Which of these traits surprised you the most?

Absolutely agree on "having an ability to sense authenticity". I always get a strong gut feeling if a person is "putting on a show". I can't stand fakeness, I detest it.

The biggest mistake that HSP's make is thinking that their high sensitivity is a flaw or defect. You are not a walking basket case. Do you have any idea how strong you are? You've gotta be incredibly strong to have an amplified nervous system and survive in this world. You rock. ♥️

Does anyone else feel more in tune with animals because of their high level of sensitivity?

I was raised to be ashamed of being sensitive. Today at 42 years old, I am understanding myself and embracing my traits. Thank you

Avoiding conflict, is just me apologising first even when I'm not wrong.

Things that affect me: 1. Rude or ignorant people 2. People afflicted with stupidness 3. Criticism 4. Confrontation/arguments 5. Physical touch/closeness makes me cringe or shrink, so I've never had a girlfriend. 6. Bright lights 7. I can sense people's negativity/miserableness. 8. I am anxious about using a phone and freak out if someone unknown calls me. And YES ! I DO take things personally and blame myself severely for failures.

HSP: 1. Need to take breaks when things feel overwhelming 2. Caffeine 3. Sensitivity of the senses 4. Avoid conflict 5. Hard time coping when sleep deprived 6. Difficulty switching focus 7. Hard time making decisions 8.Taking things personal 9. Hate failing and making mistakes 10. Don't like last minute changes to your plans 11. Need quiet to focus 12. Don't like violence on tv or movies 13. Hard time saying no

I always get "You think too deep into things."

I was diagnosed as bipolar in my early 20s, but I'm actually just a highly sensitive person. All of these descriptions apply to me. As far as the violence goes, I was raised on action movies and have no problem with violence, but excessive blood, gore, and suffering I can't take. If it starts going into torture, I'm out. Shows like Game of Thrones or movies like Saw are absolutely no-go. The biggest one for me is I cry a lot. Happy tears, sad tears, being moved to tears, it's a thing, and it can be really embarrassing when I look around and I'm the only one. Then family members tease me over it and the sensitivity to criticism kicks in. Getting over toxic shame and learning self-love has been a pretty good shield against the more difficult aspects of being a HSP.

Omg, this resonates so much with me! I've been told my whole life I'm too sensitive, I care too much, I cry too much, I read people like a book! I feel their feelings when they talk to me. I get so passionate about politics and human rights, I play several instruments and I annoy my husband while I play a piece of classical music and cry because I feel it so deeply... I thought I was crazy!

I love that, "Your Intuition is the place where your heart and mind meet."

I will get into conflicts when I feel there is an injustice because I obsess over that. I hate fake people or having to be fake myself. I enjoy being around kids because they have easy emotions and accept my emotions. I am a librarian at schools. But I run for smoke breaks even if I dont need or enjoy it. I have zero control over it and I'm now realizing what this is.

this is freaky how accurate this shit is. goddamn my whole life is clear to me now

1. Overstimulation by Caffeine, 2. Sleep deprivation, 3 Conflict avoidance, 4. Difficulty to focus on many things at a time, 5. Getting stuck in indecision, 6. Don't like when plans change suddenly... That's me! So I guess I am a highly sensitive person...

I have every single one of these qualities. I'm sensitive to sounds, smells, tastes, I can't stand being interrupted when I'm talking or doing something, I need a lot of peace and quiet, I struggle with boundaries, I'm emotionally sensitive, violence definitely bothers me, I'm not afraid to go deep, I can work well with others very well and put them in a good mood, though I work very well alone too, florescent lights are the worst, etc. This is spot on. Thank you 😊💜

The best part is that we 'are not flawed'!! I always thought this was a 'bad' thing in my personality.

I HATE conflict! I can't deal with. It's one of the biggest struggles I have as a leader.

I recently discovered this about myself. I read the book, and it was absolutely about me. I have always thought that there was something wrong with me. Thank goodness I learned about this trait at the ripe old age of 53..... Better late than never=)

I was in the library studying with my friends and after the 4th or 5th time that I moved seats and tables my friend burst out laughing asking why I always do this. I said that I can't study with the certain combinations of lighting and noise, facing too many people, or seeing too many people walk by. I always thought everyone was like that. I always tried to figure out why I really really struggled to work in public places even when it is quite, but too many people are moving around near me or the lighting is off or something else. It's weird how small things like this start to make sense.

Damn I totally help when someone is feeling left out by bringing them in.

1. I hate the light, I love dark. 2. I hate criticism. 3. Whenever somebody is sad I want to cry for them. 4. I rarely get any sleep. 5. I cannot take pain very well. 6. Certain scents make me sad. 7. I am very sensitive to fluffy fabrics, they send chills down my spine just thinking about it.

Am I the only one, who can drink coffee and go straight to bed with no issue falling asleep?

Listening to this video. Just brought flashbacks of memory all the way from childhood. Like it hit me like I was always this person, the signs were always there and it only after 30 years did my family start to pick on it. I remember going to this movie with my mom and it affected me so much like I was crying and it affected me like I started thinking about why life was cruel and all that stuff. And she couldn't understand it. It's good to know that I am not crazy and that the reason for me feeling a certain way was not just me.

This is incredible. So many of the characteristics I find in myself and it is so good to hear there are people who are simmilar and they are not a nuisance. Thank you Julia.

I started crying today. The other day my teacher said "Well because you're not paying attention" because I simply didn't understand something. Today, my mother told me to get something from my brother's room, and I knocked because the door was locked. She yelled "What are you doing? This is what Mr.Holiday was talking about! You don't listen!" So I started crying. She called me sensitive and tried to hug me, I didn't want to be near her. But being a child I "had" to go to her. It's been about 20 minutes and I'm still upset.

I absolutely hate conflict. It makes me feel restricted, like im choking on air or on guilt or just bad feelings in general.

Thank you Julia for so eloquently articulating this subject. Each and every point you hit describes me and my “proclivities” perfectly. For most of my life I’ve felt like an alien amongst the normal people around me, wondering what was wrong with me and at times questioning whether the depths of my experience were “really real”. You are a rockstar and you are doing great things. I’m so grateful to have come across this information. Thank you again.

Thank you, thank you, thank you! I needed this so badly. The walls of shame that I built were really holding me back. I needed to hear there is hope, and strengths that come with sensitivity.

There is nothing wrong with being a highly sensitive person. One thing though that is important is that the person dating a highly sensitive person needs to know that so they can be more gentle with criticism.

I got out of my car in the WalMart parking lot to break up a fight between two women over a parking spot. I begged them to stop and said something like "Please, can we have just a little peace in this world!! Times are hard enough!" It helped the situation, but I realized later I could have gotten hurt or killed!!!

Thank you. This is so informative and love that it includes also super powers. So important to recognize sensitive people run a risk of being taken for granted or even worse, being taken advantage of by some one. Happy New Year💕

This hit the nail right on the head. I often feel very overwhelmed and put so much pressure on myself to be perfect, always aware what people might be thinking, and often want to cry at work and have to take a few mins. I always feel daft! This is Brill

I really loved hearing the positives. Being highly sensitive is sometimes something I've strongly disliked about myself. I never thought of it as a good thing and will be referring to this in the future ❤️

About conflicts, sleep, decisions, perfeccionism/failure, much to do, change, disappoint? That's me indeed....

I am feeling the effect of watching this as deeply righting me as a human being who beats to a different drum. I am unique and this is refreshing and recalibrating. Thank you.

You just hit home ! Wow I am amazed by writing this things and being like... so there are people who understand ! I wanted to add that an issue with understanding other peoples emotions and intentions is that sometimes you find certain ugly truths and you can't do anything about it but over all I love this video, I am so thankful and hopeful I am not just broken.

“You’re too nice” is what I heard for 30 years. This boils down who I am perfectly. Most of these I’ve identified on my own, but goodness, what a struggle. I sent this to my family and told them that; “This is why I disappear into my bedroom on occasion.” I’m 60 and hope that all like “us,” including the younger folks, hear this message... You’re just fine as you are. Also, lighting and onions hit me like a hammer! Love your “sessions.”

Thanks for this video, you've described me to a T. I've been ridiculed for being 'too sensitive' my whole life. I can't drink caffeine without bouncing off the walls and then sinking into depression afterwards. I try to avoid it completely. I tend to take everything personally...reading far too deep into things people do and say. Loud noises, bright lights, extreme heat/cold, heavy scents are all hard for me and if clothing is not soft, I don't wear it. Any clothing that feels confining makes me irritable....tight clothing, turtlenecks, tight sleeves, belts etc. The minute I get home from work, off come the fitted clothes and on go the soft, comfortable lounging clothes. Conflict is the worst for me so I hide away from it. This has cost me relationships. I even find that if I'm watching a movie where everyone is fighting, I have to turn it off as it will sink me into sadness and agitation. As for sleep, I need a full night or I get scatterbrained and depressed. If my train of thought is interrupted, I'll snap back and be agitated for a while. Loud crunching, rattling of shopping bags, fireworks, loud noises in general, jar me and agitate me. It's all these reactions that have had me judged as 'difficult' by family and friends my entire life. I've been diagnosed with anxiety and depression but I don't understand this as my symptoms usually follow one of the triggers I've mentioned above. Neither the depression or anxiety lasts long, they're more 'reactions' than anything else. On a positive side, my intuition is off the charts amazing. I get feelings about people and situations long before other people I know. Sometimes this is very overwhelming too though. My latest 'brick wall' that is causing me to freeze rather than proceed is a project where I have to finish and paint some baseboards in my house left incomplete by a contractor. These baseboards have been staring at me for months, supplies ready to go, but the minute I look at the job I feel overwhelmed, then make some excuse that I'll do it later rather than finish it up. These baseboards have become a taunting antagonist in my life lol.... It's ridiculous. :)

i was never really sure about being highly sensitive but after watching your video and agreeing with everything you said i’m considering it even more than before. thank you for sharing this. also love the shade of color in the video, it really helped focussing on what you are saying

Fantastic content. Reasonated so highly with me. I love that you included the positives. So many videos focus upon the 'challenges' of highly sensitive people so much that I was getting really depressed. It is good to know understand and be aware of those aspects but equally important to understand the positives. Thank you.

I have a hard time with conflict.

I'm definitely a HSP. Especially emotionally.I am extremely aware of my surroundings and am extremely self-aware of my thoughts and feelings. And really, to the point where it has its debilitating moments. It makes it somewhat difficult to remain emotionally stable because I have (had) a tendency to drown out the noise with things like weed, alcohol or other depressant distractions which always have cons in some way or another. I love caffeine but it gets harder and harder to stomach the older I get as its anxious effects are beginning to outweigh its pros. I'm extremely sensitive to drugs (prescription or otherwise). It even used to confuse me as a child why people didn't notice or were not as aware of certain things as I was. I also have this insane drive to face things that bother me - which as an HSP leads for an interesting life. For instance, I hate conflict...but I must know how I will handle it if it arises (i.e. what am I made of?) so I put myself in conflict (not seek it) to get better at it. Truth is I only get better at it in practice, not because it "feels" any better. I'm easily anxious about anything and everything but I insist on pushing through those feelings by challenging myself to pretty uncomfortable levels (sailing a boat alone/in a storm, traveling the world by myself, having a job to give presentations to hundreds of people at a time on complex topics, skydiving, talking to a girl out of my league, performing music, riding a motorbike through Vietnam haha). These aren't impulsive actions but anxiously crafted events if not obligations. My therapist is confused by it, and frankly, I am sometimes as well because it leads to some extremely tough days. But the pros have always outweighed the cons, even at the cons worst- because as being an HSP my "life highs" can be extremely rewarding, maybe moreso than most, despite the uphill struggle. And it's the struggle that makes the highs so special. I appreciate relationships more, I empathize more, simple things mean more to me, and when I win at something I feel extremely accomplished not just because I won, but because I can feel all the steps it took to get there. And as I cope with my HSP qualities and recognize what makes me happy and what doesn't, I find that depression (which used to be a common part of my life) is rare. Self-care is of the upmost importance to a person like me (or us), I believe. Anyways, I'm not sure why I'm writing this, I thought this video was interesting and made me reflect. Maybe someone can relate. Thanks for posting it!

Thank you Julia, I now have finally the help I need to navigate the world. I now understand what it is to be an empath and be fully proud of it!! Thank you for the tools.

There is so much power in finally understanding my inner self. Thank you for this video. I am a very proud HSP! Changing the world through love one day at a time. ❤

wow, I am so happy to have found this, I am always complimenting others and take things to heart when they aren't the same, I can 100% relate to all the senses being effected! I never knew it was connected, also I can't read a paragraph without complete silence, so many of them rang true. thank you for this!

You are amazing and a blessing! I identified with 90% of the traits! I was always led to believe that I was flawed both in my personal relationships and my work life because I am super sensitive. Thank you for helping me see a different side of this! I’m 65, widowed and retired with a grown family. But....it’s never too late to feel good about ourselves! Thank you for sharing all of this information! I love listening to your videos and I’m in the process of listening to all of them , 💗

Every one of these were exactly on target for me. My boundaries are lousy. There's always room for anyone who needs help. I'm a perfectionist in all ways. Amazing explanation of who I am. Thank you.

EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM.....!!!! I am blown away! I have been apologizing for being "so sensitive" since I was a kid, and I'm 46 now! Thank you for this! You validated me and empowered me!🌈🍀🌻🌟💚💜

Im a hsp person im totally sensitive in small or big things especially when someone scolded me infront of many people or even when im alone..

I could be the poster child for this mindset! I find myself being misunderstood on a daily basis. or being judged for my sensitivity.

Omg FINALLY a description of me and how I feel every day of my life!!! I have spent my life believing I'm totally insane, weird, flaky, dramatic and unable to cope in the way others can. This all makes so much sense. This PERFECTLY describes me!!!!!

Finally, I knew it but diagnoses put me on long term meds for over 20 years. Thank you. Couldn't have gotten back to life without your help.

This was AWESOME!!! You've described so many of my characteristics and I've been ashamed and embarrassed about them. Thank you!

I thought I was weak, now I know I have this HSP.

Deciding WHAT to eat... Youve hit the nail on the head with every statement dear... Thanks for giving us a way to try and explain it to others...

Every single point you’ve made described me perfectly. Unbelievable. I struggle with seeing this personality as a positive but will try to view it this way in the future. Thank you Kristina for taking the time to make this video to help others.

I cannot even tell you how much this is me! It's actually incredible. My husband is the absolute opposite and really doesn't get the intuition bit and lots more besides. I will try and get him to watch it so he understands a little bit more. Thank you Julia you are a wonderful woman ❤

I can’t believe it! Everyone of those descriptions was me. I almost cried when you went through the list the characteristics of a sensitive person. You hit the nail on the head describing me. I was thinking when you almost got to the end and you hadn’t mentioned “ hating injustice “ that was going to be the one you missed, then you described what that would be like for a sensitive person . I am a Christian and it hurts me so much how my church treat gay people, or anyone that had a bad past. I find myself standing up for these people, but feel that I mostly stand alone because the few that feels like e I do are afraid to say anything. The sensitivity to coffee was right on point as Well. Caring, work better alone,the noise level, love working with others, but work better alone. I thought that there was something wrong with me and wondered why God made me this way. I saw it as a course not a blessing because others would criticize me for being too sensitive. Thank you so much! I want to watch it again! Lol

I cannot fully put into words how this video made me feel. You described me perfectly. Thank you for this Julia!

This is so enlightening and encouraging to me!! I am so relieved to know I’m not alone in feeling a bunch of things so deeply. A lot of the scenarios strongly resonate with me. I wish I could enjoy wearing scarves and turtlenecks because they ARE warmer, but I can’t deal with the fabric around my neck; it just freaks me out, and I lose focus. I also can barely exercise in leggings as opposed to shorts or looser pants because my legs just feel trapped-not exactly hot, just trapped. Conflict doesn’t make me just uncomfortable; I often cry whenever I have conflict just because I really hate how it feels and how MUCH of it I feel. I can’t get into arguments with anybody because I’ll just cry, and even conflicts that are quite mild cause me anxiety. Saying no and disappointing people are great causes of stress and sleep deprivation. Thinking I have to turn down somebody causes so much inner conflict because I don’t want to make somebody feel the way I’ve felt in the past... I don’t want them to hurt like I ever have. When overwhelmed, I do need breaks too. I don’t know that urge is even a strong enough word; it’s more like a compulsion to just freeze everything going on and cry for a few minutes-and then I can get back to doing things. The strongest of these for me is being afraid to fail. Rock climbing is a significant part of my life-it’s my primary hobby and my career. My climbing performance feels like such a big part of my ego, and while I’d be happy to try hard in it and succeed, I’d much rather just not try in the first place because I don’t want to fail. I don’t want to see myself fail, and I sure don’t want others to see me fail. I’m so much better at giving up. I’d rather give up than give it all I’ve got and find that it wasn’t good enough. Anyway, thank you for this. I need it.

This is so me! I thought most of this was just from anxiety or depression. Love your videos, thank you.

Thank you so much for this Julia - I've been made to feel inferior all my life for being "too" sensitive..... it was so wonderful to have it explained so clearly....

So glad i found this. Ya’ll my family because for a long time i wondered why i cry easily. Its hard when people around you cant understand you and kind of make you feel like something is wrong for crying easily. Love you all 🥰

Best video ever!!! I have a majority of the traits described most I’ve long accepted but could never really understand. It’s nice to know I’m not alone. Wow, you hit the nail on the head with so many but especially the violence. I’m amazed... and now more curious than ever. Thank you Julia.

Thank you for this video Julia! Sometimes I feel like I can't function in this modern world of ours, so many things wear me down and keep me in a near-panicky state almost all the time. I have read Elaine Aaron's books but still find it difficult to feel that being a HSP is a superpower. I can't tolerate caffeine at all, and I can take ages choosing the right cookies or any food really at the supermarket, so I tend stick to routine even in foods.

Thank you so much for doing this video. So appreciate your knowledge. This is me on every level. I'm working on those boundaries. You have a beautiful heart.

Thank you very much. I no longer feel so bad about being highly sensitive, in fact the one point I really did really connect with was music. Not only can I hear music, I can also play the piano. I truly love how it feels to play, in fact it is very relaxing to me. I just wanted to say thank you. I hope you have a great day.

Well Julia I have never had anyone describe who I am in such detail on so many parts of me and topics. Listening to this video is like looking into a mirror of myself it’s so good to hear you Thank you xx

Omg...yes! I often have many Dr. Appointments. I've found through your advice that I need to space out my appointments. Otherwise, I get extremely overwhelmed and become more anxious. I've learnt so much about myself and how to deal with things easier since I found your channel. 🙏😊💕

My Guidance Counselor from high school informed me how she thought I was an HSP, and told me to take the Myers Briggs test and I got INFP. I just felt so understood and it has really helped my anxiety having coping skills when things get overwhelming that worked for me. (like taking breaks, walking in nature, mindfulness, music, reading, taking time for myself to recharge, journaling, art expression.) I am eternally grateful for her wisdom and insight of getting to have a better understanding of myself at such a young age. I am a teenager and I'm thinking of becoming a therapist to help so many others.

Oh my goodness this is completely me. You have described feelings of HSP just right . I have been told all my life that I am to sensitive but at last I get the fact it’s not a flaw .thanks so glad I came across your video. ( I was brought to tears good ones )

Loved this! My gut instinct, music and scary movies really resonated with me and the bs-o-meter! Thanks Julia best 25 mins I've spent watching a video in a long time :) Feeling like I can own who I am a bit more!

i really take really everything personally and i find it hard to end text messages.

OMG, is it me you are describing JULIA darling? I knew all about myself but I didnt know any name for it , and I thought it's just me. What I can add about me as a highly sensitive person is : I cant stand people Gossips, I cant stand peoples intertwine in my business, I cant stand peoples MANIPULATION / CUNNINGNESS, I cant stand INJUSTICE behaviour towards someone else. I cant stand MESSINESS, CROWDED, SMELLY ENVIRONMENT, I love and adore CREATIVE, BEAUTIFUL,HELPFUL MINDS.

Oh. My. God. This is the video i needed. social anxiety is such a blanket. This is the pinpoint ive been looking for. this is the root. thank you!!

I can not believe how spot on this is... It's like you got inside my head. What small thing I am indecisivene about is my outfit for the day and when I buy something for myself. Like the color of nail polish it want.

I am HSP. That was a fantastic video. I identify with about 95%. Personal trauma and insecurity keep me from the other 4%. 1% for the food - I am so over sensitive that I can only tolerate bland food. I love your videos!! So very thoughtful and in depth. I think if I ever date again, I will link to this video so my potential boyfriend can know more about me; give him the chance to run away fast! Unfortunately some narcissists eat us for lunch because of our poor boundary skills. Again, excellent video!

I enjoy your videos and I am most ...if not all that you described as a super highly sensitive person and you have encouraged me to continue trying to accept it all of how i am....i plan on listening to all you videos. I recently saw one and it helped but can remember....but i remember you being on point. I'm so excited i found you. Thank you Julia

Oh my, you just described me to perfection! Yes, I hate conflict but do stand up for righteousness!

I’ve been told that I am a very sensitive person. After watching this video, I have to agree! Almost every characteristic you mentioned, I can relate to. Thanks Julia for helping me to understand myself better. It’s nice to know I shouldn’t feel ashamed of this. I love your videos!♥️ -Christina Senter

Thanks Julia..I so needed to hear this message today. I appreciate you. God is good💕 Xx Tamra

I am like really sensitive. Everytime I run my eyes get watery. Everytime someone says the littelest thing I just want to cry out loud. Whenever I'm fighting with ym sister I feel like someone just punched me in the heart. My heart starts tingling and i start shaking and laughing like a creepy person and I just cry a lot. I mean I'm in fifth grade I need to stop. It makes me feel better sharing it.

Great video...I’m in there on way over half! It’s good for fellow Sensitives to know there are more pluses than minuses and to be careful about being taken advantage of, or worse, manipulated. Blessings from an ISFJ, and an Analytical Amiable...so this all fits in too.

I had never thought about all these things being tied to my emotional sensitivity! Very informative & I can check off all these as part of what I experience.

Yes, yes, thank you Julia. Thank you so much for sharing this.

the thing that I find the hardest is that I can feel other peoples emotions so much that if they're hurting then it hurts me too and I want to desperately help them and when I can't it just feels overwhelming

I have been binge-watching your videos while doing my nails. Yellow nail polish with a fine gold glitter for an accent nail! Nothing like a little sunshine to bring up my mood during this epidemic. Also, I’m a highly sensitive person. Thank you for sharing your videos! Your voice is so soothing and reassuring 🙏🏽😌

Soooo happy to have just found you!! I just discovered you on Coast To Coast and I’m amazed at how on point you are about everything. I’m elated that you get it about everything. Thank you for your knowledge and insight. ♥️💫👁

I have been in a verbally abusive relationship for 13 years and just woke up to this being a real thing. I learned I may be hsp after getting reoccuring asceptic meningitis and multiple hospitalizations. So I researched why, the docs had no answer. Trauma can be from prolonged subtle abuse. Cptsd mirrors much of this. Patricia Evans has great books to help. I believe HSP is deeply linked to abuse. My 2 cents. Thanks for listening.

That was me on 90% of those characteristics. Especially the bs meter. Thanks for the video, it helps to know that others deal with this too. I don't really know many people that relate to this and it leaves me feeling isolated much if the time

Just found this...it destroyed me in the best way ! Smashed my perception of my wonderful wife and humbled me to tears! I’m going home tonight after work to apologize for not understanding her, and to share this information with her. I believe that this information will be a huge help to understanding who she is and to a brighter future for our relationship!

Everything matched! Like everything! Especially Music! It can change me in the fraction of a second

Oh my God, I was nodding like a bobblehead through ALL of this!!!!!!!!

Whoa! Every single thing you spoke about is me to a TEE!!! I can not get over it!

Just found your channel, after 40+ years of therapy FINALLY it’s making sense, THANK YOU SO MUCH, WOW

Tide commercials! I’ve cried at commercials at least once. My dad and I are both super sensitive and there was a military commercial on when we were watching the super bowl together, the commercial’s story was about a father and daughter, and I was very very moved and I heard my dad tear up a bit. Miss him. Loved your video and others like it, bringing awareness about such an important topic. I’m 31 and I think it was 5 ish years ago that I stumbled upon the term and what it means and it’s so fascinating and intriguing and important!

Oh my god, these are all my issues!! I would never have described myself as sensitive..... 😟 but this makes a lot of sence to me.... hmmm

I related to everything here. I have an intensely hard time choosing perfume (I love it, it's a hobby). I love a wide variety of things (but spray less than most people) and like to keep variety around. I really love and appreciate tons of them and I'm super indecisive of what I'll wear each day

This is me 💯 percent. Thank you so much for this. I feel alone for the most of it. My older sister and I are the same. No one in our family understands. My husband has taken advantage of me because of this. So has my children. I have the biggest problems with boundaries. All in all, I have said YES to every example that you gave. It made me cry. Thank you so much. I will share this video with my sister Sherry and she will say the same things.