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Hope you get through this hard time

❤ you will feel much pain but let love and blessings in also.. It hurts but mom is sending you love and holds you in her arms❤

Stay calm dear 😢her blessings are always with you❤

Today I had a hard long cry as i felt so sad about my son who passed 7 months ago. Crying hard, loud is needed sometimes. But often am feeling so happy to have had him in my life and gratefull. One day i laid on the mother earth and screamed his name crying and calling him. Feel your feelings. You can do this❤

Yes I know it's very worst phase in life... It's very hard time to cope with... But trust me just leave on the time... You will be fine... Take care...

I know that this situation is very suffering but you have to forget and start a new life ❤❤❤

I can relate to it ,it leaves a void , that's never filled !

It happens with me too

It's so bad 😞😔

ohh,,,

Jett will born again somewhere very good and joyful, ❤️

I lost my dog a week ago after having her for 10 years. It's hard, but the joy a pet brings your life is so vast! Jett must've had such a great life because of you :)

Losing a pet is one of the most difficult things we have to experience in life. My heartfelt condolences ❤ Jett was one lucky cat to have you in his life 🤗

Sorry to hear of your loss. There is a song written by Brian May from Queen about his cat, you should take a listen, name of the song: All dead, All dead It’s a soothing song

yes bro life is a game try to play without sadness and sorrw

That's TRUE I lost my mom due to covid but the pain is same since I lost her it never fade every one around me but I feel the loneliness deeply

Same! 🥺

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I found your comment unexpectedly. I too cried for days when Arjuna died, it's comforting to know someone else also felt the same way. It's hard to tell people why I was bothered so much when I didn't know the animal personally, but I was heartbroken for days. Thank you for sharing.

Sure ain't easy , good days n bad days !🌹

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Thank you for sharing your beautiful, yet painful story. I do completely understand. My beautiful baby, an 8 year old blonde, green-eyed Chihuahua passed suddenly without warning 9-1-22 and has left me devastated. Not one hug from my very abusive spouse on paper only. He got me a new puppy ONE WEEK after the worst loss of my life (and I’ve lost so many friends & family, all very prematurely, too, yet handled each loss with so much grace) He got me a new pup so I wouldn’t cry on his shoulder. How absolutely cruel to do to both, me and that new baby. One week??? I was still in shock. Shock, not denial. I’m a Nurse; I know all about the stages of grief. Not one hug, to this day. When I’m crying over Bruiser I’m told, “Get over it!!!” Or, “Oh, not this again.” Heartless. Most cruel. I’m trapped, financially, which is why I couldn’t leave such a toxic environment. I’ve added another baby and both are almost 2 years old; so different from my Bruiser, as they should be, but it’s been so hard. Bruiser went viral because he could actually speak human words and phrases and it stunned the World. I taught all tricks & commands in 3 languages (English, Hungarian, and Sign Language just for fun), he was so smart, sweet, nurturing, and filled with gratitude over the littlest of things, such as thanking me simply for putting out a fresh pee pee pad. What dog does that?!! He loved everyone he met and loved ALL animals. He was gentle and so kind. Whenever I looked into his gorgeous green eyes, I could 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 our creator! He was the purest form of Love I’d ever known. Better, in my opinion, of any romantic kind between humans. I don’t honestly know how I’ve made it almost 2 years without him. I go on for the new babies, but it’s so hard. So very hard. A lot of people do not understand that our animals are like our children. I’m unable to carry full term; miscarriages. So he was absolutely my child. I now feel so utterly alone in this world, yet I’m grateful for the new puppies, even if one came a week after Bruiser’s sudden passing. I will never be ok or feel the joy & happiness I once felt when I had him and I’m so grateful & blessed for having him just a short while. We were camping and his breathing became slightly increased. So slightly, that nobody else would have ever thought to seek treatment. I called his Vet. She said she doesn’t have oxygen. No oxygen? How does she perform routine spays & neuters? I had to drive hour and a half to an animal hospital. He was completely fine. We get inside & as soon as we reach front desk, he collapsed in my arms where I put his entire snout in my mouth to give him breath. They whisked him away but when they brought me into a room, I just knew it wasn’t good. Doctor comes in to say they revived him 3x and the relief washed over me but she said, “No. it’s not good.” I went into complete shock the moment another doctor came in and just bowed her head. I didn’t cry. My world just stopped. They were so concerned for me. Then they brought him to me. He was gone. My entire world ended that day. I’m so glad you & your wife have each other during that time. I had no-one. 💔

This is very hard to go through, my sincere condolences. Harley will always have a special place in your heart, this love will never die ❤

@@halcyon-cg2eb Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

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How are you now? Hope you have got some peace , even for a moment ❤

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When they come to bury you, remember that you are a seed. Move forward.

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I faced the same last year mum then dad passed away and I lost job

@@twinklevangie7604 I hope all is well now and you're done with the dark night of the soul. ❤️

She’s with you , next to you !! You just seeing her physically but she is with you

😢😢cry as much as you can and try to be strong

me too, my fiancee passed away at 24 jan. i miss him so much, we wanna get married in 3 months💔💔 such a painfull heartbreak ever in this year😭😭❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

@@uprcxious7248 loss my wife of 13 yrs in 3 mths to unexpected cancer 8 1 23 :( just now able to sleep if i relax enough n - ''everything is alright everything will be ok the lord is in control'' is my motto

I have the same situation like yours.only difference is I didn't lose hope and keep on working on her wishes and dreams about me, no matter what life throughs at me. Take baby steps to reach your goal. But don't stop yourself just because you face difficulties in your life. That's the mantra to achieve anything in life

Namo Bhudhaya 🙏🙏🙏

@kirtirazsolanki984 Thank you💓 나모 붓다야🙏

Yes Kimbuja it will be difficult no matter what anyone says, because of something called Grief. But from experience I can tell you that grief is very different from normal emotional suffering. For example, you may be doing something like cooking, not thinking about anything really,.. then suddenly you feel a surge of pain and you're crying uncontrollably. This is grief. The only good news is that it is a very necessary healing process and it both, happens less and fades in time. So it's best to just allow it to happen, rather than trying to fight it. The one thing I do try to resist however, is adding to the pain by over thinking,--- it's easy to get carried away by your own thoughts in such a sad time. I believe the Buddha's parable of the second arrow can help here. But do of course listen to the great advice of cherishing your parents and I hope every day makes a wonderful future memory. 🙏 And don't forget to hug them 🙂

Agree 100% ❤

There’s a place called The Western Pure Land of Ultimate Bliss would help Sentient Beings no more suffering about the death of Relatives;Especially Our Parents We must recite Amitabha’s name all the time and make a vow : we want to rebirth in Pure Land When the time is up we keep reciting Amitabha until our last breath with a vow : Please pick me up to your Pure Land We will be born into the Western Pure Land and become a Buddha in ONE LIFE TIME That’s one of the methods the Buddha taught is Pure Land Buddhism ( to end one’s problems and attain lasting happiness) Watching the video of sister Jiawen: HOW EXACTLY CAN WE GAIN REBIRTH TO THE PURE LAND 3 criteria which guarantee Rebirth 1- Deep Faith: Believe in Amitabha Buddha 2- Make A Vow : you want to gain rebirth 3- Practice Amitabha - Recitation Constantly in your life Explaining for your parents understand So we have no more suffering when our parents go to another world: THE WESTERN PURE LAND OF ULTIMATE BLISS We can also watch: Can Mentally Disabled people gain Rebirth to the Pure Land NAMO AMITABHA BUDDHA

While they’re with you make sure .. you talk to them very kindly, ask about how are they feeling, ask about their medication details, take them for walk, sit and eat food with them, watch tv with them and laugh and ask their opinions and always take pics and video clips of them, say good morning and good night to them each day

No one know this, don't feed into it until the time comes. Who said they are going to pass before you, stay in the here/now when you are with them. Some things we are in control of this is not one of them, just make this day great for now enjoy it. 👍

I agree. My wife is experiencing a serious illness right now and it is very challenging to deal with this in a loving and detached way.

going to kill ? you asking a monk about this ? this is your situation you can handle to divide that group people as invidual ...if it is life threaten then lodge a police complaint ....its not easy to handle a morans or rowdies or killers