At I Am Also Happy, Amen to that!

Me too I wish you the best luck

Me too.. I feel you

@@nidhibhutia6920 look up Jerry Wise self differentiating. Very life changing in relationships.

Isn't it better to detach from the deep beliefs and actions (like daydreaming, passivity in my case) which make you vulnarable?

Tanx☺

If he hits you beat his ass. Walk away he isn't worth your time. I know it's not easy but you can say, "I'm tired and I'm letting God deal with this."

U vl...focus on ryt tngs..gbu❤

Remember how worthy you are. He didn't deserve you. You should be happy that you are not trapped in his manipulation games. Move on. Forgive him and forget. Also, forgive your emotional dependency, and please, be independent in the future. That is a phase of your life that you learn what true love is. Your feeling is true but his is not. This is also about self respect or self love. Don't let people love you wrong. Please be happy girl. You are worthy

SIDDHI DESAI he sounds like a narcissist. Charming as can be. They put on a mask and they lower their victims by charm.

SIDDHI DESAI same with my gf >.> so tired of harping for affection it’s so unfortunate how easily affection turns into disgust

💃You seems really happy now

There is a technique...I know

Mandira Debnath oh my god ,you perfectly describe my situation,when I was young I use to cry a lot if someone visit us for a vew days and leave,but now I grew up not having expectations on any one,and most of the times I dont feel anything,no happiness no angry no sadness no feeling at all,I think I just gave up ,and decide not to let my feelings hurt me ever again,so I shut them.down.

You're just a human who's emotionally keen to other humans (it's a good thing). If the world needs more of anything it's definitely a stronger sense of humanity.

I am going through a really bad heartbreak, I want to learn how I can detach myself from this person emotionally, I am frustrated and mentally unhealthy.

I think it comes down to building up an independent sense of self-knowing who you are apart from anyone else. It takes time and effort, and many things mentioned here already will help, such as meditation, reassuring yourself, and engaging in hobbies. I am finding that committing to tasks and routines and activities that I want in my life just because it’s who I want to be is helpful. I am encouraged by the studies she talks about in the video that show awareness makes a difference. You are probably more self aware now than in the past and that is something to feel grateful for.

Alhamdulillah

Sarah Nazih Allah=god am i right.

Sarah Nazih may peace be With you

me too ❤️

I'm also in a long distance relationship and thinking of datching with him bc he is changing and dont care about me. So you both are still together?

One advise. Don't chase women. Women don't feel love the same way as men, they play emotional games they don't even understand, consider children. You need to have options and look like a man with options not only her. If you come across as having no options then she will over value herself as too good for him, nice guys are called creepy by women but bad boys as mysterious and cool. I know it sucks because when men truly love they like to show it all. Most women find attractive when they don't know if a man likes them or not. These are validations steps that makes her fall in love, they are emotional creatures you don't need to understand them, just check their actions not words. Don't ever give too much, only give emotionally when the person deserves it, cheap things are replaceable. Only love quietly the women who loves you loudly. Sometimes treat her with absence, sometimes love her. Take your time doing things without her. There is too much on this subject but good luck.

hehe sorry for the rant :P

@@kamrynyoung1583 to you know people ?

@@kamrynyoung1583 to you know how many types of people Are in this world who seems like they Are normal but they arent ? And they live amoung us where Ever you Are in this world

Joao Pedro Oliveira seek counseling

Kiki E i got over :)

Good question, because that's happens so frequently. And by the way, I think this (the lack of self-awareness) is the major reason why people develop Borderline Personality Disorder. In such case, you need a helper, someone you can trust and work as a team in the effort of identifying and labeling your emotions. Can be your mother, romantic partner, close friend or therapist. At times, you will just angry at your "helper", then team work will become very hard to accomplish, as you'll likely become hostile and produce an emotional reaction in your "helper" too. But that can be softened if both you talk and agree in forehand about how to deal with this kind of situation. Sometimes all your "helper" can do is explain in forehand his boundaries and how will they be reinforced. Yet, when you are dealing with someone with a mental disorder, it may be impossible to get to such agreement, so you won't be helpful with just assertiveness, boundaries and compassion. That's when "non-aggressive punishment" comes into place, but you need some sort of dominance to do it. That can be, for instance, when a husband suspends internet usage his wife who hates boredom, or a therapist suspends the appointments of a client who is overreacting too much and making it unproductive.

Murilo Perrone thanks for the advices and tips, i appreciate it :) But like i said, i got over it, i don't talk to her anymore but we finished our relationship in a peaceful way, i'm moving on now

The god of destruction watch Craig Kenneth relationship psychotherapist on KZfaq lots of great information

how is it going now?

What about now?

Detach and let go you have to have less contact ..and the less contact the more you will get in control of your emotions and finally detach from your desire with that person.

WhO r youuu..? Lol

Reza Grans If that's you in the video I'd love to meet you! I'm Shaun!

@Free Reign Hèeeeeheeheehaha im male, 30. ;)/^:* Not same gender pref, whatever we seek avoids us and vice ver

Reza Grans In said if that's you in the Video. I was talking to her so why U even Answer.