How To Deal With With Negative People In The Workplace

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9 жыл бұрын

Have you ever wondered how to deal with negative people in the workplace? As you might know, they can make life miserable for you at work. They can create unnecessary stresses in your life. If you allow them, they will cause you to quit your job and give up. In fact, that's exactly what they are looking for.
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Here's what you need to keep in mind: Your job is not to try to change toxic and difficult people. Instead, you need to learn how to manage them well. If don't the effects of their negative attitude will impact you.
Simply put, you spend too many hours at work. There's no reason you should be in a toxic environment without some strategies to thrive. The reality is, you cannot stop people from behaving the way they do. But, you can control your response to them. You can choose to respond in a way that empowers you.
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@DarkroomMedia007 8 жыл бұрын

a cross between the rattlesnake and the jerk is the RATTLE-SNERK 😆

@renegodefroy 7 жыл бұрын

I love that Miss Tonya. Thanks for sharing.

@akma9198 Жыл бұрын

Hello Mr. Godefroy, Just wanted to share that your tone of voice and style of speaking is very impactful. And because of this, I believe it's actually hard for the audience to sway their attention and that's the key, I think, to 'connect' with the audience. Enjoyed it! Thanks for your valuable vidoes.

@misslg1961 3 жыл бұрын

Rene, you hit in ALL in the right places. I'm going through everything you're talking about. I put in a 1 week notice to get away from the crazy lady that has made me stressed for over 2 years, because I am ready to beat her down. And I will go to jail if I stay there.

@renegodefroy 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for opening up to share your frustrations with us. You are awesome! Now, I think you might need to do some work on yourself. Here's what I mean: So far, you have handled the situation with your best available mental resources. And the person in question is doing the same. She is difficult because of her mental resources. That said, she is not doing it to you. She is doing it to herself, family members and friends as well. She is suffering internally regardless of what she looks like externally. Unfortunately, you will never know for sure. However, do not hand your power over to another a stranger or someone you only work with. Do not waste your energy and focus. As I said to all my coaching clients, the problem will not go away by quitting the job or leaving the relationship. It will take another form somewhere else. What remains constant is the self or the ego. In fact, it's the source of the hurt and disappointment. What someone does or says is nothing but a trigger. I invite you to do some deep inner exploration to learn more about yourself. There's a "you" who can work with twenty jerks and find peace and joy. And that "you" is the one that leads you to this video and this conversation. I hope you understand. My intent here is not to judge you or your co-worker. It's just that lately I have been in touch with universal suffering. Almost everyone is suffering one way or another. Unfortunately, most people take it out on others. Sorry for this long answer or if you find it not so pleasant. Let me know if I can assist further.

@misslg1961 3 жыл бұрын

@@renegodefroy Ty for your response. For my sake, and since there are other jobs out there, it is best I leave. I pray daily. I don't like the way the bad energy in that place makes me feel. I dealt with 3 of those narcissistic bullying women, all who are, and were friends till 2 of them turned on each other. I prayed about the situation, and I HAVE to leave. One of the women had so many evil spirits inside her that I couldn't look her in the eyes. When she got angry, stuff would fall. And one day the glue machine started moving up and down all by itself. She didn't want me working with her that day is why. I walked away and started praying. Rene, would YOU want to continue to work there?

@kimp.dr.n2652 6 жыл бұрын

Thier jerks and thats who they are. Thanks for saying that.

@renegodefroy 6 жыл бұрын

You are welcome. Glad you enjoyed the video.

@jacquelinesmith2932 Жыл бұрын

That’s been my favorite word since 2010 it is what it is .

@theserendipitylist 2 жыл бұрын

You are amazing!

@jacquelinesmith2932 Жыл бұрын

Amen thank you for this message

@chuckandevea.7652 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much! It is what it is!

@renegodefroy 6 жыл бұрын

Most definitely!

@bauletheq1bauleth104 2 жыл бұрын

Great 1❤❤

@deltaairconditioning7139 10 ай бұрын

Sir can i say thank you for this vast experience, i think you can improve by getting to the point a bit sooner 50% sooner

@renegodefroy 10 ай бұрын

I appreciate you, my friend. Fantastic feedback 🙏🏼

@gaynorarmash4659 9 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing....

@renegodefroy 9 жыл бұрын

You are welcome Gaynor Armash

@a4h.719 9 жыл бұрын

Great stuff.

@renegodefroy 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@mayjurado4861 2 жыл бұрын

it is what it is,accept then move on.

@_mallows_3 Жыл бұрын

is this book is available here in the philippines

@ernstnero4341 Жыл бұрын

Ofcos they are u they are it start with me

@kimp.dr.n2652 6 жыл бұрын

I call the jerks in church something else...hypocrites.

@renegodefroy 6 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right Kim!

@thisisbob1001 5 жыл бұрын

So start talking....