dignity. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@angeliajackson6727
@angeliajackson6727 Жыл бұрын
Receive criticism and not be defensive about your failures - that spoke to me
@mustafaamjad899
@mustafaamjad899 2 жыл бұрын
Honesty. Such a simple policy that if we follow it truly, we can be happy and guilt free. Despite knowing that, sometimes we unfortunately fail to do even that
@himadrisonai8291
@himadrisonai8291 9 ай бұрын
people seems to be dishonest because of fear or greediness....if due to fear then it is acceptable..or if the reason is greediness then karma hits back
@coolfix948
@coolfix948 3 жыл бұрын
Honesty needs courage
@awanfarrell2880
@awanfarrell2880 2 жыл бұрын
The truth hurts
@fierce5273
@fierce5273 Жыл бұрын
I also think you need to be able to trust someone to be honest with them. Some people react abusively to the truth unfortunately. I wish that weren't true... :(
@offthewallart08
@offthewallart08 4 ай бұрын
Love this
@northernplaytime
@northernplaytime 10 күн бұрын
Honesty is dangerous
@RedhairedShanks09
@RedhairedShanks09 6 ай бұрын
Being honest requires courage to take the pain you get from being truthful with yourself. If you start being an enjoyer of pain. You will not be deceptive, ever. And you will be truthful with yourself.
@msve3730
@msve3730 3 жыл бұрын
The most honest people sleep well at night
@mikedrink3127
@mikedrink3127 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@habibaroyees
@habibaroyees Жыл бұрын
♥️
@hmdm5527
@hmdm5527 Жыл бұрын
Bs most lier lack empathy they care for no one but themselves.
@himadrisonai8291
@himadrisonai8291 9 ай бұрын
@@hmdm5527may be
@RC-ey4gm
@RC-ey4gm 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. Better to be known fully then to believed for a false version of yourself.
@missx2830
@missx2830 3 жыл бұрын
It can be really hard to look at yourself with complete honesty
@himadrisonai8291
@himadrisonai8291 9 ай бұрын
tes...sooooooo tough
@wesgh9579
@wesgh9579 3 ай бұрын
Yes, but well worth the journey, and more worth the freedom of becoming the true you!!
@arlinegeorge6967
@arlinegeorge6967 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful amazing soul . So true habits of being honest let u live in peace. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.
@nyriekathrynhadnot2015
@nyriekathrynhadnot2015 Жыл бұрын
I have learned that honesty gets me in trouble, gets a negative reaction, hurts others.
@nyriekathrynhadnot2015
@nyriekathrynhadnot2015 Жыл бұрын
I am trying to be less afraid
@lillithjones3787
@lillithjones3787 Жыл бұрын
Its the approach maybe, being honest doesn't necessarily be to be hurtful, people do understand with few words sometimes...
@tylertaws476
@tylertaws476 3 жыл бұрын
Honesty is the best policy.
@alkasoli4002
@alkasoli4002 Жыл бұрын
Truth hurts...but speaking out truth improves your memory power...oru kallam parayan ayiram kallam parayendi varrumennu parayarille.. angane..lie has a beauty only for a short period of time...but the beauty of truth is everlasting
@victorallencook7107
@victorallencook7107 4 жыл бұрын
I call out my OWN shortcomings .
@A_random_ww2soldier
@A_random_ww2soldier 9 ай бұрын
I love the fact that being honest is a good attitude. But sometimes you don't need honesty. You may have a bad attitude that you are aware of it. You just have to work on it and start to leave it. Honesty is good but we don't have to mistakenly consider being haughty with being honest. And after that we need to be honest with ourselves. Because if we don't we cannot be honest to anyone.
@stampingwithtori
@stampingwithtori 8 ай бұрын
I don't understand your comment. Who was talking about being haughty?
@brendantate2079
@brendantate2079 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk!! I will start the process (writing the rules and the reason) for this today. Maybe I will invite strangers to be part of my circle..
@victorallencook7107
@victorallencook7107 4 жыл бұрын
The current situations and conditions require endurance and patience .
@ryanfrizzell736
@ryanfrizzell736 2 жыл бұрын
Good video about truth and honesty. Now I have more truth and honesty instruments to exercise. Thanks!
@nellygirl
@nellygirl 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this tonight
@ko1533
@ko1533 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the great video
@ali.tomlinson
@ali.tomlinson Жыл бұрын
mutual accountability within a cohort is the most transparent growth builder. Kind collaboration creates an explosion of possiblities. I was so fortunate to virtually meet Ms. Dohms, eventhough it was a short twenty minute group interview, I felt honored to pick her brain.
@basslineur3965
@basslineur3965 3 жыл бұрын
This was an amazing talk
@michaelpacinelli4476
@michaelpacinelli4476 Ай бұрын
Hey thank you!
@victorallencook7107
@victorallencook7107 4 жыл бұрын
I call out my OWN transgressions and short comings .
@gavintoohey6604
@gavintoohey6604 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@michaelhibbert1613
@michaelhibbert1613 4 жыл бұрын
she’s very beautiful and great, deep words!
@JoelSHansen
@JoelSHansen 5 жыл бұрын
Amazing talk!
@treharrison4097
@treharrison4097 3 жыл бұрын
She had I business being this relatable
@lyra9988
@lyra9988 2 жыл бұрын
What?
@neighbor9672
@neighbor9672 2 жыл бұрын
@@lyra9988 they meant to type "She had no business being this relatable."
@bubsyoutube
@bubsyoutube 4 ай бұрын
Authentic Honesty Is The Way
@frankiej2682
@frankiej2682 8 ай бұрын
amazingly helpful
@victorallencook7107
@victorallencook7107 4 жыл бұрын
It's always love ............🙏✊👊👍👋🌞🌛🌱💧
@aadacharn1717
@aadacharn1717 Жыл бұрын
Her voice is soft ,so deep of honest and respectful. I will be honest one day.😂
@ethanmiller3287
@ethanmiller3287 2 жыл бұрын
amazing
@dailybliss1
@dailybliss1 Жыл бұрын
❤️ the smile
@VereniceBellido
@VereniceBellido 11 ай бұрын
I'm trying to do my life beautiful, and beauty is honest
@jackiec498
@jackiec498 3 жыл бұрын
"...and the Truth will set you free." -Jesus Sounds a lot like sponsorship as it's done in 12-step groups. I had never been ok with myself before AA.
@abonyfidow9659
@abonyfidow9659 2 жыл бұрын
So AA helped and not God.
@panes840
@panes840 2 жыл бұрын
@@abonyfidow9659 no AA incorporates stuff and even if it doesn't incorporate it a variety of things can help and work in synergy.
@KoolT
@KoolT Жыл бұрын
Let's hope this is instilled in childhood
@marilynm111
@marilynm111 2 жыл бұрын
The honesty really bothers other people. They are use to being dishonest. It’s funny in a way.
@spontaneousbootay
@spontaneousbootay 2 күн бұрын
i see.. like it says in the bible: where two or more gather, there I am. so they dont even need to be trusted friends. others reflect us to ourselves in our interactions. if you are paying attention then you can reflect on this. it seems to speak on the dangers of self isolation, physical or otherwise. in this case, self expression.
@kellykat32
@kellykat32 4 жыл бұрын
Listen at .25x faster
@kingbain5383
@kingbain5383 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@eaa900
@eaa900 4 жыл бұрын
Surprisingly she talks normally at .25x faster 😂
@pazleoogbemillar1009
@pazleoogbemillar1009 3 жыл бұрын
check
@siaracastic2515
@siaracastic2515 3 жыл бұрын
Yesss
@freedom4all418
@freedom4all418 Жыл бұрын
there there is no worse addiction than the addiction to narcissistic supply people will risk their very lives every single day all day just to get it I've never seen any other addiction including drugs or alcohol but a person will literally die for
@mariannbjorklund700
@mariannbjorklund700 5 ай бұрын
The sad part of this is that if you have been told that YOUR honesty is dangerous you honestly believe that YOU are dangerous.
@Wavyboyangel029
@Wavyboyangel029 4 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 ❤❤❤
@mcdonnell-douglasdc-1087
@mcdonnell-douglasdc-1087 4 жыл бұрын
You should always be honest. So tell everyone that you are dishonest. 😁
@jesselaaldea3456
@jesselaaldea3456 4 жыл бұрын
What are the benefits on being dishonest?
@zed9616
@zed9616 Жыл бұрын
@@jesselaaldea3456 to prevent yourself hurting others especially those who close to you
@blairgreen3546
@blairgreen3546 Жыл бұрын
What are the other 6 questions? Please do share
@victorallencook7107
@victorallencook7107 4 жыл бұрын
And yet , I don't condemn anyone .
@kiransrihari1052
@kiransrihari1052 4 жыл бұрын
What is the meaning of mutual accountability?
@MatthewVo
@MatthewVo 3 жыл бұрын
When both parties take full responsibility in their actions with each other.
@Traces13
@Traces13 5 ай бұрын
​@@MatthewVoMutual Accountability: if you can be honest and still live, I can be honest and know I'm not going to die.
@christopherleatherwood1670
@christopherleatherwood1670 3 жыл бұрын
something is off about her smile
@christopherleatherwood1670
@christopherleatherwood1670 3 жыл бұрын
@In a Universe where Deception halts Progress yeah your right
@add852
@add852 3 жыл бұрын
Kinda ironic because she's talking about honesty but her smile looks fake
@amitsangwan6187
@amitsangwan6187 Жыл бұрын
honestly अभी मैं chanting कर रहा हूँ ओर you tube देख रहा हूँ🙏🙏!!
@gummybears1760
@gummybears1760 3 жыл бұрын
I have no friends. Can two chill people adopt me?
@xmanuelx_1005
@xmanuelx_1005 3 жыл бұрын
wanna be friends?
@benjamingranat3387
@benjamingranat3387 2 жыл бұрын
Ok, but how do I start?
@caseyhenriette5772
@caseyhenriette5772 Жыл бұрын
I suggest start reflecting on who you are and what you do in a daily bases. Now try to say your answers to a person who you are close with. Do they agree? Are you telling the truth? -hope this was helpful
@user-dn9vd9xg9p
@user-dn9vd9xg9p 3 жыл бұрын
What about govt transparency? NIH did a grant study on dental white fillings. Guess what study was referring to? Increasing estrogen in body from these white fillings. Shouldn't MALES have a choice before these dental white fillings are used? This study determined whether placement of composite (white) dental restorations (fillings) & increasing the concentrations of bisphenol A (BPA) had estrogenic-like properties that raised concerns about safety abiut . amounts of the chemicals leached out of dental sealants and detected in saliva soon after the sealants were applied. Dental composites also contained some of these compounds? Why wasn't the public made aware of this and shouldn't it had been transparent?
@panes840
@panes840 2 жыл бұрын
So what is a person to do? Mercury fillings are worse. Also I'd like to see the science that says such levels are detrimental to health. How much worse is concentration of BPA in a composite filling than a plastic water bottle? How much worse is the BPA in comparison to over types of xenoestrogens that are in the environment? Just saying.
@ryanng754
@ryanng754 3 жыл бұрын
We do anything is not suppose because they are not really on earth, the world is all wrong like majority. It is necessary to do it all wrong to reflect on wrong mindset.
@himadrisonai8291
@himadrisonai8291 9 ай бұрын
wow...damm true....
@leonardbarfied4895
@leonardbarfied4895 2 жыл бұрын
🙏💯💯💖💖💙💙💙💙
@scarycat3344
@scarycat3344 2 жыл бұрын
I was so be honest in school they dropped me
@user-sj5eu4he6v
@user-sj5eu4he6v 2 жыл бұрын
achingly beautiful
@Madhuwellness
@Madhuwellness 3 жыл бұрын
Diplomacy or honesty
@graceamelia1331
@graceamelia1331 3 жыл бұрын
Just hard to find a sincere man with much love ❤️💖💖 my opinion🤔
@Randy2244Fit
@Randy2244Fit 2 жыл бұрын
We are in this world. We are🙏🏻
@chriszablocki2460
@chriszablocki2460 Жыл бұрын
I like car. I really do like car. Baby steps.
@PinkWytchBytch
@PinkWytchBytch 2 жыл бұрын
The beginning of this video really didn’t get me, I was hoping for something a bit more upfront instead of a backstory…. I definitely don’t want to come off as hateful, this just wasn’t what I needed at the moment
@ryanng754
@ryanng754 3 жыл бұрын
Well, never know the meaning of trust and misuse the word, total no awareness about word.
@janosraduly2796
@janosraduly2796 2 жыл бұрын
Take a look if you got 1 minute.
@kavinvanich
@kavinvanich Жыл бұрын
Honesty needs courage lmao
@AWayOfLiving84
@AWayOfLiving84 3 ай бұрын
👣🌏🕵🏻‍♂️☯️
@0NISH1
@0NISH1 2 ай бұрын
🚔💅💜💀💀💀💀💙🥶🚔
@skatty_08
@skatty_08 2 жыл бұрын
q pro
@user-endorphin
@user-endorphin 6 ай бұрын
Provided weve been sucessor fvk
@marilynm111
@marilynm111 2 жыл бұрын
You know what dishonest You Tube Thumbnails:)
@stephenyoung9188
@stephenyoung9188 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sure she’s a believer in Christ!
@SamuelProwant
@SamuelProwant 2 жыл бұрын
Lost four friends so far.
@lol-wg6gu
@lol-wg6gu 2 ай бұрын
Says the dishonest people
@chriszablocki2460
@chriszablocki2460 2 жыл бұрын
Really?...
@chriszablocki2460
@chriszablocki2460 2 жыл бұрын
You're not actually looking for honesty. My honesty goes unrequited. And you're simply not worth the compromise (honesty).
@chriszablocki2460
@chriszablocki2460 Жыл бұрын
Honesty is ruthless. Did you notice the positive effects of flattery? For example: "that was a really great speech. It transformed my life positively. ☺"
@Yvagne
@Yvagne 7 ай бұрын
Ahem, ahem, I know you are reading this.
@antonkostornichenko2666
@antonkostornichenko2666 6 ай бұрын
Don’t believe in your tense smile. It seems like she tries to convince herself. It looks like a bad playing a role. Especially on 3:10
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