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How my husband feels about me being a housewife.

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Margarita Nazarenko

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@elisamonast9730
@elisamonast9730 2 жыл бұрын
I had a career for many years before and after being married. When I met now my husband he asked me what I wanted out of a marriage? The first thing I told him was that I wanted children and I wanted to raise my children. He listened and he knew what I was expecting. He could have walked away and didn’t. My kids are now grown and I would not have it any other way. I was Blessed to have done that. Totally agree with you Margarita, let’s praise one another and not be so jealous. Celebrate other women. I admire those single moms because I can’t even begin to imagine the struggles. My hat goes off to you!!
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️
@theparttimehomemaker
@theparttimehomemaker Жыл бұрын
Your husband sounds like an amazing man- praise God for his life!! x
@vinlennox7658
@vinlennox7658 Жыл бұрын
I d NEVER EVER marry a wife and have it any other way
@ravenspadegirl
@ravenspadegirl Жыл бұрын
Well said❤
@EbonyNikitaElegance
@EbonyNikitaElegance 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a young housewife & I love it. People may judge, but if you’re happy working or if you’re happy Homemaking, why does it matter what other people think? As a housewife I’m able to explore my passions & hobbies and I simply like taking care of my home 💗 Whatever makes you feel fulfilled & happy matters the most
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
❤️👏🏼
@ZolaBold
@ZolaBold 2 жыл бұрын
I have been a house wife over 8 years, raising 3 beautiful boys. I am proud mom and happy wife. I obtained two masters degrees before and while raising my kids. Now that my youngest is 6 yrs old I am about to launch my own small business. Things change, time changes, we grow and we live! Please never judge, people do what they chose to do! Life is rich!
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏼🙌🏼❤️
@ZolaBold
@ZolaBold 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you,! Woow I didn’t know that there was a price on commenting!
@user-dw4cf3ls6q
@user-dw4cf3ls6q 8 ай бұрын
​@@Margarita.Nazarenkolove your voice❤
@amyV10844
@amyV10844 2 жыл бұрын
I just adore your content. I came for the luxury but I stay for the spontaneous and intelligent convos. 💕
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
That means a lot xxx
@felsull
@felsull 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who doesn't have children (and never wanted them), I deeply appreciate your videos and respect all the work you put in to making a rich and loving life for you and your family. It's odd that strangers would even ask these questions because, quite frankly, it's none of their business. You choose what to share online for people to consume and it always amazes me how people feel entitled to analyze and interrogate a slice of someone's life without realizing it's not the whole. But conversely, I am tired of seeing women (not you, just as someone who navigates the world without wanting to have children) saying that "the most important job a woman can have is being a mother." I don't invalidate any woman's choices or rank them. Because one chooses to have children doesn't make them superior to those who don't. We're all beautiful, brilliant and strong in our unique ways--this is the beauty of being human. I wish people would respect all choices and realize it's a great privilege and joy to CHOOSE how one wants to live their life and revel in those choices. Brava to you. Another stellar video.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@nikolavojnovic6552
@nikolavojnovic6552 Жыл бұрын
What's your career, Felicia?
@VforVanity10
@VforVanity10 Жыл бұрын
My guess is Margarita meant in the life of a woman who already became a mother, the most important job to her is motherhood when it comes to priorities..
@lasantuzza777
@lasantuzza777 Жыл бұрын
@@VforVanity10 that’s exactly how i’ve always interpreted that saying. perception is everything and ppl will interpret differently based off of their own projections or insecurities.
@tanechkaamericanochka4839
@tanechkaamericanochka4839 2 жыл бұрын
The hardest and most important job is to be a mother.♥️👩‍🦰♥️
@YOU-niter
@YOU-niter Жыл бұрын
Yes! & something I devoted 32 yrs to🫶 but now my children are adults.. am lost 🫤 So need to put the energy I did into motherhood & house.. person, (can’t call mySelf house ‘wife’ as I never married, although with partner all them years) into something new asap.
@tanechkaamericanochka4839
@tanechkaamericanochka4839 Жыл бұрын
@@YOU-niter it’s time to travel and see the world 😘
@AmandaNunweiler
@AmandaNunweiler 2 жыл бұрын
My favourite way to answer this question is by saying, “This is what is working for my family right now.”
@elizabethanne8729
@elizabethanne8729 2 жыл бұрын
This is so true. The boundaries are strong. The energy is immaculate. Women really do need to uplift each other. I have no children, I want no children, and I am genuinely happy with my life. When you are genuinely happy all you want is others to be happy as well. It doesn’t matter if they live a completely opposite life. I see a lady with 7 kids and she looks happy? I’mma be happy for her. I see a woman killing it in her career? I’m right there cheering her on!! People can be so insecure that they view another person’s deviation from their own personal choices as an affront to they are as a person. It’s not a good look.
@aseeshera5998
@aseeshera5998 2 жыл бұрын
Also another thing when dads have a full day with their kids and say the wife away to pamper herself or go see her friends. Guys are told oh you babysitting today . You cannot babysit your own child.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼
@m0rena85
@m0rena85 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@dianaherring3334
@dianaherring3334 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, tx so much for another insightful conversation❣️On another topic I have often wondered, as a very overweight woman, why I have never experienced the hatred that other overweight people often commend on..I thought it was mbe because I am always well groomed. .clothes, nails, skin etc but u made me realized that they could probably see in my eyes as well that I would not tolerate it. What an eye opener. I work from home (unfortunately unable to have children), handmanufacturing and managing my own cement decor business and when people comment on it being nice to work from home, I just smile to myself and say..you have no idea.. What they do not get is the stress related to having your own business in which u are the labourer, creative director marketing manager, and sales associate and constantly worrying about bringing enough money in, and still trying to remember to stop and smell the roses now and again. So I never judge anyone for their choices and circumstances. Love u lots🌻
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️
@sierrasmith8722
@sierrasmith8722 5 ай бұрын
I came to this video hoping for a discussion ab 50/50 mindset in men, which it wasn’t… but a very deep reminded I really really needed to stop believing and comparing myself to idealized versions of people’s lives online. I just caught myself doing this yesterday and didn’t even realize it could all be a facade. thank you margarita
@MissDLinx
@MissDLinx Жыл бұрын
My mom was “just a housewife” for mine and my sisters formative years, when she did pick up a part time job it was at our school, and I wouldn’t change that time with her for anything. She didn’t start working full time until we were around 9 and 11 respectively and of course there were issues, we’re human, but once both my parents started working the whole dynamic of the house changed, and my parents became miserable and it did effect my sister and I. Now that doesn’t mean that no two working parent house holds can work or that only stay at home motherhood can produce happy children, that’s not what I’m saying. What I am say is that I do not regret the extra time with my mom, and that when both of my parents started working their change in relationship changed the entire household dynamic for my house. I understand some of the upsides of having a stay at home mom, because that’s what I had, I understand some of the downsides of having two full time working parents, because that’s also what I had. Something to understand about both positions is that both are rewarding, both are positions of dignity and worthy of respect and, that neither is easy. So, let’s cut ourselves some slack and not judge ourselves or each other too harshly.
@alecsinger3364
@alecsinger3364 17 күн бұрын
This.
@anja9978
@anja9978 2 жыл бұрын
I love the conversation that you started with this video. I see women being judged for being a career woman to being an stay at home mom and everything in between that. We need to stop judging each other and respect that everyone is on their own path in life. People live their lives how they want to live it and who are we to judge them about it. Just do what is best for your lifestyle and situation and respect that others live in a different way. Love your videos and I always look forward to the next one 😊
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
❤️🙌🏼
@muffyscoops
@muffyscoops 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video, well addressed. I'm a single working mum, you said it right.
@pathos9864
@pathos9864 2 жыл бұрын
I had to pause your video and write a comment now, otherwise I may forget my thought. There is a very interesting episode from the Black Mirror series and it’s called Nosedive. It’s about social rating and how a woman got too obsessed in chasing the status and presenting herself in a specific (“perfect”) way in social media. That’s unbelievable relatable to our current life style. I see many people being concentrated on portraying themselves very far from what they really are. All in all, I’m in a team “not giving a subtle f*** about a meaningless and judgmental opinion of a stranger”.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@theparttimehomemaker
@theparttimehomemaker Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@MaRyAsaiBerry
@MaRyAsaiBerry 2 жыл бұрын
I stay at home to raise by 2 kids. I love every moment with them and can't imagine someone else watching them.
@user-mf9hx9qd7f
@user-mf9hx9qd7f Жыл бұрын
This is the first comment I've ever made on KZfaq, I am compelled to respond to this video as I LOVE it so much! I worked as a prominent lawyer for 16 yrs before becoming a full-time SAHM 2 years ago (I worked part-time after starting a family and then dropped my career entirely when my eldest started Prep). The reactions from other women were/are surprisingly brutal. Apparently, my decision to focus on my home and family is triggering for many. The jealousy, hateful judgement and ignorant comments have been unrelenting. But I am so happy! Best decision ever for my husband, children and I. Thank you so much for addressing this topic, Margarita! While the opinions of others are irrelevant and merely irritating, it's awesome that you are giving a voice of support to SAHMs who are being constantly hated on. I love all your videos, you are a whole entire vibe! And to any SAHMs reading this, you don't need me or anyone else to validate you but keep up the amazing and critically important work that you do! Supreme Court in the US values our work as $US180K per annum but, really, it is priceless.
@franziskani
@franziskani 4 ай бұрын
It may be covert envy. Because chasing a career, maybe juggling a household and social life w/o much help from their partner, and / or also taking care of children (with a lot of paid for services) is also brutal. Those women may be proud that they conform to the insane standards of society - but there is some ressentment for that exploitation / self exploitation. And let's face it - males still now very well to weasel out of their share of the burden and society (especially in the U.S.) treats having children like it was an expensive hobby. As opposed to: one of the most crucial tasks of society - how to have and raise offspring. And companies are not bothered to accomodate parents either (it is possible see the Scandinavian countries).
@franziskani
@franziskani 4 ай бұрын
And maybe sometimes you _perceive_ innocent questions and remarks as judgmential remarks you (subconsciously) expect them. You too have been trained to accept / expect that a woman's life is a hamster wheel on stereoids and your subconscious expectations (even feeling guilty) have been formed by that. I have been getting flippant remarks from SAHM just for asking what was going on in their life (One example: we had not seen for a while, she used to be a friend of a sibling. I only knew she had married. Did not know that it was a farmer, so she helped out on the farm, nor did I know she had 2 small children. She must have been aware that I could not be aware of these developments in her life). She either was preventively defensive and "noticed" a slight when there was just interest and an attempt to have a bit of small talk - or she had been insulted by other people's real judgement and took it out on me.
@cindymargarett4009
@cindymargarett4009 2 жыл бұрын
This topic is 🔥 we (women) seriously need to hold each other up.. thank you for bringing up this topic 🙏🏻
@npiche1
@npiche1 2 жыл бұрын
Almost sounds like the person asking was resentful (perhaps because she has to work and doesn’t want to 🤷‍♀️). Also appears that she values men’s feelings and thoughts more than women (ie what he feels rather than asking how you feel, what choice have you made and how did you come to that point). I see so many women cutting shreds off other women. They are their worst enemy. Bring others up ladies. Resentment towards others doesn’t solve our problems.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
wow yes! I wish I had said that! through her gaze she values the man more!
@jessicaleighton
@jessicaleighton Жыл бұрын
…and this is why I adore you: “being a sahm isn’t celebrated”. This was all so well said. I share this privilege with you and I share the wholeness of the experience including the loneliness, joys, etc. Cheers, mama 🤍
@crystalduque7559
@crystalduque7559 6 ай бұрын
Instantly subscribing!! You are hilarious 😂 “my beautiful intelligent audience.” 👏
@tuvajacob5050
@tuvajacob5050 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you discuss these matters. Life is always changing, there are always different fases in parents lifes. Sometimes it is best for everyone for either mom or dad to stay at home for a period of time. I have now older children and work full time, and love it! But had periods when they were small that I loved being at home with them. Enjoy the time you have with your beautiful son. He is soon a grown man (believe me I know..) choose your way! And thank you for your content.
@fridaymaureenodipo1846
@fridaymaureenodipo1846 2 жыл бұрын
I am a stay at home mum taking care of my 3 sons and my husband loves it we agreed that l should take care of them no regrets it's a hard full time but fulfilling so in my books it's work too.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
👌🏼❤️
@whatsilviadid3993
@whatsilviadid3993 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for bringing up such interesting topic! It is truly multi-layered. From my point of view, children are very difficult to raise and nobody will put up with them and want the best for them more than the parents. It is a luxury to have one of the parents dedicate most of their time to raise them and it is WORK, inside of home, but work nonetheless. It is also a needed discussion between the couple because one of the partners will have to sacrifice their career and also assume a high risk in terms of what would happen to them after a “potential” divorce cause going back to the professional market can be very tough. In general, men’s wages are higher than women’s so whenever women stay at home raising their children, they are taking a higher risk than men. Another point id love to bring out is the working outside partner personality. If they have an attitude of believing they have more power to make decisions in the relationship because they are the bread winner, that’s a toxic dependable relationship. If they acknowledge and appreciate the effort their partner is making and realise that they can have a career AND a family because of their partner’s sacrifice, then that’s a good healthy relationship. About women judging other women, I think its genetic. Females see other females as competition sadly. One last point I’d like to give my opinion about is the concept of “the partner who is staying at home and doesn’t enjoy it but they do it for their children”. I’m terribly sorry to say that parent will inevitably feel resentment towards their children because they sacrificed themselves. A child is much better off in my humble opinion with a parent who also takes care of themselves and puts themselves first sometimes. If that means, you have to take time off for a hobby you enjoy while a nanny takes care of your child despite the fact that you are a stay at home parent, go for it. There is no real good or bad way to go about this topic. Women should be supportive of ANY choice other make. I am a professional woman in a male dominated industry and it is my personal goal to protect the women under me and support as much as I possibly can to those who are mothers by giving them flexibility, working from home or even bringing their children to office if no help is available. The corporate environment was built by men and sadly it doesn’t take much consideration to help professional females, but it is so important to have female professionals in the corporate world too because their skills are different but complementary and business thrive when both cooperate with each other!
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@chrisboddie2896
@chrisboddie2896 Жыл бұрын
You right about women keepin stuck through gossip n image!
@1PositiveDeviant
@1PositiveDeviant Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for supporting all women! I've been a housewife for 24 years and it was a choice I made because I believed (and still do) is what is best for my family, specially my children. I have had to make many personal and financial sacrifices through out the years so I could stay home with my kiddos, and many times I felt envy towards my working mom friends because of the freedom (personal and financial) that they had, even the single mamas. There are many other privileges my working mom friends have that I don't get to enjoy as a SAHM, but I also know that they have made many sacrifices for the life they have as working moms that I never needed to make because I'm a SAHM. My point is that any life choice comes with pros and cons, sacrifices and privileges and acting self-righteous and condescending towards other women who chose a different way of life than I do has zero value to me, or to anyone else.
@oceanmoonbelle
@oceanmoonbelle 8 ай бұрын
I love your content and the way you broke the questions and implications down, and addressed how it begs to have more questions or definitions in order to really get to the meat of things. One thing I’d like to say is that you kinda offhandedly said “not when they are teenagers” when talking about being there at your children’s beck and call, as a mother of an almost 30 year old (who’s obviously out of the house now) and 2 teenagers, I would like to say that I actually think those years of being completely available, are way more important than people realize. Not that you’re needed in the same ways, but knowing mom is present and open to have talks, give advice, listen, and so much more, benefits them AND your relationship and connections w them in ways that don’t seem to get any attention. I have proof in my almost 30 year old. And even the girls recognize it, and their friends do too. Just wanted to throw that out there. 🤗
@4seasons546
@4seasons546 3 күн бұрын
I see you as an inspiring entrepreneur! You are working 🧑‍🎓 from home 🏡 making money 💰 so most men will find this ideal! He knows where you are. + Your taking care of the children (except few moments you hire a helper) + making money 💰 for yourself & the household. All this & staying Glamorous 🤩 & Beautiful 😍 Go Margarita! Love❤
@missopinionated0000
@missopinionated0000 2 жыл бұрын
hmm, I BELIEVE THAT WOMEN WHO ASK THIS KIND OF QUESTIONS ARE JUST JEALOUS THEY DONT HAVE THIS POSSIBILITY ( STAY-HOME MOM ) IN THERE LIVES.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
I had that sense …
@natalia6g
@natalia6g Жыл бұрын
I get jealous when I hear women say I don’t work. Can’t wait to quit my job and focus on being a housewife!! 🎉
@ballerman22345
@ballerman22345 2 жыл бұрын
I am over 60 and have had a long time to look back on my life. If I could change some things about my past, I would have never given up my job. It gave me a sense of self. I never had to explain my spending to anyone. I felt like my husband respected me more. I respected myself more. You never know what the future holds. If I had to do it all over again, I would have never allowed myself to be dependent on another person for money. It's one of the most important lessons I learned in my life.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@MakeUpTraffic
@MakeUpTraffic 2 жыл бұрын
If your husband respected you more because of your money, he never loved you. Nothing to be proud of. This is standard feminist social programming. Very common among boomers and zoomers alike.
@volleyrunner1193
@volleyrunner1193 2 жыл бұрын
Your comment resonated with me because I too am just over 60. My mother said “ always have credit in your own name and make sure you can walk away and take care of yourself and your children “. I’ve been married almost 38 years and I’ve held on to that. It took some doing initially as my husband came from a family where the man was the breadwinner and controlled the finances. But he realized that wasn’t going to fly. We are financially secure and I know my contributions helped to get us there. I tell both my adult children what my mom told me. It put me in good stead.
@theparttimehomemaker
@theparttimehomemaker Жыл бұрын
Thanks foe sharing this- your experience is so interesting!
@muffyscoops
@muffyscoops 2 жыл бұрын
Please can you do a video on confidence, boundaries and self-worth? Thank you
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
I 100% can x
@keiajohn
@keiajohn 2 жыл бұрын
This is why I love your content! I respect you so much for upholding your boundaries and protecting your family. A real superwoman 💕
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын
She is amazing 😊. Folks like to be so judgmental smh 🤦‍♀️ I like the fact she put people in check and live her life
@Dearmarycoach
@Dearmarycoach Жыл бұрын
This is so well said. A very intelligent breakdown of a topic that is not discussed enough ❤
@theparttimehomemaker
@theparttimehomemaker Жыл бұрын
I don't think being a housewife is harder than being a career woman and vice versa. They each have their own challenges, but what I know FOR SURE is that being a mum, wife, homemaker AND having a job is HARD emotionally, physically, financially and in every other possible way. We as women need to respect one another's decisions and freedom to choose. I compleyely agree and yes, let's stop believing the lives peoples post on social media- they're only half of the story.
@vinlennox7658
@vinlennox7658 Жыл бұрын
Having a career woman for a wife is pretty mental imo
@Gedankenful
@Gedankenful Жыл бұрын
Women..we need to support and celebrate each other in all walks of life. It is high time. Stop competing, start complementing. The world will shift towards more love, compassion and joy for women.
@maridesramirez8472
@maridesramirez8472 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on Margarita! Such an intelligent, respectful, mindful and classy way to shut all the mindless talk down. Thank you!
@MonoiLuv
@MonoiLuv 2 жыл бұрын
Much respect for the way you addressed this topic. Well done
@Wendy-fi7yb
@Wendy-fi7yb 2 жыл бұрын
Each family dances to the beat of their own drum, mainly. What works for them, works for them and who is anybody else to judge? The only opinions I take on board are those of people I truly respect.
@ItsJessDee
@ItsJessDee 2 жыл бұрын
Refreshing! I just discovered your channel and I love your direct realness.
@mirafilipovic5162
@mirafilipovic5162 Жыл бұрын
So very true and so well said end explained! Kudos to you Margarita! Thank you
@parteeofthree
@parteeofthree 2 жыл бұрын
Pretty much sums up my thoughts and perspective on how women should be treated, regardless of whether they choose to take care of their children at home or work. Thanks for this lovely video. Women should learn to be happy for each other more often.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@krispy3736
@krispy3736 2 жыл бұрын
i love that you kinda touched on evolutionary psychology here. to me, it makes sense that women are unconsciously far more competitive towards each other than men because we're evolved to 'fight' for the best mate that could protect our offspring/carry the best genes, whereas men's evolutionary drive is pretty much just spreading their seed as much as possible. on top of this, women are FAR more social creatures precisely so we tend to put on this performative, public facade of equality, girls support other girls etc, but it is incredibly hard to override that natural competitiveness. because of our need for external and social validation, that competitiveness manifests in bursts of passive aggressiveness, envy, probing questions like "why are you just a housewife?". personally, i'm partial to having kids one day but i could not imagine not having a career, but that's just the kind of person that i am. i completely respect women who choose to channel their energy towards raising a household, and i guess i don't necessarily envy that because that's a level of hardwork i'm not willing to commit to. instead, i admit i'm more envious of careerwomen making more money than me, for example. its important for us in my opinion to confront our jealousies, and not disguise it as concern or a defense of feminism, etc, be honest with what you pine for in another woman's life, and go after it instead of going after her.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
❤️👏🏼👏🏼
@lasantuzza777
@lasantuzza777 Жыл бұрын
this was an amazingly written comment! this is a message all women need to see
@McDonnell-Douglas_DC-10
@McDonnell-Douglas_DC-10 Жыл бұрын
The planet needs this great girl. Hope she will live for 200 years. ❤❤
@infinitesoul-relaxingmedit6415
@infinitesoul-relaxingmedit6415 9 ай бұрын
Why are all your videos a reflection of everything I feel and know to be true. I am so glad you started making this content ❤
@taejahtuitt6713
@taejahtuitt6713 Жыл бұрын
I love this conversations and all conversations on your channel. I started watching your videos on tiktok and I love how much you dive into conversations on here. I hope they won’t stop! 😊
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын
I came across her on TT and I started to follow her on KZfaq
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын
When it comes to content. She also talk about her personal experience. I like the fact she gave us a hint about life
@mayaellis1829
@mayaellis1829 Жыл бұрын
"why's there fluff on my face!?!" 😂😂😂
@winnimizz
@winnimizz 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely nothing wrong with being a housewife, salute all housewives out there. Women are just not being appreciated it seems whether working or staying at home.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
That’s right
@sqwekity2
@sqwekity2 Жыл бұрын
I was just having a conversation with my husband that led to the conclusion women just always love to cut down other women. Not all. But many. We’re very detailed oriented but sometimes that may not work in our favor when our lenses are negative.
@sherrya6902
@sherrya6902 2 жыл бұрын
That question was very pretentious and says something about the asker. Low self esteem!
@beckye8799
@beckye8799 11 ай бұрын
We all have different life exp & perspectives. My religious culture stressed having a family; woman stay home, have kids, man works. First 3 years I put hubby to through school, we wanted children, we had 5; once he started working I it was necessary for me to stay home & be a “housewife” or domestic engineer, but earned my undergrad degree. When I was younger I never wanted to marry or have kids, life worked out that way. I started working after 22 years of marriage, when youngest was 15. I’m working for a “retirement”& my own personal growth. Married 30 yrs, hubby still supports me, yes I was fortunate to have that privilege😊
@mckenziehart6228
@mckenziehart6228 2 жыл бұрын
It makes me sad that anyone would ask that question. No husband should feel any way about his wife being a homemaker. As you said, married couples make decisions together. Nobody was bamboozled. There's so much internalized misogyny in that question and the way it was phrased. It implies that there's something wrong with being a housewife and that husbands don't have agency in their marriages. I don't believe that we choose our bodies, but I do believe that we choose what to do with them. I choose not to be a jerk who writes rude and negative things to moms about their baby's pacifier.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 the internalised feeling that the man’s view is the one that is vital to measure
@rachaelgoodyear1883
@rachaelgoodyear1883 Жыл бұрын
I love your videos, I’m constantly working on myself and working on becoming less reactive and sitting in my feminine energy. Your videos help alot, Thankyou and keep up the great work xxx
@annafurer
@annafurer 2 жыл бұрын
This is a brilliant commentary.
@premeyumlife443
@premeyumlife443 2 жыл бұрын
Being a mom 24hrs is hard work with nooooo time off. Stay strong momma. ❤️😘😘😘Sandy
@Ellie-es4ms
@Ellie-es4ms 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe someone made a comment about a little child having a dummy, my son had his dummy until 4 years old. I let my kids watch TV because they were handful. Nobody can understand until they are in our shoes. Lots of love to you ❤️❤️❤️
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
Facts! Thank you!
@earnestcapitulate8684
@earnestcapitulate8684 2 жыл бұрын
The word "housewife" shouldn't really be used nowadays. It's archaic and degrading. It has a lot of negative connotations. A "homemaker" on the other hand reflects more the reality of the hard work that comes with being a wife, a mother, and taking care of a family while creating a loving home. I think people often forget to use tact nowadays making it more obvious that they didn't learn good manners at home before hitting that comment button.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
beautifully said
@laurelldockall2399
@laurelldockall2399 2 жыл бұрын
Perfectly put my dear. ❤️
@giainto5564
@giainto5564 2 жыл бұрын
It depends on the couple I guess. One of my husbands friend (male) is very resentful towards his wife. His wife had many career opportunities because of her dad and she refuses to work. He prefers her to work but cannot force her.
@foreveryoungatheart6780
@foreveryoungatheart6780 Жыл бұрын
So aspiring this convo, you’re a beautiful soul, loved this chat. Joined TT didn’t know you were active on there, can’t wait to watch them
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@allier2222
@allier2222 Жыл бұрын
You are so smart! I love the way you address this topic
@aseeshera5998
@aseeshera5998 2 жыл бұрын
All the women in my dads side of the family in India are housewives. I’m ashamed about admitting this but I’d look down on housewives. But as I got older I realised how wrong I was . As a housewife you have a 24hr job especially if you have kids and live in a joint family household. What I don’t still like and I think that’s why I looked down on housewives is. In India there’s this culture that women cook and serve food. That bugs me to the point I’d like to hit someone. I mean like the food will be on the table and the men will just sit there waiting to be served. Like have you got henna on your hands can you not serve yourself. In my house if I cook. Then I’ll just shout for everyone and tell them food ready. I’m not serving anything. Unless you’ve came from work tired or you’re sick.
@stephaniekaye8515
@stephaniekaye8515 Жыл бұрын
I live that you call us your beautiful intelligent audience ❤😍😍😍 love you!!!
@margaret3883
@margaret3883 Жыл бұрын
Much ❤️ & gratitude for sharing!
@katerinajoan257
@katerinajoan257 2 жыл бұрын
I love listening to your wisdom. Thanks for sharing it 💜
@sherryshaoling
@sherryshaoling 2 жыл бұрын
you are so amazing as always, love these conversation videos…you speak so well ❤️ unscripted too! and yes, there’s definitely a female thing that happens. you inspire me ✨
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you lovely x
@africasun
@africasun 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on! Love ya❣️ Have an awesome weekend! 🤗
@laurenhepp4681
@laurenhepp4681 2 жыл бұрын
Love your thoughts on this topic! 👏
@kaisutomperi313
@kaisutomperi313 Жыл бұрын
Ohmygoddess 😂 I love your videos more after each watch. Word, lady! Thank you for this. And so_well_worded again.
@nmernst
@nmernst Жыл бұрын
Loved this discussion so true thanks for sharing 😊
@jayjaytailor
@jayjaytailor 2 жыл бұрын
You have this innate ability to make what seems like a boring topic, fascinating. Thanks for addressing this 'full on' Margarita!
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for that lovely xx
@LaB567
@LaB567 11 ай бұрын
I’m proud to be a housewife/homemaker/mother. It’s what I wanted while I was single, supporting myself and looking for that man I could live my dream with, and it’s what I have now. My kids get to be with their mother all day, my husband gets to pursue his career, and everybody’s happy. Why some women feel the need to critique families who are living the way things work best for us I don’t understand. Jealousy perhaps.
@Keesha
@Keesha 2 жыл бұрын
I love you Margarita 🤣😂. You always shoot straight…. No chasers. And I appreciate that ♥️.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
Always straight
@haiji1996
@haiji1996 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe that person who asked that question just wanted to know out of curiosity, because there are husbands that are dissatisfied by wives who do not earn money. I know a person who divorced his wife because his wife does not work, even though she's a mother who is raising her daughter. Maybe that person's husband is like that, so she simply wanted to know what other people's husbands think. Maybe she had no intention to insult or offend you. You were the one who wrote "ask me anything", inviting anyone to ask you anything. I don't think anyone is more lucky or more privileged or more superior than someone else just because they are a stay at home mother, or vice versa. If we are happy with our own choices that we make in life, and we think those choices are the best for ourselves, that's all that matters, and other people's opinions don't matter, because everyone is different. Anyway, I am happy for you and for all the mothers and all the women who truly love what they are doing and wish them all the best.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. Women who work are just as privileged, as they get to do what they wish to do. I hear your point at the start of your paragraph. However, I do feel that in the case you spoke about, it is clearly tragic since the husband must have lied to his wife regarding him being ok with her staying at home before they got married. The fact that he then divorced her is…sadly good riddance. Couples tend to talk about these things before they get married. So to look at what a woman does through a mans gaze is problematic. Surely there is an agreement. If not, she wouldn’t be staying at home. The reason I don’t feel this question was asked to aid guidance is because the asker does not know if I work or not. It’s a presumption. It is not a phrased to aid help. I value your input, I am very apt in seeing peoples intention however. So I assure you I understood the question. And used it to aid this video. It is not about the asker at all but more about female conversation and interaction.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
Also, just wanted to add, I wish I could make an audio lol as it takes so long to type. I took no offense from the question at all. But when I answered it, my DMs popped off which I knew meant a conversation was needed xxx much love
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 Жыл бұрын
She talks about the intend of the question. I’m glad she answered it simple but well addressed I agreed 😊
@Holly4555
@Holly4555 Жыл бұрын
🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🔥being a housewife is a privilege and such hard work🙏🏽
@TheMisssy2
@TheMisssy2 Жыл бұрын
This was great..the "motherhood" part, the BIGGEST part...is forgotten. LOL. I personally don't envy staying home with the children...I did it for a year for each of my two...but I had to work....and that was OK with me. Nice video!
@lvaa3744
@lvaa3744 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone should choose to live as they like - confidence certainly means that people act less as predator-like towards a person. You can't win as a mother or woman in general: I choose to be a working mother of 5 and constantly get comments on it (one way or another). These are all decisions I made together with my husband - not coincidental developments. Definitely let's be supportive of each other!
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
Amen exactly my point xxx
@franziskani
@franziskani 4 ай бұрын
The U.S. is a highly ! competitive society so that also plays out in comparing women that stay at home verus those that have an income from paid work (or a biz run form home or a side hustle). And I also think that many women _expect_ to be judged and conceive judgement when it isn't there (or maybe the person is just clumsy in their small talk). I had that happen to me - I asked a woman what she was doing (not with that phrasing - like what is going on in your life). I knew she had worked in retail (so a job not a career) and that she had married, but did not know anymore. She said in a highly defensive voice: I am a wife and a mother. (and I found out that she had married a farmer, and while his parents were still active at home, she too helped out. It is possible that the farm was not big enough for a young full time farmer, so he may have held a regular job). I am certainly not dismissive of a woman taking care of the home and children, as they had a large farm building they did not have to pay for rent and likely used their own wood for central heating - so lower cost of living. Good for them. Maybe she felt judged, maybe she had gotten weird remarks before (I suspect it, her job was not that highly paid nor did it offer much chances for development, so being a homemaker / part time farmer was certainly as worthwhile (even money wise) than what she did before. Of course I live in a country with universal healthcare and there is paid leave for mothers (I think 500 - 550 USD per month for a woman that lives with a partner in a household, single mothers get around 800). And that is for appox. 2 - 2,5 years. They can also work part time w/o losing that benefit. On top of that around 100 USD per child and month in child benefits (more as they grow older and go to school). And for her publicly funded pension the years of motherhood will count (partially). So she will have it easier "to have enough years being paid in". What is paid out depends on what you earned (which determins what employe and companies have to pay into the funds). The years that count for raising children, the months for being unemployed (or other services, I think taking care of a severely infirm person also counts - in time) only have the minimum amount - but at least they count towards the qualification (times paid in). Also single persons get a minimum public pension of around 1.200 USD and for people living with a partner (if they have a certain minimum income together) the pension will be around 860 - 900 USD. Two people with minimum pension living in a small flat (preferably in social housing) can still live comfortably if modestly. Women that had a divorce after staying home for the children would be really screwed w/o that framework.
@fatimahmingo623
@fatimahmingo623 Жыл бұрын
Yesss! This is awesome!
@chrisd725
@chrisd725 Жыл бұрын
I think it's also important to look at society. If a woman is highly qualified, and then takes time off while the kids are little, but then can't get back into the high level job and works as something she is overqualified for because that's the only way the childcare can work out... then the economy has lost out on her education. Do you remember in the British 'the Office'? The receptioninst Dawn was going to quit her job, get a few kiddies under her belt, then get a job as a cleaner. I always wondered: why not an office job again? Answer, cleaners set their own hours so it combines well with childcare.
@susiedominey6272
@susiedominey6272 2 жыл бұрын
Putting labels on women is nobody’s business! But the woman involved. Whatever works.❤
@katep.675
@katep.675 Жыл бұрын
You are amazing Margarita! 🌹love your personality
@Raniyadav-fs6hw
@Raniyadav-fs6hw 7 ай бұрын
First of all ma'am....you look gorgeous ❤
@lk2725
@lk2725 Жыл бұрын
Why don’t you have more followers!! I love your personality
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko Жыл бұрын
I think because I am not consistent lol
@chrisd725
@chrisd725 Жыл бұрын
I like to think that SAHM mum or housewife doesn't work *in the formal economy*. I would never say they don't work. My grandmother worked *informally* by being a farmers wife and e.g. washing up the milking equipment from the diary farm twice a day, running a vegetable garden to save buying veg. That was all work, in addition to home making and being a mother, but she didn't formally get paid directly via a paycheck.
@Tania-rg7jp
@Tania-rg7jp 10 ай бұрын
It shouldn’t matter all work is valuable. Paid or not. Support roles are the reason higher roles can even function or profit.
@oe7697
@oe7697 2 жыл бұрын
Well said! 😊
@simonakitic1474
@simonakitic1474 Жыл бұрын
I do like listening to you, keep doing what u r doing ! 🧡
@Sunshineandrainbows234
@Sunshineandrainbows234 Жыл бұрын
Omg you have KZfaq !?!?! How did I not know until right now
@Happylifeme100
@Happylifeme100 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully said.
@vanessalambert4286
@vanessalambert4286 Жыл бұрын
I wished I would have been just a mom at home
@mrs.rochester299
@mrs.rochester299 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, Sistah! Thought you would get a chuckle from this essay, I Want a Wife,” by Judy Brady Syfers, NY Magazine
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
Love that essay x
@lc422
@lc422 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you do not answer or comment on your agreement with Simon and centre the discussion on women. I am interested in your work/life balance as you do continue to create online. motherhood is a full time job. I totally agree with your comparison to other jobs.
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
I can 100% make a video on it
@syskye2150
@syskye2150 2 жыл бұрын
To be honest, whatever you do, it wouldn’t be right. If you were career focused, people would blame you for not being there for your children and that you are missing the best out of life. It’s beyond crazy that others (mainly women unfortunately) question how others life their life’s and how to raise children. I say, focus on your own life and I believe the good vibes will follow 😌. Keep being you, you are perfect the way you are. #girlpower
@fuzakali9083
@fuzakali9083 Жыл бұрын
House wife, stay home mom, I don´t think it really matters what she called it. Maybe, just maybe, she was curious to know your husband´s feelings on the subject and wanting to know his point of view. I don´t really see why you got so triggered by the question. Me too I´m curious about your husband and not in the least bit disrespectful of you or your husband. Most women nowadays feel like we have to defend themselves, saying that they work really hard, that they have careers, masters and own their own business while being a mom. It is awesome that you do, but you´re just as awesome if you didn´t! Maybe this is why men have this sense of brotherhood and we don´t: a question like "How does your husband feel about you being a housewife" would just be a question for them. Women have this tendency to interpret questions emotionally which always creates conflict between us.
@danielintheantipodes6741
@danielintheantipodes6741 2 жыл бұрын
The feminists of the 1960s and 1970s focused on progressing the status of women at work and within the legal system. They (if their message has been communicated to me accurately) largely seem to have deemed parenting as something that should be done in spare time from high flying paid work. They did a lot for women at the upper and middle ends, less so for lower level women. If anyone is offended by this, think about something. When was the last time you saw a female butcher, carpenter, plumber, electrician? Working class occupations, so ones which feminism did not affect. It is a cop out to say that the men hiring apprentices are all prejudiced against women. Oh yes, I am sure they is great resistance to female tradies, but I am also certain that it is not an easy thing to break through the wall of prejudice which blocks women in the 'upper' professions. I should acknowledge here that I am a man myself, so that may affect my view of things. Thank you for the video
@Margarita.Nazarenko
@Margarita.Nazarenko 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@bostonandbeyondfrenchbulld7335
@bostonandbeyondfrenchbulld7335 Жыл бұрын
Hi!! Miss you. Hope things are going okay.
@127Claumc
@127Claumc Жыл бұрын
All stay home moms should get compensated simply because being a mom is an extraneous 24 hr job. My mother was a stay home mother and that was the best time of my life.
@lauragarcia2164
@lauragarcia2164 2 жыл бұрын
I loved this video ♥
@McDonnell-Douglas_DC-10
@McDonnell-Douglas_DC-10 Жыл бұрын
As an antidepressant for you, this shrewd and pretty girl is stronger than music and Prozac.
@belindamurone5516
@belindamurone5516 2 жыл бұрын
Great video x
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