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How Long Till Your Ex Wants You Back?

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Clay Andrews

Clay Andrews

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Clay Andrews answers the question, "How long till your ex wants you back?"
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How long till your ex misses you and wants you back? Is it a month? Or is it 45 days, because... science?
The truth is that it's not a matter of time.
It's a matter of how much they value the emotional connection that the two of you had.
If they did not value the connection, then no amount of time is going to bring the two of you back together again.
So, please stop seeing No Contact as the one tool you have at your disposal.
The truth is that there are other things that you can do to move things in your favor.
If you want to learn how to know your ex wants you back, you have to look at the emotional connection. Does it need to be nurtured more? If there isn't much leverage that you have, emotionally over your ex, then, yes, you're going to need to do that, which is where the Advanced Relational Skills come in to play.
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@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching everyone. I hope you're safe and well this time of year. Please remember to take care of yourself and to be compassionate with yourself during these stressful and crazy times.
@markfaber5112
@markfaber5112 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this one , it really helped me go to a good place , and feel better , what if my wife separated from me two and a half years ago and did not file for divorce yet , I'm working on myself , but is time still on my side ?
@adamoart211
@adamoart211 3 жыл бұрын
There are people out there who would no doubtingly respond to you if you reached out to them, but won't initiate the first contact themselves. It's a very common thing after a breakup.
@rr_spec1809
@rr_spec1809 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched all the different “company’s” or “relationships counselors” online that offer advice on getting your ex back or just trying to gain understanding of what they are going through... clays, you honestly seem like the most genuine, legit and informational one I’ve found. The rest bank on no contact and then we are left with... now what? Work on myself? Sure but then what after that... you’re awesome and thanks for freely putting out there for the masses.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, RR_ Spec1. We appreciate that you subscribed to our channel as well. :-)
@h3arty
@h3arty 3 жыл бұрын
WOW! Very original content I haven't heard anywhere else. Excellent!!! Love this!
@christinemanning6536
@christinemanning6536 3 жыл бұрын
Love it. Great advice!
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@jamieganster5605
@jamieganster5605 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Clay, I really learned a lot about getting an ex back from your videos and it has rendered me good success. It’s exceptionally hard when they have avoidant attachment syndrome. Have you done specific videos about attachment styles and tips? Help would be great. Thanks
@beatrixkiddo13
@beatrixkiddo13 2 жыл бұрын
Lol your very real comments on NO CONTACT always make me laugh… thank you Clay, I needed it this morning! 😂
@Himothy_xx
@Himothy_xx 3 жыл бұрын
No contact for 3 weeks, it’s getting better and better. Day by day. 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
That's great to hear. :-)
@mikey5848
@mikey5848 Жыл бұрын
I like your realistic snd logical way of thinking. I think a lot of this stuff comes down to instincts and what your heart tells you whats right.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews Жыл бұрын
@mikey5848 , I appreciate that!
@bsexboy
@bsexboy Жыл бұрын
This is better if you had a bad relationship but if you treated them good and they left I don't think you should ever reach back out
@mikey5848
@mikey5848 Жыл бұрын
@@bsexboy Agreed
@legony1
@legony1 3 жыл бұрын
The néw sound effects are the best. ❤️🙂
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for that. :-)
@_tvbeauty
@_tvbeauty 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve noticed that your one of the only coaches that’s actually married lol some of the others are still single, but giving relationship advice lol.
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h I m n o w V i a W h a t s A p p
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
+2 3 4 8 1 5 3 3 2 5 3 4 4
@IndiansAuto
@IndiansAuto 2 жыл бұрын
Hahhaha, same as my exes girlfriends
@robertpreski262
@robertpreski262 3 жыл бұрын
I was in a 4 month relationship. Pretty good relationship honestly. Moved fast unfortunately. Been in NC since July 1. I believe I was the rebound. She's back with her ex. FB picture updates prove that. Kinda confused. Active NC has been wonders. Feeling good honestly. Wondering if I should just forget everything and move on
@tintinpenaredondo6531
@tintinpenaredondo6531 3 жыл бұрын
In my opinion is depend to the attachment style of the person. As I heard DA mostly 3 months... Than the FA and AP attachment style.
@jessicanavarrete3196
@jessicanavarrete3196 3 жыл бұрын
Love your content-my ex just got out of a rebound relationship and he’s sad, and we are still in contact-so I’m just building our emotional connection ( based in where he is and maybe he still has feelings for me )
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Jessica, going through another breakup is truly never easy. It's great to hear that you are focusing on building connection and allowing him to heal. :-)
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship..
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h I m n o w V i a W h a t s A p p..
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
+2 3 4 8 1 5 3 3 2 5 3 4 4.
@airajeanmadrid
@airajeanmadrid 3 жыл бұрын
I've been watching your videos lately Mr Andrews and I find it logical. Im in this situation where my ex has been communicating for more than 4 mos now (after breaking up 4 yrs ago) in getting back together. I dont know to respond to him. May be u can tell me which of your videos to watch? Thanks 💓
@ilyasse1250
@ilyasse1250 3 жыл бұрын
00:15 that smile tho
@davidc5247
@davidc5247 3 жыл бұрын
The time it takes for your ex to come back is something you can't put a time on, as every relationship breakup are different, as their journey back to you shouldn't be rushed they will come back to you if they want to be with you and if they ended the relationship then they shouldn't be pushed to you if they are wanting to get back together with you, time will work everything out
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
I agree, each couple has their own unique journey. That is why instead of focusing on the events or timeframe, we have to focus on the process itself.
@davidc5247
@davidc5247 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews Yes your very right, if they love you then they will eventually come back to you if he or she is wanting that. United Kingdom
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h I m n o w V i a W h a t s A p p
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
+2 3 4 8 1 5 3 3 2 5 3 4 4
@russelllein6773
@russelllein6773 3 жыл бұрын
With no response to contact, and a fresh engagement, it's going to be a while.
@jaredvennett4036
@jaredvennett4036 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that
@williamdolan7189
@williamdolan7189 Жыл бұрын
Just asked the other day on a coffee date and she said just not ready been 6 months so I’ll wait another 6 lol
@rr_spec1809
@rr_spec1809 3 жыл бұрын
Hey clay, do you offer one on one paid counseling? I’ve watched almost all your basic videos(not really advanced yet), but thanks to your guidance I’ve made it to the point where my ex is initiating a lot of the conversation, but then will randomly pull back. Mainly, I feel like I’m at the point my knowledge level has gotten to its plateaued. Shes conversing and wants to hangout this coming weekend... but it’s that riding the dragon. So it’s the grey area where I could either screw this up or guide it over the other side. However, now it’s in that riding the dragon stage where she opens up, we have good convo, and then gone, then back again the next day. Mainly I don’t have a clue to break that cycle. My brain defaults back to I’m uncomfortable with it because I’m so use to her making me her main priority. In turn I want to chase it over do things to keep that positivity going, but then pull back myself. So it’s this back n forth affect by both of us because I don’t know how to move things forward. I can tell she still has really strong feelings but her actions/words are also showing she’s moving on hence, she’s moving. Yet, just ended a great conversation. Thanks! Keep up the great videos
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, we do. You can check this link for our coaching >> www.modernlove.life/coaching
@yeoitscori3618
@yeoitscori3618 3 жыл бұрын
I just realized.. Coach It has been a year of watching your videos means a year of long distance breakup I have realized. What can i do in this long distance breakup after I change and I don't know how to establish a communication platform with nothing in mind I can bring up to talk about... Please I can't get work overseas either n my circumstances is just too much.
@cyrusraj2603
@cyrusraj2603 3 жыл бұрын
But no contact is very powerful..
@lukelee7826
@lukelee7826 3 жыл бұрын
I know why my ex is completely ignoring me for the past three months, I wasn’t meeting her emotional needs towards the end of the relationship and would always make up excuses when she asked me to move in with her because I was scared that it might not work although I really loved her I just didn’t show her the love she deserved and now I’m left with this heavy burden and it’s eating me alive knowing I’ll never hear a word from her again....I’ve been going through a lot this year and I would ignore her messages a lot because I didn’t really like talking about the crap I was dealing with .....
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
I understand how hard it must be for you not get any responses from her. since her wall of reactance is still up, what are the things that you have been doing to heal and improve on yourself?
@mikeleo7922
@mikeleo7922 3 жыл бұрын
Wow man I definitely understand what you mean. Definitely had the same experience, not moving in. Was engaged ready to get married next month. Sorry you had the same deal.
@lukelee7826
@lukelee7826 3 жыл бұрын
@@mikeleo7922 it’s shattered me bro I feel you
@Orval24
@Orval24 3 жыл бұрын
Hi clay one quick question i don't think I have asked how can I reattract my ex wife if she is really happy in her new relationship and his family treats her like family I'm afraid at this point I truly have lost her so if u could please give me any answer u can it would be really appreciated
@williamdolan7189
@williamdolan7189 Жыл бұрын
It can be months or even a year or longer every situation is different
@NCrockhunters
@NCrockhunters 3 жыл бұрын
She broke things off in may after a few months of dating saying she needed time and space to figure out what she wants. Didn’t hear from her for 3 1/2 months. Came back and said that she doesn’t think we should get back together right now and that she wants to stay in contact tho. We hungout some over the last couple months since we go to the same college. Still adamant on that she doesn’t want a relationship right now and is communicating isn’t pushing us apart but isn’t really bringing us together. So I don’t really know what to do. We still talk everyday but Idk if I should go total N.C. till she comes back. Or doesn’t
@RaziaOx
@RaziaOx 3 жыл бұрын
If she asks you something, then just reply with an answer and that all. Don’t continue but just reply her question and that all. Do your own things and show her that you’re doing well without her. Do not always say yes to hanging out with her, have your own things to do.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Dexter, if you do Active No Contact, make sure that you do it for yourself and not just to get her back. Take the Active No Contact period to learn the Advance Relational Skills and heal from the breakup. ANC can be an opportunity to gain your own emotional balance back. This process is not just about our ex but it is about developing a healthy relationship with our own self as well.
@SueM65
@SueM65 3 жыл бұрын
Been 1.5 and we're just starting to talk again, on a daily basis. Hopefully we will get back together one day
@rg7432
@rg7432 3 жыл бұрын
45 days it is..sometimes what u talk i feel like will collapse a chance to get back
@suhelgmz7563
@suhelgmz7563 Жыл бұрын
What to do if they keep calling you on private and not talking?
@taoyang100
@taoyang100 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been trying active no contact for 2 weeks now after my ex told me she didn’t want to be friends with anymore out of know where basically the balls in her court and I’ve been working on myself a lot, but I’m not sure when or how I should reach out to her once I’m ready
@MScott-fc9wf
@MScott-fc9wf 3 жыл бұрын
Dont reach out 💯 The ball is in her court, so let her reach out first 💯💯 Always remember that SHE dumped YOU; therefore she should be the one who comes back 💯 Work on yourself as much as possible and let time work her 💯💯💯 She is expecting you to reach out to feed her ego 💯💯
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Darksonic, it sounds like your ex's wall of reactance is still quite high for now. Remember that this is a process that you both have to go through. Try to continue doing Active No Contact until you have reached the Effortless Connection phase and is detached to any form of outcome.
@karbon-sgs3350
@karbon-sgs3350 3 жыл бұрын
Question. If your ex is saying things like we are never getting back together or why don't you move on with your life with no reason for them to say that especially since its been over a year and you've done nothing to try and get them back is that them projecting that they still aren't over you? I have zero interest in getting back with her and it's bothering me that she says these things, I find it's better to spend the energy into finding a new relationship than on a past one. So I'm just trying to understand if this is her still not moving on.
@carlosantunes0318
@carlosantunes0318 3 жыл бұрын
There was a disconnect for some time and then my EX went into a rebound relationship after one of her girlfriends told her I was looking for someone else. I wasn't aware of this. NC for 5 months now. Now I am not sure if what I'm getting are breadcrumbs. She states on her IG profile she is in a "difficult" relationship along with a pic of her where I was the photographer. This is a long distance relationship.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Carlos, it sounds like there's a misunderstanding and disconnect in your situation. Have you tried communicating with her?
@carlosantunes0318
@carlosantunes0318 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews No. There was never closure. The issues we had were never discussed. I believe the "difficult" relationship she mentions on IG is ours. I'm not sure what the status is about her rebound relationship. Today is her birthday.
@maychin14
@maychin14 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Clay, what do you do, if after over a year since the break up (with pleading, begging ex to come back, getting her gift), she blocks me. We haven't texted properly since the break up (no actual conversations, no F2F meet-ups). Just blocked, even though I've definitely changed for the better. Am I too hung up emotionally, or does this mean there is really no longer any chance? It's a pretty dire situation. Tks for ur advice.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Blocking over social media can still not be the ultimate sign that things are really over. I guess the lack of communication in the dynamics needs to be improved on to understand where you both at emotionally in this given moment.
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship..
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h I m n o w V i a W h a t s A p p..
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
+2 3 4 8 1 5 3 3 2 5 3 4 4.
@ripansaha890
@ripansaha890 3 жыл бұрын
No contacts for 5 months
@khinmay1165
@khinmay1165 3 жыл бұрын
Clay.I love your videos. Your videos make me feel hopeful about me and my ex bf or sometime just me.I m going through breakup and its been really hard for me. i got dumped for no special reasons and it has been 3 weeks. I did no contact for 2 weeks ( our relationship was only 3 months long ) and i texted him and he replied back to me in nice way but i just step back constantly so i dont seem desperate because he did say the reason why we ended is because i kept annoying him with serious questions ( i did beg and plead when he dumped me ) and i want to ask you something. Can i build an emotional connection without any contact ? We are still friends on facebook. he checks my my days everytime. is it good to post things thatd make him think of our time together or plans we made together ? Also , we have a huge age gap. he's 28 i am 20. is age going to effect us? Please help me Clay. I look up to u alot 🥺
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Khin, communication is essential in building emotional connection. If your ex's wall of reactance is still high, it is best to prepare your self with the Advanced Relational Skills. Your age gap is not that significant but it's the maturity of being handling the relationship will make more impact.
@khinmay1165
@khinmay1165 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews Thank u so much Clay. i will look into Advanced Relational Skills. 🙏
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship..
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h I m n o w V i a W h a t s A p p..
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
+2 3 4 8 1 5 3 3 2 5 3 4 4.
@bcarey7851
@bcarey7851 3 жыл бұрын
Haven't heard from ex in a month and a half. This morning she found out my mom had passed away so she said shes sorry to her about it and asked if I'm ok told her yea im good and asked are you sure and I said yes and she said ok. The reasons she gave me to as why she ended things were simple to change like spend more time with her. Dress nice for her help around the house more stuff like that. But I found out a bit later by the guy shes with now his ex told me all that was a lie and that the guy conned her in leaving me for him so I thought no wonder why she didn't let me change things its bc of they guy talking her into leaving me
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h I m n o w V i a W h a t s A p p
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
+2 3 4 8 1 5 3 3 2 5 3 4 4
@ritakirire4379
@ritakirire4379 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Clay my ex just got out of a four months rebound relationship and is really showing me he wants us back together. Me on the other hand am not very unsure on how to deal with this situation. Any advice
@TheSorrel
@TheSorrel 3 жыл бұрын
Ask him why he broke up in the first place and what has changed since then. Love is an emotion, but at this point, you need a rational reason why it might work out this time.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Rita, there's a difference by showing that he wants for both of you to get back together (which may how you perceive the dynamics) as compared to if he said that he wanted to get back together. These are the two different side that you have to be aware of.
@Arcange93iam
@Arcange93iam 3 жыл бұрын
Move on
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship..
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h I m n o w V i a W h a t s A p p..
@gracelepri-valitutti2633
@gracelepri-valitutti2633 3 жыл бұрын
What if l was just dating him? Will this work?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Grace, dating is an opportunity for two people to get to know each other and see if both are compatible. You have to check first if both of your wants and needs are aligned with each other.
@natedawg6547
@natedawg6547 3 жыл бұрын
I wish she would come back...
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
The possibility of getting back together will always be there, Nate. It will just depend on the actions that we will take and refuse to do. :-)
@lararivera3659
@lararivera3659 3 жыл бұрын
So, I didn’t get it. NC is powerful, but when is it ok to break it? My ex bf left me a little over a month ago. It was a LDR and I just came back from visiting him and three days later he broke up with me. I was so in shock that I hardly respond to what he was saying. I decided not to contact him, but should I or should I keep the NC?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Lara, it is okay to break Active No Contact if you have fully strengthened the Advanced Relational Skills and have reached the Effortless Connection Stage. :-) We talk about this inside the Ex Solution Program course.
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h I m n o w V i a W h a t s A p p
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
+2 3 4 8 1 5 3 3 2 5 3 4 4
@cesarromo3745
@cesarromo3745 3 жыл бұрын
To late for me found out she just got married after being 5 months being officially broken up you live and you learn never again.
@catz8XinTheHat
@catz8XinTheHat 3 жыл бұрын
😳 5 months??? Omg
@cesarromo3745
@cesarromo3745 3 жыл бұрын
Yup 5 months kept talking to me all that time almost every day she would talk to me until one day she dipped havent heard from her since nov 7 of this month just found out she got married let’s see how long that last i do wish her the best though.
@catz8XinTheHat
@catz8XinTheHat 3 жыл бұрын
@@cesarromo3745 so sorry, thats terrible
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Cesar, the news must have really surprised you. I hope that you are holding on well.
@Arcange93iam
@Arcange93iam 3 жыл бұрын
She's been plotting this from the start... Sorry to hear bro
@thediso4a4t56
@thediso4a4t56 3 жыл бұрын
How about we have reached out each other after 4 months break up and sorted out things and decided to be together in slow motion but a month later she said she has new boyfriend,but she is still jealous about me when she sees opposite gender with me and checking up on me through social media how to behave with all these ?
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
How do you feel about having a same team conversation with her?
@thediso4a4t56
@thediso4a4t56 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews When things pulled apart while break up, it was like while lockdown and she was kinda outside of city which am living and we could not meet oftenly and it been like getting revenge on each other , how would i reverse all of it ?
@amyjohnson5044
@amyjohnson5044 3 жыл бұрын
So basically we text them when we are ready and if we don’t get a response we harass them later? I’m so confused. How do we initiate contact to get on an emotional level with them??!!!!
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Amy, I would recommend that you check our Effortless Connection course or Connect and Commit program. In that way, you'll have a deep understanding of the process. ;-)
@amyjohnson5044
@amyjohnson5044 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews I actually finally got a text back! So far, so good! I think
@suchetnabanerjee9024
@suchetnabanerjee9024 3 жыл бұрын
Hey clay My ex has been talking to me but she tells her friends that she speaks to me just because she has to to avoid drama...but she hates it when I grow cold or distant...and starts to fight.She wants to talk to me but when I talk to she she acts just like any other friend and acts distant.(we talk everyday and if we dont she gets pissed.)
@philip-ines9527
@philip-ines9527 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Clay, I was in two months no contact with my ex. I messaged her after a storm hit her place just to see how she is. We ended up talking casually until just a bit passed midnight. She was still firm with her decision with the breakup and I told her I respect it, but I still disagree with breakup. She contacted me the next day to ask something for work. After that we have not contacted each other. Is it too late?
@peyotekaiyote4312
@peyotekaiyote4312 3 жыл бұрын
She's attempting to use you, dude. She sees you are still emotionally tied to her and trying to see how much you will pursue her despite saying she wants any sort of new start. Move on, my guy. THEN she will miss you
@philip-ines9527
@philip-ines9527 3 жыл бұрын
@@peyotekaiyote4312 thanks for the advice.
@philip-ines9527
@philip-ines9527 3 жыл бұрын
@@owenmoriera4155 congratulations, thank you for the advice.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
If we disagree with the breakup, it is like we are not respecting their wishes for space. But her asking for something that is work related is a different story. I am not sure what your ex is asking for but is it something that you are comfortable doing for her?
@philip-ines9527
@philip-ines9527 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews I'm kind of comfortable with it since she asked.
@tiffanimilburn8885
@tiffanimilburn8885 3 жыл бұрын
He’s right. If we miss someone is because of the connection and the times we’ve had with that person, and not necessarily the length of time. No contact doesn’t always work and sometimes it can backfire. And this is just my opinion but somebody really needs to clean up those shards of broken glass. LOL
@kobebig1
@kobebig1 3 жыл бұрын
💙 HELP. my ex blocked me two months ago and I texted her saying happy thanksgiving. She replied with the same. What shall I do.??thx💙
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Johnny, have you tried to keep the conversation going?
@kobebig1
@kobebig1 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews thx so much. She just said thanks, hope you have a great holiday with your family. I don’t know if I should text her or what since she didn’t bother to ask how I’m doing etc.
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
But you could have lead the conversation instead of waiting for having a passive approach, right?
@kobebig1
@kobebig1 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews yes you are right. Should I keep it light and funny?
@kobebig1
@kobebig1 3 жыл бұрын
So, we’ve been texting here and there. I initiate funny flirty texts and she replies with Lmao Ana stuff but she hasn’t asked how I’ve been. Should I ask her how’s she been or go with her flow? I’m also waiting a few hours to reply. Thx.
@QuantumAwakening33
@QuantumAwakening33 3 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me because I disrespected our trust i was caught in cos piracy of cheating because I had downloaded tinder and I tried to break NC after 1.5 months apologized many times after the break up and she said we need more time it’s been 3 months and haven’t heard from her I know she misses me and probably feels the way I do we had a very close relationship for years should I try to contact again I have been working on myself alot to not repeat my mistakes. Should I wait for her to reach back to me I’m so lost
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Jake, since three months had passed, are you emotionally ready to reach out to her and is detached to any form of outcome or expectations?
@QuantumAwakening33
@QuantumAwakening33 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews I have been for a while now and I am trying to let go of expectations but I can’t help to know my life would be so much better with her but this time apart I have worked on making my life better for myself.
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h I m n o w V i a W h a t s A p p
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
+2 3 4 8 1 5 3 3 2 5 3 4 4
@lesleymiller8446
@lesleymiller8446 3 жыл бұрын
Well iv just had my divorce granted so theres no going back for us!
@ClayAndrews
@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about what happened, Lesley. We understand how tough this must be for you. We hope that you are holding on well.
@lesleymiller8446
@lesleymiller8446 3 жыл бұрын
@@ClayAndrews im doing very well thanks and im very excited knowing that i'll never see him or speak to him again and cant wait for those papers coming in the post 😁
@rr_spec1809
@rr_spec1809 3 жыл бұрын
@@lesleymiller8446 but yet you’re on here? Are you sure that’s how you really feel?
@lesleymiller8446
@lesleymiller8446 3 жыл бұрын
@@rr_spec1809 its still good to learn about these types of people
@clarahammar966
@clarahammar966 3 жыл бұрын
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
@DJVibeDubstep
@DJVibeDubstep 3 жыл бұрын
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@jason2723
@jason2723 8 ай бұрын
You can’t compare a house to a person. Also you old house isn’t going to go and sleep with someone new. I guarantee someone else will move in
@jason2723
@jason2723 8 ай бұрын
They miss you when their options run out
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