How to be the happiest person you know with Ali Abdaal

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How to be the happiest person you know with Ali Abdaal

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Жыл бұрын

I hope you enjoyed this conversation between ‪@aliabdaal‬ & I!
Check out Ali's main channel here: / aliabdaal
Check out our podcast episode here: • How To Find Tranquilit...
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Chapters:
00:15 - Why do you wake up happy in the morning?
00:56 - Changing the way you approach work
02:33 - The 3 Ps - Power, Play & People
02:40 - Power
07:55 - How to know when to quit
09:19 - Play
13:52 - People
12:58 - How to talk to people and make friends
18:10 - The fear of rejection
19:58 - Confidence: Fake it till you make it
21:48 - Why we struggle with confidence
25:19 - Are some people naturals?
27:28 - Being ok with embarrassment
30:19 - Routines
30:54 - Journaling (check out my class ;))
31:13 - Life contentment
32:58 - Fast forwarding parts of life
36:59 - Are you hoppy?
39:15 - Book recommendations
42:30 - Questions
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@aliabdaal Жыл бұрын

thanks so much for coming over and hanging out Lana :) Had a lovely time + I've been thinking a lot about Ro and applying that to my life xx

@aurora-cc6hk Жыл бұрын

my 2 favorite youTubers in one room yas

@gradientO Жыл бұрын

Nice Collab! I like your point in 17:10

@thehoodieguy1341 Жыл бұрын

owh I'll be happy when I get that fastest TYPING SHENANIGANS on the keyboard BPM KPH MPH

@miimane4398 Жыл бұрын

you 2 in 1 video go easy on me hhhhh

@assaad_4572 Жыл бұрын

Good stuff.

@hanbutchi Жыл бұрын

I like these: 1. Everyone is friendly. But u need to go first 2. There is no difference between fake confidence and real confidence

@vivekshri Жыл бұрын

This looks like 2 youngsters crushing over each other, impressed by each other and they both are blushing. Good one guys.

@RealJamieBarclay Жыл бұрын

Ali is just so excited to explain everything I can see him bursting to say his answer while she's asking questions haha.

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

Yes! I really appreciate how engaged he is with every question and how excited he is to share.

@multiverseentertainment4583 Жыл бұрын

@@LanaBlakely i love u ♥️

@faisalsultan5915 Жыл бұрын

@@multiverseentertainment4583 what

@openhearts.raymond Жыл бұрын

When two beautiful souls with high awareness level come together, such a great lovely conversation.

@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын

I totally agree wih you. I am so happy to watch this video

@NateOBrien Жыл бұрын

Great collab! Excited to listen to this one

@multiverseentertainment4583 Жыл бұрын

you are the male version of her😂😂😂😂😂😂

@yuliyasakai Жыл бұрын

@@multiverseentertainment4583 do you know this because you live in a multiverse?

@joy1818wilcox Жыл бұрын

Can you collab with her next? 🙂

@millennialmind9507 Жыл бұрын

And I am your subscriber as well, all 3 of you 😅🤣, it came a full circle

@multiverseentertainment4583 Жыл бұрын

@@yuliyasakai hi wanna collaborate and make some money?

@coffeetea8577 Жыл бұрын

This is the personal development crossover I never expected but really needed 😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️

@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you, my friend. They are really excellent

@muhammadsaadmansoor7777 Жыл бұрын

yah They are both Batman

@krisd_b Жыл бұрын

They seem like they really adore each other. Lots of smiling going on here. 😊

@KhondokarMahfuzurRahman11 Жыл бұрын

Yeah

@EdwardBloom89 Жыл бұрын

Agree 😊

@mkleng 10 ай бұрын

They should get a room.

@hlo702 9 ай бұрын

@@mkleng lol

@johnle7705 Жыл бұрын

I love how attentive and thoughtful she was. Love to have a friend like her!

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

:)))

@mkleng 10 ай бұрын

With benefits or not?

@aadharthinkfreeacademy Жыл бұрын

Two extremely introspective people who have taken the time over the course of their lives to reflect & formulate thoughts that feel organic. Brilliant discussion.

@Psych2go Жыл бұрын

Amazing collaboration!

@Sayan_Biswas. Жыл бұрын

Wow... You should also collabarate

@rafidrahman8677 Жыл бұрын

Two of my favourite KZfaqrs together. Couldn’t be happier

@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын

Me too 🤗🤗

@mist.3269 Жыл бұрын

First thing that came on mind too

@kaitlynlau8395 Жыл бұрын

ME TOOOOOO!

@c_h_e Жыл бұрын

Lol, they got chemistry and they can't hide it. Attraction is real. 😁😍

@mea3336 Жыл бұрын

The two most soothing voices of reason on the internet

@theycallmedoc4190 Жыл бұрын

Ali is a breath of fresh air and Lana is a sunshine herself. Thank you for the colab

@kaustubhtarankanthiwar2543 Жыл бұрын

Damn she’s so beautiful in so many different ways ❤

@bubblebath2892 Жыл бұрын

God I am astounded by the level of questions and answers that are going in here ....simply awesome

@oliviaclairexo Жыл бұрын

lana seriously gives us all the best advice on how to improve our lives and she's so wise and awesome

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

thank you for being here xx

@jam20230 Жыл бұрын

Lana you are so graceful ! You are the friend everyone needs

@happychemist Жыл бұрын

Lana, I admire how you could make such a good questions. Seems like it's so pure and I can relate about it.

@christianlaparidis5550 Жыл бұрын

You can tell Ali is just infatuated by Lana's beauty

@maral.9997 Жыл бұрын

Loved this conversation, thank you for this amazing collaboration. Ali‘s book recommendations: Happiness: Happiness by Derren Brown The happiness advantage 10% happier Man‘s search for meaning by Viktor Frankl The good life by William Irvine Social skills: Super human social skills The charisma myth Charisma on command How to win friends and influence people Let me know if I forgot to mention a book. Thanks :)

@jessechang8880 Жыл бұрын

thx a lot

@MA-nq9gl Жыл бұрын

Such a thoughtful gesture! Thank you

@SSimon Жыл бұрын

I love when you try new stuff and getting out of your comfort zone. Respect!

@Futurepointmusic Жыл бұрын

I absolutely loved this! Ali shared so many interesting ideas and perspectives and Lana is such an amazing listener. Her questions were also really intriguing and lead the conversation to some really thought provoking insights!

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

glad to hear that :):)

@janforan Жыл бұрын

What a duo! thanks for spreading the knowledge and love guys

@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын

🥰🥰❤❤

@patris2253 Жыл бұрын

I just want to be honest here i literally can't take my eyes from lana cuteness . She is very cute 😍🤩

@chiyahoskere Жыл бұрын

😭TWO OF MY FAVOURITE PEOPLE COLLABING😭

@adammark4409 Жыл бұрын

I don’t normally comment, but this was honestly was refreshing to listen to and an absolute joy. Love the informal/playful/happy/ optimistic chat.

@DalyHamila Жыл бұрын

This is a collab i never thought i needed, love it!

@frenchfriez1027 Жыл бұрын

No way! A collab with my favorite youtubers! The productivity king and the swedish queen

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

hahh glad you enjoyed it!

@ninanegedu Жыл бұрын

The collab I didn’t know I needed. So excited for this one❤️

@Jelly-sk2ry Жыл бұрын

OH MY GOD!!! THIS CROSSOVER! YEESSSS

@Dinomite1 Жыл бұрын

I love it how Ali wore MKBHD hoodie and Marques uses Ali's palette art as his phone wallpaper ♡

@DoctorAzmain Жыл бұрын

Wow I've been waiting for this Collab for SO LONG! Two of my absolute favourite creators

@chrisjfox8715 Жыл бұрын

TRIPLE collab! That's an MKBHD hoodie he's wearing haha

@naomimohamed2231 Жыл бұрын

Honestly ali is one of those ppl that casually gives a life changing advices without realizing, love him❤️

@Akta Жыл бұрын

This is the collab I’ve been waiting for 🙌🏼 so amazing to see you both on screen together 😍

@tempbamboo8548 Жыл бұрын

I do notice, pursuing happiness usually lead to unhappy result. although I agree money can sometimes buy out unhappiness. However, unhappiness is inevitable, but learn to quietly live with it is key to recover.

@bye5212 Жыл бұрын

That was really nice way to think about it. Thank you!

@qwertyijk3208 Жыл бұрын

man spoke my mind

@ninijendeukie5723 Жыл бұрын

I'm not kidding Elizabeth, Ali and Lana are my favorite creators, and it's like the universe made their paths crossed

@meherjanurmee9566 Жыл бұрын

Same sameeeee

@Tina-mi2ud Жыл бұрын

the way lana is listening and asking questions 💕💕

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

:)) xx

@jazlou Жыл бұрын

I seriously needed this video, saw it a few days ago and I promised myself I'd come back to it. Had a stressful few weeks, seriously thinking about dropping out of uni and had this exact scenario... great to know I'm not alone and actually have a guideline for getting through it (no silver spoon version lol) Thank you!

@jokayo92 Жыл бұрын

confidence for me is accepting your insecurities and being okay with fucking up sometimes.

@leneilneels9727 Жыл бұрын

Being subscribed to both of ya’ll and seeing this collaboration, I would have never expected it❤️✨

@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving Жыл бұрын

Awesome collab! Keep up the great work and stay happy! Love your videos, Lana, and congrats on over 1 million subscribers! Well deserved!

@liyuhh7144 Жыл бұрын

you both are GLOWING! :D

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

hah thank you!! :)

@Amanda-bg8gp Жыл бұрын

two of my favorite people on the planet earth in one frame!

@adnon2604 Жыл бұрын

Great collaboration!! It has nothing to do with what they're talking about, but his English is really beautiful. So articulate and jumping to the point immediately.

@inspiringmorning587 Жыл бұрын

To be happy you need to live in a present moment not worrying what or might not happen in the future or what happend in the past.Learn to enjoy every moment in your life and to embrace simplicity😊Happines is in the little things like the sun on the sky , a good cup of coffee or a smile on someone face😜

@chichaos Жыл бұрын

How to not think about the future if you have urgent bills to pay but little to no money?

@inspiringmorning587 Жыл бұрын

@@chichaos In December last year I decided to change my lifestyle because it didn't worked for me anymore.I had made a list with what made me unhappy and I need to change.I didn't worry what will happen if will not work out !I had one month time to move out from my house without having any options and just one month money aside(salary),I quit my job due to much stress without any other offer and I was financial broke due to some bad decisions in my life.,budgeting money just for food.I had faith that everything will be ok in my life and I was right.I didn't worry that the bank will send me letters because I didn't pay back money or that I might sleep on streets(sound extreme ,I know).I was thinking that the bank will not kill me or sleeping under the sky and if that will happen(worse case scenario) I will be able to pull everything out because I am a healthy and determinated person that wants to turn his life around. The job offer came after couple of weeks ,better wage and less stressful with supportive colleague;I have a place where I live now where is near to my job, cheap and a peaceful area and with the bank we made a plan together to pay the money back and they understood my situation. Today I am enjoying my cup of coffee in the morning without stress in my life! Its was a journey with ups and downs but now is stable and I found peace and balance in my life.Today I am learning and researching to start my own side hustle so one day I will have my own business running. What I can say for you is to learn to have Faith because no one will take your life if you do couple of mistakes and if you are alive and healthy you can pull yourself out from any bad situation!

@TinaG109 Жыл бұрын

So refreshing to watch a video like this where each person patiently and reflectively listens and doesn’t interrupt or cutoff the other person. Lovely

@sinipajunen8500 Жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly!

@sourav11 Жыл бұрын

One of the best discussions. I loved it. Probably because of these two great people out there.

@hermie6076 Жыл бұрын

Dream collab of the century…!!!! 😍

@anonymousanonymous2142 Жыл бұрын

Unpopular opinion -- but they look so cuteeee together! :))

@hibranhtapia Жыл бұрын

I'm happy because I'm conscious and present. My dog is the reason.

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

My dog is the reason too

@kaoutarkaoutar986 Жыл бұрын

Literally screamed when I saw it aaaah my favorite duo ❤😭😭

@authe85 Жыл бұрын

YESSSSSSS. TWO OF MY FAVOTIRE TOGETHER! O.M.G.

@Salmanazadofficial Жыл бұрын

My favorite KZfaqR Ali Abdaal🖤 - I am watching, reading his every post on his FB page, thanks for the collab Lana🙏❤️

@moonlanding8360 Жыл бұрын

It’s Lana’s smile for me !!!!

@minhphuongnguyen7172 Жыл бұрын

*internal screaming* omg like two of my best KZfaqrs are collaborating. Could anything be better!?

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

hehe :) xx

@bubblebath2892 Жыл бұрын

A different type of smile on Ali's face , cute , is that coz of Lana ??

@natemarx4999 Жыл бұрын

Congrats on one million subscribers! I was following this gem when she was at like 10k. 99 million more to go!

@TicketToLiterature Жыл бұрын

I know Ali for a long time and he is great, but it's the my first time on your channel and It felt so nice. The energy, the vibe... Thank you for the podcast ⚡

@rosie-cd7du Жыл бұрын

This is like golden retriver (Ali) and cat (Lana) having an interview. Excited vs calm. 😍😍

@Light-oz5pv Жыл бұрын

Oh this was really good. Lana does a great job asking the right questions. Loved my time here.

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

thank you .) x

@johnyhawkahsan Жыл бұрын

Wowww man, best motivational video I've watched in a while.

@khushikishan_ Жыл бұрын

I don't know what it is about you two talking but it feels really calming and nice

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

:)) x

@PeterParker-si8uq Жыл бұрын

his voice is beautiful

@user-pr1st5rh9r Жыл бұрын

Summary - Take power of your life , Do whatever you do with chill mind and find usefulness in it (do it in your way) You can fake confidence there is no difference .. just on the switch ! Practise speaking actively. Mark on calendar upcoming happiness points. Key to happy life is having something to do , someone to love & something to look upto.

@anubhutichaurasia4371 Жыл бұрын

your video brings happiness

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

:') x

@limitlessinmind Жыл бұрын

Selflessness is where everyone's happiness begins

@richardw3347 Жыл бұрын

Looking to serve is key.

@kalimocho35 Жыл бұрын

Wow!. First time I see Lana Blakely smiling in her videos.

@blessyleimapokpam5409 Жыл бұрын

Omg i had been waiting for this ever since you posted something about it!! This is the best COLLAB EVER

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

thanks for being here :))

@larbio.4885 Жыл бұрын

Nice and interesting discussion from my two favorite KZfaqrs !!! Thanks guys for this conversation!

@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын

thanks for watching :)

@RameshKumar-ng3nf Жыл бұрын

Great to see Ali in this channel ❤️❤️👌👌😊😊

@aKm057 Жыл бұрын

Two of the best youtubers and two of my fav. creators.

@senshai1267 Жыл бұрын

2 Very soft speaking people . The Calmness is quite nice

@ikrakhan10thh61 Жыл бұрын

Tmr is my physics exam and ali sir is my motivation to become a doctor

@armannazad Жыл бұрын

ali's smile and enthusiam oh lord

@dimplegeorge8801 6 ай бұрын

It's amazing how many cool ideas Ali has. Could listen to him all day and learn 100 books worth of information.

@manaarkhan1942 Жыл бұрын

this is a crossover I didn’t know it needed luv u guys

@parthahazarika4299 Жыл бұрын

I'm more than enjoying this conversation.This conversation between the two came as a surprise.Lana is doing a mild thinker as Ali is replying her

@oorjitasharma14 Жыл бұрын

Is it just me who sees the chemistry between them???

@Sama_681 Жыл бұрын

Me too

@monibanwar2864 Жыл бұрын

i subscribed to her channel when it still had only 20K subs and now more than 1 million wow, i always thought why this channel is so underated but glad its making its progress now.

@nidapathann Жыл бұрын

Why do I see a spark between these two

@Honorou Жыл бұрын

1/4 of my dream collabs finally happened. Now there's only Matt D'Avella, Nathaniel Drew and Pick Up Limes left. Congratulations for the amazing video and work! ^^

@idkyouyet1408 Жыл бұрын

Thanks guys for such amazing insights!! Been waiting for this one forever 💗

@DailyMotivationDose-qt7nw Жыл бұрын

Great podcast with two amazing personalities on KZfaq.

@alyanqazalbash Жыл бұрын

The collab we all were waiting for!!

@0kur123 Жыл бұрын

THE ACTUAL FACT THAT I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO TO EXIST THE DAY THIS THIS CHANNEL WAS CREATED

@user-ke1gt2kg8c Жыл бұрын

u dont understand how happy i got when i saw u 2 collabing !!!! :))

@rajshivam Жыл бұрын

is this a multiverse. love you both

@prabhkaur5572 Жыл бұрын

Her face glow speaks everything

@mafechavez Жыл бұрын

Woooaaah, I didn't expect this collaboration! 😭 So happy!

@thandaraungsoe4322 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been watching your videos since last year when I was in Myanmar and now I am in London. Your videos were with me in my darkest days. I would be so over the moon if I cross paths with you in London.