All those men described how I feel 90% of the time

Being a male myself in my early 40s I feel men have always had these feelings since the birth of time and it follows you everywhere

Funny how no one cares until there's a pretty woman talking about it. Everyone cares once you are gone but no one seems to whilst you are still here...

May his soul rest in peace

So sorry to hear, Anna. I came here via the Glasgow accent video, and although when you wrote there that Stephen had lost his life, that was an indication of what had happened already, it really hit home when you appeared in this video.

I'm alive... but I'm not living. Breathing but in sighs Tired but restless Isolated but I'm not alone. Sad but no tears. Reaching through darkness into the space that divideds this universe.

The modern way of living.. the pressures.. The standards are all the causes and nothing else.. people now are killing themselves alive.. so the idea of death will not be a different thing.. I will visit my granny soon in the countryside and get some rest from all these things

So sorry to hear of the death of your dear friend, Anna. We desperately need society to help men to feel OK to open up so I applaud you for making this video. Sending love to you, Anna, and any men who are struggling with horrendously difficult emotions.

I feel forgotten

I´m sorry for your lost and I support you. Sending you pure love. This is realy great job, Anna.

I may sound very insensitive. But reality is very different. All of us felt those feelings, may be with different intensities. But, if only you are a man, you know, what happens, when you express your vulnerability. Most of the cases you will be ridiculed. Few people will tell you to man-up. Few people will listen with cringe, and will never want to get associated with you. Some people will find a funny thing to gossip about. Its easy to say, "You shall take the first step to open up". But why isn't he opening up, is the bigger question. We, the society, don't want to see us being criticised. A man, who loves his partner/gf/wife with all his heart, can hardly express those feelings. Because, he is afraid, he will lose his respect to them. And this isn't a wrong thought. Everyman has seen this happened. May be, rather telling a man to open up by his own, its time, to ask them, "are you okay?" "You can tell me, I won't judge you" "This is a safe place for you" "Can I do anything to make you feel better?" "I am always with you" Rather telling him to call you, you call him regularly, and make him feel, he matters to you. Yes, those might have saved many lives.

Fell into depression and suicidal thoughts, was threatened with forced hospitalization. My sister used the situation to scam me out of a years income before taxes and cost me my house. My family didn't care, not their problem. My friends all stayed away in my worst hour of need. Lesson learned, I'm all alone, 12 years later I still deal with suicidal thoughts, no real friendships left, no family to speak of in my life anymore, so when my dogs pass away I will probably check out, life sucks.

I feel GUILTY. And I think ending my life will do the justice to my friend, who lost his life in a bike accident, which I was riding.☠️

Thank you for this video. I've lost a friend to suicide in 2019 & also have a close family member that has suicidal thoughts. Awareness is so important. Please know you're not alone.

He seemed to be a fun guy and a kind soul. Rest In Peace. 🕊❤

I feel useless...why was i even born? Completely worthless

Slowly Slowly everything is falling and fading. Feelings are numb nothin i can feel. Trying to remembering good old days even those memories are washing away. Crying Laughing At same time. I just want to disappear. Asap.

Thanks so much dear Anna for sharing this with us! Men like anybody else need love and support. Unfortunately there is a crazy trend right now that some women treat men like shit. We have to support and understand each other. Thanks once again . My deepest condolences for your loss.

This hit me hard 😭 I couldn't hold my tears, from the previous video on Glaswegian accent Stephen seemed like a such nice easygoing person. May he rest in peace.

isn't it funny how the relationship always falls apart when the job has trouble first? thank you, women. thanks for standing by your guy.

Sometimes you just need a small 'win' One small thing to go your way To allow you to feel good for a minute You can build on this and get momentum so that when the next life issue rolls in, you can see there is something beyind it. Trouble is....life tends not to give you many wins and even fewer as you get older and slowlt

Sorry for your loss. Suicide has run in my family for generations and I´ve had a failed attemp as well. All I can tell you by personal experience is that sometimes the pain of living is so umbearable that and there´s nothing reoether people can do or say once the decision has been made. None is to blame, none is at fault- God bless u and your beloved ones.

people only care about me when I will be gone

Why don’t we start by admitting that society balks at men’s needs.

You are what you are in this world, and that's either one of 2 things. Either you're somebody, or you're nobody

Tear came in my eyes 😢.

As a dude I can understand what there going through. people say taking the first step in change is easy but, it's very difficult: the feeling of doubt, the feeling of dread, and the feeling of failing in life; for me I've felt like nothing in this world matter...As a child I saw the world so bright and filled with color until I got older and realized how shitty this world is, especially modern society... I felt isolated, empty, and I had suicidal thoughts until, i saw how people are trying to change the world for the better with technology by trying to advance it even till today and now. As of now I have somewhat of an idea on what I want to do in my life after contemplating and seeing how others change the world, discover, and achieved, I've come to realize that I want to change this world. i also realize that this path that I'm willing to take will be long and difficult but if stephen hawking a man who suffer from ALS can achieve something incredible than what's stopping me?

Scared , lonely , worried , trapped , tide , confused, ashamed , embarrassed, regrets , frustrated, this is how I feel and I'm in debt too so no hope really .

The fella who said hes afraid is how i feel im so no good for my family and i love them so much an exit is good for everyone and that makes you feel you have to do what needs to be done

Women will NEVER understand the financial burden of being a provider.

Thank you for making this video. It has a small number of views, but it means a lot to me. You could've said making such a video didn't change the past and wouldn't change anything. I wanted to know what happened for all long since I had read the comment of his death. I'm outside of the UK, but I have a one-year-long friend in London who is from Glasgow. He's been not responding to me for months. Maybe I had missed something important. I tried to convince myself he had been offended and wanted to forget about me, but he didn't show any sign as to show he wanted to stop talking to me, so I haven't been able to understand. He's one year younger than Stephen. He lived with his girlfriend. A decent job in technology. But... what if he was struggling like Stephen? He did say once he worked until around 8 p.m. I really need to rethink all of what I know. Thank you for the video.

I know that there’s nobody who’d be upset if I die except for a 2 year old who is my closest friend and he’s like my baby brother. Lucky me I can do whatever I want

I feel angry. Then ashamed for that anger.

I feel trapped. I feel anxious, I feel pain, I feel despair, I feel used, l feel constant pressure, I feel hurt, I feel frustrated, I hate my deepest secret, I hate that it wasn’t my choice to make, I hate pro-choice, i hate that I was forced to agree, I hate my opinion didn’t matter, I hate the pain that came with that decision, I hate that I can’t just drop my responsibilities and die, I hate that my religious beliefs keep me alive, I hate the load I carry. I hate the pain I feel. I hate that help is weakness, I hate that can’t tell anyone I know. I hate feminism, I feel ashamed. I feel gross, l feel like I got no more fucks to give.

Less than 2 minutes of a male perspective between how may guys? How do you say you hate men without actually saying you hate men.

Recently i feel the pressure under my future. because I just quit the job last month . and when i go to find a job,the interviewer scoff at me，i feel nervous and depressed and disappointed at myself......i feel sad this days.....so plz plz!respect everyone!😔😔

Sometimes you falter taking even the first step… you’re then allowed to simply fall through the cracks back into a world that you just don’t want to be a part of and left to just try and cope until you simply just give in :(

You wanna know the reality of it? Nobody gives a shit about how men feel be if anyone did they wouldn't recommend things like therapy or counseling from people that only pretend to be concerned so they can get paid. True friendships no longer exist so nobody really has anyone's back anymore.

Not gonna lie but I’m thinking of doing it once every 3 months after failing to save my dad’s life when I was only 20 years old I lost my dad in my arms as I tried to resuscitate him. I have my grand mothers and mother’s Valium and I feel like overdosing so it’s painless and I’m guaranteed to go home. I miss my dad very much and I only have one masculine role model in my life who I only see once every two weeks and he’s a ex green beret who warned and persuaded me against joining the Air Force. For me it’s me just wanting to go home and be with my dad again. Most people I’ve slowly came to realize are sheep of a system that enslaves them with thought and possibility of starving to death if you don’t have capital to feed yourself or family. This system has persuaded the masses to believe in consumerism and hyper-individualism which is why sometimes when I go through these deep blights after losing my dad like right now. I don’t want to live anymore in this realm of the 3rd dimension depending if your faith believes in that since I’m a spiritualist. I’m 23 years old and training for the Olympics. Thank you for acknowledging my story. Hopefully you’ll hear and see from me again if I beat this or if my time comes after this since life is a mystery box that no one knows what hand of cards we are given. Thank you! 🙏and Hare Krishna ☮️🕉

I sorry to hear that. unfortunately a lot of people also in Italy suicide, for lose job, relations fall out, and othe bad things etc. the reason is the depression, when you are depressed you are always alone to prescid, the dear people that are around you sometimes not enough to stop the suicide's idea. When i close down my artistic workshop in Italy (tax burden obviously) i was very sorry. Now i live in London for learn the language and i have a job very bad and tiring. Unfortunately is hard improve my english also why i suffer of stuttering and its very hard, but i try to improve and i resist in this liquid, hypocritical and globalist society that not allow me to practice my job (wood artisan), i hope in the future. Maybe eh eh It's a difficult world (i am not a pessimistic, but i am realistic!) Sorry for my bad english eh eh.

The problem is nobody really understands it. It’s not about “talking” people just do not have the time or make the time to spend time with people and the more times people say no the more u just think what’s the point

When the women said "I never thought he would've gone through with suicide, because I thought our baby was enough" I can tell you... that's one of the toughest decisions that man probably has to made or the pain he felt on that day. He probably thought through thousand of reason why he should live and not do it. The key being his child and his wife. I'm in the same situation as him, and every nearly losing fight not a single moment go through my head how this will affect my beautiful little girl and her mom; my mom, brother and dad too. But that the thing... people think how is it that could push a person to do that when they have so much to live for? We don't wanna die. But after countless battle time after time even we ourself don't expect that one day we be losing it before we actually go through or attempt. You can't laid a brick with no cement and expect it not to fall down at some point. The question is how many time would you attempt to do so without giving up? We who go through it don't have a choice. While other who ask the question of try to understand can't comprehend the depth of our emotion, pain and so on.

If he had talked about it to her she would have told him to man up😂😂. Guys invest in hobbies and live your own life. Eff these women 😂😂

Ohh those words hit deep inside… I feel hopeless lonely sad…

People say all this “open up” but today no one cares…. So sad 😢

The only problem with suicide is that I can only do it once. Besides I love the pain of this fruitless life and how flawed humanity really is.

Every suicide or suicide attempt victim all have the same kind of pressure and stress and they all actually has the same cure. ATTENTION, LOVE and CARE. Sometimes society is just too cruel that they just don't care about someone's problem or business and if that person has made a big mistake all will just put the blame on them and judge them disrespectfully. That's why actually you don't need to have many friends, just a few one will be perfect the ones that is loyal to you and be there in your ups and downs. My biggest condolences to stephen and his family. RIP 😢

I am an avid #MentalHealthAwareness advocate and performer, and I love this so much. I travel the country trying to bring that awareness on stages, in classrooms, hospitals, and on my KZfaq channel, so I get excited when I see other advocates. 💙❤

It’s difficult being a human being, it really is. Our minds are our own woest enemy at times. I know that with the issues I deal with and hideous depression

I feel lost and scared too

I've just seen the full video, and it was so great that I have to say, also below this video: Thank you

How can someone choose to hate somebody if hate is the only thing that they left me with?

I’m very sorry for your loss Anna, and thank you for sharing this video; I remember that when I was younger, the TV used to play public-service announcements commissioned by the Department of Health, with the purpose of helping people in needs, setting out freephone numbers; nowadays this public service still exist, but it’s not sufficiently publicized, yet I think it has become more important than ever. I send you all my love, thanks a lot for your efforts.

My daughters best friend of 20 years who was like a son to me, committed suicide 5 years ago. He was a counselor for transgender youths. Sadly he couldn’t help himself. It was his 4th attempt. RIP Kurt.

Depressed over 50 and two suicide attempts. No one is giving talks that anyone's going to pay attention to. Let's see Opera talk to about this... #notgonnahappen

Enlightenment is like jumping out of an airplane without a parachute. So the bad news is that you don't have parachute, but the good news is that you discover there is no ground. And then you're just endlessly falling and you never reach the ground. So in a sense, what i'm asking you to do is to jump. And you don't want to jump. You're saying, I'm scared. I'm too scared to jump. And I'm saying, jump. God is telling you, jump, jump into infinite love and it's going to be great. But you're like, what if I kill myself and what if something else happens? I don't know. You just jump into infinite love. Take the leap of faith and you'll discover infinite love. And you're too scared to do it. But then eventually when you do it, then you're just going to discover that there's no ground. You're endlessly falling forever and it's great. But yeah, taking that leap is really difficult. It requires you to face your death. So of course, everybody is too afraid to do it. People are just to scared.

If you're reading this, I say congratulations for making it this far. I'm proud of you. Though we still have a long way to go, it's still a good, HONOURABLE achievement that we all got this far in life. Another day to live, another chance to be better. If things can get worse, then things can surely get better, too. The future is in YOUR hands. You can't change the past, but you CAN shape the future, and make it a better place than the past. It's not going to be easy, it's going to take some time and effort, but once it's done, you'll be the most happiest person in the world and you undoubtedly deserve the happiness. Don't think of the toughness of it, think of the sweetness of when it becomes a success. Keep going, my brothers and sisters. If life can be dark and depressing, surely it can be bright and full of happiness, too.

I feel you

“Dead people receive more flowers than living ones because regret is stronger than gratitude” - Anne Frank

So how do I know someone cares? I feel like yes I have a family, but it’s more dependent then am I really needed

I've been thinking about this for a long time now. With all these new waves of women fighting for EQUAL rights (which I fully support), we have to be very careful not to forget that men suffer a lot in silence. These "men" vs "women" ideas do no good. I am deeply sorry for your loss, Ana. And kudos for mustering the courage to do these videos. It must have been really hard, but I'm sure it'll help someone out there.

Pointless. Purposeless. Irrelevant. I feel like I have found the answer and the answer is that it is all for naught. I'm not even sad. I don't cry myself to sleep. Anyone else feel the same?

It is amazing when different websites of different disciplines stop and address male suicide. This is what needed across the board. Sorry for your male friend, Anna. I know the feeling too well. Its all the same: A male friend, A nephew. An uncle. A male cousin. A father. A husband. And a mother's son. The mother is still crying. Just writing this puts tears in my eyes. I know the feeling too well.

Have you gone through the feeling of being cheated on, manipulated, distrusted by the people you love immensely? Took advantage of your trust? People discarded you for a really petty reason or no reason at all. Put all the blame on you, your character.

RIP Stephen.

I feel all that shit they said in the beginning. 💀. Damn. Not scared tho.

1. From the time we learn to talk, we are constantly taught about manning up, suck it up, tough it out, etc; however, we don’t really understand how much that entails when we are younger. 2. Roughly around puberty time, our attraction to females increase by a lot, not knowing that quite a lot of rejection awaits the common man. 3. As we grow older, we are burdened with much more responsibility, yet, with such little reward. If we try to avoid responsibility, we are more likely to have to deal with loneliness and/or limited economic progress. Pick one or both. 4. We have to work, work, work, and work, but to see a return, it usually takes a lifetime. That is if one is lucky to even have a stable career. In the end. we are too frail to legitimately enjoy these returns.

I feel alone

I feel "nothing"

Young men aren't allowed to have emotions because we have to a lot all of that time to the women and pandering to their every slightest little feeling and jumping through hoops to fulfill them.

Women and children are born with worth. Men have to earn their worth.

Death is very easy

Know one cares about me now. I'm on my own I worry all the time. I worry for my safety I worry if I'm evil I worry if I can change and be good. What if I can't change. What if I always feel like this

Sucks to be human in general

I'm so terribly sorry.

:( heartbreaking .. i am so so sorry :'(

I feel crying most of the time. But, the tears are not coming in my eyes. I feel tired and and loney in my home and in this toxic atmosphere. I want to do suicide but my tears are not allowing me to do it. I always think that why I am alive. Really I want to die because my high emotions.

I used to feel like this, now I feel nothing, its much easier now.

Nobody cares and nobody is ever going to care, unless it affects them.

Thank You-

I feel...like destroying society.

Tears appeared in my eyes, so sad.

How To Handle Your Mental Health Struggles: What To Do: -Emotional Connection -Fun Activities -Having Gratitude -Helping People -Meditation -Physical Exercise -Therapy What Not To Do: -Alcohol -Drugs -Gambling -Ignoring Pain -Sexual Promiscuity -Suicide -Violent Rage

I feel I am nothing

I don't want it take it away.

Oh man 😢 .r.i.p stephen

Same here…

Damnit, why are most men (even young men, i include myself in this one) young guys in their early 20s feel like this

all the guys said... is what i feel all the time for the past 21 years... how am i still here

Im so sorry :(

I feel nothing

Thank you for your great efforts. Please live for us and you your baby 👶🏻 life is beautiful why do thy want to suicide . Please watch English like a native channel twice a week an enjoy learn English and don’t suicided any more.

Okay it's serious I can't do it anymore. I am scared but I feel trapped. I'm a massive problem a burden a troubled person that has the devil in him. He plays with my thoughts he is setting me up. I let him in through anxiety with bullying I suffered. I have deep thoughts I think he tries to get me to do things but I resist. I'm not violent I don't hate anyone I think about how wronged iv been how everyone hates me. I'm different I'm a freak.

Why do we feel like this? What’s the first step?

I lost the one who kept me up.. I feel lonely :( I feel lost. But I'll prove that she is wrong leaving me.

How to deal with these things ? I tried talking to my family they told me I am mentally weak now I feel more ashamed in talking …….a father, a man mentally weak 😂 thats horrible isn’t it .they tell me do yoga you will be better 😂

I dont think its possible

English Like Native: ¡Hola, hermosa maestra y entrenadora Anna English! Me da gusto saber que ya estás bien. Espero que tu novio se recupere pronto y creo que así será porque tiene a la enfermera más linda del mundo. Te mando un fuerte y cariñoso abrazo, saludos cordiales, mis mejores deseos y muchísimas bendiciones.

I wish i can give my life away to someone else far better than me.

Me too my darlings me too ❤