I found this video while deep down into doubting my identity and it helped me realize (together with other videos) that I'm not trans ftm but rather nonbinary and that I don't feel male or female. I've identified myself as genderfluid for a year or more now but this seems to be the right label for now. Thank you :) Also I've seen some other videos of you now and congrats on your journey :) have a good day!

I can relate to that

So relatable

this, but for me it's reversed i think??

omfg you've put words to my situation ive never been able to explain. thx for that.

It's not stereotypes tho, right?

@@alasacab6784 Not sure what you mean by that. You'd have to say a bit more to avoid such confusion.

I do voice impressions and mostly do.male impressions even though im techniqually a girl it just feels right. I feel most comfortable writing male characters Ive always clung to fictional male characters

hey no problem, i’m glad i could be helpful in any way! ✨

@@isaaaac yeah thanks again! I hope ur channel gets some proper attention I'm gonna check out some more of your videos

You're a nice mom. My mom rejected me when I needed her the most, so pls take care of your child 💞🦋✨

@@dimavlvsk8696 thank you 💕 And I’m sorry you had that experience.

Maaaaaaan, try not to shove it down, try to open up a bit, I hope you find out.

I relate to everything you say

What concerns me about all these deliberations is why do you feel the need to label yourself as ANYTHING! Does it even matter where you fall on the gender spectrum. We are in an era where most of us are trying to get away from stereotyping & pigeonholing, yet for some reason that is precisely what you are trying to do. How does this in any way affect who you are? Do you NEED a label by which to define yourself? If so, then your issues go deeper than anything to do with gender & are more about self acceptance.

@@brendabrown1691 to me personally not having something to identify with causes me headaches. Idk why. Sometimes i even identify as a "possible transman" rather than no identity at all.

@@brendabrown1691 Bestie this comments was 9 months ago pls- I like labels, because I like to easily communicate myself I still don’t have an exact label, and tbh I’ve stopped caring as much, but I still would really like one! I do agree that sometimes people obsess over labels too much, and yes it is other issues causing that, but most of the time it doesn’t hurt anyone, and they grow out of it! It’s just pretty distressing to have labels be *super close* yk? Like currently I label as a Transmasc nonbinary rosboy, but that isn’t exactly completely accurate and it’s kinda a mouthful with 3 labels. However it fits good enough, so I’ve stopped searching for something better. Instead of looking I kinda just hope to stumble across it one day (if I ever do.) I am also unlabelled in my orientation, because I have no fucking clue how to describe it lol But I don’t think you should be so pressed about me wanting a label to describe my experiences lmao

@@ShilohBluecube I do relate to what you are saying because there was a time when I felt it was also important, not just about gender & sexuality but also religious beliefs, politics, mental health, lifestyle etc. I guess it is a good way to explore who we are but increasingly I am seeing more & more people using these labels to define WHO they are & impose limitations on themselves in order to conform to those boundaries. This saddens & worries me. I am happy to tell you that the biggest perk to getting older is you stop giving a damn about where you supposedly fit into anyone elses preconceptions & a good job too, just trying to explain my diet choices would take a good half hour let alone anything else lol. Most people don't get things that aren't relevant to them anyway. So I no longer bother or care, I have grown into who I am, whatever that may be & to hell with anything else 😘

my mom is very transphobic. but ever since i was a kid and could tell my mom i would have her buy me boy clothing and she never cared that much about it but when we would go take family pictures she wouldn't let me where like a suit or more boyish clothing. something that screamed trans when i was little is i would always see suits in Walmart for little boy and i would always want one but my mom wouldn't get me on. so now when i look back i realize i never saw myself as female. and i have always had my avatars in games as a male in fact i was making a new roblox account (cuz my other one got hacked) but anyways she made me make it a girl and i hated that so right away i went and got all the free things to make it look male. and the stomachache u feel when someone calls u she/her means you don't like it.

Trans guys can be feminine.

I am transgender and I want to become a woman my name is Julie

i understand you

@@omishasood2879 a big hug for you

Maybe you're an androgynous man?

if cis men can be feminine, so can trans men! just aim for whatever makes you feel comfortable and happy

I think if gender roles and stereotypes were never ever invented, probably not because gender wouldn’t be a concept. Transexual people might still exist I think, but I imagine it’d be treated in the same way as how IRL people might feel a different hair color suits them better. Just a general self expression thing. And additionally, much like you said, in that hypothetical world I guess it could just fall under body dysmorphia too if its just the Bad part of the feeling.