Not all handicaps are visible. If someone has the placard, it is none of my business why they need it.

Okay, this really gets on my goat. I know that you have your own opinion and you’re entitled to that. I have what they call an invisible disability. To look at me, you wouldn’t know that there is something wrong. I have a condition where my joints, randomly dislocate. Sometimes I walk with a cane sometimes I don’t. walking distances hurts. My doctor begged me to apply for a disability permit for the longest time, and I put it off for so long because I had heard other horror stories from other people who have the same condition as me about them getting abuse and getting letters left on their cars because they don’t look sick enough to have a disabled parking permit. Eventually I caved and got one because my condition is getting worse and I tell you what within three weeks of me having that permit. I got abuse for using the handicap spot. So please be considerate to those of us that have these invisible disabilities you can’t tell by looking at a person whether they are okay or not, please understand the trauma that you cause somebody with invisible disability by saying things like this. I get what you’re saying about people who use dead parents permits in that type of thing, but please don’t take it out on people who don’t look sick

I absolutely love the 3rd one on you. I feel it's very flattering on you.

No. 3 looks the best on you in my opinion :)

definitely option nr. 3!

I agree with this to a point, but please remember that there are MANY "invisible disabilities" like my condition called POTS. I waited years to get a placard, but ultimately it makes my life more independent and easier to function with it and I had to get over any judgement people thought they knew about my bodies abilities just from my outward appearance. You can't see someones heartrate thats in the 180s and about to pass out just from walking. Just a different POV.

I’ve got to speak up about the handicap tag. I’ve struggled with this for years! My daughter has a tag but I try my darndest to not use it. She is able bodied and for the most part a healthy young lady. So why the tag? She has a rare condition in which she is allergic to both hot and cold. I have had her go into anaphylactic reactions going from the building to the van on several occasions because of extreme heat or cold. We get the stares and judgements from others because we “appear” to be healthy. But at times her life depends on my using it. Just a different thing to be aware of, there are invisible disabilities out there.

I LOVE DRESS #1 !! It is the perfect color for your tan!! It fits perfectly!!

You look beautiful in anything! I love dress #3; it's chic and classy. Second choice is dress #1.

I think #2 because you seemed the most confident in it. My grandma always said “pretty is as pretty does” and you have a beautiful heart. Blessings to you and your family.

We have a handicap placard for my husband with Parkinson’s. There are days that he might look like can walk fine with his cane. But he is a major fall risk and lengthy walks through parking lots are very dangerous for him. He also has early onset dementia and he can easily become confused so the closer we park to the front door the better. I agree there are people who abuse the system, but not all handicaps appear as severe as they actually are.

Please remember that some “ handicaps” like autism are invisible. Many autistic children run or wander away so parking close is important. I believe everyone with a handicap placard needs to evaluate on a trip by trip basis if they need to use a handicap parking place. Just because you have the handicap placard does not mean you need to use it every time.

I get it, but my dad is 89 years old. He does not look handicapped but he has deteriorating rheumatoid arthritis and is in a lot of pain. I never saw my dad as handicapped. I actually asked why he had a handicap plaque and told me why. My dad never shows pain but it opened my eyes to not judge those who use the handicap parking spots because we never know what their condition is. When he needs eggs or milk he cannot do all the walking without the handicap parking spot.

#2 is so gorgeous! 💗 the others are lovely as well!

I just love you! You are so real. After just seeing your video blog of a few years ago when you adopted Mika, I can tell you that although you are beautiful now, you were a knock out then. I so enjoy your oh-so-natural you! I too am adopting from Bulgaria. It’s been two years. The paperwork kills me. I’m hoping that we meet there! That would be something! Please keep me in your prayers. God called me to adopt my 18th child. I am now 81!! I’m writing and listening to you at the same time! Just be you. You are beautiful!

I like option number 3 for you. It’s feminine and compliments you. 😊

Someone puts the story of your family in Wechat in Chinese. There are close to 1000 comments. Most of people are deeply touched. Thank you, Jesus! Thank you for using this beautiful family to touch the hearts of so many of us!

I love number 3, just as it is.

Dress 3 ! Loved this video and catching up on *you !

I like Option #3 the best! 🙂

What about the people who have a hidden problem, heart, breathing disabilities?

I love how you rant and vent your frustrations to us makes us feel like a personal friend we support you Ashley I agree with everything you say❤❤❤❤❤

Mika Ella is so precious taking care of lil Izzy 💞 #2

I like number 3 as my first choice, number 2 would be second

Dress 3 is beautiful.

I agree with you 100% with your handicapped parking dilemma. We also see people using those spaces when they don't have placards and don't seem to need it. It's extremely sad that this occurs.

Option 1. My 93 year old mother no longer drives, has severe scoliosis, uses a walker, and can walk with it for short distances. We have a disabled placard to use when taking her anywhere, mostly doctor, church, and family functions. Can't tell you how many times I have to leave her sitting alone while I go park or get the car because nothing close is available. It is extremely difficult for her to get up after sitting.

#2. Have a great time !!! As for the handicap parking you are so right !!! Keep speaking up please !!!

My sister’s husband has one for his wheelchair and progressive cerebral palsy. You would be surprised how many people tell her to use it while he is not with her. She knows that placard is for him alone.

I couldn’t agree with you more! My daughter is disabled. She needs a walker or at very least a cane everywhere we go. Just today my husband had to drop us off and go park the car at the hospital. On his way in he counted 22 cars without disabled plates or placards parked in the 30 disabled spaces and no one there enforcing it. He was livid because it shouldn’t be this way! I’m thankful he was with us and could drop us off because normally I would be there alone erring to deal with it all.

Preach!! About the handicap parking. OMG. This has been such a source of frustration for me over the past 15 years of being a special needs mom! 😫 I drove a big van with a lift for my daughter who was in a wheelchair. If I could not find a good, accessible parking spot, I could not get her out of our van. Several times someone parked too close to our van and I couldn’t load her back IN the van and had to stand around waiting for them to return to their car and move it. Ahhh! People are so ignorant and selfish sometimes. You look great in all those outfits, but I like #3 the most!

Less carbs, no bread, no spuds. Take skin off chicken. Check snacks. Write up an honest diary everyday for a week of what you eat. I take 4 vitamin D a day, magnesium, vitamin C, milk thistle (helps liver) & turmeric for inflammation.

HOW I'M DOING THINGS DIFFERENTLY // A RANT THAT MAY UPSET YOU 💯

All of your pink outfits look great. I say pick the one that's the most comfortable and you will be absolutely beautiful!

#1 and keep on keeping on with those beautiful little girls! Congrats on the twins!

You are doing a great job of raising ur special needs kids & keeping them safe in there car seats in the car is so important for all parents of kids! Your little girls are so beautiful & adorable!

The outfits your girls wear are so adorable❤❤❤

I could not agree more about the handicap parking. We saw this over and over again when our daughter was alive. On many occasions, we would not be able to find a handicap spot available for our daughter, who was terminal and required a lot of equipment that we carried. The baby you mentioned with all the tubes...that was our situation. Ventilator, pulse ox, suction machine, oxygen tank, feeding pump, diaper bag, and all her medical supplies. But over and over, I would see perfectly abled people get out of their vehicles in the handicap spot and walk just fine, while we trekked across the parking lot. You used to have to have an actually physical limitation in order to get a placard, but now pretty much anyone can get one for any reason. It's selfish and lazy.

Number 1! But to be fair they all look great on you! Btw your hair colour is STUNNING! Always wanted to have that kind of shiny black 😍

Option number "1" looks wonderful ! You really look great in all of them , but I still pick # 1😊 ..Have Fun..

I agree with you that people who do not have a handicap placard should be called out and should be ticketed. It is rude and selfish and the excuse that it was only for a minute is ignorant. To the point about people who are able bodied with a handicap placard, I don't doubt there are able bodied family members/friends who use the placard when they are alone and don't need it however I also think it is impossible to simply look at someone and conclude if they are able bodied or not. My aunt has MS and she looks very able bodied until she walks for more than 10 minutes, she will loose her strength and fall. If she had to walk a great distance into the store and than walk around the store and back she would never make it. Having the ability to park close allows her to complete the task within the store (usually a small store like CVS) without having to risk falling, using a wheelchair, or taking a 20 minute break to finish her shopping.

I like dress option 1. Be careful with the Berberine. I was taking it months ago and began feeling quite fatigued. As it turns out my blood pressure had gotten too low. I was aware that it helps people with high blood pressure. What I didn't realize was that it also lowers blood pressure for those with normal blood pressure. It worked great for curbing my appetite but I had to stop taking it because of really low blood pressure. I'm 53 and blessed to not have high blood pressure but low blood pressure is dangerous too. I've been struggling with my weight too!

About your rant.....My husband has had bone cancer for almost 10 years and has a handicap placard. It is always displayed in our vehicle. To others he probably seems perfectly fine. But no one has a clue that every bone in his bone had been chewed on by MM cancer cells. He has had a metal rod that was placed from his hip to his knee just to allow him the ability to walk. His femur was almost ate in half. He uses no cane and no walker at this point (all thanks to Jesus)....however he is in excruciating pain and needs to be as close to the door as possible. This rant proved to me that people no doubt judge him as well. :( I totally understand where you're coming from though. It pains me as well.

I like outfit No. 1 then 2. . Praying for Izzy. Thanks for the info on Magnesium and turmeric..God Bless you and your family

All 3 dresses look fabulous. I personally like option 1 the best, then 3, and then 2.

I like all of the outfits but number 2 looks great on you😊

Option 3!

I love dress #3 then 1

I know I'm way late for the vote, but I would of chose #1. All of them looked great on you!! Ashley, what brand of Magnesium Glycinate did you get? Thank you.

All 3 outfits are pretty, but I really love #1

1 or 3. One is just pretty and 3 makes your waist look small. It is also very different. REALLY missing the girls these days - Seems so long since we've seen our little Isabelle in action. 😍😍

You are beautiful lady without makeup - a natural beauty

Option 1 or 3 are good on you.👍

They all look good. Number 2 looks really good.

numer 3 is the best one.

Hey 👋 The felts family I’m here with you and I watch your videos first time 😊❤

Outfit 3🎉

You really helped me think. Thanks

Option 3 🎉

I think your face lit up the most wearing number 2 - it looks great on you! A really fun piece 🎉

Sounds like youre judging people. How do you know that they DON'T have a heart condition or some other invisible illness?

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Option 1

You look smoking in the 2nd. That one shoulder is Stunning and looks so amazing. The short set all the way

I see what you are saying about if a person can physically walk to the shop etc they shouldn’t use the parking spaces for those with disabilities but as we all know not every disability is clearly visible

I like 1, but keep 2 for another time. Both are really nice. My biggest issue is I am small from the waist down, but have bigger girls. I would love to be able to wear both of those outfits.

Awe! Sending you a kiss back!anyway I don't know if you know that black pepper to tumeric to activate it if you using the kind you get in the spice isle. The supplement probebly has black pepper added.

I totally agree with you on the abuse of handicap parking!! If the law would be enforced with tickets and towing, I believe it would make people think twice about parking there without a legitimate need. It is also illegal to park with a handicap sticker if you’re not the handicap person and they are not with you. What goes around comes around. You will reap what you sow!

I like option #2.

My husband is 80 and I am 73 there are times we would benefit from parking in a handicap parking place. Our doctors refuse to okay one even though we would only use it when needed. Some days my arthritis is so bad I have to walk with a cane.

your right .

Great video today, thank you. Please look into the benefits of taking d3 with k2 rather than just vitamin d .My vote would be for outfit no.2, although you always look fabulous. Love and prayers from UK x

I think 2 or 3 look fantastic!!

You look amazing in all but I love option number 2 on you , you look absolutely stunning ❤

I would be the “Karen” to call the police 😂. If more tickets were given for this across the board, it would lessen this.

Option 3

Option 1 love it 😊

Definitely option 2 👌🥰 your rocking that romper Ashley!!! You shouldn’t feel self conscious I think you look fabulous! How old are you if you don’t mind me asking? X

Hi there, totally agree that too many people are Inconsiderate with the parking permits! Btw I think all the outfits are cute but the first dress looks nicest on you! 😊

My 3rd comment 😂 is about izzy Bella I also watch oh_maddy and she has a channel on her daughter who has autism. Poor Maddy also has leukemia now. She very openly answered a question about madison's teeth. She only has her two front teeth, mostly, because autism causes teeth grinding in her. She really doesn't have a way to stop her at this time with her baby teeth. I am glad with sweet Isabelle that you can find ways to help her stop the biting. Much love ❤️

I can walk… SHORT distances. Just because you see me “walking”, doesn’t mean I can park out in whatever available spot that’s in BFE, and then walk into the store. Yes the placards/plates are probably abused like everything else. However, it is absolutely unacceptable to judge people just because you see them “walking” in the store. I don’t use this term often because it is overused these days, but that is SO ablest. It clearly shows you’ve never had any mobility issues. 🤦‍♀️

Option 1, I think it suits you best.

I love option #2 on you

The parking has been a frustration of many in many places, unfortunately. So, we continue to bring awareness.

I'm glad twins and mom are great. My twins are one. I can't imagen havin two more small kids. My oldest is 7. Good luck with weight loss, I struggle with weight too.

Option 1 you look beautiful 😍

Sweet beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing

They all look good on you👍. Number 1 or 3 is best for a party.

The one that makes me insane is those who use the handicapped space in the restroom who don't need it and those that do end up having to wait

I have just found other videos of your family's story in chinese on Wechat, many people thought your family are Angel's sent by God. The post are shared by tens of thousands people.

Het, I miss seeing you and Stan together on here! Maybe a q&a video this year? I just love watching the jokes and banter from you 2. Yes, please!!

Yes, I noticed your knuckles. I wanted to ask you if your fingers hurt. I have seen arthritis and I wondered did you have it.. Blessings to you. 💗

It's not just America, happens in Australia too. I use the handicap spots and it infuriates me when people park there and don't have a parking permit displayed.

Hi Ashley, you look lovely in all three outfits, my choice would be outfit 2 then three followed by one:)) greetings from the UK.

My mother and father in law have handicap plackets and in no way need them. It infuriates me. They are both fully capable of walking independently and lead active lives. My father in law even works 7 days a week on a dairy farm from sun up to sun set. He has arthritis so his dr said he “qualified” for a permit. If he’s capable of working on a farm he’s capable of walking a few extra feet into a store! Those spaces should ONLY be used for people who can not walk independently and need mobility assistance. So my in laws are taking up a space that someone in a wheelchair NEEDS to be able to get their chair in and out of a vehicle just because they think they are old enough to “deserve” a handicap sign! Ugh! Laws definitely need to be changed about this!

Option #2, I like that one best!!

No flak from me! I Agee completely! It also is one of my biggest rants! !

Option 1 or 3

Option 2 for the party and the other two are lovely for other days 💖

Jeez..I have a permit and can walk in the store.its painful but I can walk in and make it to a shopping cart. Half the time handicap a motorcycle or unauthorized car is in the way but if you complain people get vivious