Sounds like my ex boss and my sister. Both of them purely selfish and evil.

Dit moet illegaal worden! Je mag toch ook niet zomaar als dokter of chirurg aan het werk, dan kun je dit soort informatie toch ook niet zomaar delen.

WHAT she never takes her shirt off at any point in this video? WTF!

Love this video, thank you!

Maybe they resent you because you are brainwashed and toxic.

Thank you for sharing Really helpful advice

Dang, you you look like you got a spare tire around your neck.. Am i being honest or verbally abusive? Or do you have a neck injury, perhaps thats a brace?

Your beautiful

One thing I noticed. I like to keep my car clean on the inside & as clean as possible on the outside. It makes me happy to not have clutter in my car & when people ride with me they don’t have to worry about dirtiness in the floorboards or seats. As soon as the narc left my life, her car was like a wreck. I view it as a reflection of her life. It looks normal on the outside & fun on the outside, but the inside is just a wreck they’re unwilling to deal with.

I’ve watched 100s of videos on moving on and this has been the Best advice I’ve heard! Thank you

I want to be with you

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….often way toooooo much effort to still deal with such a person. I think going ‘no contact’ is still the best option. But difficult if it is a parent for example…

This is why I stay at work way longer than I should and go home late. I'm learning, and I'm getting stronger thanks to lessons like this.

Lots of good points made throughout but life and people are far more complex than a lot of the motives offered remotely take into account. Sometimes the "other woman" is being deceived as well, or got swept away by experiencing a connection more profound than anything they've ever encountered and, I'd aware, being aparty to that infidelity is also a betrayal of the very strong values she does hold regarding commitment, honesty and integrity. She very well may regard you more than your partner clearly does but being unhealthy, stemming from a life where chaos and disfunction ARE the norm. It may be agonizing for her as well, she may realize that she's being used and attempting to kamikaze her way out cause that's the best strategy she can muster in her vulnerable state but she's now just as locked in as you. she too is a victim and a casualty of the wreckless and selfish behaviors of a person you as well are unable to forfeit in exchange for your well being and self respect. The other woman isn't necessarily callous or thoughtless or jealous, nor is she the enemy or aggressor. She's just fallen under the same spell that's kept you so long and will likely keep you longer, which demonstrates no better health than either of the other parties. Point the finger where it belongs or better yet, do everyone a favor and drop the asshole cause losing whatever's keeping them there is the only thing that'll make them reflect on those actions, feel an ounce of remorse or learn to do better in the future, if that's even possible.

Thank you sister! I hear my story in yours and I am finding healing on this journey.

Smearing is hard to deal with because your dealing with something that’s going on in a covert way behind your back so you can’t defend yourself, just walk in your truth and let the haters hate, they will reap what they sow

The higher you go the more hater you have, the more people will Jealous you

Thank you Stephanie. Always helpful, g

Because you detach

The vocal fry at the end of every sentence. You guys are obnoxious

I’ve met two people who I called “friend” at some point who turned out to be JUST like this. It’s sad. No thanks. Life and relationships can be hard enough. I don’t need to keep these types of people close nor rekindle any toxic friendships I ended before with them. I hope they heal and grow. I will never get close enough to find out again though. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Wisdom and beauty 😍 power combo. "Finish him"

Quick 3 signs, they talk over you at times, they are never wrong, they can't apologize.

So privacy is a weapon they use?

❤❤Does anyone else has ideas on how to handle the latter situation described in my comment??❤❤ Hmmm... this video gave me a new idea in regards to something that happened tonight. An aquintance took me out to dinner to anrestaurant of a friend. While I spoke to rhe owner two of their mutal friends came in. Whil ai was speaking to the owner one of them rudely said "hellooo?!?" Because he wanted to give me a hand. I "unfortunately" reactes by turning to him and giving him a hand, while after the video I realise I can respond diffently next time by saying to the owner "excuse me please', then turn to the new person and tell them that I am happy to meet them after I finish my talk. The problem occurs when they start to emgage the person you speak to and that person allows them to interrupt the conversation between you two. It makes you look like an idiot and I would not know hpw to respond to these type of behaviours. Its always a person with a certain type of energy that feels entitled to interrupts others and their conversation. As if they make it a sport to see if they are able of it or not. Pretty annoying if you ask me.

You can coach me anytime.

If you think making a video while you are driving and being distracted from driving while you ramble on ...is a good idea ? Then I'm not taking any notice of any of your advice

I just had a breakup. We’ve been together for almost 2 years. But on our 1 year and 3 mos. He became cold and unsexual. He talked that he admired woman so much, he likes women. Though i i thought he was bisexual or gay when we met. But things changed, he felt guilty. By watching a lot of straight porns. And then he talked this matter to me. And decided it off. But im still on wreck. He, on the other side wanted to continue our friendship and companionship. Help me what should i do😭😭😭😫

I know what men need want desire...I know all of it for myself also....🎉

Sooo true ❤ thank you

Triangulation

I Do this ...its why ive decided to stay single the past 5 years . Lots of self work ❤

She was a liar a cheater, always plays the victim, fakes being sick plays on people, no empathy, very competitive can’t take any criticism

You will insure so much abuse. They will destroy you...

A narc doesn't have a soul mate or even understand the capacity of the meaning. They have no soul or love. They are psychopaths. Evil get away from them...

Sadly my parents are these persons....they always find the hair in my soup and always tell me bad things not to be too positive about myself😢

I'm not all the way done watching this video but, I know of a person who's like this and they need help.. Will therapy assist a narc?

I feel the pain of loss with my health and a relationship I gave my all to..even risked my health at times...now it's time to focus on me and whatever quality time I have left before my health declines again

I break up a week ago . I loved a man strongly . I try to be happy but it’s difficult now, I work out every day , eat healthy food ,go to work but I do want nothing, don’t want to communicate with anyone, I always want to cry , I have lost my dream

they are like living with a perpetual psychological operation. you definitely need to stay sharp, because you never know what or when. most of what this woman says is spot on, though she sounds like a newbie. best advice is just getting them out of your life, if possible. they are not fixable, i have been trying for a decade. it is something that happened in the development stage, probably in the crib.

This is SO HELPFUL to me, thank you!!! I live with someone who has outbursts and blowups out of the blue on crazy, little things. It’s just nuts!! And living in this environment is so taxing and utterly exhausting! I want to run away from my home at times and not come back. I’m currently working hard to heal from a recent cancer dx and I’m realizing separating myself from this person/detaching from him at these times is crucial!!! Thank you for this great info!🤓👏🏻👏🏻 I especially appreciate the part about not taking their issues upon us. It’s their problem, not ours. Thank you for this❤❤❤❤

I was in a 2 year relationship with a woman with narcissistic traits. Luckily, my mental and emotional strength got me through that roller-coaster without damage and I don’t feel that "it's not fair" feeling. I wonder if that's because I'm the one who ended it? Either way, I learned a lot and know the red flags to watch out for in the future thanks to channels like this one. Thank you.

It's like they are some kind of creature.

Some Narcissist's are demon possessed.That demon is that roaring rage also that demon inside th will cause them to torture themselves 👿🧟.They also have a fake child personality.lieing,crying, gaslighting,stealing ,manipulating,controling you,, torturing themselves,cheating,wrecking your finances ,hitting you,and throwing things.They will laugh when they hurt you,binge eating and do illegal drugs.

Karen

I can tell you care about the ppl 🤍

This is SO TRUE thank you for reaffirming this and there is no point in biting back Just walk away

There is always option #3 Decide I have had enough of this type BS! Make it a mindset & own it!... I will choose to NOT put up with this BS anymore! there are other people out there " Literally 7.5+ billion people ". There is someone who will appreciate me for who I am. I deserve to live life happy, without the mental abuse & without the games. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life in this type of relationship?🤔