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It's all about CONFIDENCE and how you carry yourself. Because "true confidence" is not "people will like me regardless" but "I’ll be fine if they don’t", and I think that is what Jia is doing.

I agree, not revealing too much about yourself and being mysterious has a charm of itself

Its not only her looks but their's something in her which makes people stop and stare her....Its her strong , feminine and confident aura

I don't think the goal should be to act like her, but rather to find the self-love that makes you act like her.

She's the quietest but still gives the most powerful aura. Her personality is really great.

I just also want to say it's VERY natural to feel scared or clingy when someone pulls away. Especially if you have trauma. So just a reminder to be kind to yourself and remember that you DO deserve a happy relationship where you're not chasing. 💙

Confidence. She isn’t looking for validation. Or to please. Or to impress. Something women have been taught is to make sure they dress and behave so that people will like them. It’s hammered into us from a young age. Ofc it’s changing a bit now, but that teaching still exists. It leads to women always trying to make sure people are okay with them. We don’t exist to make others happy or comfortable. When women understand that and develope their own sense of self, they win at life.

At the risk of sounding like I'm bragging, I just want to share the power of mystery. In college, I had the privilege of being a part of an exclusive group that were literally leagues above me in terms of everything--looks, finances, social status, etc. And yet, among all the girls in that group, I've been told that I was who the men were interested in. Why? Because apparently, I was quiet and mysterious. Always value your privacy and never feel like you have to cater to someone else all the time. Remember that being friendly is different from being a doormat.

Yeah but her confidence comes from the fact that she knows she is undeniably beautiful, and that's why there's always gonna be people interested in her so... I don't know. Sounds like a cycle of "being confident because ur attractive and being attractive because ur confident" that only pretty people can experience.

Step1 : Be pretty. You don't have to watch the whole series to understand. First time I saw her I could immediately tell what kind of vibe/aura she's going to be having. If she ain't pretty, it won't have the same effect.

Its so much easier to be confident when you're drop dead gorgeous. And sure, looks aren't everything, but they shape how others have treated you throughout your life, so if most men chase you, you form the idea that you are the ONE who holds the cards, and test men more thoroughly than someone who doesn't look as good, bc their self-esteem never got to that point.

Most women are not aware of their own habits . How jia stood out among other women are in these steps:- 1. She didn't make first moves 2. She was honest . When asked in the 1st episode, whom she was attracted to . She said none and that she needs time . 3. Most men in the show thought jia was out of their level . But as men like to win , they wanted to try on Jia but also see if they can actually get her. If not , they will settle with the one in their league. Thats why ladies if an ex dumped you or you realise that you're dating a dusty guy and you decide to breakup . Don't be sad. He will find a woman of his level and you're not one . Your guy is waiting for you to level up . Jia knew this so she never chased any guy . Also she never showed/ had the fear on losing anyone . 4. Like all the other women , she was attractive too but she dressed classy everytime . She looked effortlessly classy and a little bit of sexiness. That's why she says " I'm cute & sexy" and her style reflects that. 5. She lets the man talk . This is the best strategy or a way to see how the man eligible for a woman. Women go on dates and talk alot , trying to show him that why he should date you . Thats a masculine trait. In mother nature, you'll see the male species shows their abilities to attract the female . You can watch discovery channel for that. 6. She never talks about other men when she's with a particular man . Instead her date would try hard to know whats in her mind but she never reveals that . That makes the boys chase her even more trying to win her over . 7. She tells her most suitable candidate that she likes him but she also has that aura that she has many men still available for her . And she doesn't do this desperately, falling on other men . She naturally attracts because she doesn't let any man, not even her suitable candidate to take the power. In her interviews , she said that even kpop stars would ask her out , she has a good family , a mother , father and a brother . She's a dancer , has a youtube career, has hobbies like golf , painting . In many of her Q&A videos , she advised girls to love themselves alot . I think loving yourself is a process . And that process can build your confidence without you knowing. I as a woman always fantasised about cinderella stories and how men would treat me to lavish lifestyle . But the question is why can't i treat myself the same lavish lifestyle. Thats self love . I would always bring gifts to my family , do cute things for my ex , go out of my way to help friends and give them big gifts. I realised that i was a people pleaser . Why did i never think that i want to be pleased to , surprised to . Who is there to please me ? Let me see , only then ill reciprocate . Till then i can please myself . When i shifted my energy to myself, i started attracting good things easily . I started calculating how many hrs in a day i was giving to myself for GROWTH 📈? Or was i giving my 24 hrs to gossip , other's drama and self loathing stories , binging, shopping mindlessly , watching YT & IG and making other's careers grow while mine being at 0 , listening to breakup stories and dancing to songs about sex , fwb and cheaters , spending my time with loser friends and wondering how i blended well with my loser friends because i was one . Jia is a self love queen. And you can be one too .❤ All you need is awareness , the courage to take the first step and never to stop.

girl....if she was ugly, she would be considered delusional and weird. yes, her personality added to the appeal but it only works because she is beautiful. EDIT: okay I got to the end of the video and I agree with you lol. confidence is everything

if she's not pretty will the guys stare at her like that though? lets not kid ourselves, physical beauty is the most important aspect that most ppl look for in a partner.

I'm not sure I agree with everything you're saying. I do agree about the part that being desperate isn't attractive but I do think it probably is better to communicate and show more of yourself for building a good foundation for a healthy relationship. I don't think the guys are truly attracted to her but more so to her image, a fantasy is more powerful than reality so when she does decide to show more of herself, chances are high they'd be disappointed and both parties would have invested a lot of energy in a relationship that would be doomed to begin with. Which would be so easily prevented with just communication. Also, she's very beautiful so a lot of people would be initially interested in her but that's not something that happens to everyone. I'd say the best mindset to have is being confident in who you are and not being afraid to be vulnarable + being okay with not being everyone's cup of tea. You may not attract as many people but you would attract people who like you for you.

My successful uncle (a mayor) always told me: "you can talk or be quiet, but never truly reveal what's in the box. Because the box may contain nothing, or it might contain gold. Keep them guessing and they'll always think about what kind of treasure lies within, rather than what you're missing"

I also noticed park sejeong from the last season had this exact same mindset, she never chased and yet attracted nobody throughout the entire show, so I also wonder if ‘cultural attractiveness’ plays a role, (ie pale and cute etc) and also the fact Jia wore ‘brand clothing’ meant status and money. I think both play a role together in how so many men are attracted to her

A big part of it was her beauty and status men are attracted to high value women if she was ugly they wouldn't even look at her.

the only reason she’s perceived as mysterious is cause she’s quiet and attractive. If she was quiet and ugly, she’d b called boring. Our perspective of somebody is largely based on their looks and our initial attraction to them or lack thereof. It’s pretty fucking unfortunate but that’s just life. No point sobbing over it cause somebody or another will always be younger, better looking, have more money, etc. just work on yourself🤷‍♀️

Hints in the video: Abundance mindset Attract, never chase Give only a bit about yourself now and then Ruthless with standards put yourself first because no one is gone do that for you

Not really in the mood to date anyone, didn't watch the show nor know who Jia was either until now. However, this video gives very good advice on how to be calm, collected, and sure of oneself in many social situations. I've been working on my mindset as well as how I present myself to the world, and this helps a lot. Thank you!

You just have to behave aligned with your looks, and that's what works for her

the savage cuts to the other members who "put up with less" had me bursting out with laughter; like with soe and sehoon. they're so spot on

So basically: Don't emotionally invest in any single person and you will be attractive to every single person out there

I have a conflict with people not wanting to seem desperate because I get where they're coming from, but at the same time I feel it's gotten to the point where no one wants to show interest anymore in fear of seeming too eager. And this mindset has hurt the dating atmosphere so bad that it's difficult to connect with people. Personally i feel like it all depends in what you're looking for, for example, if your goal is to be desirable and attract people in general maybe this 'mysterious' persona will work for you. In my case I loved listening and learning all about my boyfriend's life, I loved seeing his eagerness to talk to me, see me and in general getting to know me. I could feel his interest and that was so new and refreshing to me. It worked for us but again, it probably depends on what your goal is

It's not confidence, it's just being beautiful. It's the halo effect.

Wow you just made me realize that what I've been practicing through self development also helps in development. Being quiet about somethings really help. This quiet confidence that what's mine will be mine, it will not be given to other people, I will work hard to open doors for myself, yes, but everything aligned with me, with the words I speak, and how I speak, will be mine. Ngl, it's hard to not tell anyone when these good things are happening, but I have seen the jealous, envy and anger when I share some information with friends.

But this girl doesn't like anyone here. If you want manipulative relationships, follow this advice. But a healthy relationship means that you make easy steps towards each other without any manipulation. If you really liked someone and got rejected because "you acted too desperate", then it's just not your person.

The point is she stands out from the other girls because she's the most attractive and mysterious, quiet type.

I needed this, after a really bad experience with a guy last year I lost my confidence and that abundance mindset I used to have. Haven't even dated since. It's time to get back out there and just be myself, not even for dating but in general. I want my spark back.

This girl was there to play the game. She didn't need the guys there. She has the world... She was there to market herself and man she is strong.

This was well explained and said! I don’t even know this person but going on different dates with really intellectual, super handsome men that were gentlemen, 6’1-6’6 in stature with really nice bodies and personalities, I’ve learned that when I was super confident and acted like I didn’t care, they would pursue. The abundance mindset is accurate, and when I challenged them in the beginning with high standards and boundaries, most men would rise up to the occasion. They’d invite me to fancy restaurants, and I always met them There, never let them pick me up in case for safety and also so we’re not alone in their car. They were surprised by that. Never kissing on the first date or expecting that will always get me a call back and more dates. Letting a man talk and prove himself is key and not being a chatterbox trying to impress men or avoid over sharing. Being mysterious does help when you actually are observing and taking your time to observe if their behavior lines up with their words. It allows you to read their body language and let the man do the work. This is coming from a woman who used to over talk or try to impress the man. I love what you said also about taking time and not ever acting desperate or needy. Those things can have a man like you one week and want to run the next, so keeping it cool, calm, and collected is important. I also believe consistency and being sure of oneself and rewarding good behavior little by little and letting him earn trust and earn you is also very important to eventually having them commit. Also if it doesn’t work out, remember The faster you can get rid of the wrong guy is the sooner the right one can find you!!

Thank you for talking about this topic. Now I understand the essence of Jia's aura, I mean she's pretty and confident but your video talks even more in-depth about her aura.

I would say that knowing your self-worth is crucial while dating but you have to keep in mind that it is not wrong when you feel a lack of something. Everybody has some kind of wounds inside themselves and needing some kind of validation is human. There is nothing wrong about communicating your needs and wishes. Emphasis on communicating, not acting out on it. Many people tend to believe that their partner has to know what's going on inside their head and immediately comfort them and when they don't they think "well, it's not meant to be. I know my self worth and therefore I'll have to leave, becaus he/she is just not right for me". From my point of view this is just unfair. Communicate what you need and your partner will try and learn how to treat you. So vice versa

Step 1: Be unrealistically pretty

I think that her personality plays big part in it but lets not be delusional - she is conventionally attractive, wears nice clothes and that is what plays the biggest part in my opinion

1/abundance mindset, 2/dont chase 3/dont over explain 4/put yourself 1st

This only works because she’s pretty. You can have the greatest confidence in yourself but if you’re not attractive people will think you’re weird.

I feel like it was mostly because of her beauty, she's just stunning

I have the same mindset of her and always have, you also have to be pretty. I’m not a petite women and I have a double chin due to genetics. I’m a little overweight and my body portions aren’t even. I will admit, I only have the pretty face. I try to be feminine and dress feminine. The big difference between her and I is i have anxiety and body ticks. I will shake my arm and twitch my head here and there if I feel uncomfortable. I love how she did everything on the show and she’s a great person

Step 1. Be attractive Step 2. Don't be unattractive Step 3. Fuck, I'm not attractive

“I don’t chase___I attract .” Love it!

I watched this a few days ago but had to come back to comment as I was thinking about this; yes, placing yourself first and not being hooked on one person certainly is good, but there is definitely a place for being emotional and vulnerable when you care about someone, even if not done perfectly, and those moments of real vulnerability are going to be extremely endearing to the right people who the emotions are meant for, not only that but they are part of what makes us all weak humans and thats a beautiful part of life I dont want to miss out on

this makes me feel so good about myself i've been doing everything right ;)

this is something i was looking for and needed too. ive never dated and something from this has taught me something better and how i should keep my mindset

When I first noticed Jia, her aura and confidence attracted me SO much. I feel like when ppl first see Jia, they (probably) think of her as a “rude” person but once they talk to her, she’s not the type of person they think she was which attracts more curiosity on her. Her visuals are outstanding but I personally feel like her visuals is not the only thing that attracts so many attention, it’s her selfworth and her proper mindset

This video really promotes my confidence. So many lessons to take from. Truly the art of people and interacting

I love this channel, and I've gotten so much out of your videos about Jia. Thank you!!

Thank you, thank you so much for having this video arrived on time. I'm so grateful ❤️🙏

✅️ Abundance mindset: if it's not him, other one will be ✅️I don't chase, I attract: be open and friendly and let to know yourself but then lean back to let the man to pursue you if he wants ✅️It's not your job to cuddle other person's feeling and keep him updated on what you are feeling at every moment (be mysterious) ✅️ Put yourself first always, value high yourself and never put anyone on the pedestal, fulfill your own needs instead of expecting someone to do for you

you honestly made me take power of my problems and just myself...i just hope this doesnt go away so waiting for more of your vids

I love this channel. The way you break it down is simple and straightforward.

Your videos are very clear and concise. You offer very good insights to help you viewers. Keep up the good work

I like how everything you said can be applied to everyone. Our social interactions and relationships with people really can change once our mindset changes and our actions changed everything.

Yes, mindset definitely affects who you attract and how you perceive your own emotions and well as the emotions of others. But being beautiful or conventionally attractive definitely helps, unfortunately it seems like communicating and coming off as mysterious is put at the forefront of romance nowadays. Putting in effort is seen as desperate or clingy, expressing emotions and affections as cringey, but being withdrawn is attractive? It’s strange.

“the responsibility of treating us well first & foremost lies with ourselves” sooo true,, that’s the main thing i think confident people understand and life by🙏🏾🙏🏾

This girl has understood the game!!👏👏👏

Lmao u guys are seriously over complicating it. The men on the show found her the prettiest - she looks like a K-pop idol and carries herself like a trust fund baby who doesn’t care too much about being on the show. She also didn’t give any one man 100% commitment and played hard to get, thus making her very desirable

I'm obsessed with this video 😍 Re-watching to let it sink in

i nodded at every sentence you say, thank u for this breakdown!!

i adore her so much she is the most charming girl ever. literally no one compared to her on the 2nd season. she just shines within ultimate confidence idol fr queen💕👸💅

I love your videos and I'm so glad I found your Chanel! Please continue making videos you're great at what you're doing 🥹🥹❤️

Those saying it's because "she's pretty" don't understand the power of her mindset; being so relax and confident and smooth will not only attract people but boost your trust in yourself and how you approach anything in life; it will help you focus on yourself and therefore you will know how to hone your beauty, inside out! She's not so pretty by not doing nothing, she takes good care of herself and the results follow! She wears colors that look great on her, make up that enhance her features and does her skin care seriously. Notice how she stands apart with all the other girls? She does things differently because it works for her! You're already born with what you have so work with it, improve anything you can and see how people will admire you. Complaining will not get you anywhere and you also will never stop comparing yourself with others because you're not paying attention to yourself as much as you can. This is the way to love yourself step 1.

I haven't watch Singles Inferno but Jia appeared on a few episodes of Korean reality show 'Friends' which was a spin off show with members of Season 2&3 of Heart Signal. What was interesting was, when she was introduced to S2 'alpha' Hyun Woo, she came off as desperate. She quietly showed interest but he wasn't having it. I think with these types they lose interest when men fawn over them and cling to those men who don't. Either way she's making her rounds on reality TV so take everything with a grain of salt.

More of these mindset videos please!! Thank you very much

Idk. I feel like being the “quiet, mysterious” girl only works if you’re skinny and pretty lol because I’ve experienced it as both a fat girl and a slimmer girl and the reactions to me are night and day. When I’m fat, I’m “weird” and “unapproachable” but when I’m skinny, I’m suddenly “cool” and “interesting”. I realized that both men and women reacted to me this way. Unfortunately, in dating, people are naturally attracted by looks first. Jia would never have problems finding a man, no matter her personality. Confidence isn’t easy to have if you have always hated yourself, and alot of people just fake confidence. But the best thing you can do to attract people is to be genuine and be unapologetically yourself.

This video was honestly so affirming bc everything you said is what i do and what ive noticed is the people im into are not fans of that… but maybe that means they really arent meant for me!

reminder that while jias traits r very attractive u should always stay true to yourself and not try to be someone else if u really cant be. im not a very mysterious person and i wont force myself to be

1. 0:47 Abundance mindset 2. 2:34 I don't chase, i attract. 3. 3:51 It's not your job to over explain yourself to coddle to someone’s feelings. 4. 5:24 Put yourself first.

"I don't chase, I attract." Literally my mindset exactly! I always put my own needs first instead of someone else's, because why would I? 🤨 what also works is when someone is trying to put you down you should just completely ignore them. Doing so could make them feel stupid or lose confidence which could instantly make them attracted to your own confidence. 🏃‍♂️

her beauty influenced that and boost the vibe as well its inevitable

There is really this abundance mindset in some aspects of life. Thank you.

I’ve just watched through all of your videos. This is perfect for me. Thank you! I wish I could afford the call. Unfortunately, I will have to wait for a while. However, you’d best believe that I will, when I have the money

I only recently realized that my love is actually a precious gift to other person. That I don't have to give my love to everyone by default to appear just polite. And that I won't be punished and excluded from society if I won't show love to everyone.

I only watched this video because I accidently clicked on it. Then was surprised to hear about abundance mindset and became intrigued! Excellent video ❤

Thank you!!! Your other video was gold

such a beautiful analysis thank you

First be pretty !! This is the most important step 😂😂

Yesss!! My idol and my favorite person ended up on this channelll 🤩🤩🤗🤗

This appeared in my recommendations at least three times and I just finally decided to watch it.

aye congratulations for 1k subs, also great video as always! keep it up!

This only works when you don't like the guys and they are physical attracted to you. If you want to use that game in dating it will work because majority of men love those "hard to get" games BUT if you want a genuine connection and something long-term DON'T

I have not seen the show but i enjoyed the breakdown because it works in different contexts too. Overall very useful context that can be a contribution to people's life. Well done.😊

this analysis is pretty great and entertaining :D

You are very right on this video. Both girls Jia & Seulki (the new cast on latest Single's Inferno) are the most popular among men in both seasons. They share the same mysterious traits and mindset. Has anyone ever wonder, what would happen if Seulki & Jia were cast on the same season ? 😁

she has all that confidence and mindset because she knows she’s beautiful physically

Thank you very much. That was very valuable. 💐💐💐💐💐

in my opinion she's not intentionally being mysterious she's just being careful so she doesn't give off the wrong image that people usually get from her..

I believe it has to do more on how good she fits the Korean beauty standard.

I like the introduction. I met my partner after changing from a mindset of lack to a mindset of abundance. It’s powerful.

If I have her look, I'd be confident as hell that I won't even need to talk at all to attract anyone. Let's be real. The thing that makes jia attractive is because SHE IS attractive. She looks even more attractive because her appearance is outstanding but her personality is okay, like she's not a pick me girl thing or annoying spoiled brat or sum. She didn't have to try to do anything because having an "okay" personality is enough to complete her perfect image. I'll give you an extreme example: Jang wonyoung She actually has the same look and aura. But her charisma was turned off for some people because of her attitude that kinda show her pick me girl side. That's why many people don't like her. But on the other side, there are a lot more people still like her cuz her look has always been a showstopper everywhere she goes. You'll see so many people actually have the same character with jia, but they'd still invisible because they aren't attractive enough to make people stare at them. That's how important your look is to attract people. And for some people out there, it's totally okay to be the opposite. I'm ugly but never did "overshare" to attract anyone. Sometimes we do that out of control, it's just a part of how we communicate on daily basis when we find a comfortable circle, so it's not even a bad thing as long as it didn't hurt anybody. And if some people didn't find it attractive, that's okay. We don't have to be attractive to live. Just do what comfortable for you. But this video still had a point and good advice tho.

Btw just wanted to say I recognized your voice instantly and love both your channels!!! :D Can't wait for more content!

Excellent video! Thank you

Love this video

Jia don’t care. That’s her mindset. Queen.

That's a great video about feminine energy, I also love watching Adrienne Everheart here on YT who teaches feminine energy mindset. I don't like dating coaches 'cause most of the time they teach bs but feminine energy kinda videos are very infromative.

i need more of this...somehow i just feel more confident...please try to post more...ik u r already working real hard 🥺

Such a great video❣️

For those who are saying : but then you have to be not ugly. I changed my mind set of this when Simone (shes amazing) said : there are no ugly people but their soul can be and get ugly. And stop with the "but I'm still ugly" "but others think I'm ungly" YOU ARE MAKING YOU THINK THAT And even if something says that to you like your friend or parents why listen to that. CAUSE THEY ARE NOT LIVING YOUR LIFE SO WHYYYYYYYYYYYYY DO THEY CARE AND WHY SHOULD THEY CARE ABOUT YOUR LOOKS. cause THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON TO CARE IS you. cause you are pretty and you should know that.