How To Buy Only What's Worth Your Money, 7 simple questions| luxury minimalist designer collection

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Hi guys, I'm Eileen. In this video, I shared the 7 simple questions you could ask yourself before buying anything (expensive luxury items especially!). I personally find them very useful, especially if you want to build a minimalist wardrobe and a curated luxury collection. For those of you who're looking for value-for-money Iuxury items, don't skip this video! used to think more was better for designer shopping. I dreamt of having a walk in closet with hundreds of designer purses, I wanted a huge collection of fine jewellery pieces and designer shoes. Fortunately, luxury minimalism has changed my life and my shopping habits for the better, which is why I feel really inspired to keep sharing shopping tips with you guys. Even if you could afford a Louis Vuitton unboxing every other day, I suggest to still run through these questions-- because your money deserves only the very best. LESS IS MORE xx
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Thanks for watching this video about the 7 simple questions to ask yourself before buying anything. I hope this list of questions will help you build a curated minimalist wardrobe that serves you well for many years. I hope more people will join the path of owning less, because a more minimalist way of consuming, living and spending will make you realise what actually brings you joy xx

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@hollygrace6814 3 жыл бұрын

So many people in the fashion industry and boasting about their values for sustainability, but they own 50+ handbags and do hauls every month. thank you i love this channel!

@dapperlygrungy3189 3 жыл бұрын

LOL So true.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your support, Holly xx

@satumaarit4296 Жыл бұрын

She said maybe you could use that money for a trip to Bali. That’s literally the least sustainable thing you could do

@LaiMadeline 3 жыл бұрын

1. Will I use it or do I just like it? 2. Do I have anything similar? 3. Will I use this item in 10 years? 4. Will I be happy to see it at half price? 5. Can I wait? 6. How many hours do I have to work to pay for this? 7. What is the opportunity cost?

@ElinevanderLaan 3 жыл бұрын

I went through a dramatic weight loss journey in which I managed to shed half my body weight. I was feeling really overwhelmed with everything that the internet told me I needed to purchase because I had to build my wardrobe from the ground up. I've now decided that I'm not purchasing any clothing until I have had my excess skin removal surgery done and keep my money in my purse to spend on items that will fit perfectly after surgery. Your channel has really inspired me to start on my minimal luxury journey without taking it too far to the point where it's no longer a source of joy but a source of greed and feeling like it's never enough. Thank you for that Eileen! X

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so so happy you found my content helpful! All the best to your next surgery, I hope everything goes well xx

@wafavlogs5 3 жыл бұрын

@Eline Oh my gosh I am going through the same thing

@ElinevanderLaan 3 жыл бұрын

@@wafavlogs5 Awwwww all the best to you and your journey!

@mamad5686 3 жыл бұрын

May I add that its ok to bring out items in your closet to admire them. It's a great way to refresh your memory of the goodies you already have and appreciate them. This helps to ward off the urge to buy. Great tips, nice video.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

That's a great idea! Thank you for sharing xx

@tamiewert808 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree!

@iamartsymomsy 3 жыл бұрын

"Cost per use" is something I apply whenever I shop :) for example if I spend $700 on a smart phone I MUST use it for at least 700 days (approx 2 yrs) that's $1 per day :) it's a bonus if I am able to keep it for longer 👌 which is the case most of the time 💚😊

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Like Vivienne Westwood once said, buy less, choose well, make it last 😇

@Bic1105 3 жыл бұрын

I have been asking myself, "Do I need a Chanel handbag or not???" I really want to own one, but it costs way too much for its value right now so I said to myself, "No, I don't want to spend about $6000 for a Chanel bag and it will just sit in my closet for a long period because I don't go out often to show it off. I rather spend that much money for something that is more practical like buying good food, beautiful watches, remodeling my kitchen.....I have other different bags from Gucci, Saint Laurent, Louis Vuitton, Tory Burch.....Therefore I am happy what I have.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Gratitude is definitely key to happiness 😇

@pxl4689 3 жыл бұрын

Everytime I feel like impulse shopping and buying another handbag, Eileen pops up on my youtube feeds and reminds me of intentional spending. 😅 its like the angel reminding me that impulse purchase does not create true happiness. 👍 I will keep watching and hopefully one day my impulsive purchasing behaviour can find peace soon

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Aww I'm glad I helped you save some money! xx

@KateKay28 2 жыл бұрын

I find these videos like “booster shots” when willpower wanes and temptation is high to revert to bad old habits.

@tamiewert808 3 жыл бұрын

I love the idea of mindful consumerism! From a mental health and an Earth conscious aspect, it really is the way of the future!!

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Mindful consumption all the way xx

@kaitlynjury6207 3 жыл бұрын

First time commenting, but your videos for 2021 have basically verbalized the internal values I've been trying to curate lately. It's wonderful to see that even when we start out thinking we need luxury, eventually something happens mentally where we can say enough is enough. Love from Dallas, TX :)

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Sending you loads of positive energy, good luck with your curating project! xx

@0neAutumnLeaf 3 жыл бұрын

This video was the perfect reminder I needed to stop myself from buying my next Celine bag. I’ll keep the money in my savings account until I can find a better use for it

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Kudos to you! I'm sure you'll thank yourself in a few months xx

@christianask3970 3 жыл бұрын

Very great thoughts! I totally agree that even luxury has become more “fast fashion“. Countless collections and releases and less focus on for example the main seasons. On top the illusional image bloggers and influencers transmit with their content. I do appreciate people who are able to appreciate. Those who stand still and reflect with gratitude and aren’t constantly on the hunt for the next item.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!! Gratitude is the key to happiness 😊

@indoora 3 жыл бұрын

Social media is pushing the idea of selling on luxury goods instead of keeping them. Some of the key phrases and terms used "investment bag" " great investment" "if you sell it later".

@despinapoe534 3 жыл бұрын

Items from very few brands are actually "investment" pieces and only bags. Expensive shoes, e.g., even if they are unworn, get back only a fragment of their price.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

That's quite true! Luxury items many times aren't investment pieces (unless if you own the Himalayan Birkin), and we really need to be mindful with spending on these items xx

@ev132-e2h 3 жыл бұрын

I don’t know if I’ve been watching a lot of mindful buying video so I think most of ppl are now all mindful with purchasing luxury items.

@emilytam8569 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Eileen! Love your video! I am getting my laser eye surgery done in two weeks time! I can’t wait to be glasses free! My 4 years old daughter always said mommy looks prettier without glasses. I will still want to own a Chanel bag one day but I am not in a rush. ☺️ Emily xx

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much for dropping by, and thanks for letting me know about the scam account too! xx

@rowenaberry3642 3 жыл бұрын

I always find your content to be so thoughtful and refreshing. Whenever I feel like splurging on another bag that I really don’t need, I look you up. Thanks for reminding us that It’s just stuff.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much xx

@plywood7894 2 жыл бұрын

I like your content! I had the complete opposite problem than shopping too much, which is shopping too little because I’m too cheap. Your content made me realize that it’s ok to buy things as long as I use them. I’ve been wearing the same polyester sweater for 15 years!! While saving up is good, being too cheap can make you miserable. So after watching your videos, I bought 2 cashmere and 2 lambswool sweaters, a pair of boots, and a bunch of other high quality stuff I always wanted (I still bought them for super cheap ($30 for cashmere and $20 for lambwool) during winter sale because I’m just so cheap 😅 I’m small so can get away with buying men’s xx small size which always go on sale or large in junior size, which helps. I only started watching luxury content because my mom offered me to give me a bag and I wanted the most versatile and durable bag. But I’m glad I found your channel.

@ajohonly3721 3 жыл бұрын

Literally the best way to start my week staying focused Thanks girl you’re a miracle worker who knew I could look at shopping 🛍 differently . I appreciate everything I have and really enjoying instead of just always wanting more and overlook what’s already here.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Kudos to you for being a mindful shopper! Always lovely to have you here xx

@opalbeach9626 3 жыл бұрын

I am not a buyer of other people used things. If I cannot buy it new then that means i should not be buying it. My focus is on enjoying life, not spending my money. I want to buy a townhome in Florida for my retirement, so not into buying a handbag for $10,000-$30,000. It is not going to make me feel any better about myself. Thanks for sharing Eileen. Have a safe week.

@tanechkaamericanochka4839 3 жыл бұрын

Great idea!!!♥️👩‍🦰♥️

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

I think it's empowering to have a goal you want to work towards! xx

@normagonzalez1427 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Eileen! I'm a compulsive buyer and your advices have make slow down. It's madness. I always want the next thing and then I don't wear it.

@despinapoe534 3 жыл бұрын

Me too 😕

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

You got this! We're rooting for you here xx

@carmynavy 3 жыл бұрын

I feel like this, good to know that I am not alone in this journey. Thanks Eileen, we really need to slow down our purchases, avoid the fomo. Start loving the things we already have x

@bellewong4127 3 жыл бұрын

Can’t agree more! Especially space in the city I live is scarce, which storage, to me, is another luxury item. Besides, I’m also learning the “missing is okay” lesson.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Space can be so expensive in certain cities, are you in HK? xx

@bellewong4127 3 жыл бұрын

@@ColourfulNoir Yes, I'm currently in HK. I guess space is one thing and the other thing is that, unlike my early years, I'm no longer having the impulse urge to acquire all beautiful things at the moment I see them. I'm more at the stage of appreciating them from afar and knowing the priority of life.

@anlla3 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad I found your channel. Since I started my lux journey I have always had a minimalistic approach. And sometime it feels odd compared to how much consumerism is out there. Channels like yours help me feel more confortable and content with my shopping style)). 💜🌸

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

You're definitely not the odd one out! We have a beautiful community here to cheer up on xx

@zazaincalifornia 3 жыл бұрын

I agree so much with counting the cost of things with time spent earning (and I usually do take into account taxes as well since you do need to earn more than the price you pay). It really put things in perspective!

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!! They say there are certain two things in life- taxes and death 🙈

@CyberMercy 2 жыл бұрын

My bigest problem is liking what I all ready have . I don't just buy A Pair of Black jeans/chinos , I buy 2 pairs at a time. Practical for work/leisure clothes perhaps, not so for purses, earings make-up. Ironically going browsing for new Items is the best way to remind me what items I all ready own. Great vidi, very inspitational.

@nelsongeary1676 3 жыл бұрын

We should be careful on money disposal , if you're not spending to earn or get back money, then stop spending.

@brianchristopherslote3474 3 жыл бұрын

Apparently my view on the solution is to venture into trading cryptocurrency

@moonlambo7436 3 жыл бұрын

I've been an investor and I can tell it changed my life for better 😁😁. Investing in Forex and Crypto will be one of the wisest thing to do.

@deborahjames8173 3 жыл бұрын

I'm a living testimony of Joe Parys

@elisabethglizz9784 3 жыл бұрын

The right choice of an investment has always been the problem for me cause I know picking a wrong investment will leave a big scar in the future

@michabrains7814 3 жыл бұрын

Depending on one stream of income has never made any millionaire, and earning check don’t put you on Forbes.

@ashkeeoh 3 жыл бұрын

this entire video truly speaks to me as I now am working on myself with my money. I am not broke or anything, but I noticed I don’t get much wear of my luxury things nowadays because of the pandemic. Thank you for the reminder! Take care!!

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

I hear you! I've not used my bags much either in the last 12 months xx

@violamoheb5313 3 жыл бұрын

Can’t get enough of your videos!

@theflorencesoffgridjourney2960 3 жыл бұрын

First one here!! So excited! Thank you for making these videos. I really enjoy your content and appreciate the way you look at luxury and shopping

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your support! xx

@lovespms 3 жыл бұрын

I've had two urges over the past two days to buy new purses, and each time I have come back to watch this video to bring me down to earth. Thank you for sharing your thoughtful insight!!

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad! Thank you xx

@adri7630 3 жыл бұрын

what an excellent video Eileen, thank you for the advice!!

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! Thank you xx

@holidayadventures2670 3 жыл бұрын

I have lost 68 pounds :) time to treat myself to a luxury item I have been thinking about for over a year. I am excited. Love your perspective I want luxury shopping to feel special. Will just do it every now & again mix high and low pieces together!

@sereneng1253 3 жыл бұрын

Great to start a Monday morning with an inspirational viz. Feels like an inner self speaking to me as a reminder. Thanks so much!

@petersmith2040 3 жыл бұрын

Shop til you drop is a favorite weekend pastime in Singapore.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

So glad to hear that, thank you! xx

@jachinoy1565 3 жыл бұрын

I love that u love luxury and is so practical. I love ur calmness and ur accent. Just listening to u relaxes me and u make sense alot

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! xx

@zelle5567 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Eileen. I'm glad I found your channel. Your advises are very meaningful and helped me to think 10x before I buy.

@snam626 3 жыл бұрын

Such great questions to ask yourself for all our purchases! Thank you!!

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked my video! xx

@mcl_ptr 3 жыл бұрын

Yesss to priorities! Ever since I started conscious spending and figuring out my financial goal (that laser eye treatment and then first Chanel bag 😄), I felt happier and more relaxed looking at my bank account. Furthermore, I enjoy the little things even more because I know I make conscious choice to spend my time and money on them. ❤️ So glad to find your channel and got to listen to your advices.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Aww I love having you here too! xx

@zedrickapolloshorts6515 3 жыл бұрын

Investing in a good quality pieces and keep them for a long time is one of my preference in buying luxury items. Selling an item for me is a heartbreaking. 😅Though I had a bad experience when I got a wrong size in shoes and sold them half a price without using them. I'm not rushing buying into anything now since I've known your perspective honestly!🥰 Thanks so much Eilleen!!!💕💕💕

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Love that! xx

@sheryllm826 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for inspiring me to be more intentional with my spending in all aspects of my life. I will continue watching the rest of your videos. Great message!

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

That really means a lot to me, thank you! xx

@glenn06 3 жыл бұрын

Love your videos! They have help me a lot on mindless spending. Thank you! So happy to have found your channel! 💙

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I'm so glad to have you here xx

@jessier.cardona6062 3 жыл бұрын

Great video, Eileen! My favorite finances advisor and luxury minimalist on KZfaq. Thanks and have a happy week ahead. Take care , stay safe and GB 💖🙏🌈💫✨💖💐

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much xx

@vandakat 3 жыл бұрын

Love your advice! Thank you for offering another perspective to luxury purchases. I think a healthy balance is key. Love the sustainability as well. 😘

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

So true! Keeping a good balance is the key to everything good xx

@lluvbagel9875 3 жыл бұрын

It makes sense. When i buy luxury item, I’d also think of cost per wear & how it’d fit my lifestyle. Example I prefer to buy flats or low heel shoes coz I know I will wear it more than high heel shoes. I don’t own many luxury shoes coz I think it’s a waste of money. It gets ruined/damaged very quickly but I still want a pair of low heel Chanel classic sling back. Or maybe I just get a dupe one!!! 🤔 cheaper lol

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!! I've stopped buying high heels too, cost per wear is super high for me xx

@llaunna 3 жыл бұрын

I believe this is very useful and responsible advice. Thank you for sharing!

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you think so! Thank you xx

@dianeb2349 3 жыл бұрын

Again another great video. The only thing I don’t ask myself how many hours I have to work for something but the rest I do always ask myself. It all really helps with the decision making. A lot of the times you will see you won’t go through with a purchase which is fine! It happens to me too and I love it when I come the conclusion I don’t need the item or it won’t work for me long therm.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Choosing not to buy something can feel rather satisfying too xx

@premeyumlife443 3 жыл бұрын

Very helpful tip to think about the hrs u have to work to purchase the items. 👍🏼 thanks for sharing my lady. 🙏🏼❤️😘😘😘Sandy

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Hope you're well Sandy xx

@ameliajsling9351 3 жыл бұрын

Hi, I’m new to your channel. Love your videos! You inspire me so much! Especially on intentional luxury shopping. Thanks for your passion for running this channel and sharing your valuable views.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Amelia, thank you for such a motivating message, it really made my day xx

@jilltomfohr 3 жыл бұрын

Very inspirational and wise! Thank you! ☺️

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! xx

@Debbiesdilemmas 3 жыл бұрын

As always a very smart and well spoken video Eileen. I’ve never been a big shopper but this past year especially starting at the beginning of 2021 I’ve had a definite change in mindset. Even when it comes to shopping on Amazon I think twice or three times when making a purchase. I don’t sleep well at nights and I use to find myself shopping on line at night and often for things I didn’t need. Now when I look online I really think about whether I need something or will it just become clutter in my home. I’m on a decluttering journey which makes me even more mindful. If I want new clothing I ask myself is it a necessary replacement of something old or is it just going to take up more space in my closet. It was my birthday in March but instead of buying something just because it was my birthday I’m waiting until I find something that I just love and can’t stop thinking about. I’ve said it before but it really is a great to feel content with what you have and to appreciate and use what you already own.😊💖🙏

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing with us! You definitely sound like a very rational spender now, many congratulations! I used to buy celebrate special occasions with fancy presents too, but now I try to just enjoy the day xx

@elinalall3475 3 жыл бұрын

Love the topic! Great suggestions for those trying to be minimalists. I follow the same rules myself. I don’t believe in excess nor can I afford excess. Thanks for sharing ❤️.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Love that! Excess is a burden xx

@meisuncity4064 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I agree with your points completely ☺️

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching! xx

@kateg1570 3 жыл бұрын

I spent more than I want to think about on Chanel handbags which didn’t get worn or didn’t fit my style because I had FOMO and was thinking if I want that bag later it would be overpriced on prelobed market. I now stay away from iridescent anything no matter how hyped it is!

@lavenderpurp6610 3 жыл бұрын

Same

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Many colours are so dreamy but I can't imagine having them in my closet, so no iridescent for me either xx

@mindbodysoul8214 3 жыл бұрын

Eileen...You are SO Smart! Love your content so much.🌼🌸🌼

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much xx

@judithcatlett8518 3 жыл бұрын

You touched on some very good questions to ask oneself. For me, the pandemic has helped me put purchasing into perspective. However, I still want those Chanel sling backs.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

The pandemic really changed the way I think too xx

@lolipena8051 3 жыл бұрын

Always love your videos. Agree, plan on using it in 10yrs time. Also pay close attention that you don’t have something similar in your closet.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing! xx

@lizelbernardo4039 3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree ❤❤❤

@RainyRay23 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Eileen for your sharing & insights.. Seriously... this video help me alot .. on your other video i comment & ask something about what purse i have to choose, and with this video i already make decision what i have to buy next and what i have to sell for every existing items that i rarely use to have “minimalist lifestyle” so i can be more grateful for everything and appreciate my self with valuable things which last not temporary due to impulsive behavior.. Once again, Thank you.. Looking forward for your next video.. GOD Bless You ❤️🙏🏻 “Rainy // Indonesia”

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

It really means so much to me that my video was helpful, thank you so much xx

@sylvial99 3 жыл бұрын

I am so glad I found your channel . Great advice.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy to have you on board with us! Thank you xx

@princeeverlove 3 жыл бұрын

Madam/Sis thank you so much..very solid advice 🧖🏻‍♂️🙏🏻

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

My pleasure 😊

@andreacoppolecchia4452 3 жыл бұрын

Great video l! I’m new to your channel and really enjoying your content!

@kat284 3 жыл бұрын

‘We don’t need 20 pairs of the same leggings’ 🤣 say that to may lululemon collection lol. Never too many!

@wabagland1095 3 жыл бұрын

I feel like I constantly need to be reminded, hence I like watching ur videos..Maybe my trip to Bottega should be posponed this weekend 😅😅

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

I hope I helped you save some money lol xx

@briannawinn3817 3 жыл бұрын

Great Advice! I love luxury items however I want to create a timeless collection.

@xmochix604 3 жыл бұрын

I love your videos especially ones about money! ☺️☺️😂

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them! Thank you so much xx

@zurainisulaiman2090 2 жыл бұрын

Shopping my own closet. Yes, I will do this. Thank you Eileen. Also, I'm new to luxury handbag world and I must say the choices are overwhelming. But now I have narrowed down to few thanks to your tips. Love frm Malaysia😊

@ColourfulNoir 2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful! Thank you for sharing! I miss Malaysia xx

@Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb 3 жыл бұрын

Great video, great advice. The question of how many hours I have to work to get this item really resonates with me. I have been really tempted to save up to get the empreinte multi pochette. But the opportunity cost would be a nice beach vacation and having very little in savings. The MP in empreinte is quite pricey and I have decided to save for a vacation which will actually cost less than this bag. I will most likely look for a small black leather bag on my vacation for a fraction of the price. I do still have items on my wishlist but these questions are good food for thought. 💖

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much for sharing with us! xx

@tatianaalexeeva280 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Eileen! Would be really interested in seeing your husband’s watch collection. If he shares your philosophy, his choice of timepieces would also encourage mindful purchasing in this diverse and expensive sphere.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Noted! I will definitely ask him 🧚‍♀️

@shananick401 3 жыл бұрын

Eileen when i watch your video, i don't need much of those luxury in life, which is true. But when i switch on to unboxing videos etc...i am so so tempted. Ok, i don't have many luxury items at all, less than 8 in total which includes handbags, accessories etc. I really want to add handbags from Chanel that i can see myself using in the future as well. I do want a curated collection. Thanks for sharing.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!! I hope you find your bag peace soon xx

@chidenisee 3 жыл бұрын

These were great questions. I’m currently looking at purchasing a mid luxury trench coat for 400 and a Marc Jacobs handbag and some Gucci mules preloved. After your questions I’m still going to get the trench coat because I know i will use it and keep it until it looks ratty. The mules, I absolutely love and they are in my favorite print. I will definitely get my cost per wear really low and I will probably keep them as long as I can maintain them and resolve if needed. The bag. I’m on the fence now. I love it but I don’t think I would keep it for over 3 years and I would wear it that much. Also I plan on a lot of travel with my son so I think I’ll just get a nice book bag for 100 with tax and save the extra 350 for our travel budget. Thanks.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

You sound like a very rational spender! Kudos to you xx

@olgailiadi9135 3 жыл бұрын

Eileen I will wright down these questions to have them on wallet always with me😀. Thanks for all your advises on behalf of my bank account. It sleeps without being disturbed for more hours thanks to you.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! xx

@luxury-Diver 3 жыл бұрын

This is an amazing video (as usual). Love it. By the way Eileen, I have two youtube accounts. One with the dog picture. One being this. Both are me - Irene :)

@dawnsenagan1256 3 жыл бұрын

i love this video. and continue to make good content videos 😊

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!! xx

@1left2live21 Жыл бұрын

Thank you…. I needed to hear this. I like stuff nice stuff also. The trade off for my time is not worth it.

@pattywu8971 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Aileen..thank you for putting up many motivations videos. Such a useful and teaches us to mindful spending. Currently i've been saving for next bags.. i knew i don't need it but the urge and itch to get it🤣. Currently i have 14 bags and should stop. After watching your videos and keep thinking about opportunities cost..i decided to use the money for an eye surgery. Glad for the decision😇 . Thank you for the advice! Take care

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Patty! Good luck with the eye surgery xx

@yummylife8984 3 жыл бұрын

Found your channel and you are like luxury psychologist:)

@vffashionista7429 3 жыл бұрын

Great video - thank you. I just subscribed and will watch you from now on.....

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Welcome aboard! xx

@dimpymatharu8921 3 жыл бұрын

Great tips Eileen! Love your videos! Also love your top - where is it from?

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

I bought the top years ago from NEXT 🧚‍♀️

@dimpymatharu8921 3 жыл бұрын

You always look so beautiful! We used to have Next here in Canada but it closed down a few years ago

@andrea2444 3 жыл бұрын

Is it worth buying Chanel espadrilles? they are so pricey even on the preloved market.

@ve5394 3 жыл бұрын

Great one! Especially how many hours u need to work for paying that item!

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you agreed! xx

@nicho4340 3 жыл бұрын

hey, can you discuss which woman watches should be invested? the one you wear and keep increasing? i found the datejust II keeps dropping in price.

@mybagoftheday1722 3 жыл бұрын

You give very good advice. Just wanted to point out that we can make mistake investments also in other areas than luxury. When my smallest child was less than a year old I was exhausted and had severe back acke. I invested in a long term contract with a personal trainer company, which made me a gym workout plan and weekly training. That appointment was the moment I had every week just for myself. I hated every moment of training, it was a struggle to get any workout done during the week, and I hated the gym. I think it was the worst investment, even though I thought I would be investing on myself and my wellbeing. I have not been to the gym since 2018. I wish I got another Chanel bag instead and used the little time I had on sleeping.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear that! I'm not a gym person either so I now try to do simple exercises watching KZfaq videos xx

@chocola4llusion 3 жыл бұрын

Dear Eileen, thank you for this helpful video. I'd like to ask about the point "How many hours do I have to work to pay for this?". For example for renting there is a saying the rent should not cost above 30 % (depending on area, country etc.) Is there a general "saying"/ counting for items depending on e.g. shoes & bottoms or even roughly divided clothes & non-fashion/non-luxury items? I'm currently still a student, finishing my master, between a dilemma from being a mindful consumer/ minimalism/ capsule wardrobe and yearning for luxuries here and there. Thank you and I'm seeing forward for an answer and more videos from you!

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

I think it really depends on personal preferences and lifestyles. For example, someone might love eating out, cars and shopping will have to allocate less percentage to shopping than someone who lives quite frugally but only happen to have a liking for designer bags. I hope you find your ideal percentage soon! xx

@grassroots8165 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the comparison encouragement. I'm really interested in a Prada rattan clutch but it's almost time for my daughter to move away to college. Definitely not a good purchase of an expensive bag vs outfitting a whole dorm.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Aww I hope your daughter will enjoy college! xx

@astarisborn9820 3 жыл бұрын

💯🙌🏾

@lanafeulner4083 2 жыл бұрын

Eileen, I have to say you are right but wrong. You never want to put in the universe that you are worried about money! This will be a sure way to go broke. You have to "think" you have the funds to by what you desire. I found this to DIRECT me to the right purchases. You need to go by your instincts. Some people go overboard, but for most people, you want to make it a dream come true.

@lifeisgood902 3 жыл бұрын

I’m wondering what kind of job do you do

@boeyyyyy 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Eileen would you also splurge on nice meals, Michelin star restaurants on special occasions? Someone would save the money for a luxury purchase. Would you rather spend on fine dining or on luxury?

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, absolutely! I do love fine dining but we only do it for the very rare special occasions. With most other celebrations, we usually like a good steak and some wine at home xx

@dapperlygrungy3189 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Eye Lean.... I love that question. ""Would I wear it or do I just like it?".... My question is should I return my Balenciaga Speed Trainer I purchased for $795 back in Nov. 2020. I haven't worn it and I can still return it and get my money back. These sneakers now cost $995. I like them, but I'm afraid to wear them, because I'm not sure how often I would wear them. But I do like them. I have attempted to return it a few times, taking it to the store, but I can't get myself to bring them back.I really do like them. I know $795 is a lot of money and they are very comfortable. But will I get my cost per wear? I just don't know... Help! I used my pandemic stimulus money to buy them so they are paid for. But I don't like wasting money. I feel the same for a pair of Givenchy Combat Boots I bought for $1095 in Oct. 2020 and have yet to wear out. Please help me! I bought Givenchy Boots for evening wear out to clubs and Baleniciaga sneakers for day. These are the only two designer items I own.

@okerekeijeoma217 3 жыл бұрын

Sis, the way you described these items i love them too. Keep one item only because you're torn between both.

@ItsOnlyWarPaint 3 жыл бұрын

I get the feeling you want to return them. What will make you feel happier “the shoes or the money” 👟 💰

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

I think if you have the slightest bit of hesitation, it's a sign to return them xx

@ItsOnlyWarPaint 3 жыл бұрын

If you see this Emily, Laser eye surgery is fantastic, but it doesn’t always work the way you hope it will and also it doesn’t last forever

@FernandaFerreira1712 3 жыл бұрын

I do it allways, because I have enough money to buy everything i like in live. Haven´t enough money is a good way to not spend it on luxury things, don´t you think? Because people who have lots of money go allways buy things that are dispensable.

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

I think it depends on the individual to be honest, I know a lot of people with high dispensable income but choose to live very frugally xx

@miraclehomes4335 3 жыл бұрын

I like u very much

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you!xx

@sophiastern2133 3 жыл бұрын

The new generation who buys with the plan to resale iwhen they change their mind is spoiling the old fahion way of choosing ,buying, wearing and holding ..With all this so called "luxury goods " today i dont see any elegance around me anymore ... thousand $ jeans , sneakers , alphabet!!! Bags / clothing is not elegant ...in my world ...

@ColourfulNoir 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing! xx

@zioninlion9206 3 жыл бұрын

You have too many ads

@perthfanny3017 3 жыл бұрын

I think KZfaq is guilty of that. I have noticed lately that everyone I watch has so many ads now when it wasn't the case before 😫

@zioninlion9206 3 жыл бұрын

@@perthfanny3017 I think you can choose, how many ads you confirm as a KZfaqr, e.g Joshua Becker has no ads at all. But when I watch a 10 min video with 5 ads, it's definitely too much. But more ads you show then more you can earn as a KZfaqr.