how i dont get lonely (single, no pet, and living alone)

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Жыл бұрын

Here are my 5 secrets on how i don't get lonely while being single, without any pets, and living alone. I should be studied at Harvard, tbh.
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@iBotLofi Жыл бұрын

I usually ninja watch and never comment but I had to show support. your advice is golden. " you feel lonely when you're used to depending on others for things". Another thing you explained in a different video is that its not our job to disqualify ourselves from friends or in certain situations. almost like we think we are burdens to them. you either have a psychology degree or have been to therapy a lot. thanks for the content either way. Also you editing in the music that fits the mood is flawless as always.

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Love this and thank you so much!! I really should have a psych degree ;)

@Michelle_Michelle___ Жыл бұрын

I’ll be honest, I used to depend on friendships to keep me from being alone. I hated being stuck in at home by myself and would be desperate to go out with people or someone. This caused me to create and maintain toxic friendships just to say I had friends and just to have someone to spend time with. I had ZERO boundaries. And then I was forced to be alone, and I haven’t felt lonely since then. I am finally able to sit in complete solitude and deal with myself- which is what we try to avoid as humans. We don’t want to deal with our thoughts, traumas, feelings, we want to find quick and temporary solutions. I found God through this journey. And now, I’m no longer willing to accept half ass relationships in my life. I’m not interested in temporary relationships. I’m not interested in dumbing myself down to fit in anymore. I love the person I see in the mirror. And I know that this healing process will call for healthier relationships in the future. Yes, some days I do still wish that I had someone to go on a road trip with, but I know that it’s coming. And it’ll be the right people at the right time.

@GHO5tMod3 7 ай бұрын

Same I’m learning too I’ve come to the realization I’m ok with no friends but as long as I have social activists places to go I’m fine ❤

@emiliana7259 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much, this comment helped me a lot.

@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l 26 күн бұрын

You took the words right out of my mouth.

@hollyallen7397 Жыл бұрын

Independence is a very powerful feeling! Better than any drug!

@mikaelamoveson 9 ай бұрын

Ok so I’m probably not your target audience as I’m 50. But I am just about to start my life again after leaving my marriage, my home and my career. And I am really blown away by your wisdom at such a young age. Thank you for reminding me that being alone can be an incredible opportunity for growth and fulfilment. I could relate to a lot of what you said and I could feel little sparks of the 21 year old me saying “Hey you remember me? I’m back!” 😁

@NaturallyNegeen 9 ай бұрын

Awww i love this so much - thank you for sharing this and sending all my love to you!!!!

@mikaelamoveson 9 ай бұрын

@@NaturallyNegeen Thank you! I may posisbly be going to live on a boat... so we'll see! x

@Joshdifferent Жыл бұрын

Yeah I feel you on the relationship part! I’m 27. But for some reason I feel like I don’t belong in a relationship at all! I enjoy being alone as well. 💯‼️

@theol6272 Жыл бұрын

I think it helps if you have friends, this last year i lost all the people I thought were good friends that turned out to be fake. It makes me feel better to see someone in a similar situation.

@elijah6678 Жыл бұрын

I like that sweater

@sharanyaanand705 Жыл бұрын

I'm living alone sis whenever I feel lonely or lost my way i watch ur videos that's so inspiring thank you ❤

@annaariza1575 Жыл бұрын

Having a man, having kids, all things society expect of us. And of course they can be really great and add something beautiful to life. It's not in any way sad or to pity or making life less nice when you don't have them though. Loving your videos and energy Negeen! And I absolutely loved the acting class tip!! I did lots of acting years ago and made some great friends from that! Literally everything about that was great; the practice sessions together, grabbing some food together in between rehearsals.

@annaariza1575 Жыл бұрын

Partly true. There is a difference between things people say and things people actually do. And there is also a difference in how these things are viewed between different groups within the society or accross country. In my country for example, most woman work very few hours and stay home with the kids. Of course, that's amazing if it is what you choose and love to do. But in my country, when we start working more as a female, questions are being asked such as: "Ohh, how are you going to do this with the kids? Are you not leaving them alone too much?" While rarely anybody asks it if a male does work more. And also there is definitely much more of a focus on having kids.

@annaariza1575 Жыл бұрын

It's super important to keep in mind things are different accross the globe. We all have different histories, different rates in which things change and different ways in which the society works. Having said that, I definitely believe things are as you mention it in let´s say a country such as US.

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!! Appreciate it, Anna!!

@ClauNazepam Жыл бұрын

Hi Negeen, I have depression and anxiety and just moved out on my own in a new city, doing long distance with my boyfriend and I’ve been struggling. Your channel really has given me hope and a feeling of community. I know it’s not easy to be so vulnerable but I hope you know you’re helping people ❤️ thanks for being unapologetically you.

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

This means so much!! Best of luck in the new city :)

@TheMrRamonlle Жыл бұрын

Negeen, it's nice that you're independent, but when you feel lonely, I'll always be there for you to support you and look after you all the way from the Philippines. :)

@1s11 4 күн бұрын

Thank youuuuuu omggggg!!!!! THISSSSSSS!!!! Exactly me! I don't want to settle. PERIOD. I have no interest in waisting my time...

@LyslScentedLife Жыл бұрын

Guys it's easy. Just stay busy!

@tiffanyalvarez6877 Жыл бұрын

NEGEEN NICE!! I DO THE SAME!! BEEN SINGLE FOR DECADES!! ENJOY THIS. WHEN LONELY REALIZE THIS HAPPENS AND THAT ITS GOING TO BE OK!! ALSO KEEP BUSY. THANKS

@lilyyan1833 Жыл бұрын

i totally agree with you . if i attend some activities ，i felt lonely . But if i stayed at home , maybe it's better .

@blakeholmes22 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the video Negeen!

@joeycash8607 Жыл бұрын

pls dont stop these videos!❤️

@LadyTreble 9 күн бұрын

Definitely enjoyed this!

@codyotoole7934 Жыл бұрын

Not only was this video really helpful for me, but I can see this video being so helpful for LOTS of people and that’s something to be proud of for sure, Negeen! While I can’t relate on living alone as I do live with my brother, I have been single for years now and can’t take pieces of these ideas and put them towards not feeling alone when it comes to romantic relationships. I couldn’t agree more on acting classes!! I took some in college and made so many friends and now hearing you did them as well just makes me want to find another one near me to take on again. The vibe of this video was also really great too, felt like having a one on one conversation with you and the awesome sweater is just the icing on the cake! Thanks so much for making this, you’re not alone either! 😊

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Aww thank you always for the words of encouragement and support :)

@maritvoogd1320 Жыл бұрын

What an inspiring video. Please make more of these they really help me. Thanks for all your honest advice ❤

@princesstia2794 Жыл бұрын

I love your videos I've been living alone for 2years now no pet no man even tho I'm beautiful guys are all the same trying to get that one thing I rather stay alone with God lol everyone around me has someone but u just know your free hearted being alone it's sad but true your not the only one out who's alone and beautiful thank you for your videos ❤️🙏

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

@brenna143 Жыл бұрын

First, that sweater is amazing. Second, great video with all great points, all of these hit home. I was in such a weird, bad mood today but this reminded me again of all the positive things associated with being alone. I think I’m just in a funk when it comes to making my space my haven right now. With a negative budget, all the rearranging in the world hasn’t been cutting it. It’s missing the comfort feel and I’m trying to figure out how to remedy that. BUT awesome video :)

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

It will happen for you soon and it will all fall into place :) thank you for the comment!!!

@Angrybirdii Жыл бұрын

After my 35 years of relationship ended with my wife, I was alone for the first time. Somehow I started to learn Zumba, Bollywood, and Hip hop dance. Every day I am the only guy in the class dancing with so many ladies and making friends. Dancing changed my life. By the way, I was the shy guy all my life. Now I own the stage. You should try too. 💃 💃

@jessicacrawford830 3 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this ❤

@HealthglowsNet Ай бұрын

Thank you for this beautiful message.

@potati8503 Жыл бұрын

Hi Negeen, allowing myself to be alone with myself and go with the flow of my thoughts without too many distractions is actually how I get to know myself better! My parents also had an arranged marriage but they divorced when I was 3, I also refuse to settle just for anyone and give up my time and energy. It's good to see that you're doing well, I'm getting there too. Slowly but surely.

@misscindypalacio Жыл бұрын

Bestie, you just unlocked a new tier. We need booktube content from you now :) pretty please!

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Haha that would be fun!

@midsummerblush6937 Жыл бұрын

Great video, I agree with you 100 percent about a room that is your haven's best feeling ever.

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Yes! Thank you!

@123kirmizi Жыл бұрын

thank you for another amazing video

@nidhidubey96 Жыл бұрын

Watching your videos give me the motivation & inspiration to get up and do something - some chore or something creative, just anything that's not sitting & sulking !!

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad!! 😊

@abrarchowdhury779 Жыл бұрын

Negeen, thank you so much for uploading this video!! I really needed this given my current situation. Definitely going to pick up reading because of your suggestion. Your content, insight, & tips have positively affected my life and words cannot express my gratitude -- I am beyond elated to have found your channel back in 2020 and look forward to your future videos. If you ever need anything, then please do not hesitate in reaching out to your local pal. Happy holidays, superstar! 🙂

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much, i love this so much! Happy holidays, Abrar!!😊

@shivanipandey1765 Жыл бұрын

Love you Negeen💌. Just for being who you are

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)

@edifyingandinformative Жыл бұрын

Beautiful vlog. tnx

@Jempath 8 ай бұрын

Your videos are helping me a lot

@kristiefish7041 Жыл бұрын

Such a great & helpful video! Ty💖

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

@elizabethdahl1396 Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Great motivation! 😄

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

So glad!

@lamir1791 Жыл бұрын

Great points, Negeen! I especially like the idea of making your home your oasis. I’ve found that cooking and having tasty (but healthy) snacks in the fridge/pantry are also good ways to combat loneliness. P.S. We have a lot in common: I am Persian (half), an only child, and live alone without a pet or boyfriend (lol). I love your channel because every post resonates

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :) and totally agree on the snacks! Its so fun.

@coderhetoricwithtamtalk Жыл бұрын

I agree with everything you shared. Great tips

@Tarpe22 Жыл бұрын

I like to do outdoor activities when I’m feeling in a funk, mostly go to dog park for 1-2 hours lol having pets is the best emotional support for me. I do want to read more. Happy Holidays Negeen 💓

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Love it!

@Ang36914 7 ай бұрын

Hi Negeen, thanks so much for this video! Your personality is as colourful as your sweater. My parents won’t let me get a dog either 😂 but my ultimate dream is to be a single lady with a dog once I move out. I also recognize the unique situation I’m in where I don’t have the responsibility of a partner or kids or even a pet and can focus on my creative writing. I’ve been feeling sad about being single but your video raised my spirits ❤️

@rosenduta2264 Жыл бұрын

Luckly i have a pet,no man but i want to get 8 babies 6 mine and 2 adopts. It is sometimes fun being single but loneliness is number one leader to depression.

@AnniraChocola Жыл бұрын

Your video makes me takes notes, and I did thank you for your advice ^^

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Aw yay!!

@simonedancier7965 Жыл бұрын

So proud of you. Mental health ninja. Inspiration to all. Female goddess warrior. Just look at you…laying the foundation for all your dreams to come true. What a treasure you are and I’m so very happy for what lies before you. Rocket ship to the moon 🚀🌕you are a very amazing role model. I hope you see that.

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ☺️

@jayneourth2281 Жыл бұрын

You're awesome thanks for the video

@alisonjones3057 Жыл бұрын

Great video, your advice has helped me alot and I'm much older than you 🥰

@ofcouuurse8237 11 ай бұрын

I so much agree with books! Although you have to be careful with the kind of book you're picking up. It has to be something that interests you cause if not, you'll gonna get bored out of it. I do it all the time while I'm on my bus ride. So instead of being dramatic and thinking how lonely I am while looking out of the window at the bus, I'd get a book and read.

@ChiChi-sb4ys Жыл бұрын

Omg Negeen, how do you know just what to say and when?! I literally came back today from a weekend getaway all by myself in NY/NJ and though it was nice, the thought of returning to my apartment and my room felt so nice, just like you said in point #2! Though I currently live with a roommate now, my room is my space space but not for too long because I’m moving in 54 days and I’ll be in my very own apartment all to myself! Thank you for making such relatable videos. They will really come in handy when I live alone next year, though I plan on getting a cat 6 months in lol. Love love your videos and your sweater and hair are beautiful!😍❤️

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Aww super proud of you and love hearing that!! Can't wait for you to get your own place and your kitty :)

@lisa-mariegrote1728 Жыл бұрын

So wise already..I do the exact same things:P This is GOLD girl!!!

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

woohoo, thank you!!

@elaela1147 9 күн бұрын

I am 39 and this is great advice

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

What do you do when you feel lonely? ❤

@vathsav1801 Жыл бұрын

Video Games and exercise

@mansid7682 Жыл бұрын

I read books

@TheMrRamonlle Жыл бұрын

I paint.

@codyotoole7934 Жыл бұрын

Listen to music, FaceTime friends, take my dog to the dog park, go to the driving range, sing, or eat, which I need work on 😂

@sumeyyesahinaktas1897 Жыл бұрын

Of course i watch movie "friends" when i feel alone it really helps me to get out of bad thoughs

@lehuakey8778 2 ай бұрын

I LOVE BOOKS 📚 😍 THANK YOU SO MUCH!! 🎉❤🎉

@coopundiva Жыл бұрын

Hi Negeen! truly encouraging. Can you please share the apartment checklist soon? Moving to Austin and would love a handy guide

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Thank you!! Here is the checklist: www.naturallynegeen.com/products/the-ultimate-apartment-checklist

@shyee00 Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

@rosenduta2264 Жыл бұрын

I love good food too,and interior design is my passion ,i dont know if practicallly am good with it but i have lots of ideas,i love a colourful house but am also possessed with classy them of black and white colours only and live plants. I like entertainment and a 85 coloured tv is my idea or projector at amazon they are cheaper or alibaba.thats the little information i can give i dont want someone getting to know whats fully on my mind.

@liamodonovan6610 Жыл бұрын

Iam like you except iam not an only childl live alone solidy for 7 years you seem like a very introverted person i wish i was as positive as you your a beautiful person unlike i have no interests in life love you negeen i definitely don't want a partner i will live alone abnd die alone

@toni5543 Жыл бұрын

thank you! 3 weeks out of an 11 year relationship. thank you x

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

@simob7862 Жыл бұрын

Well you could get a male doggy that would solve your problems😂 you could name his Brock then you could say oh I have a date with Brock, oh I hope he doesn’t chase the mail person after or walking 🤣

@tiffaniebadger2682 8 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@raheelazam6385 Жыл бұрын

Hi beautiful awesome work ❤❤💝💜💜💟💞💝💝💗👍👍👍

@TWForeeever Жыл бұрын

Unrelated but where is your top from? It’s too cute!

@eirinikp Жыл бұрын

Great video. I only wanted to comment that being in a healthy relationship means you don't have to justify spending quality time with random guys with your class because you have to practice a script.

@NaturallyNegeen Жыл бұрын

Yes!! Of course :)

@rosenduta2264 Жыл бұрын

Now am working hard,hope to get some money to buy my own apartment which is 30,000usd. I dont like revealing more about my plans because not so many people wish you the best ,being secretive sometimes its good,how i will acquire the money thats my financial secret,i believe much is pending that can cater for that.

@stevensalinas5610 Жыл бұрын

I'm in the same boat with you

@fannykel Жыл бұрын

❤

@anticyclone7027 7 ай бұрын

I like a girl she lives alone with her cats I just want to know Does She's feels that she needs someone who takes care of her

@jenniferlex9439 3 күн бұрын

You have the life that i want, except for the pet i have one

@user-um2qc8tg2j 6 ай бұрын

I😂 love to join you

@24kbrown22 Жыл бұрын

Hi As a man, you are really attractive you don’t want a man because u don’t want one , you are very beautiful woman and trust any man would be with u asap

@WhatsThePoint01 Жыл бұрын

Only child gang! We built different. lol

@freddymendez23 11 ай бұрын

Good God your beautiful 😍

@WelshGuitarDude Жыл бұрын

It's clearly an issue if you need to post videos on female loneliness. You won't handle this isolated lifestyle as you get older, humans are simply not built for it. Everything you have said are coping mechanisms for avoiding the reality of the fact you are lonely. This is well known in psychology. These behaviors work for a while but mid life it starts to wane causing a crisis.

@WelshGuitarDude Жыл бұрын

@liz blanco If it isn't an issue why is there a video on how to deal with loneliness lol

@muthafukajones1513 Жыл бұрын

A whole lot of cope going on. It’s bad

@muthafukajones1513 Жыл бұрын

Good lord this is sad

@user-bv7px3cy6u 4 ай бұрын

You don't fear ghost???😂😂

@user-wz7fe2bq5c Ай бұрын

Ya I can plainly see that youre not happy being alone. Well at least that means youre still human.

@bryannwokocha6729 8 ай бұрын

The wall cometh, better get the cats before winter approaches. Being strong and independent comes with lots of cons.

@xXx_MR_BALLZ_xXx 4 ай бұрын

You have sad eyes.

@kumarsaktivioly 17 күн бұрын

Hi Negeen! I'm quite late to your video, but I can relate with you! I just turned 30 this May 2024, and have recently started my celibacy journey (for mental health reasons); and sometimes, the loneliness gets intense. But I genuinely love my own space and company, and I don't plan on changing my childfree and pet-free status. It's the simple things that make me happy: drinking coffee while binge-watching crime documentaries, reading, journaling, going out alone, painting, and UNINTERRUPTED SLEEP. 🤣 In all honesty, meeting friends and partying for at least once a week depletes my energy. Whenever I feel alone, I'll come back to this video to revive the joy I feel in my solutide. 🤎🤎🤎