How Repressed Emotions Make Us Sick

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Ай бұрын

The most curious and hazardous feature of the way we’re built lies in the difficulty we have registering what we actually feel.
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“The most curious and hazardous feature of the way we’re built lies in the difficulty we have registering what we actually feel. Our vast and strange minds get filled with thoughts that go unsifted and with feelings we don’t have the courage to look at. We might be angry or sad while lacking any active awareness that we are so. Or guilty or envious without any grasp of what is at play behind a thin psychological curtain. And we remain unconscious - always - because we are resistant to ideas that threaten our sense of calm, our self-image and our gratifying illusions about ourselves. We surely can’t be angry because we’re kind people who couldn’t feel negatively about a beloved elderly relative. Or we can’t be sad at not being invited to the party because we don’t care about trivial, social matters. And it isn’t possible that we are envious because we aren’t people to covet others’ advantages…”
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@colettelee1162 Ай бұрын

It's not lack of courage--many of us don't know how to access our feelings because it was never safe to, so we have to learn

@fe3613 Ай бұрын

Very true. And even after learning, it can still be very difficult for those who haven't been allowed to express or process their feelings in the past.

@ernestinehemingway7799 Ай бұрын

@@fe3613 exactly - we learn to repress as an instinct for survival, which is what the narrator is telling is, albeit in a dull flat way

@surronzak8154 Ай бұрын

Access our emotions ?? What the hell does this mean ?

@trexbra8715 Ай бұрын

Most people don't have time, by the time life finishes making it's constant demands and we finally find ourself. We have to crash course it like uni when we're young. Or we have to wait until we're retired.

@sugarplum5797 Ай бұрын

So true Colette Lee 😢

@chiaracris84 Ай бұрын

This video should be translated and showed everywhere: at the bus stop, inside a mall, in cinemas before watching a movie. There’s so much unnecessary and unaware pain in the world just because no one has ever taught us the importance of doing inner work.

@dallmatiarazanj Ай бұрын

Yes. But they dont alow us to translate it.

@vega306 Ай бұрын

I agree this should be paramount

@dallmatiarazanj Ай бұрын

@@vega306 I tried, I translated dozens of their video on Croatian. They didn't want to accept it, waiting for comunity to do so, which nobody wanted and then KZfaq canceled those contributions of community and all translations got lost.

@vivekamar99 Ай бұрын

What would doing the inner work look like? Actionable tips would be helpful. Thanks

@imlv2614 Ай бұрын

Absolutely yessss

@brocanova Ай бұрын

Mum passed away, wife had divorced me, new girlfriend dumped me, boss bossed me - and I never grieved, raged, revolted or fought out of embarrassment. Until depression hit me big time.

@Leo-mr1qz Ай бұрын

I feel your pain. 💔 My father just passed away, and it has me thinking about things in my life that I just go along to get along with.

@brocanova Ай бұрын

@@Leo-mr1qz Thank you, I'm still struggling to accept my pain as it's too big to handle.

@muramasasedge5443 Ай бұрын

Wives tend to divorce if you have a girlfriend lel

@nyamheria Ай бұрын

i’m happy for the wife wtf is this

@brocanova Ай бұрын

@@muramasasedge5443 Thanks for the helpful advice. It had been a sequence, after the wife there was a girlfriend. These things also happen, sometimes.

@SkyeArrow222 Ай бұрын

Hope the person who needs this video finds it.

@clovergoddess7323 Ай бұрын

I think that’d be everyone

@mcarlson6712 Ай бұрын

good news, I did.

@veeprotectionsquad1489 Ай бұрын

Thank you i did

@clash1505 Ай бұрын

I certainly did.

@poosaynator Ай бұрын

i did

@lovealilpolo Ай бұрын

Medical student here- this is so so true. For anyone wondering about it's scientific basis, I recommend you to read gut brain axis in depth.

@nightmode95 Ай бұрын

I'm a med student aswell, is there a certain book you would reccomend? Thanks!

@philippamediwake1235 Ай бұрын

Thank you

@ME-cd3bs Ай бұрын

@@nightmode95gut & psychology syndrome by Natasha Campbell Mcbride

@missophelie3781 Ай бұрын

Yeah but don't tell ladies who've got endometriosis that it's psychological! Why? Cos you can't see a thing on MRIs!

@ME-cd3bs Ай бұрын

@@missophelie3781 endo actually has a LOT to do with gut health. Theres emerging research on this topic. I also have endo and working on gut health has improved my condition.

@sweets4mimi Ай бұрын

After my dad passed l flew home and had the worst lower back pain. After l went to the chiropractor he barely manipulated it and l had the worst sharp pain ever and l started to sob uncontrollably. He felt so bad he thought he hurt me. After l had that good cry, my back began to heal. I truly believe our emotions are held in different parts of our bodies and my grief at my dad’s passing manifested in my lower back.

@adambutterfield2307 Ай бұрын

Look into the 7 chakras with an open mind please

@sprixxcy9495 Ай бұрын

hey regardless please dont go to chiropractors, they genuinely arent an evidence based practice! please go to a physio in the future. for your own safety

@saltiestsiren Ай бұрын

Chiropractic is a sham but whatever you think helps you I guess

@Daeneiracorn Ай бұрын

@@saltiestsiren not all of them. The ones who are only there for a paycheck yes absolutely but some people genuinely need chiropractic care due to serious and intense pain

@Daeneiracorn Ай бұрын

@@sprixxcy9495or go to one with a good reputation. Chiropractors CAN help as long as they aren't the greedy kind and actually do their jobs instead of shifting you a bit and forcing you to come back forever.

@Dr34m3rdr34m Ай бұрын

“Even if you try to bottle it all up... it all comes out somehow.” -Basil (omori 2020)🌻

@burndandelions317 Ай бұрын

day 89738923783727283771382 of not taking a dump (its starting to get to me)

@LuznoLindo Ай бұрын

@@burndandelions317 Way to be unable to take the situation seriously.

@That0neSRT Ай бұрын

@@burndandelions317 cmon man thats rookie numbers, im on day 9961135380973920573095235532523 of not taking a dump get on my level

@enderguardian7443 Ай бұрын

🍉x8 so it forms a full watermelon

@Dr34m3rdr34m Ай бұрын

@@enderguardian7443 you are either an omori fan because I get the watermelon reference or the watermelon coincidentally fits

@srimitamallik8037 Ай бұрын

I feel so unsafe. I have to stay on alert on the time. I am tired. I am getting bitter, pessimistic, unlively, and pretentious all the same time. Tired of popping in painkillers every single day. I wish I could leave everything and go to the mountains or something.

@tobyokoi0909 Ай бұрын

Talk to someone. A younger neglected, or hurt current part of you must be honored. I really hope you are able to find free resources or find a suitable therapist.

@srimitamallik8037 Ай бұрын

@@tobyokoi0909 yes I can talk to a friend may be. Can’t afford therapy. I earn bare minimum to survive. I also study alongside in hope of a better future. Thank you for taking time out to reply. I wish a good life for you my friend.

@Naomi-wm3uf Ай бұрын

Please stay hopefull that there are still good people out there! If that is the reason you are getting bitter. Hope helps me out with that. Also just looking specifically for kindness around me. Also, about your pain, have you heard of 'the medical medium'? This book has helped me out with some health issues, so because of that I recommend it to everyone. Goodluck stranger!

@FuneralProcession Ай бұрын

Go to the mountains, for real! You might have to go to the doctor first, but go to the mountains ❤❤❤

@Passion84GodAlways Ай бұрын

🫂

@1237tnb Ай бұрын

This comment section is so healing. I've been working on the hurt from a lost friendship a decade ago in therapy. People have always questioned why I care and can't just flip a switch and move on. However, I've always felt that a lot of people are dealing with things that they avoid and don't want to talk about and that it shows up in their lives in many other ways.

@luismoref Ай бұрын

I've got free when I started to not be embarrassed about feelings. Let's feel, and feel it fully with our whole heart. Let's love without be afraid of being hurt.

@mcmehwhwjwjwj6097 Ай бұрын

damn this is kinda what i needed. im trying to move on from a situationship that happened some time ago and i always asked myself why do i process it for so long when most people stop caring after a week or a month. from observing my friends and other ppl i came to the conclusion that they don’t- it just becomes embarrassing to show that you’re still processing it but it comes back in different ways

@agnesg Ай бұрын

I get stuck on relationships that don't work out because I want to understand why it didn't, and although sometimes that can bring some good clarity, sometimes it drives you crazy. It is so disheartening that my brain can comprehend the path to peace but not locate it. I try to remind myself that it's just one modest step at a time, not the entire journey today. Peace and love to you! 😊❤

@1237tnb Ай бұрын

@agnesg woah, this is exactly how I felt. I still remember when I had the realization that my logic and emotion didn't matter, that my brain was still ruminating and hurting over that broken relationship and I couldn't simply move on. 💔

@MaryAnnSweetAngel Ай бұрын

How do you find good therapists? I'm poor so I feel like I've wasted money on therapy because they seem to only take money and not help me

@AnnaTalks-videos Ай бұрын

This is fascinating. I developed brain inflammation after a period of huge stress where I was suppressing my true feelings about a situation for two years. I partially lost my eyesight and got headaches, and the inflammation spread to both sides of my brain. The body keeps the score.

@jaymorgan8680 Ай бұрын

I suffered sever chest pain and back pain for almost 2 years out of chronic anxiety and boredom. I was a highly functional depressed employee for 3 years until I realized that my pain is psychosomatic.

@xoxjelloxox Ай бұрын

Did it go away ?

@paulacoyle5685 Ай бұрын

Stress tends to exacerbate any kind of autoimmune issues. MS flares are notoriously triggered by stress. Stress can be physiological or emotional or physical. That much is scientific. But we can’t eliminate all stress, besides, even positive stresses can do that. And absolutely if we don’t deal with things in a healthy way, and are continually subjected to emotional stress, it’s going to weaken your entire immune system, which is highly influenced by your autonomic stress responses.

@omnipotentworldwider5111 Ай бұрын

The body gives warning signs beforehand though, but we choose to ignore it unfortunately until it’s too late. Listen to your body!

@catherin77 Ай бұрын

Speedy recovery! 🙏 I had something similar with the brain, but also seizures and hyperacusis developed driven by stress. Taken 7 months to fully recover thanks to docs! But changing my whole life and most importantly illuminated those stress triggers that caused it. It's a tough journey but do trust your docs and the bright happy future you have ahead 😊 Take care ❤

@ERROR-zn4bv Ай бұрын

God, its like these mental health channels can read our minds when they upload

@kiyomiipeko8185 Ай бұрын

Thinking the same thing, Randomly got their notification and was like okay here we go .

@TerrorTerros Ай бұрын

Either that ...or the human experience is just universal and we might not be as unique as we think we are.😅

@russkiy6ot Ай бұрын

@@TerrorTerrosExactly

@dontreadmyusername6787 Ай бұрын

I was just thinking of the possibility that my prolonged unusual stomach problems might be related to my anxiety and then this video shows up

@elijahbrown9738 Ай бұрын

Literally just got done throwing up from a panic attack..

@mangantasy289 Ай бұрын

I grew up in a toxic familiy system. Emotions were never save or really allowed to have, especially not negative ones. I am so out of touch with them. I'm struggling with severe debilitating mental health issues and I seriously doubt that I will ever be able to overcame all these scars. It is so crucial to teach children how to deal with their emotions in a healthy way. Great video.

@neann6 Ай бұрын

I'm rooting for you, dear! You're much stronger than you think, I'm sure of it.

@mangantasy289 Ай бұрын

@@neann6 Thanks, that's nice of you to say

@neann6 Ай бұрын

@@mangantasy289 Not just saying it, I believe it wholeheartedly. You can do it 💕

@mangantasy289 Ай бұрын

@@neann6 We'll see. I don't have much hope left after so many years and so little perspective. Maybe when I can overcome my severe depression. There's so many issues I have to work on.

@neann6 Ай бұрын

@@mangantasy289 I can't imagine all you're going through, but let's take it one day at a time💕

@dorothyshrewsberry7615 Ай бұрын

I've dealt with abuse and drama and loss all my life by burying it deep down and moving on because I had to be strong for everyone in my life. At 51 I started having full blown anxiety attacks (sweaty palms, people talking sounding like bees far off or in a tunnel, tunnel vision and the desire to just be alone, not around anyone) Once again true to my nature, I view this as a weakness and try to hide this by withdrawing from everyone except work. At 56 I am now having nightmares, insomniac, physical health issues, grinding my teeth in my sleep, even sleep paralysis. All due to never taken care of my issues and shoving them down. It isn't a weakness dealing with your mental issues, I wish someone would have told me this and let me know true weakness is not allowing yourself to heal and get help in the beginning. If anyone is reading this and feels hurt, less than or dealing with loss, get help. You are worth it now and future you is depending on it. Blessings to all.

@andrewrees8749 Ай бұрын

Sadly I have all those same issues and ailments too, teeth grinding, can't sleep, anxiety trembling, awful thoughts, OCD the list goes on, CPTSD, I have the issues

@dorothyshrewsberry7615 Ай бұрын

@@andrewrees8749Please find resources in your area, mental health professional, a group, Clergy, even putting your feelings in writing. You are not alone and are worth happiness and sleep :), Get a night teeth guard to keep from chipping your teeth or biting the inside of your mouth during rough nights. Good Luck to you, I truly wish you all the best in this crazy journey we call life.

@trashaccount5106 Ай бұрын

Thanks

@heisrisen7961 Ай бұрын

Thank you for posting this comment. I am 42, I feel all of these things. I am afraid I am going to walk away from everything I love just because I cannot deal with the emotions I’m overwhelmed with from repressing pain. Only one time in my life I was successful for a one year period of ridding myself of the past emotions rising up. Your comment makes me feel I might have hope to deal with these things head on. I know I’m not blameless, my situation has caused me to use my emotions and inability to cope with them to hurt others as well. The time to let go and restart is now. As i cannot physically or emotionally continue without sleep. Thank you.

@Passion84GodAlways Ай бұрын

🫂🫂🫂

@iamhannahmai Ай бұрын

after a big heartbreak, i've been sick and tiresome with severe shoulder pain. just when i've been pondering how my mental health might be causing adverse effects on my physical health... this pops up😂 guess my shoulder is screaming at me to let go of that avoidant bastard

@SirMorak Ай бұрын

Broken heart can lead us to die. Hence with some old people couples, when one dies, the other one often dies soon after.

@sparklyjuicejuice Ай бұрын

Or maybe your shoulders are telling you that it was ok that you cared about him once upon a time, because you only wanted to be loved too. Just a thought.

@TheMusicalKnokcers Ай бұрын

It's probably shoulder pain you get from carrying all the load of the relationship 😂

@yotamsho8597 Ай бұрын

check out the free audiobook "Healing Back Pain" it cured me of chronic pain and now I help people get rid of theirs, good luck

@kayzzzzzzzzz Ай бұрын

going through the same thing rn except its endless bouts of anxiety and insomnia:,)

@johnrobinson5156 Ай бұрын

My ex wife made me physically ill with digestive issues. Once divorced, all symptoms were gone

@alphabladelm2011 Ай бұрын

Glad you feel better. Here’s hoping you find some good people to support you.

@marieclaireching Ай бұрын

At the age of 16, I started growing random white hair. My mom plucked one hair and it was alternating between black and white. It ranged in centimeters. Almost like it was following patterns of stressful and good periods in my life. I've noticed strands of my hair turning white during extreme stress. And when I feel better, it can fully revert back. That was when I realized the way my body worked together with my mind

@LBHSEccentricArt 24 күн бұрын

I've been in the same boat for twenty five years on my second marriage,the first one too. So hey I went to school in NM with a guy that has your same name.

@-laurentius-3209 Ай бұрын

Always suppressed my emotions, now I’m dealing with lots of somatisations and depression. In life you will pay the price of everything, sooner or later.

@chillvibes71 Ай бұрын

i am 21 only, i was a happy kid once i dont remember much honestly, but then my dad drinking and mom shouting and their daily fighting police neighbours showing up at my house at 3 am at night somehow affected me i guess , i had a lot of bullying and a little sexual harrasment, verbal abuse?? i really dont care about it much honestly , life is tough , but like.i stay alone dont have any group of friends nobody with me , completely alone people say i need therapy some people who i got close to a very little bit , and they also say i need someone to take care of me. i honestly think sitting in a room talking about emotions isnt going to do, do anything . or idk i never knew what its like to be at peace my entire life i was just going through shit!! even in school and even at home .Well i sometimes ...i feel like i will go mad sooner , something inside me keeps telling me that .

@sumasukumaran270 Ай бұрын

@@chillvibes71 the same situation with me too buddy except my dad died when I was 9

@EmL-kg5gn 24 күн бұрын

@@chillvibes71 Therapy doesn’t just have to be talking about your feelings, although in my experience that can help more than you might expect. There’s therapies like EMDR that help encode traumatic memories like normal memories so they don’t cause so much disruption, there’s therapies that will look at things like your family systems and social supports. There’s a lot of options! It does take time to find a therapist that knows how to work with you but it is possible :)

@purpleviolet9046 15 күн бұрын

You don’t have to suppress them any longer I would recommend journaling, it helps a ton! Start there!

@user-id8ql7hg5r Ай бұрын

A few years back, Dr. Suzanne O'Sullivan wrote a book called 'It' s all in your head'. Wise and insightful book about psychosomatic illnesses. Interesting she says that nowadays, food is blamed for our tiredness, bloating etc etc. Even the sanest and most balanced of us suffer with psychosomatic pain but we deny it so much. Fascinates me as to why? It's so human for psychological pain to be felt as physical pain but we don't want to believe it.

@tigerkahlua1609 Ай бұрын

I do believe food plays a big part. Yet I simultaneously also feel that our minds might even play just that little bit more. Maybe a 40/60 ratio of food/mind when it comes to what affects our health. But food also affects our mindset. And our mindset affects what food we eat so it's all kind interlinked

@kamikeserpentail3778 Ай бұрын

Because there's no easy way to measure someone else's mind.

@marshmellow8831 24 күн бұрын

As more research is being done on functional cognitive disorders as well as gut health in relation to our well-being, this argument is moving towards more psychologists agreeing that psychological pain/distress is intrinsically linked with physical pain/issues. I suppose denial may stem from stigmas around mental health?

@marshmellow8831 24 күн бұрын

@@tigerkahlua1609interestingly new research has suggested that the gut seems to have its own sort of consciousness, acting almost like a 2nd brain; affecting our decision making, hormones, and mood among other things

@epsben 9 күн бұрын

Studies show that things like stress directly affect our ability to effectively digest food and prosess nutrients. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22314561/

@LucasSSP Ай бұрын

"Meegraines" kinda hurt, but it was also funny.

@stevenjones6780 Ай бұрын

Laughter good medicine...

@assmatic111 Ай бұрын

right?

@HardestToHandle Ай бұрын

LMAO I was looking for a comment that addressed that

@yellowberrio Ай бұрын

Hahaha I heard that & I was wondering if anyone else was gonna say something about that or not 😅😅

@derek-64 Ай бұрын

Meegraines for your apparaytus

@1237tnb Ай бұрын

This is definitely crazy, but it's true. When I'm anxious before a big exam, my stomach gets very upset. Last time, I was so anxious the week of, that the night of my sinuses swelled up and I became 99% congested. I couldn't breath through my nose even a little, but there was no mucus in my nose. Then when I got my heartbroken, I knew I experienced that heartbreak in my mind but I physically 💔 felt it in my heart. My heart physically ached at the loss of the relationship.

@ruscell0000 Ай бұрын

i have been anxious enough to start feeling sick. it was confusing at first but slowly I've been able to tell the difference between sick sick and anxiety sick

@Cheshieruu 8 күн бұрын

@@ruscell0000 stress also lowers the immune system, so there’s that

@IkerUnzu 5 күн бұрын

that’s why meditating is life changing. i love this video. so so so true. i thought i had stomach problems for years, it hurt every single morning. it wasn’t until i started going to therapy and meditating that it stopped and then i realized it had always been my anxiety, not any problems with food.

@michaelvandeborne9382 Ай бұрын

Still the video doesn't explain the biological process that takes place when a feeling makes us sick...

@karlapaz7172 Ай бұрын

That wasn’t the point 😅

@michaelvandeborne9382 Ай бұрын

@@karlapaz7172 when a video is titled "how repressed emotions make us sick", I expect it to explain how.

@regianesantos659 Ай бұрын

@michaelvandeborne9382 me too. I'm doing research on this, that's why I'm here 😅 Once I find out more I'll link it here for you

@kimhanoistudio Ай бұрын

You can look up the book "When the body says no", i think it might have a good answer to what you're looking for.

@regianesantos659 Ай бұрын

@kimhanoistudio Oh, ok! Will look it up right now. Thank you for adding to my research! Will metion you on the "Agradecimentos" (Thanks/acknowledgments in portugueses)

@WildWinterberry Ай бұрын

I started therapy on monday for this very thing. Thank you ❤

@shatha.427 Ай бұрын

Good luck with your journey 😊

@salvatoregarden8776 Ай бұрын

Even if it lasts a long time, continue with therapy. If you don't feel confident with a psychologist, you can try another. You're intelligent, not everyone dares to go to therapy. 🪴

@philippamediwake1235 Ай бұрын

Good luck ❤

@jasonfanclub4267 Ай бұрын

🫶

@grais3 Ай бұрын

good luck!! i start mine thursday im looking forward to it a lot☺️

@TaiNatsu Ай бұрын

I developed high blood pressure from too much stress of being my father's caretaker. I also have a very strong fibromyalgia that flares up all the time I face a problem in my life. I had a childhood that didn't allow me to express my feelings, so my body learned to bottle up every feeling. I had my first panic attack when I was only 10.

@dimitriosfromgreece4227 Ай бұрын

Love and respect ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

@jessIe76468 Ай бұрын

I'm sorry for all this pain you're facing yet I hope you notice how strong you really are. If you ever feel like starting a journey towards feeling better I wish you to give yourself lots of love, compassion and patience. As someone that has lived repressing everything ever since I can remember, there will be many bumps on the road yet, You CAN do it! Lots of love, ❤

@tagarbakhtawar Ай бұрын

“Our hearts want a chance to say sorry.” I felt this! ❤💔

@eaindraysukyaw4238 Ай бұрын

i was pressured to get good grades(like full marks) in my finals. it become a daily thing to remind me about my grades, i was expected to study all day stuck in room. i started dreading studying, the pressure was getting to me. i had headaches, i puked all the time, no appetite and intense fear of failure. this sort of physical reaction ended up manifesting even now. whenever my emotions get too intense, i experience headaches, coughing and puking with this sick feeling in my stomach.

@angelvu Ай бұрын

I’m about to turn 18 and I never realized that my issues were manifesting into real physical symptoms. When I was in elementary I faced a lot of social outcasting and exclusion (I was the only asian student) and physical/emotional abuse from my parents. I started being paranoid of everything and started seeing shadows and white figures at night, like someone’s always watching me and every move I made, intending to harm me. It was so bad I had insomnia every night 2nd-6th grade. I found friends online that were willing to listen to my issues and my problems slowly subsided after getting things off my chest. I’m still friends with them 4 years later! The hallucinations halted and only appear every now and then, and I can sleep normally now.

@sportogsind9840 Ай бұрын

The Body Keeps The Score ❤

@artynegelen786 Ай бұрын

Waking the Tiger 🥰

@user-le8yp6bj2t Ай бұрын

This vid is valid. My boss was toxic. She always overwork the good employee and simply ignore the unresponsible employee free from their daily duties. She even gave the unresponsible employee's unfinished job to them. I hate this unfairness, but i cant manage to complain because this boss has anger management issue and i dont want to make a fuss in the office. I said nothing for 3 damn years and then that monday morning i couldn't get up from my bed. The back of my head spinning like crazy and my heartbeat slowed down. I was screaming for help and my husband take me to emergency unit. I even got MRI but there's nothing wrong. Finally decided to leave that toxic manager and now i never got that kind of headache again.

@petrasworld913 15 күн бұрын

Sounds like you got vertigo. I get vertigo when I'm stressed out about something. Even when I don't know I'm stressed, the vertigo will come and remind me! 😂

@rokusen8135 Ай бұрын

I strongly second this video. I've had a stomach inflamnation for 4 years, and the doctor told me that the i've had no conventional reason to get it other than living in an immense amount of stress.

@mayohere9214 10 сағат бұрын

Felt this! Used to throw up every morning out of anxiety and dread for the day. Once I started going to there and working out all my emotions, it stopped. I thought there was something wrong with me for the longest time. Your body keeps the score

@fullyawakened Ай бұрын

This is putting the horse before the cart. You talk about emotions and feelings as if they are some ethereal thing. Your emotions are 100% physical in every possible way. You don't feel stressed or feel happy, you ARE stressed and you ARE happy. They are physical states of the human body. There is never a point where your emotions are something less than a wholesale engagement of your entire physical self. They are responses in your body to real physical processes. Consciousness is always lagging behind the emotion, experiencing it, but never creates an emotion. When you feel something, that is just you becoming aware of the physical process that has already occurred in your body.

@Gselx Ай бұрын

Beautifully said.

@dreggan Ай бұрын

Lovely sounding fiction: “Consciousness….. never creates emotion”?? So conscious recognition of information someone you love has died? Remembering a time when you were afraid? When we’re dreaming and the body is inert we don’t feel sadness or fear? I fully accept that many emotions are sub conscious or arise from physical stimulus but not exclusively. You can absolutely consciously generate emotion.

@slickjim2626 Ай бұрын

I agree somewhat, I think some emotions are more physical than others. I like to think of them as existing in their own separate space somewhere within us, and we either shine light on that space or keep it dark via the contents of our minds and lives.

@hikingglint9648 Ай бұрын

"I have become, and I am becoming."

@DreamtaleEnjoyer 20 күн бұрын

I think you got your idiom backwards there....

@JasmineDalvi 27 күн бұрын

as a follower of Jesus Christ, this is so important to understand. we have to be able to confront these hidden roots of bitterness in order to get better & love better-to love at the capacity we were made for. thank you for this video ❤️

@beibiseal Ай бұрын

i will never forget the horror of panic attacks. my doctor told me that my body is reacting to what's happening in my thoughts. i was sent to the hospital for all kinds of tests and guess what, i was totally fine. i went to therapy and im ok today. sometimes i still forget to take a break and sort my thoughts and a little bit of physical discomfort comes back to me. but then i remember i have some thoughts to unpack and that helps

@markjiannino5643 Ай бұрын

I work at a high volume restaurant and Ive never seen any coworkers show real emotion. At work I’m routinely on the verge of tears, panic attacks and rage outbursts but have to to hide it so customers and staff aren’t brought down. Showing emotions is a privilege.

@destyapusparani210 4 күн бұрын

That hurts but it's true. Showing emotions is a privilege.

@atis1203 Ай бұрын

When The Body Says No by Dr. Gabor Mate details this nicely.

@felicityclark7070 Ай бұрын

What KZfaq video is one that is best please?

@henryhyde8939 2 күн бұрын

I've been struggling with my health for years, and went to every single doctor to find out what was wrong. I have health issues that come from my body just being broken, but I had no idea my mental health could make it worse. I feel better hearing this, knowing what else I can do to get better. Thank you so much.

@David-xd6hi Ай бұрын

I was alexithymic for most of my life. Moved out on my own when I was 24 and finally had the opportunity to start honestly examining my life. It’s been a couple hard years of cognitive behavioral therapy, shadow work, etc but it really does make all the difference.

@-kamile9367 20 күн бұрын

Did you find shadow work useful?

@iAmTonySaint Ай бұрын

This is the bitter truth that I have been running from for years. I am only 25 years old, yet my brown hair has already begun growing in uneven white patches in my beard and mustache over the last 2 years. The thinning and whitening of my beard has been spreading painfully slow, but I know it’s from the mental stress of my unspoken problems that I cannot bring myself to deal with. The trauma I faced as a child has beaten me down to the point that I do not have the courage to face myself, and the things I know I should do. I indefinitely suppress and postpone the actions I know I should take while distracting myself with school and self-gratification. I never thought I’d end up so broken and hopeless. It is vital to raise the future generations with self-respect and confidence so that they don’t have to experience the pain and slow death of emotional suppression cultivated by the trauma that we accumulated as children. Love your children, love others, and end the cycle.

@flakamulata Ай бұрын

I resonate with your comment.

@FridoGrahnify Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing that.

@iAmTonySaint Ай бұрын

@@FridoGrahnify Of course. I know I’m not the only one.

@authenticallyjess9915 13 күн бұрын

Praying for you Tony! You will get through this! Love yourself so much that you want to heal🙏🏼

@iAmTonySaint 12 күн бұрын

@@authenticallyjess9915 Thank you. I really appreciate your thoughts and prayers.

@WovenPsychology Ай бұрын

Better understanding of how our psychology impacts our physiology and body will be the modern medical challenge. I hope the Western medical model can adjust to this necessary perspective shift.

@Otterworldy Ай бұрын

It has in the Netherlands atleast, I can’t speak for the rest. We have PMT - Psycho Motoric Therapy, which makes patients understand the dynamic of psychology vs the body.

@AnHourOfWolves Ай бұрын

Where is the research to back this up tho? Can we trust this without research?

@catherin77 Ай бұрын

Hormones ... they are able to penetrate any cells or organs. Western medicine mostly focused on various organ systems without looking at our body as a more complex system

@augusto7681 Ай бұрын

My friend who like esoteric and alternative medicine told me about this relation of mental problems and body pain. Its already a thing in old chinese (or maybe japenese) medicine knowledge. I think the west consider this pseudo science, what surprise me to see this video.

@AnHourOfWolves Ай бұрын

@@augusto7681 to be fair, it is pseudo science if there is no scientific research backing it up. If there is research tho then it’s real science. For example, homeopathy has been shown thru research to not be effective. Is there research behind this? I get that stress hormones do have a causal relationship with illness due to inflammation, but this video seems so specific about anger in the back and fear in the stomach that I’d need to see real research to believe it

@annagachet2872 17 күн бұрын

My dad lost his mom to cancer. She declared he sickness at 54 and died at 59. My dad never fully accepted her death. He himself declared a cancer at 54 and died a month ago and was supposed to turn 59 this July. This is so crazy

@zell6108 Ай бұрын

My doctor told me i have high blood pressure when nope, i have decades of anxiety and OCD...started working on myself a few years ago, bp dropped, funny how that works.

@zell6108 Ай бұрын

Became fully sober, started jogging, began facing my fears rather than running away from them, gave up pop/soda, started meditating. I refuse to start taking pills from a doctor to make my problems magically go away.

@heiko1248 Ай бұрын

I've been dealing much more closely with my emotions in the past years, and my body feels great (again).

@runny.nose_ Ай бұрын

This is so true.

@trexbra8715 Ай бұрын

what happens when awareness becomes a form of its own repression? Constant existential crises can become crippling.

@zlrivo Ай бұрын

it's a way of living

@sostey78 4 күн бұрын

I struggle with hypothyroidism, I believe a contributing reason is my lack of self expression. I never say how I feel, always sugarcoating things with fear of confrontation. This is definitely my body’s way of telling me to speak up.

@AlysOdyssey Ай бұрын

I do agree that not dealing with our emotions can get trapped in our bodies; but I think this framework is a thine line to walk. Reducing ailments and disabilities to the responsibility of the individual is ableist. And there are people who are disabled in their bodies not because of any neglect of their own but because that is how their body is. This framework of “work on yourself and your body will feel better” is helpful in some circumstances-but also necessary to consider the ableist implications

@NaimaAhmedAbdi-mf1wl 23 күн бұрын

I agree. But the title is about how repressed emotions can make us sick, excluding other factors. Of course sickness does not necessarily stem from suppressed emotions but other factors such as injuries, genetics, etc. I think the video is just to shed light onto one under looked factor that may lead to sickness and disease.😅

@DreamtaleEnjoyer 20 күн бұрын

Who said disabilities???? Of course this doesn't extend to disabilities! That's a completely different ballpark! /nm To offer a different perspective: in the part where the narrator talks about how we kind of need to help ourselves with these pains, I saw it as a presentation of an unfortunate truth. He starts with how doctors seldom ask the right questions, which is a fact, even if definitely not a good one. Of course, go to a doctor! If it IS a physical issue you'll need physical help! But if it's not, you may need to learn how to help yourself, because sadly no one else is probably going to. :(

@susmitanayak2101 Ай бұрын

When I need some psychological assistance, I come here. Sometime I wish they can make a longer video about these topics. My ultimate psychotherapist “ The School of life”.

@catherin77 Ай бұрын

Yep, so very true and I am an example for this video - extensive health issues of the last year, as underlying problems were not addressed for a while. Our bodies is a microcosm of hormones, starts with cortisol and then it imbalances prolactin, parasympathetic nervous system, etc. It's like a domino effect. Do look after yourselves people and don't neglect those negative emotions or situations roots for those ❤

@spextrekid9410 12 күн бұрын

This is all very true. So many people have back problems, when it really stems from psychological problems.

@konradwos169 26 күн бұрын

i’m 23 and realised about all of this by myself about a year ago. So much have changed from then on and I literally wanted to d** from all that was going on through my head. Today I can’t say it was easy, but for sure worth it, since finally i’m starting to feel calmed after so many years of unconscious suffering, even though this past year has been the worst of my life for understanding all of my emotions. Don’t be scared to feel, pain can be beautiful once you faced it and realized how strong you’ve become. No dru** no doctors no therapist will help you until you start to know yourself, so stop distracting your mind and get your sh** together. It’s never too late

@JGH1708 Ай бұрын

I saw an ex girlfriend from 25 years ago. My first true love. I have had many relationships since. I felt sick in my stomach and lost my appetite for a week.

@pineapple365 Ай бұрын

Did she see you too? Or did you guys pretend not remember each other?

@JGH1708 Ай бұрын

@@pineapple365 We said hello and some very short small talk.

@Sofia-wh9jr Ай бұрын

Happened to me too, it's nice to know I'm not alone at that. Hope you feel better

@soupladoop8155 Ай бұрын

Same here

@emmap519 Ай бұрын

being confronted with your past is so hard :(

@Leo-mr1qz Ай бұрын

My father passed away this past Friday at the age of 75. I have been feeling such a sense of heaviness in my body. My abdominal pain came back, I'm getting headaches, fatigued. I said my goodbyes, but for some reason, it feels that I didn't say enough to him before he passed. 💔

@listsign6121 Ай бұрын

Sorry for you loss. It's surely a tough time for you. You can definitely work it out with time. Stay strong.

@Leo-mr1qz Ай бұрын

@@listsign6121 Thank you for your kind & supportive words. 💜

@mapleext Ай бұрын

Maybe you are in the first steps of the very painful process of grief, which is so overwhelming and hard. I lost a close person recently and it changed me for a while. Very heavy feeling of loss. And loosing a parent is very profound - I have lost both. It’s hard to get through, but my experience is that you become a somewhat different person who can better deal with the fact that it hurts. It’s a stage of growing up and it’s good if you can get support from others who have gone through it. Take it easy when you can. Sending hugs.

@Leo-mr1qz Ай бұрын

@maeandbob Thank you for your kind and profound words. 💜 I appreciate that you took the time out of your morning to tell a stranger your wisdom. 😇 Take care❣️

@catherin77 Ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss ❤ it's hard to see someone go, more so when it's someone as close as a parent. Deep down your Dad still did know how much you loved him, even if you feel that not enough was said. It's never enough really and grief is a journey. Take care and cherish the memories of your father ❤

@theobsessor11294 2 күн бұрын

Literally the story of my life as an autistic person. Always told that who I am as a person is undesirable and to mask every day from morning til night, never allowing me to express myself as my body needs. It's like neurotypical people just can't help but be cruel the minute my mask begins to crack. They pick up on it like sharks smelling blood in the water, and immediately lunge on it. That's why I swore never to expose my heart again. I will never allow anyone outside of my immediate family ever so close again.

@alpacafalls Ай бұрын

Uploaded when I needed it the most. Whenever I try to repress my feelings my mind won't leave me alone until I've resolved my emotions. I would always feel so annoyed with myself for not being able to focus on my work whenever I felt emotional, but now I know this is an amazing mechanism, and I feel happier than ever now after listening to myself again. Thank you so much! :)

@mohamedalitoufahi6295 Ай бұрын

I often find the videos of the school of life theoretical to a certain extent. But for those who say that this video doesn't have a practical side, I disagree. The message at the end is a direct invitation to fulfill suppressed needs for rest, departure from a relationship or a lifestyle, or liberation from certain imposed or self imposed barriers. I think that's valuable.

@natasavelimirovic6155 Ай бұрын

This is absolutely true. I have been through all of this and ended in depression and hospitalized. They forced me, through the therapy process, to finally look into myself and face all my anxieties, fears, emotional pains and things that dwelled for decades in me. And what happened is just what is described in this video. I was in so much pain and different health issues in less than a year and all of that is almost gone in some 5 months. So I would really invite everyone to take this video very seriously and do the work as suggested in it. Thank you very much for sharing these informations ❤❤❤

@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 Ай бұрын

This video is a major blessing for me; especially today. Thank you!!!

@theschooloflifetv Ай бұрын

Thank you. You are most welcome.

@chdata Ай бұрын

Hah... the ol' mind body connection, my familiar friend. ... no matter how much I acknowledge the grief of losing people I care about, still I grieve

@DraconiInfernalus Ай бұрын

shake hands with grief, welcome her in, for she lives with you now. pull her a chair at the table and offer her comfort. she is love. and she will walk with you now, picefully.if you let her. its form donna ashworth. grief is not gonna get away. we have to accept and live with it.

@angy7537 Ай бұрын

I spent a year getting the flu every single month, even twice a month. I had migraines every single day too. Felt heart palpitations, my hair started falling out, my body trembled, couldn't sleep... I went to many doctors trying to find an answer. Later this year, my body let me know by making me incredibly sad and unable to wake up every day. Thats when I decided to reach a psychiatrist. Turns out it was anxiety and depression I wasn't completely aware of. Along with therapy, everything's getting better. If you're going through the same thing, you're not alone ❤

@jonnypariah1 Ай бұрын

I've been diagnosed with FunctionalNeurologicalDisorder this year (was mis-diagnosed with cervical dystonia a few years ago) ... and this video makes perfect sense to me ...

@millami.x 19 күн бұрын

i’ve always said i stress myself sick and this just proves it 😭 i’ve never been able to stop it either so i’m trying to learn

@raywuf 12 күн бұрын

Ive tried to explain to multiple people, my boss, family, how I get physically sick/break out when too stressed. They always look at me like im crazy. The mind can affect the body a lot more than people want to realize and understand.

@iamnicolereina Ай бұрын

This was a lifesaving video, one I needed to hear. My 17yo son actually shared it with me. As a parent, wife and daughter I have much to learn. Grateful for my son that is teaching me and grateful to you for your content.

@Xatex18 Ай бұрын

This was one of the key lessons I learned when becoming an NLP coach. well done for sharing this life changing secret

@insightinspiration9922 Ай бұрын

All I can say is that this video is spot on and it reflects my own experience. As an adult, I have this feeling of needing to keep going no matter what. It was easier in school and university to take a break and focus on mental health. Now I have a family which means I need to constantly keep an eye on other people’s happiness and I have a demanding job where I am expected to perform. My impression is that when I was younger, we would share negative feelings more commonly with friends and those friends would open up more easily to me as well, but now people just say “I’m doing fine” and these honest conversations don’t happen anymore. It is as if people think they must have it together because they are grown ups now.

@crystallangworthy3676 Ай бұрын

Beautifully and simply said - simple enough for someone just coming to terms with this idea but thought provoking enough for those of us that have already began to explore it.

@Theherbalempress Ай бұрын

Wow this actually made me cry. I definitely need a release

@pankhudimaurya5285 Ай бұрын

This is exactly one of the principles homoeopathy works on...we don't only ask the patient about their symptoms physically but also how it started ..the events that took place before the symptoms appeared... I'm so glad people around the world are now considering this concept

@jaykay7276 Ай бұрын

So glad to find someone who talks about how homeopathy works! My Dad is a homoeopathy practitioner for 30 years now. He shares such concepts with me all the time :D

@alexsdiary6410 16 күн бұрын

I have pains everywhere in my body, when I do checkups or blood test everything is fine. When I was little I had terrible migraines every single day, maybe 5/7 days per week and it was steong and continous, when we went to the doctor, she asked my mum if she has high expectations of me and asked her to lower her expectations and my headache was magically gone. I think this video is very important, I have many worries and stress and I actually feel that it impacts my body. Not many people realise this. To be happier and find a better way to live I am leaving my stressful job, I can do many things and have a bunch of different qualifications, I can find another job but I can't get my health and time back.

@firefly7798 Ай бұрын

This channel is a bliss , each video is a big solution put forward in simple words . Thank you Alain and team 💙

@Heterogeneity Ай бұрын

Been in therapy and on medication for severe unremitting mental illness for twenty-five years. Never tried to repress or suppress anything emotionally, always been upfront with my feelings, but at age 41 my body is broken. I am more sick and depressed than ever before and I've decided to stop treatment. I'm tired of fighting every day for a lost cause. I'm tired of working so hard to feel like garbage anyway. I wish I hadn't wasted my entire adult life on remedies that never actually helped.

@Aurelie-bu7yf Ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that...Try to read The journey by Brandon Bray or better still get it on audible so you listen to the meditation at the end, it helped my massively. Hope it helps :)

@GuidetteExpert Ай бұрын

Thanks for putting these videos that everyone can relate too and wants to understand better.

@medusagorgon8432 Ай бұрын

I have mentioned this very thing to several people. I do wish that this was common knowledge. And the endless solutions towards healing, forgiving and detaching an endless conversation.

@mentalart-skm Ай бұрын

I talk about this a lot with my patients. This is an EXCELLENT video. I will start sharing with others.

@Samantha-vlly Ай бұрын

I am sorry self. I feel sorry for not speaking up early with the things I carried. My mom, I don’t know if she really cared with my mental health. I can’t remember good memories when in my childhood and I can only remember my suffering and anxiety attacks during my adolescence stage.

@Samantha-vlly Ай бұрын

Yes she did comfort me with words but until now, she can’t understand me or the way I perceive things.

@Samantha-vlly Ай бұрын

Sometimes, I blame her for not saying to me that what I’m feeling back then was normal because of hormonal change. 🙁😕

@utternonsenseproductions2415 Ай бұрын

Over recent years I've noticed how after an extreme bout of stress, say a few weeks of worry/anxiety and burnout i inevitably have a breakdown where i cry and let it all out, I talk about it. The following week I get a horrendous "flu" where I'm pretty much bedridden for days. I don't believe that this is "flu", I believe this is my body's way of detoxing and ridding itself of the bad energy that has been allowed to move.

@mervijaakola1749 Ай бұрын

Thank you for this video! I always knew how damaging it was when others told me to just forget and "forgive" all the things that really affected me. Even nurse told me to just forget. It was detrimental😢

@onlineresident2174 7 күн бұрын

Ngl, having depression and mental breakdowns has been the best thing ever in my life. I've been taught to suppress my emotions and put others before me, always compared to people elss fortunate than me and brushing off my emotions. Suffering physically like this has reminded me that I'm not always the bad guy for feeling what I do. This was the reason why I seriously decided to get therapy and to try and imrpove.

@floflo9562 Ай бұрын

Once my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w me and straight away got in a relationship with my best friend. After this I got so I'll out of nowhere and for about a week I could not stop being sick, headaches all the time and overall just awful. I thought it was the situation that made me this way but I was never sure how. This has explained it so well thank you!

@misao5330 Ай бұрын

After getting my heart broken by my first love, I went through years of extreme emotional agony. However, slowly but surely I was able to move on-- at least I thought I did. Instead of acknowledging my negative emotions, I started repressing them through distractions or basically gaslighting my brain into thinking, "I shouldn't be sad/angry anymore." Every situation where I sensed that I would feel something negative, my instinct was to always go flight-mode. Presently, I've subjected myself into having a calm persona, and a lot of people wonder why I rarely express emotion or why I'm emotionally distant at times. They don't know that I've ended up numbing my sense of emotional empathy which makes it extremely difficult to understand the current emotion I'm going through. A lot of people wish that they could remove the pain in their hearts, but being empty is also a very lonely and bleak experience.

@mcmehwhwjwjwj6097 Ай бұрын

yo im having this exact problem rn. after my situationship ended i felt literally nothing at all except being angry a little bit+ i didn’t have time to process it because it was summer and stuff was happening all the time but due to several attempts from this person to come back over the course of a few months+ the emotions finally hitting, i feel like im processing the situation for too long and i tend to stop myself from thinking about it because of this thought that „my time to grieve has passed, i should move on already”. i don’t wanna make myself miserable and let myself ruminate about the situation, but i also don’t want to repress emotions and i can’t rlly grasp what to do

@saracole7623 Ай бұрын

It’s so true that things can result physically. When I’m in an overwhelmingly stressful time, I get nauseous and my throat feels incredibly tight for no physical reason.

@ljness Ай бұрын

True!! I know someone who was aggravated because of her father, she developed tics after… there is no cure for it but only management. How devastating is the effect of anger, frustration, rage, and other emotions being felt all at once. Especially in kids

@redcrest5 Ай бұрын

This is so insightful. I need to read that book The Body Keeps the Score because I have a feeling mine is holding a lot of stuff I need to look at and resolve.

@lametriamosley2650 Ай бұрын

“If this could speak, what would it want to tell me” I love this!! Such a simple yet eyes opening practice to be in tune with yourself💜💜

@hazelnutmeg3897 Ай бұрын

This was so awakening and beautifully worded. Thank you. Really. So many ways I have yet to show myself compassion. The journey to learning how to be/find a better friend to/in me promises to be long. Worth every step tho.

@sandwich-breath Ай бұрын

My parents are sick from avoiding meaningful discussion, conflict resolution. And refuse to take personal responsibility for their actions. Years of disrespect and neglect have taken a toll on their health and wellbeing.

@sublimemadenda Ай бұрын

John Sarno and many, many others have been saying (and helping people heal) with this insight for years.

@pierrepierre-nh5qg 21 күн бұрын

The psych is the immaterial will conscience and consciousness. The psych controls the body through the will (consciousness) and the autonomic nervous system through the conscience. When the will acts contrary to the conscience, adrenaline and over a period of time shuts down the circulation in various organs producing pain and excessive cortisone weakens muscles and the immune system and alters sugar balance amongst other things.

@francope2819 Ай бұрын

Immune system went down. Got severely sick.

@dorismahoney1440 22 күн бұрын

Be better soon.

@vinniakp665 16 күн бұрын

The one thing that most people always forget is to actually say what you think and feel. Most people tend to be polite and please everyone so that they aren't being hated. But the fact is, to please everyone is just impossible.

@esmeclair7895 19 күн бұрын

this is absolutely vital that this goes viral and people learn about this! the medical field espically need to tap into this! i came off my anti depressants because i knew i could sort it out myself. love x

@paulacoyle5685 Ай бұрын

Meegraines ? Is that really how it’s pronounced in UK? By the way, we shouldn’t also leave people with the impression that all illnesses are the result of repressed emotions. Went through that too with doctors who wouldn’t listen to me. They didn’t know me before the pain so they blamed it on my depression instead of blaming my depression on the pain. I was filtering out a lot of pain. Women tend to do that or we wouldn’t make it month-to-month. And once they actually did surgery, I was fine for a few years until the spinal arthritis caught up with me. Yeah, none of us had perfect childhoods but some of us actually didn’t pay attention to the physical hurts we sustained and later on down the road those manifest joint damage. or maybe we were involved in an activity that did so chronically and we didn’t realize it because we had all those youthful hormones covering for us.

@mapleext Ай бұрын

Yes, that is how they say it.

@MichElle-py8lk Ай бұрын

I'm from the UK and yes unfortunately that's how some people pronounce it ☹️ however a lot say it the American way.

@viiiccckkkiiii Ай бұрын

THANK YOU, amen. sometimes things really are that simple. my feet don’t constantly hurt because i’m repressing some terrible inner feelings, they hurt cause i stand on a concrete floor all day 40hrs/week lmao

@Wazza555 2 күн бұрын

I'm English and say "MY-GRAINE."

@explorateur8159 Ай бұрын

Yeah the true nature of psychosomaticization I believe is more complex than we currently comprehend, but mind is certainly embodied somatically in addition to neurologically.

@Diacucu Ай бұрын

So poetic and giving much needed answers

@kittiq 3 күн бұрын

I've had recent health issues like heart palpitations and pain, nausea, and not being able to fall asleep easily. Then I wrote down everything that stressed me out. It took up two pages. No wonder!

@fribersson Ай бұрын

The unprocessed emotions get stuck in the body (lymphatic system). After all, emotions create chemical reactions (micro expressions). Anger is stored in the jaw and liver, sadness in the diaphragm, etc. And can be released.

@nerd26373 Ай бұрын

Repressed emotions make us sick because it's internalized. The more we bottle up everything, the more contents get spilled out of it. An open wound with blood dripping out of it.

@katashley1031 Күн бұрын

This is why things like yoga, tai chi, meditation, and breathwork make a huge difference. By minsdully stretching and breathing you release stored tension and trauma. A good cry works miracles too.

@M.M99494 21 күн бұрын

This is true. I had a tough childhood and teens years both at home and at school. My parents were physically abusive, neglecting, controlling and the list can go on. At school I was bullied by both children and teachers. When I was at home and at schoold I never wanted to be in both. It's a strange feeling when you don't have where to go and always in places where you don't want to be. I was deeply depressed and suffering, hating my parents and everyone around that was making me suffer. One morning, walking to school, I found myself hard to breathe until I couldn't, so I had to stop walking a while to get better. Then it got increasingly worse when sitting at the table in class, I got the same plus dizziness and not hearing what is being talked around me. Felt tight in the chest also. I don't remember how and when I told this to my parents. My dad took me to his cardiologist at the time. They did some tests, there were quite a lot l remember. And they found something. What doctor told that is happening is that one of the heart valves was inflating too much when I take breaths in. He didn't told me the diagnosis but told me this comes from the nervous system. Prescribed me some medicine, those removed the problem entirely for which I am very grateful to this day. This situation scared me. So yes, the way you think and feel about you or anything else is directly impacting your health sooner or later.

@consultantMindset Ай бұрын

amazing video

@britishroyalfamilyvideos 13 күн бұрын

Trauma stores in the body

@kjetilgrosland Ай бұрын

Amazing how good you are with words, Alan!

@spook6394 21 күн бұрын

I get abdominal migraines (severe tummy aches lmao) whenever I’m in a long position of stress, like midterm week. Funny thing is, I am like the most chill person ever. I have very very little conscious stress. I don’t have any anxiety, I don’t consciously worry about midterms or similar things. Which is great, but my body will absolutely destroy me for three days each month in return.