How I Met My Wife/Masculinity/Marriage

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Maliki Clique

2 жыл бұрын

The difference between a Career woman and a woman with a career. Transitioning from professional to wife mode

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@irunamonk885 Жыл бұрын

Agree with you brother... The prophet said "The best of you is the one who is best to his wife"

@coffe2270 Жыл бұрын

doesnt mean unlimited kindness

@kausamsalam8543 Жыл бұрын

MashaAllah. “Masculinity is a responsibility, not a title.”:))

@EB-gt1pq 2 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said. But I often wonder… What do abusive men think of a man treating their daughter that way? It’s so sad to me that men will never ever really understand just how fragile women can really be. Both physically and emotionally. We really do require lots of kindness and tenderness. My heart goes out to any woman who is emotionally or physically abused.

@AdrianMuslim 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah bless you, your wife and your family.

@rtariq33 2 жыл бұрын

I think this video has to go viral as all men (who don't know what masculine is about) and women (who are following feminism) need to understand this lesson very well in order to live a happy and a balanced life. May Allah bless you brother and your wife and protect you for each other🤲🏻

@Noble_One Жыл бұрын

Jazzak Allah Khair brother. I'm glad to see someone who shares my sense of humor. Indeed biryani recipe matters 😂

@nailfelagund7508 2 жыл бұрын

We as men definitely need to learn more from our Prophet (pbuh) and his blessed life and not cherry pick a few ahadith without context.

@majestic6303 2 жыл бұрын

She is blessed to have a job where she can work from home and until 2pm. Some woman with 8-5 job will be extremely tired and can’t do it all - career woman, clean the house & cook, take care of kids.

@programferris1018 2 жыл бұрын

And the work there should be divided, how can the husband expect the wife to share in the bills while also him not doing the housework?? In fact this is oppression on her

@zm7830 9 ай бұрын

I watched this video when i was still single and now I'm married to a wonderful husband, alhamdulillah. There's something you teach me where i need to put my trust to Allah, and Allah is a greater plan

@malikiclique 9 ай бұрын

Al hamdu lillah I’m so happy for u! May Allah put kindness and mercy between u two forever! Ameen!

@mufaba 2 жыл бұрын

When career comes first, not all men adopt to that easily, and that's what a (career woman) means. Unlike when being a woman/wife is the main priority to the women ( a woman with a career). That was so valuable words and very important to be understood by all our sisters and other women of course. All respect to you brother Ali.

@suhaali8860 2 жыл бұрын

ما شاء الله! This is a beautiful healthy marriage life. May Allah SWT bless you.

@dinamasroura4025 2 жыл бұрын

Jazak Allah khayr brother, u gave me hope for the futur. Basically we can't prioritize our career bcs we have other duties and also bcs we were not just created to make money. The key is to balance things out to the best of our ability. May Allah protect u and ur lovely wife

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

Aywa! U got it

@eddie2562 Жыл бұрын

Mashaa Allah...I have learned a lot from you. May Allah bless you and your whole family.

@malikiclique Жыл бұрын

Jzk

@MohamedShou 2 жыл бұрын

Mashallah one of the best advice I have seen on this topic. Easy and straight to the point and I literally agree 100% you said brother, we don’t mind Muslim women having jobs or careers because majority of time *they have too* especially living in the West. But you must compromise and when your work is done be in feminine and wife mode and the husband will appreciate it soo much. The men who think “women must obey me, I’m an alpha masculine man blah blah” women will never respect you and don’t even want to spend time with you with an attitude and character like that. If I had a daughter and I knew my daughter’s husband was speaking to her like that he will spend a lot of time in the hospital 🤷🏾‍♂️.

@amels5957 6 ай бұрын

ماشاء الله لاقوة إلابالله العلي العظيم.اسأل الله أن يديم عليكم نعمة الصحة والعافية والدين والسكينة والحياة السعيدة داءما وابدا.

@shogun8013 Жыл бұрын

jzk, wise words. insallah one day Allah will show me the right woman.

@mrmrsmuslim4733 2 жыл бұрын

This is Jay a.k.a Mr Muslim. Is there a way to send a private message to you ? I message privately on Tik-Tok with Haroon the American convert too. Me and my wife Kristie just want to sincerely thank you for your positive messages and for the kind words you speak about us and for having our back when it comes to B.S.

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Jay, I don’t have Tik Tok but can give u my email? aaraheem72@gmail.com I always have Muslims backs but have a soft spot for reverts to Islam as I am one as well. It was a pleasure sharing the live stream with u two

@mrmrsmuslim4733 2 жыл бұрын

@@malikiclique That works. I didn't know if you wanted to put any of that information out in the public. That's how I'll contact you then. Thank you brother

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

@@mrmrsmuslim4733 u bet

@ikramchaudry1359 2 жыл бұрын

nicely explained....lady bosses at work have troubled personal lives cause being boss changes their attitude everywhere. mashallah you are blessed n lucky alot if ladies lack tolerance n flexibility these days, lot of men need to also low down their ego abit as well , families are based on kindness, tolerance, empathy n Love. if a dad makes his kids a sandwich in breakfast of changes a diaper it doesnt makes him less of a man.

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Doesn’t take an ounce of masculinity away. Means he loves his family

@ikramchaudry1359 2 жыл бұрын

@@malikiclique appreciate this vlog , this issue was needed to be addressed. big bro...live long live healthy. mashallah looking big after ramadan💪. it takes a week to comeback to protein routine😋

@Fatima.114 2 жыл бұрын

We don’t believe in luck as Muslims dear brother. It is not chance!

@ikramchaudry1359 2 жыл бұрын

@@Fatima.114 sister from i lucky meant " blessed "....

@muslima2910 2 жыл бұрын

But trust me brother there are many men out there looking for a woman with career and income

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

Different people and different preferences. I’m old school and prefer it the old ways

@muslima2910 2 жыл бұрын

@@malikiclique real man never look for wife income

@o2xb 2 жыл бұрын

those are not the type of men you should be looking to get married to. Men who can't stand on their own two feet

@Totajee79 2 жыл бұрын

Yep. It’s expected women to pay their way.

@Faisalk9p 2 жыл бұрын

Loved your thoughts. Truly a true Muslim. Stay blessed. 🇵🇰

@hannahhus Жыл бұрын

MashaAllah brother Ali. Thank you for this video it helps men and women who are struggling to understand a real happy marriage.

@noor-ul-ain386 2 жыл бұрын

This is a sad reality of modern time, woman are forced in careers, even those who don't want a career life, have to do some job because without earnings they has no value. The best place for a woman is the home and i think women should more focus on her mental and physical health so that she can give birth to healthy and cultured people in society. The level of greed is so much in today's society that a woman no matters how pious and obedient she is has no value if she doesn't have money or good job.

@Naj-ng4ke 2 жыл бұрын

Mashalaah well done beautiful advice

@anselmglen8170 2 жыл бұрын

Need more brothers like u

@Fatima.114 2 жыл бұрын

Fatima H 1 second ago Be it the Masculine ideal or feminine Perfection starts in our intentions and all outcomes henceforth are possible but it implies work on the self and the requires self awareness if only we read between the lines. Our brother shared this not because he knows all but because he values the teachings spread by our best example and leader in Faith, our Prophet. Love of women folk does not come natural to women folk why? Why do we say he should be modelled when we have the best of creation to follow henceforth. With sunnah love comes life ! He is not only publicly crediting and acknowledging his wife because she deserves acknowledgement not because he does but for the womenkind to take heed. Alhamdulilah for all conditions and states of affairs. Allah forgive us. Remove our lacking work ethic. We deserve a better future to because we slaves of Allah. *Loudly shouts* ∞ × Astaghfirallah!?

@creationsoffarzid1154 Ай бұрын

Well said. If only more Muslim men of the modern era realized this.

@vivitow873 Жыл бұрын

Doesn’t matter what you believe, everyone should listen and think about what you just said if two people want to build a family.

@EB-gt1pq 2 жыл бұрын

I too am blessed to have a job where I can work from home. This way I am able to spend quality time both before and after school with my children. But unlike your wife I had to take a pay cut to do this, but I was so happy to! What did I do with my extra money anyways? Buy more unnecessary STUFF. Now I don’t have to deal with traffic, work drama, or stressful deadlines. I chose to take an easy job for my family. It was the best decision that I ever made! Prior to that I decided to take on a career. I was absolutely miserable, always in a bad mood. I want to urge mothers that if you have an office job, push for the option to work from home at least a couple days a week. A lot of employers will make a compromise with you, Especially post Covid. What young women need to realize is feminism sold us a lie… You cannot have it all. If you’re going to have the high-paying career where you work long hours and you rise to the top, well guess what? Your family and your children will suffer. And at the end you will most likely regret it, because you missed out on the most important moments of your children’s lives. While I know that feminism sold us a lie, why didn’t our Muslim mothers and aunts inform us that one day we too will be mothers and we need to put careers on the back burner, at least temporarily? The most important thing is to have a healthy balance… Working from home or even part-time work are great options. And that doesn’t have to be permanent. Once your children are older and more independent you can go back to working more hours if family life permits. Lastly I want to mention… The intention was never to be compassionate towards women when they gave women all these rights. The intention was to get women out of the home, put their children in institutions where they can be indoctrinated and of course to increase the flow of taxes. The feminist movement was based on a lie. Their intention was always sinister. Oh and one more thing… I absolutely hate the mingling of men and women in the workplace. Most affairs come from work. Keep an eye on your spouses.

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

Best comment ever. And they want both mom and dad in the work force so they can educate the kids while taking taxes from TWO parents instead of ONE. The state wins this way

@EB-gt1pq 2 жыл бұрын

@@malikiclique Another thing I want your viewers to know is, when I had my children I asked my supervisors for flexibility in my schedule. They both allowed me to temporarily cut my hours and even permanently work from home a few days a week. Folks, it doesn’t hurt to ask Your boss for flexibility. Many times they will give in to your request because they don’t want to lose you… They’re not gonna tell you this of course. It’s a lot easier to compromise with you than to hire a brand new employee.The worst that could happen is they’ll say no, the best that can happen is they will Give you what you want. You won’t know if you don’t ask.

@maryammirza7119 2 жыл бұрын

@Maliki Clique (Mr. Ali) is absolutely right , yours is the best comment ever MashaAllah . You retain a very balanced and intellectual approach and I hope your husband appreciates you . *As for your question* : " *While I know that feminism sold us a lie, why didn’t our Muslim mothers and aunts inform us that one day we too will be mothers and we need to put careers on the back burner, at least temporarily* ? " , I take pride in the fact that though educated enough I chose to work sporadically whenever I could manage so as not to miss out on/ignore my children's growing years . Alhamdulillah my children are two strong, responsible citizens with an appreciable set of ethical values. When we were marring off my daughter, who is a very focused , career-oriented and skilled Dental Surgeon , I sat her down and had a discussion with her , where I suggested to her that she had to be a home maker and a responsible wife / mother. I suggested that she should consider to put up her priorities in the right sequence , so that the responsibility of motherhood that Allah swt blesses her with should come foremost . Alhamdulillah she agreed to most of my logic and now she has taken time off to look after her little angelic daughter and her husband :) . My son knows he has to be able to support his wife/family financially , instead of asking her to contribute . I did not make an exceptional career like my sisters did ,but I raised two children that I am proud of Alhamdulillah .

@EmyEgy31 6 ай бұрын

I think a healthy balance should be for both and not just women, men too could miss their kids moments and leave his wife suffer with the kids alone, like she is single mother. father could take care of his children too, cook and clean when its needed.

@cherkaouifouad3893 2 жыл бұрын

Machae Allah, your wife is behaving wisely, keeping her work and at the same time looking for her man and sons, those women are just rare especially when years of dedication and commitments did'nt alter for what she promosided to do without changing on route...Your woman bro.is the real Muslimat. And all real Muslimates behave in same mode and this from ancient times...Allah bless your marriage....Ameen

@samanparvin26 2 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah, may Allah bless you both abundantly ❤ and thanks for this video😍

@alvirarahman1559 2 жыл бұрын

IDK why people portray 25 yr old women as someone devoid of degrees. I had my Bachelors done by the time I was 23. Unless brother means "Ph.D" or smth, cause I am not gonna go through with that, would much rather settle down and have children.

@programferris1018 2 жыл бұрын

You can literally finish it by 22!! And am talking for both men and women

@alvirarahman1559 2 жыл бұрын

@@programferris1018 I was finished with my exams by the time I was 22. It just took me few months to finish off my Thesis work because by that time pandemic had hit and our campus was closed off. I graduated completely just a month before my 23rd birthday.

@joy8801 2 жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah, you are amazing muslim. I wish i had such amazing father like you. I wish more people understood how deep the issue you are discussing is. May Allah protect you and your family from all evil and harms of the world ameen. Please read duas against evil eyes dear brother🤲🏻

@suziedurrani4863 2 жыл бұрын

Wow so well said! Masha'Allah

@user-mb4xq5cj1e 5 ай бұрын

Thank you very much for the lesson I hope every body learned from it ,,

@gazi8412 2 жыл бұрын

Wise words !

@30musabboouf61 Жыл бұрын

Mashallah brother well explained Jazak Allah khair never stop posting brother your videos are very helpful ❤

@atiqrahman7289 2 жыл бұрын

Good talk.

@yasminkausar5186 2 жыл бұрын

Its all about respecting and loving one another enough to work with one anothers strengths and weakenesses, respecting eachothers rights upon one another and respecting the fact that even within a marriage you give eachother space to be individuals without ownership...For Allah almighty has created 'man and woman' to compliment eachother and come together as a whole...When one or both take eachother for granted and their expectations exceed beyond the barrier of love and respect thats when troubles begin...Hadrat Khadijah (ra), wife of the Holy Prophet (sww), was an accomplished businesswoman, IF having a career was a bad choice for women this marriage wouldn't have come about, there was wisdom behind every act practised by our Prophet (sww)...She was also a respected wife and mother who fullfilled her duties beautifully...Our Prophet (pbuh) being the messenger of Allah (swt) didn't find this offensive but actually supported his wife as a tradesman at work aswell as helping at home with the daily household chores, this shows true love and affection...This didn't take anything away from his masculinity but actually enhanced it beyond the norm...Now a days lines of r Love and Respect have been blurred through the cultural expectations of 'who belongs in which box'...Instead of both parties working together to create an extention of their love and harmony each is constantley pushed and shoved into named boxes...Not every woman is a career seeking person but a support for her husband to keep a roof over their heads and NOT every man shy's away from supporting his wife in the home...Alhamdulilah🤲

@muslima2910 2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with this

@fizzycrush4021 2 жыл бұрын

The Quraan put alot of emphasis on women and mothers even paradise lies at the feet of mothers ,

@luma468 2 жыл бұрын

Paradise lies under the feet of the mothers is not a verse in Quran nor a Hadeeth from prophet mohammed peace be upon him. But it’s a saying that people use which indicates that if you do good to you parents you will please them and please god, but it’s not a verse(ayah) in quran nor hadeeth.

@fizzycrush4021 2 жыл бұрын

@@luma468 There are some scholars who agreed to this Hadith that indeed paradise lies at the feet of mothers , also an esteemed scholar by the name of Yasmin Muhammad made the same statement

@luma468 2 жыл бұрын

@@fizzycrush4021 it’s not a hadeeth it’s a saying that encourages people to do good and be kind and careful to your parents, but to use it as a literal meaning no it is not correct look up for known scholars that talked about it. Heaven lies under no one and the key to heaven is by obeying god and following his commands and one of them is to be good to your parents.

@fortuna-rk3ue 5 ай бұрын

Masha''Allah wife you got there buddy. Bless you and yours.

@alberxenos 2 жыл бұрын

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ As-Salaamu `Alaykum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barakaatuhu

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

Ws wr wb

@husna8031 2 жыл бұрын

Assalamu 'alaikum Akhi, have you tuned on Gabriel Al Romaani's channel? He's a long time mualaf too and his channel emphasises on nowadays marriage issues, feminisms, masculinity, family, and lgbt on Islam perspective, I think what he shares on his channel are very beneficial for muslim men and women. May Allah bless your family, barakallahufiikum... 🙏

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

Ws wr wb. Yes, I’ve known of him for a while now

@abdulrokib5583 Жыл бұрын

Masha-Allah, baraka-allah-fi. May Allah (SWT) bless you and your family in duniya and akhirat brother

@elyanasser3914 2 жыл бұрын

Alhamdullillah. Thats nice mashallah

@ErrorXTech 2 жыл бұрын

respects earned.

@mikelarson3104 4 ай бұрын

MashaAllah you are lucky to found such a woman is really cool ….

@joellekhan9643 Жыл бұрын

Well said....

@KtKo0t 5 ай бұрын

Allahuma barik May Allah bless you and your family

@MegaSaeedi 2 жыл бұрын

10:32, that is it. May Allah bless her and your good self as well.

@bamu8328 9 ай бұрын

Masha Allah 😊. Thank you for sharing

@waroenkkini3358 Жыл бұрын

MashaAllah. That is jackpot.

@safiazizi33 Жыл бұрын

Thanks brother

@biotronic6912 6 ай бұрын

As salamu Alayikum akhi, masha Allah, right, video is very right❤

@princeabdiwali1245 2 жыл бұрын

Masha Alah may Alah bless u and all ur family👨‍👩‍👦🙏

@Layla6793 2 жыл бұрын

Ma Sha Allah. May Allah bless your marriage

@joellekhan9643 Жыл бұрын

" How's your nirhari? " lol...love it❤❤

@umark5891 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful reminder. May Allah bless you and your wife tremendously. What's the online class you took where you met your wife?

@umikalthumabdulmajid5406 2 жыл бұрын

Salam Maliki. Wat ever u've said is well and good for u and your wife,alhamdullilah. Frm my own experience, after witnessing & experiencing my late father's treatment of my late mum(who begot him 13 children, was a nurse supporting him wen he was still in College), his treatment of us (or shld I say his selfish regard of us children wen young until adulthood!), his heavy drinking of hard liquor, chained smoking,womanising, nonchalance for our general well being(u get my drift), and observing my own brother's behaviour toward their wives, d Islamic religious authorities treatment of Muslim women in my ctry(Msia), I can only say tqvm to Allah'sSWT frm saving me frm d marriage institution as it is. U 4got to mention dat d Muslim men can hav up to 4 wives, at least in my ctry. So, wat can happen is, d man marries 4 working wives, wen they die he ends up enjoying 4 pensions frm his wives!! Better still, he marries more than 1 working wife, doesn't maintain her nor their offsprings, gets to 'enjoy her' with no responsibilities(since zina is strictly prohibited by d same religious authorities)! We've not talked abt d Muslim law of inheritance, dat's another hair raising episode for d Muslim women here!!

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

Try not to let that affect your life. Easier said than done. But it steps towards healing have to be taken

@umikalthumabdulmajid5406 2 жыл бұрын

@@lilyrosesoul0077 I guess it is in Allah's SWT 's plans for me not to b married for I must confess HE bestowed on me such strength of character dat even I hav to admit there's hardly any man strong enough to accept me warts and all?!! Guess to those men who r single I frighten them(d married ones hav no bz being unfaithful to their wives and kids, not dat I subscribe to polygamy) with my God given carriage and forth rightness 😁!! Instead, HE has given so much blessings in my carreer and dealings in life dat I end up taking care of my siblings(those who r in need) & other relatives, surbordinates and acquiantances. For I firmly believe in my religion and wat it stands for.

@humbleness5864 2 жыл бұрын

Oh brother you hit the nail on the head 5.44 Many people don't realise that this is the issues nowadays , and I found it very amusing that the men/women today enjoying hanging out with non mahram and clubbing etc but when u ask about their preferable partner they will select someone complete opposite to them? Why?

@Fatima.114 2 жыл бұрын

TabarakAllah

@libanshaur2969 2 жыл бұрын

mashallah well said

@saberbensaber3196 Жыл бұрын

قال الرحمة للعالمين و شفيع. المذنبين : خيركم خيركم لأهله و انا خيركم لآهله

@MegaSaeedi 2 жыл бұрын

6:40, hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@fortuna-rk3ue 5 ай бұрын

6:38 hahahahaha, I LOVE IT!

@Fatima.114 2 жыл бұрын

Alhamdulilah

@Si_nengatcha 2 жыл бұрын

As a woman who hasn't gotten married, a lot of times I don't even get the chance to explain myself like your wife did. Most often than not, people assume I'm an ambitious career woman or worse, ASSUMING I have so may criteria for a husband. Well, once I told my -love to assume- coworker who happens to be male, that I'm busy with work coz I don't have anything to get busy with at home. I seemed dedicated to my job, coz I feel responsible to the projects I'm entrusted. Would being lazy and has nothing to do would be more attractive? Would being untrustworthy and unreliable at work will give me more brownie points from potential suitor? That's ridiculous, right? And of course, I have criteria for a husband. Even when buying clothes, you want something that fits you, right? But there's a big difference between wanting clothes that fit and flattering you with wanting branded clothing just because of the name brand.. Some even accuse my degree as a deterrent for potential man, to which I answer: do you want intelligent woman who can teach your kids or stupid woman who can't teach your kids nor understand you? Besides, a Smart woman know how to place herself and know how to conduct, and a woman with iman would know her obligations without being yelled at. Edit: men as well

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

I see that there is a need for me to do more videos like this. I’m on it

@Si_nengatcha 2 жыл бұрын

@@malikiclique yes, this kind of topic rarely get to be discussed. Besides, most of the time we learn the ideal stuff (and we want it), but forget that reality rarely ideal.

@user-zc3tn2we1g 2 жыл бұрын

the most important knowlegde a women can get is islamic knowledge. that should be the prioity my sister

@EB-gt1pq 2 жыл бұрын

Well sister, you certainly don’t need a degree to teach your children anything. There are plenty of women without college degrees that do just fine teaching their kids.

@programferris1018 2 жыл бұрын

@@user-zc3tn2we1g there is no prohibition from seeking other forms of permisible knowledge. When it comes to permissible knowledge it's the same for both men and women

@ishfaqallam4069 2 жыл бұрын

🌹🌹🌹

@FaresFares-oc3vx Жыл бұрын

I just love you brother ♥️ ♥️

@A.S.M_Thank_You_Allah 9 ай бұрын

MashAllah.

@badjansait2736 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely you are lucky.

@Jimboyx 2 жыл бұрын

♥️

@decTac Жыл бұрын

Truth.. Man must be rasional and 'adil to his wife.. respect her and she will respect you..

@aymanus04 2 жыл бұрын

Thats EPIC

@harleyqueen3968 Жыл бұрын

Masha Allah ❤❤❤❤❤

@olivemadinah 2 жыл бұрын

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

@troybriggs1916 2 жыл бұрын

👍👍

@WAHRHEIT402 2 жыл бұрын

💓💓💓

@deadpoolstrikesagain3914 Жыл бұрын

I guess you are fortunate where both have a suitable life income set up. Mashallah. Many others (women) have to work to make ends meet and most men are ok with that as it takes away the financial stress. Situations may differ and circumstances. It is difficult if there are children involved...school extra curricular stuff docs dentists etc most women work for extra cash to support their families . But some do leave kids and husbands and chores and many are the only breadwinners..so I feel it differs from situation to situation.

@khalidalfordog5210 7 ай бұрын

May Allah bless u

@islamicclips2103 2 жыл бұрын

I find what you said interesting, but, what about your wife free mixing with men? That might be the only thing I'm stuck on.

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

My wife doesn’t mix, she works from home. But if u are referring yourself, I would say that it’s not an option for u if u can’t tolerate it This is why we talk before marriage. This is why we see if we are compatible with each other before we allow the feelings to come in If your wife working with men bothers u (it’s bothers me as well) then it’s still possible to marry a woman that wants to be a stay at home mom or that works from home It’s all about finding her now, or her finding u. I hope that helps

@IRAM_rehman 2 жыл бұрын

All the feminist women out there will be pulling there hair out right now lol. Truth is the truth though!

@EB-gt1pq 2 жыл бұрын

It’s tough for women. Since childhood we’ve been drilled into believing education is the most important thing only to become wives and mothers, then to realize your family is the most important thing. Society is not honest with women. While in college someone should’ve told us not to believe the feminist fantasy of having it all. I was born Muslim, why didn’t anyone tell me the reality?

@programferris1018 2 жыл бұрын

@@EB-gt1pq I don't understand with all due respect cause seeing your comment is like saying why don't men from childhood told that they are going to be fathers/husbands and not chase carrers? Studying is permissible in of itself, motherhood/ wife is a separate path of life distinct from personal preferences when it comes to education so why are you confusing the both? Just take your words and apply it to men and see the similarity

@mohdazramahmood6601 16 күн бұрын

Assalamualaikum brother.... How you doing? I don't know how to tell you about this... This young man maybe have a lot of question about Islam and prophet Muhammad peace.be.upon.Him... His name is Grayson Brock... I wish Allah s.w.t will guide him to the straight path.... Aaminn....

@EB-gt1pq 2 жыл бұрын

Brothers can I ask you something? I honestly don’t understand the concept of obeying your husband. What does that mean exactly? Obey in what way? Can you give specifics. The reason I ask is that my husband, God bless him, is a terrible decision maker. Because of that I have to manage all of our finances and have honestly learned to not trust him with certain things. I feel he makes immature decisions at times. So how do I obey a spouse like that? If I left him to manage money, we would probably be bankrupt. If I let him do most of the children’s discipline, they will goof off and watch TV all day. He’s a good man, he just doesn’t get a lot of things.

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

U might not want my answer, So I’m gonna Segway out if this. Side note, there is nothing wrong with consulting your wife. Final word goes to the husband though Otherwise there can be a lack of respect from your end to him and resentment from him to you. It doesn’t go well king term

@EB-gt1pq 2 жыл бұрын

@@malikiclique Tell me more! Don’t Segway!

@malikiclique 2 жыл бұрын

@@EB-gt1pq nah…trust me, u don’t want what I have to say

@sageallcaps 2 жыл бұрын

Your wife is living my dream wallahi, I’ve always wanted that type of career

@Fatima.114 2 жыл бұрын

Guard against wishing for what one may have. Only Allah knows how they got there. We must protect our emotions at every single encounter we face our emotions will not run the show :)