No need to worry, they have they're priorities right. Go, you wouldn't regret it!

Pesos vs dollars. They are talking pesos.

They're just asking for adequate provision for a family, not Gucci bags and all that crap.

Any women in a normal state mind does not want a man who has no job, no cash, or iis a bum.

I would take the last one on the right, if l was younger.

The people are resilient, if you’ve been there you’ll see most don’t have much but they always find reasons to smile

@Cons2911 yes it's true, i can see that on my every trip in the PH.

That's so true, it is important that a man can provide if he wants a traditional wife. Living in the Philippines and not live like the locals, $3,000 is good and comfortable!

Thank you Joe!

Working a career makes women masculine. And a woman cannot be a great mother and a great employee simultaneously. One will have to give. That’s why the best wives do not work outside the home.

Here's a crazy idea. If she wants to work. Support her. Instead of being a lazy piece of 💩 also, support her by helping out around the house. Me. I appreciate my girlfriend not for what she does. But who she is. If her working makes her happy, I'll gladly cook dinner a couple nights a week. I'll run the vacuum or whatever else needs done.

In nearly every relationship I have had... I did the vast majority of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, running her kids to sports, social stuff. I had the time. They worked hard. I was thrilled to care of her, her house, kiddos, and my homes. I am fat enough ! I need the laundry folding vacuum workout 🙂

Our pleasure!

And I'd say you're an idiot. Most western women want the same things these women do. But I mean. You're a hick in a town of like 29,000 people. I'm sure you've met most of the women in the US. So I cant argue with you 😂

Thank you

​@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673Very welcome ❤

LOL--if a guy can't afford to pay for a woman's "rice addiction"--he's broke!

how. can the court make a guy pay money to a girlfriend when they dont make fathers pay support for kids

@@user-pl5zb5rp4y If she has witnesses and documented proof that a guy stopped her from working during their relationship and now she has no income then a court will jail him. No doubt you can buy her off before it got to court in some cases but its the law there. Watch the filipina pea vlog 3 months ago titled- AVOID THIS MISTAKE WHEN LIVING WITH A FILIPINA - Legal Talk With Attorney Gracey. To save you time its talked about from 22.44

Ha, you have bits and pieces of Tagalog already haha, nice. Those alone will have people’s smiling when you talk to them

@@Cons2911 syempre alam KO conti Lang tagalog pero minsan Hindi LAHAT maintindihan 😁

@@Its-Just-Si-Reacts haha don’t worry, and making mistakes is part of the fun. And when people laugh, they’re not laughing at you, they’re laughing with you, people actually appreciate it when you learn their language and mistakes are welcome.

@@Cons2911 oo alam KO Yan 😁

Kinda ironic. These guys say it's the "man's job to provide" yet your traditional housewife works 12+ hours per day, 7 days a week. What kinda of man makes his wife work that much?

Unsolicited advice sir, take your time, no big decisions, I mean due diligence goes a long way. There are lots of good partners out there (you’ll see).. if you find a good one, you’re in for a surprise, she’ll probably treat you better than anyone. Of course there are bad ones too, so be careful

Tim never lead with digits my Pinay asawa doesn't know the full amount I make without having to work either. I only told her 2.5k monthly into PNB account and the rest stays in my US account and she didn't find that out for many months after we got together

Problem is a lot of these guys are older men. And they just wantva young, hot Filipina to wait on them hand and foot. This is why they are moving to Asia. Time has passed them by. (Not all of course) But I agree 100% i will encourage my future wife to do whatever makes her happy. Ifcshe wants to work, great. She wants to start a business, i got her back. Wants to start a youtuve channel. I have 30k in gear. She can use any of it. I make more then enough to provide us with a great lifestyle. But if she still wants to work and needs me to help around the house. I'll gladly do so. If she wants to cook and clean while I work, great.

@@Pcbdude82 yes. Regardless of how much money the guy may have, that isn't the point. If she loves her job expecting her to quit so you can have a nurse maid is wrong. Hopefully the gal would realize this and walk away. Things will probably only get worse from there. I'm in my later 50's and can't understand why, as an adult you would expect someone to walk away from their life for you. IF she wants to then she would probably say so. But to even suggest it...then sign over everything to her first. Are you comfortable giving up everything for her? If not, then don't expect to her to do it either.

Usually you can sense if they are just using you for money. But if you found a good one, you’ll probably be doubting yourself if all of this is really happening bec they will treat you right.

Yes, more and more, especially on the american hotspots like Dumaguete or big cities... And as we see here, more and more women of the Dumaguete gang having their own KZfaq channel, lol.

Definitely not!

Being a stay at home parent, taking care of a house and kids is easy, especially much easier than working full time.

Think you missed the point, they said it's not about the money as long as they can put food on the table.... 10k monthly will be enough to put food on the table in province. Depending on the size of family of course. It's something that is difficult to discuss if you're thinking of family needs vs lifestyle achieving, Point is they all said its about the person making each other happy and working together as a team, family unit. That's what I took from that 🤔 you are talking lifestyle and the women are talking of basic needs being met and again it's all relative to combined household income/family members

I agree Gerald. Only one lady actually answered the question and the rest answered a question that was not asked. As for your comment about 50k being too low.... 50k is about $1,000 USD. $1,000 per month in the Philippines is good money. Doctors usually make $1,000 per month in the Philippines. Nurses and police officers make about $500 or $600 per month. A construction worker might only make $10 per day at the most and if he or she works 30 days a month that it still only $300 per month. This is the reason an exact number is important to hear from these ladies. The only one that answered started out with the low at $400 a month and said $1,000 a month would be so much better. That is a proper answer to the question asked and I respect her for her honesty. Her answer suggests that she wants a man providing income at least in the middle range but like all women and men for that matter... the more the better. Honesty is refreshing.

50k is @$880 US. I have an apartment in Pasig that costs $264 per mo. Nothing really fancy. Add food, transportation and utilities. $880 does get us bye, but no trips or parties.

@geraldwilliams8189 Yes. I always use 50 pesos to the dollar for easy math and the good exchange rates of today won't last.

Personally, I’d say 100k is ok

I'm sorry, but I would never choose a performer as a partner. My lady's body is for my eyes only, and vice versa.

youtube.com/@MaryinthePhilippines?si=Jp5jVLUBkuLqX-DO

Check out her channel . Appreciate it!

Thank you@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673

Thank you my dear

It's not a horror story at all... And really it's if you can afford to... I know it might sound weird cuz you don't understand the culture there... But think about it.. if you are there with your wife or girlfriend and kids living together you have all your needs covered and your not worried about how you will feed your wife and kids for the next 2 weeks.. then your mother in-law gets sick.. maybe there is a bill for £80 or something and maybe you need to help her mom and dad with an electric bill Kasi they been sick and couldn't work for a few weeks... Like why wouldn't you do that? Why would you not think that is an absolute priority??? If her brother brakes a bone and can't work maybe you need to invite him to stay untill it gets better so he can eat... So he's not sat without electricity... Would you not accept it? If not then why?? It's the family of your girlfriend or prospective wife.. so basically it's YOUR family... Ofcours you will take care of them when they need help.. it doesn't mean they will all take advantage of you.. especially if your girlfriend is a good Filipina and explains that altho you have more money that them it doesn't mean you are rich you have a lot of things you have to pay also... They will understand.. I think the stories you have heard are from clinical people maybe those unlucky in love where something didn't work out.. but after all if you accept a filipina you should also be ready to accept her culture and learn not to be so wrapped up in your self and expect her to bend to your every want and need without comprises.. if your looking for something like that you best look somewhere else cuz Filipinas are sweet loving women and not just there for a bit of fun

I could see helping out the girlfriend or wife parents, if you have money left over after you take care of yourself and the girlfriend or wife......but not the cousins, nephews, brothers, sisters, second cousins and fifty other family members. That is just plain used and I believe if you don't put your foot down from the start, you will be bled to death over time. If your Filipina girlfriend or wife does not respect your decisions.......you are in going down a rabbit hole that you will never get out of. This is my opinion

Depends on the situation, of course you need to assess if you being used or not. Don’t be overwhelmed, keep a level head. If everything is genuine and it’s not much..personally I’d help out. Of course if they don’t help themselves then you should not be helping as well. But if they are very nice to you, why not help A LITTLE? Of course it’s not your job to provide for them, but helping from time to time is ok. As always talk to your partner

You will if you are not cheap and broke as f.

​@@reflectioninthesnow7953then go somewhere else, because if u were the brother, I would sell you by kilo. You cheap, selfish pug.