It's actually often possible to find the type of someone by the way they act. Introvert is reserved, extravert likes to talk a lot, intuitive considers ideas before concrete usages, sensor the opposite, thinker likes to think logically to decide, feeler base his decisions on what feels right, judging people like plans, perceivers like to improvise. That's how I guess the type of people, it often works.

​@faysoufox The issue is 1. People act very differently depending on context and how they feel day to day; 2. Neurodivergent people often give "false" tells. An extroverted ND person may act introverted if there's too much external stimuli to handle whereas an introverted ND person may act extroverted if they feel anxious. The rest of N/S, F/T, and J/P are even more difficult to tell

As a auADHD ENFJ, I don’t think any seen person with type me as ENFJ without a long extensive conversation and in-depth knowledge in typology.

​@@faysoufoxeu sou INFJ aparentemente extrovertida e lógica (à primeira vista). Falo demais (sou do tipo ambivertida), duvido que alguém achasse que eu sou introvertida sem conviver comigo em casa. Então acredito que ninguém diria que sou INFJ de cara (a não ser que saibam minha história, que é basicamente viver fazendo missão e ação social pelo mundo e tentando mudar o mundo com minha profissão, que eu descobri ser algo meio que de INFJs).

@@Lunatic279 Only a neurotypical person would completely discount the experiences of countless autistic people.

With his persona probably just defend himself in case of assault.

Don't worry he's INTP. He's not gonna plan anything 😂

@@caffemocca8855 I guess he's already revealed how to beat his own type in the previous video 😂

@@kairemeriniit 😂

@@caffemocca8855I thought he is ISFP?

What do you feel your relationship with Te is like?

@@AlburyShaffer Extroverted thinking, right? I'm always collecting more knowledge, and able to utilize it in random situations as they come up. Sometimes I don't remember everything I've learned, so I have to re-learn it, or work at it more. I still deal with emotions or moods, but I'm able to recognize if it's the emotional thinking talking or if it's the logical thinking talking. If that makes sense...

@@RoseKB22 at least you feel like you’re improving right? I hear you guys make ground financial advisors or accountants if you can get some reliance on the Te

@@AlburyShaffer It's taken years, but yeah. Also, I could see other folks doing it, but I personally wouldn't make a great financial advisor. Math has never been my strong suit.

My god this is so true. ENFP

Never been in a fight because I just turn my ENFP levels to over 9000 and people get weirded out that it's no longer worth beating me up lmao.

😂😂 even then I think NFs suffer well.

​​@@JadedeaJadeYeah, ENFP are so weirding people out sometimes. That alone could back people off lol.

After hearing this ....I feel ..like I'm actually normal.. 😱

Yep, still looking for the validation someone didn't give you. I had this happen the ENFP changed their entire life to emulate me basically becoming my dam puppet. I still saw right through it all but I can't be as cruel as you. Called out your intentions and gave them what they thought would make them happy, anyway. All I ask is for a little appreciation and build a bridge of connection and harmony instead of your dam idiotic stubbornness, hardheadedness and being a sore loser. You're welcome! Hey, try, try, try and keep on dusting yourself off. It might give you better character, because hurting others for personal gain is an extremely bad look.

As an ENFP I totally want you to use my weaknesses against me too! It sounds like a fun challenge.

As an ENFP that has had these weaknesses exploited from time to time I affirm that doing so has made me more prepared in future scenarios even though I still don't like it.

Yes I know exactly what you mean.

Same here.

Same. I think age is a contributing factor to that. I much prefer being able to appreciate logic and objectivity for what they bring to the table. After all, they are a part of me too. And when I have too much going on, to the point of being overwhelmed, I shut down and can barely manage to even take care of my own needs, let alone those of my family. I need a good couple of days of chilling the heck out before I can resume again.

THIS! 💯

Perhaps overloading fi then is a more strategic approach?

That seems true. Well expressed.

Yep

Well if you keep with ENFJs, no problem 😊

I’m enfj and my most trusted friends are consistently entj I find no conflict

@@stephaniepantera I do think ENTJ and xNFJ if healthy can bring out the best in each other and be the ultimate power couple ♥️

As long as the ENTJ isn't their boss or tries to control the same things - INFJ

​@@nancydrew81Hey Nancy, as an INFJ male, I haven't met ENTJs in my life, I want to meet them and admire them for loyalty, truthfulness and honesty in every aspect of their life. They are blunt but, I really adore ENTJs they work with efficiency and sincerely. Being with an ENTJ female helps me to develop my blind spot function extroverted thinking (Te) and she would be good with her (Fe). If both the individuals are committed and open to accept each other positives and negatives. xNTJs are awesome 😎

Agree 100%. I hate job interviews with every fiber of my being. Likewise with any other situation where I have to sell myself, impress people, or do any kind of salesyness or BSing. That's actually one of my biggest weaknesses and one of the easiest contexts to 'beat' me in.

@@Multitudes_ Yep, you hit the nail on the head. It's especially difficult when it comes to self-promotion or pitching my ideas to others. It doesn't matter how much I prepare, it just seems like there's a part of my brain, whose sole function is to jumble up every coherent thought that comes out of my mouth. The jumbliness is a function of A over T, where A is the amount of anxiety I have in the situation and the T is the time I have to get those thoughts out. That's how my brain is wired it seems. I do wonder if maybe a lot sales person and entrepreneurs are ESTJs because they excel in this area.

​@@bethg9471 Absolutely, the jumbliness is real. We can come across as so much dumber and less competent than we are. ESTJs can be good at this stuff in a way; so can ExTPs in their own way, I think. I know an ESTP car salesman who excels at his job. It can take a certain shamelessness and the right kinds of Fe skills to charm and kind of manipulate people.

The irony is that two INFPs I know are great at sales because their authentic selves make them stand out and more trustworthy in a sea of pretenders. Sales is also about appealing to emotions which INFPs are skilled at. It's just scary at first but once they get past that initial discomfort they see how easy it can be and they don't have to be "fake" to succeed.

​@@shannon1242INFP here, I think it may depend on what is sold. I am not good at selling stuff that is not important in my opinion or would be bought anyway, get really tired, frustrated and disheartened if I have to sell things I don't like and I wouldn't even try to sell stuff that's highly against my values (i.e. something not working, dangerous etc). But when I recommend things I like to my friends, I pour all my heart into it. But, it may be different for other INFPs, just sharing my perspective and experience as it may add something to the conversation

😂😂😂😂 I'm there now.

LITERALLY 🤣, I'd rather not be in the hassle but if you make it clear/ if I find out your true intent and they're not pleasing I'm about switch up real quick, might even mirror same tactics such person use to reveal more about them than what they would like to show, I'm quite adept to "embodying a person and understanding their minds by thinking like them"

@@spectre..74 Yeah, INFJ's are terrifyingly good at "playing by their rules".

Yeah, that one was ugly.

Say it again- Do number 3 and everything you love will burn to the ground.

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I think 1 would be better listed as organized chaos. Meaning someone is purposely causing chaos. No patterns, sporadic, changing directions constantly, with no way of completing projects because they will change the scope entirely before you can finish. This does drive me nuts, and I think as an INFJ it's worse because I know everytime what my boss is going to do before they do it, even though they think they came up with some ingenious way to mess with me, I could practically quote what they will say before it comes out of their mouth. Chaos, drama, and manipulation are intolerable. If you do try this on an INFJ you better hope you take them down on the first try. INFJs learn at an exponential rate, and will subconsciously analyze exactly what makes you tick and can unravel not just your intentions, but your very essence. I shattered a few egos before I learned I was an infj, also came from a very toxic family, I try to be careful, but hey if you come after an infj with evil intentions, it's only a matter of time before you regret it ❤

Hello Fellow INFJ ❤

Can you give examples..? I think you can maneuver your way out tho!

Too personal of a topic to speak about in comments, sorry

There’s a kind of apathy that you have to learn to tap into when that happens. I grew up with a narcissist controlling a lot of my life and those experiences showed me that sometimes giving an emotional or genuine response can be harmful to both you and the person manipulating you in that moment. When people are overbearing or inconsiderate of your feelings in response to something they either need help with or want you to do instead, sometimes you just can’t help them without hurting your own mental health and it isn’t worth dealing with. Pick and choosing battles is a great skill to develop in response to all that nonsense

@@WastePlace big agree. Though unfortunately for me apathy is just as detrimental for my mental health as abuse so it's a lose/lose situation. Which is why I go for distancing myself instead.

Their words have no power lmao.

Yup haha! I feel like people can’t upset me in a debate because I find words and ideas so interesting. Though I have my own opinions, I feel that im often defending the side that opposes the party im talking to because it makes it more interesting (:

Same experience! UX design where you spend more time justifying your decisions than designing coupled with product owners also pushing you to design awful crap. Systems I created from scratch that ended up being close to best practices years later and going into research as another tool to push back against bad ideas and finding out how much I loved it.

what do you mean by enfps box you in? are you saying they're the only type that can? and why?

Ugh I love ENFP coworkers when they detect stuff like this but it’s unfortunate when they are in that spotlight. Not that y’all can’t handle it but it indeed is a huge distraction from what ENFP are naturally supposed to be doing, and honestly that’s probably what this boss is going for subconsciously like literally for no reason just to feel in control lol. Like trying to conflate certain habits that aren’t specifically helpful but not a bad thing either, just desperately trying to find a way to be involved and unfortunately trauma dumping that on you by micromanaging you 😭🤦‍♂️

Oh no, the reality of the crazy outside world has more detail and clarity when you have time to ponder it via the interweb

I am an ENFP and I have an ADHD, my friends say that I am literally unpredictable, and it is impossible to keep me at bay, but I have 0 focus on anything, and I can't even do the same thing 3 or more times, it irritates me and wears me down. It's a blessing and a curse.

^^ I live with someone who’s both

​@@qifeetryingbecome a ceo

I find this idea of my intentions to be a constant internal conflict. I always question if my actions to truly altruistic or actually intended to be manipulative. The issue being often times, when I am manipulate people it’s entirely unintentional or subconscious. When I’m question on this often times what happens is I now have to think about whether I’m actually being altruistic or not. I think the thing that makes me the most afraid of is the idea that other people will also give me as manipulative.

As a enfj myself, we do tend to feel upset when people question our actions/intentions. Because most of us mean well towards our loved ones. Some can be manipulative if they are unhealthy mentally. But that's rare

INFP here and have allowed myself to be sabataged more times than I can count. Only in hindsight I realized I was wasting my time and energy had more control in situations than I realized. Okay, I have to ask, why INFP/INTP? My husband I'm pretty sure is INTP and we are so different in how we function. Have you tested differently on different occasions? So curious!

@@GAwildflowerI first came across the test a few years ago & I've took it maybe 10 times since then here & there.. I've got INTP every time except 2 or 3. The last time I looked at the statistics of the scores and it was around 55% Thinking / 45% Feeling.. then another time the Feeling % was just slightly higher

Loved it! I'm forewarned! 😄 I see you were planning the whole series. Excellent.

no no no they can never known-ESTP

I'm an infp, I beat my esfj boss easily. He panics around me because I look so relaxed. But what I haven't told him is that I have a quicker and easier method. And I will never tell him. I'm infp btw.

To beat an ST just make them face the long term consequences of their actions.

Best way to fluster an INFP is to notice all the white lies they use to avoid confrontation and remind them of those as you tell them they are liars. They explode!!

I rewinded this like 8+ times, pure earcandy

I think there is already a video about this that concluded there is no correlation, my memory says. Think I saw it on "Daily Talk Games"(?) based on the big-five model

@@matheusviniciusdemoraes9420 It's true that any personality type can enjoy any game. And to be fair, the way I phrased it in my comment could have been better. What I was asking is "knowing the 16 personalities and how they generally act and what they generally enjoy, what would be some good recommendations for each type?"

I painfully relate to this😅

Why do you care about being judged by others? I ask because this is something my INFP friend also struggles with, and I don't really get it. There's stuff that will benefit him and help him move further in his life and his goals, for example, he wants to play oboe, he went out and got an oboe, which he paid a lot of money for, yet he rarely plays it and doesn't progress much because he's afraid of other people hearing him and them judging him. He's also afraid to ask his boss for a raise because of fear of judgement, and he seems to be extremely focused on what other people think, who cares? It's not like they really affect his life that much, a lot of these people he'll never see again, and if he does see them so what? There are nuances in everyone, everyone's different, everyone picks their nose and looks at the sky, no one's perfect. The way I see it, if I don't like something in someone, then that's my problem, and I don't want them to change who they are, because as long as they're not hurting anyone, then why should how I feel dictate anything about them? That's my problem, not theirs, just like how it's the problem of someone who doesn't like something about someone, rather than the person they dislike that aspect about. I can understand one aspect behind the fear, that people group together and if one person dislikes you then it can turn into 20 people disliking you, but nothing is stagnant and the tides can always turn. You're an INFP so I assume you'll get my metaphors and crap so I don't have to write out explanations of what I mean lol. See I just judged you and you survived, believe in yourself and your capabilities.

I'm an INFP and I couldn't care less about what people say lol

@@nooneneedstoknowmyname Basically the INFP’s magnum opus is their personality, their identity. Fi is constantly in motion refining personal values. To judge the behavior of an INFP (specifically about something they care about, and even worse an aspect they *haven’t* perfected yet) is to judge their very existence. To deny their idiosyncratic values is to deny their unique way of being, which is the mainly what they live for. And Fi perfectionism makes them not want to share things that don’t wholly encompass their being. We also fear judgment because we fear being obtrusive to others. We avoid confrontation and causing any minor inconveniences to people because then our Fi is never in line of sight to be criticized. And because we know what it’s like on the receiving end of invalidation, we never do anything that could remotely indicate that to someone else. I.e. your INFP friend *could* feel like he’s challenging his boss’ evaluation skills and be undermining him to bring up the pay. Or he just doesn’t want his little Fi heart to get crushed by the boss’ unsavory response, bc if it’s negative he’ll think it’s directly because something is wrong with *him* and that hurts. Course it’s not entirely logical, but remember Fi feels everything more deeply than any other function, and Fi-Si expands the imagined emotions in our heads tenfold. So it may not look scaring to you but in his head it has become a Goliath of fear. To get INFPs to get out of their shell and use some Te (finally) is lots of positive reinforcement to let them feel secure and that this is a no judge zone. This is why INFPs feel safe with NF types and tend to dislike rigid ST types. If I were to get him to play the oboe I would 1. Validate his Fi - say things like i love classical music, man players like twosetviolin are so cool aren’t they, makes me want to practicing watching them, *you* would be so good at it, it matches your unique aura, aloof and sentimental 2. Give solutions to their unique problems - he can play loud ass music to drown the noise/go to rentable practice rooms/go out and play at midnight or sunrise (I go early to the art studio so I don’t feel pressure lol) 3. Reignite his interest - ask him about what beautiful pieces he’d love to play one day. Bring him to concerts. Watch a movie about music. And once he does get that sudden boost of damn I’m GUNNA DO THIS NOW, you can keep tabs on him. Check weekly or bi weekly, hey how’s the progress, how far have you gone (don’t ask to listen in the beginning lmao) 4. You could also just straight up go hey you’re disrespecting your poor oboe, he has feelings and a soul too (I swear it works) Convoluted I know, this is why INFP x ENFJ works so well, bc Fe doms can pick up this stuff like breathing.

@@yayalu8650 Thanks so much for this explanation and for giving me ideas on how to hopefully help him. He's a great person with a lot of skills but he has such a negative view of himself, I wish he didn't because his negativity is pushing all of his other friends away, which is also something he gets upset about. The thing about judging stuff they care about being like a judgement to their existence makes so much sense. Now I have a bit better understanding why it sets my ISFP sister off whenever I question her life choices. Honestly, in my experience, I don't think I've ever had anyone react as strongly as Fi doms. Part of me was thinking I might be an ESFJ but only a small part, that part has now lessened because I'm pretty bad at picking that stuff up and I could stand to be a bit more understanding about the feelings of others, even if they're getting upset for reasons that I don't understand why they're getting so upset for. What you said helps me to understand it a bit more now, so thanks again. I hope you've been having a good weekend.

My INFP husband invalidates me all the time (usually during my INFJ Introverted Intuition deep dives I'm excited about) I'm also judgemental as hell but he knows I really care and want and do understand him. He says people "getting him" is worth it to deal with the criticisms.

As an ENFJ, here’s my response. O An ENFJ wouldn’t invite you to a party because they think that it would look good if they invited you. If an ENFJ invited you to a party, but didn’t actually want you there it would be because they thought that other people would’ve wanted you there. It’s that because they thought the party as a whole would be a better experience if you were there. Maybe personally they didn’t want you there, but they knew that it would make a party better as a whole. Either that or they actually wanted you there. I suppose you can never be certain, because an ENFJ will give you an identical tone either way.

@@leerockford1469 Why did you send a paragraph as a response to a joke? Aren't you Fe doms supposed to be good at reading social situations? If I misread your tone...I'm not good at that stuff. Part of me thinks you're joking but I'm not 100% sure.

@@nooneneedstoknowmyname it’s pretty ridiculous to expect even a Fe-dom to just read the text and magically know the true intention behind it with no body language, voice tone, speech pace, etc to observe. Also I know some Fi users that treat xNFJs exactly like that; I’ve witnessed a very similar argument lately, it’s almost always this ‘Fi selfish, Fe fake’ nonsense.

@@leerockford1469 This is why ENFJs so often become popular as politicians temporarily. They are capable of such a convincing duplicity

Ahaha yess. ENFJs are very selfish and self motivated at their core. Great conversation partners, but they will throw you under the bus if it gets them up the ladder - INFJ

Nope, I laughed when watching this because I have an INFJ who always complains about his birthday and also Christmas. He says he hates people getting him gifts and making a fuss.

Seems like it’s true for a lot of INFJs. My experience: I hide all my birthday notifications in social media accounts because receiving all these shallow messages from people you barely know can be quite a negative experience. Then again, the older I get - the lesser amount of people actually remember my birthday and genuinely congratulate me. So it’s never a fun day for me haha

I never celebrate anything. I consider birthdays pure narcissism. It makes me feel so fake whenever I'm forced to play along. Also, religious rituals bore me to death. Whenever I have to go to a gathering or party I feel pure agony.

As an INFP, I see ISFPs as likeminded friends.

Sj types are easy to beat, just ignore their rules and do whatever you want

I think my mom was an ISFP. She was always pleasant, but I could never get her to open up to any realness or introspection, which drove me mad - INFJ

@@EresirThe1st Haha, good advice!

@@shannon1242 Could be a question of trust, or mother role.

ENFP here, good question! In my experience, debating lets me use logic in service of my Fi, and free wheel between ideas as the process fuels the Ne. On the other hand, to explain how Ne jumped from A->W is super hard. That's almost a 'explaining to fish how to breathe air' kinda deal, how to explain something so innate, and then to do that repeatedly... Hope this gives some insight into your question!

na they can never know-ESTP

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This is so true. Don't need to beat them if they join you