How to Have a Conversation | Jordan B Peterson

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How to Have a Conversation | Jordan B Peterson

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Listening to the other person is the most powerful thing you can do in a conversation.
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@218philip 4 жыл бұрын

I’m praying for his full recovery, few people ever encounter such succinct analysis of ideas. Our world needs his inspiration.

@jxel706 4 жыл бұрын

218philip what’s he sick with

@kanwarpreetbahia7902 4 жыл бұрын

218philip 🙏🏽

@Peter-ie6po 4 жыл бұрын

Whats up with him?

@PonderingPoems 4 жыл бұрын

218philip I absolutely agree, he has opened my eyes to so much, and it's always easy to take people like him for granted. We all need to be grateful for his unbiased wisdom. I wish him a speedy recovery 🙏

@218philip 4 жыл бұрын

Peter A sever reaction to medication, he very nearly died. He is in a difficult recovery process.

@aleidius192 4 жыл бұрын

JP always looks like he's really paying attention when people speak to him.

@77777Spooky 4 жыл бұрын

I love how Jordan B Peterson records his lectures. That way, his students don't have to furiously scribble down every single word or detail that they think will be a question on a test. They can just listen to him and focus on absorbing the knowledge that he is imparting. So different from many professors these days.

@021scorpion 4 жыл бұрын

I truly love and respect this man... I truly hope he recovers fast.

@jonathanz.9675 4 жыл бұрын

Finally he is healing, though not fully recovered

@vLoneXThuG 3 жыл бұрын

he is back😈

@021scorpion 3 жыл бұрын

@@vLoneXThuG haha yesssss :)

@keithkieran 4 жыл бұрын

We don’t understand the value of what we have until it’s gone. Missing new Jordan Peterson experiences... May his best be yet to come. This angry world needs his explanations and experience to light up our social darkness. Be well, Professor. Godspeed to your health.

@nikkishaye9385 4 жыл бұрын

🙏🏼💜

@charlottehanna790 3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Be well, Dr. P.

@CRFSUIGENERIS 4 жыл бұрын

I try to do this in friendships, but finding the right audience is key. I don’t blame them for finding real conversations disconcerting. Depth is challenge, and quite scary. It’s thrilling for me. It’s not a brag. Painful truths help me grow. Not saying it’s easy or fun. I find myself alone in this goal though. I’m not afraid of a solo journey. I’m looking forward to finding others who are on the same path. I’m hopeful I can find others who want the same discourse.

@dyingangelo 3 жыл бұрын

I keep coming back to this video to remember how to have a proper conversation (learning how to stfu and listen). Good to know that hes doing well after what happened to him and can't thank him enough

@samoleary8385 3 жыл бұрын

I feel like I have a phycology degree just listening to him

@just-meal-tayeb4526 3 жыл бұрын

Me2

@acraze2287 2 жыл бұрын

looks like you need a spelling degree

@itstherealchima Жыл бұрын

For real !

@jhlee9071 Жыл бұрын

This is about having constructive conversations. Listening to the other party. Expressing truth to learn about what you don't know - so as to become better. It's not so much about who is right or wrong, it's more about listening to improve and learn how the conversation can make us better

@hananeettahiri1883 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks lots Dr. Peterson, my prayers for your complete recovery and your whole family serenity. Greetings from Morocco!

@salzy1864 4 жыл бұрын

Peterson is a brilliant philosopher and psychologist. I've long recognized his need to quiet his mind, as I and so many others are in need of the same. Letting go of great ideas and interesting thought is a 'skill' that our society would immensely benefit from. When we become too attached to anything there are repercussions awaiting.

@AW-kq2xx 2 жыл бұрын

I wish I'd had him as a prof. One of the most influential people of our time.

@AZTigerMMA 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Sending love to Peterson family and supporting friends

@OurWorldofDanceSport 3 жыл бұрын

You ain't need to type your notes so fast you can watch it later on KZfaq😎🔥 one of the best profs out there🙌🤴

@isaiditinjest 4 жыл бұрын

he always says the right thing at the right time

@dopamineater8427 4 жыл бұрын

get well soon jordan. waiting for you to slay the dragon.

@NicBob89 3 жыл бұрын

I feel like the difference between watching these lectures and actually attending his classes is that he gives the students homework where they study the sources he cites before attending classes… so this information is an oversimplified summary of what the students are learning.

@martinbrousseau2560 Жыл бұрын

“We’re having a conversation, im deciding I’m going to listen to you. That’s different than how people generally communicate, because usually when they communicate they’re doing something like. Ok we’re going to have a conversation and I’m going to tell you why I’m right and I’ll win if you agree, or maybe your having a conversation where your, I don’t know what your trying to do, maybe your trying to impress the person your talking too so your not listening to them at all, your trying to think of what you’re going to say next. Ok, so That’s not this, “we’re having a conversation” this is, you might have something to tell me and I’m going to listen on the off chance you’ll tell me something that’s really useful for me to know. - Dr.Jordan Peterson”

@aerowashburns6004 10 ай бұрын

Love this man's movements when he speaks. it's fascinating in itself.

@tullydireen 3 жыл бұрын

JP: how to have a conversation Me, an introvert: taking notes

@HunterLeaderPro 11 ай бұрын

I am so obsessively fascinated by anything and everything Jordan has to say, he doesn't fluff up his words to make the point of his story more entertaining, he just says things as they are, in the most captivating way. I struggle to talk to people about how mind blowingly wise and sophisticated this man is. He has so much information thats vital to hear.

@a-s7623 Жыл бұрын

Protect this guy at all costs.

@NoName-xc6cg 2 жыл бұрын

I know this is a big claim, but I think this is Peterson's greatest moment on KZfaq so far.

@enginepy 4 жыл бұрын

I truly believe that the people who criticize him have never actually listened to what he’s saying. They dislike him just bc he is a conservative and assume he’s speaking hate

@VonBinde 4 жыл бұрын

He may not be conservative. My view is that 'truth' ascends ideology, or any way of being that is has a degree of rigidity in the face of what is really happening in the present moment. Being 'conservative' is like being vegan. It's a pattern of behaviour that simplifies life for that individual, at the cost of a degree of truth. Peterson is not aiming for that and neither are his teachings. In principle I agree with your sentiment, however - and it will apply to anyone who he rubs up the wrong way. Which is everyone who is not yet at his level, if you think about it. He will at some point say something that makes you and I uncomfortable when it illuminates a part of us that is not living in our truth.

@misssarahashplant31 4 жыл бұрын

Listening to you talking is therapeutic. I'd pay good money to have an hour session with you.

@wesfin 5 ай бұрын

1:40, 1:50, 2:11, 2:27, 6:01, 6:18

@avigoldfedder5000 4 жыл бұрын

Human nature 101!! Let the harmony and mutual mental health begin. Eagerly awaiting some news from you and a new perspective on the new situation we found ourselves in.

@curlycar5 8 ай бұрын

Brilliant insights! Thank you JP!

@melanin7770 Жыл бұрын

Am capable of expressing what is true😇

@pedromartin4681 4 жыл бұрын

Get better soon Jordan....World needs you!

@siewkimng1085 4 жыл бұрын

This is so true but also quite impossible to do in real life. Most people are not there to communicate truthfully.

@pushthetempo2 3 жыл бұрын

Anyone wants to learn more about this check out Carl Rogers who JP mentions and his book On Becoming a Person. Basically the man who developed therapy and caring relationships forward from what Freud had done. A true visionary. Should be a household name imo.

@panikostiritas5216 4 жыл бұрын

Miss him

@blacktortoise6812 4 жыл бұрын

I can understand why people think Peterson has a bunch of drones and that he's a demagogue if you look at this comment section. But it intuitively makes a lot of sense to feel an affinity for someone who listens to you and has helped you sort yourself out. That's just basic rapport.

@joestewart2298 4 жыл бұрын

I can’t remember which teaching it was, but he explained about unexpected situations that we sometimes find ourselves in, that if we don’t do something about it right now even if we fail, we will never now.

@trappart9209 4 жыл бұрын

How it is called?

@teronjames7457 4 жыл бұрын

truth is the only true religion, meaning knowing the truth about who WE are and how the laws reality works is the only thing that can re-united humanity's collective behavior into accordance with natural law to seek and understand the truth about what is happening within around us, is an essential and fundamental aspect of life

@caleuxx9108 10 ай бұрын

Conversation - LISTENING - Piaget.... fundamental element of knowlege... the process how knowledge is sought.... Express as clearly as possible - ---- Roger - the exchange of truth is curative ... (TRUTH helps with integration)....... Listening, asking questions,...... EMPATHIC LISTENING.... -- can/might bring about major changes to personality !!!

@dejavukun 3 жыл бұрын

this is actually difficult to do especially when you are having an argument

@chelsearachel 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Dr. Peterson, I enjoy watching the Q and A's and I learn quite a lot from them as well. Would you mind doing more?

@joanneg7646 4 жыл бұрын

You might have something to tell me.. but pride keeps me from being humble enufto know it!

@blacktortoise6812 4 жыл бұрын

Lifehack: make your identity based around being a chameleon. Then your pride becomes pride in the other person, and all their knowledge and skills become yours.

@denying101 3 жыл бұрын

i take my hat off to this man, honors and respect

@ken5200 4 жыл бұрын

Uploaded a week ago? I misread “conversation” for “coronavirus” and thought JP was talking about the pandemic. 😂😂😂

@cbalan777 4 жыл бұрын

I hope he gets better real soon. It sucks to know that he is going through such a troubling time. If any of you are interested in ideas, specifically the Big 5 I have a video on industriousness. I'm not JBP, but maybe I can provide something interesting for you until JBP gets better.

@rickydasudasin 4 жыл бұрын

Narcissist have left the chat !

@Cherb123456 4 жыл бұрын

Damn, true that. Thank Prof.Dr. Peterson

@rogeralsop3479 4 жыл бұрын

This is important. JP is so interesting.

@dandreabush6221 2 жыл бұрын

It’s even harder to talk to people that are stuck in the matrix, and your considered a conspiracy theorist. Even though everything I say is coming from WHO, UN, world economic forum center own words too.

@abdokaddouri3534 4 жыл бұрын

I'm so paranoid and overwhelmed by this frenzy over the coronavirus that I read the title of this video saying how to have a coronavirus.

@blacktortoise6812 4 жыл бұрын

Defeat the dragon of chaos by seeking out the virus and getting sick so you develop an immunity.

@akashwa7969 4 жыл бұрын

Loll so did I!!

@thehandliesthandle 4 жыл бұрын

@@blacktortoise6812 pfft all those pussies running away from the dragon of chaos!

@harrypalmer3481 4 жыл бұрын

Great information, wonderfully stated. Get very well very soon Mr. P. or I'll be very angry & resentful, & that's not good,.. you said so!

@howchen8529 4 жыл бұрын

Hahaha, me too

@mr_s7815 4 жыл бұрын

What really grinds my gear is people going on about shit you already know.

@TheBoofhead Жыл бұрын

awesome lesson, thanks

@DansEarway 4 жыл бұрын

3 rules 4 better life comb my loose fur wash behind my ears always carry my s word

@ivancar263 4 ай бұрын

Hes an machine

@TheSocratesofAthens 9 ай бұрын

4:35, this reminds me of the Correspondence Theory of Truth.

@luiscastillo7009 19 күн бұрын

He described marriage

@whitelightning7847 4 жыл бұрын

Wow this was very informative sheesh people pay for this and call it higher education I knew that when I was ten thanks brah

@VonBinde 4 жыл бұрын

You must also be an expert on the Dunning-Kruger effect, then