How to deal with difficult managers, directors and leaders

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People don't quit jobs, they quit bad or difficult leaders. It's such a true saying. This video explains how you can manage your situation when you have a difficult manager, director and/or leader.
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@Blu5078 Жыл бұрын

Hi Tameka!!! I recently came out of a similar situation at my job. The position was massive and I reported to the Executive director. Plus the only person of color.....long story short I almost had a stroke and a heart attack. Finally spoke to HR after almost 2 years of abuse and let the position go. By the grace of God, I began to heal and went back to an old position week later.

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

🙌🏾🙌🏾💜

@wellsincewerehere773 Жыл бұрын

I just quit my job of 16 years because I was just a number or cog in the system(ramp agent). I worked for a major airline, and now I'm working as a human resource generalist. I had my bs in business with Hrm and now my MBA and will be taking shrm hopefully late this year. I need to reset 😩 finish crying in the shower, giving up my free flights, and taking a 20k pay cut 😔 😟. BUT MY PEACE OF MIND AND WORKLIFE BALANCE is intangible, babyyyyy! 30 minutes on streets vs. 90 minutes on highway. I have my own office, and I can set policies and procedures, lol. I'm moving up in this HR world, and soon I'm gonna apply for management once I pass the shrm. I have precious business management and retail management experience. I only wish I had negotiated better but next time I got it 👍

@HeyyyHR 10 ай бұрын

See you learned a couple of lessons - you learned to negotiate and value your worth and you learned that sometimes you have to leave that company to find your peace. I will say that it's not always a requirement to take a pay cut. Negotiate and create a job search strategy where you target the right salary so you can avoid ever taking a pay decrease again. You'll find this blog that I created helpful: heyyyhr.com/the-best-way-to-determine-your-salary-range/

@msistah247 Жыл бұрын

late to the HR party; but this information is crucial to me as I transition into a HR Specialist role. Thank you for your efforts.

@HeyyyHR 10 ай бұрын

You're sooo welcome! Welcome!!

@leona6993 Жыл бұрын

I finally transitioned into HR 6 months ago and I’m having a terrible experience with my director and leadership. I was hired as an HR Associate to do generalist work but my director hasn’t given me much work. I’m more of her assistant doing tasks that she doesn’t wanna do.

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

Uh oh… sounds familiar 🫣😬🥴

@zuelapooh4366 Жыл бұрын

I absolutely love your channel! I’m currently transitioning from an operations manager (with HR duties) into an official HR position… and I cannot tell you how valuable the information is that you give us! Thank you so much for sharing your HR wisdom and experiences! ❤ I’m looking forward to scheduling some one-on-one time with you!

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

I'm sooo happy to hear that! So glad you found my channel! 💜

@Lezliestylez Жыл бұрын

I’m in this exact situation right now so this video was right on time. I had a “lash out” moment and immediately realized it was time to go to preserve my sanity lol. This can’t be my end all HR experience! Love your videos! ♥️

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

💜💜💜

@enjoyurjourney6222 Жыл бұрын

I remember that day like it was yesterday! 🎉 you could hear a pin drop in that hay stack!

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

huh? Who's this? Did we work together?? lol

@toriwhitlock2387 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the videoTamika! It came right on time. I am in my 1st HR roll as a coordinator and it is exhausting. 😥 I have a great manager but the company has soooo many problems. I am struggling because I am use to being myself. The happy go lucky girl that enjoy to see others smile and happy. Not at this company! But thank you for encouraging me and giving info that I can use!! 😁😁

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome! 💜💜

@DJ-vj4vi Жыл бұрын

I don’t really like working in an environment where you don’t see our people in the workplace even particularly in management.

@HeyyyHR 10 ай бұрын

I feel you! Times have changed so we're looking at all things these days. That's a factor for me too!

@dredheadluna420 29 күн бұрын

We can definitely change that by creating our own businesses and hiring our own.

@LadyBoBannon Жыл бұрын

I was excited to start a job but I've been paired with a manager I directly report to that doesn't appear to have the respect of the office and tries to project her insecurities on me. She infantlizes me, tells me "I'm not ready" to present, puts a lot of her workload on me because she's "busy,' and is not very professional in how she communicates. One of the latest annoyances is she put her feet up on my desk! I asked her to remove them, politely I might add. How I'm dealing with it is showcasing my talents to the people that matter and avoiding going to her for things unless it requires her sign off or a heads up. It sucks

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

That’s super uncomfortable. I would try to talk to her about one thing at a time. Pick the thing that bugs you the most. 💜💜💜

@samangaofrancis5622 Жыл бұрын

oh wow I am currently faced with this situation exactly like your experience, thank you for sharing your experience,it's really helpful.👍💯

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome!

@user-ou4no8te1w Ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. I really needed this. I am going through this at the moment. Time to make a decision.

@bparraz2011 Жыл бұрын

This hits home in so many ways

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

I'm sooo happy you found it helpful! I'm surprised you haven't seen this one. I get it, you're playing catch up...lol

@Ewwitsjessy Ай бұрын

Girl this video helped me a lot!!! Tysm ❤

@missfrancis8175 Жыл бұрын

This was right on time! Thank you!

@HeyyyHR 10 ай бұрын

You're sooo welcome!

@Baysk8er24 2 ай бұрын

Thank you this was very helpful; I have a hard time speaking up sometimes and this was good.

@Q1209pc 2 ай бұрын

❤Thank you for sharing!!!

@HeyyyHR 2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!💜

@caredfor391 8 ай бұрын

I forwarded this to someone who needs your encouragement. Thank you

@HeyyyHR 6 ай бұрын

Thank you & you are sooo welcome! 💜

@terranceaoates7620 11 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for this advice. It was great to hear your experience and how you have navigated.

@HeyyyHR 10 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@Mah_fb Жыл бұрын

What an amazing video!!! I looove your channel! "It ain't not that serious"

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

🥰💜💜

@BuggyrcobraAya Жыл бұрын

Brilliant video. I've been trying to transition into HR with my company, but last year I worked two jobs. One job was at a very small organisation, and I could only stay there a few months. My manager was really disrespectful to me for really small things and after a few instances of it I just didn't feel comfortable working with them anymore so I quit. It really hurt my relationship with work in general, and made me afraid of what other managers can do and be like. Sometimes I feel like maybe I should have stayed, but my manager just intimidated me so much and treated me like a child that it wasn't worth it, and I've been working on my work confidence since

@HeyyyHR 10 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear this. Keep in mind that all companies, all managers and all leaders ARE NOT THE SAME. 💜

@malloryhart8084 Жыл бұрын

You are just so beautiful and inspiring!

@HeyyyHR 10 ай бұрын

Thank you soooo much!! 💜💜💜

@tbirdboy Жыл бұрын

I remember when Obama was elected my employers were like really down and depressed. They were very dismissive of him and trivial. Never looked at them the same after that.

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

Ooooh boy! I had a very similar experience. Crazy thing is, Obama had NO scandals & no events like Jan 6th. Smh I loooove me some Michelle & Barack! 💜💜💜

@JE-im4im Жыл бұрын

Killing thousands in Iraq is ok, more wars? Whew. Tbh wearing political things is problematic you should have known better

@HeyyyHR Жыл бұрын

@@JE-im4im last time I checked, this channel belong to me & being a US citizen allows me freedom of speech. Using disguised profiles tells me you can’t even stand behind your own opinion. Please get off my channel & let me think the way I want! 😒 Internet bullies annoy the shit out of me! 🙄 Btw, Merry Christmas you crazy animal. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@JE-im4im Жыл бұрын

@@HeyyyHR u said you wouldn' t do it as a hr professional, there's a reason for that. It's tacky period and I'm glad they told you without literally having to say it.