How Our Relationships Reveal Our True Selves

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Every interaction, whether in dating, love, or friendships, acts as a mirror reflecting your true self. If you're on a journey of personal development, introspection, and mental health, join us as we uncover the layers of our identities and understand how relationships shape who we truly are.
Whether you're looking to improve your relationship or gain a deeper understanding of yourself, this video offers valuable insights for anyone seeking a path to self-discovery and authentic living.
#personalgrowth #personaldevelopment
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Kelly Soong
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Gabriel Miles
Animator: Naphia
KZfaq Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
The School of Life. (2023 Nov 15). How Love Can Teach Us Who We Are. www.theschooloflife.com/article/how-love-can-teach-us-who-we-are/
Wilkerson, M. (2023 May 18). How Intimate Relationships Help Us Be Our True Self. Marriage. www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/how-intimate-relationships-help-us-be-our-true-self/
Chesebro, A. (2022 Aug 1). 13 Things Romantic Relationships Can Teach You About Yourself. Bolde. www.bolde.com/13-things-romantic-relationships-can-teach-you-about-yourself/

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@niasiamack9333 Ай бұрын

I love the message of this video

@Cumglazeddonut Ай бұрын

Yep

@casology Ай бұрын

timestamps !! 0:23 - the mirror effect 1:42 - history repeats itself 2:55 - your true vs. your best self remember to drink water

@Lolcoca Ай бұрын

Me : Ewwww 😂🤣😂

@FroggertTheFrog Ай бұрын

Thanks!

@Flaviafco Ай бұрын

💖

@TheDarkPlace-p6t Ай бұрын

My relationships revealed my true self as the love child of awkward silences and bad life choices.

@nollypetal7897 Ай бұрын

omg same it sucks😭😭

@sarahalbers5555 Ай бұрын

You are not alone.

@farmervillager1376 Ай бұрын

so deep 😮‍💨

@NesarAhmadYawari Ай бұрын

Same here 🤚

@sisanity3614 26 күн бұрын

r/im14andthisisdeep 🗣️

@Matvey_Kirpichenko Ай бұрын

There's Kel in first seconds. This video is canon.

@Limeshade Ай бұрын

LMAO

@MARI.Official-112 27 күн бұрын

As Mari I can approve

@Sunny._.Officially 21 күн бұрын

@@MARI.Official-112 oh hello, we meet again >:) (I'm a Kel kinnie tbh)

@kyeson0 19 күн бұрын

*_always been_*

@user-fw1wt2hu9u 16 күн бұрын

Real

@echuzen8282 Ай бұрын

babe wake up Psych2Go posted

@Psych2go Ай бұрын

@fbi1083 Ай бұрын

I love Psych2Go!

@Cumglazeddonut Ай бұрын

@Distinguished_fish Ай бұрын

Ho wait still no babe

@NeschaBrielleSanoy Ай бұрын

(⁠⌐⁠■⁠-⁠■⁠)

@pumpkingamebox Ай бұрын

When you accidentally use personality A with friend group B

@shugoriuchiha Ай бұрын

And that creates another personality C

@pumpkingamebox Ай бұрын

@@shugoriuchiha No, usually everyone just stares at you for acting out of character. Since they only know your B personality.

@TheIronPanda12-ct7un Ай бұрын

@@pumpkingameboxthat profile pic, do you watch the show it comes from? Also, I have a similar issue when I welcome someone into my close friend, or only friend circle.

@pumpkingamebox Ай бұрын

@@TheIronPanda12-ct7un You want to talk about Code Geass? Why else would you question me otherwise.

@TheIronPanda12-ct7un Ай бұрын

@@pumpkingamebox You bet 👍

@x_kAngelkawaii_x Ай бұрын

Omori reference ⁉️⁉️💯💯🔥🔥

@Psych2go Ай бұрын

Thanks for noticing! :D

@kysrza Ай бұрын

OMORRI‼️‼️‼️🤩🤩🤩

@Limeshade Ай бұрын

YEAHHHH

@cool-person-here-1 24 күн бұрын

YEYHAHAHAA

@Lazy_Opal 22 күн бұрын

YEAAAHHHHH

@DaestrumManitz Ай бұрын

We are not what we think we are, but we are what we think people think we are.

@Lolcoca Ай бұрын

People think the way they think about myself or anyone else or everything ! That’s their PERCEPTION not MINE . . . And hopefully, that’s what we called diversity . . . We lived in society that we put labels on everything and anything and sometimes on nonsense thing so Welcome to the World 😂🤣😂🤣

@MichelleMuck555 Ай бұрын

@@Lolcoca It isn’t a reference to other people’s perceptions of us, but to one’s own inner deep subconscious reflections, and although suppressed, penetrate speaking volumes to our conscious mind.

@AlvinCwk Ай бұрын

I need 5 min to process this sentence

@l00k4tstuff Ай бұрын

One's existence is the cumulative perception of those the one encounters. Really negates those "you matter" signs people put up when most people treat others like NPCs.

@isaacb5610 27 күн бұрын

Anyone else scream for joy when seeing omori references in psych2go?

@Council_member6 Ай бұрын

They summoned the worst but best fandom again

@Limeshade Ай бұрын

IM HERE

@micahholt8619 24 күн бұрын

OMORI

@EthanNSenpaiVN Ай бұрын

From what I believe, there are no true self, only the self that we believe is what seperate us from others. People faces situations in life with pretty much an endless amount of masks, some people may wear the same type, but some consider it to be their unique trait. Personally, I can be both an introverted, cunning, unpredictable yet still friendly but hard-to-be-close-to person and an extroverted, rebellious, party-hard kind of guy. Though I still believe that my introverted self is what makes me unique and embrace it as my true self, which is also the self that is more "matured". Anyways, a very nice video as always. Much obliged, Psych2Go.

@Lolcoca Ай бұрын

I don’t care about labels that we put for everything and for everyone ! Everyone can say whatever they want ! I have mine too 😂🤣😂🤣 I actually use it just for laugh like you’re introvert 😂😂 or INFJ or the worst is Astrology 😂🤣😂🤣 It’s all BELIEFS (and I understand that’s what people want to connect to be with others even it’s not logical) for me ! My mind is very logical and don’t have a place for those nonsense things but I talked with my family as a subject to be laughed not a reality ! I don’t believe on anything actually because I use logical mind (most of time) . . . And there is difference between how someone perceive you and how you perceive yourself . . .

@post-humangod2575 Ай бұрын

Carl Jung describes it as "The Shadow". I urge everyone to explore this topic.

@Flaviafco Ай бұрын

Thank's

@kamilkreis1197 Ай бұрын

"What do all of your closest friends and loved ones have in common" They don't exist

@rosegomez6591 Ай бұрын

Good one❤

@rosegomez6591 Ай бұрын

This is the most truth coming out of anyone ever. Your smart . God loves u .

@FfIbrahim-nk8hq 28 күн бұрын

Ah. Here’s the comment I was looking for!

@chromathedragon_ Ай бұрын

OMORI REFERENCEEEE

@Psych2go Ай бұрын

Thanks for noticing!

@chobbih Ай бұрын

HELL YEAHH

@Limeshade Ай бұрын

YEAH

@farmervillager1376 Ай бұрын

omori fucking sucks btw 🙃

@chromathedragon_ Ай бұрын

@@farmervillager1376 that’s your opinion I guess. Nobody asked.

@dogerman202 Ай бұрын

Being told that "i care too much" made me question if im healthy to those around me and even myself. Now its even harder to open up to someone i love or care about and i truly think im better off not loving people for a while xd I cant approach people anymore, the thought of being to much to people is draining me in ways i didnt think it was possible. I know it takes time to heal but i wish i'd never heard those words. Im a different, colder person now, afraid of talking and expressing myself, just like i am in my core family. god loving people is hard and it shouldnt. (cant say this words to friends, family or professionals, dropping this on the internet so that at least im feeling heard somewhere).

@rosegomez6591 Ай бұрын

I get you. Everything these days is backwards hunny. Give your respect and love to those who respect love you. Do not stop being yourself because this world has become mean no heart and dilluisional. Do not drop your values, love , respect for others because the media has influenced this world in to believing good is bad and and is good. Keep your kindness morals values be good. God will reward you with his kingdom. Love protection.

@ayanabeads1614 Ай бұрын

When someone says you’re “too much”, it means they don’t want to match your energy.

@Soapy.musician Ай бұрын

yesterday i started my first relationship and made me realize how affectionatei actually am

@rosegomez6591 Ай бұрын

I'm happy for you. It's a double good plus when a partner gives you space to be loving

@Soapy.musician Ай бұрын

@@rosegomez6591 thanks

@shreyak9962 Ай бұрын

Were your mom and dad very affectionate with you?

@Soapy.musician Ай бұрын

@@shreyak9962 yes they were and are but i am kinda cold

@shreyak9962 Ай бұрын

@@Soapy.musician that’s impossible. Is one of them cold?

@MissFirenze1 Ай бұрын

1:42 - this part when talking about emotionally distant partners definitely hits home, my own father wasn't very affectionate if anything had more abusive tendencies and the men I've dated in the past showed certain behaviours like emotionally distancing themselves or withdrawing without saying anything. My ex- tried to encourage me to seek out 'someone else' because he wasn't sure about the relationship, it also caused unnecessary tension between myself and my mum whom I'm pretty close with.

@ancientlaserrifle1496 28 күн бұрын

my relationships tought me, that i am not enough - no matter how hard i try. They always left me for someone else. and than they told me the usual 'ut's not you it's me' and 'you are just too good of a person - you deserve better than me'. yet here i am. still single. gave up on love and dating.

@star-by7yv Ай бұрын

A bit random but I'd really appreciate another video about Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. There's so much stigma surround ocd, and it's a really misunderstood disorder, so I'd be super cool if there were more videos about it covering the symptoms and compulsions and signs.

@sarahalbers5555 Ай бұрын

Great idea

@Definitelynotabot4 Ай бұрын

Makima and Denji SPOTTEDD

@NesarAhmadYawari Ай бұрын

Love showed my true self. Love taught me how to love myself and others. Love changed me more than anything. All thanks to my ex-partner. We ended our relationship a while ago but I still hold a great respect for him for everything he did for me.

@abcdfyou34 26 күн бұрын

Love also taught me patience

@talithahope4779 Ай бұрын

I see your channel making Omori references and im so happy 🥰

@LotusSiga-hj8vi Ай бұрын

Every video of this channel gives me reason to live 💓

@Zackery275 24 күн бұрын

How many omori references can we put in this video. YES

@Mae_099 Ай бұрын

Thank you for all the videos you post, I've gotten amazing advice! ❤

@marfand1181 27 күн бұрын

My relationship taught me how to love myself more , i started to go beyond my comfort zone.

@Robert-ug5fp 29 күн бұрын

Kel is in the video LETS GOOOOOO

@unicycle1017 28 күн бұрын

“There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in.” - Leonard Cohen “The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” - Elisabeth Kübler-Ross “If you could only sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to the people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.” - Fred Rogers

@ahmadisterriblyharam Ай бұрын

This helped a lot. Also, the animator did great! (Also the Omori refrences..)

@user-ur1tv7bk1f 26 күн бұрын

The omori references !! I love it 😍❤!

@BoinkySponge196 28 күн бұрын

WHOEVER IS MAKING THE PSYCH2GO THUMBNAILS AND THE ART ILY

@Alastoraltruice Ай бұрын

never been in one but judging myself at 17yr i think i am a person with deep feelings with the fear of being vulnerable with the trait of compromising myself so that my partner can have whatever he needs. wait that sounds bad

@nollypetal7897 Ай бұрын

i feel u, it sucks to feel that way :/ im here if u need to talk

@Alastoraltruice Ай бұрын

@@nollypetal7897 aww thank you💜💜💜

@nollypetal7897 27 күн бұрын

@@Alastoraltruice nppp

@reMote_prototype Ай бұрын

Even though I do not have a relationship now, this video is still useful for future 😉

@clareoreilly7187 Ай бұрын

Great advice. Thankyou so much.

@Jhi65667 Ай бұрын

Where’s our favorite narrator Amanda Silvera 😔😔

@rosegomez6591 Ай бұрын

Her voice so calming but we need to evolve trust another narrator.

@yuugihasgalaxy Ай бұрын

❤thank you for this... It gave a lot to think of and realise how much should pay attention to ourselves and feelings of those we love it really helps to talk it out

@glefyr Ай бұрын

omori mentioned

@Limeshade Ай бұрын

Omori = instantly liked video

@StxrryNight_864 Ай бұрын

Omg Its an ✨Omori reference✨

@dandelionblyat Ай бұрын

I am deeply insecure in friendships and I often fear they’ll end I’m insecure in general I need to learn to respect other people, as I think they judge me, I judge them as well

@Fandomerr Ай бұрын

Early again, thanks for posting 🙃

@shiftybat7318 29 күн бұрын

I always called it Social Chameleoning and Emotional Vampirism, the way I get different energies and behaviors depending on my company.

@Wallaceshusbandreal Ай бұрын

Omori ref WOOOO

@4ly0s4 Ай бұрын

i omor i basl i mar

@Wallaceshusbandreal Ай бұрын

I her ‼️‼️

@chobbih Ай бұрын

i kl!!!

@TheNonameHousehold Ай бұрын

I'm definitely masking with my family.

@kenny5the Ай бұрын

THE OMORI REFERENCES I CANT-

@ChaklekFamily-xl4mm Ай бұрын

here an heart for everyone :D ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@LordBrittish Ай бұрын

“Wub! Twoo wub! Is what bwings us here today!”

@A55a551n Ай бұрын

Timestamps 1). The mirror effect 0:22 2). History repeats itself 1:41 3). Your true self vs your best self 2:54 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

@Louise_funAndAll Ай бұрын

OMG I LOVE THE OMORI RELATED STUFF(off topic, sorry-)

@TsUkasa-sUM 22 күн бұрын

Kel and sunny !!

@SAHILBtsarmy814 Ай бұрын

OMFG I'm hereee❤

@Psych2go Ай бұрын

THANKS FOR BEING HERE EARLY!

@SAHILBtsarmy814 Ай бұрын

@@Psych2go Imagine getting a reply from ur Fav Channel 👀💜

@kazuma7232 Ай бұрын

I am thou. Thou art I.

@user-gj7sr7xx9o Ай бұрын

Watching this while having no relationships

@zi4558 17 күн бұрын

OMORI MENTIONED 🗣🗣🔥🔥‼️‼️

@woahsummiiii 29 күн бұрын

OMORI REFERENCEEE AAA

@bali9523 Ай бұрын

Bro made a OMORİ reference and thought we wouldn’t notice

@Venti-o7e Ай бұрын

@isocute6077 Ай бұрын

THE OMORI REFERENCES OMG [thats basically what got me to click this video lol im a huge kel basil and sunny kinnie (somehow)]

@user-wd9ww9hj9b Ай бұрын

makima part was gold.

@kysrza Ай бұрын

i knew that was sunny from omori in the thumbnail 🤩🤩‼️‼️

@user-im2tk1jq6d Ай бұрын

OMORI MENTIONED 🔥🔥

@Limeshade Ай бұрын

HELL YEAH

@rainyx0265 Ай бұрын

OMORI!!!!!

@damnablethief Ай бұрын

I attract the most broken people...like I need people under my wing for some reason. Idk it's dumb but I have loyal friends...really lucky there...even if I do attract the wrong people sometimes...

@nickthompson1812 Ай бұрын

You don’t respect yourself enough to think you deserve/can keep someone who isn’t broken, who doesn’t need to be under your wing. It’s part of learning to be a man. Right there with you.

@pedramravangard1169 Ай бұрын

I really liked this video ❤

@DAWOLFzNotDrawingStuff 11 күн бұрын

OMORIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS yipee thanks psych2gooooooo

@psych2gomandarin Ай бұрын

0:00 intro 0:22 The mirror effect 1:41 History repeats itself 2:54 your true versus your best self 4:16 conclusion 4:30 outro

@JoyCat333 Ай бұрын

1:50 it's me i found someone Who love me and help me. But i am affraid about start the arguing and continue apologize for EVERYTHING

@nietwojinterePL Ай бұрын

Do you know any advice on how to get back to the person you love? Even after a breakup

@AugustoCuervo-hx9pr Ай бұрын

Me, having the "bad habit" of having a noisy voice. I have been rejected by many because of that, because people think I am aggressive with my speech. But, the truth is that, it is my true nature and natural voice. Do I reject myself, just to please others?

@MissFirenze1 Ай бұрын

No, it's not worth compromising who we are personality- wise because someone thinks you're aggressive, that could also mean that you're passionate about something and it's important to you.

@minecraftstoryroblox2227 Ай бұрын

close your eyes

@Nito4ka228 Ай бұрын

you'll be here soon

@lashonnakennybrew4847 Ай бұрын

I'd love to message of this video about what it's like to be your true self being your true self is like wanted to be yourself like falling in love starting a family getting the woman you are pregnant having babies kids having a lot of women or if I'm just misconception some things

@Lolcoca Ай бұрын

Or That’s what they want you to think . . . You do whatever you want . . . Life is very large ! Your experience is not their experience ! Your way of thinking is not the same as theirs ! But that doesn’t mean that if you don’t have the same in this video then your life is sad or boring ! Not necessarily being in love or married or have a kids or having many women . . . Means happiness actually it’s the opposite 😂😂🤣 Remember : perception is individual not universal ! Happy life for you maybe depressed for others and vice versa . . .

@arjaymartin0701 Ай бұрын

More of them with you guys

@hiddenartist145 Ай бұрын

Hello Psych2go!! I recently had a conflict with my mother for not allowing me to go on dinner with my girlfriend.. I saw your videos on toxic mother.. and toxic parents.. and i was also searching for a video on toxic child.. but unfortunately i couldn't find any videos on your channel.. i see you as a trusted source on youtube.. can you please guide me if children can be toxic or not..??

@Arcandra_2 Ай бұрын

what does it mean when im distant from family and friends?

@Len_Shows Ай бұрын

I love those Omori reference (if you do a video about domestic abuse could you make another omori reference with Spaceboy and sweetheart since lt canon she abused him ? And my life is yours🙏🏻)

@whitneydorcelus Ай бұрын

Psych, always know what I've been thinking lately.😮😅❤

@Nataliexgiselle Ай бұрын

Great video🥹

@leMiG31 Ай бұрын

Omori mentioned

@user-ui5zr7mi1d Ай бұрын

I’m late I know lol anyway thanks for posting. This was very educational and helpful. I feel like I could relate to a lot of The topics mentioned in the video.

@flippomane Ай бұрын

man see psych2go upload, man watch, man happy.

@shiswhbwcys Ай бұрын

Honestly just clicked just bc of the Omori thumbnail. I didn’t even read the title 💀😭

@garimasingh4659 Ай бұрын

Best video..Thanks 👌 ❤

@yoio1537 Ай бұрын

Damn, Sunny in the thumbnail really hits diffrent

@kaeshow Ай бұрын

MARI THUMBNAIL SPOTTED GUYS

@Limeshade Ай бұрын

THE REASON I CLICKED

@majohladky3249 29 күн бұрын

...It thaught me that relationships are traps(imo). Since 3 years of age I wasn't really trying to get to know anyone because I believed that everybody is lying to me and so I stuck with lying to other as a means of protection. I never had a romantic relationship, I have one male friend that is my friend only because he is occascionaly reaching out to me. I'm not particulary polite, talkative or positive. I tend to overstep peoples boundaries and get angry when they overstep mine... Im basiclly a 3years old bad tempered child at the age of 27. Thats what my relationships thaught me so far...

@caaliizz Ай бұрын

OMORI REFERENCE !!!!1!

@Yume-AW 27 күн бұрын

is that omori

@skapeedits Ай бұрын

I have a question: can dark empaths/ narcissists or psychopaths also be good people if they use logic or philosophy to have empathy? Can a dark empath or a narcissist also understand the principle behind ethics even though they lack empathy?

@xoxo.ritaaa Ай бұрын

OMORI AND CHAINSAW MAN REFERENCE???

@zUltraXO Ай бұрын

What does empathy have to do with Bluetooth lmao Tho tbh I feel like recent relationships have helped pick up and return the pieces of myself that I've lost in the past.

@christianbarnes9936 Ай бұрын

What should I do if I can't find and pinpoint any of my red flags? I've tried to figure out what they are but I struggle with registering myself enough to find my flaws, but even when I ask those around me i never get anything I could work upon because they usually can't "think of anything" but I feel I could be over thinking it

@PengoPeguin Ай бұрын

I’m a different person around people

@mr2mato Ай бұрын

I was in love with my narcissistic ex because I loved the self-centeredness she had, which I didn't.

@emuscreeches6092 28 күн бұрын

it's official psych2go ships suntan too

@dylxn_cxle Ай бұрын

Nooooo where'd the OG Lady go? Lol. Really good vid

@Arstist_you Ай бұрын

The life according to me I wish I were having a great dad like me adore nature I know doing every essential thing including cooking . And I'm talented in drawing I adore adventures in nature in general I wish I was having this fantasy mate but my destiny put me in an oppressive family who don't dream this life hoping to have free life no one compares me with anyone I'm miserable 😢😢

@compositeboson123 Ай бұрын

relationship, whats that

@dillon2938 Ай бұрын

I just wish they would understand I'm not sad nor have alternative motivation, just wanting to spend time with them is my reason. But I don't "speak correctly" or understand social cues so am used to the constant judgment

@Lolcoca Ай бұрын

If you live in people’s mind ! Then you become their prisoner ! Be your own life and mind ! The people (like your family) who loves you knows who you are and trust me you don’t have to justify your life . . .

@dillon2938 Ай бұрын

@@Lolcoca my family doesn't love me, probably best to not assume. I'm happy to wait because I know they also need time, I'm always myself

@FurinaHydroArchon937 21 сағат бұрын

BRO WHO AT PSYCH2GO IS MAKING THESE THUMBNAILS?! SOME OF THEM ARE JUST OMORI-

@Louise_funAndAll Ай бұрын

What if i have a friend that I know I shouldn’t be friends with, but I can’t just get rid of them like that because i have been frends with them for many many years-?😮