How to get someone to like you

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Science of People

Science of People

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It can be hard to make friends and sometimes we don't even know where to begin. There's a science to likability and I've compiled 5 science-backed tips to use when you feel stuck in a social rut.
In this video, I will teach you how to be more likable, confident, and memorable by authentically being yourself. Remember that you are awesome and the right people will always find you.
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In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:55 Science Behind Likability
2:02 Step #1: Use signaling
4:40 Step #2: We like people who like us
5:41 Step #3: Use the similarity attraction effect
6:33 Step #4: Highlight similarities
8:05 Step #5: Be the real deal
8:51 I like you
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@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын
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@suneetrachapudi6903
@suneetrachapudi6903 2 жыл бұрын
I LIKE YOU
@doubledoc7807
@doubledoc7807 2 жыл бұрын
I like you, Vanessa..
@Dmm3333
@Dmm3333 Жыл бұрын
I’m a human and animal magnet 🧲 but my husband son and fiancé barely look at me on the eyes when having a conversation with my husband or in a family meal. They only talk to my husband and the rest of the family. I have tried now for 3 years to get closer to them and be friends but I just gave up. I believe I don’t have to be begging to be liked by them when the rest of people around me love me.
@marygiy7524
@marygiy7524 Жыл бұрын
@@suneetrachapudi6903I.
@geejae4243
@geejae4243 5 жыл бұрын
be careful of attracting narcs and people who talk to you because you're such a great listener- but who wont genuinely listen back when it comes to your end.
@sallymay3643
@sallymay3643 4 жыл бұрын
TRUE !
@melanielambrecht6530
@melanielambrecht6530 4 жыл бұрын
Too late
@minerolargo8657
@minerolargo8657 4 жыл бұрын
What's a narc
@59thanks61
@59thanks61 4 жыл бұрын
Ya, also be careful with listening too much because, sometimes people just want to "Dump" on you.
@loratoad
@loratoad 4 жыл бұрын
Being likeable doesn't mean you have to listen to people who provide no value to you, hog the conversation and reciprocate interest. People also like people who have healthy boundaries. It's not authentic to keep listen to someone you're not interested in.
@mohanpanickerpanicker8767
@mohanpanickerpanicker8767 5 жыл бұрын
"I like you. Let's be friends" The good olden days
@msgirly6827
@msgirly6827 4 жыл бұрын
Right😂
@lunamoonlight5102
@lunamoonlight5102 4 жыл бұрын
Is that what they did back in the day?
@zephyr1327
@zephyr1327 3 жыл бұрын
@@lunamoonlight5102 probably means when he/she were young
@lewokecrybabyjames5828
@lewokecrybabyjames5828 2 жыл бұрын
That's some weak tea dude. Lmao 🤣
@blackpurple9163
@blackpurple9163 3 ай бұрын
Now that'll put me in the wrong spot
@4lezcollection
@4lezcollection 3 жыл бұрын
God, I can’t even tell you how much your videos have helped me in just a span of 2 days. I found you literally two days ago and followed everything you’ve said so far and I’m already saying hello to strangers, making conversation with strangers, smiling more, and just feel overall more comfortable in my own skin. I’m typically very shy, introverted, and would always just walk around with a serious face to avoid talking to people. Boy, have things changed. Thank you.
@varshboorugadda2327
@varshboorugadda2327 3 жыл бұрын
W
@4lezcollection
@4lezcollection 3 жыл бұрын
@@varshboorugadda2327 Yes.
@varshboorugadda2327
@varshboorugadda2327 3 жыл бұрын
@@4lezcollection how you doing now bro?
@luckyboy2933
@luckyboy2933 2 жыл бұрын
it’s been 6 months… how are you now?
@4lezcollection
@4lezcollection 2 жыл бұрын
@@luckyboy2933 I’m doing way better than I was back then. I feel significantly more comfortable in my own being. Additionally, I tried a 100-interaction-challenge at the same time and this also helped a lot. I’ve excelled a lot both in the workplace and outside of it. It’s great. Watching these videos was a really good starting point for me.
@Amoona851
@Amoona851 4 жыл бұрын
1. Use signaling (show liking) 2. We like people who like us ( the more we like people, the more people like us) 3. Use the similarity attraction affect 4. Highlight similarities ( we like people who are similar to us) 5. Be the real deal ( be real)
@Poetry4Peace
@Poetry4Peace Жыл бұрын
YESSIRRR when i get back to being in a social situation i need to do this ive locked myself in my mind lmao
@anniem2777
@anniem2777 Жыл бұрын
The more we like someone the more they like us is a lie
@pro12222222
@pro12222222 5 жыл бұрын
1 signal likability 2 If you like more people, more people like you 3 Highlight similarities
@CCCC-tq8yo
@CCCC-tq8yo 5 жыл бұрын
Whow everyone hates me now
@shaanbullet
@shaanbullet 5 жыл бұрын
you missed some points bud
@soultears9736
@soultears9736 4 жыл бұрын
Why do people like I hate everything then? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
@hanestshirtsarecool
@hanestshirtsarecool 4 жыл бұрын
The last time I said "hey baby girl,,, I like you😉" I was arrested🙁
@CapCrunch45
@CapCrunch45 Жыл бұрын
The fourth point about being real reminds me of some childhood wisdom the late Mister Rogers taught: “You've made this day a special day, by just your being you. There's no person in the whole world like you, and I like you just the way you are.”
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
Yes! Love it. Thank you for sharing ❤️
@iamhope8556
@iamhope8556 4 жыл бұрын
I am over coming depression, always felt like people just do not like me. I am going to use your teaching to become better, thank you
@ariannaturtles6489
@ariannaturtles6489 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@Kteeee
@Kteeee Жыл бұрын
I hope you’ve made it through your depression 2 years later but just wanted to give a tip. Something I learned myself at a very young age and has served me well my whole life (I haven’t even watched this video yet) This tip is also a great way to help with depression because in a way ur helping somebody else. Putting your own problems and worries aside to listen to someone else’s story makes you feel valuable, appreciated and gives u a sense of purpose, which is what all of us are looking for. Why do u think so many people who suffer from depression become therapists?! ‘Give a man and why and he’ll endure almost any how’ -Nietzsche So here’s my tip: If you treat every person you meet as if they are an unopened book filled with interesting ideas, stories, quirks, skills and things you can learn and then you simply ask them about themselves in a genuine manner and show interest as if ur about to learn something new, interesting and useful, people will talk your ears off about themselves and their lives. Then just relate to them with a few things they’ve said but keep it at a minimum and don’t talk too much about yourself. Keep the focus on them. Be interested. Be understanding. Don’t be judgmental. Try to relate to what they are saying. People will remember that u made them feel interesting and useful and wanted and understood. All the things everyone wants to feel. They won’t like u. They’ll love u. And they won’t forget you especially in this narcissistic age we live in. This rarely doesn’t work in my opinion. Everyone has a story to tell and everyone is looking for someone to tell it to. Our epidemic of loneliness is due to an epidemic of narcissism and self-centeredness. Everyone is too busy caring about themselves to ask how their neighbor is doing and quietly everyone is crying alone in their bedrooms. If you become that person who genuinely wants to learn about someone, they will think very highly of you and it will take the focus off yourself, which will help with depression. Just my thoughts hope ur doing better these days
@DynastyTrickDogs
@DynastyTrickDogs Жыл бұрын
@@Kteeee That is such a nice idea. Thanks for sharing it with us
@Poetry4Peace
@Poetry4Peace Жыл бұрын
@@Kteeee defo need to take the focus off myself waaay moreee just one MAJORE problemo is that i need frnds and people to talk too!! Im trying bumble BFF, wink and whatever else i must overcome it all or ill DIE a thousand deaths every week. I do consider myself to be a keen listener but with my loneliness since the pandemicos! I really need to be able to express my probelms with myself but getting to know someone and laughing with them is my big goal so simple, many take this for granted IM SURE😢
@geewhiz747
@geewhiz747 3 жыл бұрын
Don't become obsessed with being liked to the point where you get into "pushover" territory
@amb3rmous3
@amb3rmous3 4 жыл бұрын
Being liked is very important. You can love someone you don’t like. That says something lol
@POPDATA
@POPDATA 4 жыл бұрын
I think it's better to like yourself truly before going out and measuring your life according to what others think of you.
@tammycompton4355
@tammycompton4355 2 жыл бұрын
POP DATA, you do have a very good point & Sometimes we should work on liking ourselves 1st & many seem to judge us if we don't wish to or for whatevr reasons,cannot put ourselves out there for the liking.& thanks for seeing this 1 other important side.God wants us to like ourselves 1st,& then others,Aftr we hold him the Highest King..
@MsBizzyGurl
@MsBizzyGurl 2 жыл бұрын
Too many implied commitments in cultivating likeability. Just be friendly. Be kind, open, cheerful and try to help others succeed.
@adityasangore5323
@adityasangore5323 5 жыл бұрын
If someone like us sometimes we feel that people will have more expectations from us or vice versa.. Sometimes we run away because we feel pressured by them as they like us..
@amamuffin
@amamuffin 2 жыл бұрын
These days it’s all about boundaries which is why people remain to themselves
@lilycai7614
@lilycai7614 2 жыл бұрын
I like Vanessa. She have that niceness about her that seems genuine.
@alaynabaker9872
@alaynabaker9872 3 жыл бұрын
this woman makes me feel safe
@IM-uh5tk
@IM-uh5tk 2 жыл бұрын
2:05 use signalling, be direct and don't hide your feelings . 4:43 if you like more people, more people will like you . 5:43 we like people who are like us so highlight your similarities . 8:07 be real/yourself
@meforpresident4514
@meforpresident4514 3 жыл бұрын
This is why a lot of shows don’t make sense, being likable usually makes you more popular, but on tv, people who are rude and mean somehow become the popular kid. That’s also a reason why a lot of people are jealous of the “popular” person. Because of how liked they are by everyone.
@prik4727
@prik4727 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes this isn’t true. If you like people too much they think you are easy or low value and then they disrespect you and take you for granted. But if you’re a bit aloof and hard to get then people actually respect you and want to earn your ‘like’. Human beings are insane.
@mrsmagicalmonica
@mrsmagicalmonica 5 жыл бұрын
Like is the appetizer of love. That’s spot on! Vanessa, I consistently enjoy your videos.
@soniasinghinternational
@soniasinghinternational 5 жыл бұрын
I’m hungry for appetizers now. 😋
@WILLYLYNCH.
@WILLYLYNCH. 4 жыл бұрын
@@soniasinghinternational that sounds sexual.
@bigthonk4904
@bigthonk4904 4 жыл бұрын
WILLY LYNCH no it doesn’t, ur just a perv
@tinfoilcynic6042
@tinfoilcynic6042 4 жыл бұрын
big thonk Why am i creasin at the reply 😂
@ejl8412
@ejl8412 3 жыл бұрын
@@bigthonk4904 no hes right it does. 99% of it is cause of the emoji she used.
@aprilpointblank
@aprilpointblank 5 жыл бұрын
The likeability loop is sooo real. Good insight. Everyone’s scared to make the first move.
@samain1804
@samain1804 10 ай бұрын
She's like the messenger of life itself =)
@1975KyleDavid
@1975KyleDavid Жыл бұрын
I've learned a lot about talkers to recognize someone who has low self-esteem. It's one thing to have an open conversation that includes everyone and something else when someone talks primarily about one's self. Those who talk about themselves all the time lack confidence--I stay away from them.
@Nikthehermit
@Nikthehermit Жыл бұрын
Watching her is so refreshing because she is genuinely really easy to like
@adriancurtin6012
@adriancurtin6012 2 жыл бұрын
Information she gives out is golddust.Thought I was the only one who analysed their day after it was over.
@user-bz1wh6xe4m
@user-bz1wh6xe4m 4 жыл бұрын
1. Use signaling (show That you like them) 2. We like people who like us ( the more we like people, the more people like us) 3. Use the similarity attraction affect 4. Highlight similarities ( we like people who are similar to us) 5. Be the real deal ( be real)
@teepot4539
@teepot4539 2 жыл бұрын
4. Hello racism
@BringingPrettyBack
@BringingPrettyBack 2 жыл бұрын
🤗
@sexyearthangel4god
@sexyearthangel4god 2 жыл бұрын
5. If you’re real and eccentric you’re still only attracting a small percentage of people. So to be liked by everyone you’d indeed need to be fake.
@pragyankakati3092
@pragyankakati3092 Жыл бұрын
​@@sexyearthangel4god yeah.. it's like teaching multiplicative and at the end they say "don't use × symbol"
@curtisfoster4256
@curtisfoster4256 5 жыл бұрын
Vanessa’s the real, educated deal. Every word from her mouth is pure gold.
@jeanpaulfiligrana6182
@jeanpaulfiligrana6182 2 жыл бұрын
This woman is an angel. You have changed my life one video at a time, thank you for opening my eyes
@Breeannful
@Breeannful 5 жыл бұрын
Seriously though, I don't let some people know I like them, because I don't want to talk to them.. I like some of my neighbors fine, I just don't want to have conversations with them...
@joelover2631
@joelover2631 Жыл бұрын
You are way underrated, the talent you have and work you do is amazing.
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@joelover2631
@joelover2631 Жыл бұрын
@@ScienceOfPeople and your beautiful.
@chrisdiephuis
@chrisdiephuis 2 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite channel let me tell you. I’m obsessed and your insight has been extremely valuable! Thank you☺️
@jazminsilverplans4933
@jazminsilverplans4933 5 жыл бұрын
This was good. I just recently stepped out of my shell and started a KZfaq. It’s my way of liking myself more. And this video just boosted me a little more. Thank you 🙏
@familyguy6668
@familyguy6668 5 жыл бұрын
Vanessa your amazing, empowering and optimistic it’s almost contagious thank you so much for your hard word much love can’t wait to see more and I’m so buying your book ❤️
@karlag478
@karlag478 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Vanessa!
@halfinjapan
@halfinjapan 4 жыл бұрын
THAT LAST PART. THANK YOU! we love you!
@lynnec3372
@lynnec3372 4 жыл бұрын
Very useful information and I can honestly say that I have made the mistake of thinking my proficiency as a dependable, skilled worker would soar me to new heights and make me totally likeable in my profession. Not so.. you have to mingle, schmooze, laugh, relate, smile and relax around people you work with while at the SAME time, keep yourself securely insulated from those who have no intention of returning the like/love.. and with time, it becomes effortless I'm sure.
@warzanCheecho
@warzanCheecho 4 жыл бұрын
You are amazing, keep going 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️ I am just watching you these days. It makes to keep watching everyday 🦅😍💪🏽
@bypig
@bypig 3 жыл бұрын
The first tip alone helped me more than all of my years of searching KZfaq for social skills. It’s so simple and make sense, thank you
@magesense456
@magesense456 5 жыл бұрын
Vanessa, you break down the science and make everything you say applicable.
@andrewboland1062
@andrewboland1062 Жыл бұрын
I think it's a bad idea to get just anyone to like you, you'll become a people pleaser all your life, Just like yourself for who you are and the right ones will follow
@MS-vz7pg
@MS-vz7pg 4 жыл бұрын
She's pretty. She's sassy. She's smart. What more can you ask for? She's one in a million.
@sarast7768
@sarast7768 3 жыл бұрын
You deserve more my dear💖. You are one of my favorites. You changed my life and I REALLY LIKE YOU.
@LivingChartz
@LivingChartz 4 жыл бұрын
I should have found your channel two years back. I so love your content!
@gerijoz5628
@gerijoz5628 2 жыл бұрын
People think I’m weird when I’m too nice . They look at me like I am Martian from outer space. I’ve gotten burned so many times that now I seem stand off ish. All I know is Jesus SAID TREAT OTHERS THE WAY You WANT TO BE TRATED . I will continue to do this. I did these that what she said was true I did enjoy making friends when I was younger. Kids are more genuine than adults .
@nasradhool6072
@nasradhool6072 4 жыл бұрын
I really love you Vanessa Van Edwards every single video of yours give me a hope and love and confidence you are one of my best teachers 😍😍😍😍😍😍
@shelizabethomas
@shelizabethomas 2 жыл бұрын
The second point is so relatable. I often find myself liking most people I meet, and I seem to get along with a lot of people I meet. This does not however translate into sustained friendships, I guess that effort is more...effortful
@mike-yp1uk
@mike-yp1uk 11 ай бұрын
I am impressed with the speaking skills and gestures made during this presentation. The excitement of her speech was clear in vocal inflection. Give us all your tips on speech. Lol
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 11 ай бұрын
Thank you! We have tons of tips on this on my website. Here's an article you may find helpful! www.scienceofpeople.com/public-speaking-tips/
@FromAgonyToLight
@FromAgonyToLight 4 жыл бұрын
I have extreme social phobia and an anxiety disorder, just trying to show people I like them (just friendship-wise) drains me and freaks me out to the point where I just want to run to a bathroom and throw up. This video helps people who are able to express confidence I feel, but I can still appreciate the tips.
@chrgutierrez
@chrgutierrez 5 жыл бұрын
Where have you been all this years? You rock Vanessa!!!!
@roulaharfoush
@roulaharfoush 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Vanessa!! 🙌
@gauravv3367
@gauravv3367 3 жыл бұрын
The presentation of your videos are beyond perfection. I don't lose interest at all throughout video 🤗
@kelkel90ful
@kelkel90ful 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful for her thank you Vanessa
@ashamehta6887
@ashamehta6887 5 жыл бұрын
Very true and very sweet. Thanks
@ashleyisinthekitchen8945
@ashleyisinthekitchen8945 3 жыл бұрын
Vanessa, I really appreciate these videos! Thank you for sharing 😊
@CoenVazquez
@CoenVazquez 5 жыл бұрын
The likability loop!!! OMG YESSSS. People do this so often, I have done it in the past, and no one knows how anyone feels. Hahaha... that part made me laugh because it's so true. Now I've gotten in the habit of doing just as you suggest and I immediately tell people straight out "hey I really like you!" and I give genuine and unique compliments as often as I can like "Hey, you're really creative in your solutions in a way that makes me really giddy. I like that and you!" FIRST BUMP. I noticed that as I grow older... for some reason I have moved from high fiving people to fist bumping. I've noticed that people get more excited about fist bumps. What do you think?
@elvinaguiremolina
@elvinaguiremolina 5 жыл бұрын
True
@elleellis1063
@elleellis1063 5 жыл бұрын
Fist pump is what boxers do to show sportsmanship before they beat each other.😇
@aneliseisfree3602
@aneliseisfree3602 5 жыл бұрын
@@elleellis1063 LOL !!! 😆
@chanthana7694
@chanthana7694 2 жыл бұрын
I could be the minority here, but I personally like fist bumps over high five. It feels more friendly as if that person is your close friends. On the plus side, you catch less germ from fist bumps over high five, but that's not what I'm going for. Lol
@CoenVazquez
@CoenVazquez 2 жыл бұрын
@@chanthana7694 I agree! And it's so much more fun.
@bredman9348
@bredman9348 2 жыл бұрын
wow. after watching an uncountable umber of these types of videos for he past few months, nothing has helped me or made more sense to me than this video! I instantly understood why people came off as not liking me. it wasn't because im a terrible person, but because I'm trying to play it cool so I don't wanna make people think I like them, just in case they don't like me. I realized I should smile and say high in the halls and assume that people like me because whats the harm in doing that. I could look back on all the social experiences I've deemed as good or bad and asses why that was so, just based off of this video! Great Job👍😀
@sophiasuerth1964
@sophiasuerth1964 4 жыл бұрын
I love how you worded the “like circle”, I agree it’s best to be direct when you like someone, you do miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. You need to voice what you feel.
@sumeeet4u
@sumeeet4u 5 жыл бұрын
I have a different opinion on "we like people who are like us". I would think we like people who have quality that we lack or aspire to have. But nevertheless, great video.
@zephyr1327
@zephyr1327 3 жыл бұрын
I think the thing that made me like this youtuber the most was her constant smile whilst talking. It made me feel safe and reassured.
@andigold9977
@andigold9977 5 жыл бұрын
Fantastic vid..! What you said really makes sense.....Thanks.
@johnbehneman1546
@johnbehneman1546 4 жыл бұрын
Great video Vanessa!!!! I learned so much!!!! Thanks for sharing!!!!
@chlidera75
@chlidera75 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Vanessa, another great value-added video on social behavior. I LIKE it a lot :)
@sanjaygurjar9650
@sanjaygurjar9650 4 жыл бұрын
One of the best video on the subject of likability.
@henrikr3435
@henrikr3435 2 жыл бұрын
I think you hold on to such a great likability, and we do not have much in common. But I still like your apperance much
@Iguanchik
@Iguanchik 4 жыл бұрын
Vanessa, this was INCREDIBLE!!! exactly what I needed ❤️
@darrencapel1168
@darrencapel1168 Жыл бұрын
LĎA
@abyssmanur3965
@abyssmanur3965 5 жыл бұрын
This is why smokers get along when confined to the smokers area. i've had some great conversations with total strangers who would probably not chat with you in other circumstances.
@mr.n476
@mr.n476 4 жыл бұрын
Factsss!
@BoereViking
@BoereViking 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not smoker, not cigarettes anyway. And I always sit with the smokers met some good friends like that.
@lewokecrybabyjames5828
@lewokecrybabyjames5828 2 жыл бұрын
Smokers are disgusting human beings always throwing their cigarette buts out of the car. It's the number trash item in the entire world! Just disgraceful 😞. The world isn't your fucking ashtray.
@emmymoorelakor7710
@emmymoorelakor7710 3 ай бұрын
Thanks😊
@sealseba8762
@sealseba8762 3 жыл бұрын
Love you Vanessa! You know your stuff.
@AlexaSaarenoja
@AlexaSaarenoja 3 жыл бұрын
thank you!
@isabela927
@isabela927 3 жыл бұрын
I loved this tips!!!
@christinasimpson5387
@christinasimpson5387 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@mygreatestdayever
@mygreatestdayever 4 жыл бұрын
This just makes me feel good! I'm ready to go out and like everybody I meet!
@lewokecrybabyjames5828
@lewokecrybabyjames5828 2 жыл бұрын
Some people want to just be left alone. Be careful who you talk to. Look for social cues. Like if they aren't directly looking at you they don't want to talk to you. They are just being polite.
@karrisajoss4271
@karrisajoss4271 5 жыл бұрын
All of your videos are insightful and inspiring. Thank you for sharing the. 😊
@nathantoth1527
@nathantoth1527 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing video!
@lizzie1897
@lizzie1897 Жыл бұрын
Transparency, sincerity, capacity to understand
@JeremyKenny
@JeremyKenny 5 жыл бұрын
Storming it Vanessa keep it up research based findings like these enable and empower.
@jimanderson8470
@jimanderson8470 4 жыл бұрын
Vanessa seems easy to like and communicates well. Really expressive with her hands. Funny I haven't seen her before now.
@chienandhang
@chienandhang 3 жыл бұрын
I love you Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@elizabethpatterson3982
@elizabethpatterson3982 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you I appreciate that.Have a fun day.
@wogeltobler869
@wogeltobler869 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Vanessa, from Brazil. Your lessons is so top professional.
@sarahpfeuffer1396
@sarahpfeuffer1396 2 жыл бұрын
Great advice! Thank you!
@jovanpantelic8536
@jovanpantelic8536 5 жыл бұрын
Love it. Great skills. Thank you
@waleedmaghrabi3878
@waleedmaghrabi3878 Жыл бұрын
You are a marvelous gift to people in need to grow up their style of life 🌷🌷
@learningtalent
@learningtalent 2 жыл бұрын
She’s so amazing
@motosniper77
@motosniper77 4 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with you Vanessa 😁 ..... and NOT because of your stunning good looks , but because of your work to make the World a better place😘Thank you for what you do !🤗
@rtem1sFowl
@rtem1sFowl 2 жыл бұрын
Some of these tips are good to keep in mind especially when working in a job environment which can potentially help an employee find success. Awesome video and keep up the good work.
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, my goal is to help you guys in your careers! I'm glad you enjoyed the video! =)
@dsandoval3514
@dsandoval3514 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice. Cilantro is awesome
@upsty6499
@upsty6499 2 жыл бұрын
Overtly empowered, articulately curious with limitless powerful potential ideas flowing out 🤗🕊️
@TriSingsThrowbacks
@TriSingsThrowbacks 2 жыл бұрын
This is a gold mine for my line of work! Thank you, Vanessa!
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you enjoyed the video and that I can help in any way ❤
@jimflammer9370
@jimflammer9370 5 жыл бұрын
Great video, thanks
@gdentertainment5166
@gdentertainment5166 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Vanessa, you the WOMAN!
@jimmykaushal9982
@jimmykaushal9982 5 жыл бұрын
Amazing person. Whole time she smiled and she sounded so sincere towards helping everyone. Each tip makes sense and she made it so simple to understand. 👏🏻great work
@myxology
@myxology 5 жыл бұрын
Really cool stuff, Vanessa. I do coaching around referral marketing and your video is great confirmation of things I often discuss with my clients. I'm also a "returning student" (that's college speak for old person going back to school) and I'm pursuing a degree in Industrial and Organizational Psychology. I can't wait to apply information like this more often in the workplace. Thanks again for a great video!
@ismaelortizsanchez3578
@ismaelortizsanchez3578 3 жыл бұрын
In summary Dear Vanessa, I really enjoy watching you and like so much because of many many things and values you represent but most of all is because "YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL PERSON INSIDE & OUT" and I mean it with capital letters. Thank You so much for your Generosity, Honesty and much more qualities... GOD BLESS YOU FOREVER....!!!
@annatte9624
@annatte9624 Жыл бұрын
Listening to you heals depression
@awoodmann1746
@awoodmann1746 4 жыл бұрын
Nice video and Vanessa you are clearly a very likeable person. Thanks for the tips.
@brilliantnk9672
@brilliantnk9672 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 4 dis video am inspired!
@naylaa1044
@naylaa1044 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the tips!!!
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 11 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! I appreciate you taking the time to watch. :)
@brycewelch338
@brycewelch338 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for calling me awesome Vanessa I think you are pretty awesome too!
@izzzy14
@izzzy14 2 жыл бұрын
Basically be open and authentic , so simple yet so hard to do
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