Have fun!

How'd it go?

Which 1s

It's been a year, he's devasted and cant reply due to being dumped.

Way too much attention. Girls know if they wanna hookup by the 4th message. Flaking might be less but meeting up dosent mean anything. They just want some more of that free attention in real life

@@okwui04 Forreal, I was starting to think it was just me, like cut to the chase and get her offline asap

Really have to agree. Phones are only for the purpose of making a date not for chit chat. Sure can do a bit but damn, I felt that was just too much.

@@Electronite1978 Entirely depends. If you live in the same city, then obviously it's for getting a date. I usually date girls not in my town because it is a smaller town, and everyone on the dating apps are usually from the bigger city. That means it's not that easy to just meet. So I use the phone call as a sort of half date. Do it late at night when she is home and comfortable, and the conversations can be really good. Obviously if the conversation went good, close with a suggestion to meet one of the following days where you have time for driving or taking the train or whatever.

If he wanted her for real, he should have said "well maybe you''ll see me when you get back" and not message. A. Single. Word. Back.

I did clarify in the video - I used Denzel's chats because he is actually hooking up with a lot of them - You'd say the same thing about my conversations on Tinder, and I certainly hook up there too.

This is a good idea for a video topic mate, thanks!

On apps like TInder that isn't so unusual at all, it's pretty common.

Well yes and no - just getting a number isn't the same as getting a non-flaking date - AND not wasting time with a girl who doesn't want the same thing you do. You can also waste a lot of time on a conversation if it isn't fun and engaging for her because a bored girl won't' want to meet up. But ultimately a medium size, fun and playful chat is by far the best strategy for getting solid phone numbers on apps like Tinder.

Yes it's called unmatch

I usually tell guys do some practice 20 mins a day for a few weeks.

Honestly this is not so true... I've met some very intelligent professional women starting conversations this way - YES ultimately you need ot have some more 'adult' conversation too, but making it fun to start is a pretty solid strategy no matter what age she or you are.

Being boring and predictable kills attraction. So don't be boring, and don't be predictable... women are BORED OUT OF THEIR MINDS and used to having serious conversations since they meet a lot of men... so they are ENLIGHTENED by a man that asks questions that aren't weird, creepy or/and too vulgar but still ballsy, crazy and fun enough to create a fun and new experience for them. That works for women of all ethnicities and ages.

Uh? In aggregate, it’s like 5 minutes of reading and writing. Sex isn’t worth that much effort?

@@michaelsieger9133 Your questions are retarded. What I'm saying is that any smart person doesn't do tonnes of retarded texting on an app, and instead arranges a meet up. You should be arranging a meetup from the beginning.

Lol but the thing is, he is literally writing the same thing to all these girls. Why do something new when it already works? He doesn't even have to think and he is getting dates. The questions is, how effective is this type of chat? I don't know how effective this chat actually is because I'm an amateur. But it seems more enjoyable for a girl to read. I'll give it a shot, follow his steps. I struggle with finding the appropriate time to get the girls number. It's either too early or too late in conversation

@@davidhe7935 ive banged most of my tinder chicks either without getting a number, or they ask for the number or hint at it. A number is useful but I only really ask for a number if certain criteria are met. Otherwise, just invite her out to drinks or coffee or shisha then bang her on the second date, or invite her to your place and bang her there. The home invite is tricky to pull off but can be done. You just have to put in a solid amount of comfort and attraction beforehand. Usually ill go for a home invite if weve been texting semi heavily/ heavily for 2 or more weeks.

If you have too little talking then you have flaking to contend with.

@@SchoolOfAttraction Flaking might be less but meeting up dosent mean anything. They just want some more of that free attention in real life only to peck u on the cheek at the end of the night.

I do think aswell that he's investing too much in the conversation, but he doesn't do it in a needy way... It's true that he volunteers a lot of info about himself, but he's not especially showing a super high interest since his answers are well written, fun and smooth, since he's not constantly asking them personal questions, is always calibrating his answers and teasing them. It's a good thing that he's talking a lot with them because he's showing them that he can make and lead a fun conversation that's flirty while building rapport, a deeper connection and screening them out so he can make sure that they are comfortable and attracted enough to not flake. It would be better if he built up more anticipation tho by being more mysterious (volunteering less about yourself and having some good playful scenarios/jokes on the commonly asked questions) and keeping the conversation short enough for the girl to want more, but long enough to have her being invested. Per example for my part, I live in a country where people are always trying to get their papers done to live in France... and I just appear to be French looking and french speaking... so everytime a girl asks me if I'm french I say something like : hahaha, another woman that wants french papers. I'm insinuating that she wants to marry me and that she might be some sort of clandestine... which puts me in a higher position (makes me higher status). It's cocky calibrated with funny. Then I ask her back if she's [Insert Nationality here] and ask her questions about her childhood, etc... See what I'm doing here ? I'm smoothly transactioning to a different topic, not giving her a direct answer to her question to keep building mystery and anticipation on what she could learn about me and see if she has a high level of interest or not... if she doesn't, then she won't be really pushy about it but if she really wants to know about you, she'll ask you to give her a serious answer (again, don't reply seriously).

@@SchoolOfAttraction lmao. This much pointless talking that isn't connected to the close is not necessary. You do specific phrases and plans to prevent flaking, not waste hours texting girls. Dude could have lined up 5 more dates in this time.