How To Be Confident Without Makeup

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2 жыл бұрын

The need to feel validated by the male gaze or live up to societal beauty standards is no foreign feeling to most women. This feeling has led many of us to changing our physical appearance with makeup to feel good about ourselves, but thence day you might find you're unable to feel good without it. That's where I come in.
In this video I give you 3 steps to building confidence without makeup and I share some extra tips at the end to help you on your journey, so that you can feel liberated from the expectations put upon us.
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@elizabetabihler2875 5 ай бұрын

I'm so tired of makeup and feeling insecure. I don't care anymore if I am pretty or not. Makeup doesn't really makes me happy although I look nicer with it. I am 27 year old but without makeup I look much younger... people say I look 15 😂😂😂

@isabelwicker 5 ай бұрын

That’s a compliment!!

@Leilanileavens Жыл бұрын

This girl is so underrated, how does she only have 241 subscribers

@isabelwicker Жыл бұрын

This means a lot ❤

@Jasmine-qv9gq 5 ай бұрын

I totally agree 😊

@wildwave518 10 ай бұрын

I'm 19 I started wearing make up at 18 when I started university, after one year I'm so done with make up it made me insecure I'm checking my lips the whole time , my foundation I got anxious over the fact that maybe my make up looks ugly close up if someone get close to me I'm only thinking about how bad my foundation is looking , I got flashbacks of how I never wore make up at high school not even a lip balm and I was so confident also everyone around complimented me , my skin I used to get so many compliments on my look even tho there were no make up , I decided I'm never putting it on from now

@isabelwicker 10 ай бұрын

I totally understand, wearing makeup comes with it's own share of troubles. Do whatever makes you happy!

@fidaus540 6 ай бұрын

Omg same started wearing makeup when I was 17 and I hope I reach a point where I feel secure enough to not wear it

@itsbirdy1098 Жыл бұрын

Today, I suddenly realized that I am going to skip my first class for make-up. I had three big pimples on my forehead and I was saying to myself, it can't be like this, you have to make up. I came to my senses for a moment and did not care about makeup. I had my hand on my face the whole time at the university service. I felt that everyone was looking at me and saying what an ugly girl you are. Look at his pimples I was scrolling through KZfaq to give me something to inspire me, so that I don't get on the subway and go back to my dorm, and among all the yellow videos, I saw your video. Actually, I'm not trying to impress a particular person with makeup, but I want everyone to see me as beautiful. It's freaking obsessive. Even though I used to wear very little makeup, it still bothers me now. I was not a makeup person. It is strange that life in the dormitory has made me like this. I want it to come back to me. Thank you so much for this video

@isabelwicker Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad this video came across your path. It's a tough road to feeling comfortable in your own skin but trust me when I say you are a work of art made by God Himself. Things will get better ❤

@mitralize 9 күн бұрын

I’m so tired of everyone just thinking about their outer appearance instead of their inner life - this video was refreshing in my feed fr

@wilsons2882 6 ай бұрын

some women look good in makeup some dont sometimes its just the wrong makeup or sometime its any makeup that looks bad. however women look better without makeup. the usual natural look if they rock it and work around it they look so confident. however its actually the confidence to rock with or without makeup and not be so hung up dependent on things that you can live with and without stuff that evokes beauty. if you can rock any look and mindset thats sexy and beautiful.

@mitralize 9 күн бұрын

This video deserves so much more likes

@mochathehedgehog5550 23 күн бұрын

thanks for this 🥰 you saved me a lot of headache this morning.

@ewamaria4398 6 ай бұрын

I'm over 40, and I use makep only on special ocasions, and even thenit's only some eyeshadow and mascara. I don't use face products- clean water for washing and only natural moisturaisung cream every now and then (not every day - just when I need it). My skin is in good condition not to greasy not to dry, no dark spots under eyes and only a verry little wrinkles (from smiling a lot). I don't know if i"m so lucky or is it the natural and minimalistic way of caring, but I'll keep doing it.

@isabelwicker 6 ай бұрын

Wow that’s amazing! I hope I can be that lucky, I’ve already started to notice wrinkles around my eyes

@nonamina2393 Жыл бұрын

شكرا على نصائحك المفيدة ...إستفدت من هذا الفيديو وقررت بأنني لن أضع المكياج مرة أخرى❤

@mariemashraf4207 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so mush, i kinda knew that already but i needed a reminder❤️❤️

@isabelwicker 9 ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@keepingupwtae1127 3 ай бұрын

This helped a lot, thank you! You made very valid points

@isabelwicker 3 ай бұрын

I’m glad!! Thank you for your comment :)

@yarielasegura3970 4 ай бұрын

thank you girll! ily 💓 we need to celebrate our uniqueness and shine 💫

@isabelwicker 4 ай бұрын

Yes!!! 💖💖💖

@CorrieKelly-ie4gw Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this❤️ you were spot on

@isabelwicker Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your comment ❤

@MonkeyOnTheContrary 9 ай бұрын

This was really beautiful and I needed to heard that! You're very wise, and cool. Thank you! :)

@isabelwicker 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🥹🤍

@anisa1532 Жыл бұрын

I love love love this video so much and I love your words, advice and you! Thank you so much, I hope you’re doing well!❤️

@isabelwicker Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your comment, I'm really happy you enjoyed the video! ❤

@Rabarbaraaa Жыл бұрын

I dont wear make up and i dont think i will start, but recently i have started to feel more and more insecure. I have acne and scars (the scars don’t really bother me they’re actually kinda cute

@isabelwicker Жыл бұрын

I totally get what you mean! Everyone has the desire to be desired, but admiration from other people will never bring total fulfillment. I also struggle with wanting to be more attractive, but I have to recenter myself and focus on my inherent value as a person. You got this ❤

@missadug Жыл бұрын

This was to totally helpful!!! Thank you for this video!

@isabelwicker Жыл бұрын

@@missadug It makes me so glad to know this video was helpful to you, thank you very much for your comment! ❤

@user-ps5of8of2b 5 ай бұрын

Omg thank you so much and you're so prettyyy💗💗💗💗😭

@isabelwicker 5 ай бұрын

Awe thank you! I’m glad you liked the video 😊

@janessallopezz Жыл бұрын

I love you for this video , thank you so much

@isabelwicker Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you liked this video, thank you for your kind words Janessa ❤️

@harshaakumar7998 Жыл бұрын

Hey Isabel! Thanks for sharing this!

@isabelwicker Жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

@juliabisbee7602 Жыл бұрын

This is such a great video and soooo heartwarming. Thank you from girl to girl for being so real and speaking the truth!! I find that I am my greatest critic and am working towards accepting myself fully versus trying to correct things I might perceive as flaws. Thank you girlie ❤ god bless!!

@isabelwicker Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your comment! It makes me so happy to know I was able to provide some sort of value. May God bless you too on your journey ❤

@mariahkristinerealtor 5 ай бұрын

Such a well made video. Thank you for this ❤❤

@isabelwicker 5 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤️

@cayetonefigueroa5812 3 ай бұрын

What a breath of fresh air you are!

@isabelwicker 3 ай бұрын

Thank you 🥹🤍

@hymykonster 4 ай бұрын

new subscriber bc this video was so real and gives actual good advice, keep it up🌟

@isabelwicker 4 ай бұрын

Welcome to the family!! I’m glad this video served you well 🫶🏼

@nonamina2393 Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

@micaelam8572 4 ай бұрын

WOW. This helped me so much, thank you!!

@isabelwicker 4 ай бұрын

I’m glad❤️

@bluebirdinthenightsky2491 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful video thankyou so much

@isabelwicker Жыл бұрын

Of course, Thank you for your comment ☺

@SevenEllen 5 ай бұрын

Been confident without make-up since I was a teen - I'm just here to give a thumbs up to a refreshing and kind video in a world riddled with hyper-critical behaviour due to the toxic beauty industry.

@isabelwicker 5 ай бұрын

That’s amazing! Thank you for the support 😊

@beatricelubago4654 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for such a useful video. I decided not to wear makeup for five days ago and wishing I made this decision for 20 years ago

@isabelwicker 3 ай бұрын

I’m glad this was useful to you, that’s amazing!💖

@chewieart9482 Күн бұрын

I'm actually wearing makeup because I'm scared that someone would point out how red I am :( My skin is so thin and sensitive -you can see every vein and broken blood vessels. I'm not trying to impress anyone I just don't want to recieve any sort of feedback about my skin :( I'm sad I can't do anything about my genetic makeup. Thank you for this video.

@espressogoblin 5 ай бұрын

This is such a good video.

@isabelwicker 5 ай бұрын

Thank you:)

@Alex-eq5id 10 ай бұрын

This material is really good like thank you its helpful and also i wanted to say that your're gorgeous and charming and looking way more better without heavy make-up that covers your beauty, but you know that already. Anyway have a nice day and make more vid!!

@isabelwicker 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind comment! I'm so glad this video was helpful ☺❤

@isabelwicker 10 ай бұрын

Hi Alex, I'd love to continue making content that benefits people but I'm a bit stuck on what to make. Do you have any suggestions and/or topics you would like me to address? 😊

@Alex-eq5id 10 ай бұрын

Hmm The topic can be anything actually. Think about something u care abt right now. Maybe make some guides for instance how not to care abt others opinions or how to meet new people (it would be very helpfull for me rn 😅), what to do alone, how you did something. Being honest most of the audience are teenagers so think about what would you like to know earlier, how your high school looked (or is looking) like etc. Or talk abt how canon of beauty is annoying and making women insecure and ppl can tell their opinion in the comments. I believe you will find some cool topic. I hope to see you soon on the screen!! 🤍

@isabelwicker 10 ай бұрын

@@Alex-eq5id These are great suggestions, thank you so much for taking the time to respond!

@isabelwicker 10 ай бұрын

@@Alex-eq5id Hey Alex, just thought I'd let you know I took your suggestion and made a video on how to not care about the opinions of others :) It's uploaded now!

@Ayanae201 Жыл бұрын

Awesome video👏❤️

@isabelwicker Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@miyaemily5562 8 ай бұрын

Bravooo🎉

@likaelishkov5831 11 ай бұрын

The thumbnail itself just made me Smile

@isabelwicker 11 ай бұрын

😊❤️

@JaneCrossan 6 ай бұрын

You are so much prettier without makeup 💄

@isabelwicker 6 ай бұрын

Thank you😊

@sharonplaysYT 10 ай бұрын

Tbh, I have too much time to care about others. And getting so jealeous about others. I just sit home, no friends, i dont like going outside etc.

@isabelwicker 10 ай бұрын

I'm sorry to hear you're in this position, but fortunately I have some great news. Based off what you told me, you are in complete control to change your situation. This means all you have to do is CHOOSE! Make the choice to do the opposite of what you're doing right now. Let me give you some examples. 1. instead of ruminating in jealousy, uplift yourself with affirmations such as " other people's beauty does not take away from my own" " I am capable of appreciating other peoples beauty" " I believe I am beautiful". Even if you do not believe these things, say them anyways. 2. Instead of sitting at home, go to the gym, go visit a new coffee shop, go visit family or friends, search for hobbies that interest you and attend those hobbies! My favorite hobbies are rock climbing and salsa dancing. It may not come easy, but if you really want to change you must push yourself past your comfort zone. 3. Instead of thinking you have no friends, make an effort to make friends by introducing yourself to someone new or looking for local groups in your area you can attend where people participate in activities that interest you. 4. If you don't like going outside but want to try, push yourself to spend just 5 minutes each day outside and find 1 thing to appreciate about nature. My love goes out to you because I know life is hard but please do not be a victim of your circumstances. Choose the current discomfort of discipline over future pain of regret.

@_xxdisgraceyxx_ 2 ай бұрын

going out within makeup today, for my son's birthday party, all my acquaintances are gonna be there. i'm scared as hell 😬

@isabelwicker 2 ай бұрын

You got this!!🤍

@HoudaNoura-di3vo 3 ай бұрын

That's not a complement I am not complimenting you but your literally literally literally beautiful you why cuz you're without makeup and you still don't look ugly ❤

@trejsii 10 ай бұрын

i love you

@artusaurus 9 ай бұрын

I love this video, although sorry to say but the music is too loud 😅make sure to bring it down or bring up your voice, because you say some really great stuff!

@isabelwicker 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to let me know! I appreciate the feedback 😊

@kpfern2337 5 ай бұрын

I’m tearing up. I have been really obsessing over my lip color. I feel like I’m only pretty only when I’m wearing lipstick. It’s getting out of control. 😿

@isabelwicker 3 ай бұрын

Well now that you are aware I’m confident you are on the right track 🤍 you got this!

@sangyachatterjee4670 8 ай бұрын

Yes yes yes ❤❤❤me me me

@leacore07 3 ай бұрын

Wow you are such a nice and gordegs women i Like you 🌟

@isabelwicker 3 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@Iwillfightcauseigotnothing 9 ай бұрын

I do agree on this but sometimes im literally treated differently when im wearing make up and looking more “put together” Im talking about wearing it in my workplace or important events, and not a grocery shop etc. It is so tiring (By men AND women)

@isabelwicker 9 ай бұрын

I agree!

@sharonplaysYT 10 ай бұрын

I understand u but I have nothing unique since my bad childhood.

@isabelwicker 10 ай бұрын

I don't know you but I PROMISE you that you are unique. I believe God created us all to be one of a kind, each of us with our own special traits. I also had a rough childhood, but the point I try to make in the video is our innate child like spirit is something we tend to undervalue. We try to appear super attractive on the outside, and while that's nice, let us not forget that what truly makes us beautiful is our spirit. And I believe part of our true spirit is revealed in childhood, before the world had its chance to really affect you and shape you.