as a nonbinary agender person this is sooo real, i've been trying to explain to my cis friends whats nonbinary means and they just don't get it so i just go by telling ppl im a trans guy

Like Jamie said ones, "If your body disappears and you are just a floating head, are you still a woman?" My answer just wasn't "yes" Recently I found my old sona made in 2018, and I was pretty surprised to find out that it is indeed a dude, just like I realized I do feel right this year. For some ungodly cis reasons not only I made a dude sona to represent me, but I also knew nothing gender at the time, I just felt comfortable that way. My parents are transphobic, not in a hate trans people, but afraid of trans stuff kind of people... I tried to talk them preparing them for the findings but I think I only got myself further in trouble Seing a dude with distorted wrong looking body, while realising this body is well, pretty, is scary. I remember when I said that I might be bi mom gave me such a reaction as if I am terminally ill Well good news mom, I actually might be straight... Haha... Just not in the way you wanted...

As a trans guy named Elliot, I take offense to this video. In all seriousness tho, this is probably the best video I’ve ever seen. This is the most comforted I’ve ever felt in my identity and my transness. I’ve spent the past few days questioning if I’m actually trans or if I’m just faking it and this is literally the only this that has helped me to tell my brain to shut up so thank you.

I'm Sawyer (he/they) and I recently started exploring my gender identity by switching up pronouns and such. I'm genderfluid, and gosh golly I've gotta say this channel is SUCH a treat. You're pretty straight to the point, and your personality has such a familiar energy to it that's just so inviting and humorous. I just want to thank you for your hard work! Here's some bat facts for you because you're cool :) -Vampire bat saliva contains a powerful anticoagulant that is used in treating stroke patients -Less than 1% of bats carry the rabies virus, and they usually pass within the timeframe of 24 hours -The Townsend's Big-eared Bat and the Spotted Bat have large ears which curl against their heads like ram horns as they rest 😌❤️

Me: *gasps* Omg im trans! Also me, already knowing i was trans:

Dude your voice sounds so masculine. Not even in the sense that it’s deep (though it is quite deep), it just has this masculine vibe to it. Even before I saw your face and didn’t know you were trans, I immediately read you as a guy based on your voice.

this really helped with my gender identity and what i am, thanks dude

just quick reminder: being cis is NOT the same as being transphobic! yes alot of people who are cis are transphobic but i do know a few people who are cis but do support lgbtq , one of my friends actually does feel a bit of dysphoria but not enough to make her ctually question her gender! although i am transmasc myself i can imagine that some cis people would be pressured to go through gender questioning/dysphoria next, i'm pretty sure that being nb is not the same as being trans but it is under the trans umbrella! but still, this channel has helped me alot so thank you so much!!

so THIS is the video i’ve needed for months. Thanks for being so straightforward and not complicating things, i have ADHD and do that enough in my head already. This gave me such a confidence boost in that i’m nonbinary.

Hey. I never comment on videos but I just wanted to say your videos have been rather encouraging. I have been on testosterone for one month now and seeing your videos has been exceedingly helpful. I’ve been trying to avoid or run from being transgender by continuously attempting to live as female and failing. I namely attempt to hide the fact that I do not identify as female from others. It’s oddly comforting not to feel alone.

Gender is hard 🧍

I was out as a trans boy for almost five years, but lots of questioning myself again, I realized i am non-binary, and I feel lot more comfortable with the term. I came out to my closest friends last week and they were all so cool about it, they asked what pronouns I would like to use, if I was gonna change my name (again!), and was just overall happy about it. Anyway, I still have to came out to my family again, which is not that big of a thing since I won't change anything. Evan is already a somewhat unissex name, and I've been using it since 2018, and I like being called he/him

as someone who selected Kat as my main name and Void as an alternative name, i am very proud that i am primarily named after a candy bar

i am not okay 😅 BUT THANK YOU FOR ANSWERING MY QUESTIONS

Ngl I low-key cried. Bc I'm about to go out in a skirt and people are going to assume I'm a girl but I'm not I just want to wear a skirt today. (I go by they/he pronouns) and my friends think it's fine to call me a girl when I'm a dressed more fem.

It’s so weird looking back at ‘old’ videos (and they’re not even that old) and seeing you excited at almost reaching 800 subscribers. Congrats on 5k man, excited to see what you do going forward!

hey, I love ur videos and I know I missed the due date but heres some questions if u consider a part 2/have the answers. context: im a trans guy, ive been out for about 2(ish) years and im trying to go stealth in a new school (I dont even know if there are any good answers to these but whatever) - I have this deep fear of detransitioning that made it very hard to come out and still kinda haunts me today (my parents always used detransitioning against me) does this mean anything? / is there anything you know of that could help? - what are some good ways of trying to get parents to say yes to medical transition? - any tips about dealing with internalised transphobia? sorry for dumping this here, dont feel obliged to reply :)

your hair looks really good dude!

throwing this out there for ari but i had top surgery at 15 in oklehoma after being on t for a year so its not imposible but if you are turning 18 soon it might not matter anyway @_@

Am I imagining it because you mentioned starting T, or is your voice already a teeny bit deeper?

I’m an anxious person and question myself a lot so vids like that are always nice :)

this is totally true, the thing is i´m so scared i just manipulated myself to think I dont feel like my assigned gender at birthnasdfjpa

i liked the colour blue

I'm afab and since I discovered what non binary is (a couple years ago) I've identified with it, but when i took the courage to tell two of my friends (both are cis) it was awful bc they barely understood anything so I've continued to tell ppl I'm a woman and idk if I'll ever tell anyone else in real life honestly, I just feel comfortable telling ppl I use any pronouns. It's really nice to find other ppl who comprehend how I feel (Sorry if grammar is bad or repetitive, English is not my first language and I'm not the best at describing my feelings)

Great video!! This is a great resource for people who aren't sure about their identity 😊 I will definitely be recommending this to my friends if they ever start questioning, thanks for the vid 👍

it’s like when i use other pronouns i feel like im pretending to be someone else, but i wish i looked like pretty girls, but also attractive guys, it’s like BRUH i’m so confusedddd

im lucky to have been born with a gender neutral name (bailey) but it has such a feminine connotation to me now. i've been tossing around the name "oliver" and it's kinda growing on me,, i be a chaotic enby babeyyyyy (currently looking into a getting a hysterectomy :] ) edit: callin me out as a future "oliver" i see

thank you so much for making this video, i've been so damn confused for 6 years now and this is the most informational and clarifying content that is actually helpful that i have ever received, so thank you so much for being so clear and concise and helping me realise who i am

I REALLY love this video, seeing it a long time after you posted, but I really appreciate the humor in your attitude and very straight forward approach. This video was very helpful, and affirming, as I am identifying as gender fluid, and sometimes feel like a trans man. The part about being Trans masc and still wearing femme clothes sometimes reallllllly helped ❤

i’m so confused with everything.

It's been a while since I realised im nb, but its still so hard to consider myself trans. It makes sense, since i dont identify with the gender i was assigned at birth but being "trans" carries so much weight that it almost feels... intimidating? Or maybe it's just scary to come out completely

LMAO when you said having convos abt gender w/ cis ppl is way too true, ive tried explaining to my dad (a 50 yr old cishet man) that im transmasc nonbinary (demiboy to be specific) & i can practically see his head explode every time i have convos w/ him abt that or that there are many other gender identities 😭

I didn’t see this until after it was posted so sorry that it’s late and you don’t have to answer, but is it weird that I don’t think I would be happy if I was born male? I’m transmasc (he/they) but I don’t think I would be happy with myself if I was born a dude. It’s been something I’ve been struggling with for a while and it makes me feel “less trans” or like I’m faking it. Thanks!

I’m genderfluid and when I switch to my assigned gender at birth I sometimes doubt that I am non-binary but even when I am feeling fem I still prefer my chosen name.

Unironically going inside my "Authentic" trans shirt to get warmth, like an egg. I believe I'm nonbinary, I don't really agree with feminine beauty standards, they are just unrealistic. However, I still like to dabble with makeup a little bit, as an AFAB, and who is horrible at keeping my hand steady due to being heavily medicated. It's all good though. By the way, great video! I hope to see more!

thanks for this video... it was nothing new for me but it was still helpful and just comfy... I'm very confused about my gender currently and it's a bit scary, but yeah... Just nice to hear people talk about this topics...

hey Just found your channel today and just wanted to say thanks! ^^ this video was extremely helpful and I'll definitely continue to watch your videos! I'm always scared that I'm not actually trans and one day i'll realize it was just a phase, even though I know it isn't one. as a kid I was super feminine and loved being girly, which I know doesn't mean anything but it still makes me question it sometimes. i remember the first time I felt like I might be trans was when I was 12 and I was playing around with my friend and putting my hair up to pretend to be a guy. i looked in the mirror and started crying even though I wasn't sure why. I immediately decided I wanted to cut my hair. after cutting it I looked into the mirror and cried. it was the first time in my 12 years of living that I saw ME. the first time I felt pretty. it was just correct. now I'm 14 and identify as transmasculine. my family isn't supportive but I have people in my life who are and I'm super grateful for it. in case anyone else who feels the same way as me is reading this, YOU ARE VALID. feeling this way is normal. it's okay to have doubts and be scared. you don't need to know who you are right now. just live in the moment and figure things out as you go. :) also one question that messed with me a bit (in a good way I think) was "if you were born the gender opposite to your assigned gender at birth, would you identify with that gender" or alternatively "if you were born the gender opposite to your assigned gender at birth, would you still be trans/non-binary"

I’m an old cis woman. I’m here trying to UNDERSTAND how non-binary and trans fit for one person. I haven’t finished your video yet; but, I did get my first 💡 moment. I need to go back & watch again. I think the problem is we tend to still think with the binary model. We can stick a trans person back into the binary. Maybe we can stretch to accept folks floating in the middle. It’s difficult to see them added to trans because they’ve been tossed back into the binary. Huge 💡 my grandson & I LOVE Jules Hoffman (one of Ms Rachel’s friends). I was frustrated & confused because I couldn’t fit them in the binary. Oh, ok, they’re non-binary… then I read they’re trans. More intense confusion & frustration because now I couldn’t figure out which end of the binary they belonged in as a trans person. Initially my feathers were ruffled a bit when you were telling non-binary trans people not to try to combine the two with cis people. Then I realized it’s more important to protect the sanity & avoid mental abuse from ignorant cis folks. Thank you for opening yourself to the abuse. You helped at least one old cis woman get it. Off to try to help an even older cis woman understand this.

I don't know you, but I love your hoodie. You're now officially my favorite person in the universe.

I absolutely love your vids, really helpful and informative

I constantly get people asking what I was born as is and I alway hesitated when i had to tell them I was a women, it never felt right

I randomly found this video and I just wanted to say that this really enlightened me. Thank you

love the hoodie 🖤

God I really needed that “it doesn’t matter as much as you think it does”

I have never felt so seen. Thank you

Omg thank you so very much for this video! I have been gender dysphoria since last year in late October figuring out if I'm Nonbinary or a Trans guy, and about a month ago I identify myself as Trans-Nonbinary then after watching your video this really helped alot and I'm comfortable with Any Pronouns. I am so happy and proud to identify myself as Trans-Nonbinary💜

!hey, i have a question regarding name changing, might go on a little rant here sorry. My dead name holds a very special place in my heart both bc it's considered unique where I live and bc it's roots are from my mom's culture so.. needless to say i am quite attached to it even though it makes me uncomfortable, I've thought about changing it to the "masculine" version of it but my insecurities tell me that is not what a "real" trans person would do, and i feel like people close to me won't take me seriously if i do + i don't want them assuming all trans people are like me. Any tips in how to deal w this? lmao, great video tho!

Does anyone else want to be a guy until you see a women you want to look like, you want to marry your crush but you are just fwb, you realize that some might see you as superior

hi um I've been questioning my gender for a long time now but I'm still confused tbh,, i experience dysphoria but its "level" depends on periods of time?? like I sometimes feel dysphoric for days or weeks or even months and then I spend some days where I barely feel dysphoric at all so I don't mind people perceiving me as female (or at least until I stop to think about it) so I'm not sure if that means I'm probably gender fluid or if I'm just a guy. okay that sounds unclear lmao what I'm asking is if trans men's amount of dysphoria varies or if that's a gender fluid thing, bc according to most gender fluid ppl I've seen their gender changes some times on a same day but that doesn't really seem like my case yk also sorry for ranting and thank you for this video it helps a lot :]

Ur vids are great, bro! As a person questioning their gender the affirmations from you made me feel more valid in how i feel :) I would totally send u a pic of me to be named! Will be monitoring community tab for it :b I also have a question about names: how easy it is to get used to a new name? I have pretty shaky memory and i think if i called myself something far from my deadname phonetically i could just not end up responding to it ':v Also, i live in a place where people are not so open to the idea of being trans (im not even in europe dude) so im terribly afraid of telling my close friends to use he/they 4 me (also they sounds weird in my native language, we use he and she pronouns even for inanimate objects so its hard to be they here). I've told my partner but he is also forgetful and im too scared of making him uncomfortable. Are there ways to subtly nudge them into using he for me? Like, i'm already using he for myself constantly but they mostly brush it off or, in case of my female friends (who know so so little about trans issues, mostly from my explainations), they just think of it as a quirk and use he for themselves in a jokey way sometimes (cis ppl are weird). Ig i don't have any other way apart from bluntly asking, have i?

I'm sure your content is geared toward people around your age/younger than you, but I just wanted to say... I'm 33 years old and this video really helped me a lot. Thank you!

This helped me a lot to find out who I am Thank you so much Theo!

thank you because I feel like I’m not trans because my dysphoria isn’t bad

what if i identify as a agender transmasc and want go on t because of my voice but also want to keep the more " feminine" parts of my body, am i still valid or is it wrong? also your channel has helped me a lot along my journey while coming out and i just want to say thank you.

Omg i love this person! validating ppl who dont medically transition! Making it clear that dysphoria & euphoria are irrelevant! ;] i personally have dysphoria & might transition medicaly but even if i didnt **I'd still not be cis because i dont identify as my AGAB** I feel like ppl forget that so thank u :]

As a (still rather confused) transmasc enby, my cis-people gender is male lol Something that helped me! How do you relate with people who are the same gender as your agab? I have noticed a certain feeling, or maybe an “essence” that is different between men and women. If you feel something like that, is your “essence” the same? (there’s also some nonbinary ones but they differ a bit more) … im wheezing rn bc in that list of “names to avoid as a transmasc (/lh)” is the name of the first trans character i ever made…. his name used to be alex and he was nonbinary, but he eventually turned into a trans man……. named _Oliver._

First, I want to mention how cool your hoodie is! I love emo music abd I used to have a shirt that said "Make America Emo Again". Secondly, I just subscribed. Thirdly, I want to mention some common childhood signs (NOT REQUIREMENTS) for being transmasc. When doing pretend play (something I did a lot) I would almost always be a man. I hated my assigned name at birth and never felt like I connected with it. I would only wear boys clothes (even down to the underwear) for a long time. I felt so upset and fought when my parents started making me wear feminine bathing suits and not just swim trunks. I tended to like boys toys and games, and I couldn't stand dolls. I didn't mind TV shows that might have been borderline/somewhat girly, but I couldn't stand overly girly ones like Hannah Montana. Now if course, someone could be transmasc and not relate to these things, but many transmasc people do.

i'd just like to mention that transneutral is a term that exists so anyone who is agender can use it!!

Thank you for this video it's so amazing to know I fit for sure I always thought non Binary and transgender were so different. I didn't get surgery but am socially trans at times you have really helped me and I can talk to my partner. I realized I was non binary and it really helped me made me relax the more I could dress feminine and masculine I was feeling so relaxed and weight off shoulders Loved your video

So I’m very late (such is the way of hot people 😪) but I was wondering if you were still going to make that video where you get people to dm you pictures of their faces and assign them names? It seems like a fun video concept and I would 100/10 watch but if not that’s okay too! Thank you and thank you for this video :D

Hi I have a question can you be trans and non-binary at the same time? Sometimes I feel like I'm the opposite gender and sometimes I feel like I'm not any gender

I tried to come out to my mother as trans masc (not sure if am trans man) but she said something along the lines ”oh but you were girly when you were a little child, so i dont think you are trans” (im still a child, 13, so i think you could say that i was trans from very young age, dont know?) But my mother saying that kinda hurt, and now i am really scared to try and come out to anyone help. (But my friend who is also trans, i think (or demiboy)) Sorry for my bad english.

I am afab and was oddly given one of the names you listed at birth. I’m personally not complaining as I currently identify as transgender ( questioning ). I honestly adore your videos Admittedly, this is my first yet, a wonderful experience nonetheless. You are just so helpful and kind, I cannot thank you enough for the help you have offered to each and every one of your viewers. I understand that I am quite late to this situation though, if you happen to still be checking the comments, I do have a few questions. Even if you do stumble upon this comment, it is quite alright if you do not wish to respond as I am familiar with the burnt-out feeling that often comes with online and physical engagement with others. 1. I remember first questioning, clicking through videos during what I believe to be pride month. It was when I first came to terms with my asexuality and wished to laugh a bit, I watched some pride videos filled with memes and tips for those in the community. That was when the video had cut to some text which read “ a good way to know if you are trans is if you were offered a button to be the opposite sex. Everyone would recognize you as this gender and would remember you as though you had always been this gender. You would only get this opportunity once and not be able to reverse it, would you press it? “ I know it sounds foolish and perhaps even childish, however, it has caused a lot of thought to spur. I had instantly though that I would then, caught myself, realizing what had just taken place in my mind. As time went on, I began to think about physically transitioning. I would like to be seen and addressed as male, to have a deep voice and flat chest but, I don’t think I would actually be able to do it. I am quite honestly horrible when it comes to change and, even if it’s good for me, something I want, I don’t handle it well. Even HRT sounds a bit frightening in my opinion. I know I have to be mature and face these troubling situations though, I can’t help but fear the possibility of side effects, the knowing that things will change. I’ve been wishing to start binding for some time know but, I happen to be in not the best situation to do as such. I simply wish to know if you have any tips to assist me with this. Weather it be on how to confront this properly or any alternatives that may get me to some temporary solution that I may use for the time being. 2. You see, I am not necessarily dysphoric. I know how I wish to be perceived and do get euphoria. The levels of euphoria I receive varies from time to time, regardless of the encounter. I sort of feel invalidated by it. I mean- I know what I want, I just can’t help but second guess myself. I have considered voice training though, have had very little time to commit to it as I am quite busy and have little time alone. My desire to know and understand everything about myself and the human mind is quite contradictory as what I do not know for certain causes me more troubles. This has lead to me genuinely fearing being incorrect about my pronouns and gender. I will often panic when asked my pronouns. I know what they are and am confident however, when needing to be public about it, everything goes south. I don’t necessarily know how to cope with this as I worry that people may begin to believe that I am in fact transphobic by my lacking response to people wishing to know my pronouns.

One way to approach the question of whether or not you're trans, you could word it as "Can I see myself as my AGAB?" basically pretend that you never heard anything about gender, or queerness, and can you see yourself now in your AGAB position. If the answer is no, CONGRATURLATIONS, ITS A TRANS PERSON! YAYYYY

I go by Alex, but its short for Alexander and I go by zane or zander, commonly so I think the names *not to go by* depends on if its as a nickname or something.. (just my opinion) also I love your vids!!

my dad says im not trans because i used to love dresses and girly stuff as a kid???? what he doesnt know is i also liked boy stuff but he wouldnt let me lmaoaoaoaoa

Thank you so much!

is there a time where it is too late to use hormone blockers/go on T? i‘m 18 and i am still very confused about my gender. also my Family is homophobic/transphobic so i couldnt even start anytime soon.

in relation to explaining gender to cis people-- the other day my friend was asking about genders (we had been descussing it in health) and how you "know" if you're trans... and i have like no idea how to answer that- like it's basically not feeling comfortable with your body or prounouns or how people see you. (i use they/she or they/them -- im not sure yet -- but im not out) and i dont know how to explain this without her being like "hmmmmmmmmm- that's a bit sus". anyway this isn't a problem this is just my experience and i thought it was kinda funny :D

I am out to some of my friends and even though some of them don’t understand that I am agender, at least we are all able to talk in good faith.

So im 19 and I’ve been dealing with gender confusion for years and at this point, I feel like I’m just (not meaning to be offensive here) a cripple. I hate my chest and my feminine looking arms. Every time I look in the mirror, I see my face as a man and even my long hair as masculine, I just don’t know how to pass without cutting it. Maybe it’s my curves that make people call me ma’am or maybe im just in denial about my face being masculine enough idk. Im just waiting for some type of dysphoria to go away, thinking maybe itll brush over some day and i can just be a confident cis woman

So like I'm a transmasc and know that many trans people experience dysphoria (top bottom any) but I like don't really feel dysphorick?? (I can't spell) I don't like my chest and I want to bind. I just want to know if it's normal

I feel like the way you put it in the beginning finally made it click for me that I don't think I am trans. Fully explaining that all it means is that you either check a box or you don't really put it in perspective for me in a way that nothing else ever has. I feel like I'm comfortable not checking that box while still presenting somewhat masculine or androgynous sometimes. So anyways you lied, some silly youtube video can tell me my gender woah thanks

16:38 Yeah lol those are common. I also know a Tom and Keith and another guy who has a pretty nice unique name

my mother keeps telling me that is just a phase... and that when i was younger i was feminine so im a cis woman(she also tells me that my name is beautiful and i should not change it) . i don't have any support from anyone and I have no one to talk about this. And i'm portuguese, here every single fricking word has gender, so im ALWAYS being misgendered.

Heylo I'd like to ask you a question.. Just wondering if you have a good way to tell people about a new name I feel like it's really complicated and confusing for most people Also I feel like if I tell close friends (who don't really understand Non binary and trans tho the still support it) they wouldn't use my name cause it would be 'to confusing' for them since I've known them for a long time? sorry for such a long question Also I love your vids they're really helpful as a trans masc person :) (If anyone else has an answer pls share it :)

For me: NB doesn't feel like it's specific enough, and TM feels too much? And I'd say Transmasc but that only applies to my physical body, presentation (clothes, etc) is more femme (bc F society, I'm still gonna wear skirts), and I still use she/her bc it doesnt bother me. I really like genderqueer, but not sure how to explain that. 🤔

Hey, I have a little question for you... I am 20, my assigned gender is female and recently I startet gender questioning myself after I settled down on my sexuality. I feel like I could be non-binary but would still be presenting in a more feminine way. So the question is: can I also be trans-feminine, if I am a female at birth? I know this video is already a year old, but it would be so great if someone could answer this for me! Also great video, but I think it is not as easy as you say figuring out, if you really assign to your birth gender. Also am I cis if I am making that statement? Greetings, Lena❤

I see your videos all the time so I just followed you I love your videos

regarding the names: I've got pretty attached to Rainbow, since people on discord were using it as nickname. So now I'll try to get the name Rainbow in a Country that's not English speaking lol

I have no gender ,only social anxiety.

Actually Theybies are kind of assigned non binary at birth so does that mean if they later identify as non binary or specifically agender, they are actually cisgender? 🤔 just a funny thought ahah

So I have a question. So im trans but I still sometimes like to wear makeup and the occasional skirt, does this mean I'm not really trans? Bc my parents say it does and idk. I've been questioning myself like maybe I'm not really trans? But like I feel most comfortable when people refer to me as a boy and like I have terrible chest dysphoria. Idk I'm so confused at this point. If u have any advice or something id love to hear it. Also love ur videos!

ok well now I'm more sure thank you really for that Video :3

woah the voice change-

What if I'm nonbinary but use all pronouns but I was originally a girl?

i feel like Melanie martinize i just rescorected and realizing i’m non binary

Ok, so you are aware about the fact that hormones are somehow important in some way. I'm wanting to ask you the following thing: Don't you realize that, the way you are feeling and thinking is deeply influenced by your biology and body? So why would you want to change the nature of that body that has a deep influence on your way of being? Taking testosterone seems screwing up your way of being because you will not be the same, right? Taking T. Is just an ideological choice but this has real transformation on your character, no doubt.

17:23 Not my new name being semi-inspired by Lucius Malfoy 🤣 Literally no one has questioned it.

''u cant be nonbinary at birth'' *intersex people existing*- ''am i a joke to u?'' XDDDD

Hii, if anyone could help me it'd be very appreciated! Every few months I have a freakout over my gender. I was born female but I have very high testosterone levels, I like the way my body looks, curves and breast but I genuinely believe that I would truly love myself if I had a deep masculine voice, and I always think about have facial hair! Always! But I wouldn't want to have surgeries. Having a hairy chest and deep voice whilst keeping my body feels like a dream. I always convince myself that I'm lying to myself and going crazy which ends in me crying and breaking down as I can't talk to ANYONE about this, my mom won't understand! If anyone can help me figure out what I'm feeling or anything please help!

I'm commenting kinda late but I've got a super weird chosen name, Mess. Got it from my favorite vocalist's name, Jon Mess. And I'm shocked at how many people are just.. cool with it?? I've barely gotten any weird comments about it

this is quite a weird question but if you’re intersex and you identify as genderfluid are you still technically transgender? this doesn’t apply to me but i’m just curious.

I have this conflicting thing that I am probably non binary and that obviously makes me trans but I don’t identify as trans, because I still identify as a part of who I am or was. I don’t know if this makes sense but I feel that I don’t want to change who I was at birth but also I don’t want to stay the complete same, it’s like I’m half trans

Hey quick question ik this video is a year old and no one will probably see this but I was wondering if you can be both trans FTM and Non-binary? Im aware other labels exist but im not educated enough on them D: none seem to fit how I feel and I feel like my identity isn't valid :/ I want to be a boy I've always leaned more towards "boy-ish" things and trying things like trying axe body spay and wearing mens clothing and being mistaken for a boy when I was younger. (Still wearing mens clothing and using he/him and prefer being called a boy) I identity as a boy but the problem is on the inside I feel nor male or female the lables Trans Non-binary make me happy and they feel right but I don't like the term transmasc used for me. Is it possible to both identity as trans FTM and Non-binary at the exact time or am I just crazy?

i’m in a binder and still in denial

Hello, I hope for your answer. I classify myself as a trans woman and this was based on my internal feeling, but sometimes I get a strange feeling (noting this feeling, I added an explanation of my own, perhaps because the people around me were bullying me and saying, “You will never become a woman because you are a man”), when I hear someone... He says, “Man.” I feel a strange intuition and it always bothers me by emphasizing it inside me. “And I always get annoyed by it,” and when I hear someone say “woman,” I get a feeling of mismatch, but in reality, I get annoyed with my body because it is a man and I want it to become a woman. + I feel disturbed by this feeling, I want to be a woman, but I have this strange, annoying feeling. Please answer , I don’t want to be a man or non binary because I ‘am a woman😢 , it’s hard to explain

16:42 Called out. My name is Kai 🤣

2 weeks on TEA☕☕

Thank you for this! This video has helped me feel like I can identify as Non-Binary!