How the Pain-Body Affects Relationships | Eckhart Tolle

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Eckhart Tolle

Eckhart Tolle

2 жыл бұрын

The Pain-Body can bring suffering to relationships, any kind of relationship in our life. Eckhart shares how most human unhappiness comes from relationships with other humans, and shares tips on how to navigate them.
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@Ammasgrasshopper
@Ammasgrasshopper 2 жыл бұрын
'If you live alone, the pain-body can still feed on your negative stream of thoughts.' So true.
@dublingirl1691
@dublingirl1691 Жыл бұрын
💯🎯
@lesliemontagne6797
@lesliemontagne6797 Жыл бұрын
Yes, that was a WOW moment for me; learning how we create “crazy” and conflicting problems all by ourselves!!!
@ronamain8689
@ronamain8689 11 ай бұрын
Yes...keeps cropping up.😮
@MarcinHopa8
@MarcinHopa8 11 ай бұрын
Oh so true 😭😭❤️
@MJ-ge6jz
@MJ-ge6jz 2 жыл бұрын
Relationships are an excellent tool to speed up your spiritual practice. Baptism by fire!
@thejudahchannel
@thejudahchannel 11 ай бұрын
😝🔥🔥🔥
@susieque3195
@susieque3195 2 жыл бұрын
This man has completely changed my life and I just love him to death and he’s funny too
@santiago1983ism
@santiago1983ism Жыл бұрын
I ruined a relationship with a very sweet girl because of my "pain body", and ended up ending our relationship 2 years ago, in early 2021, thinking that the problem was her. To this day I regret it, that I left her. It's not easy to deal with this sadness, longing and regret.
@bernadetteyelland3969
@bernadetteyelland3969 Жыл бұрын
It can be very difficult to let go of the past, to forgive yourself, when we see our mistakes, when we become aware of a new understanding. What amazing awareness you have come to now, though! I hope you will one day be able to release the pain and live more in place of embracing what you have learned through it.
@santiago1983ism
@santiago1983ism Жыл бұрын
@@bernadetteyelland3969 thank you friend!
@newhumandynamics7097
@newhumandynamics7097 Жыл бұрын
That needed to happen to learn the lesson my friend. I know it sucks, but it was a blessing in disguise. Something even better will show up after you've healed your wound and found peace within yourself. BTW, notice how u blamed her, now you're blaming yourself. Forgiveness is a powerful means to dissipate guilt and grief (which keep you stuck in the past), so cut yourself some slack, we all make mistakes.
@jillh2186
@jillh2186 Жыл бұрын
I agree with Mary that commented can you contact her again sometimes people that love each other do need to figure things out apart maybe she misses you and would like to be with you again.
@samra3654
@samra3654 Жыл бұрын
My partner left me after 5 years because he wanted to enjoy his life with his new friends..specially that female friend became so important that he started to ignore me and now after more than a year of chasing, calling different people, begging I am here in spirituality..trying to release myself and him..we both are guilty..I can't let him go..I am stuck..but I will try my best to cut our ties..it is painful to hear these harsh things from a person who once loved you so much..I am surrendering to universe..I am building my belief for universe
@CitrusSimon
@CitrusSimon 2 жыл бұрын
We all need to continue practicing, regardless of where we are. One foot in front of the other. And listening closely. It's the simple things that keep us present. When we do become unconscious, and blame another, or the even the weather, it is an opportunity to witness the ego...."Ah, there it is, it took control of me, but that is not me" Its wonderful when we have moments when we realise that we are not our thoughts, its almost as if we are a part of nature?
@crystalmccoy
@crystalmccoy 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for that ⤴️💚
@Jessilavender
@Jessilavender 2 жыл бұрын
well said peace to you my friend. we are nature ♥️♥️
@CitrusSimon
@CitrusSimon 2 жыл бұрын
@@Jessilavender Thank you Jessi. It seems the ego thinks it is in nature? Quite a limiting belief system, to only see ourselves in nature. But it is a relief, and a blessing to know, that we are a real part of nature. 🌻
@tinfoilhatter
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
indeed: i might be part-pain-body, i might be a pitiful creature, but doggone it, nobody's-gettin'-the-better-of-me, unless i do, haha...
@CitrusSimon
@CitrusSimon 2 жыл бұрын
Ha! Hilarious, tinfoilhatter! "nobody's-gettin'-the-better-of-me, unless I do" Sounds like the classic schizophrenic tug of war we all go through, and we could get a mental health label if it is detected by doctors!
@sovereign.spirit
@sovereign.spirit 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all the free content you have provided us over the years. It is truly a gift 💜
@natureisallpowerful
@natureisallpowerful 2 жыл бұрын
I'll second that 👍
@mindsigh4
@mindsigh4 2 жыл бұрын
amen, i needed to hear some of these messages many times, else i would have gotten enthused for a bit & then overtaken by unconscious habits, & then been discouraged, & moved on, but by Tolle reiterating certain themes, such as feeling the energy body, combined with breathing, if he returns to a theme it impresses upon me the worth of pursuing it,.. partly becuz i trust Tolle, he has a very good track record with me & been proven right so far, about what is vital in my experience.
@musudespertar883
@musudespertar883 Жыл бұрын
Even though we learn from difficult relationships, we should discern the lessons and figure out how long we want to stay there learning the same lessons through suffering. ✨🤷🏼‍♀️
@CatWoman6
@CatWoman6 Жыл бұрын
That's what I'm wondering. Is the problem reoccurring because of Me or because I am still with him and have to deal with his unconsciousness.
@ActionmediaUK
@ActionmediaUK Жыл бұрын
Unconscious relationships have to have some bonus - somewhere or else we have to be off ; my husband is totally unconscious but I just go off to meditate and do yoga and he cooks dinner - It takes all sorts to make a world..
@CatWoman6
@CatWoman6 Жыл бұрын
@@ActionmediaUK I wouldn't call it an unconscious relationship. We just all have our moment of disconnect but on the whole I am seeing we are better than I realised.
@chrismccaffrey8256
@chrismccaffrey8256 11 ай бұрын
​@CatWoman6 do you have to deal with his unconsciousness, or your perception of and response to his unconsciousness?
@StephanieJeanne
@StephanieJeanne 2 жыл бұрын
I loved that you used Smeagol from Lord of the Rings as a physical representation of the pain body! That will stick with me. Great talk. Thank you! ☺️✌️
@tinfoilhatter
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
i pity-the-fool, haha, truly, and we mustn't deny pitying ourselves, it's not only natural, it's nurtural, right? well, now, then again, there may-or-may-not be such things as too-much-of some good things or what-not, how much is enough, right? [well, how much have we got?] [ha ha]
@melissabrzescinski494
@melissabrzescinski494 Жыл бұрын
The pain body. This explanation just flipped the light on for me. I’ve been feeding mine unknowingly and boy have I manifested some garbage. I ended a great relationship in this way and I regret it. I’ve had major back issues with sciatica which has caused sleep deprivation and a need for pain medication. Through all of this my emotional pain body is an overreacter and hypersensitive. I blew it with a man I love. I’m taking steps to correct myself by reaching for better feeling thoughts. It takes practice (lots) to pull myself out of the negative thoughts cycle. I hope one day my love will come back to me. I’m coming back to me, that’s the most important thing. Thank you for the wisdom.
@rogerlin9602
@rogerlin9602 2 жыл бұрын
Know thyself. There are two levels. Your thoughts and emotions in reactive mode, and your awareness of them. Thanks Eckhart. 🌷🌴💖🕊🐌🌱🌼🐦🍁🦋
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️Tʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ғᴏʀ Cᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ
@sharieallen2719
@sharieallen2719 Жыл бұрын
@@user-kp5qk3bs9b You're a great teacher Eckhart !
@susanmadison6466
@susanmadison6466 2 жыл бұрын
I've have had a huge opportunities the past three years to choose between being a victim or not reacting to what I see as personal persecution. The ego in me has screamed, "But THIS is different! I am a victim!" However, when I am able to disengage from my thoughts and seek love....I disengage from my need to be right.
@Michelle-bv1ko
@Michelle-bv1ko 4 ай бұрын
Do you notice the osin body overreaction in otgers, & if you do, how do you respond or even tell them about their "pain body"? I'm living with someone whose PB is very active when he can't change things. I have to sit out his bad mood or histrionics🙄.
@veraintuizione6497
@veraintuizione6497 2 жыл бұрын
I could hear the teachings of Eckart Tolle in eternum ... They are so full of truth, humanity and wisdom, they are so deep, that my heart expands into the whole universe. Eternally grateful 💓❤️💓❤️🙏💓❤️💓❤️
@tinfoilhatter
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
he does seem to have figured out a thing-or-two, well it's more than that, obviously, it's just that he's got a way-about-him, ain't he tho? if he were here, i might be too star-struck to say a word, he's very kind to allow all this sort of thing, oops, knowing that some people might act-a-fool, and possibly reflect poorly on the whole thing, well, we're not about to allow that, eh? ha ha, sorry, sorry, there's no chance he's gonna read these things, i hope: because i may or may not have said any of it, okay? [forgive me, you know-who-ya-are, yeah? thanks, and hey, you're great, i don't-gotta-tell-ya-that, right?] [haha, sorry, thank you, i love ya, ho-opo-nopono, right?]
@veraintuizione6497
@veraintuizione6497 2 жыл бұрын
@@tinfoilhatter ?
@tinfoilhatter
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
@@veraintuizione6497 i was agreeing with you, not in-so-many-words
@veraintuizione6497
@veraintuizione6497 2 жыл бұрын
@@tinfoilhatter thanks for replying now I got it. Maybe it depends by our different experiences and so on. Teachings' Tolle have conquered my heart from the first time I listened to them. ❤️ To me they are of VITAL help❤️ Probably you would have to listen to them more times to permitting they enter in your heart ❤️
@tinfoilhatter
@tinfoilhatter Жыл бұрын
@@veraintuizione6497 at least twenty-some years, i'm familiar wit' his words, not always have they fallen on receptive bits of me, but we try to avail ourselves whenever and however it's convenient...it seems endlessly helpful, his words and ideas, or expressions and impressions he shares... thanks, yes, i really liked the guy immediately, i don't remember what year that was, when i saw some book or another, : he was nuthin' but a name to me then, and much later he became a well-known celebrity, as seen-on-tv...
@Sockdarner007
@Sockdarner007 Жыл бұрын
My god, this guy just distilled and expressed in a wonderful way exactly what my beautiful wife and I have been struggling with for about 8 years. It’s given me hope that we can manage this now That i can see it clearly, and restore us to where we should be. Our love is real but we somehow find a way to conflict and anger and it drives me to despair. Thank you so very much - I believe this so well timed ( I won’t overshare as to why)that it is almost divine.
@yukio_saito
@yukio_saito 2 жыл бұрын
3:19 So true. But unaware therapists are utterly useless. They are reactive because they are not aware of their own emotional pain. It's uncomfortable or harmful for clients. I fired such incompetent therapists. Therapists should take care of their own pain-body before giving clients therapy.
@dianeyoung8068
@dianeyoung8068 Жыл бұрын
So true, I have experienced the same thing.
@yukio_saito
@yukio_saito Жыл бұрын
@@dianeyoung8068 Sad to hear that. I hope your things got better after that.
@deannastone8313
@deannastone8313 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely forget all I have learned and forget all about my peaceful frequency when I am confronted or approached negatively.
@karennoble1076
@karennoble1076 Жыл бұрын
Same here De Anna.i understand him well intellectually but have difficulty practicing, resistance.
@Misslotusification
@Misslotusification Жыл бұрын
12:05: Pain-body waking up. Wanting some kind of drama, making something little into something big to create some negative reaction. Some make it to give the couple some reality.
@natureisallpowerful
@natureisallpowerful 2 жыл бұрын
I have identified lots of forms of my character through this lovely man. Hes allowed me to have a good, thorough understanding and examination of my ego and my true self. sometimes they both other times they are clearly separate. As longs I stay aware and keep practicing connecting with nature, mindfulness, meditation, breathing and positive attention to the universe, I'll be.
@barryminor616
@barryminor616 2 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU alllllll for your support and unique contributions UPcoming together ✌️💓👣🤸🏻🌞😋🍯💦🎶🌀💖
@sheeplove3429
@sheeplove3429 2 жыл бұрын
My children were my observers when I was overreacting, so helpful!
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️Tʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ғᴏʀ Cᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ
@AmitKumar-xw5gp
@AmitKumar-xw5gp 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct Eckhart... I've experienced all the thought patterns that you've described in this video. It's a constant struggle of being aware..
@AmitKumar-xw5gp
@AmitKumar-xw5gp 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being there and showing us the light.
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️Tʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ғᴏʀ Cᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@missmelissa3573
@missmelissa3573 Жыл бұрын
I need to watch these videos to tolerate a horrible marriage and try to stay together for the kids. So far I’ve had zero luck detaching from the mind. I’m very much grounded in the 3D world.
@stinaljungstrom8691
@stinaljungstrom8691 Жыл бұрын
But isn't leaving an option? Your kids will see the horrible relation and grow up in it. Maybe better that they see you peaceful and happy by yourself? And maybe later on in a new and better relation? I separated and later on met my husband. He is much more like a father to my son, than my son's biological father ever has been. My son is more like my husband, than he is like me; with interests, taste of music, playing the guitarr and workning with programming. It's nothing we forced. My son was very interested in computers from an early age and asked a friend of mine and my husband everything about programming and computers. He also asked about how to play the guitarr and learned. They just had things in common. It's your life to live the best way you can. I hope you feel in your heart if your patner is right for you, and the relation can be healthy and worth fighting for. Best of luck!
@thednmshow
@thednmshow Жыл бұрын
I wonder how many people-while watching this video-had an image of themselves or their significant other as the “pain-body” Ego will do it’s best to point its fingers towards the other, when in reality, it’s you Eckhart is talking about.
@Nika-je6zd
@Nika-je6zd Жыл бұрын
Usually it is both sides.
@kethakidesilva5342
@kethakidesilva5342 2 жыл бұрын
What a masterpiece. ....everything in a nutshell. ...💗💗💗
@Faith-sr8zw
@Faith-sr8zw 2 жыл бұрын
I should've watched this before an argument with my significant other. I had this saved but didn't get round to watching it yet
@patmoar7242
@patmoar7242 Жыл бұрын
I needed this right now, eckhart. I discovered you in 2016 but I fell off the path. I’m back. Thank you.
@wheezyouttahere2555
@wheezyouttahere2555 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, the pain-body can be quite insidious so we need to be aware of how it functions
@anahigimenez7381
@anahigimenez7381 2 жыл бұрын
To be vigilant 🙏 Thank you dear Eckhart 🙏
@ActionmediaUK
@ActionmediaUK Жыл бұрын
He is so funny - his delivery makes us laugh and that helps.....
@d.b.7695
@d.b.7695 Жыл бұрын
Wisdom and humor in one package and delivered in such a genuine way. His teachings unfolded further insights for me and installed peace
@BecomeConsciousNow
@BecomeConsciousNow 2 жыл бұрын
I have this problem. It's so difficult to let go of.
@melaniefudge6204
@melaniefudge6204 Жыл бұрын
This man is such a sweet heart 😊
@chopin4321
@chopin4321 2 жыл бұрын
be aware, be conscious.. and let ego dissapear.. be you or yourself not both,, be like God watching you.. pure harmony.. good energy.. like ET
@tinfoilhatter
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
sure...just let people walk-on-thru, doin' whatever they want, they're gonna do that anyway, right?
@meriaaronwalker552
@meriaaronwalker552 Жыл бұрын
All these years of reading and listening to you.... and I think I just actually encountered the pain body in me. Not a concept of it... but the thing itself. Thank you for your persistence in sharing again and again and again... Thank you for this clip here on YT.
@echo_surfer
@echo_surfer Ай бұрын
so much practical wisdom and humor. i get something out of each talk, even when i listen to the same one over again. i accidentally listened on 1.5 speed and find it made it easier for me to understand his accent, for some reason. 🧐
@ActionmediaUK
@ActionmediaUK Жыл бұрын
This is so helpful. Presence or conscious awareness can make the world a more peaceful place - the pain body dissolves as if from ice to water to vapour under loving attention.. After the year I have had - these teaching have been invaluable so that I do not make things worse
@Parkitloveit
@Parkitloveit 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here, in my ears and eyes, after that in my mind, and then in my soul and heart. These days I often realised while interacting with other human beings that in the middle of a sentence I remember the good feeling I have when being with you and then I stop and then continue interacting but accompanied by this good feeling, smiling, giving comfort, hope and reminding others of being safe and loved in the here and now. Thank you for helping me improve my interactions with others.
@tinfoilhatter
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
hey, homie: don't i know-you-somewheres? [yes, it seems i didn't, but that's only-in-'this-reality', i guess, haha, nice to meet you, i admire people who can speak in foreign 'lenguas']
@cleverkins
@cleverkins 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Eckhart.
@sherinsoliman7706
@sherinsoliman7706 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing very clear explanation to what happen to us thanks eckharttolle for what you spread in the world 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@snailtime737
@snailtime737 2 жыл бұрын
He makes me feel high 😇
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@GlobalEnglishSupernaturals
@GlobalEnglishSupernaturals 2 жыл бұрын
Eckhart is the best 💐❤️💐
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@GlobalEnglishSupernaturals
@GlobalEnglishSupernaturals 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-kp5qk3bs9b cheers ‘Eckhart’ 👌
@giselar.12
@giselar.12 2 жыл бұрын
🌸Thank you very much 🌸 I don’t like drama but unfortunately there are not only happy moments.Thinking positive is very important.🌸🙏😊
@frankiefranfraser
@frankiefranfraser Жыл бұрын
I am guessing "possesed" is the spooky word 😂💖
@wondergirl60s
@wondergirl60s 2 жыл бұрын
My favorite topic in your book!
@theodorurhed
@theodorurhed Ай бұрын
In my experience the painbody is the exact opposite expression of its utmost desire, hence its destructiveness. If love is blocked from being expressed it becomes a painbody
@jeankelly5859
@jeankelly5859 Жыл бұрын
So Powerful..Wow Thank you Eckhart For this Wonderful Explanation..
@stephenwastaken
@stephenwastaken 2 жыл бұрын
I’m often consumed by the pain body, but I’m now conscious of it and have been for just over a year thanks to Elkhart’s teachings. I still struggle to control it, it’s not easy, but I always know I’m going forwards, not backwards.
@tinfoilhatter
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
onward'n'upwardz... n-words'n' up-words, right?
@yukio_saito
@yukio_saito 2 жыл бұрын
Same. Sometimes I'm hijacked by my own pain-body. Everyday is a practice of becoming aware of it.
@mindsigh4
@mindsigh4 2 жыл бұрын
@@yukio_saito yes, everyday is a different dreaming
@Varryify
@Varryify 2 жыл бұрын
You don't necessarily have to control it. It's already a great feat if you don't let it control your actions. It's okay to feel what you feel.
@ToddSloanIAAN
@ToddSloanIAAN 2 жыл бұрын
The first 53 seconds of this matters give me liberation
@SRKhan774
@SRKhan774 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing
@keep_the_charge
@keep_the_charge 2 жыл бұрын
Omg!!! I just returned from a trip with 6 people just as you described 😪
@tinfoilhatter
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
sorry, again it seems i'm 'inspired' to make another 'comment' but to ask, y'know, how did it go, if you're at liberty to discuss any of it or, y'know what i mean? i feel as if anything you share, will be most helpful but you're not obliged to disclose anything unduly, or inappropriately, - obviously, right? 'travelling' is such a perennial luxury/burden/obligation/curse tho, isn't it?? i sometimes miss it, but then many times am glad-i-did, ha ha...sorry: too much information? it's very easy to 'un-say' things, here in the you-tubes, ha ha in any case, there's no harm, no foul: i always try to remember: 'i-ask'd-for-that', haha~
@jewel2022now
@jewel2022now 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Eckart ! As usual its a wonderful speech. Wishing everyone else some peace.
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️Tʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ғᴏʀ Cᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@gavinspeaks
@gavinspeaks 2 жыл бұрын
When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.” ― Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction KZfaqr💜
@CitrusSimon
@CitrusSimon 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Gavin. It's almost as if, Love is some sort of expanding energy?
@ushaacharya2957
@ushaacharya2957 11 ай бұрын
Thank you Ekhart 🙏❤️
@noisyverset
@noisyverset 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏💜 Reflection on one’s perceived perception on a meta cognitive level- opens up the mind for understanding, not only from one’s own perspective, but from more perspectives, without letting the ego controlling your thoughts. Choosing peace and love in the present moment, even though circumstances oppose it- can- if not rid of the lesser peaceful energies- give room for positive energies. Is it possible to rid hate using hate? Goodness is goodness, and hate is not goodness- but they are both parts of “everything”. Unconscious badness can be sorted out by responding to negativity using positivity. However, if it is intended evilness, not responding- or respond at least only through goodness- might be the answer. Remember- there’s color in darkness just as in light. Greetings from a survivor of a long narcissistic relationship. Peace ✌️💜
@tinfoilhatter
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
what, hate? hey, i'm-a-hatter, not-some-hater, ha ha, but speakin' from experience, it don't-feel-so-great after a little while, of course maybe that's my excuse for never quite bein' sure it's not about to overtake-a-guy, with little or no notice: well, vigilancy's more than-a-feeling, so it's-been-said, eh? i appreciate the thoughts, and/or the words'n'whatnots, to be sure: i just felt oddly compelled, or maybe inspired to say somethin' sorta, kinda what, uh, ever-i-just 'said', so-to-speak, haha... [sorry: meaning, thanks, it wasn't entirely lost-on-a-guy, so to speak, sha-zammo, man~~~]
@jewel2022now
@jewel2022now 2 жыл бұрын
Bless you!
@debbiemckenna5
@debbiemckenna5 Жыл бұрын
How do you recover from the pain body? I too am a survivor of Narc abuse from my father and surprise my ex husband. I am 52 yrs old and in therapy since my 20s. Even being aware it still hurts. I am afraid to get into any relationships because I don’t want to hurt anyone. So I isolate myself. 1 extreme to the other. I really am in so much pain. I can’t live like this. I am dying inside. Any suggestions??
@tranqulitytoo
@tranqulitytoo Жыл бұрын
Oh yes beautifully put. Thank you 💚🌟🙏🦋
@deeonugarapulcountryyugger6629
@deeonugarapulcountryyugger6629 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@dimplesp4046
@dimplesp4046 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
@gateparasamgate2261
@gateparasamgate2261 2 жыл бұрын
Das ist etwas vom Besten, was ich schon gehört habe... auch wenn man schon seit Jahrzehnten spirituell unterwegs ist - sehr einfach und hilfreich!
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️Tʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ғᴏʀ Cᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@purge2--u--nite342
@purge2--u--nite342 2 жыл бұрын
On health Note 🎵.... Always go the holistic approach 1st BEFORE going to Dr. Feel-good 💊 aka big pharma 👿
@malizina1
@malizina1 8 ай бұрын
Thank you !
@ivee111
@ivee111 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Eckhart 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💜💙💚
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️Tʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ғᴏʀ Cᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✓ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@lynnpearson5866
@lynnpearson5866 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You Eckhart 🙏💕
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@flowerzurich3035
@flowerzurich3035 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@nabechannel1921
@nabechannel1921 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing it helps 🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕🌺🌺🌺🌿🌿🌿
@radicalhonesty3628
@radicalhonesty3628 2 жыл бұрын
trying to focus on the video and it's so hard. I just can't. too many thoughts and feelings in me. I've fallen in a trap again. a terrible horrible painful awful trap. falling for yet again: another unavailable person. dear God, why do I do this to myself? I'm old now and I've never ever had love. never ever have I been in a real romantic relationship... the pain of this is so horrific: it truly rapes my soul.
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@Varryify
@Varryify 2 жыл бұрын
Have you made yourself available to your self? If you never felt love because you felt that love was unavailable in other persons you could try to first finding it in yourself. The love you so desperately search for in other beings is also present in you.
@Sunflower.7
@Sunflower.7 Жыл бұрын
Thank you❤❤❤
@user-pv4nq8fm6z
@user-pv4nq8fm6z Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@Jad3dJane
@Jad3dJane Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this fantastic video
@lisapayne9514
@lisapayne9514 Жыл бұрын
Wow. This video really did speak to me. X
@ronamain8689
@ronamain8689 10 ай бұрын
All relationships are doomed if you are looking for someone to fulfill your needs. You have to BE yourself. It means an Eckhart meditation every day...as many as you can fit in! ❤
@donnamurray5259
@donnamurray5259 Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@dalibofurnell
@dalibofurnell Жыл бұрын
Very insightful
@cvetkapisek8785
@cvetkapisek8785 2 жыл бұрын
Very good to know this in order to observe and get the solution at he right time. So important to be alert and recognize it before drama happens, o yes! Thanks a lot.
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️Tʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ғᴏʀ Cᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@amin_abdollahi_369
@amin_abdollahi_369 5 ай бұрын
Thank you🌸❤❤
@adamradziwanowski8693
@adamradziwanowski8693 2 жыл бұрын
Very good explanation. Thanks
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️Tʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ғᴏʀ Cᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@hivinibrahim1401
@hivinibrahim1401 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🙏
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@barrie888
@barrie888 Жыл бұрын
thankyou Sir
@katyboyer266
@katyboyer266 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You! 🤗❤🙏🏼
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️Tʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ғᴏʀ Cᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@shatakshijadhav7954
@shatakshijadhav7954 Жыл бұрын
I love this ❤
@NeilRevin-sb6lt
@NeilRevin-sb6lt 8 ай бұрын
Is the root of all suffering the inability to stay focused on the present moment? What I mean by suffering includes depression, anxiety, grief, loneliness, bipolar disorder, panic attacks, social isolation, shame, guilt, regret, low self-esteem, stress, anger, jealousy, heartbreak, emotional trauma, etc.
@CatWoman6
@CatWoman6 8 ай бұрын
Pretty much.
@Noukz37
@Noukz37 2 жыл бұрын
So the pain-body is like a layer of ego that can manifest itself in our body?
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@hivinibrahim1401
@hivinibrahim1401 Жыл бұрын
Thamk you ❤
@leclaireguy263
@leclaireguy263 3 ай бұрын
Sir I love you
@debbiesdirt7928
@debbiesdirt7928 Жыл бұрын
My little precious....
@tinfoilhatter
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
i guess then, the best we can hope for is to 'weaken' [or perhaps 'tame'] that pain-body, somehow, such that it doesn't interfere with others' plans for us then, or what? i think maybe we'd better find a better name for that thing... haha
@anapartage
@anapartage Жыл бұрын
That’s why I always knew we need to be identified to our persona to heal by periods. Being into the drama to change the perception of it, but it happen by cycles and it take many cycles for some of us. That’s okay
@fue-por-tu-amor-Lucia
@fue-por-tu-amor-Lucia Жыл бұрын
Exelente
@quantom3392
@quantom3392 2 жыл бұрын
You can get there from here or here from there and the time it takes is now
@sandrawright8109
@sandrawright8109 Жыл бұрын
Why is it I understand all this but completely forget it and end up causing the usual drama and stress normally over nothing or my own insecurity?
@zubeirwaran-bari8730
@zubeirwaran-bari8730 11 ай бұрын
2:48 levels of self discovery
@nikehusk3849
@nikehusk3849 Жыл бұрын
It seems that the more you spend time with Eckhart, the more your pain body asserts itself over you. Is it what they say: the more you know, the more it hurts?
@purelight8791
@purelight8791 Жыл бұрын
Pls advise how to get rid of pain body?
@kareemmohammed5270
@kareemmohammed5270 2 жыл бұрын
resonate
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
▪️Tʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ғᴏʀ Cᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ
@user-kp5qk3bs9b
@user-kp5qk3bs9b 2 жыл бұрын
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟐𝟔𝟔𝟔𝟕𝟎𝟗𝟕✔ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs👌
@peaceone9733
@peaceone9733 10 ай бұрын
Where can I find the video of the beautiful wooshing waterfall in the background at the end?
@heikekershaw8990
@heikekershaw8990 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like describing the narcissist in my life!
@CatWoman6
@CatWoman6 8 ай бұрын
Mine too
@louiseboyd8896
@louiseboyd8896 Жыл бұрын
My relationship was an utter nightmare for 30 years until I started helping out his pain body with financial help....that makes him stop bickering with me...we have an intense intimate relationship which helps me cope with tragic things happening in my life....I am blessed with abundance....so the money I give him puts a stop to the drama, and that's how I like it...although it's unconventional, I am in my zen energy....this works for me....I am 73 years old and not about looking for another partner....
@artemisa8888
@artemisa8888 Жыл бұрын
is that high pitch bell really necessary?
@anitavirginillo
@anitavirginillo Жыл бұрын
So how would we know if we are over reacting if it is unconscious?
@MelissaBozinovski
@MelissaBozinovski 2 ай бұрын
I see alot of similar threads with Jungian psychology when you talk about the pain body eg complexes in Jungian or at least unleashing the shadow... which projects...
@lindsay5305
@lindsay5305 Жыл бұрын
I know not what "I" do!
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