Matthew Hussey Shares Text from Wife that Shook Him

Matthew Hussey Shares Text from Wife that Shook Him | The Drew Barrymore Show

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Relationship expert and life coach Matthew Hussey sits down with Drew Barrymore to talk about the 4 levels of importance in a relationship. Plus, he reveals the text he received from his now-wife that shook him and taught him an important lesson.
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@anyabelle 18 күн бұрын

"No one can be important to me that does not choose me."

@kiananejabat 21 күн бұрын

Even Matthew Hussey ghosts 😂

@brooklyn3299 21 күн бұрын

He’s a man so yes that’s what they do.

@jeniferkenney2984 20 күн бұрын

Omgosh right?! What were you thinking Matt?! Lol

@queenj.8i895 20 күн бұрын

lol! Funny. But…he didn’t tho 🙃

@jeniferkenney2984 20 күн бұрын

@@queenj.8i895 he kinda did for a little bit.

@KatieBetts 19 күн бұрын

Hahahaha

@carolyn6990 11 күн бұрын

“ You can grieve out of disappointment that they weren’t the one but you can’t grieve as if they were the one.” Wow, that statement resonated with me at a deep level. Next level advice Matthew!

@thematthewhussey 22 күн бұрын

Loved this conversation Drew!! Thank you everyone for watching! ❤

@CrystalDatingCoach 19 күн бұрын

Your the NUMBER 1 Dating Coach for a Reason? 😂❤

@KG-bliss 18 күн бұрын

I second that... Matthew is in a league of his own... and because of this, I understand the level I am on... admiration... everything is exciting ... but two more to go... I love Matthew ❤

@acemilondoner8489 15 күн бұрын

Audrey needs her own podcast, preach us girl 😂

@RMFeminine4TheWin 13 күн бұрын

*she sounds like a legit 'Spiritual Gangsta'. well done & best wishes to you both!!!* 🫂💍💙

@AriesAndScorp 6 күн бұрын

Great KZfaq video!

@meesh1002 14 күн бұрын

Most guys wouldn’t be able to handle that message. Good for him

@ilsevdg1194 12 күн бұрын

Haha, it allows for an early triage 😊

@GeminianExplorer 7 күн бұрын

So many I dated , got numbed out on such a message... Feminized Men 😅

@thehappyproject7117 20 күн бұрын

She was watching his videos😂

@jessicam3707 22 күн бұрын

I just love that Matthew ended up with the exact kind of woman he always said was attractive. It shows that first of all, they’re meant to be, and second, he has always meant what he said. He didn’t just end up with some famous model (although she looks like one) or someone with a flashy, exciting life, he found someone who is authentic and mature and kind like himself.

@888alp 22 күн бұрын

Yes but he was looking for a woman who is has money and career driven. There is nothing wrong with that but I feel he wouldn’t date someone who just didn’t earn big bucks.

@Nah-ah 18 күн бұрын

@@888alptheir busy lifestyle wouldn’t match! They need to keep up with each other. My ex (childhood sweetheart) was a pro-footballer. That didn’t work out bc our lifestyles were completely different after his career took off! I met my now husband and had a baby which was what I wanted a few yrs later! My ex went on to play overseas for the next 10 yrs, then met and married his now wife who’s a huge traveler and they both have a couple of kids.

@foxy_k9 17 күн бұрын

@@888alp may I ask how do you know if Audrey has money and career driven? I didn't find anything about her online. I actually thought she was jobless because she is in his videos all the time 🤔

@NicoleBeepath 24 күн бұрын

The fact that they still ended up together even though Matthew didn't know immediately after that she was going to be his wife gives me hope. I like to see examples that having standards instead of playing games is what works. Be true to you. Btw, Drew is such a style icon!

@_good_for. 24 күн бұрын

You voted Biden right?

@NicoleBeepath 24 күн бұрын

@@_good_for. I'm Canadian living in Canada.

@_good_for. 24 күн бұрын

@@NicoleBeepath ok mam

@susannefitzpatrick9955 23 күн бұрын

Yes - I too wonder why Audrey chased (albeit in a subtle way) multi-millionaire Matthew!

@bm5_5_5 23 күн бұрын

Exactly you’ll never miss out on what’s right for you if you stay true to yourself ❤

@TilikaVispute 20 күн бұрын

No one can be important to me that doesn’t choose me 👍🏻💯

@CrystalDatingCoach 19 күн бұрын

Ladies. Live and LEARN. Keep your STANDARDS!

@peonypink7943 12 күн бұрын

"No-one can become important to me that doesn't choose me." ❤

@monicaduby1362 19 күн бұрын

Tactic = manipulation. Her message came across as honest and he honored her honesty

@TheWilDOn31 18 күн бұрын

He didn't. She honoured herself by sticking to her standard after that text.

@ebbyc1817 17 күн бұрын

it was a very interesting message. she neither ignored him, nor pandered to him. I would have ignored him. Basically I would have read the text and thought "wtf does this mean" and not replied. lol

@user-gv4bg3go2e 11 күн бұрын

@@ebbyc1817that’s understandable. Most of the time you set yourself up for heartbreak. They’re coming back just to see if they have access to you. It’s an ego thing

@ebbyc1817 10 күн бұрын

@@user-gv4bg3go2e Ha so that's why they do it. I'm somewhat naive, but what I don't like is decoding messages. If I have to ask, what does this mean, I'm not replying, unless it's part of an ongoing conversation.

@tombithecat4664 18 күн бұрын

Audrey had been definitely watching his videos and following his advise😂 I clearly remember this topic from one his videos

@Mushroom321- Күн бұрын

😮😅😂

@Adelina24244 Күн бұрын

Yess Absolutely!! She has definitely watched his videos because I remember a lot of his videos where he wrote this

@vicklou 17 күн бұрын

"No one can be important to me when they do not choose me" when it comes to love life - love it, so important!

@davicrockett2619 22 күн бұрын

I am so glad Drew found Matthew Hussey! I have been following his approach with standards and honesty for the past several years! Amazing. Just incredible.

@CrystalDatingCoach 19 күн бұрын

YES! She's so Beautiful and Intelligent but doesn't VALUE herself! Stop falling in love who INVESTED nothing!!!

@dg5175 20 күн бұрын

Just goes to show even as an expert, you can still mess up. Good for her in how she handled it though.

@KG-bliss 18 күн бұрын

The mess-up is human ... also I love that his wife is the woman he is teaching us to be... Have standards... know your value... she got this amazing man...

@donata7733 15 күн бұрын

What a surprise , she did exactly what he's teaching in his videos and books. Cool girls listen to you too Matthew 😁

@skamgodt964 23 күн бұрын

So he was running fuckboi game on her and she outsmarted him, using the tips he usually gives his audience🙄. Interesting... to say the least.

@CRISSGRULLON 20 күн бұрын

This is the real 🫖. Good on her really!

@KG-bliss 18 күн бұрын

She is the woman he teaches us to be... have standards, know your worth... and she did way back then...

@alexialira3839 18 күн бұрын

She chose to marry a dude that ghosted her in the beginning of a relationship when you're supposed to be the most ecstatic/happy about a person (he essentially rejected her) and then he came back running when no other female he wanted was giving him the attention he craved. That's settling, not "being smart." I'd never do this and would never advise a loved one of mine to marry someone like this.

@EllenNguyen 18 күн бұрын

@@alexialira3839 She wasn't ruthless enough. Being ruthless is just deleting his text and moving on

@shastagrant7525 18 күн бұрын

Agree. I liked his content until today.

@serendipitytwo777 19 күн бұрын

I think it's crazy that he ghosted her, when he has so many videos about the topic....

@orsolyabende8101 18 күн бұрын

Probably it was his way of testing her whether intentionally or not. When you should not be testing people at least not the one you feel that way for.

@cup_o_TMarie 11 күн бұрын

I hear you & yet I don’t think two weeks is fully ghosting since they weren’t in a relationship, only very casually dating. But it was a pattern disruption & she addressed it as such. If we immediately feel someone is fully ghosting us, we may take more drastic measures ourselves rather than feeling it out. I define ghosting as someone who fully ignores your attempts at communication. After twice (because the 1st time there’s always a chance they didn’t get your msg), I’m out. Then it’s fully ghosting. At least that’s my definition.

@Adelina24244 Күн бұрын

Right?!?! My thought exactly. This is why I don’t always follow these relationships gurus advices because even they don’t follow what they preach smdh 😒

@1CelloOne 18 күн бұрын

Wouldn’t his text that said, “ I miss you,” be considered a manipulation or tactic?

@carollancianese1371 22 күн бұрын

THIS IS MY ENTIRE LIFE GO ON😂😂😂😂 YES it's everyone's 🤣

@jennifer5309 18 күн бұрын

I have been watching Mathew Hussey for years!!! His work helped me through a difficult breakup. Thank you Drew for having him on your show!

@ksjjs0309 21 күн бұрын

Drew’s clipping at the end, lmao!😂

@santa3018 3 күн бұрын

What is clipping? 😂 sorry I am old

@TilikaVispute 20 күн бұрын

6:03 THIS!!! As a recovering people pleaser I so back this thought!

@skidrow1800 19 күн бұрын

Funny cause I had this happen to me except it didn’t work out. Which is fine - I’m glad it happened & I know the truth. Was texting with a guy for 4 months straight. Every single day. Then randomly got to the point where he skipped a day. Then back if became skipping another day. Then it was a few days. Then like a week. I just am not gonna play those games

@jeniferkenney2984 20 күн бұрын

Omgosh i cabt believe hes married now! I knew he was engaged a while back but didn't realize he got married just this last year. Congratulations Matthew! So happy for you and your wife! Ive started watching you on KZfaq since the beginning especially when i was going through a rough divorce then dating again. You definitely helped me out a lot. Im so glad you found your person. She is definitely one lucky gal. ❤

@jeanettefujikawa 19 күн бұрын

Very important and powerful last statement!

@kkibela 18 күн бұрын

So hold up... Matthew acting like the guy he tells us to have better standards than 😂😂😂😂😂😢😂😢😂😢😂😢😂

@brigeetalight4394 18 күн бұрын

Yep.

@joyabia682 16 күн бұрын

That's why I don't listen to him. These people will have u running in your own head. Ugh

@blueskies773 13 күн бұрын

You gotta watch RC Blakes, Jr.

@niomibandara4030 11 күн бұрын

Yes! And she took his advice 😂😂😂

@MonaLisaFace 7 күн бұрын

Right … seems hypocritical to me.

@1984musicman 21 күн бұрын

Love Matty and love Drew!! This is so cool to watch

@dachsrottweiler Күн бұрын

Well, she wasnt ruthless, just sincere. He ghosted her in a way, and she called out the situation. Just normal conversation basically. But im glad everything worked out for them. Wish them well

@ilsevdg1194 12 күн бұрын

Spot on!!!! Stage number 2 is very dangerous and misleading to the heart. That's when the common sense has to kick in. But it's very hard. You tend to think that the connection is the most important thing. But you forget that there's also the degree of importance and priority that one gives to that connection, that can differ. And that life's circumstances can get in the way. And then there's also the character and the set of values of the person.... It's a ruthless game.😢 But it's better to lose early. Than to see it all go down later.

@Mushroom321- Күн бұрын

I LOVE THE DIFFERERENT LEVELS !!! 😊

@nicolebrown2641 16 күн бұрын

I feel you Drew, I feel you! Such a great interview!!

@istenno7271 9 күн бұрын

This was deep as puddle. People think these days they fart two and that is the Sound of Music.

@meadow9165 20 күн бұрын

Beautiful!

@valentina47734 21 күн бұрын

Thanks for teaching me the obvious!

@myriamhernandez8015 17 күн бұрын

Wonderful points ❤

@Mushroom321- Күн бұрын

So much to learn !!!!😮😮

@heyu123 17 күн бұрын

One of my fave books ever! I’m going to re-read this soon ❤

$@fracaiulo6046$

@fracaiulo6046 17 күн бұрын

Did matthew really send "i miss you" after 2 weeks of non contact? 😅

@amber_clarvit 21 күн бұрын

So good.

@gabrielaraimondo2430 17 күн бұрын

Matthey is a genius!❤❤❤❤ I love Drew!❤❤❤😅😅😅

@jasal54 10 күн бұрын

Sooooo EXCELLENT 😮

@writerbynite 18 күн бұрын

Attention is not Intention!

@janecamilon489 18 күн бұрын

Great advice! Like the four levels of importance. Have made the mistake at level number 2.

@emmaeIIe 22 күн бұрын

Love this. However, wouldn't checking for compatibility come before thinking of commitment?

@Paula-fd6lj 21 күн бұрын

Commitment is about deciding you want to commit. Exclusivity. Compatibility is about merging lives, making sure you both want the same things.

@janeryan2709 19 күн бұрын

You can't really confirm compatibility until the commitment is already there...

@KG-bliss 18 күн бұрын

Commitment to the relationship not to marriage... so, compatibility comes before commitment

@skoolie_life3261 18 күн бұрын

I agree that compatibility comes before commitment. I made the mistake of getting the two backwards and it didn’t end well. Lots of heartbreak.

@Paula-fd6lj 18 күн бұрын

@@skoolie_life3261 you can be extremely compatible and yet the guy/girl not be ready to settle down and ull still waste time. At least if he/she is committed to the relationship u won't get cheated on/gaslighted. You'll just part ways cuz u want different things (not compatible?

@jasonfanclub4267 16 күн бұрын

His wife is 🔥🔥🔥

@InnerResearcher 21 сағат бұрын

"Last week I fell in love, got rejected, we broke up, and it was all in my head". hahah, well, if thaaaat isn't relatable!! 😅😅😂💀

@Supergirl-oo5lr 24 күн бұрын

She basically used the answer that you told women to send when a man ghost/ disrespect them and then decide to come back because he needs attention. I am sorry but your behavior was very poor.

@thehealingfairee 22 күн бұрын

He talks in the book about how he used to be terrible to date, so he owns up to it

@tasleemlaila1478 22 күн бұрын

I think you missed the point. She doesn't give the answer he advices others to use. He got it from her great example in the text she sent him. He learned from her. And he is taking pride in his wife's ability to stand up for her boundaries, and sharing this with all of us to help empower us to do the same. That makes him a more stand up and credible coach, and human in my opinion. He could have hidden his "mistake". Instead, he is admitting it to help us. That's amazing.

$@fracaiulo6046$

@fracaiulo6046 17 күн бұрын

Come on. He acted poorly! Period

@blauespony1013 14 күн бұрын

Yes, it was. But he realised it and learned from it (and hopefully changed for the better). And that is more than a lot of people do.

@tasleemlaila1478 14 күн бұрын

@@fracaiulo6046 But he's admitting it, and has changed it, and recognized it and apologizes for it and uses the lessons from it to help him and others.

@ss87935 19 күн бұрын

Pause. You weren't in a relationship, you were dating. Have things changed so much that dating is no longer a relationship???

@KG-bliss 18 күн бұрын

I have always known that dating is getting to know people... not a relationship... 😂😂😂 this world

@Lisa_M_V 15 күн бұрын

Dating is people just spending time together .. a relationship has commitment. Don’t commit before you get to know someone .. could be a mass murderer 😂

@btsanbliss 4 күн бұрын

Good one!

@btsanbliss 4 күн бұрын

Simple

@dforgr9257 17 күн бұрын

smart man :)

@verpul165 10 күн бұрын

1. What happened after that message? Pity that Drew interrupted him… pity! 2. Credits to Matt that even tho he is the “Relationship expert” and did what he did, he comes out and tell his story to “his followers and all”. It craves guts to do that, he is showing that he is a normal person, not a God (people want to see him like a God). 3. Matthew @thematthewhussey how to do when you have a relationship abroad? (Very very far away). Thank you for your openness!

@SundayCookingRemix 23 күн бұрын

Amen

@amber_clarvit 21 күн бұрын

Would love to know more about compatibility

@amieamie6268 17 күн бұрын

Oh my word. I love Drew! Where can I watch this show 😱😍

@amieamie6268 17 күн бұрын

I live in Europe btw. Not American, so it's not on tv for me 😂

@shastagrant7525 18 күн бұрын

In his past videos he has constantly provided guidance on how women can address this kind of behaviour from someone. Turned out while he did that he was engaging in exactly that kind of low value behaviour. He has nice advice, but using himself as an example here is just annoying.

@SmileKT68 17 күн бұрын

This example is intended to spotlight HIS WIFE (not himself) and her exceptional standards, which validated exactly what he coaches women to do. He just happened to be the guinea pig in this case so to speak. He never claimed to be the exemplary guy or the perfect catch. He's always had his own demons and trauma to work on, he is now vulnerable enough to share with the public. Good for him!

@valeriekaroline 19 күн бұрын

Ahh now I wanna know how the story continued 😄😄

@gargikulkarni8764 15 күн бұрын

Pause. Her expression. She changed topic😂.

@hipnhappenin 17 күн бұрын

I don't get why he was trying to slow fade her to begin with?

@ramzy-6566 24 күн бұрын

nice..

@acemilondoner8489 15 күн бұрын

Audrey, preach us girl!

@Squirreler359 4 күн бұрын

Oh goodness what a complicated way to conduct yourself. Define your values. Behave in alignment with them. Connect with people who do the same.

@Methequeen 20 күн бұрын

Did Matthew finally get the girl?? Congrats!!

@saputramaulana7731 24 күн бұрын

👍🏼👍🏻❤

@jennifertrask 20 күн бұрын

What's the end of the story?!? Is there a clip on what happened after that text from Audrey? @thematthewhussey, we need to know what happened next!

@xxShesARebelxx 20 күн бұрын

They have a whole joint video on what happened. Search is KZfaq

@janeryan2709 19 күн бұрын

@@xxShesARebelxx They have a lot of joint videos. Can you give the title of the video where they talk about it?

@Lisa_M_V 15 күн бұрын

They went to vegas and got married on next date 😂

@marionenzer1947 14 күн бұрын

@@xxShesARebelxx Do you have the name of link to the video please ?

@julia-eg2xh 6 күн бұрын

@janeryan2709 did you find the joint video please?

@AussieGirl235 16 күн бұрын

Wife??!? When did this happen???! And how the heck has he ended up on the Drew Barrymore show

@cococabane1 2 күн бұрын

Sounds like his wife should be a coach

@kritigoel5922 20 күн бұрын

Is there a reason why the host sits so close to all her guest?

@valshiro515 20 күн бұрын

She has very poor boundaries. Some guests look super uncomfortable when she's almost on their lap. As an abuse survivor, I would not be ok with her being so close.

@EveKatharsis 20 күн бұрын

What yall 😢 that's a leap!

@KG-bliss 18 күн бұрын

This time I thought that's too close... I would be uncomfortable because personal space is a thing

@Dancediva240 9 күн бұрын

she is a creepy annoying host, really cringey

@iindahammermueller9865 17 күн бұрын

Take risk and enjoying the ride also vulnerability..

@jessicaibada5728 15 күн бұрын

I need to learn from his wife 😅

@tarakylie727 22 күн бұрын

Relationship Expert - but still fumbled in real life 🤨🤨🤨

@JeanBrink1971 21 күн бұрын

Yeah 😄, but he's still just a human.

@Marina-wi3rs 20 күн бұрын

Doctors aren’t 100% healthy either

@EveKatharsis 20 күн бұрын

Or therapists haha how do you think we got here 😂

@dg5175 20 күн бұрын

That's what I thought lol

@ninastar5285 19 күн бұрын

Experiences were their teachers...

@robertamarcantoni9524 17 күн бұрын

Drew looks thiner and younger

@angelapapa410 12 күн бұрын

And how did they get together again and married?

@David-yu5bz 21 күн бұрын

Love you drew, but not taking it in 😮

@nadjavonwolff1315 Күн бұрын

Am I the only one who thinks that it is weird that he was already a dating coach back then even though he still did those kind of more immature things in relationships? I mean I get that you don’t need to be perfect in relationships though that’s kind of a very immature thing to do to not say anything to someone and just not giving this person attention. Especially if you want to date more. I don’t know it feels weird to me.

@sylviasvobodova2186 Күн бұрын

Her text was exactly what Matthew recommends in these situations :-)))))

@jrb4347 13 күн бұрын

Really grossed out by his text from a professional dating coach - he’s lucky she married him

@JulentesDing 9 күн бұрын

Drew looks very confused 😅😅😅😅🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

@iindahammermueller9865 17 күн бұрын

This sounds crazy.. txt world in love is stupid . Get real in person and off the txt.. pathetic... Too much analyzing... Crazy

@joanquattrocchi8023 21 күн бұрын

This is just too much

@user-nz8vd7es7k 10 күн бұрын

No clue who this guy is and I’m ok with that! Getting old has its at vantages! Pay less attention to celebrities who make no difference in your life! (Assuming he a celebrity)

@krjk07 5 күн бұрын

He was giving advices 😅 which he didnt follow.

@thestorybehindthat5236 19 күн бұрын

He's going to cheat on her.

@KG-bliss 18 күн бұрын

Wow... that's what you got out of this or just projecting your experience?

@thestorybehindthat5236 17 күн бұрын

@@KG-bliss haven't been cheated on. Not that I know of. So it's not that. Something's off about him. Can't put my finger exactly on it. It almost feels like a mother child dynamic between them or something. It's the way he talks about her like she's the wise "mother" who's consoling and "fixing" him and he's the childish one in the dynamic. From what he shared at least, that seems to be his main draw to her aside from her being beautiful of course. I just see him cheating and acting out childishly behind her back at some point. He doesn't seem to have a sense of "mature manliness" to look out for her in a certain way a developed man has for his wife. It's all about him. Just my opinion.

@Lisa_M_V 15 күн бұрын

No he’s not. He’s not a douche

@thestorybehindthat5236 15 күн бұрын

@@Lisa_M_V time will tell.

@lauravitti5252 22 күн бұрын

It's not revolutionary.... Seems like a bit of that English type nicety and under-lying " SMACK IN THE FACE"! 😅😅😅 That would be a very different conversation with two Latinos or Italians. It would be fireworks and volcanoes. 😂 Lol❤

@Adelina24244 Күн бұрын

That’s ridiculous so people preach about how ghosting is ridiculous etc etc and they do it? Really???😟

@MessagesFromAurora 23 күн бұрын

Drew i am curious and confused why you didnt have your hands all over him like you do all your other guests? do the guests fill out some sort of limits contract before the show?

@KG-bliss 18 күн бұрын

Does she do that with married males too? Or am I missing something?

@MessagesFromAurora 18 күн бұрын

@@KG-bliss so the boundaries of a person only matter if they're married or have a partner who wouldn't like it?

@sugarspice8650 21 күн бұрын

Biggest scammer

@mariabond4951 3 күн бұрын

He’s lost credibility. Matthew is a dating coach who ghosts himself. Audrey’s text implies they were “close” before he ghosted for two weeks. He could have sent Audrey a short message saying he’s taking some time to himself. He’s preaching “do as I say and not as I do”. He’s human too. But as a dating coach he needs to rise above the dating behavior he denounces. Disappointing.