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I am a traditional housewife and Mother in my 60s. What these beautiful Filipino women are describing is how I have lived my wonderful life with my husband for over 35 years. I love these ladies.❤️❤️❤️💪🏼👍🏼

Thank you ladies for your comments. To explain a little, a lot of women in the west have treated men so badly that a lot (maybe 40%) have decided not to get involved with women at all. Instead they concentrate all your efforts on the career, sports and hobbies. I am one of these people and have been for 25 years. But now it seems like there are women in the world that think like me. For my woman I am gentle, kind, supportive and proud of her accomplishments, ferociously protective and loyal. In return I expect pretty much the same. Total faithfulness is given and expected. In the west, a man expecting these things is asking way too much. Thank you ladies.

Already subscribed to Gladys' channel, I think she's a great addition to any video. She's very well spoken, educated and honest in her opinions, she doesn't just sugar coat it, she tells it like she sees it and is very refreshing to hear. These western women holding out for the "perfect man" will be single and alone forever. The "perfect man" doesn't exist, just as the "perfect woman" doesn't because NO ONE is perfect, you have to accept others for their faults and try to help them overcome those faults and grow together to be the "perfect" partner for you. As long as these women keep listening to other SINGLE women telling them what they need/want/expect in a relationship and believing they DESERVE the world when they have nothing a man values in a woman to offer him, they will NEVER find a partner. STOP letting others tell YOU what YOU need/want in a partner, ONLY YOU know what that is, figure it out and go out into the REAL WORLD and find it, Prince Charming doesn't use dating apps. The 1st video, she realized she's not going to get the "perfect man" yet goes on to say she's still looking for him, so she obviously didn't come to any realization at all. Ask her to define the "perfect man"? She won't be able to, proving she doesn't even know what she wants, so how will she ever know when she's found it. She won't lower her delusional standards so that even 1 man can achieve those standards, and won't admit SHE is the problem and won't change/fix herself to be a woman a man would be interested in committing to. All she is saying is I want, I want, I want, instead of saying this is what I have to offer a man. What a woman has to offer a man to make his life easier and better is what men want to know and value in a partner, and those things are on the inside, he can't see them, she has to show him. She is showing the very definition of hitting the proverbial "WALL". Gladys, I would have to disagree FOR NOW, "She's pretty for 53," lets see her without all the make-up and filters on and see what she looks like. Then let's see what's ACTUALLY important to men, who she is as a person on the INSIDE before deciding. It doesn't matter how pretty you are on the outside, if you're just rude, selfish, disrespectful, with poor personal character on the inside, you are far uglier on the outside, and that's an ugly make-up and filters can't hide. Shay, the reason there is no empathy from men, is because men have been telling women, just like her, for LONG enough now for them to get it in their heads, what they will/won't accept in a woman they will commit to. Men haven't changed much in what they want for HUNDREDS OF YEARS, and these women just don't listen to them and go on continuing to do whatever they want and do things men WILL NOT accept in a partner. These women in their next video will be insulting, shaming, putting down, and hating men for not wanting them, they have brought it upon themselves and still won't change (This woman proves that, she allegedly realized she's not going to get the "perfect man" yet still refuses to change and wants the "perfect man" when she doesn't even know what he is), and the reason there is no empathy from men. These women won't admit and accept accountability for their own actions, and will have comments from 1,000's of other women giving her "empathy", telling her it's not her fault and she doesn't need to change or "settle" (Or the way I look at settling is COMPROMISING), it's all the men's fault. There are THOUSANDS of videos on KZfaq from men reacting to these type videos, giving an opinion from a mans point of view and why these women continue failing in relationships. If these women truly wanted a partner, they would STOP listening to women remove accountability from them, and start watching videos and reading comments from men, they are telling women EXACTLY what they are looking for in a woman they will commit to, men don't give subtle hints, they say things bluntly. Tough love is still love. Until she admits to herself SHE IS ACCOUNTABLE and takes steps to fix her problems and show men she is trying to be better, men will have no interest or empathy for her. I think you ladies did a good job dissecting these western women's videos. Maybe watching a few hundred more will give you a lot more insight into their mind set, and see why men are leaving and why those men say/do certain things and are guarded and cautious with women, these are the women they've been dealing with. BUT, these women aren't ACTUALLY realizing anything, because they're not changing to fix whatever that alleged realization was. Let these videos of western women serve as a great learning tool for Filipina's interested in a foreigner. These are they type women, the attitudes and behaviors foreigners are FLEEING their own countries to get AWAY from, act/behave as these western women and your chances are all but 0 a foreigner will be interested.

I have been married twice now to a western woman and I find that when a marriage is negotiated by proxy instead of ACTUALLY discussing what is expected of one another, a marriage from a woman's perspective is always about changing a man into what she wants. My last wife snored so bad that a guest thought we had a BEAR in the house, at first I hated her snoring but then I loved her snoring because I knew that she was alive beside me, and I also realized that she had sleep apnea. So, why did I divorce her? Because she was a control freak. Anything that I did was always criticized.

The lady in pink....wow! Her response is a perfect Godly response. So so beautiful! It is so refreshing to hear someone give that kind of input!!!

The three of you ladies are making very good point. The one thing I did not hear any of those women in the video say is that they wanted someone to spend the rest of their lives with and be happy. I'm a divorced man I live alone with my daughter. I go to work I come home I cook I clean I do my laundry I do all my household things. I don't need a woman to be my slave and do everything for me. I want someone that I can spend the rest of my life with be able to talk to and enjoy my life with I finally met someone in the Philippines. All we want is a traditional woman here everyone has a bad habit of saying a relationship is 50-50 that is not the case the relationship you both have to put 100% into it in order to make it work you have to support each other you have to help each other grow as individuals and people. If I do more financially than the person I'm with does more in other ways. It should never be about what someone can do for you it should always be what you can do for each other help each other. None of us a perfect none of us will ever be perfect people just need to find someone who is perfect for them. Sorry for being long-winded just putting in my two cents😂😂😂

Another good video and topic Leah. All you ladies understand that you need to work on yourselves to feel fulfilled and happy. No man is going to do that for you. Being in a relationship with someone enhances your life. It can make it easier but there are also times when it could make it more difficult too. That's why the wedding vows are "for better or worse, richer or poorer, sickness and in health. I've said that in American the vows should be changed to "for better or even better". That's what scares me about American women now. I can date them but I don't really think that most of them can handle anything difficult happening to the relationship. Over 90 percent of college educated women in America initiate their divorce. Also 56% of marriages end in divorce. I'm looking for women who take relationships and marriage more seriously. All 3 of you are mature, caring, intelligent women who would have very little problem getting married in America because there are so few of you.

You're too nice for the first one, she missed/wasted her chance, there is no second chance for her.

1st woman is alone. It's the same in the Philippines for her age According to the PSA ( Philippines statistics authority) Filipinas her age make up less than 3% of marriages in 2021. It's an age issue just like it is here in PH. 2nd woman, good advice. It is like that here is PH. Many women with children still live at home where they are co-dependent. Most are looking for a man to take care if them, especially foreigners, because they have money. 3rd woman is a Brit. Just the same as Philippines. Not much of an opportunity for women above the age of 35 here. This lady waited to long and has aged out. The panel should realize the situation, because they look her age and it's slim pickings. Most Filipinas her age end up with a 60+ aged pensioner. Men, Philippines is just as disfunctional as Americans and Brits with a slight difference in culture. For the men, please have some pride in your country. You dont see Filipino men badmouthing their women. By putting down your own culture, you're coming across as a sellout. I can understand you may be infactuated with a beautiful young filipina. No need of bias between cultures.

I’ve not dated a western woman since my divorce of 22 years!!! I’ll be in the Philippines for good in 2025. Can’t wait

I am 54, male and want to share my views and feelings about this Video.For the first Lady, very attraktive for her age. We don't know about her past so it is hard to say that she really means what she says. I recently had a Date with a Woman my age at a nice Restaurant. We both agreed in the Chat we had that we would pay for our own food because it was our first date. Both of us earning a good amount of money. Didn't turn out good because I didn't wear Designer clothes 🤣. She had no idea that my suit and shirt were tailor made, really worth the money in the long run. First red Flag for me judging me solely for my outfit. I ordered Salmon with spinach and garlic sauce, of course with tagliatelle. I love Italian Food. The second sehr heard that I am ordering fish, a 20 minute rant began about how Fish is awful, stinky, full of harmful chemicals and Just not eatable. She ordered a "healthy salad". With Mayonnaise, lots of it. Women my Age in the West are either divorced from a wealthy man or have never been married. Not worth the effort, sorry. The second "Woman" ... i would run as fast as i can immediately. Heavily spoiled princess attitude, just unsufferable. Lady number 3 is just sick of her career, working hard and making money at 40 !!!!. Men start their Carrer at 30 and work to 65 or older. Again, she wants princess treatment and a Man that provides for her unreasonable spending Habits, because she's tired of working for herself, just hilarious. To sum it up I had a wife and kids for 16 years and was happy as can be because we grew together, learned from each other cherished our marriage before our kids to be strong for our kids. I am still happy to have had this experience and would never settle for less

She’s built a life for herself and wants a man to join her life. That’s not gonna happen. A man builds his life and woman join him.

this is much more positive then the last one. Good job

I love it how Leah is sitting there listening too the two women (wonderful women btw) with the "you're being too nice to these western women" face.

It's like buying a house. You may not like everything in that house, but enough that suffices you and makes you happy

Bonding is the essence of fulfilling our life’s purposeful goals together. Each of us are responsible for bringing our best selves to give to one another and anticipate the wants and needs of the other in the good times and during the rough patches as well. I loved these three women together, great job, looking forward to many more.❤🙏

Wow you are all beautiful and smart, well spoken , grounded, feminine and incredible mature in your outlook. North American women do not make themselves emotionally available to a loving relationship. I dated over 11 women and ended up finding a beautiful Philipina who loves me. My Philipina is a business woman with a heart for serving God and making a difference in her community

Newly subscriber here. I love the topics that you’re discussing.

Luv you guys. Good advice. I wish it were easier for american or western women to view these videos. Good job!

Excellent comments! You have so adorable personality and culture.

You're all very intelligent women. Love this video and your opinions. Most Western women want only a domestic helper and a walking wallet in one man, or a few men would do also, I think.

No, you are hearing them right. So many are like this and worse. The stories I could tell would make your head explode. I can't pick a winner too save my life. I gave up looking 15 yrs ago. My dream is to come there, meet a nice girl and settle down. Build something good with the years I have left and leave her better off than I found her when my time is up. I'm a good guy, my daughters love me, I just can't find an acceptable partner.

This is what I like about good Filipinas they show compassion never if it's to someone entitled like these western women. Love Filipinas

Such a great video with a great topic, I think the three of you can fix the world. Also, it was funny. Thank you. 🙂👍👍👍🙏

Thanks so much my 3 beatifull teachers. The class today is unforgetable is a lot to learm from u Amores bellos. Just ur voces give me peace. Thanks again. God bless.

lets all be better than we have been in the past. not be egoistic be kind and helpfull. figure out things together. have fun with family and friends. give something back in life even when its small things. we all live together on this planet. lets share what we have. take care all you wonderfull human beings. Greetings

When you hold back and don't take a chance to take the risk to love somebody you innately are putting a stumbling block between you and love

It was nice seeing you at Ground Zero the other day

Expecting empathy from the internet is wild. 😩

Love is easy to find if you live in the real world and aren't looking for some fantasy character from a romcom. There is no "perfect man".

20 seconds in and Leah already figured out the heart of the problem: They Watch TOO MUCH TV. I'm serious. 99% of these unrealistic expectations can be traced to groups of women who got together and decided they were going to do something about a problem that exists only in their minds... after watching talk shows and getting themselves worked into a tizzy. Let them see one woman get abused over here, and 20 minutes later they've convinced themselves that ALL men are abusers. It is difficult to even compliment a woman without being called sexist. If you are a man and you say the words "That dress looks nice on you." I can guarantee you that at least a dozen women will complain that you're being sexist.

Leah, I've watched quite a few of your videos now and I quite enjoy them and your views on life and what it takes to be happy. The relationship between you and your husband seems solid and it appears to me that you work very hard to keep it that way. Of all 3 of you in the video today you had the most realistic attitude. All this "I don't need a man' stuff is pure Western feminist influence. The fact of the matter is that we need each other, we depend on each other and both the man and woman in any relationship have roles to play, we must support each other, people say that relationships are 50/50. I don't believe that. I think relationships are 100/100 ...each person should give 100% to make sure the relationship stays solid and harmonious.

Shay I love your attitude so nice and modest Excellent-comments all of you💗💞

Yeah 🎉Do it when your young and wild like Filipina’s..❣️

Beautiful and intelligent ladies

We all suppress our ability to express our loneliness within ourselves

You've got some wisdom there, Good for you! The women in the videos aren't talking about real relationships - they just want somebody else to do tasks they don't want to do. That's no basis for a relationship and has nothing to do with a connection. Sounds like they want a handyman. Why don't they just hire out?

I agree on the independent thing. Both my great ganrdmother and grandmother had that issue when there husband died in there 80s they had no idea how to do financine pay bills etc. They just never had to do anynof thoes thing there entire life. Both times my dad has to move in with then for a week or so and teach them how to be independent.

The first woman being reviewed thinks you can’t force love (true), and that you can’t make love happen (no true). Love making (I’m specifically referencing to s*x, but also that) IS made by two people being committed to the process of building a relationship. It’s an enterprise, not just a spontaneous occurrence that manifests and Carrie’s is off to a magical realm filled with good feelings. It takes work getting to know one another, deepening our understanding of the other person as well as ourselves, and surrendering to a much more grounded and mature form of love that can only be earned. This woman just wants a fantasy that she will never experience.

I love these Karen's that you put on. They're extreme over the top. Laughing out loud. Eating my popcorn

BTW -- just as there is no perfect woman, there is no perfect man. The worst part of it all is when the effort is put in and it is shit upon, then where is the attempt at perfection?

We only hold ourselves back by trying to find the unreasonable and unrealistic perfect or right person

I am planning on visiting the Philippines in 1 to 2 years. My plan is to be there for a month to 2 months. For first timer going what area would be best recommended? Also this would just be myself going.

All those men you passed up being independent…I will wait for Shay

HA-HA-HA LEAH ❤ YOUR NOT ONLY BEAUTIFUL BUT HILARIOUS AND FUNNY 🤣🤣🤣

I would like to be forwarded and speak with Shay....

So as a western guy, I couldn’t be involved with any of these women. Personally none of these women are independent all they really want is a robot. Fortunately for them there are guys who are equally in such bad shape, they’ll go along with them, and it just last for a while, they might even become codependent on each other, making them equally unhappy. This is pretty common problem here in the west.

It's consistently said, the confusion of the western woman is the reason we western men feel a need to connect with women outside our country. So, now we as masculine men need to focus on how we can deepen & enrich the lives of the women in our future. We need to understand & bring the kinda happiness to the Filipinas, that comes with knowing & understanding these women.

The Philippines dating is just like the West with one huge dufference. Age Gap. If Western single moms would be willing to date men 20, 30, 40 years older than them like the Filipina will, they would not be lonely. Unfortunately most 35 year old Western woman are not willing to date a guy collecting social security. They want men closer to their age. Age Gap is the key that allows the Filipina more options.

I never got the "boys night out" ? We nearly always went out together. My male friends liked my gfs more than they liked me ! Of course she didn't have to go....but if she wanted to...she was always welcome.

Its team work the saying there is no later I in team so it takes two to make things go right.

Hi Shay. I would like to meet you there in the PI.

A lot of women in the U.S. do watch a lot of tv in general, especially K-Drama and they believe what they see on the screen is real life. It's so sad

Be unpredictable has nothing to do with being independent. Reach out. Take a risk to love somebody and then to know when to pull back if you are not happy

I think the last American woman mistakes love for a handyman! Love is not an occupation!

Shey is beautiful ❤

I am fall in love with a Filipina woman i cant Explain the emotion about it

Leah, Love the two guests you have on this video. Wise and dark skinned. The 2nd video left me sick to my stomach. How can you complain about basic adult responsibilities like cooking, making a medical appointment or calling your insurance if your car breaks down? Gladys was generous on her comments: certainly she is young, but she is young and stupid. Shay nailed on the head. Regarding the rest of the video, this independent thing is a programing American women swallowed out of ego and stupidity. There is nobody who is independent. At best we are interdependent. A a man I may pay for it but at time I will need a lawyers, accountant, plumber, electrician or mechanic. So I depend on them even when I need them very rarely. Same with everything in life. The mighty USA will collapse if Mexico, China and southeast Asian countries stopped at one manufacturing our products. Or if the countries who produce petroleum stopped selling it to them. They depend on USA as well for other goods. Bringing it to relationships between men and women, beyond the romantic and sexual stuff, we rely on each other. We combine our talents and hope your weaknesses are my strengths, and your strengths compliments my weaknesses. That the only way a relationship will grow. Helping and complimenting each other. 100% agree with Shay about self-improving to be the best version ourselves to be ready for a relationship when the right person arrives to our lives. A woman can chase or at least approach a man. Just do it with class,, not slutty.

I am sure when she was younger, she over looked a lot of guys that didn't measure up to her standards. And now she is on the receiving end of being alone at 53. I didn't think people are being hard on her, certain things you should never put on social media because people have their opinions, and just be prepared to receive what ever response people have.

That 2nd woman was SO annoying, instantly gave me a headache

"Where is he? Where is he?" I'd recommend checking SE Asia, ma'am. Because that's where you chased all the Western men to.

They're all looking for a Servant, not a partner.

As a man i love living alone. I👍

THATS A GREAT ACTING JOB FROM A 53YEAR OLD WOMN. BUT SHE BE LYING..... GREAT JOB ON THE VIDEO LADIES. GLAD TO SEE YOU ALL ARE REALLY SEEING WHATS BEEN BREWING WITH THESE LADIES.. RESPECT YOU ARE ALL WHAT WE REAL MEN ALWAYS WANTED AND RESPECTED, WE JUST DIDN'T KNOW THAT THIS WAS POSSIBLE... WE HAVE BEEN BLINDED IN aMERICA.

I was always told by my married guy friends (I am single male and straight) that they stopped looking for love in their early 20s and it found them. Each of them except 1 is happily married and have been so for 10 plus years now. The 1 that isn’t married is so by choice. He’s never been married and never wanted to be. I respect all my friends for their choices but, I’m starting to get tired of hearing about the happy married lives they have. I’m 37 years old, I work my butt off and I have pretty much given up on finding love about 10 years ago. I say pretty much because I see happy families every single day everywhere I go and it’s too difficult to completely give up on it when it’s in your face 24/7. Even my step niece is able to get a boyfriend easily and she’s bi. Maybe it’s my resting face that makes me look like I could hurt someone just by looking at them or maybe I give a standoffish and dangerous aura? It’s not like I can change what I normally look like, I think I look alright for a guy and I’m not a hostile man. I’m actually quite friendly and welcoming. Maybe I need to go overseas too.

Haha there is such a thing as the perfect man ...but I'm busy 😂😂😂😂😂 joke lang ... Ohhhh my godness , there's Shay 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👋👋👋👋

Top blog Leah these women have to move sawan from their feminists world for start and I agree no one is perfect it’s what you both put in. The ladies with you are my type , speak well, good view overall in their thinking . Ladies hit me up would love to get to know you unless taken. I also had enough here in Australia I intend to move there Filipinas are awesome as other Asian countries also .. Frank

TIme 17:00 ....... I think the word that you ladies are looking for is "inter-dependent" (yin & yang?)

Miss 40 year old independent woman needs to purchase a heard of goats for her lawn. In addition, she should strongly consider finding stray cats for company. No reasonable man desires this type of woman regardless of appearance

I have never met a perfect man or woman. 😮

Mathew 7 1-5 Practice what you preach.

Three woman possibly upsetting the cart a little. There have been so many vlogs that Filipinas have created that totally cater to the male audience with sexual overtones or even beyond that to get views. The women on each side of Leah spoke a whole different language that differs from what other filipinas have been selling on youtube. Leah, there definitely is the perfect man. A woman can find a perfect man who is perfection to her alone.

AWE LEAH ❤ STOP THIS CRACKING UP, AND MAKING FUN OF AMERICAN WOMEN! THEY PUT THEMSELVES IN THIS POSITION! WOMEN HERE IN THE USA BELIEVE THAT STATUS AND MONEY GIVE THEM THE RIGHT TO DOMINATE AND CONTROL THEIR AMERICAN MEN? THIS IS WHY WE (FORIEGN) MEN ARE SEARCHING FOR FORIEGN WIVES WHO ARE HUMBLE, TRADITIONAL AND SUBMISSIVE WOMEN, LIKE YOU LEAH! ❤

We don't need to bother to comb through what the first woman published but there's a 99% she got there at 53 with lack of empathy among other things. At her age she should be able to take in some tough love from the comment section. Dating is tough, very tough everywhere, like in the Philippines. But in the West, especially when dealing with women popular on social media, they are brutal, brutal towards men they run into when they have some upper hand. Hence the reaction in that comment section ..

looking for the "right man" means she will critique anyone among every other man 100 percent of the time. If my Filipina waited for the right man...we would not be husband and wife. I am not perfect not even for her. We share the values and fell in love later. the 50 year old western woman has often had high amount of men she has slept with and men are not looking for an old(er) woman that has been like that. Because there are plenty of younger who have not been with half of the town. Sadly until western women have a couple of generations to reprogram how to be a woman they will suffer.

Single older pinay saying I can be independent when I have a partner. Sounds foolish

You ladies are saying very good assessment of the women you showing videos of here. Check out filipina woman American expat, she is named rose and is so very nice woman she is pig farmer. Being poor growing up is enriching your soul, one can’t put fluff in the mind, you are dealing with real issues. Grateful is king as opposed “world owes me what I want” so I’m ungrateful. You will remain alone because of your caustic personality. I’ve watched you guys especially girl in pink dress and Leah.

A Ken doll is the perfect man for a girl when they are young. But one has to grow up and out of that dream. Something else, you can’t change a man. He may say and try to but it’s really not going to happen in his lifetime with you. It’s just his human nature.

She is a victim of American feminism whether she participated in it or not. Men are finding alternatives to dating in America

You know I have 52 ur old gf going on 12th month so (ldr) I’m coming over soon to find out good or not good

I am the perfect man ! Perfectly old, fat, and broke 🙂

The Australian woman will die alone

these women never say what they are bringing to the man only what they want want want.

I want to say something about this 53 year old woman. The lack of empathy comes from men in which has seen similiar stories. When she was younger she turned down great men. Now she is crying she cant find a good man and so we dont feel for her she threw away her best opportunities away and so its hard for good men to feel for her

Sorry for one more comment. In all the videos I have seen that are similar to this one, in ALL of them, the western woman is all about gimme gimme gimme. Not one truly puts out there what precisely she has to offer to a man. This is the typical attitude I have noticed in all the women out here in the west. That and the complaining at not being able to find a man. They never look in the mirror for their answers.

Any good man with wisdom will make sure his wife us taken care of should something happen to him. If you do not understand what I mean, im referring to life and disability insurance. These are only a few of hundreds of options.

In the west, and this is just from the outside looking in, it seems like men give value and respect more to women than the other way around. Of course there are good marriage that lasts for decades, but the ones that don’t..and this is not to say that no man is at fault, just seeing the entitled, the femimpnists..man

IF YALL STOP LIYING SO MUCH YOU GET ANF KEEP A GOOD MAN

I gave zero empathy for this woman. Less than zero.

All I can say is. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 When your rant starts with “I want, I want, I want” you are the problem

Build a life together? The hell.... You're life over your 53 😂

Hello girls, And Hello Shey, Shey is A cutiepie"

No such thing as the perfect man

Nosferatu strikes again.

Strong & Independent Without understanding and gratitude = Loneliness. Stop helping these hyenas! They don't listen to you and damn well don't listen to us either so stop giving them advice.

Doing KZfaq once the man has the stability is not being independent. He allows you to sit with no pressure and build a channel . If you need the bills paid you couldn’t do KZfaq. That’s not independent with your man. Your standing on his shoulders and making extra side money. Be real ladies

Your laughing at these whiners, feeling so sorry for themselves is hilarious. A person (man or woman) needs to be able to care for themselves, and be secure within themselves, not needing another person to "support" them, and "complete" them - that is weak and pathetic.

Not looking for a partner and sit around being "busy" is the worst advice ever...if you want to have a partner, you have to take action/ For example, pray, go places where the type of men you want are. This is especially important for a woman that wants to have children. Unlike men, women's ability to have healthy children declines rapidly after 33 years old. Don't let your over blown ego make you a cat lady...smdh.

She is past the age that attract men. Men are visual we want an attractive woman. We want a woman to have family. I am in my 60s and wouldn't marry a 50 year old woman. Established men usually marry younger women. Is she willing to marry a men 10 years older than her? Additional she needs to lower her expectations.