Oh i needed this so bad. I want to be more patient with my son. He's my world.

Just to humor myself I asked my 3.5 year old, “Hey Arden, what are you going to be doing in 20 years?” He said that he would be building a Christmas tree out of Legos... 🤣🤣🤣

I have some problems about yelling also and i' m scared to be a bad mother .

My daughter peed herself and I noticed she was scared to tell me about it and I got upset and I could just see her being conflicted mentally because she was scared and didn't know what to do first. I realized this may come from me yelling at times, which is rare but it happens. I found you after that and I love your videos.

Having fun with your kids and be a bit of a kid yourself? I feel like I am the only one I know with this attitude.

Preach it! I’m a Happily Married Mama of 5 kids (yes, they are all mine and all from the same man) and I love the part where you say to take care of yourself. My oldest is 9 and my youngest is 2. They grow crazy fast. Thanks for helping to put things in perspective.

Thank you so much! I’m a 14 year girl who has to take care of my 3 year old twin siblings due to my mother being gone for work

I love my baby girl so much I can't even explain it but I have had a problem with being patient with everyone around me my entire life. I hate thinking about how I am negatively affect her with my high expectations, she is only three and tries so hard as it is to do what is right. This information made so much sense to me and I'm very thankful I found it. I understand it's my problem not hers and I want to fix it to be the better father she deserves. Thank you so much, you don't know how much this helps me right now.

I have ADD and Asbergers Syndrome and almost every day I want to give up. My childhood was very violent and even at 50 (w a 6 and 9 year old, both daughters), I am just starting to figure out some of what parenting is all about. Your channel gives me hope, inspires me to be a better parent and helps me understand some challenges I face better. Thank you!

I gage myself against these parenting videos since my parents passed away early in my life and I'm doing really good! I feel so relieved. Thank you for these

Just found you yesterday and have been binge watching your channel. I just wanted to tell you that I’m so glad that I did find you!! Thank you for all your great work.

Needed and loved this video! I got home from work tired, needed to cook dinner and my 2 y.o. wanted all of my attention. Took a deep breath (watched this video) and realized there was no need to stress. Got on the floor and played with her and loved every minute. Dinner can wait. Work can wait. These are the precious years. Thank you ❤

Great tips! I especially like that quote, “people before problems and values before valuables”...I sometimes find myself taking care of the problem before the people when really the problem can wait and the people are most important.

I could listen to you the whole day...appreciate the way you present the ideas!....I'm trying to practice these tips at home..and it's getting better!!..thank u..

Thank you🎈🎈I will be a mother in about a month🌺and I learned a lot from you😁

I honestly started crying when you said picture that kid in 20 years. I don’t even know why. But full on sobbing 😭

"A Fresh Appriciate for the World Like Kids Do We Can Enjoy Life More No Matter What!" 😍🙏🏾

What a blessing this message and this channel. Thank you Dr. Paul!

You doctor ! How can you keep this smile 😃 on your face when talking about kids and how to raise them I’m very kids person. but is the hardest part ever is to raise our kids . Specially if I want to raise them better way (Modron way)I was raised

Thank you. I really need to be more patient now to my 9 year old daughter. She's growing up so rational and sometimes i'm annoyed to her as she felt she already knows how to do things in her own.

Wow!! The way you deliver this information is incredible

This is excellent. Wish I had watched it when my children were growing up. Now, I can see how others I love could benefit from it.

Thank you so much again, Paul! Truly inspiring stuff you're presenting here.

I'm so happy and glad I found your parenting videos.

Dr.paul you give me a positivity towards my kids I will leave everything now and will do my job of LOVING MY KIDS only 🤗🤗

O my goodness, thank you for sharing, I appreciate your wisdom & will apply it

I wish I found this video earlier :( but I’m glad I found your video today!! I always have not got patience for anything after watching this I have to remind myself I’m a Mum doing my job and to love her no matter what!

Lost it on my 5 year old today. Not my best moment. Feel terrible and apologized. Great advise. Tomorrow is another opportunity to be a great/better Dad.

I love your perspectives and advice 😁☺️😁

You’re excellent, thanks for the channel and great advice!

Thank you a lot for these messages! Us parents need this !!!!

Thank you for your teachings are amazing to put into practice.

I'm not a parent. I'm definitely not even of age to be a parent. I see a lot of hopeful parents in the comments saying how helpful you are so I wish you and them the best. This is actually really helpful because I'm starting to "tutor" (more like helping a friend's sibling) and I want to make sure I don't snap at her especially because she's so young. I don't want to discourage her if I lose my temper because I know that can have really negative effects and change their attitude on learning. so thank you so much for sharing this helpful advice!

Thank you! I needed to hear this! I’m a homeschooler and I was just having a meltdown! Thank you for your wonderful advice, I will be using it!!

Thank you so much

Thanks for sharing such a great content!

I needed to hear this thank you

Thankyou

Great stuff, especially as I work from home with all 5 kids in the house during this Coronavirus shut-down. I especially appreciate the "Take Care of Yourself" part. If I am doing my part to stay healthy and balanced, my kids seem to become a reflection of that. But when I'm cross, irritable, or short-tempered, it comes right back to me - especially from my 15 year old. 😡 I really want to implement these strategies and see the results. Thanks again!

we love all your videos and the way you speak

Great points, Dr paul! I also like to learn about human development and how all of our experiences shape our character...

Ahhh, tip 10 (Learn about child development). This is big, indeed. Every time I've asked Google, "What is the matter with my kid, and how do I fix it," the answer has been, "This is age appropriate behaviour. Deal with it, lady." Thank you for this, Dr. Jenkins, and for all you're doing to help us become better parents.

👏👏👏 My side of the family sometimes thinks I'm crazy or trying to wish away the present by keeping in perspective that my kids will leave someday. I love them being little. I'm going to miss them. I k no ow this but I want to be mentally healthy for my kids and that means, in part, to me that I don't get to keep them forever. My mother acted in the past hurt, betrayed and a bit toxic when me and my siblings became grown and started to move out and get married. I dont want to do that to my kids. I want to share their joy in every stage of their lives. Even the ones when I'll have to let go.

Love this

Thank you! Learned a lot from it.

Wonderful as always..

I really needed this!! Awesome stuff to help me to keep my cool... I always feel super worn out and tired and hopeless... This is great advice.

Thanks Dr, I'm a mother of 4 and 2 years old girls. I've been watching your videos for the last few days. I love the way you talk, in a such interesting way, everything sounds positive and possible. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us.

Amen to #3 and #2 Dr Paul. wow

Love your videos...so informative and inspiring! I have a beautiful and fun granddaughter who is almost 3. She is very strong willed and tries our nerves at times (terrible twos). Your advice is absolutely priceless...thank you Paul!!

Thanks a lot, it’s helping me alot😊

Iam so glad I found your channel..thank you

your channel is a literal lifeline

Hi. I am blessed by your contents as I have an 18mths girl. She drove us crazy with her screaming at times, hard times during meal times, tantrums...but since I found your channel, I found them to be very useful and I was able to learn and look at things at a different perspective. My wife and I are constantly learning and I am forever grateful to be able to find you. Greetings from Indonesia. Brian, Michaella and Zoe.

Maaan, you are amazing, you don't even know me and you are teaching me everything about a brand new world

I have anger issues but I love my baby girl and I’m a great father, very active and hands on. I have her half the time out the week bc we co parent now. But I’m up crying right now thinking about how I raise my voice at my daughter when she upsets me by either doing what I told her not to or just being plain bad. I hate how it makes me feel when I raise my voice and it hurts so bad. I don’t even use force with her but the way I feel makes it feel no different at times bc I care so much

excellent!!! esp #7

Thank you so much for providing us with your guidance and expertise to help us be better parents to our kids.

Omg watching in the morning so so helpful for my day! Thanks for being part of my daily routine now. It is so helpful these friendly reminders. I know kids will be kids - I gotta work on making sure I don't act like one when they do, right? I've reached out and am getting as much support as is in reach for our family. It's helping. I gotta maximize it to earn more. Literally. That will help though. Thank you for all your dedication here!

Thank God and then you cause now I understand however, it’s hard to communicate this info to my family cause they think I’m being over top. I try to explain to them but as parents we sometimes get upset if anyone makes a comment of how to parent.

🙏🙏👏😢i needed this ❤️

OMG, this is very helpful. Thanks much, doc. Thanks for sharing your expertise. Really helps a lot in my dealing with children. Grateful for you. God bless you more! 🙏😊💕

I’ve just watched this after my 16 month old having a tantrum then I myself getting in a rage. The video has calmed me down even though I already knew all of this stuff. However just being reminded of it has proven to be a good tonic. Cheers, liked and subscribed.

Oh l need to watch this video thaks

Thanks👍👌

My son has been edgy always.. But it's harder now he is older. Hence me looking for help. Thanks for these videos!!!! And yes when I'm drained with work and my kids that I'm taking care of.. he becomes more irritated...brilliant thank you :)

Thanks so much for inspiring us to be better parents ;-)

I can't take credit for the method. That goes to my grandmother to whom, made me respect her and her word. She wasn't big, she wasn't emotional. She was consistent and because she managed up to 6-8 grandchildren herself, she didn't have time for nonsense. She was very religious, even thought I wasn't and never turned out to be. As a parent, I don't care about your excuses about how you feel that day. I don't care if you're tired, exhausted, frustrated or have any mental deficiencies. If you don't handle your children properly as a toddler, child and before they grow up, many of the problems they develop can be attributed to your lack of parenting. Here just are a few of the things she did that are very effective in setting the tone and maintaining our attention: We did what she said. If we didn't, we wouldn't get anything or get to do anything we wanted and was the fastest way to punishment. Punishment was cleaning work in the house or the yard. "Yes, Ma'am", "No, Ma'am", "Please" and "Thank You" were just some of the basic required vocabulary. We she made the family a meal, we ate it. It didn't matter whether we liked it or not. Our choice was to eat the hot food she made for us. If we didn't eat it, we didn't have that meal. It wouldn't be there for you later. You'd learn this lesson quick because you'd really be hungry the next meal. Certain things earned us punishment. Certain things called for her to bend us over her lap and spank us. Her constant message was, "This is going to hurt me, more than it hurts you..." There was mainly myself who was with her most of the time in my formative years and many times other first cousins. We were all far from "Angels" but, we she had our respect at all times. We knew how we were supposed to conduct ourselves with her, other adults and to do what they say. No matter the path you take as adult, it's what you're ingrained with during your early formative years that can guide you to the right direction as you grow up. You're the boss. You set the rules. You have to be the playmate and friend. You also have to be the enforcer of those rules. You have to be willing to turn it on and off, like a switch. Do it as soon as they can understand you. No nonsense. If you don't, you're only making it hard for yourself. Children need to be kept in mental check. If you tell them to stop and they don't, you need to be willing to enforce your word immediately. It's training them to know that you'll be hot on their trail, if they don't follow your instructions. It's constant maintenance, but you'll achieve the results you want. In most cases, you'll never have deal with stereotypical problems most parents have. Most parents become lazy about parenting and this is a responsibility that can't afford that.

Im a daycare teacher, this is awesome

I'm not a kid person. I don't necessarily hate them but I like them from far away.

Wish I had access to this guys information while raising my kids,. It would have been more tools in my tool box.

I needed this because when my son was 2 and under I had so much more patience with him. Now I find myself getting irritated with him. The sad thing is I have more patience with other people children. I love my baby he's 4 now and I really need to do better.

Thank you for the video... do you have any book recommendations on child development?

My problem is I research and find great tips especially on your Channel, but I fall short on practiceing the lessons Ive learned.. Any tips? I love my daughter, And I just want to be the best mother I can be to set her up for an amazing future

Thank very much for the video! So how do I 'get to be more patient (with the kids)'?

I desperately wish I could consult with you. Taking care of myself is an area that I'm lacking but, as a mom of 6 children aged 1 through 14, I never have time to think of my well being. I ran across your videos because I was looking for help. I have had no patience lately and have found myself yelling at the children a lot which is completely out of character for me. I'm so stressed out and really need to find a way to get back in control of myself because I don't want to continue to hurt my children's feelings. I can see that I am every time I yell. How do I get my patience back? I'm just fried and I have no actual help with my children. Please give me some advice!

Your tips are amazing...sending you regards frm India

Take care of yourself People before problems--value before valueables Find the fun or find the funny Become a more patient person Build the memories Who is teaching whom? The child kid be teaching to us. Be more child like. You can stamp in the puddle. Love your kids in spite of whatever

I do #6 a thousand times a day. Every time a behavior reminds me of a person or experiences with that personality flaw it turns on the urge to point out the problem and fix it immediately. This is how my children have pointed out my own problems because I saw it in them! Go figure lol

I jump in puddles and my son looks at me like I"m extra weird. So what about a kid with behavior problems, how to stop yelling at them? I've taken him through so many programs and we did years of therapy. But he still somehow has learned to push all my buttons and I still wind up yelling. I yell way less then I used to but I still feel it's too much. I Want to stop yelling period but it's so difficult. My mom, grandma and so on were all yellers so it's been ingrained I guess. I want to break the habit.

Thanks for this video! Right now, I'm struggling a lot with my 2 and a half son because he is so jelous of his little sister. .. any suggestion?

Thanks for your teaching it really helping 🙏 please can you be breaking the English language for we that didn't understand phonics

I try to have a team working survival plan with our teens, but its not working out sometimes and i need to take lots of many more breaks!! 😅😅👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

Just watching this video and I'm gulity of not being patient with my toddler. Often times I try to teach him different things and when he doesn't gets it instead of me correcting him I yell at him and he cries. I hate that about myself and I really want to change that. He's now afraid of me😢😢

Can you explain people before problems and values before valuables. I like my house clean I feel joy and accomplished when the house is clean. I need help not being OCD.

My kids are badly in habit of thumb sucking.have done everything.plz help me out.

Thanx Dr. I stopped nagging the boys and instead just having fun with them. Its working for me.

Help! I get so angry when my 4 year old takes away everything his 1 year old sister has in her hands... every single time. What can I do?

I like your channel a lot and the content is really good quality. But I must at least try to make you change that intro/outro song. It s annoying to me and a bit inappropriate with the contents of your speeches. Please consider another one :) thanks in advance!

My 16 year old daughter was fighting with my 11 year old daughter while she was babysitting for me. 🤬😡 I can't restrain myself from screaming at them when I get home. What should I do?

I'm trying to teach my 7 year old baby sister how Math and English, I get frustrated when she doesn't remember the stuff I taught her previously. It's frustrating. I feel like I am not doing enough or maybe she is not listening and I'm scared she will not learn. At first I thought she was dyslexic but she isn't. I literally looked this up so I could yell less. I feel like a horrible sister

I'm asister I'm cool at usual but with my young sister she always drive me crazy by lieing or say unreal things she also soo lazy she did nothing just watching tiktok after eating she used to let everthing not at the right place and when mom says quietly it's wrong she says ok mom and with the second time she did this mess again I don't know how to treat with her she sees me like a monster

I try to be funny with my kids but somehow end up being sarcastic. I have a lot of stuff on my plate so its hard to be funny for me.

Please get a new mic it's blurry and spikes

I’m being so rude to my 3year old son and even beating him sometimes... can’t control my anger for even small situations. This making me a bad mother

I really don’t like how this guy talks to the audience.

He obviously doesn't have kids.

I have some problems about yelling also and i' m scared to be a bad mother .