How Me and My Wife Met... (It's Not What You Think)

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People ask me a lot, “How did you meet your wife?”
Well, it wasn’t just one decision. It was actually a few simple steps that even an introvert like me could use to be in exactly the right place to meet Audrey when I did.
I believe anyone can apply this advice in their dating lives to find love. So if you want to maximize your chances of meeting (and attracting) someone amazing, the 3 practical steps I mention in this video could lead you to your person . . . possibly without you ever having to swipe right!
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@MariaM-qq6kv 2 ай бұрын

1. Get out of the house 2. Eye contact 3. Proximity 4. Say something 5. Have the mindset of being open to love rather than the fear of rejection

@tallspicy 2 ай бұрын

Yikes! What a gross misunderstanding of mirroring a man or letting a man lead concept. Healthy people don’t need to be so rigid. That comes from fear. There is a big difference between saying hi, and saying hi and throwing yourself at someone. It’s like you did not watch the video.

@winspiff 2 ай бұрын

This comment doesn’t seem to reflect the comment before it. This person was just summarizing the video very concisely, not saying that anyone needed to throw themselves at someone?

@MadalenaKC 2 ай бұрын

be famous with proper account

@Portia620 2 ай бұрын

Fear of rejection is soooo something I’ll never understand!!! You could miss some amazing opportunities !!! Wake up America!

@aneeznovelist2176 Ай бұрын

this nails it perfectly Mariam!

@Xianne027 2 ай бұрын

We seriously need to hear from Audrey about what she was thinking at that moment went she approached Mathew. I would appreciate her take on this. She won a gem of a man, so she must have some great advice for us!

@empea3837 2 ай бұрын

Yes! And she’s a gem too!

@meetandinspire 2 ай бұрын

Yes!

@estherbolekia 2 ай бұрын

Definitely! If she shares any advice I’ll follow it as the ultimate truth. She surely knows more than many female dating coaches out there

@melanalyvka6109 2 ай бұрын

No doubt at all... Would be nice to read or hear that story ❤ 🎉

@micap1121 2 ай бұрын

I LOVE her takes and the way she discusses this topic. Would run to watch it

@lujeinMoh 2 ай бұрын

Summary: 1. Go out more: increase your possibility to collide more. (2-4) be approachable, make people braver around you 👇🏽 2. When you like someone, be inviting: eye contact, not only one, multiple times. Don’t be creepy though 👀. 3. Get closer. 4. Say something,,, anything, to show you’re open to talk. Tip: what can go wrong? cold moment, awkward silence, rejection…. So what 😂 On the other hand, you might actually ⚡️

@tinyelephant77 2 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@35pri2ish 2 ай бұрын

Hmmmm

@preethiprez 2 ай бұрын

"I have to live in such a way that makes people around me brave." This is such a beautiful statement that can be applied to any person or encounter in our lives.

@juliecraig6770 2 ай бұрын

sounds like Audrey was the brave one all round! 😂😂

@Langron 2 ай бұрын

again it's been a few years and this is the surface just like when he scammed thousands of women

@watcharaw Ай бұрын

Hardly brave when she probably already knew he is a millionaire

@wangcheng5188 Ай бұрын

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

@paulinebricks3441 Ай бұрын

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

@wangcheng5188 Ай бұрын

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her/him?

@wangcheng5188 Ай бұрын

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

@erin2625 Ай бұрын

Probably should've put a ring on it instead of lolligagging for 5 yrs

@rsivkova Ай бұрын

@pauline how much her services cost?

@wandag.2073 2 ай бұрын

This definitely meant for me... Cause I'm still waiting for the love of my life to break into my home as much as I stay in😅

@zoetsahai 2 ай бұрын

Same hahah this year I must go out more! We can do it 😅

@IntuitivelyDriven 2 ай бұрын

😂😂

@joyfulreflections 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@MsCrizzleG 2 ай бұрын

I felt this 😂

@Listenlyssa 2 ай бұрын

I’m laughing so hard because I have said this exact quote before as a comment on some other video out there on KZfaq. 🤣

@NadiaBokody Ай бұрын

Audrey is such a boss. She led this entire encounter!

@meerkat783 2 ай бұрын

SMILE. If you see someone without one, give them one of yours. A smile says a thousands words.

@WorldWideWebObserver 2 ай бұрын

Great advice!😃

@Karina_Engr 2 ай бұрын

This is a cute saying

@alanikeiser 2 ай бұрын

I have been rejected so many times over the past 14 years of being single. But I am still putting myself out there.

@sergiolopez2440 2 ай бұрын

My respect to you!!!! I admire your attitude

@elizabethdalton-jandreau5588 Ай бұрын

Right on. Keep going! Been there, too, and it WILL happen, friend.🙌

@calmandcozymeditationvideo6230 2 ай бұрын

I wanted to say thank you Matthew! I've read your book and listened to your content for several years, practicing being open to conversations and making myself easy to talk to (not natural for an introvert but I intentionally learned!). I'd given up on modern dating, but kept practicing in public with no goals except warm curiosity to make friends and have interesting interactions with strangers. A few months ago I was at the car dealership getting work done on my car when another customer came and sat a few seats away. I struck up a casual conversation. We talked easily an hour and by the time his car was fixed I'd slid him my phone number. Texting turned into meeting up as friends, a few months passed and we both admitted we liked each other. We've been dating steadily almost a year now. So thank you, because of practicing being open for anything I met my first ever boyfriend - at age 39. You really never know when the right atoms will bump into each other!

@coyoter9691 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I've yet to have a boyfriend (33 yrs old), because of social anxiety and isolation. I'm not bad looking at all, just in bad circumstances. Your story gave me hope that it could still happen, I just need to put myself out there and work on being more approachable and warm to others.

@girlygirl1890 2 ай бұрын

@calmandcozy OMG! Such a cute story. And yes, you were brave, which worked out wonderfully for you! Love your story and wishing you lots of good luck and great vibes for your relationship. 🙏🙂💕

@giannishen 2 ай бұрын

Ever since I got to know you, I feel that your wife is the luckiest person in the world! You did a super great job, thanks a lot for sharing! 👍😄👏

@LoveeeeelyM 2 ай бұрын

I love hearing “my wife” 😍🥰😍🥰 sooooo happy for you!

@CamilaRubioG 2 ай бұрын

Wait… she did everything!

@PawcassoStudioz 2 ай бұрын

Looks like it paid off, eh?! 💍😍

@alisons9740 2 ай бұрын

She chose him. Confident people finding magic. Classic!

@user-vn9sh6hv8r 2 ай бұрын

Oh but he was *there* 😏😆 Seriously tho, that is half of the battle, just showing up. Also, i think these two were made for each other and would have met some where or some other time if it weren't for this one! I mean, they are in the same industry, probably have a number of friends in common and wide social networks, and are in the same town. It just happened to be that night, and that boxing match that brought them together...😜But it's still a good story 🥰

@michaelaskarbova223 Ай бұрын

Completely, she did everything!!! 😮

@tundevirag755 Ай бұрын

@michaelaskarbova223 but then they talked for 8 hours! Not anyone can do that with anyone.

@djann531 2 ай бұрын

Wonderful love story! I’ve ditched the dating apps in 2024. Focusing on projects instead of endless disappointments and distractions. I want to meet someone the old fashioned way like you and Audrey did. Thank you for sharing and I will use your advice. Be brave woman and don’t hold back on approaching someone we are interested in! If anything it will build confidence and flatter nice men.

@PawcassoStudioz 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯 percent! 😁👍

@meetandinspire 2 ай бұрын

👏

@Voltechs 2 ай бұрын

Profoundly simple. Easy? Maybe not the easiest, but certainly achievable, realistic, and wholesome.

@CJRelationshipConsulting 2 ай бұрын

Wholesome!

@jceejcee5495 2 ай бұрын

Matthew Hussey got married?!! Where have I been? So glad you found your person! Seems like I went thru your journey, beginning of COVID, etc, and this fellow Gemini was grateful for the company, but my heart ached for both of us. Doing so much better also! Cheers! 🧡

@rthrizzle 2 ай бұрын

It’s so wild we have to be taught basic social skills again due to the phones and technology of the world, it’s like we forgot ! You have helped me so much throughout the years, Matt. Thank you ! I’m appreciative for the grounding simplicity you bring in your messages.

@Yeodoongiiie 2 ай бұрын

awww 😍 i love hearing how people meet each other. it's like an episode of ted moseby talking about meeting the mother 😄 lol Matthew i just have to say... i have followed this channel on and off for YEEEARS. and i have always liked your stuff and your advice have been great and all.. but, since you've met Audrey, the change in you, and therefore also your advice and how you go about things, it is felt. you are calmer, answer differently, focus on other things, and it is just lovely to watch... and to grow with this channel. i found you when i was in my early twenties, and now i am 32. so to bear witness to how you have changed, is just awesome to see and i just wanted to tell you that. 🌺

@jessicam3707 2 ай бұрын

Yes, I agree! I’m 34 and discovered him in 2016 I think. I also like that him ending up with Audrey validates so many things that he always said - that a woman showing up as authentic and kind is more important than so many other superficial things. I feel like I relate to Audrey somewhat. Matthew didn’t end up marrying some flashy celebrity like he dated for a while, he values true connection, and that’s what he preaches.

@RatnaDewiWithin 2 ай бұрын

I agree with your observation how Matthew positively has changed ever since he met Audrey. So beautiful to witness.

@meetandinspire 2 ай бұрын

Yes, meeting people the old-fashioned way is fun.

@bumblebee_mrs 2 ай бұрын

As a Gen X-er I refuse to go on any dating app, even though I have been single for many years. I'd rather be single than torture myself looking for someone digitally in desperation.

@PawcassoStudioz 2 ай бұрын

Agree 💯 percent!! 👏👏

@bumblebee_mrs 2 ай бұрын

@@PawcassoStudiozThanx!

@user-vn9sh6hv8r 2 ай бұрын

Same. That comment about people looking at their phones really resonated. I see this everywhere - while i am *not* looking at my phone! It's so anti-social. I am so glad as a fellow GenXer that i grew up without this tech and learned to develop social skills, including the ability to talk to strangers, make eye contact, help people feel comfortable around me, and all these other things Matthew mentioned. I am "still" single, but it's by choice. I've never had a problem with meeting people, and i've never been on a dating app! Mostly i use these 'skills' (aka being human) in networking or work situations. It generally makes the world a better place when we are able to connect with each other - romantically or otherwise. There are a lot of lonely people out there and sometimes you can really be an asset in the world by just making a passing comment in the supermarket, or the bus stop, you know...

@toyajohnson6290 2 ай бұрын

I met a guy two years ago on Hinge. My HR Director told me to ask him for coffee the first week we matched. He said yes. It didn't work out for romance, but he is one of my closest friends. We go out to eat. We go to the movies. We text almost every day. I went to Montréal & got him a gift. He gave me candles from a product shoot (he's a photographer). Be brave. Take a leap. It may or may not work out, but at least you tried

@mamaknow8056 2 ай бұрын

Update us in 1 yr, bet you’re married…

@toyajohnson6290 2 ай бұрын

@@mamaknow8056, I'll definitely come back here in a year with any update... relationship or not!

@toyajohnson6290 2 ай бұрын

@@mamaknow8056, I'll definitely come back in a year and update... relationship or not!

@truet1296 2 ай бұрын

Getting a friend out of it is pretty neat though! I don’t see that as a loss.

@toyajohnson6290 2 ай бұрын

, yup, it's not a loss at all. It's a great gain. Who can't use more friends!

@empea3837 2 ай бұрын

I was wondering how you met, and thought I had missed the story! So glad you two met- it multiplies the quotient of wonderful people ❤

@Dmo12618 2 ай бұрын

So happy for you and the missus! 🎉🎉🎉 I have to say my dating training wheels are still on but I missed an opportunity to say hi and I regret this so much. I was standing outside a hotel looking at the map on my phone. I had been sick for a couple of days and was still sniffy, not feeling too human. Out of the corner of my eye I noticed an attractive gentlemen locking up his bike. My glance gave me enough info that he was visually my type, and he was smiling at me. In my SHOCK, I gave him a wispy smile and went on my way. I still think about this missed moment. I could have been brave enough to say “hi”, “gorgeous morning”….not expecting much more, but at least to respond to his smile. He deserved that. Such a simple moment that remains with me. Could have, should have, didn’t. I sabotaged myself! learning, trying to be more open.

@Cocoisagordonsetter 2 ай бұрын

Girl.... If he was looking at you and he was handsome, there will be others....... I've been married for over 2 decades and I get really nervous without my wedding ring on. I'm naturally introverted so I don't deal well with having to reject people. It seems like it's feast or famine to me. Get out there!!!!!

@sharersale6480 2 ай бұрын

I have to say I have a number of these moments and I don't know what's wrong with me. It usually occurs to me later on that that person was interested in me.

@jasmineestafia 21 күн бұрын

Beloved, don’t beat yourself up about it. He could’ve very well waved or spoke to you as well and that is the frustrating reality is that the good guys are excessively shy 🙈 which I guess is a good thing. Just keep that moment in your back pocket and next time have a business card on hand to give to the next handsome Prince that comes around 😍

@AngelissimaASMR 2 ай бұрын

I'm married but have been wanting to make more friends for years and I find that the main reason it's so hard is that everyone is looking down on their phones at any event or in any situation. I see the opportunities to strike up a conversation all the time via things in common, giving a compliment, etc but it's so much more difficult when no one will look up from their phones. I still think being on my phone in public is rude and never developed the habit but I also am low-tech in my personal life. I'll just have to keep looking, keep leaving the house and keep trying! 💛

@TerryGuzmanMartinez 2 ай бұрын

I've arrived at the conclusion that it's the momentum. A lot of times one of the partners is not in their "right" time and after that "failed" relationship he/her finds the "right" person and commites. THAT'S ALL.

@Berryandmango 2 ай бұрын

I am smiling so much, picturing in my mind‘s eyes (yes, I have more than one eye in my mind. What ya going to do about it?😜), beautiful, feminine, gentle Audrey, approaching Mr Hussey. So much courage and confidence all in one.

@empea3837 2 ай бұрын

I’m a fan of Audrey, too! Learning from her. She’s beautiful, feminine, gentle and strong! All in one 🙃

@alchemyofcolorandstyle 2 ай бұрын

I wonder if she knew who he was! That would change the context😅

@bindicat9070 2 ай бұрын

Hi Matthew 😊 I keep missing the atoms I say yes and go out! Most people are already with someone! Still being hopeful 🤞🙏 I’m watching this sitting outside a coffee shop 😂 Time to put phone down !

@kristalynncreates 2 ай бұрын

Even if people are in a couple, you can still talk to them. Not flirt with them, but you can still talk to people. They might know someone.

@ryancelsley 2 ай бұрын

Love will find you 😊

@bindicat9070 2 ай бұрын

@@kristalynncreates I am talkative and do talk to most people You never know they may know someone that’s also looking!

@GuliranoGuli-pf4kk 14 күн бұрын

Yeeeaaa it was time😂

@sumbodyzwatchin1 2 ай бұрын

I doubt you’ll see this. But I found this video so valuable. I’m halfway through watching your suggested video and I want to thank you for your empathy and kindness in the way you talk. Honestly. You’ve quelled so much fear in me just by what you’ve said that I feel calm for the first time in years. Thank you Matthew. You are a gem. Thank you.

@tuffybuf 2 ай бұрын

I'm so happy for you, Matthew! You're like my brother that I've never met! Such a cool story. Many blessings.

@tehamill1 2 ай бұрын

Thanks Matthew, six months into a great relationship, I feel I learned a lot from you that helped me get here

@maria.mobile017 2 ай бұрын

Audrey's got game 😂❤

@MsGuitars666 2 ай бұрын

She’s such a queen

@xdxdxdxd4575 2 ай бұрын

....and the ring!

@Scarlethara100 2 ай бұрын

So Audrey did practically the most effort 😅

@PawcassoStudioz 2 ай бұрын

Looks like it paid off, eh?? 💍😁

@theempire00 2 ай бұрын

Whos audrey

@Scarlethara100 2 ай бұрын

@@theempire00 his wife ☺️

@Som.Suwadee 2 ай бұрын

Sounds like my life when I see what I wanted lol 😅

@zehnja7988 2 ай бұрын

Tbh it is not so much about fearing rejection it rather is about the fear what people closeby are thinking when you start talking to a person on the bus all of the sudden for instance

@gemmagrant6979 2 ай бұрын

“I say Yes to leaving the house” 😂😂😂 Dying!! Seriously though thank you Matthew for always posting lots of content consistently. You don’t stop trying to deliver us knowledge all the time 🙏

@melissamilne230 2 ай бұрын

I am literally home and in my blankets now. But I've been thinking of a list of new activities and events I can start going to, for this exact reason

@graceclement5922 2 ай бұрын

You were always approachable in your podcasts. Compassionate and kind. Now, since getting married, you exude an expansiveness that invites us in even more and that is lovely! Thank you and thank you, Audrey!!

@sethbellinger 2 ай бұрын

Great video! Being near someone and even a simple “Hello” can lead to a great conversation with the right person.

@theforensicbadass 2 ай бұрын

Matthew, I'm curious if you met your wife before the quarantine? Because clearly the world has changed. The values of people and social media has played a big role in why there is such a declination on the dating scene, let alone monogamy. I also want to ask you, are you willing to do any videos about we women who are over 50 years old? That's the market you'll make the most money in guiding us because we're the ones nobody ever talks about.

@juliafisher5844 14 күн бұрын

Nah he always does

@valerie4912 2 ай бұрын

Step 1: have friends Step 2: have friends that invite you out.

@botaasqar5416 17 күн бұрын

Or you could just go out yourself

@valerie4912 17 күн бұрын

@@botaasqar5416 I do. Allllll the time. Dinners, movies, shows etc.. etc…

@Mahaloshell 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing, Matt. I'm interested in hearing more about how said before that you were broken when you met Audrey. I think it would help a lot of us who think that we have to be fully healed, full of joy and on a higher vibration in order to find love again.

@MsGuitars666 2 ай бұрын

Matthew this is my favourite video of yours 💛 love this. Also just for meeting new friends and business partners, amazing

@keyawnaparks5983 2 ай бұрын

man if I could meet someone like matthew id be the luckiest woman in the world!

@acmpmen 2 ай бұрын

Done! Grabbed your book! Cant wait!

@megankelly4342 2 ай бұрын

That’s awesome! That’s how I met my boyfriend! I put myself out there out of my comfort zone! It worked! Amen 🙏 ❤good luck 🍀 everyone

@jasmineestafia 21 күн бұрын

Where did you guys meet?

@Mollexi 2 ай бұрын

I became very reliant on dating apps. I met 2 of my ex’s on them. I felt comfortable on dating apps because I was able to find people who have things in common with me and I felt more confident. But now I want to try something different and meet someone in the real world. I have had opportunities where someone would make the contact with me but that’s as far as it would go 🤣 mainly because I’d feel too nervous to approach them.

@anaissolotraveler 2 ай бұрын

Thank you to share your story with Audrey & you😇The animate scene is so cute🥰I never been a fan of dating app... I feel like 007 being on a mission to find Love 🤣 It's been 8 years I am single and I am 30 and I want to find love naturally in a very simple way 😇 And I can't be more excited when the day will come 😃 Take care and can't wait to read your book 😊

@CJRelationshipConsulting 2 ай бұрын

Stop waiting!

@meetandinspire 2 ай бұрын

🙂

@XYZ-qu4yq 2 ай бұрын

Amazing! Happy for you both! Thanks for sharing! Very helpful! 😊

@marinakio3471 2 ай бұрын

How many chances are there to go to party and meet a handsome intelligent and available man like Matthew? The answer is : None. That is like winning the lottery.

@PawcassoStudioz 2 ай бұрын

Pretty much! But as scripture states: *"With God ALL things are possible!"* We gotta have Hope, right?? 🙏❤️✝️

@Cocoisagordonsetter 2 ай бұрын

Join clubs of things you're interested in. Be a joiner. The gym has cute guys there all the time. You're overthinking this. I see guys just as cute all day long while I walk my dog. NOT SINGLE!!!

@AndiAlexander1 2 ай бұрын

All you need is one

@marinakio3471 2 ай бұрын

@@Cocoisagordonsetter You are lucky.

@Cocoisagordonsetter 2 ай бұрын

@@marinakio3471 Get outside! Something good will happen.

@flowersafeheart 2 ай бұрын

This is also great advice for forming more friendships and community too, not just dating.❤

@NivethaBalasubramaniam Ай бұрын

Great advice!! Love that you are still making these videos. So impactfull ❤️

@meghnalakshminarayanan578 2 ай бұрын

Very simple and very understandable. No games. But at the end, I feel that it happens when it has to. Like you were meant to meet your wife and she was meant to meet you that night, and that was why you said yes to go out and so did she. It all happens when the time is right and when the time is right, one also makes the steps right to meet their partner.

@yuliyahrybachova6473 2 ай бұрын

💯 so true

@jasmineestafia 21 күн бұрын

Totally agree. Gods timing

@WorldWideWebObserver 2 ай бұрын

Great advice! Wish I’d seen this many years ago! Enjoyed hearing about how you and your wife met.💐

@Jacquelinerenees 18 күн бұрын

Thank you for the validation on this. I’ve been following your stuff for years and have watched the evolution of it as well. And ultimately this reminded me that we BOTH have to be brave and each person being brave enough to take a step forward is huge.

@iitsliindaa 2 ай бұрын

I am so happy for you! You've found the love that you wish we find one day! 💚

@stilianifakidaraki3724 Ай бұрын

This was honestly so insightful and helpful. Thank you, Matthew

@resurgam75 2 ай бұрын

So happy for you Matthew and congratulations. You deserve the happiness of marriage for everything that you've done for so many people.

@awar699 13 күн бұрын

Your eyes are so full of love when you look at or talk about your wife❤

@ecaldwell9 2 ай бұрын

Congratulations Matt!

@JourneyByChris 2 ай бұрын

One other thing I think is tremendously important: working on yourself and becoming the person you want to attract. Just showing up and following these steps won't produce the results you want unless you have a pretty clear idea of who you are and who you are trying to become - living by that, and only then will the chemistry be there when following these steps. Otherwise, you may find yourself having lots of conversations, but not a lot of chemistry. It's something I've been working on lately - being clear on my values and what I want to be doing with my life, and then knowing it'll inevitably lead me to collide with another person who is holding the other half of my brain.

@PawcassoStudioz 2 ай бұрын

All really fantastic advice, Matthew... Bravo!! 👏👏👏

@BrotherTree1 2 ай бұрын

Yep, selflessness and being of service to others (in a way that then also helps your own self indirectly as a side effect) is key. Be the inviter and take that initiative, regardless of the outcome. Help others being brave instead of just thinking only about you being brave... great way to approach it. As it takes the unnecessary pressure (and narcissism) off of you. When you're being generous and truthful in your offers in service, people want your attention more and want to play with you, give you opportunities, etc. It expands your life, not just in developing an intimate relationship/marriage.

@meesh1002 2 ай бұрын

I gotta work on this. I’ve always got the “you’re not approachable and intimidating” lolol

@SDsc0rch 2 ай бұрын

women... this man gets it!

@acoolpianist 2 ай бұрын

Aww! Thank you for sharing. I hope to find someone like that myself someday. ❤

@cutestuff59FR 19 күн бұрын

Love how you narrated the whole interactions ❤

@ariairida 2 ай бұрын

Aww Mathiew you are so sweet and I was so happy to hear that you find this incredible woman. I'm so happy you guys are helping so many others out there.

@brendarudman8806 2 ай бұрын

"I have burnout from being on the apps" 😂 Matthew always throws humour in there

@hadiza1 2 ай бұрын

I think about it as atoms colliding too! 🥰♥️

@lolo-vh6xh 2 ай бұрын

I loved these tips. Total gamechangers.

@talesfromtheroad9530 2 ай бұрын

When you mentioned in your last livestream that Audrey opened the convo by asking about the boxing match. . . I totally thought you were at a live boxing match 😂

@the.IastIaugh 2 ай бұрын

Great vid! Very insightful and explainable. How misconstrued it can be for us gentlemen to mistake a glance as a flirtation, a green light or not. "Bravery." Give us credit where credit is due. For "approaching," heck women can do it too! His wife approached him! Not the other way around geez lol

@ElleRoers 2 ай бұрын

Aww, I love this! Great story and good job Audrey giving the green light! You both have some bravery in you🚦❤💍

@jj1221ify 2 ай бұрын

Love you and Audrey! Thank you for this video 🙏🏼🙏🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

@hadiza1 2 ай бұрын

Luv the animations 🥰🖤♥️

@tb22k 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Matt ❤

@aishasingleton 2 ай бұрын

This is the BEST advice ever 💘🙏🏽

@BecomingaQueen 2 ай бұрын

I always believed in love and I know love will find me 🌺💐🌸

@huangyanjean2570 2 ай бұрын

So true, I’m kinda of shy in the first place one eye contact then I’ll be shy to look back again, maybe I should be more brave 😅

@CJRelationshipConsulting 2 ай бұрын

Yes you should!

@sdogboe 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this like always !💖💝

@glendasexton4777 2 ай бұрын

So glad you have someone Matthew. I began to worry about you. Yes I’m a Mom 😮 very happy for you both.

@elainegeber4604 2 ай бұрын

It is so inspiring to listen to the excitement in your voice. ☺️🇨🇦

@CJRelationshipConsulting 2 ай бұрын

👍

@wincyso2685 2 ай бұрын

What an announcement!!! Congratulations Matthew 🎉🎉🎉

@samanthagaboo5610 2 ай бұрын

Looking forward to this vid. Lol. I hope we learn a bit more about Audry as well. I've wondered what did she do before joining you in your business.

@haveanidea6147 2 ай бұрын

Love you Broo 🤟🏻 Thanks, God made you a blessing because when ever I'm not thinking rationally I came to you and you fix me, I wish that I have this power to heal someone it's a Superpower ❣️

@gabrielaibarra6938 2 ай бұрын

When you look beautiful like Audrey it is easier to confidently approach to someone you like because the probabilitues to ve rejected are low but I've been rejected many times I don't want to feel that again it feels ashamed of myself

@yuliyahrybachova6473 2 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing

@kcd7836 2 ай бұрын

Audrey is very attractive, grounded...would be hard not to be attracted!! All the best to both of you❤

@drj2220 Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@ECMKAD 2 ай бұрын

Great advice. I, too, met my husband at a party I was thiiiiiiis close to declining the invitation for. And I was 16 so thank goodness my parents were also out of town because they wouldn't have let me go. 😂

@bektiller1622 2 ай бұрын

This is so sweet! 🥰

@silviapassosjewelry Ай бұрын

so true... thanks!

@leahv.2537 2 ай бұрын

I didn't even know you got married Matthew! Congratulations 🎉 I guess I'm late to the game in knowing.😂

@tanziha 2 ай бұрын

Aaahh I can't belive he's married now!! I haven't been following him for the last 4 years, but before that I was so hooked on MH videos ahahha. 😅

@patriciaeverard6537 2 ай бұрын

I love this story.You both deserve true love.I think your well matched.❤️

@nesta8603 18 күн бұрын

This is eye opening. Ive been frustrated for awhile now with the fact that I only seem to attract those I am not attracted to. Despite being an attractive women, men that I find attractive never approach me. After seeing this video, I realize I tend to do all these things with men Im not attracted to, because im not intimidated by them. Vs the men I am interested in, I act pretty cold and standoffish towards them.

@kristalynncreates 2 ай бұрын

Without fear, there can be no courage.

@nayansushil9441 2 ай бұрын

Hey Matthew, I've been following your content for some time now, and you've been an immense inspiration & help. I've been out of the dating game for well over 2 years now, and just yesterday I've begun talking with a girl. And while asking about her family, she stated that her father died in service. Now in such situations, I never know how to correctly respond (over chats) to such situations, and always end up with the standard "I'm sorry to hear that" Is there an alternate or better way by which I can show my compassion or extend my sympathy towards her, without sounding like I'm pitying her? Because this is often misinterpreted by a lot of people as they don't want sympathy in such cases. I know this is not relevant to this video, but I'd be really thankful if you could help me out here

@somayehkhatibi2060 2 ай бұрын

Great points. But it would be really hard to keep being brave when you keep being rejected unfortunately.

@ancientwisdom108 18 күн бұрын

This was very simple and helpful. I want to understand more, particularly about your perspective. What was going through your mind when you saw Audrey? Why didn't you approach her and talk to her? Did you take the initiative for courting her? Did you ask her for her phone number? I'm very happy for both of you. The answers to those questions would help us to understand what might be going through the mind of the man. A real life situation that had a positive result. Thank you for sharing all of this. Many blessings from Florida 🙏🌍🕊🕊