thank you so much!

Thank you very helpful

thank you brother. I definitely needed this. I am looking for a life partner. Used to message girls back very quickly and kept texting.. certainly after few weeks of texting things stalled. Thanks again bro!

Hello Todd, hope you see this. Thanks for the content over the years and for the system which cost next to nothing when it was released. I have a question I never see around game, maybe it's been answered. But I haven't been aware. If I am rejected by a girl I see in my loose social circle. after asking her for a drink a couple times (I know cringe, the 2nd). How should I treat her? I just try and be civil as I don't want to look butt hurt and I am that kind of way anyway. But I don't really want to be chatty with her either. What is the best way to act socially in this scenario? I also think it's not good to game in your closeish social circle anyway as repeated failures like this will dlv you? Sorry for massive comment

@@mezzuna 1) Firstly, she'll clearly demonstrated you are not her first priority: "she had better options from her pov", so that instantly disqualifies her as a girl for anything Serious/Long Term... because she would only get with you if her "better options" don't work out. And you don't want to commit to a girl who thinks she's settling for you, because the second a "hawt" guy gives her attention, she'll leave or cheat, because why wouldn't she? her actions (or lack of it) has shown your not the best she thinks she can do. 2) Secondly, as such you should only treat her as a short term plate if you do get with her. 3) So only invest your time/effort/resources in her to a level in that, even after all your attempts, no sex happens, so you don't resent her. 4) You're time is better spent finding a girl who has Enthusiastic Desire for you, rather than trying to create it in a woman who by her words/actions is not wanting to escalate. EDIT 5) Chasing a girl who is not interested is a COPE, to avoid having to face rejections from approaching New girls. Use all that sexual energy that your wasting on obsessing over her, and the next cool thing you could say to get her interested, as fuel to approach new girls. 6) Obsessing is like heroin. When you catch yourself doing it, distract yourself. Focus on what is really happening in your life at that moment. Don't let your body get flooded with the chemical rush from "your next master plan to win her". Distant and disengage

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Time to get my revenge for all the years i got rejected.

What did he think was gonna happen when he gave away this information 🤣🤣🤣😅😅

U have to have a state of heartlessness otherwise eventually it will hurt u

Deep af

unhealthy love is emotional, healthy love is logical

true

Damn, did you come up with that?

@L.D. 50 KEKW

Whats a good minimum because i feel like the more you have your space shel just think oh he dont want me and will pull away.

Couldn’t agree more man it’s wack

Are these advices working from your woman's perspective?

@@mevio4665 They don't work as a woman once you already know the game. In fact, when it appears we're aware of the insecurity that creates the tactics. It has a kind of backfiring effect.

@@everydaytherapist7315 Thank you for the honest feedback. I would rather prefer to be liked for who I am , than for the role which I'm playing and it's not me.

@@mevio4665 I think some scarcity is good though, and to have a person know that they don't just "have you" completely. Human nature doesn't seem to respect when people appear willing to stay at all costs. But for women who have most likely had this kind of "game" played on them their whole adult life, it's refreshing when a man is just proud of his feelings and confident in his ability to express himself. A person who risks rejection actually looks more attractive because it shows that they know their value even if they get told no.

@@everydaytherapist7315 You're indeed a great therapist as your name suggests and it's very kind of you to reply so promptly. I'm taking note of your advice and I like your caring approach. You deserve many more viewers on your high quality content channel Many thanks! beautiful guru!! 🙂🙂

So what does it matter that she’s obsessed over you but you don’t find her to be girlfriend material? The only thing to do is just have her as a fling.

same

Enjoy it while it lasts because a women is usually looking for the better prize and there’s lots out there. They don’t be long forgetting about you when they get new dick trust me.

So be honest with her, tell her it's just casual. Don't give her hopes. Honesty is something that only grown up men can afford.

@@karenkaren9913 yeah I told her I only want to be friends multiple times, but she still has hope. That's just the way it is

Around your neck in what way exactly?

i think he means like strangling you lol

No shit

@@abdelhamid6674 woooooosh

Women like it when you strangle them a little while having sex.

Yep, nothing feels better than being desired, it's literally better than sex.

Perhaps not to this extreme but alot of it is true. People need space.

Teach me

Thats me and one lady. Since 13 years. For fuck sake. She is a "natural" in it haha

I had this happened milliooons of times. I remember when nobody knew what ghosting was. Now everyone are aware of that dynamic.

This comment gets the award for "Most Based in 2022" 🏆

this is spot on.

This is brilliant

I agree, I'm trying to think about a more benign, constructive versions of these techniques.

Agreed! This is terrible advice for those who value themselves and are interested in spiritual growth.

@A not only a woman but a man as well. I'm a survivor of this behaviour and i'm 1 year now on therapies.

Literally

agreed ... some of this is just plain f**ked up

You must be a secundary account 💀

i think the idea is keeping a level head. dont give someone all your time. you need to also work and sleep. i value a guy that makes time for me and that respects his other priorities. you cant be on the phone all the time or together all the time. but you can also find ways to enjoy each other without being 100% lockin on one an other all the time. for exemple face timing while doing other things, being at home but doing 2 different things. coupled with getting alone time and time together. it gives you time to miss eachother, time to build a shared eperience/live.

Law #3 of the pimp game. Don't chase, Replace

Simpler explanation please

@@christopherartalejo1101 He would rather lose a chick by being himself rather than acting nice to keep her.

@@ghosthusler he's preached the gospel many times and most never paid attention 😤😤

Lol

A lot of this stuff (like not responding or becoming distant at times) is natural behavior if you're just not *that* invested in the other person yet

@@Paul-yk7ds se told me that she's in love whit me.

@@MrDragosh201 focus on her actions not her words, women lie

@@MrDragosh201 this behavior is often caused by past traumas like toxic parent, look up avoidant attachment style

Update she was a sociopath lmao

Thank you

Tell your girl that you can't manipulate her unless you make yourself her only source of happiness. Put it back on her to manipulate herself. Girls love tasks.

I needed this comment, thank you. I still haven't watched the 10 secs of video

​@@BillWiltfongit is still manipulation. And it is wrong.

Have a lot of money, only way to fly.

Well said. Emotionally intelligent, confident women wouldn't fall for this. And also would avoid men that try to play games with them.

Exactly. Any confident or mature woman would not allow this. My ex was addicted to me. But she didn't care about anything but having someone to be with her that wasn't cheating.... So.

@@Joetoy90 unfortunately 🙏🙏

Exactly! Had a guy do this and knew he was playing game. Decided to focus my attention elsewhere

This is great game to get insecure girls. No high value woman would fall for these military grade weapons. 😂

This is all assuming the woman is not into drama. Which as emotional creatures, MOST ARE.

Hoes before bro cmon

Yeah just be properly caring and kind, too many men have been abusive cheaters, then there's the rapey type. She just wants you to be a proper decent human being

Nature goes with the flow, figure out who you are, then figure out what you're good at, then begin making choices. Teamwork is an almost necessary part of life so after a while of you doing you , friends, business partners , and chances for romance begin to come.

Yep instead of being deceptive and intentionally try to hurt her.

U called her out of her BS of coz she not gonna admit it 😂 So how did the relationship ended?

Yeah, truth be told there. When they get obsessed you’re potentially heading for a problem

@@ThorMaximus why

Bro for real.. i used these crazy ass tactics and this girl literally rang my door bell without tellin me she was comin

Exactly, same with being absent and not being too available for woman, they can and will quickly move on to the next guy and forget about you

Idk what women you guys are dating but they sound pretty cheap.

Once it’s a pattern it’s toxic

What's he done to his hair

@@adammm321 lmao

Many girls get pis.sed when ure unpredictsble. Many want it all planned out

@@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 I mean it would piss u off if ur girl was unpredictable all the time as well right? It’s about doing it in a good way. She can trust you to surprise her, but at the same time knows, she better respect your boundaries

"I know you feel strongly and you want me to reach out more and I appreciate how good you are at communicating but you have to understand that i'm busy building my future. Sometimes I legitimately can't text back despite wanting to. Your consistency is an extreme sign of loyalty to me and shows that you're serious i'll hit you back when I can. Thank you ❤️" Something like that might work depending on how she really feels but don't waste a good woman if she's actually good.

what exactly was so funny (you wrote LOL).. seems immature.

Girl dodged a bullet right there.

Todd's the greatest!

Me too!!

Kya yeh kaam karti hai, bhai?

Maybe you think that kinda thing works, I find it's either 'love at first sight ' or not too interesting.. but the guy flirting by, being sweet, well mannered and showing her you find her interesting.. is great. Too many guys are drinking too much alcohol, very off putting if he's slurring and shows weak out of control, red flags

Come on bro..life changing...

Good list…Never knew about #11 🧐 just looked into it and there’s some great ideology behind it thanks for sharing bro

Point 11 is actually real in regards to mental weakness and inconfidence? Can you refer me to your source? I wanna read more about that

#8??

@@cahnrad number eight is taking advice from someone who cannot count😂

#8 got skipped because he was beating his meat and laughing at those who believed him and don't. Guys who don't, think they're better than you and manicure their nails. Oh, and can never satisfy a woman

The “us vs the world” mentality comes from alignment. Your goals and aspirations, your actions and habits should be congruent with what you both want for yourselves, aka you should both be willfully taking the necessary actions to achieve your goals. Achieving things together and setting mutual goals is also a good method because in order to be on the same team, you have to be after the same thing. People will align with those who desire the same results or achievements, especially if accomplishing it with others will reduce the difficulty of the task. Now, I don’t do this with women, I’ve been seeing multiple women for a while and don’t have the need for such tactics. HOWEVER, my advice is coming from a very extensive sales background where I need to instill the exact same mentality into my prospects to close them. Align with your prospect’s goals and vision, help them believe in their goals and vision, transfer the necessary confidence and certainty into them so that they believe they can achieve their goals, and meet them where they are emotionally, in your tone, and in your cadence throughout the interaction. Pace and lead them with your tonality to get emotional agreements and instill buying confidence, all while bringing them to the necessary logical agreements to complement the emotional side.

@@iDropPhats Could you illustrate with an example?

@@prashunpcchakraborty70 Put yourself in a position that allows you to help her achieve her goals. Remember, always position yourself as part of the solution, not the problem. If she wants to get in shape, tell her to come to the gym with you daily. If she wants to excel in the business space, build your knowledge base and aid in her in her endeavors. If she wants to get a promotion, keep her accountable and help her grow as a person so she can get the position. In doing this, she’ll see you as a problem finder and a problem solver. You get what you want because she’ll most likely see you as a pathway to her goals. If you instill that kind of mentality in her, for one she will look up to you and two, she’ll feel more compelled to do things for you. She will feel the need to return the favor in some form or fashion. That’s basic human psychological behavior. Does that make sense? It works, for the most part, in the same way with everyone, this is just an application to a woman.

@@iDropPhats That does make sense but a friend of mine is in the same spot he's the problem solver but he's starting to enjoy that role a bit too much. He solves her problems and it feels like there's not much joy in the relationship. She's dependent on him but I don't think there's a man to woman sexual attraction there any longer because he isn't getting any.

@@prashunpcchakraborty70 It’s a fine balance, you don’t solve every problem there is. There’s supposed to be disagreements in a relationship, that’s the only way you can grow together with someone. But you don’t solve so many problems that they’re dependent on you to do so, that creates an absolute need, and you don’t want that. Solve just enough problems for her to achieve what she wants to achieve mostly on her own. If you’re doing EVERYTHING, then it’s a one sided relationship where you do it all and she sits back and gets comfortable having to take little action. It’s a very fine balance of providing empathy and accountability, but keeping your distance and never really becoming *too* much of a provider. That just leaves you open to being taken advantage of and walked all over. Again, this only really applies to traditional relationships. If you’re seeing multiple women, don’t worry about doing a whole lot of providing at a medium to high level, if any.

Damn thats the best comment on here, nobody else mentioned that. I made that mistake, didn't hit the mark and now she is gone, she moved on. Thank you for that I needed to hear it.

@@TEuUs88 As a side note, more and more men are migrating to the Philippines, Thailand and some Latin Countries where women appreciate men and know how to show their appreciation. Unlike Western women, these exotic, genuinely feminine creatures don't push men to "level-up" for their own selfish agenda in the name of "being supportive." Imagine being with a woman you don't have to constantly run "game" on, where you can just be you.

Todd is simply saying dont freeze out if she refuses your escalation etc. Other than that he recommends to stand your ground firmly but calmly whenever she truly disrespects you and crosses the line in all his relevant videos.

I have dated alpha females as well. One thing is certain, they want to be conquered and spanked.

lol im experiencing somethin similar atm. dunno if its alpha female or brat or what tbh but she reels you in with the submissive sweetheart nature but pounces on any weakness and regularly tries to assert her power - even though giving her what she wants would actually turn her off - so she dont even want what she thinks and tell you she wants. figure that out🤣🤣

Probably only if it's a negative. Shitting on her music/Movie preferences would leads to nowhere positive. Just nothing or negative

I would say dont try to orchestrate disappointment. but be ok with disagreeing and expressing yourself, dont just do everything that will make her happy. have boundaries respect your needs too. Talk about those things with her every once in a while to maje sure you guys are on the same page and you both know how to best respect and care for each other. because things arent static. We want to get along but again if we people please its just boring. Not sure if it makes sence.

Yr just going to annoy her by being negative like that. Just plan outtings, she'll find you so interesting then& irresistible!!

Yeaaa, hell yea. Not disagreeing but like teasing her lightly. This one girl said she likes Canadian poutine I told I don’t like it. African poutine taste better 😂😂 stupid and silly but it works.

Hell no. Occasional disappointment comes from you being your own person with your own likes. It's not about insulting what she likes - that's just being an asshole and a total red flag.

R u still married??? Happily???

haha yes! we've been together 10+ years didnt marry until last year.@@grandblancchiropractic5368

The wife. “so, that’s how I wound up with you. You bastard! Where are we going for dinner tonight, honey?” 😆

because of you

Hahahaha, these techniques can't be used on whitebelts

Legend !!!! Keep swinging that axe brother lol

Hey get out of here! Men only secrets!

@@mrretired2715 🤓🤣

@@brittanyparistx you could be my testing person? Lol

Are you for real lol

Just Talk to your average narcisist And would know🤡🤡🤡