How to know if a woman is not interested but just being nice.
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Күн бұрынSometimes women are just being nice, but not interested in anything more. This video, breaks down most instances to help you decipher the girl code!
It offers key signs to know if your woman is not interested but is just being nice
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@lawrence8434 3 жыл бұрын
Some of these things we as man already know, but because we can be in denial, we like to lie to ourselves, thinking she is gonna come around. but hearing this, just makes it easier to identify and move on as quick as possible. no time wasted. Thank you once again Jessy.
@bransonliimo9601 2 жыл бұрын
Swear man. Denial is real
@Thap3l0 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@rodgerdunkley7181 2 жыл бұрын
wow thank you so much for the tips,i am guilty of chasing and thinking that i am suppose to chase to try and win her.
@dity. 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ loves u acts 238 and upci church locator for a church type that on the Internet
@MAO_EA 2 жыл бұрын
Fact
@stephenjames4937 2 жыл бұрын
In my teens and twenties, I thought women were attracted to me if they were chatty, friendly, sweet-hearted and attentive. I made some big, embarrassing mistakes with this assumption, and lost track of how many times I was told, "No, Stephen, I just want us to be friends." Finally, the penny dropped, and now I assume that any woman who is friendly, chatty, sweet-hearted and attentive is the same with everyone else. Result: no embarrassing situations, no time wasted in searching for her signals that are not there.
@castedsp1ders 6 ай бұрын
They tend to be
@gaysonmartinocho5262 5 ай бұрын
what about the pretty ones at work that gives us dirty looks
@walterhough5263 2 жыл бұрын
That last part, always holding her phone, but takes hours or days before she'll respond. Thank you
@iamvizard 2 ай бұрын
guess its time to move on…
@dawnempress5014 Жыл бұрын
Every rejection is God's protection 🙏 🙌
@princekingseed4615 11 ай бұрын
😂
@vaisakhsudhakar6739 11 ай бұрын
Ok 👍
@emorycragg4039 11 ай бұрын
I’m SUPER PROTECTED!!!!!
@rickysanchez3600 10 ай бұрын
Cap 🤣
@user-ym2nx9ur2d 10 ай бұрын
👍
@hopepray1669 3 жыл бұрын
Men should never fear rejection. You reject me, i move on to the next. I agree with those subtle signs that someone is not interested. But the best way to find out if a woman is interested is to shoot your shot.
@isaacjoshua1645 3 жыл бұрын
You too much
@davante1286 3 жыл бұрын
Nah let her choose up 1st. Don't cold Approach.
@Anthony90026 3 жыл бұрын
@@davante1286 What do you mean?
@davante1286 3 жыл бұрын
@@Anthony90026 let her choose meaning let her show signs of interest like eye contact, smile, etc don't just walk up on them shows needy and she has the power .👍🏾
@Anthony90026 3 жыл бұрын
@@davante1286 Oh ok, I was confused at first lol thanks for clarifying
@Min.Scepter 3 жыл бұрын
Chase what won't reject you. your dreams and vision can't reject you. If you can chase your dreams and realize it, even women would chase after you.
@notusgodwind4512 6 ай бұрын
Yeah but at that point why even accept them? They don't seem to want you they want more of what you bring
@user-qi1gg1gs5b 5 ай бұрын
When you dreams are having a happy healthy family. You are screwed
@CommandoMaster 6 ай бұрын
These are good tips. If she's not willing to set aside time to see u in person, then she's not into u. It's painfully obvious, but guys still get strung along by girls in "hopes" that one day they will have a chance with her. Remember - girls like the validation and attention u give her. That's good enough for her. She doesn't need to do anything intimate with u for her to win.
@jamesbradleydevomra9523 2 жыл бұрын
The truth hurts But it will set you free Thank you for clearing things up for me 😌 I appreciate your content lots
@thirdeyesharp3213 7 ай бұрын
well said
@mariesafaite-antoine20 3 жыл бұрын
Some women like to flirt around so that they could be the center of attention all the times... that also is sign that these types cannot be taken too seriously as well. Thanks Jessica
@webbset Жыл бұрын
Thank you sister , had this one flirting and all but not interested happy was able to notice quick before wasting my time
@SuperTailsTeamxxx 3 жыл бұрын
I saw all the signs you mentioned but still ignored them until it blew on my face one day and flattened me....wish I was matured enough like now....you’re %100 on point.
@umutbulut7805 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that, do you mind sharing your story bro?
@dominosamuz 2 жыл бұрын
@@BDA302 😂😂😂😂😂
@iAMTreydiddy 2 жыл бұрын
The phone tip is probably the best way to know if someone is interested or not. I have a coworker who always has her phone within reach. Most the time when I text her she takes a while to respond or doesn't respond at all. Dead give away right there.
@sibo5204 6 ай бұрын
The thing is, alot of girls play this game of responding late and so on to make sure they don't get too attached
@tempusFugit1337 2 жыл бұрын
1) When you trying to invite her out, she will never give you an exact date and time 2) When she does make a date with you, she doesn't show up 3) She doesn't allow you, to invade her personal space 4) She never want to be alone with you, or will only meet you in public 5) She keeps you away from her friends 6) She takes hours or days to respond to your messages
@oliverakisa98 2 жыл бұрын
How is this being nice....I don't understand
@vamsikotte 2 жыл бұрын
@@oliverakisa98 well according to the video any girl being nice means the girls is not interested
@Schaufelor 2 жыл бұрын
@@oliverakisa98 i think "being nice" in this context means that she even communicating with you instead of flat out telling you to go away. I still think that these videos are way too much about the situation when you already asked a girl out.
@Marcus-gw4bb Жыл бұрын
#1 is happening to me right now. I recently asked her if she would like to go to the library together. She said she's okay with the idea but has to check her schedule because she's very busy.
@AmaryxYT Жыл бұрын
@@Marcus-gw4bb #2 isn't really nice if she does this on purpose lol sadly happened to me
@paul_ochai 3 жыл бұрын
Every genuine male have had to deal with this someway somehow, God help us
@kwesipositiveappiah5997 3 жыл бұрын
I like the word "genuine"
@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын
lol! I feel for you
@derrickofori4859 3 жыл бұрын
@@kwesipositiveappiah5997 I also like the word “genuine” May God help genuine men out there 🙌❤️
@jessiesexton6226 3 жыл бұрын
that is why I'm bay myself because if you don't be careful they will take advantage of you and will not show you no respect or appreciation
@paul_ochai 3 жыл бұрын
@@derrickofori4859 Amen 🙏
@raidendwayne21 3 жыл бұрын
Normally i say don't take advice from woman. But this one speak tru facts no bs. All her advice is 100% facts.
@lowlowseesee 3 жыл бұрын
thats a red flag from hell if you normally dont take advice from women. we are people you know
@kapall3021 3 жыл бұрын
@@lowlowseesee wtf? dont trust what she saying
@overlandacrossafrika 3 жыл бұрын
@kapa LL listen to everyone one who passes through ur ears choose to adhere or not adhere but don't force ppl not to be kind and to stop doing the right thing
@veemuyambo 3 жыл бұрын
Trust me women know shit abt women... the best advice abt women u can get is from a woman...
@TerriTerriHotSauce 3 жыл бұрын
@@veemuyambo Nope.
@petercharlery7661 2 жыл бұрын
I pride myself in knowing in a couple minuites if a woman is interested in me or not. It's a crime to waste time on women who are not interested in you.
@deputydrip4520 9 ай бұрын
I’d like to speak on the last rule about not responding quickly. It honestly depends on the girl. For instance, I had a girl that would take hours to respond to my texts, but she would almost never be on her phone, and when I glanced at her phone I was always at the top of her list. She ended up liking me and we had a good time. But when measuring response times, you need to gauge the person’s phone habits first.
@esaasaggus4179 3 жыл бұрын
I tell younger guys don't deal with her all together. Only deal with women that interested in him. Don't give them any unwarranted attention put them in the friendzone if she try to come back especially when you in your purpose and successful. Only deal with women in your field of vision or shes not worth your time.
@lelabo765 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@GregoryFergusson 3 жыл бұрын
This is the secret to success
@Chris87md 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@jeviosoorishas181 3 жыл бұрын
The thing that women value most from men is their time and attention. Just like men will take free sex, women will take free time and attention...it's on you to know when you're being used and to cut things off. When you value your time, the same way she values her vagina...you'll reach enlightenment.
@edelgyn2699 2 жыл бұрын
@@jeviosoorishas181 Your view of men and women is perverse and definitely doesn't apply to people who are interested in building good relationships on respect and friendship.
@israelakowe9304 3 жыл бұрын
Mehn, she speaks impeccable English 👌
@sbusisobrianmasuku3063 3 жыл бұрын
That's also one of the things that stood out for me.
@lesliekelly9049 3 жыл бұрын
Ghana to the world 😍🔥✌🏽
@nashakeba 2 жыл бұрын
Rather than a compliment, I think this comment’s insulting. She’s from Ghana, and English as much as I know is an official language there.
@thulasmash2195 2 жыл бұрын
You speak impaccable English aswell. 👌🏿
@chilakaikechukwu5939 2 жыл бұрын
Swears😌😍💯
@moonshiry 7 ай бұрын
One of the most balanced and eloquently put across pieces of advice out there. I think the biggest problem that we guys face out there is the messaging speed and we are left unsure if we should continue to persue or not
@petercharlery7661 2 жыл бұрын
I just don't understand why men invest so much of their time, energy and money with women who are not interested in them.
@blackticalmayhem8461 2 жыл бұрын
EGO i guess lol
@xxxj4s279 2 жыл бұрын
maybe because they still have feelings even though they know it’s impossible
@petercharlery7661 2 жыл бұрын
@@xxxj4s279 They need to be very much aware of feelings that end up digging holes in their pockets. One must always consider the costs.
@sameenergy9414 2 жыл бұрын
Lust
@Flight411 2 жыл бұрын
Scarcity mindset. Knock it off, Kings.
@SW-et4zb 3 жыл бұрын
Out of all the languages that could have been spoken, Jessica chose facts.
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@Nicey_Young 3 жыл бұрын
So trueee!!! Facts👏🔥
@osarumenerhunmwunsee 3 жыл бұрын
She speaks fact. I have gone through this before until the lady showed her true color by screaming at me when I took her out and made a mistake passing the wrong place while I was taking her home. She screamed at me like crazy and ended up saying she’s done with me. When I got her back the second time it was as if she has an agenda of asking me for money which I did gave her. I was a fool getting the signal thst she doesn’t like me and still pushing myself towards her. August 1, I stopped talking to her. Thank God I have a new girlfriend now and she’s so cool.
@kevinmalone3210 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds as if she's emotionally unstable. You did the right thing in forgetting her.
@osarumenerhunmwunsee 3 жыл бұрын
@@kevinmalone3210 i removed her number. In church she’s quiet and always frowning her face. The last time I text her was when she ask me to buying something online and was trying to give her my credit card foolishly, that day I decided to change my mind telling her that I can’t give you my credit card that it’s too risky. She now said I don’t trust her. Since then I stoped talking to her till now.
@kevinmalone3210 3 жыл бұрын
@@osarumenerhunmwunsee I suppose it doesn't hurt to talk to that person even if for the most part you cut then out of your life. It's always wise to never give anyone your credit/debit card numbers out. For a woman to say, you don't trust me in response sounds manipulative. Moving on is the best way. Life is too short.
@osarumenerhunmwunsee 3 жыл бұрын
@@kevinmalone3210 Honestly man. What people don’t understand is that it’s not about the look, it’s about heart. If you are the most prettiest girl in the world and you have a bad behavior no one will date the person or maybe they’ll have sex with the person and run away. This girl is so pretty but she had a very bad behavior
@afogbonjaiyewisdom1436 3 жыл бұрын
@@kevinmalone3210 most ladies u see walking around are highly emotionally unstable,,,when u as a dude ask them ,why do u love me ,,they say the same thing repeatedly "Bec you make me happy and smile"*
@aquabot 6 ай бұрын
She's not just being nice, she's actually trying to get your attention without having to reciprocate. They adore that, getting men's attention knowing they won't do anything with them.
@Mattlikesshoes 6 ай бұрын
💔 Been there man. Some wisdom that has been far too painful, almost a pyrrhic victory, though it makes us stronger.
@jaylenwilliams8271 6 ай бұрын
I’m very uncomfortable being friends with women because of this. Simply being friends makes me feel like less of a man because of how many time I’ve been the attention giver with nothing in return.
@Koluvuma 6 ай бұрын
@@jaylenwilliams8271literally get that. It’s like wanna be friends at least or just want get to know u as a person but u ain’t even giving me the time and always busy when I ask to hang out. This girl, haven’t heard my name from her mouth b4, so I blocked her. Move on brothers I know it’s hard but in reality it ain’t
@jamesdejohnette4106 6 ай бұрын
Usqubot. Bingo. Enough said.
@iliketabasco 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for showing me that what I was thinking is right.. honestly, being honest and truthful about not liking us for a relationship is more valued than "someday we will go for a drink". it's hard to understand a woman inside her head sometimes and the actions and sayings. Sometimes ,for us man, it's like giving "hope" where there is none and we stay confused because it makes us think that she is just playing hard/testing and that we need to work harder to have her heart. Most of us don't admit it but it's very hurtful inside (at least the ones that have a heart)
@salimmwabora6576 7 ай бұрын
Point taken
@nanaasubonteng6448 3 жыл бұрын
Another thing is that if a woman is not interested in you, she will treat you the same way she treats other guys in front of you. She will be nice to you alright but u won't feel "special". Boys br3 o.
@romelgonzales2754 3 жыл бұрын
Yh I've been there many times which is why I don't bother anymore I just keep myself to myself now
@Zico804 3 жыл бұрын
You also speak the truth.
@webbset Жыл бұрын
Some sef will flirt and all but not interested
@ysaehikonrad6431 3 жыл бұрын
as a man you have to face rejections and still walk up with pride
@nathanielmabels5984 3 жыл бұрын
That be the vibe bro...... Life must move on...... The grind and hustle is real
@davante1286 3 жыл бұрын
It's cool long as it's not a constant rejection 😁
@howboutdat4053 3 жыл бұрын
@@davante1286 That's been my experience. It's seriously screwing up my mental health 😓
@thebotfather9508 3 жыл бұрын
@@howboutdat4053 stop approaching women. get money & flex & let them come to you.
@howboutdat4053 3 жыл бұрын
@@thebotfather9508 Lmao I got the money and I'm very ambitious. Though flexing isn't really my thing. I don't want to deal with golddiggers.
@atio5491 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing beats experience. Knowing and doing things are two different things. I know the mistakes I make but I usually remember them after they’ve been made. For example, I remember a girl chatting me up at a mall last year, she was really pretty and I was so impressed with her confidence and vibe that I got carried away and became too chatty (my most frequent mistake with anybody I’m trying to impress). It was after she left that I realized how I’ve screwed it up. I barely chat up anyone that looks like that so tips or no tips, without the experience, it’s easy to get carried away in the moment and fumble. We know some of these tips, it’s just harder to see/remember when you’re in the middle of it.
@patrickburns4821 11 ай бұрын
so help me understand, you feel your mistake was you held too long of a conversation? so was she trying to cut it off and you kept going or did she also bring up new subjects as well? What is "too chatty"? I mean if she was feeling you and you feeling her what was wrong with that my man? Talking is a good thing; something was wrong with her apparently!
@averagestudent4358 7 ай бұрын
Relatable.
@davidmtonga1422 2 жыл бұрын
Any girl who likes you will create time for you coz girls have this super power of running many things at the same time. She can cook,do her chores and even wash at the same time. If she keeps telling you she's busy or making excuses,focus on yourself Bro💀 Thank you for the video😊🙏
@kwabenaowusu7884 3 жыл бұрын
I've taken your advice and saved myself from a possible heartache. Well done Jess.
@Foevah 3 жыл бұрын
When a woman isn't into you, you'll see the clear signs. Nice one Jessica. You hit the nail on the head
@tatakamedia5125 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@africancockney8712 3 жыл бұрын
When the signs are clear like telesales move to next customer..or as the old saying goes "Plenty of fish in the sea".
@keli667 3 жыл бұрын
the was this girl that comes to sleepover at my place and we sleep on the same but when I made my move it back fired hahaha
@clementkyei6076 3 жыл бұрын
@@keli667 hahaha women di3 they can be strange ooo
@supamoe2022 3 жыл бұрын
Why do you people talk like school teachers 👩🏫 JUST BE YALL SELVES
@kayscenes6542 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a lady and all these tips are so correct. I love your videos Jessica. I hope the men watch and learn. it's necessary. Stop wasting your time and stop being in denial.
@mayowaokunoye6522 Жыл бұрын
You are my Coach, Jessie.I really love,appreciate and respect you for exposing women's subtle negative attitudes and reactions in a relationship. On this subject matter, you just provided an answer to a current issue in a new relationship I am.I have even get everything set: bought her goodies for her birthday which is today, etc but she's just all what you have been saying. Thanks Jessie...you are MY COACH.
@Shawntraci 3 жыл бұрын
I personally don't allow myself to waste time. If I feel like there is very little interest shown I will quickly remove myself from that situation. There won't be any bad talk or any type of negativity. I just move on without warning and wish them good luck, because there is absolutely no way to get time back once it is spent...
@playlistiphone8743 3 жыл бұрын
preach
@vanjones1749 3 жыл бұрын
True indeed
@raheemcamal998 3 жыл бұрын
👊👊👏👏
@seandafny 3 жыл бұрын
I will do this as well and cry the entire time im walking away.
@PROPHETBLBALOYI 3 жыл бұрын
Never worry about the one that got away😔😅😅
@gtheqb6422 3 жыл бұрын
Whenever she gives strange dudes a more cheerful, vibrant energy than she does you... red flag?.. I think so..
@falsealarmno 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I've been there too. Complementing dudes and females while in my presence. Shiiiid.
@johnnydavis9494 3 жыл бұрын
Thats sounds about right
@pantherman8719 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Guess I'll add that too. Didn't even think of that.
@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын
Certainly. It's quite disrespectful too
@tapesone2 3 жыл бұрын
Been there MANY times
@phor5736 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Jessica!! This video is absolutely what I was looking for, and I tell most of the things you said in this video I can relate to it.
@Rlambjr21 3 жыл бұрын
This was helpful. Everything that you said in the video was happening to me. Whenever I asked to meet, she either wasnt able to or she kept pushing back the day. Also, she always took forever to respond to my texts. I kinda realized it before I saw your video, but I wanted to be persistent. I watched the video yesterday and today it’s sinking in. The words “save yourself the rejection” kept coming to mind throughout the day. Now I decided to leave her alone, and I’m bummed out thinking about how I was being strung along. I have a bad stutter and I know that she was trying to be nice to me, but looking back on it I’d rather her be straight up with me instead of being nice and stringing me along. Great video!
@Odih4sure 3 жыл бұрын
I experienced four (1. Asked for a hangout and she kept on saying, "I will let you know." 2. Shifting away when I walked closer. 3. Not responding to messages on time. 4. She hardly said words 2 times that we met and never talked about her friends) of what you said and I just learned in the most impressive way. Thank you Jessica.
@israelmarillier700 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry about that my brother
@nealmike5490 2 жыл бұрын
Next time try showing her your bank account..if its 6 figures or more I guarantee you will get a different response..Or buy a Bentley and make sure she sees 👀 it...If those 2 things don't work she's not interested..
@leembreezy6690 2 жыл бұрын
@@nealmike5490 🤣🤣🤣
@lavernmbutura9558 Жыл бұрын
@@nealmike5490 bruh🤣🤣🤣
@jeremiahcarraway6419 Жыл бұрын
Looks and height are all that matter if u don’t have either one. U are gonna have a rough road ahead
@slack. 3 жыл бұрын
Damn the last point hit HARD!!😭😭
@naziraminusuleiman4661 Жыл бұрын
Just the kind of video I needed to watch at the moment. Thanks
@alphoncegenga3301 2 жыл бұрын
Wisdom! Thank you Jessica, we're learning 💯
@dylanjones8636 3 жыл бұрын
She just saved a lotta guys alotta time frfr
@theresachikondo3067 3 жыл бұрын
Fr
@lemonacidrounds7293 3 жыл бұрын
Not really! Love is blind, your girl keep doing that and you keep pursuing her. As the unexplained rule applies: We always run after those who don't want us and we never turn attention to those who wanna give us the World!
@bighutch2202 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I downgraded women on my priority list and life has only improved. 1. God, 2. My goals/vision/purpose, 3. My Health, 4. My family, 5. My life long friends, 6. My Community, 7. Women. Life is short and my time is valuable to myself and others. Plus the first 5 on this list always bring value to my life. Love my sisters but I can no longer be distracted by time wasters.
@anselmos_brain 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂true
@Omahe904 3 жыл бұрын
Well said big man...I love that spirit
@Spiritpowernetwork 3 жыл бұрын
Truth! I am adopting this!
@lowlowseesee 3 жыл бұрын
big hutch i love the list but i would put 1.Consent as number one. not your fake ass skydaddy hahahaah. carry on dont @ me with fairy tale arguments either. i care much more about womens safety than your allegiance to whatever god you worship. one of them is actually a real thing lol
@joemomma9152 3 жыл бұрын
@@lowlowseesee well you better hope he’s not real because if he is your screwed my friend. Wouldn’t you rather believe in something even if just for comfort, on your off chance that he is real you’d be doing yourself a disservice not believing in at least something you can’t be right if you don’t try.
@michaelaniah4646 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jess I really love listening to u It takes her all day to reply to messages
@DarkManKpakpo 3 жыл бұрын
If Jess makes a masterclass on dating life, I dunno who wouldn't purchase that course. She doesn't miss!
@collinsa8909 3 жыл бұрын
Would you? Take dating advice from a man, women don't often know what a man's perspective is like
@OGwiseog 3 жыл бұрын
Ummmm she acts a little masculine Ijs And Im female
@markoseries Жыл бұрын
I think she has a 1 on 1 for her patreon supporters.
@christopherduffy1703 3 жыл бұрын
The key to this whole thing fellas, flirt with a whole bunch of women. Reserve your energy for ones who give the best responses.
@lowlowseesee 3 жыл бұрын
or not flirt with a whole bunch so they can get a fucking break lol. one thing ive learned with my 40 years is that a woman will let you know if she likes you. ive also had a great life so i know its hard for guys who havent had the experiences that I have to actually chill. I wasn't always chill either hahaha
@christopherduffy1703 3 жыл бұрын
@@lowlowseesee "Not flirt with a whole bunch so they can get a break." Explain yourself please. That didn't make any sense to me. It's called playing the numbers my dude. No 1 woman should ever get that much attention. Especially if she's not reciprocating interest.
@christopherduffy1703 3 жыл бұрын
@@lowlowseesee Also! I don't know about you but I've found that waiting for them to approach is also bull shyt. I've gotten better results being a pursuer of women. So you can miss me with that.
@christopherduffy1703 3 жыл бұрын
@@lowlowseesee By the way, are you even a dude or a chic troll?
@letusreason3554 3 жыл бұрын
@@christopherduffy1703 ... flirting with a bunch of women is one way, but it may not be the best way. A true player, or a man that has a good dating system, will make women purse him. Some women want a man that is elite, or unique. If you are always up on her grinning and barking, then you are just another thirsty dude that is trying to get under her dress. And in her mind, this will not make you unique, or special. A quality woman wants to be with a quality man, and not just another thirsty dude.
@turborocketmedia 2 жыл бұрын
There's just so much BS on men and women, it feels soothing to finally hear realistic advice! Thanks for the awesome content!
@denismusulo8 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for your educative lectures ,keep it up .
@iloveyou281000 3 жыл бұрын
This just goes to show you that some women can pretend to be interested in you, when really their just wasting your time being nice
@davante1286 3 жыл бұрын
They are very good actors.
@jsmoothking6738 3 жыл бұрын
@@davante1286 Alot of them are actors and dudes are giving them homes, cars, like fools.
@playlistiphone8743 3 жыл бұрын
Men don't get asked out nearly as many times as women. I myself try to be cool about rejecting what few women that have asked me out that i was not interested in. I wish I could just say I wasn't interested out the gate but not as easy when you are on the spot. Trust me. People can be sensitive to how you may react to the rejection.
@jaimesmith2266 3 жыл бұрын
Facts.
@webbset Жыл бұрын
Time wasters
@Blue_Phire 3 жыл бұрын
You are dropping jewels! I appreciate your candor and you sharing these landmine examples guys can sidestep to save them time and safeguard their feelings in their pursuit!
@renostubbs8504 2 жыл бұрын
The truth from a woman's perspective,this is one of the reasons I subscribe to Jessica's channel...I have no time to waste and a little knowledge goes a long way. Thanks for your time and help.
@nickf527 2 жыл бұрын
You are ABSOLUTELY 100% right Jessica! Nicely done!
@ekaobongjohn443 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this Jessica, I'm currently going through this and i can say you are very right, i hope some guys notice this signs and stopping wasting their time.
@francismawukohadenyoh1251 3 жыл бұрын
Jessi, you have made my day with this piece. Thanks alot
@wesleymatafeni479 Жыл бұрын
Whoa , thank you for this eye opening hints ..sometimes we tend to be blind to these warnings due to love ..thank you once again for shedding some light on that , my perspective has been changed
@Bixwell Жыл бұрын
Great lighting on this video.
@shaydseka 3 жыл бұрын
You have saved the gentlemen out there. This is gold!
@edwinsiala8028 3 жыл бұрын
Spot on Jessica. You are helping many brothers out here
@emmanuelidiagi3391 2 жыл бұрын
You talk gently and calmly. I love that. 🥰🥰🥰
@deeblack3950 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you I needed to hear this…I been so lost about the mix signal this was food for thought
@enockmwebeyoutube 3 жыл бұрын
I like everything about this lady, from her voice to her lighting in the background😊😊😊
@muhammedgai688 2 жыл бұрын
how about asking her out
@alexanderamoah 3 жыл бұрын
Ms Jessica, this is Facts . Thank you 🙏🏿
@emmanuel.k.justin7974 2 жыл бұрын
When i was much younger, i would suffer mentally as to why a lady has rejected me, asking myself many questions, if am not looking nice, dressing well, or the approach wasn't smart enough. And still could wake up with much hope of the girl playing hard to get, but still get turned away. Just realised i don't need to force things around, having many female friends is ideal to curb stress, You turn me off, i move on until life's journey connects us again. Jessie you are a blessing here, we men should just know our values
@webbset Жыл бұрын
Simple
@trevormohan7397 2 жыл бұрын
I cannot stop listening your advice, you are awesome!
@peterwycliff1028 3 жыл бұрын
I knew about all this a long ago, I don’t delay to move on when ever a woman start behaving like that to me, but really happy with more highlighting us u re a great lady
@calebseyramquashie 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Jess This is timely 💔🙌
@nashakeba 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Miss Jess, your topics are just dope! I wish you longevity with your channel. Keep up the good work and be blessed!
@TigerNgtMare 2 ай бұрын
Smart and clever lady. I see the logic in your words. I've had a similar encounter before, and your video has only confirmed what my intuition had been saying.
@dannyboy2665 3 жыл бұрын
She’s speaking so much sense and facts I’m glad Ive been able to learn a lot and wiling to learn more thank you Jessica
@edelgyn2699 2 жыл бұрын
A tonne of waffle to garner views.
@mobolajialbertfemi-dero9993 3 жыл бұрын
I love the background for your videos, the warm gradient lighting scheme is almost boarder line therapeutic.😁
@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them! thanks for the feedback
@Rixhwolf_BEO34 7 ай бұрын
The part about response timing is so true, I’m glad a woman spoke it up 💯🙏🏾💪🏾
@robertnyavor 11 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Mad. Jessica. I must admit that your videos are really really helpful
@michaeldionrichadson174 3 жыл бұрын
I've watched your videos a few times and thought about your messages. You have helped me understand what my mother and sisters never told me. I have been confused and have suffered when I did not have to. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. You have made a world of difference to me. I do not have all the word to express my gratitude, but you have it!! 🤜🤛✊💛
@harryschlitz4067 2 жыл бұрын
You have a Mother and Sister and they did not clue you in on a Western Woman’s TRUE nature.?? So sorry to hear that.
@reubenskii 3 жыл бұрын
Great tips.. If you've been in the game long enough, you tend to see this signals so early on your interaction. It doesn't even bother me as much as it did when I was younger. Even if she says NO, I acknowledge it, Take the L...and move on to the next without emotions, with time it just becomes normal and you become less n less attached to women.
@andfthxcvjdyi2875 3 жыл бұрын
"with time it just becomes normal and you become less n less attached to women." That's deep.
@kensimba7868 2 жыл бұрын
Hapo umenena bro
@yourlandladysson6395 2 жыл бұрын
Yh ... that attachment part is the last thing I need to achieve. I know the game
@TshineSOR696 2 жыл бұрын
Thank so much Jess I do appreciate listening to you change a lot 🤞🏾❤️
@johananjohn5450 7 ай бұрын
Nice one Jessica, thank you 😊.
@sceudue50 3 жыл бұрын
You're so right. I have one of these when I was younger, but that had a lot to do with my game around a woman I like. Over the years, and meeting up with women it all changed. But what you've said is the hard truth. Now I can smell these red flags a mile away, and put an end to it early.
@adrianortiz5157 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica we need more women like you that walk us through all the red flags that woman's put us through
@addae_dr 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you do much for sharing this with us 🙏🏿🙌🏿
@randomdude75777 2 жыл бұрын
I started watching your videos today but I feel like I've known you for so long. You're of so much help and your videos are an eye-opener to who women really are cause men don't really understand women at times. Thank you for your efforts.
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
Awww!! Thanks
@josemigel 3 жыл бұрын
This is a god level of wisdom oozing from Jess ..legit content ..keep it up babe
@josephgatambia5679 3 жыл бұрын
Jessica you're God's sent,am in this particular situation,I had questions and now I have answer's,thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.
@ibiboataisijustin5492 2 жыл бұрын
Really love your vibes and personality. It's really contagious.
@soakedbearrd 5 ай бұрын
This video brought value, thank you.
@sarahboakye7691 3 жыл бұрын
This video is highly recommended for men who don't have time to waste .... it just saved their asses!!! Sometimes the guys know, but I wonder what they are still waiting for? Great job Jessica 👏❤️
@evadora3606 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes just waiting for God's intervention. It's works with some,fails with some.
@nwabuokeichinedu1309 3 жыл бұрын
😝😝😝😝😝😝
@emmanuelgyamfi6320 3 жыл бұрын
We wait because we feel we got to give it time .. 🤷🏿♂️
@sarahboakye7691 3 жыл бұрын
@@emmanuelgyamfi6320 nice
@sarahboakye7691 3 жыл бұрын
@@evadora3606 🙏
@livedirect2122 3 жыл бұрын
The best things that have worked for me is to try having some mystery about myself and to be straight to the point with my expectations. Women know from the very start if they're into you, so it all depends on how they SHOW it, not by response. Regardless, I never view them in a pedestalistic manner nor give them any undeserved attention. Keep it moving!!!
@ernest1576 Жыл бұрын
Have some mystery women will think your a weirdo and don't want to be alone with you for fear of being killed
@vince11harris 7 ай бұрын
Dude you can do all that and still get rejected. You not gonna bag every single woman you think is attractive
@stevetheiii477 7 ай бұрын
@@vince11harris man wish more guys had this mindset, seems like most dudes in this comment section fear rejection, the whole wait for the signals first before u approach, man tbh i prefer to shoot my shot with a girl who catches my eye rather than wait, and personally i prefer to know that she wasn't fucking with me up front when i approach her rather than sit back and wonder how many women i've missed out by not approaching, women are all different and one woman's choosing signals can be different to another, some girls are hella subtle and u woulld have never guessed they liked u because honestly which guy is going around constantly looking if girls are sending signals? thats tedious, imma keep cold approaching coz at the end of the day most likely these women are strangers and u might never see them again so so what if i take the L as long as i'm polite abt the interaction and wish her good day afterwards who cares what she thinks of me after the interaction ends, not like i'll ever see her again. Plus taking rejections can also make for good stories later on lmao i have a few embarrassing L's that i laugh at when i think abt it
@vince11harris 7 ай бұрын
@@stevetheiii477 I think dudes are just scary. They have unrealistic expectations and assume that if every girl doesn’t like them or says then she’s a “bitch “ or whatever. Nah man she just doesn’t like you like that and it’s cool. And I agree. I would definitely rather have the confidence to cold approach and tell her how I think about her then play the “what if” game in my mind
@KingofNewYorkkk 7 ай бұрын
Being mysterious and not being overly thirsty gives a man more power. Feeling her vibe to see If she’s worth It
@jojocastillo1709 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes i wonder if this things mean something or maybe i´m just to insecure but you just said most of the things i wonder about. You´re awesome Jessica, love your videos !!!
@selikemperez Жыл бұрын
Hmm...some key pointers here. Thanks for sharing Jessica. Blessings
@bridgetanongba3789 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true and straight forward💯There's no time to waste men!! Jess, thumbs up to you👍 there s never a dull moment with you, right here😍😍❤❤
@loygcebe4842 Жыл бұрын
Awesome advice Jess✊✊
@evanwashington6959 3 жыл бұрын
These are solid good advice
@aimforgreatness5150 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video, spared me alot of heartache
@gunnerstvnaija2751 6 ай бұрын
Nice tips jess. Things can be very confusing with some ladies though, but everything you've said is absolutely spot on❤❤❤
@Elikem2982 3 жыл бұрын
What can I say, you so on point! Life lesson, they will definitely find time if they are into you...
@Berthasglobe 3 жыл бұрын
Very solid points 💯% Jessi
@one-stopautoshoptheultimat9094 3 жыл бұрын
Good morning
@mensakofi4066 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the tips 🙌
@karellt2355 2 жыл бұрын
48...single and loving it! Thanks for this, confirming what I thought....
@coachobispersonalworkoutti2223 3 жыл бұрын
Another major Red Flag: When u take her for dinner and she spends her time on her phone until u finish your food, just leave 🤪🤪🤪🤪
@playlistiphone8743 3 жыл бұрын
@linkzable I wouldn't go as far as saying that's a simp move but it certainly isn't advanced strategy in the dating game. I avoid dinner dates myself unless it's at my place or hers. That puts me in the red zone (American football reference). I'm not saying it's an automatic lay because you still need game to close the deal but you're not spending a fortune either.
@playlistiphone8743 3 жыл бұрын
@linkzable I don't disagree with your park bench example. I was just saying that it's not entirely a simp move to have dinner because there are layers to this. My chances of getting laid are way better if she accepts an invitation to my home for dinner or ice cream. It's at my home or hers, not some restaurant.
@johnappiah4902 3 жыл бұрын
This is a good teaching for men with low self esteem and also for the obnoxious ones who think no woman can reject them. A man should be able to spot these and jog on! Having said that, I think women should be courageous and make their feelings known from the beginning. Be straight forward, let your pursuer of a guy know you're not interested. If you want just friendship, be clear. Don't worry about the guy's feelings, it's about yours.
@iloveyou281000 3 жыл бұрын
But women aren't going to be straight forward, with how they feel, because their having to much fun putting men in the platonic zone.
@edelgyn2699 2 жыл бұрын
You are making the assumption that a woman would be able to tell whether or not you are just being friendly or whether you are interested in social contact to ascertain whether a romantic relationship is possible. Is a woman obliged to warn every man who is friendly towards her that she is only interested in platonic friendship? A woman may wish to know more about you within the limitations of being a friend/acquaintance first, she may wish to see what you are like as a person. In addition, why should she have to make that decision within a short space of time? We all know of people who have developed a romance after having known one another as friends for some time - romance just blossoms; it's called falling in love.
@keithpace9870 Жыл бұрын
Who needs women? too many seem to enjoy hurting others.
@keithpace9870 Жыл бұрын
@@edelgyn2699 Who needs women? too many seem to enjoy hurting others.
@truvybezzz9244 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice, Jessica. A few of these things are currently happening to me right now.. Thanks to this video, I know how to approach my situation moving forward thanks! 🙏
@debamartinayuk1325 3 жыл бұрын
Jessica, thanks very much for your teaching,i really think guys are happy to have you.
@YUNGTETRIS13 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in a situation where one of my female friends started becoming extra flirtatious towards me (which she never had). But when I check her by returning her energy, she backs right back down. Careful, fellas 👌🏾💯
@jeviosoorishas181 3 жыл бұрын
Women play games...always have, always do. That's why it's important to let them know that you're not interested in having your time wasted.
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