How To Be More Confident

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Do you know how to look confident? When you walk into a room, go on a date or pitch at a meeting you want to make sure you look confident. In this video I will show you how to both feel and look more confident.
Confidence is a skill that can be developed with intentional and purposeful practice. It starts all in the mindset, but your own body language and verbal can do a lot for your mindset. I think that when you can implement some of the tips I mention in this video, that confidence can come naturally for anyone!
Be more confident and captivating with my book Captivate: www.scienceofpeople.com/capti...
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In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:25 Confidence myth
0:56 How to LOOK confident
2:32 Hot to SOUND confident
4:18 Happiness and confidence
5:44 Hot to walk confidently
6:44 Find a confident role model
8:06 Pump up your confidence
8:47 Overcome imposter syndrome
10:46 Sparking confidence in your brain
12:00 Limit social media consumption
13:23 Final thoughts
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Hi, I’m Vanessa!
You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you.
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My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:
Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (www.scienceofpeople.com/capti...) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.
My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.
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@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Learn more about the science of confidence in the article: www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-be-confident/

@KylanTheKiller_Z 3 ай бұрын

Thanks my sister really needed this 😊

@ignaciomoranbarrascout 3 жыл бұрын

Self confidence is not "they will like me" It is "I'll be fine if they don't"

@simharasiphalaalu 4 жыл бұрын

The qualities that confidence people have: 1. Demonstrates confidence and leadership 2. Isn't afraid to be unique 3. Communicates and interacts with everyone. 4. Shows respect and concern for everyone. 5. Is knowledgeable and well-rounded 6. Has humility and shows willingness to admit mistakes 7. Does good things outside the job

@natebarlow6408 4 жыл бұрын

My biggest takeaway from this video is: To be confident, be happy; to be happy, find some humor.

@YET64 4 жыл бұрын

You put it in good way. I was about to comment !!

@Studio-uv8ve 4 жыл бұрын

@@YET64 qze3

@angelus_solus 3 жыл бұрын

Real easy to say for those who don't suffer from chronic depression and schizophrenia, even when being treated by drugs.

@katherinepem6676 3 жыл бұрын

@@angelus_solus Yep...most people aren't going through that...😬

@x3no841 3 жыл бұрын

Here's a thing...im not that funny lol

@amala7647 4 жыл бұрын

I become so nervous when i have a presentation that my voice ends up cracking, but at the end i’m proud that i’m brave enough to present in front of people and with time i’ll get used to it and become confident presenting

@alisalman254 3 жыл бұрын

I think ,it call stage fear at initial but gradually removed

@catherinewest5609 Жыл бұрын

That's great but is public speaking necessary for everyone? Can you be a confident introvert without others expecting you to change?

@mumyjan 11 ай бұрын

I worked with Filipino interaction with other companies with Filipino, their style of saying heloo over phone is mind blowing, filled with happiness...helooooo

@ScienceOfPeople 11 ай бұрын

Love that!

@shailyshekhar3409 4 жыл бұрын

You are just wonderful Vanessa. You boosted my confidence to yet another level, now I got elected as school president against the most popular girl in school. Couldn't thank you more💜

@suhailshuaib8092 4 жыл бұрын

Congratulations!

@alisalman254 3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your achievement

@antoinettenovella1630 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome work Shelseas. How was your year?

@gaganaa195 2 жыл бұрын

Damn !!!! Awesome !!!

@varunsharma2068 2 жыл бұрын

Congrates ji

@sarushanarayan3838 2 жыл бұрын

My role model is you Vanessa Van Edwards . I’m that awkward person, who realised my awkwardness only after watching your Videos.I’m headed towards that complete positive transformation with you backing me up virtually. Lots and lots of gratitude, respect and Love Vanessa 🙏🏻

@deepikaa.18 11 ай бұрын

A year later, where are you on this journey

@bangfruit 4 жыл бұрын

This is literally the best video I have watched in quite sometime! Thanks Vanessa!!

@Santhanaram 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Vanessa, you are truly awesome. Thank you for sharing your videos over the years. A fan of your stuff.

@ted775 3 жыл бұрын

You are now my secret role model! Your confidence is astounding.

@g6mogulthepeoplesmogul 4 жыл бұрын

This was great ! Definitely appreciate the tips. Love your work !!

@katywaldrop5036 4 жыл бұрын

God bless you Vanessa! Love your content!!

@Cats4origami 4 жыл бұрын

I am watching this while getting ready for work today and I’m so excited! I hope to ask my manager how I can feel more confident. I’m motivated to be confident! Thank you ❤️

@jennyrodriguez7166 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Vanessa for creating these awesome videos!!!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@rajgajjar7987 4 жыл бұрын

The ownership of thoughts is really necessary and therefore . I always know something new from you

@claumalta4371 4 жыл бұрын

By far the most intereting video I found on youtube in these last months. I can't wait to read your books! And thanks for share it! =)

@yarobhaddad4014 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Vanessa, I would like to thank you so much for all the precious information you provided. Appreciated. Hope in the future I can see in real your lectures. Wishing you all the progress.😊

@admirbarucija2018 4 жыл бұрын

I wish I had any sort of confidence. I’m looking forward to this video :)

@rizalfatoni4075 4 жыл бұрын

It's hard to live when we always worry about small things, we hardly focus and neglect our responsibilities, thus we can't get what we want and that become disappointment. This kinda how to tips arereally helpful especially as an insight, so we have options when we feel trapped in a difficult situation. Thanks Vanessa, this is really helpful for many people out there, The the gestures, expression, and tone when you deliver this video is fantastic!!!

@gugonim9738 3 жыл бұрын

This is like a crash course for learning how to be confident.. DAMN AWESOME.

@enumahglory6921 4 жыл бұрын

This is my first time of meeting you. I love you already. You are amazing Vanessa

@Neethu____ 4 жыл бұрын

I come across many videos in you tube speaking about building up confidence. But truly she cracks it all with such wonderful presentation skills and I haven't come across such a person who speaks so naturally and with ease. With each word this video carries that energy reaching its subscribers an amazing level of confidence! May be because she really does mean every word she says instead of thinking it just a subject or topic and do this with all passion inside her, to motivate others! Thanks much!!

@dmdildar 3 жыл бұрын

You are just amazing! i love your videos and when I start watching them, it takes me minutes if not hours to watch or listen to them. Thank you

@karengonzaga1508 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for reminding me again that confidence can be put into practice. God bless :)

@danialteaches 4 жыл бұрын

I love how Vanessa talks about confidence in such a simple and effective way. Great video.

@mattjahnke239 2 жыл бұрын

I love how she breaks down everything.

@apositiveperson6820 4 жыл бұрын

Thankfully for you

@hunterdale3186 4 жыл бұрын

Vanessa, you are wonderful! Thank you!

@spike803 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent video. Thank you so much!

@heythere6660 3 жыл бұрын

These are wonderful contributions. Thank you.

@firstclasslady1719 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

@DailyCollectiveChannel 3 жыл бұрын

You're amazing! I always learn something new from you.

@theAvaNJames 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree to stealing the show with the confidence you talk about!

@teesta80 2 жыл бұрын

My sincere thanks for all your wonderful work to help us! My takeaway is internal happiness directly reflects confidence. During the down days look at your accomplishments that I made it through big or small. Trash Imposter Syndrome. Avoid social media to get a digital detox living a fake life! Take time to learn YOU!

@jana301 4 жыл бұрын

Omg huge fan!!!! Btw I bought ur book and finished reading it. It's amazing! Good luck!! 😊😊😊😊😊

@yonitomorrow7502 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙏 for everything

@ralfj.1740 Жыл бұрын

Confidence comes with acquiring skills. Great video Vanessa! 🙂

@saurabhaggarwal1950 4 жыл бұрын

You are amazing, thanks!

@selimreza9439 2 жыл бұрын

Vanessa, I think this is the best video you have ever made. Thank you. I love your way of expression. Love for you from Bangladesh...

@hironimusria6910 4 жыл бұрын

Vanessa thanks... I love it, GBU...

@gtberg Жыл бұрын

What worked for me was hypnosis. My confidence went up 200% in one session! Much easier than trying to force ourselves to follow all these rules.

@joramsvlog9907 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this awesome topic on how to be more confident in different ways.I learned a lot!!!

@omarhamid5107 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much teacher

@Theredsurge99 3 жыл бұрын

This video is sooo helpful! I practice this on my channel and at work all the time haha

@zfoska Жыл бұрын

Thank you, you beautiful soul! 💖🌻

@amethystessence 3 жыл бұрын

Confidence is the best outfit. A lot of it depends on how you feel inside. That way, it radiates outside. Thank you for this video.

@_valeriabeauty__ 4 жыл бұрын

You are the only one I can watch the whole video!!!!

@TheMikaylaah 4 жыл бұрын

This is the best video ever ❤️ Thank you so much

@sanket10120 3 жыл бұрын

Thank u so much beautiful, for this video. It means a lot❤️

@nerdshala2997 4 жыл бұрын

You are amazing!

@samazaidi3087 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Vanessa, thanks for sharing this knowledge. Much love for you and your team. I don't listen to your words, i digest them. Love ❤️

@nady2265 4 жыл бұрын

you must have a magnificent metabolism. Lolll

@nady2265 4 жыл бұрын

@Hemle c is it possible to at least try and make some sort of sense when replying.. thanks

@BdotWizzle 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@begrateful6153 3 жыл бұрын

We become more confident when we go deeper into our core to gain validation from ourselves. We become less confident when we go outward looking for validation from others. Get to know you!

@ayeshashaikh8855 4 жыл бұрын

Well explained!... Great job! 👍👏

@savelikeaprowithleah5157 4 жыл бұрын

Amazing Content! Thanks for sharing!

@JJMLJ 2 жыл бұрын

I love this video. Thank you.

@hollymoses5108 4 жыл бұрын

Venessa your awesome! I like your words religiously keep going.

@sidramoqdas2512 4 жыл бұрын

I love they way you are that give me a lot off motivation know days are going really bad in my life but thanks for sharing help full tips god bless you ❤️

@FadedImmaculate808 3 жыл бұрын

This entire video is gold

@infodwheels623 2 жыл бұрын

Your hands along with the rest of your body language is amazing. wow!

@aamirnaqvi4593 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks and my love for you 🍁

@aktharshah73 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your videos 😊

@kawsudrammeh3055 4 жыл бұрын

"I don't want to build my confident because of social media I wan't to build my confident to inspire powerless people.

@lucywanja6179 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@purpleandpeach 4 жыл бұрын

I love your book Captivate! I recommend it to anyone who wants all of her helpful videos and tips in one book :D

@RAMAYTV 4 жыл бұрын

What type of content does it cover?

@GroUp512 3 жыл бұрын

Finding happiness and confidence comes from discovering your value and your strengths. What you bring to the table. Thanks for the awesome video!

@estherIU Жыл бұрын

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@virgilstox2677 3 жыл бұрын

So substantially informative

@aminalakhal9527 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you.You helped me a lot.😘

@johneq 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve been googling “How to walk Science of People” the past few days. How did you know? 🤯 I wish I’d seen this channel in high school. Your work is truly life changing, Thank You Vanessa! 😁

@angelus_solus 3 жыл бұрын

You do realize that Google owns KZfaq. Right?

@pitchireddymedagam673 4 жыл бұрын

Hi mam you are sharing a very valuable information. Simply superb.

@smilingbuddha2817 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you.. You are the best venessa van edwards 👌

@sarthakaswal7023 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing.🙏

@virtualtreadmillwalknature1488 Жыл бұрын

Amazing tip!! Stay Fit

@mohammadiqbaldawah 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks lady

@henryventurina8832 4 жыл бұрын

Ive learned a lot from you. Pls make more videos. Your content are awesome.

@nadeemtabraiz2928 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@msinbalony 4 жыл бұрын

Excuse me, I'm confident enough to answer the phone being sad or upset too. I'm not here to entertain anyone. I'm just being me and I'm allowed to be complex and have a range of human emotions, and if anyone has a problem with that they can move along. This is what I don't like sometimes about American culture and why they seem so fake sometimes. Just smile and look happy and you're good.. we'll like you. I deserve to be liked in all my aspects.

@y_m_2025 4 жыл бұрын

Amazing video sister. Thanks for your genuine effort

@mostafaelsaeid3855 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your advice and efforts exerted.you are really awesome. 🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁

@erickcarrillo3249 4 жыл бұрын

I love this!

@norafrikh4372 4 жыл бұрын

so stimulating video

@kimberlyselawokah7800 3 жыл бұрын

thank you omg

@laflameee6968 3 жыл бұрын

I am definetly sooo much more confident thank u babe

@mskaification Жыл бұрын

Great ideas about a job. Makes me think of what career matches me. High school counselors should have there students ask these questions to find what career they would like. Thanks so much you! I now know what career is best for me

@IEVAKambarovaite 4 жыл бұрын

What a great video. Reading your book Captivate and absolutely loving it. I cannot wait to share it with my clients helping them to have the best dates ever 😊🎊 thank you for all you do.

@mushayijagisabenjamin262 4 жыл бұрын

What is the name of the book dear?

@hikmatkhankhan9293 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much keep going

@nightcrawler2659 4 жыл бұрын

Love your video content Vanesa!! 😉

@fashioniistaa5777 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I do look like a winner!!!

@sarahirwin6631 2 ай бұрын

You’re the best!

@gauravsinghbedi6536 Жыл бұрын

Thank You Vanessa Van Edward...You are doing wonderful Work...Thank you Vanessa...God Bless You

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

Thank you! You too!

@openclassusa3534 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent video !!

@andreearistea6012 Жыл бұрын

your videos are so useful for everybody, thank you!

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

Thank you! So glad they are helping!

@FaithVista 4 жыл бұрын

You’re my role model 😊

@rtem1sFowl 2 жыл бұрын

This was a very good video on how to present yourself to others confidently.

@boybungottv6785 2 жыл бұрын

It's so helpful ...

@khosiiaimson8023 2 жыл бұрын

I like the way your talk.your smile,your presentation 👍

@ravirao121 3 жыл бұрын

I so liked her hellos 😆🥰

@lifelessons19951 2 жыл бұрын

Wow so educative especially for me and I have just started practicing what you just taught us ma'am . 😃💃💃💃💃💃 thank you so much ma'am . I wish you can be my coach really. 🙈🙈🙈

@sudipsaha2964 3 жыл бұрын

Such a great video . I have finished your book captivate . It's a sheer pleasure to read it and lots of learnings . When is your next book is coming up ?