REALIZING A FEW OF MY FRIENDS HAVE DONE THIS TO ME REST IN PEACE ME

Wow i followed all these tips and now i am rich and can buy lots of useless stuff to fill the empty space where my heart used to be

I hate it when people repeat what I say Me: "I like dogs" Person: "you like dogs" Me: yes, are you deaf or stupid?

i can't do the tired one. whenever my mom is tired she gets annoyed and tells me to leave. 😂

If somebody will ask me smth when I'm tired, I'm not going to do it tomorrow. I'll never do it!:)))) I'm tired. leave me alone lol

the force is strong in my wife. this wouldn't work in million years.

Summary of the "Science of Influence" and my humble opinion of whether they have worked or not according to my personal experiences: 1. Compliments - True, just don't overdo it, if you do then people can usually tell you want something 2. Repeat things back - Very true, especially if you're a waiter 3. Ask for more than what you actually want - Definitely true, did this all the time as a kid and still do it now in salary negotiations 4. Use people's names when you speak to them - Kind of true, but don't overdo it and make sure to call the person by the name they prefer i.e. Joe vs. Joseph 5. Listening is more powerful than talking - Obviously true 6. Flattery - True but not really sure how this is different from giving someone a compliment...sounds more like sucking up which does work on egotistical people 7. Ask people for favors when they're tired - FYI most people will forget what you asked them and will need a reminder so will therefore do it out of guilt

You already got whay you want, but your mind makes you unable to see it. What you want is to be fulfilled. Living life in the head(mind) like everyone currently is doing is a lot less fulfilling then to live free of that constant mental noise. If we can just get the mind out the way and live in the present moment, which is the only thing that exists, has ever existed and ever will exist, then we have reached the peak of evolution. Google *truthcontest*, click the earth icon, read *the present*. Its the most revolutionary and important book written in modern times and it will change everything when people read it.

A still tongue keeps a wise head............

I remember reading about the use of someone's name in the famous Dale Carnegie book, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" when I was in high school. I think he oversold it as something like "the sweetest sound to a person's ears is his own name". Actually, I think it is good to use people's names like we use salt in our food. Both absence and overuse are bad. It's creepy when someone keeps repeating your name, especially in a way that seems manipulative or ingratiating. You should also acknowledge you are learning someone's name before using it, not just reading it off their name tag and talking to them like you've already been introduced or have known them for years. You should also mention your own name, and acknowledge them as a person: "Pleased to meet you", "Welcome to the neighborhood", etc. When you see someone you've already met, it's good to say their name at least once each time you meet them, usually at the start, not just say "Hello, [you implied]". People like to know you at least remember their name and don't think of them as merely a generic "human". Whatever you say, it has to be with sincerity. Genuine words, mannerisms, body language, and actions naturally flow from a genuine attitude toward others.

When someone says something and you repeat it back as a question, most of the time they'll think you're NOT listening. Unless you repeat it back in an excited tone.

When I was a kid I'd always ask my dad for something when he was taking a nap since he would only half pay attention and mumble "sure I guess so" and then if he forgot I could quote him later :P

1. Compliments 2. Repeat back 3. Ask more, ask less 4. Use there nane 5. Sincere validation 6 ask favours when they r tired, keep them to it 7. Listen more

And don't forget Homer Simpson's wise words "Good idea, boss"

I've been doing the say their names one a lot. It does seem to work especially if you have good enunciation.

I've always liked using this psychology ish in my favour when it comes to dealing with people.

Thank you

Great video!

amaizing video...great job

what is the background music called?

used to wait for my mom to nap to ask for stuff...always worked for me lol

Thanks

I love these videos. the Internet is so fun

if you are born with good abilities and skills, you don't have to try hard. Being yourself with natural business skills or lots of practice gives more credit to people instead of being fake and calculating too much.

thanks

I'm going to try this.

will this work if your parents if they are like grades this and grades that

Except now I realise I act this way and say and do all these things naturally.. That's why I know and love so many people ok

oh I was doing it before watching this video.. i though everyone knows that (except the last one - ask people when they're tired)

I think we all already know these steps from when we were kids and wanted stuff from our parents. P.s. I still am a kid that how I know

i didn't realize what i was doing but the tired one works. last night, i asked my mom if we could go get lattes but she was tired so I told her, "that's okay, maybe another time" i went to sleep, woke up, and there they were.. a pumpkin scone and an iced latte. not exactly what i wanted, but i was grateful to have gotten at least something.

I actually already do some of these things explains alot

Listening is very important kids To get infomation!!

Quite interesting

I love the cartoons in the flatter part:" a hair full of yard, a yard full of hair".....lol

This is pretty cool

I absolutely hate it when people use my name.

i dint understand your last point. please somebody explain me.

this isn't new to me but these tips really do work some people are just too stupid to know how to use them

ya ! it's all true I feel

asking people when they're tired is bad advice.

Lol. This video is funny and helpful.

Does this also work on dogs ?

the last tips tho 😂

As with most things in life, a little is good, don't overdo it.

I like such videos . You should make similar videos .

nice

Good

I've always used the ask for more one since I was a child, 83% of the time it's worked 🤓

Gosh, I love these kinds of videos. By watching these videos, I might take on psychology as a major!

management in business relationship with physiological therapist.

this works in business not in the personal spectrum. I've used this without knowing it.

Lol I do the one where u ask for more but then asks for less lol

Free lunch of cheap pizza even works in big corporate offices. I laugh at the scurry of free food in the lunch room. Keeps their moral up.

There are a variety of other factors that come into play with almost all of this which can cause poor results for any of their users, but, as someone who studies psychology, I would *guess that only the last tip is going to work with some level of consistency.

It works OMG

_Ask people when they're tired_ Me: "hey, are you tired?" Them: "yes."

I go by a nickname with all my friends so when I'm at work and someone goes with what's on my name tag it gets annoying really fast when they say it over and over, lol

I thought me repeating what they said might have been unsocial, or annoying/repetitive, so I tried to do it less often, but do you typically like it?

You didn't list it but my number one tip is to act humble. You wouldn't believe how many things people will do for you as long as they feel good about comitting a self-less act.

Matt Johnston is a great creator!

love the background music. i don't always these type of videos.

Lol, Asking for favor while people are tired? It's what I sometimes do XD

Always Listen First I'm an introvert and I do that all time

All of these works! Of course, you will get in trouble if you will do that with negative intentions.

I have now the mind control ability

i do most of these unintentionally knowing it's working in my favor

Calling me by my first name repels me. Entitling people by their last name is an act of Elegance.

I SAY, ....WHEN YOU WANT SOMEONE TO DO SOMETHING FOR YOU, OR FOR FAVOR, U GOTTA MAKE THEM HAPPY FIRST AND FOREMOST,,, THEN theres a greater chance they do u a favor,,

*manipulation*

lol I do all these subcontiously when I talk to people

How to troll people 101 lol

Always tell the other person what's in it for him/her if he agrees to do it. Humans always look for the option which rewards them the most, it's an evolution of our survival instincts.

So in theory if I ask someone for a million dollars and then later on say ten dollars they will eventually give me a million dollars... Right?

I solemnly swear to only use this on people doing harm on me or in my life

In high school I really wanted to get into marketing as it seemed so cool to be able to manipulate people for personal profit. Then I tried ecstasy and realized the only thing that matters in life is the personal experience of the self and others and thus that happiness is the only true currency.

thanks now I'll never get conned into buying something

what if you know and you just feel manipulated all the time?

I would be careful with some of these tips. Apparently I work differently: Giving me compliments will discredit you (my assumption will be that you are fanny kissing, I know my worth and need no validation), do not say my name out loud in a discussion - the only effect will be that you piss me off (I know my name and it is insulting that you have to say it back to me like I'm a little brat in school), do not ask for stuff when I am tiered you will get 0 favors and a grumpy me. I can't be the only one who feels like that. I use a different approach with the people around me and it works.

1:"I Like Dogs !" 2:"You Like Dogs ?" 3:"THATS WHAT I JUST SAID HOLY S**T"

High five if you took a screenshot, or wrote down the review of the tips. :)

OK the weird part is this actually worked against a few people😳👌🏻👍🏻

It works I wannted my friend who has big page on Instagram to shout me out she said yes

and thats what im calling NLP

I hate it when people say my name to me.

I want tickets to revival tour

With these seven pillars, I shall rule the World. MWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

To be honest if I were truly evil I would try random stuff to mess with people and write a book to grade my performance so that I finally perfect my skill :)

How does asking people for work when tired helps?

i use them every time but still get FRIEND-ZONED !

I like dogs... you like dogs?? lmfao classic

How can repeating the same words help? It's actually kinda annoying. Like, are you deaf or something? Can you read?

This makes me feel like I would be manipulating others.

What if I hate people?

Influence or manipulate?

I don't understand the last one.

I think repeating things back to people is probably one of the most annoying things you can do. I hate repeating myself.

Aww

let's admit it guys- we're all here for a reason 0_0

What's the difference between the point: COMPLIMENTS and the point: FLATTERY