This video was great and all, but confidence and self-esteem is nothing more than self-fufilling prophecies. If you tell yourself you are worth it, that you are great, and you take other peoples complements to heart instead of shrugging them off, then you will gain confidence. Act as a confident person would, then you will become that confident person. You are what you say you are.
@egyptianking47266 жыл бұрын
Will Jenks no, you shouldn't care about compliments because that means you're insecure and need reassurance about yourself. The only thing a compliment is good for to a very confident man is a social cue.
@wat84375 жыл бұрын
@@egyptianking4726 i'm schizoid so compliments don't really affect me very much anyway
@ultimatewarriors12913 жыл бұрын
Well 99.9&
@gilluminati-20422 жыл бұрын
So you're telling me it's just a switch in my head?
@Ariaankun5 ай бұрын
The last lines mentioned holds some significance, The way you think and act affects your mind to trick and vibe with its energy, that's true. But when you said you have to rely on others validations that shows weakness, and also if you rely on others validations too hard it will hit a critical strike future, when someone criticises you. And also you can't just say yourself that you are great, ur concious mind will block, your subconscious mind always seeks validations from others to see if ur belief is true.
@adnanalinabizada90497 жыл бұрын
I swear this guy is so motivational
@marshallhussein87855 жыл бұрын
Adnan Ali Nabizada imagine our teachers in high school spoke about these certain things
@DeuceBiggerHo5 жыл бұрын
@@marshallhussein8785 Good point! You are right. The question is why the fuck dont they tell us this shit at school!?
@f.m.41553 жыл бұрын
@@DeuceBiggerHo couse they need another type of people in society (consumers)
@djiyza46073 жыл бұрын
@@DeuceBiggerHo You have to save yourself in this life school teachers are all living average lifestyles so if your learning from average people your gonna get average programming it's about being able to understand the negative effects of peoples average choices and being able to use it as a warning whilst only learning from people who have been through the journy of life motivatonal speakers for example learn from the great not the average
@DeuceBiggerHo3 жыл бұрын
@@djiyza4607 Well said I agree. All they teach us is how to be a cog that will fit into the wheels of society.
@anaccountmadetoreply92057 жыл бұрын
Based Zeus
@Polski_patriot4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@dyl26354 жыл бұрын
Based Zeus
@skrillztheentourage2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@canadiancyborg55856 жыл бұрын
This video was probably the best one I’ve seen online in a while.. I already believe myself to be a confident person but your analogy of levelling up like Runescape or the beach fire were priceless, and I feel like I can still truly learn so much more now. Thanks for that bud
@denilsongaoaseb12327 жыл бұрын
This is by far the best version of the "how to have confidence" question.Very valuable indeed!😊
@KeenStream7 жыл бұрын
Brilliant. Absolutely brilliant.
@daveanib51705 жыл бұрын
HOW TO BE MORE CONFIDENT face your fears
@ifirefox16 жыл бұрын
Not even motivational videos can match you, man...you speak as if u hold some phd in life science, awesome, continue your good work, your videos are blessing for many, literally eye opener.
@chechoguzman75717 жыл бұрын
based on runescape. Love it awesome man. love it! keep it going!
@vidasbauzys90917 жыл бұрын
lol yes. Runescape... :D
@vidasbauzys90917 жыл бұрын
lol yes. Runescape... :D
@vidasbauzys90917 жыл бұрын
lol yes. Runescape... :D
@TehLiquicityy7 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA was searching for this comment :D
@spencermclean93827 жыл бұрын
thought the same thing lol
@BatBrakesBones6 жыл бұрын
"Confidence is like a stain they cant wipe off" rap lyrics.
@ultimatewarriors12913 жыл бұрын
Yah it sounds real good
@londong14203 жыл бұрын
Li wayne
@downbntout7 жыл бұрын
That thumbnail wasn't Zeus, that was Michelangelo's painting of God bringing Adam to life.
@mujtab8siddiqu13 жыл бұрын
You shouldn’t draw God, we don’t even know what he looks like
@mujtab8siddiqu13 жыл бұрын
Or our father Adam for that matter
@XV88tau947 жыл бұрын
Life = Runescape
@vidasbauzys90917 жыл бұрын
So true...
@egyptianking47266 жыл бұрын
Evan Putzier I used that philosophy. It didn't work😂
@antwuntrademark6 жыл бұрын
Skyrim 😂
@lc3001006 жыл бұрын
Life = Dark Souls
@simptrix0075 жыл бұрын
His videos are so much related to runescape references so I always remember my hard grind there and things I achieved there and I know that I am able to grind as hard as I did in videogame to earn the skills, tools, items, unlock new opportunities and gain status in social groups.
@kristopherawojobi59867 жыл бұрын
We talking Based Zeus?
@rgf54327 жыл бұрын
Damn i'm not the only one haha!
@lavarball62907 жыл бұрын
Kristopher Awojobi ffs it aint about being zeus, it's about being like zeus (talking about confidence)
@kristopherawojobi59867 жыл бұрын
The Domantas Mate I was fucking around :/
@lavarball62907 жыл бұрын
Kristopher Awojobi alright alright...
@ceejaycaezar47257 жыл бұрын
i hope so
@fitnessymas96053 жыл бұрын
I was thinking about that. Now , I am 33 and I have confidence , when I was 21-25 I had 0 confidence. Little by little I started to get out of my comfort zone and I accomplished many things, I gradually increase by confidence
@petersuyat7 жыл бұрын
Summary of Video: 95% Analogies 5% Get Busy
@Gilgamesh6317 жыл бұрын
notPeter annoying
@212bellota6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for explaining that so well. It’s interesting that we see myths and stories that tell us this all the time. But why don’t we listen ? Because we are so scared, because we’ve let corporations, government and media tell us we can’t, it’s easier to buy things to fill that lack of fulfilment. Instead, believe you are free to have the best life and we are capable. No permission needed! 🖤
@reussiteconcours78425 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I don't know if all of you truly understand what he said and had experiences where courage and self confidence was needed. But for me who went through a lot of moments where I had to surpass myself, this video must be one of the greatest I've seen, all of what is said is ABSOLUTELY true, and at every subjects I was like ''omg that's exactly what i went through'' FarFromAverage you are doing a great job mate, keep the good work!
@badnewstalkstech69006 жыл бұрын
Act like a king to be treated like a king is the motto i live by and it always works for me
@evanficklin55182 жыл бұрын
I act like God's God the most powerful of all and I don't even have to try cause it comes naturally I can lie cheat steal lie protect injure be honest and do drugs not do drugs I mean whatever I want at all times it's all about how you believe in your self I praise nobody but my self I will never pray for someone to save me or protect me ever again I will only praise me so fuck the rest
@Jikrin7 жыл бұрын
This video was probably my favorite video by you, it also revealed quite a bit of your personality (when compared to your other videos). I hope to see you continue making videos for quite some time.
@i.m.accountable86356 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making these videos, I’ve gained a lot from them. This particular video is the best to date.
@juanalbertojimenez38097 жыл бұрын
Loved it! Exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you guys! You are doing an amazing job
@beastpwnguy76 жыл бұрын
I'll be honest i just came across your channel today and had a small binge sesh lmao. This kind of information is exactly what I need right now. great stuff man, the whole channel
@frenchtoast81276 жыл бұрын
I'm a regular viewer of this channel and only now I am seeing this. The video inspired me to conquer my fears and insecurities.
@groovykinq6 жыл бұрын
I love your videos man. 💯 On a mission for self improvement in all ways and success. It's amazing how perception of life changes after you make a left when everyone's going right.
@caius60197 жыл бұрын
I think the big issue here is like yea the way to build social skills and confidence is through practice but the issue a lot of people have is they sont have the confidence to do it. its the age old "if you wanna get better at social skills and have less anxiety just do it" well thats easier said than done ya know?
@caius60197 жыл бұрын
I like this channel but I feel like this video is just 50% telling us how great having confidence is and 50% telling us to just do it.
@morgandale35947 жыл бұрын
Caius sometimes mastering a skill that is less scary to you can give you the confidence to deal with harder challenges
@samesadface90447 жыл бұрын
Caius So is riding a bike for the first time you know..When you ride a bike for the first time in your life,you get scared of things that might happen to you, fear comes in to your mind...the only way to learn is to do it, it is just a matter of facing those fears, sure you may fail (crash,get wounds or scars) but because of those failures you learn, you become less scared of riding a bike,heck you even enjoy it.. try and remember the first time you rode a bike,and if you havent yet, try remember something you were scared of at first but now you enjoy doing.. Like the video said All skill are learned through trying, by doing it, it is never easy,never, even for me, but you will be able to learn and it helps a lot.
@caius60197 жыл бұрын
SameSadFace I get that just I feel for a lot of people like somebody else said they need other smaller things in a process to build up to trying the skill due to their fear while this video kinda just says to tackle it head on.
@caius60197 жыл бұрын
Morgan Dale yea I can agree with that and I think itd be good for some fans of the channel. I feel like especially with social struggles just tackling it head on is a big no for a lot of people but they dont know how to work their way up.
@ZachPursley6 жыл бұрын
Idk how driven you are to completely be on top of all social media and infront of everybody's phone screen but the quality of your content is superior. If you don't know who Gary Vaynerchuk is i'd definitely follow him and his footsteps then eventually do your own thing. Your analogies play a huge role on the post millennial generation and i find it quite amazing. Best of luck to you and your career. Glad I found your content.
@MarcioJoseCamargos7 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much to make wonderful videos!!
@drjesusgallardo5 жыл бұрын
If I could choose only one video from KZfaq as the most helpful to any person this is it. 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻
@giorgikajaia34286 жыл бұрын
Yes competence breeds confidence, the more you get proficiency in something the more confident you become, but it does not apply social situations as straightforward as it seems. Every person has its own measuring device for what he/she can offer to the world and every person has his/her own self-esteem often irrespective of whether he/she deserves it or not. Self-esteem is the key factor for confidence in social situations (e.g. "approaching an attractive girl or stranger" ), while it might not affect initially too much some other situations (e.g. "performing a certain trick on a skateboard"), which more depends on honing the skill and gaining the competence/mastery to become confident. According to the video: "more experience you gain in individual skills, the more you have to offer and your self esteem will explode to heights". While this is true, where can we get my self esteem from in social situations, which is essential to acquire the skills for my confidence? with low self-esteem you are always struggling and being vulnerable cannot much progress in social skills , while others who can offer the world much less than you, but with a high self esteem, can easily acquire these skills and become confident.
@blackhole45 жыл бұрын
Me: gets killed Life: over
@fortyprsa26495 жыл бұрын
Get procrastinating watching this vid cause I've seen so many, even from based Zeus himself, but this is what I needed. Much love man ♥️thank u
@snowywhite21606 жыл бұрын
Dude, do you have a runescape history? Really awesome video's man
@loganmcgill94906 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You may not know, or care, but these videos have encouraged me to get out. There and make my life drastically better.
@arifmujeeb2647 жыл бұрын
Probably the best video i've watched so far!...Thanx mate , God bless u :)
@anthonybrown23525 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. Youre so amazing man! The Runescape metaphors are perfect. Lol
@PersonalPower7 жыл бұрын
Now I want to play Video Games ...
@vidasbauzys90917 жыл бұрын
same...
@vidasbauzys90917 жыл бұрын
Haven't played for 3 months...
@PersonalPower7 жыл бұрын
you are trying to not play? 3 months is great!
@vidasbauzys90917 жыл бұрын
+Personal Power yeah man - I try replacing playing video games with reading. I want to study psychology and create my own bussiness at the same time sooo....
@PersonalPower7 жыл бұрын
Vidas Baužys that sounds really nice, i love psychology too! If you really want it than you are going to get it!
@stone92323 жыл бұрын
Dude you’re the goat Thank you
@everythingnessawesomeness58867 жыл бұрын
that's true, core confidence is really the thing everyone should be looking for
@johnbenedicttacder3555 жыл бұрын
Great content! worth a hundrend billion views
@Mateogon17 жыл бұрын
liked the runescape reference
@glennmariacher45255 жыл бұрын
These are very well made presentations... a lot of good insight, Glenn
@knock-offnerd76755 жыл бұрын
I would love to hear these as a podcast I could listen to on the road. Damn fine work my friend, thank you
@arshithachu69409 ай бұрын
This video was informative and motivative ❤, thank you bro for your great information, god bless you 😊
@JetBlackThreat7 жыл бұрын
ive been said life is some sort of video game where you level up , learn skills and apply it to what you are seeking
@MrHaloman957 жыл бұрын
Wow that was well put together 👍
@Jonathan-rb8ge2 жыл бұрын
Best video on confidence uet
@wyattschroeder87386 жыл бұрын
Dude keep up the hard work these vids changed my life
@JoeMcVideo5 жыл бұрын
I always knew I should get my Firemaking skill up in Runescape! 🔥
@yunianggarawati49856 жыл бұрын
The best video that I had ever watch in youtube
@preethammc46652 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video man ! Will follow it!
@joemoney13963 жыл бұрын
Has my vote for the Nobel
@Cearts7 жыл бұрын
Cool video. I like how you have executed them with, graphics, music, and confident speaking
@mukhtarabdul-jabbar30934 жыл бұрын
I've seen all of his videos and this is definitely in the top 3 if not #1
@alim_j5 жыл бұрын
Keep going man!!! You motivate us to live like a man!!!
@thevdevitor7 жыл бұрын
This guy played runescape for sure
@JoseGGonzalez3 жыл бұрын
Beautifully done. Jg
@ccoputra58285 жыл бұрын
hello from indonesia. you're so amazing, your content always inspired me. thanks, you're the best
@doug75937 жыл бұрын
Your videos are amazing. Thanks for it, and keep up the good work!!!
@JawJX6 жыл бұрын
holy crap i love this channel so much
@bookfullreview6622 жыл бұрын
No.1 video 💯👌
@johnny-qb1ti5 жыл бұрын
The point is that you should face your fears and challenges voluntarily not by force of others
@toviasjames79027 жыл бұрын
I'm about to go out and cause a whole mess of trouble thanks to this video😝😝😝
@zfour8144 жыл бұрын
I have always compared experience in life to exp points in video games. A very useful way to describe it
@randybfap7 жыл бұрын
Good one from lil wayne i love that line... the video game stuff rememind me of Final Fantasy
@spartavlogs37817 жыл бұрын
I just binge watched a couple of your videos. It's got stuff.
@khethangbobo55025 жыл бұрын
Confidence is a stain they can't wipe off-Weezy
@andyshinskate7 жыл бұрын
Every video blows my mind thank you my friend !
@mysticnuke52967 жыл бұрын
@khanyeeziakaslickyeezi65082 жыл бұрын
I swear I saw this at exactly the right time
@daiga80852 жыл бұрын
Very inspirational
@BoostedPastime4 жыл бұрын
My runescape addiction was doing just fine until I watched this video!
@simbax89277 жыл бұрын
great video. Thx i will take your advice and fight those monsters despite my fear.
@mysticnuke52967 жыл бұрын
@zeeshankhan-ms9bz6 жыл бұрын
amazing man you conveyed the msg in a very simple way. thanksss!
@215alessio6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for remembering me. Have a good sail and a safe return with the cargo
@Mahluhkai4 жыл бұрын
I took this advice im a student and i start conversations with random people and ive noticed change im not shy anymore.
@justintrevilla7 жыл бұрын
I appreciate what u do, this is very motivating and inspiring. Thank you👍⚽️💪👍
@gostid7317 жыл бұрын
"In life, getting killed is just a temporary failure" Haha I don't think so
@MrSdsok7 жыл бұрын
You are spot on mate
@gostid7317 жыл бұрын
I know. I just thought it was funny.
@dakillah60187 жыл бұрын
" When you frist started its like you got killed by a monster in the game, but in real life failing during a social situation DOESNT kill you " So what you said is total invalid. and you said "In life, getting killed is just a temporary failure" its like you created it out nowhere :D
@gostid7317 жыл бұрын
Wrong part. He says it again
@lil-bot5426 жыл бұрын
Well who says we don't get reborn time n time again, ya know like what cats do 😜 My life motto 4 myself is be more cat, I like sleeping n occasionally run around like a crazy dude with no real idea idea what I'm doing! Not quite mastered a purr yet tho, it gives me a sore throat. Ive recently decided the whole idea that Everybody is Equal is the best way to go to build my confidence, so I am just as worthy as everybody else and there's no need for me to look down on anyone or put people on a pedestal. We each have a special purpose in life and i think we are all meant to help each other achieve this. So theres actually no need for anyone to be getting killed is there? Its a right bummer when ya realise you u have to start all over again anyway. Onwards n Upwards dudes ;xD
@Wrex3277 жыл бұрын
I thought this is going to be a colaboration video with Based Zeus, kinda clickbait, but still great video haha
@MegaBrowny19964 жыл бұрын
Confidence like a god = living like a god 🌈💎⚡
@riyaazbasha58635 жыл бұрын
Best video in your channel.
@mzansisoccerleague77983 жыл бұрын
I love this dude
@brenito20926 жыл бұрын
Great analogy
@kareemmohammed26805 жыл бұрын
Excellent video, I'm a big fan
@xSinicle7 жыл бұрын
So treat life like Persona 5. My knowledge has went up by 1 point by watching this vid.
@ruledbyvenus20413 жыл бұрын
Your guts also went up 2 points, u now have level 4 dauntless guts
@christianfloresmontoya29376 жыл бұрын
Great content! Straight to the point
@kaizenborntowin Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@kenp34197 жыл бұрын
Gamers tutorial to life lol
@MATT_LB7 жыл бұрын
WELSH DRAGON
@CJ-fl4em Жыл бұрын
Let’s get it💯💯💪
@robins53147 жыл бұрын
Fantastic video, thank you!!
@saidabounasr93816 жыл бұрын
i dont have words to thanks you
@joselewis27332 жыл бұрын
To me this guy is one of the best man in ny life.
@marcoscifuentes43477 жыл бұрын
Awsome work man!
@RogerioSilva-gq5zo5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. Thank you.
@beachbro24 жыл бұрын
Much respect man💯👍
@ahmadabbas52175 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing bhaii
@harshbhardwaj69917 жыл бұрын
Awesome explanation !!!
@BoostedPastime4 жыл бұрын
Runescape taught me more about life than my parents did!
@gabrielsolano38476 жыл бұрын
Thanx For the awesome videos bro!!!
@mikomichael95557 жыл бұрын
I like how you raise your voice as the video passes
@ygmjphpoaifbmidhkmg2 жыл бұрын
I miss his old videos like this without all the editing