Yep! Don’t even read their stuff I just delete it now

@@mariahconklin4150 yeah interesting how when you avoid them completely no contact, they text you they won't let go, I just blocked their number think they've got the message now. They're so dangerous it's disturbing.

After you’ve blocked them every way possible then they get creative and send you messages through cash app 🤦🏼‍♀️

@@christinewilliams5426 super sickening ! My narcissistic ex did the cash app as well smh I had to block him on that and change my # crazy

@@christinewilliams5426 I know someone who has done this to me. I was shocked.

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LMFAO. I have to agree.

Yep they never do!

Seriously

Yes they never go away

easier said than done sometimes,,the struggle is very very real

Factssss

They are very draining and play mind games, psychos

or pushy salespeople.......

Amen I agree

I'm still in mine 😭, happy for you though!

@@ggold4825 Pray, pray, pray. The Lord will help you find a way out.

@@reynablanc5567 I really pray so, Amen! Thank you!

How did u do it ?

I know a lady who lived unhappy till her kids grown till teen years I’m doing my best not to get my kids to there teen years I want myself back and I wish this year will be the last year here I’m really doing my best but not having any savings or money I have to wait he did say he buy the tickets I send him links and all but he knows making an excuse until we speak to a lawyer he’s trying to get away from child support

gud8heart Handle it best way you can manage, with good self care and minimal contact. Once the child is grown, it is a lot easier. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Take care of yourself as best you can do and learn positive strategies.

We all always have something to learn from whatever situation. The learning is about ourselves and our wounds and reactions

My x was a narc. He tried to hoover me in every way you can imagin and when he couldnt he started the stalking game to scare the hell out of me and i just ignored him. He then started a smearing campagin to destroy my reputation and turn every body i know in my friendship zone and my work inviroment against me. Alot of people believed his shenanegans . I had to leave the work and start my own home based business secretly and am doing really well, thanks to his twisted sick mind, he opened new doors for me i never thought was possible. Started to educate my self on the supject of money, read rich dad poor dad books , think and grow rich, the financicial iq book... you name it . My life is so blessful now and full of fun and joy, self love and self care. You too will be their. You will go through healing and burging emotions, dont resist it, meditate alot, relax alot , sleep alot.. you will be their. It is just a bigining of the self love journy. Am still afraid to love again though thats why i keep visiting those videos just to re assure my self am not gonna repeat the mistake in the future and it kinda remind me of where i was and were am now. Dont give up on your self and never come back to his sick ass. May god protect you sister. Sending you ton of love and healing vibes.

@@erdftzghThank you for sharing your story. This was very helpful for me. Thank you.🌹

I am so sorry that happen!💔 They are the worst kind of people.

Yelp, they have personality disorders, and that makes it even more difficult for them to stop. They don't view their behavior as bad and will blame others for it.

The narcissist tryed to kill me too and failed. I maced him.

Most definitely! They're master liers and slander to anyone who is in earshot. Kinda weeds out the more superficial people in our lives[just in a really painful way]. If I really think about it, do I really want anyone who is foolish enough to believe my narc's flimsy unsupportive lies in my life any longer? No, no matter my relationship with them.

I'm experiencing the same thing. Facing hell after no contact with my narc brother (an only boy Golden child in the family) He started to smear campaign with all the lies. Got my narc dad disowned me and changing the 'will.' and my narc brother now is in charge of all the inheritance -- not only within my family but also from my elderly relatives. i am totally on my own now (raising my son with disability).. freedom!!! yet weaken knees.

@Deplorable Cat Sending love. I know that's hard to realize life might be healthier without some members of your family, or a lot of them if they want you to play along with the toxic person to support delusions about how everything is fine. You're on a journey to a better life!

@@Gapril2000 Stay strong! You don't need that BS in your life and you'll get better eventually without it!

@@LXSeaV Thank you so much for the word of encouragement

But that's the whole point to this video, what to do when we can't go no contact 😊 I agree, no contact is best usually.

@Pogo TheKitty It's extremely hard & some, if not most days, especially in the beginning stages, requires all one has got to maintain the steadfastness. That must be frustrating & it can't be easy when the narc in your life is the other parent of your child. May you remain strong & keep fighting the good fight!

EXACTLY!!👏👏👏

Ok to say that no e is 3rd mother of my children who still young.

@@nickiratliff84 even if there is no contact, some narcissists still violate the personal space of their prey. It's all about power and control, and they simply will not give up easily. Hell, gods and generals can't stop them..These people are sick and mentally deranged. It's the equivalency of a mad dog that won't release their grip when biting it's prey.

Exactly, but you forgot to add act like the victim ...SMH the struggle is real

@@sushannacodnor7394 exactly. It's so sad and sort of scary that people like this really exist.

Please can you help me, I try to break the communication but he threatings me with pictures and everything so this relationship is going for 3 years but I’m so deppressed and done with life. Don’t know what to do

@@shinchxn5838 Pray Patty, God will help you!

pattyy ch patty I think in this cases you can go to police. Threatening someone with private pictures is punishable by law, please seek help, save the conversations, record them. You can get out of this!

Are u sure??

Solid gold advice!!!!

@staringspells You're welcome :) I learnt that one out the hard way, needless to say :D

He spends his free time with me but guards his phone.Wjat can I say to deal with that ?

@@luciacasillas3301 I'm confused, I'm not sure how this relates to what I said.

@@luciacasillas3301 Here is what you can say: "Here, try this cup of hot chocolate; I've been experimenting with some recipes." Then, when the knock out meds kick in, you can get your stuff and leave.

@@lauriej.3544 I'd kick him in his bollox on the way out

Their rage is fear. I cannot handle you not seeing me as powerful. You know im weak and fearful and act in counterphobic ways when they are hurting they act out and then you know their gaslighting because their scared. Control is their method of choice."you won't leave me because i will control u". Like a toddler.

Oh yes, my ex is a covert narcissist...

Learned that the hard way. I was stupid.

I confronted a covert narc. I hope I triggered their rage. You think I triggered them when I pointed out their bullshit? I hope I did!

Thank you. ...i feel so lost

My narc did the same shit but she beat the shit out of me and stole from threw my belongings out

I’m still working on grey rock. It’s sooo hard at times

Were these his kids as well? I have a baby with my bf who I believe is a narc.

Ashley...please tell me how you did or are doing the ‘grey rocking’ on your significant other...I wish I knew some of the tricks of doing this because I might be able to survive until we separate....

Are you still safe and away?

I imagine so - at least I don't have the continual voices of criticism and putdowns ringing inside my head....

I like this grown woman

@@annthatch9244 I'm not a woman....

Best comment! Common sense 101

It is hard or outright impossible to set and enforce boundaries when you're financially dependent. You will need to address this first.

Me too

Me too

My narc sent flying monkeys to my new house in another state!! Super creepy! How did you get them to leave you alone?

Except a great deal of these types of things happens in and at the workplace...ironic isn't it?

@Carla Murphy Carla, Think of it this way. She has no life of her own, so she must copy the life of someone else, to give herself a reality. In a way that is the sadist life of all, because it is a lack of a self she can believe in... It is also a kind of flattery. She see you as a model that is worthy of copying. I know it's creepy, but it is the way some people have a life at all. Don't let her drive you to do something that you do not want to do. Have you talked with her about this?

@Carla Murphy There is a very old saying... Good fences make good neighbors... I think this might be an example of that.

FernCrone I freaking hate that saying !!! Usually said by people who don't get it and don't care to get it.

I agree That saying makes no sense, Hurt people are just that, they're hurt, broken .some like myself get help and spend a lifetime trying to Heal and would never do to someone what was done to them. The narcissist is Emotionally Bullies. Period!

Don Ghiata ~ Praying for you!! Please remember that we are called to endure to the end ... 🙇🏻‍♀️🙏🏻😇 ... Please remember that ultimately we WILL HEAL, while they will remain the same. IMHO, our journey can be used to empower us to help lift & positively empower & support others who are in earlier stages of this "extrication process" getting OUT of this living hell on earth. Please remember that there ARE BETTER DAYS AHEAD, so PLEASE don't let anyone rob you of these!! May God bless you & know that you are in my prayers!

Ann Nally isn't that sick. But true.

FernCrone it's plain and simple they are influenced by demonic spirits.

Akstylez _ak exactly!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Yes I would go back to mine over and over because it was easier just to take him back so I wouldn't have to worry about him stalking me or harassing me or calling my work and coming up to my work. It was rediculous. It was easier just to be with him. Eventually though you start feeling disgusted by them and you need to get away. I finally did. I just stopped reacting to ANYTHING he said or did. It took a few months but he finally got bored and left me for his new supply that he already had lined up. Once they realize they are not going to get ANY more supply from you they will leave you alone.

There is one thing narcs are worth it, 2 narcs as friends ya they would be something to reckon with but they may not mix because of other things. I was teased for about 5 years for being in love, wanting to have sex, and having sex with a coworker that is Lesbian. i found it so hilarious until i knew for a fact a girl and a guy had well talking and teasing me whatever. I still can't believe people thought i was having sex with her but i never did. I never told my coworkers they were teasing harassing me for something i was doing already with another girl after.

Being disassociated is weak af. That's just tolerating a situation: ie: sitting in fire whilst burning telling yourself it's alright and it'll be over soon. That's delusional thinking.

The key to life is preventing unnecessary excess amounts of harm, not tolerating and enduring all you can. Lmao.

Am in the same state here 3 kids with an abusive man and it's not easy

Yes, dont try to figure them out. Just GET OUT a.s.a.p. It's like meth. You cant change meth and figure it out. Its meth and you need to get away. The sooner the better. And you may have to take extreme measures like move to a nother state.

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Absolutely. The only way is to only accept the right energy, which was NOT how victims of abuse was thinking before that. Happiness is your friend and the ones who can portray that in your life are the right ones. It has both become easier to let people go and let people into my life as I'm thinking only in terms of energy and still learn every day to have this way of thinking. You have come a really long way and so has I. There is a HUGE gain by daring to let someone go when they only block your energy levels and prevent you from having a much richer life. Thank you for your comment and I wish every single good thing comes your way.

It's an addiction. Your relationship sounds like my former marriage. I just couldn't let go and he to me. Until finally God h Got sick of it and cut the cords. My eyes were opened and I realized Ive accepted crumbs.

Keep going. It's like your literally addicted and you have wean yourself off, right! I had the hardest time but it gets easier and soooooo worth it.