How to Deal with an Exploitative Spouse? Sadhguru

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How to Deal with an Exploitative Spouse? Sadhguru

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10 жыл бұрын

Responding to a question about exploitative relationships, Sadhguru explains that meditativeness is an important quality to bring into our lives and our families, rather than trying to fix the other person. Meditativeness fundamentally means to become in such a way that we are not the source of the problem -- wherever we are, we are a solution.
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Пікірлер: 107

@dharnasahu2506 4 жыл бұрын

You can feel the pain the woman's pain in her words, i hope she's doing alright today 🙏🙏🙏

@mymagicalworld Жыл бұрын

Better not to make fun of the lady...she is really in stress. If you do not teach correct lesson to such husband thn that fellow may drag u to death.

@sanvistark8837 Жыл бұрын

The mansplaining is so annoying! "You want to fix him right?" (*because his pre-made answer was that you should fix yourself... so he changed her question and the answer is "Your original question (fix yourself!) "

@rajshiva1093 Жыл бұрын

Agree..no one seems to point this out

@amberturquoise9140 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you sir I had been suffering from a mentally abusing relation. And I never had idea what to do. I struggled a lot but now now today my mind is settled I know what to do.. just be brave and have courage. Face it alone and be strong & independent 🙏thank you. Meant way lot you Sir, can know what I meant.

@thenf9371 Жыл бұрын

How can sadguru laugh at her situation I can understand her pain.

@beekayebolaji87 4 жыл бұрын

...8:50everything there is a consequence but let it be a conscious consequence...

@towardsabetterlife1609 Жыл бұрын

And what is the solution for womanizer, rapist, child abuser? To help him find another woman daily? There are some situations where you can't just live your life by ignoring everything.. she is in pain and u find humor in that. Very disappointed ☹️

@xandrarod2004 Жыл бұрын

How dare you say that!!! In a society where they have arrange marriages, children children children! Marital rape! And women don't have a saying in these cultures! Poor woman I felt the pain in her voice

@ginaland411 4 жыл бұрын

Hope she found the courage...

@vandyke7575 5 жыл бұрын

So helpful. You are a very wise sage! I have always wanted to meet you!! I wish you many blessings!! And continued peace and health!! I have learned so much from listening to your talks. It seems the more I learn, the less I know. Such is the paradox of life I guess. Thank you Sadguru for choosing this path in your life and for sharing your beautiful gift!!!

@HealerReet 5 жыл бұрын

U r not a source of problem u r a solution wherever u go. - basic purpose of meditation 👍 If u r d problem or the one who complains about the problem.nobody wants to see ur face so true!

@Lr8_youtube Жыл бұрын

Be full of: - solutions & resources, ppl will run to you - take care of yourself internally,, inner purification

@nazeerpasha2075 Жыл бұрын

In Hinduism, there is no concept of separation or divorce among the married couples and there is no route to escape from an abusive relationship. In India, even if they go to court, it will take 3-4 years for the case to come to the bench. That is why domestic abuse is so common in India and a main reason for the high rate of suicide among women. The effect of DV is not only physical, psychological or emotional but also impacts upon physical, social, interpersonal and financial domains. The survivors are compelled to live poor quality of life and they have to financially become dependent on their 'mayeke'/ (parental home). They also have less societal interaction due to the social shame of the poor relationship. Due to which they develop many psychological symptoms such as anxiety, fear of going out, lack of self-esteem, confidence, isolation, lack of confidence and self-blame.

@rajrajan5869 7 жыл бұрын

well said guru ji not only for ladies it's common to both men n women.....

@manjunathb.s.9068 10 жыл бұрын

thank you very much for videos uploaded ,people may become aware of what is right what is wrong certainly society will be benefited by watching these videos

@priyanka1506 5 жыл бұрын

Hard words but true reality😇😇

@towardsabetterlife1609 Жыл бұрын

So what's the solution for drunk alcoholic unemployed husband.. to provide him alcohol and get beaten up by him every night??

@sanvistark8837 Жыл бұрын

4:03 - "how will the next generation get fixed when her little boy sees his mom doing all the chores and will expect his future wife to do the same?"; The little boy now will grow up to be an exploitative man because "monkey see, monkey do". What a load of bull crap... I should have gone into preaching as well... would have atleast done a better job than him and given her the right answer which is to get divorced. The man will continue to be exploitative as long as he does not have face the consequences of his actions.

@dbsk06 4 жыл бұрын

Wow is the woman crying? Poor thing

@shamimsurani8996 6 жыл бұрын

I love Sadh guru and his teachings

@kavitabadoreea6106 6 жыл бұрын

Knowing you is such a very big thing for me . I got to know about you by a friend from India , I'm grateful to my friend who introduced You.

@nandkumarnair9654 8 жыл бұрын

shambho shiv Shambho!

@empressnicholle6180 5 жыл бұрын

Wise words👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it's very important to know who you are

@tiramisu9358 Жыл бұрын

6:09 getting along doesn't have anything to do with forced 'action'. It's just a matter of fusion of sperm and egg and once the baby is conceived what other choice does the mother have that is not judged by the society? Only to beget the child. So that's how couples who have children, children, children and those who don't get along.

@beyoundblues1711 7 жыл бұрын

no words 😊 so simple n so effective.

@mentemadhavapeddiraju2293 9 жыл бұрын

thank you sadhguru... for showing or making solution for my life...

@sandraloysoonleng4944 7 жыл бұрын

You are awesome , Sadhguru 👏

@fareeda1970 7 жыл бұрын

Wise wise man 💚

@paxtonwong9067 4 жыл бұрын

Does Sadhguru suggest the lady to end her marriage?

@Alok_Kumar_Software_Engineer 9 жыл бұрын

Very effective speech. So over all very good.

@PradeepKumar-vp9ti 6 жыл бұрын

Well explained!

@georgegilles9008 9 жыл бұрын

Beautiful.

@abhishekksingh8806 5 жыл бұрын

I love u Sadhguru😊

@sandhyarajpg8807 8 жыл бұрын

phenomenal advise great master

@The21Poonam 4 жыл бұрын

Sadhguru ji is there any way to get rid of unwanted person from our life or is there any mantra to be chanted

@makundasjourney1319 4 жыл бұрын

I Love You Scholar 🙏🏽💓🌟💓🙏🏽

@Rebel101 10 жыл бұрын

wow... finally, fundamentals!

@ramachandrareddy7890 7 жыл бұрын

thank you sadguru

@sagebay2803 8 жыл бұрын

Very helpful! Thank you, Sadhguru.

@Durgesh_S 4 жыл бұрын

Be solution not problem

@Eddie2P 7 жыл бұрын

8:22 umm

@theredpilgrim 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot Sadhguru

@kalyanchakravarthy188 5 ай бұрын

Sadhguru🙇 Healthy soil plays a vital role in climate regulation by storing and releasing water and nutrients. Let's Save Soil for a stable and resilient climate. #soilforclimateaction

@nayanmdesai 5 жыл бұрын

SO TRUE.

@lissuga516 Жыл бұрын

Wow! Truth is a bitch! And it hurts!! I sometimes don’t agree with this guy but I give my respect because he couldn’t say it any more clearly!! 👏 👏 👏 he just hit me with a huge bolder!!!

@sh5415 7 жыл бұрын

Wow he is da best

@TheAkf7 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you Sadhguru!!

@skidboi5718 5 жыл бұрын

This is very insightful

@deepak696 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@Sammybizness 10 жыл бұрын

Very good!

@sudhirpandey915 9 жыл бұрын

Great sadguru .straight sadguru.

@Charruta 4 жыл бұрын

Best video ever

@sanjeevshastri5960 4 жыл бұрын

Fantastic information

@nitinmahendru92 7 жыл бұрын

Excellent Post.

@lisagnzlz Жыл бұрын

I always look forward to listening to your Videos . Thank You for sharing your knowledge ❤

@nalinikasat7291 9 жыл бұрын

Thank you Sadguru.

@saibhawani7555 7 жыл бұрын

U r my inspiration Guruji..

@beenapp1009 7 жыл бұрын

awesome

@shwetasharma472 6 жыл бұрын

True

@navyaarjun3897 7 жыл бұрын

So so true

@babaksalehi3176 5 жыл бұрын

I love this video

@fpmcrw 10 жыл бұрын

4;15 onwards

@vinitaranghera5393 9 жыл бұрын

Thankyou sadhguru

@gracyrg Жыл бұрын

It's a good idea for those who don't save, who are shopholic and waste money like anything so every ideas differ

@aloufin 7 жыл бұрын

Haha, they choose to do the close up @8:22

@nagarajaca2005 8 жыл бұрын

nice

@lifepath5308 Жыл бұрын

I don't have house of mine.. I have abusive parents Then I went to my relatives.. there also I got abused n they told me to go home.. Then I came to bf's house n here also I got abusive in laws n bcz of that Bf also abuses me. Everyone is taking advantage of my situation that I'm helpless person 😢

@lifepath5308 Жыл бұрын

I want to build my own house and live alone ♾️ but I don't know how to deal with my anxiety and depression and how im gonna save for house.. buy plot n all as a single unsupported girl 😭😭

@mouchumiborsaikia7365 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Sadguru

@amarrs3608 5 жыл бұрын

Awesome

@madhavibhamidipati1313 5 жыл бұрын

Brilliant reply. 🙏🙏Sadguru

@rocknlearn1946 Жыл бұрын

Real pain of housewife 😢

@sridharanvit 9 жыл бұрын

#SadhguruJV

@tanmayvarshney2328 Жыл бұрын

Great video

@miss.samanthalee6793 8 жыл бұрын

Aum Namah Shiva

@aseembansal6929 10 жыл бұрын

Much similar to sartre's philosophy

@unknownvd 5 ай бұрын

Laughinh at this situation is not funny

@Prem_Chopda_Pyaz_Kaat_ke Жыл бұрын

The most Perfect personality among the male gender are those, who were extremely straight like myself and prefer to remain bachelor, rather than marry and live in between the toes of the fair gender and then scream whole life complaining.😂😂😂

@joannguzman3703 5 жыл бұрын

🙏

@kybviews7275 5 жыл бұрын

Interesting...

@damianfreeney9710 7 жыл бұрын

💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

@bharattomar4612 4 жыл бұрын

Thankyou sir

@rahulsankalpa7731 8 жыл бұрын

Great :)

@Prem_Chopda_Pyaz_Kaat_ke Жыл бұрын

I have seen fair gender babies being such highly manipulative and self centered at a tiny age. I keep wondering about those husbands, who tolerate these manipulative hypocrats after they have grown up.😢😢😢

@sanjeevshastri5960 4 жыл бұрын

@raadhaenaidu3635 10 жыл бұрын

With Sathguru words pale!!!!!!

@mineazco8866 Жыл бұрын

He said “hell” many times!!!!!!! I’m conflicted

@Vivek-mq1gf 3 жыл бұрын

🙏🏽🙏🏽💐

@Prem_Chopda_Pyaz_Kaat_ke Жыл бұрын

The fair gender is always unfair. Mentally they are always extremely intelligent to manipulate things from their personal gain perspective. That is why I did not marry because I am straight personality.😊😊😊