Me: watches multiple KZfaq videos on how to flirt with eyes Me when my crush is around: Forgets everything I learned and runs away

Lmaooo if he has a lazy eye focus on the eye that’s active 😂

When I was young and single in an office full of men, some of them actually remarked that when they looked at me, all they saw were my eyes and my lips. I ended falling in love with one of my male colleagues. We dated 3 months before he proposed and married 5 months after that. We were married 51 years 4 months and 21 days before God took him to his eternal home 2 years and 22 days ago. My husband often said he loved the way I looked at him. I miss him beyond measure and can't wait to be reunited with him.

As a natural flirt, I can tell you that the holding a guy's glance is powerful stuff. Especially if you're walking in oppoaite directions, and you catch him already looking at you. Hold the gaze, keep walking, do a side-ways grin (sort-of a "knowing smile"), and keep the smile as you look away as you pass each other. Feels awesome!

I’m Asian. They can barely see my eyes to begin with.

Haha ... yes I use my eyes to tease and flirt with a man in the train station and no smile. We always stare each other no smile and no talking at all. After those 3 months stare and flirt finally he approached me and we started talking for a month. After a month then we started dating. Now we are on 1 year dating. One time he told me that my eyes and the way I looked at him that made him attracted to me and could not forget me keep thinking about me for 3 months till finally he had courage to approached me.

Now I know why occasionally I found some strangers were staring me that long, they were practicing 😆😆

I learned in a self defense class that if a woman makes eye contact with a person, instead of looking down, she is less likely to be attacked. This is because she shows confidence and an attacker is looking for someone who won't put up a fight. Plus she could also identify the attacker. I do not recommend the long stare, because you may get an angry reply from some.

In a conversation when the other person is making really intense eye contact I get really nervous and stressed out 😬

Me: looking at my crush slighty tilting my head looking at him in his active eye biting my lips twirling my hair imagining kissing him Him: are you okay Me: 😔

'Look at his lips'. He's wearing a mask 😭

CONFIDENCE 1. Glance down his lips 2. Bite your lips 3. Wet your lips 4. Look at ONE of his eyes 5. Slight side look 6. Look away 7. Imagine kissing him

1. Look deep into his eyes 2. Keep eye contact 3. Don't stop 4. As he runs away,run after him 5. Now, in jail,you'll have time to think and built self confidence Works every time

There is a guy at work that, when he looks into my eyes, I get an almost electric shock.

is this what my life has come to? i was so happy not being interested in anyone... ugh

Omg I'm howling!! I can just imagine me using all these tips at once.... the lazy eye comment made me spit out my wine.

I always focus on the lazy eye, I don’t want it to feel left out. 👀

I usually stare at people sometimes too intense or too long because of bad eyesight hahaha trying to focus my vision is a struggle

he was looking at me so I decided to look back at him and he looked away smiling lmao I got him there

As a man I can clearly say this is so true when a women looks at you it's so attractive but we always make the move on the second glance, the reason is we want to make sure first and what this does is that we take it as you are attracted to us so we know we stand a better chance. Trust me when I say look at at least twice and if his a confident man he will aproach you

My groceryshopping have been so much fun, after watching this video. I practice this eyecontact with solo men shopping. Most solo men are shopping with just a small basket, because, they seldom know what to buy. If they have a partner, they often take a trolley, and have a shoppinglist. This is the reactions I get: Most of them stare back at me, with a ?-mark, on theire face. I keep eyecontact, and smile as i pass them in the aile. Most of them studder a low "hello", and I can see how they searching their memory, in order to try to remember who I am, or where they have seem me before. Almost nobody approaches me, but a great number of the men, start following me around the store, at a small distance. I feel great, and surprised, that this works. Ladies - try it!

So true! I was walking away from my son’s game and noticed a tall blond man with a “open” face talking with another gentleman. As I was walking up to him I noticed his incredible blue eyes and in a quick moment thought how beautifully blue they were. As I finished that thought he stopped talking with the other man and in a non hurried though appreciative way smiled and said Hi. I was so taken aback I said hi right back and smiled though I kept on walking. It was a very interesting moment!

i bite my lips when i'm thinking/ concentrating too.

eye contact is so much fun, and you do need confidence and strong faith in your self , without being judgemental , just allowing yourself to be who you really are. without trying to impress. I was at a party in Tulum talking with a vey succeesful and carismatic hotelier from San Trope and somehow out of all the girls half naked surrounding him , he didnt stop complimenting me in my feminine energy even when I was covered head to tow. amazing xx

The problem with making eye contact with unknown men is that they start following me, and that can be frightening especially if I wasn’t aware until out in the parking lot.

I love the 'getting caught' looking. We all do it when someone catches our eye. It's nice!

Strange enough I did all this before I dated my now husband! Had not even watched this video! The way in which my husband looked at me was like no man ever and his eyes still shine to this day and he loves the way my eyes shine when I look at him!

😂🤣😂 if he has a lazy eye 👁 Stare at the eye that’s active. Lmao. I’m soooo dead.

I know this is an older video, I took your eye contact advice and it really does work! I tried it at work(I’m a cashier at a store where the customers are 90% men) and I have gotten many dates and prospective dates from single men that came through my line. I recently turned 51! My life changed a year ago I became single(it was a blindside I didn’t know that was coming). Thanks for your videos and advice. 🙂

When he said look at one of his eyes, I thought about the movie Moana when she got picked up by that giant crab and he tells her to just pick one eye to look at.

This video has me roarin 😂 don’t naw on your Bottom lip, don’t soak them in saliva and don’t stare at his lazy eye hahah great life advice really.

I HATE eye contact, I tend to avoid it even when I’m talking to people cause eye contacts are so personal and uncomfortable. BUT there’s this guy at my nee workplace who have been staring at me a whole lot, I only noticed him recently, caught him staring. He looked away, turned red. Then after that when we saw each other again, he would look me in the eyes and smile instead and remember when I said I HATE eye contact? Well, apparently with him I was just too comfortable to look at him in the eyes and smile back. We did that about a month now and he finally said hi to me. I was surprised because he’s such a shy guy, so he must’ve mustered a huge amount of courage to say hi first. It’s interesting, never had an experience like this before, would like to see where it goes 😅

Damn!! I’m a flirt and didn’t even know it 🤦🏽‍♀️

As a bartender i use these techniques everyday at work and it's true, your temperament can set the tone for anyone you approach or approaches you. I get the most compliments about my smile and that no matter what, I'm always happy and people say I make them feel wanted and missed and appreciated because my eyes and smile show them this and it's because as I approach them I'm genuinely happy to see them and it shows without a single word spoken by me.

1) glans down at his lips. 2) Bite your lower lip with light pressure. 3)wet your lips lightly. 4) gentle relax stare at one of his eye. 5) Make eye contact maybe by tilting your head on one side or the other a bit. 6) reset yourself by looking away and back again if you feel like you have been staring a bit too long. 7) Imagine yourself kissing him.

One of my fav eye flirts to use is to seem preoccupied with something I'm doing that's below eye contact (such as looking at a menu) while talking to them with my head turned a bit to the left or right, and then looking up from the side without turning my head ESPECIALLY if I want to acknowledge something they said, or I want to emphasize something I just said. They ALWAYS respond well to it. And you don't have to hold it, it could just be a glance up, and then back to what you're looking at. That sexy, "knowing" look is AMAZING.

This is so funny, I'm sitting with a mirror and make myself laugh.... ⭐

There's another thing he didn't quite mention. When you look at him, slowly look down, while smiling, then look up. Kinda like what a cat does when they communicate their love to their human. I've found that most men react positively to this. Also, if there are any BTS Army out there, just watch Jimin. He has all moves down. He's a natural born flirt.

Connecting with the person thru eyes is the best thing ever. Can be so much fun and exciting.

I work in customer relations; I always strive to be professional- however i can’t help having an attraction for some of them, and unintentionally have this intense prolonged eye contact with them and then suddenly, I see that ‘light’ switch on in his eye - his pupils dilate, eyebrows fall slightly and breathing slightly slowed and they just go silent for a second. That very moment of connection is so powerful.

Anyone else watching this in 2020 where we ALL have masks on? 🤣

I already exchange eye contact with my coworker. He is very much responding with smiles and he is such a gentleman. But the idea here is for him to know subconscious or consciously of the interest, without the need of speaking. Whoever watches us knows thee is something. All my friends say that. Shame he doesn't do much but he wants something for sure.

Hahaha! I'm too spastic to do this correctly. I'd mess it all up. I'd probably end up getting confused and licking my nose, gnawing on my upper lip, tripping and falling when I try to look at him sideways and start giggling if I tried to focus on one eyeball.

I love the fact you offered and encouraged desensitization practice and training tactics in this presentation. That is true coaching. Bravo and thank you!

I love how he focuses on taking time, respecting, being patient and non judgemental with ourselves❤️

Just imagining myself walking in the grocery store and trying to make eye contact when I see a man 20-30 feet away... my teen daughter would probably call me a creep 😂

Omg I can't even focus cuz this guy has me ROTFL...knawing on your lips, crazily slobbering all over your lips, talking about lazy eyes and sh*t. This dude is a riot

Now that we’re all wearing masks, flirting with the eyes has become so much easier.

I just want you to know that this is the best video on men women interactions that I have ever watched in my life. You're really good at this. Keep up the good work

At 3:23, 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm dead!!! Lmao!!

*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*

I tried that eye contact and it works.

This totally works, i do this all the time but only with the right men of course haha

Damn, watching this a year later and wearing a mask now is making my moves impaired ugh😂

the last part tips happened to me juz 3 days back..but i hadnt seen your video then..i was wowed with what i had done..i was in the bus stop..to the platform that i wanted to reach i had to walk up a bridge n get down..so as i started to walk..i saw from very far itself a tall well built white guy coming from opposite side..he was walking so gracefully n he indeed was so handsome that i couldnt help but notice too..we were almost walking in a straight line opposite to each other..i kept walking..n since im a confident girl who always walks n owns any place..i kept walking..as we approached near i kept the confident look with chin up n maintained eye contact n kept walking..he kept walking same way too..n on frst eye contact from where we saw each others face closely he gave a few seconds stare n looked other side for few seconds..i held the same poise n walked maintaining eye contact..after few seconds he couldnt resist n looked at me back n that moment i gave him an intense look which almost meant ' huh! i knw to get ur attention' n looked away..frm that moment he kept his stare n suddenly smiled..i gave back the look n smiled..n as we approached nearer each other..the smile became wider n wider n wider..n we almost were walking in same straight line..when we were closest his face became red n he gave me widest smile with u won look nodded at me..i nodded back..n crossed our paths! i was surprised when this was suggested in this video..how did i know to do it..i myself was surprised that day how i managed to do that! coz am an indian girl with complete indian skin n looks! n he was a complete greek god looks guy with brown ruffled hair blue eyes sharp nose beard n moustache!

I maintained eye contact with my crush for 4-5 seconds from far away but he didn’t smile or anything. He looked even mad, I’d say lol

Once when I was walking with a friend of mine she commented that she noticed that black people acknowledge each other when out and about because she'd seen me do it a number of times. Well, it's a reason for that if you are the minority in a group. I do exactly this strategy once I notice another black person a ways away. The other person can feel someone looking at this and once they are closer they will acknowledge you. It is such a habit of mine that I didn't really notice that I was doing it to others and I wondered why they were looking at me strangely. I never thought to do it for someone I was interested in. I daydream alot and get lost in my thoughts but I'm looking in a certain direction and people always speak or acknowledge me in some way. Until now I didn't know why, silly me.

This is one of my favorite ways to interact with men of interest. I am glad this is acknowledged as a key point in communication and subtle flirting. Stay confident ladies ;)

I met a guy in September... OMG I am still reeling......He was a trades person. I am an older woman. This man left me panting! He took his sunglasses off and made eye contact with me ..I just got totally lost in his eyes....I was in love!!! I need to find out what he was thinking and what he was doing to me???? He didn't seem turned off at my age at all! I do look pretty young for my age! This guy is light and has a great build...I just couldn't look away. I honestly didn't know if he was going to kiss me or if I would kiss him!! I chickened out and looked away, otherwise I might have dragged him into my bedroom!!!!

This can get you in a lot of trouble my four year old is already winking at me..

I tried it on a stranger today... It worked😅😅😅 what is funny is it didn't take a long time for him to respond with a smile! It was quite scary but it worked!

Woow! Loved the part about what awkwardness really means .. I never thought it’s a good sign.!!!!Thanks

Im invisable. I could teach a class on how to walk through life in stealth mode...

This kinda happened to me recently. A guy approached me because i had "eye contact/stare". I wasnt actually looking at him, i was just looking straight ahead my way. I was so damn myopic, and wasnt able to wear my glasses that time. He thought I was staring at him, when in fact, I really couldnt see him very well I had myopia. This eye contact thing works, though it wasnt intentional in my case. 🤨😐😼

When I see my crush I cannot even look at his eyes and run I'm too shy😂

Thank you so much for this, I love doing things I learn with you. This stuff really works! My boyfriend and I have gotten so much closer since I’ve been watching you, Thank you Jason ❤

You're exactly right...you can't fake confidence...massive consistent action gives you....man...YOU ARE THE REAL DEAL.

I was happy only being in love with anime characters but now I’m watching vids like this

I want to practise this but I don’t want them to talk to me after 🤣

1. Glance Down To His Lips 2. Gently Bite Your Lower Lip 3. Wet Your Lips 4. Look At Just One Of His Eyes 5. Look Away To Reset Your Thoughts

it,s about your mood , trying to stay calm and think kind things

I ADORED this video. I love eye flirting. Especially when it is with a guy I truly admire.

This was VERY helpful. I’m so awkward with everything you mentioned but you have given me some tools to use to overcome the anxiety because I do want to connect more with men. Thank you!!❤️

sometimes people smile at me but now that I'm in my 50s I can make eye contact in a friendly way, as I do with many people without agenda, but if the person is a younger man they sometimes actually look annoyed or angry and pointedly look away. I act the same but men don't. I really didn't get ageism til it happened. On the other hand, LOTS of people of all kinds are still happy to have brief, pleasant contact.

I found this video to be helpful, it had a lot of good tips to try for those who take this seriously like myself. Thank you and even though I already knew most of this stuff, it's still a great refresher "course" I just recently started dating again and when meeting someone new especially with online dating being what it is today, I can be really shy and quiet at first. I like to observe a person because actions speak louder than words; so speaking with my eyes, my facial expressions and body language is something I sorta do naturally until I've gotten comfortable with someone.

I can imagine a Kristin Wiig skit on this doing it all wrong🤣 But seriously, this REALLY works🔥 Being single and dating, I do it sometimes and always seem to illicit a positive reaction.... It establishes the connection, heightens the chemistry and fun 🥰

These are very simple and cute ways to show to your crush that you really like him/her and I just hope they're going to notice it.=)

Brilliant information........beautifully delivered! Thank you! 💥💖🧚‍♀️💖💥

Another brilliant video. Thank you. I'm definitely putting these techniques into practice.

She saw the love in his eyes and when she saw she felt it🥰

This is a really great confidence builder. Thank you!

"I" contact, yes I'm going to have much fun practicing this! Thank you!!!!!

This should be required for aspies. I could never figure out which eye to look at and if someone has a lazy eye I'd get stuck staring at it 😕😜. Good job here this is really entertaining as well as informative. Appreciate you

I am waiting for him to say hi first. Call me old school. The eye thing definitely worked. We stare at each other but....😩😩😩. Maybe he is not into me. Thank you this is gooooood stuff.

Thanks I had a experience a couple of weeks went to the grocery store. I was ready to paid I was not looking at him. When he was returning my changed. He hold the bill on the tip and when I raise my hand to get the bill my eyes caught the fellow smiling so I smile back. It was really funny 👍😎

Good advice. This happened to me without the education. It just came naturally with one man. Nice to hear it explained. Thank you !

You've helped me over time, thank you!

Best video ever - it's a bullseye! I'm laughing out loud at the comments. Everybody loves it. God bless you (from Grandma Bunny in Phoenix).

I'm autistic, so eye contact is REALLY HAAARD!!! When we all began masking though, I found it took away a lot of the criteria for my anxiety, and lowered the stakes considerably when I was trying to figure out what people's expressions meant. Now all I had to worry about was the eyes. This gave me the confidence to start making eye contact with strangers, just like you challenged us to at the end! The first time I did it successfully the lurch in my stomach felt like I'd just fallen from a balcony. I still fail often and have to look away, but it's becoming easier (and more fun) to keep trying to maintain that contact. I'm actually devastated that the mask mandates are being lifted . . . things are about to get complicated again! XD Thanks for the advice!

OMG your voice is so relaxing 😌 thank you so much for all of these tips ❤️❤️❤️

Thanks for putting this video on KZfaq, excellent advice

Hi, Jason! I have a photo of a woman using her eyes to flirt. She is intently looking into the guy’s eyes with a pleasant expression that says, “I’m very interested in hearing what you have to say.” She’s also simultaneously tilting her head and slowly moving a few strands of hair behind her ear. It’s an awesome photo and I want to email it to you so you can share it with your followers.

I would look up at guys and they'd tell me thats what drew them in. Something so simple I never realized they liked. I have big eyes and the guys always say they love it

Actually great advice! You should be proud!

There is a guy he keeps looking me into my soul like doesn’t look away at all - first I was like challenge accepted cause usually guys don’t keep the eye contact if you challenge them but boy he sure doesn’t back down and now I’m the one catching feelings 😂

Tough thing is a man could be married. I would feel bad checking out a married man. So I just don’t really look or seek for opportunities blindly.

To practice eye contact light an organic lamp or candle , stare at that light as much as you can or look yourself in mirror and simply stare in to your own eyes. This practice helps to build confidence in the art of eye contact 😉

Jason your looking better and better. Kudos to your channel.👍🏾💰

You are a blessing. Thank you for doing such a great job helping people to have more confident in themselves and make this difficult process easier for us.

I did it! The looking at a stranger... I have found when I go shopping that I am more confident looking at a guy. I have felt like a creep a few times when they've given me a weird look or stared back at me without smiling for a very long time ...one guy stared at me for 2 minutes and did not smile and I found myself smiling before he did and he just kept staring at me, so I finally broke eye contact coz I figured he was a bit odd and I didn't want him to approach me so I stopped looking at him. But the other times I've held eye contact have been very pleasant experiences and I know that even though we didn't exchange numbers or anything dramatic that I may have brightened those strangers day and boosted my confidence in interacting with guys at the same time :)