How to know if you're Transgender? | MTF | Transgender YouTuber

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Stephanie Lynnette

Stephanie Lynnette

3 жыл бұрын

I'm Stephanie a twenty-something MTF Transgender KZfaqr.
Hello my lovelies, In this weeks video I will be answering a question I have been asked so many times as a Trans person. “How do you know that you’re Trans?”. In this weeks video I’ll be breaking down the steps that I followed to find out I was trans and any advice I have for people questioning wether or not they may not be trans. Hope you enjoyed the video! Please comment down below any questions you may have regarding this video. #MTF #Transsexual #Transgender
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@surgeland9084
@surgeland9084 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not trans. I'm about the most cis guy there can be, but I want to say that this really helped me understand and empathize with a perspective that I'm not usually exposed to.
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
I cannot tell you how much this made my day!
@dave-ls6pl
@dave-ls6pl 2 жыл бұрын
You saying cis isn't very "cis" bro
@SG-zp4fz
@SG-zp4fz 2 жыл бұрын
Good boy
@SG-zp4fz
@SG-zp4fz 2 жыл бұрын
@@dave-ls6pl but I'll take it. At least for now. Won't you?
@coffeedvdrw
@coffeedvdrw 2 жыл бұрын
I've been called he/him for my whole life and i kept getting annoyed because of it and i now found out I'm transgender.
@graceygal2664
@graceygal2664 3 жыл бұрын
I'm trans and I'm not denying it anymore I've lived as a man and I'm done with this act I'm not that fem boy I'm done with the whole family thinking i should be manly I remember being called trans cos I had long hair when I was young. They were right I'm a woman and I need to figure out how to do this I'm posting this hear cos it's 3.45 am and I need to type this out I know the UK waiting list is years long but I don't care
@EmmaHopman
@EmmaHopman Жыл бұрын
Those first 3 points really speak to me.
@graceygal2664
@graceygal2664 Жыл бұрын
@@EmmaHopman oh my god you've brought me back to this comment a year later thank you so much
@EmmaHopman
@EmmaHopman Жыл бұрын
@@graceygal2664 may I ask.. how's your life going?
@EmmaHopman
@EmmaHopman Жыл бұрын
@@graceygal2664 I'm finally getting to the steps where I'm actually really wanting to do this.
@graceygal2664
@graceygal2664 Жыл бұрын
@@EmmaHopman absolutely amazing I'm happier then ever and feel like I'm living as myself for the first time I've so far made no progress on the medical side due to age but socially I've done all I can
@darkav3nger42
@darkav3nger42 3 жыл бұрын
What if ever since i was a kid i was always into girly stuff like make up, dresses, girly movies, barbies etc. I am attracted to boys and when i saw girls all dressed up and looking nice i wasnt attracted to them but i got jealous of what they looked like becuase i wanted to look like them and have a curvy figure too. Also ever since i was a kid ive never liked to look at myself in a mirror because i get upset the way i look, and finally every time i would hangout with the guys like in gym class and such i always felt uncomfortable/different and would hid when i would change around them. I grew up not knowing anything about transgenders so it was hard for me to understand. Ive spent years hiding this from my friends and family, most of the time im sad because I'm living a life that feels fake to me, like im not being myself.
@ashlynn1732
@ashlynn1732 3 жыл бұрын
I've known I was trans for 9 months now, I'm just here because I'm going through a doubt cycle
@Girlsforever1982
@Girlsforever1982 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 38 but it wasn't till 36 untill I started to considered that I was trans. I had a lot of the exact things happen to me that you're describing. The only difference is I was born pre cd players. We didn't have the term social media at that time. No one even had a home computer and when my parents did get one it ran off DOS and there was no internet. If it wasn't in a National Geographic Magazine or Readers Digest, we were clueless. People today have nearly all information that exists available to them in their pocket. I wish I was on blockers and hrt when I was younger but at the time I just thought I was different and hid the fact that I prefer woman's clothes, being feminine, bisexual, and now at the ripe age of 38 I'm no longer ok with not being who I really am. It's a journey we all have to go through and I'm just happy this new generation has all the information available to them and wonderful transgender KZfaqrs like you who help so much! 🤗🤗
@porsha1678
@porsha1678 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah im just the same born in a time where nothing existed i remember when mobile phones first came out just as i finished high school lol
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
This was amazing to read I love reading about you guys experiences and journeys and I’m so sorry it took you until you’re thirties to realise your true self but I am so happy for you that you are now your authentic self! Much love and thanks for watching as always x
@-beetlejuice-6786
@-beetlejuice-6786 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 9 and wondering if I’m trans
@-beetlejuice-6786
@-beetlejuice-6786 3 жыл бұрын
I’m still 9
@akane.9943
@akane.9943 3 жыл бұрын
@@-beetlejuice-6786 lol we know
@muhdancent4362
@muhdancent4362 3 жыл бұрын
As far as I know, I think I'm cis, but my friend pointed out the other day that cis people should try exploring their gender identity, because self exploration applies to all genders so here I am. Thanks for the vid! (Though honestly if I find out I'm trans somehow that would suck since the most out trans person in my country was receiving backlash and a 122 statewide manhunt so it's not exactly a good thing here 😅)
@SG-zp4fz
@SG-zp4fz 2 жыл бұрын
It's been a year. Are you alright?
@Tesana
@Tesana Жыл бұрын
I second this. Are you okay, homie?
@SunIsLost
@SunIsLost Жыл бұрын
Is everything ok?
@muhdancent4362
@muhdancent4362 Жыл бұрын
@@SunIsLost Pretty good. Still currently cis and luckily the trans woman managed to escape the country.
@JohnDeBrazen
@JohnDeBrazen 2 жыл бұрын
Embarrassingly I don’t know my sexuality at 27. I’ve tried sex but it’s never worked no matter who it’s with. I did feel much better about it when I was in a submissive role as opposed to trying typical missionary, I’ve tried explaining this as a possible clue about my suspected transness but no one yet has given me a straightforward answer.
@LunaFaye17
@LunaFaye17 2 жыл бұрын
The questions of sexual orientation are so real, especially for anyone who was a teenager in the 2000s or earlier. The language to express gender identity just wasn't there for most people. I grew up as a boy who always gravitated towards femininity. I knew I was 100% attracted to women but figured I must also be attracted to men because I associated femininity in men with being gay or bi. I tried to explore my sexuality in regards to men and it was a no go. No emotional or sexual attraction to men whatsoever. It took another 10 years before the language to express what I was feeling entered my vocabulary. I know it's never been easy for anyone to question their gender identity but I'm so glad that younger trans or questioning people live in a time where gender identity is a known thing. Again, it's never easy, but having something beyond orientation that you can think about when the pieces just don't fit right for you makes all the difference.
@keisha989
@keisha989 3 жыл бұрын
From a young age (primary school about 5 years old) I have always known, I did not know much about it at the time but it has always seem to have driven me throughout my life and it has never changed, I have managed to hide it but the thoughts have always been there and take up any time that I am free from other things, I cannot explain it as it has always been with me, and I find i am constantly noticing things that are trans that other people miss like small snippets of information that usually go unnoticed Its like having the same daydream for 55 years and wearing the clothes that I like and looking more like a girl i found that I always wanted more
@hannahroedder936
@hannahroedder936 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had this information half a century ago, would have saved me from 40 years of depression and suicidal ideation. I didn't know, back then no one knew. I'm 58 and and am now 14 months on HRT. I finally get this whole happiness and pride thing some people say they feel. There is no going back. My wife is staying, saying "I love a person, not a gender". I am not worthy! Keep this wonderful work up, you may save a life!
@PikminandOatchi
@PikminandOatchi 2 жыл бұрын
Me watching 20 "Am I transgender" videos and still thinking about it
@skyesky0
@skyesky0 Жыл бұрын
I have a couple of things I would like to ask if thats okay; As you almost definitely know, the waiting times for trans* healthcare (atleast in our beloved NHS), in the last decade or more, are absolutely awful, like 25-90 months for a first appointment, not even to start treatment. I was wondering what you did about this: a. When did you (rough year) start your 'medical' transition? b. How long did you/were expected to wait on the NHS? c. Did you use a private provider in the mean time?
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette Жыл бұрын
I love these questions, I will be posting a video about my personal experiences with NHS wait times soon! I’ll let you know when it’s up! 🥰
@skyesky0
@skyesky0 Жыл бұрын
@@stephanielynnette Sounds great!
@davefitzgerald5334
@davefitzgerald5334 Жыл бұрын
Hi Steph gorgeous girl! Your lovely laugh is infectious and SO endearing. I too had a shitty year in 2022 so I'm just hoping and praying that 2023 will be a better year for us all. Take care now.
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette Жыл бұрын
Thank you Marisa!
@JohnDeBrazen
@JohnDeBrazen 2 жыл бұрын
Dr Z’s KZfaq channel has a good video which cautions people about crossdressing pushing people back into the closet. I did have a negative experience where I tried women’s clothing for the first time and I just thought I looked ugly. I don’t think I look very masculine as a boy but I think the choice of losing just made my manly features stand out. I also showed a gay friend of mine a photo of myself and he hurt my feelings by being disgusted and telling me I should stay a man - he has special needs and as much as I’ve tried to explain he doesn’t understand trans and non-binary people as not having a choice (it’s not his fault, but I do need to find someone able to understand). What gave me hope was seeing my reflection in the window so the stubble on my face was less blurry and I could imagine what I might look like much better. I also now know that it’s best to start with clothing which isn’t too revealing, I’m happy with my legs and bum (they’re passable) but my upper body not so much. Covering shoulders helps make your body look less broad. A press up bra can help fill the space of not having breasts (in my case I do have A sized man boobs from the gym).
@imogenhope9316
@imogenhope9316 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video been following you for a while I’ve been trying to figure out who and what I am been researching like you said but now become more confused but will get there. But please don’t stop making the videos I love them ❤️
@debbiehall3458
@debbiehall3458 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video Stephanie, you have answered quite a few questions for me here, am 60 next year and lived through years of torment,and finally went to see my GP who referred me to Nottingham GIC this was 5 years ago! Such is the demand, l have my third appointment coming up in march, and perhaps l will be allowed to start the hrt program, not full time as living as female role at the moment as circumstances dictate otherwise, which l have explained and they fully understand my situation, so l say anyone questioning their gender identity, see your gp and try and a referral to a gender identity clinic, just be prepared for a very long wait, but do it and don't suffer the torment, things seem so much better now than 40 or 30 years ago. Btw you look great Stephanie and your voice is perfect hun xxxxx
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I am so glad the video helped! x
@pixalgamerz373
@pixalgamerz373 9 ай бұрын
i am currently questioning myself and my whole identity, and my friend reccomended your video, and you helped me with figuring out who i am
@SusanYTripp-lp4ss
@SusanYTripp-lp4ss 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I had my realization June, 2021 (age 52y, 4mos.), and contacted my Dr. at that point. I'd been crossdressing (M2F) for just over 40 years off and on, with an increasing desire/urge happening more and more over the weekends. Finally, I realized and contacted my Dr. It was less than 3 months from realization to social-name-change and out at work and on FB. By the time Thanksgiving (yes, I'm a Yank) came around in late November, I had a Therapist and prescriptions for T-blockers and Estrogen . . .
@rubusspectabilis9877
@rubusspectabilis9877 3 жыл бұрын
It’s great to have watched this. Thank you 🏳️‍🌈
@virginiazaylee4314
@virginiazaylee4314 3 жыл бұрын
Lovely, useful and informative video! Can you perhaps make videos on which medication do you have been taking since you have been transitioning? Also, video about voice training? I'm also trans woman and your videos have assisted me so much as well. I haven't come out yet.
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
I would love to do both of these ideas! I shall put them in the upload schedule! I will also have videos about coming out in early October so stay tuned for those!
@decoraborealis
@decoraborealis 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderfully explained as always
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
Ahh thanks Maya, much appreciated!
@ZaphBot
@ZaphBot 3 жыл бұрын
Very helpful video, I'm early in transition but also have this short bits of doubt even though thinking about being a women brings such a joyful mood. PS: I love your top, thats weird since we dont see much of it I just like that colour scheme and pattern lol. You got a subscriber :)
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much! And not to shock you beyond reproach but its actually a dress! 😱
@ZaphBot
@ZaphBot 3 жыл бұрын
@@stephanielynnette Sry, a bit not fluid in English, I thought top is a general term for everything worn on top (including dresses) so I used it. Anyway, beautiful dress!
@maxineb5279
@maxineb5279 3 жыл бұрын
Very informative video that will be helpful to so many! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks you lovely! I really appreciate it! x
@adamhurd1560
@adamhurd1560 Жыл бұрын
I'm not really sure where I sit. I've experienced all of the things you've mentioned and it's only now in my 30s that I'm starting to think deeply about who I really am. I've kinda identified as non-binary for a long time now, I must have changed my gender to something random on Facebook more than ten years ago and never looked back but doing therapy for my mental health has got me really looking at myself and whether I want to further feminize myself. I'm just not really sure what step to take and I feel awkward calling the doctor for this. Thanks for the video though, I'm still thinking but it helps.
@tomilove3856
@tomilove3856 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! ✌️💕
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome! Thank you for watching!
@cammij7595
@cammij7595 Жыл бұрын
I wish it was just about the clothes. The way I feel the way my body hair feels. It may have started as a kid the clothes but relating to girls not boys in social life and in media grew to wanting to look femme feeling puberty happen knowing it wouldn't have been OK at the time body envy became a horrible monster disgusted with not being able to stop having to hide for so long I just gotta see myself as I have felt just once before I die. Just to see myself in the mirror and say hey girl ya finally made it. Was it bound to be or because society said I can't be comfortable and not bullied as much idk. My mom always wanted a daughter so I been wearing girl clothes in private since before I could walk but who knows. Life happens I'm gonna have to live it or let it live me.
@robertclarke4301
@robertclarke4301 11 ай бұрын
Thankyou that has really helped me ❤
@darciwasaman1259
@darciwasaman1259 3 жыл бұрын
It is possible to realize your trans before you know your orientation. At 4 I liked a commercial for a girls thing. My parents said i couldn't have it, it was for girls. It was then i decided I was a girl sometimes. Once I hit puberty I did think I was "a little gay". I'm pan. Found out I might be trans at 30. Didn't feel dysphoria about it till 39. At age 10 in the 90s I couldn't be both anymore, never told anyone and put that part of me away. Keep sharing, I know many need to hear this message.
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
This was so incite fun to read, Thank you so much for sharing and watching! x
@spaceistian4578
@spaceistian4578 2 жыл бұрын
All deserve love and respect❤ Love from India😊
@bojanasavovic595
@bojanasavovic595 3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed watching and listening to the video. Gender identity is something I am currently experiencing difficulties with and it's bothering me quite a bit. I am really confused and insecure because I feel like I have no sense of gender or anything about myself that is telling me oh you are a girl or oh you are a boy. It's like my conscience is asleep or not aware. I was born female but at this moment I identify as genderflux but often find myself wondering what if I am a boy? What if I am nonbinary? What if I am just making this all up? Until a few months I was mostly,, feminine '' but every time I had to put on makeup made me feel like I was faking it and it made me uncomfortable. Not all the time but in most cases it did. Afterwards I cut my hair very short but I still hated the colour because it still made me look like a girl so I dyed it black and I was much more content! I started wearing more masculine clothes and I feel pretty good like that but I hate my bottom half of my body. I can't stand to look at myself like that. But yet when people call me a she I don't mind it but it's like eh okay I guess. Same goes for he sometimes it's alright and sometimes eh. Then they/them as well. It's like nothing fits at certain moments. I also thought about transitioning and hormone therapy and my first thought about that is that I would be terrified. I am kinda okay with my voice but I do wish it was deeper and that the bottom half of my body was more slimmer and like a guy's. When it comes to sexual orientation it was much easier for me personally to figure out I was bisexual. It was just right. But my gender is a mess just like me.
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
It sounds to me like you may potentially be gender fluid. But you’ve also got some discovery to do going forwards! Always here for love and community when and if you need it! Thank you for watching and sending love! x
@akane.9943
@akane.9943 3 жыл бұрын
Hey I’m feeling the same way. I’m not sure about it but im doing my best to figure myself
@alexisvan222
@alexisvan222 3 жыл бұрын
@@akane.9943 same... 2 years into it. Don't despair...you'll eventually figure it out
@alexisvan222
@alexisvan222 3 жыл бұрын
This is very close to where I am now. I currently identify non-binary/androgyne/bigender. I believe you're going to find yourself. Key experiences will come that will nudge you into the direction of truth. The accumulation of these experiences will override the doubts. In time you will know what you want for yourself. The only negative here is that there are no quick answers. I wish you the best, and thank you so much for sharing your own example, which has helped me too.
@theok3646
@theok3646 3 жыл бұрын
Every time I come across another video like this, I always think it’ll reassure me I’m not but I’m always wrong haha...
@crenfick7750
@crenfick7750 2 жыл бұрын
Random question, but how long have you been voice training? What method? It sounds so good.
@haley9284
@haley9284 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video❤️ I love your voice! I think you sound like Emma Watson! :)
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 2 жыл бұрын
High praise indeed! I am also here for ALL the witches!
@charcoriecothran6946
@charcoriecothran6946 3 жыл бұрын
Very very helpful! I like you. Your look is awesome! I am jealous
@darrob721
@darrob721 11 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@doryanahab6799
@doryanahab6799 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ....it did
@kim.yandere.
@kim.yandere. Жыл бұрын
You give off really good vibes
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette Жыл бұрын
Aww thank you!!
@aliceinshadowrealm7155
@aliceinshadowrealm7155 2 жыл бұрын
I’d like to ask how you made your voice feminine while keeping your accent I’m a trans girl from the uk and don’t want to loose my accent Hope you could help
@Owebb7208
@Owebb7208 Жыл бұрын
This video helped me a lot
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad!
@SG-zp4fz
@SG-zp4fz 2 жыл бұрын
Your voice sounds sweet like if it was a flower it'd be a daisy with pink petal tips
@Jade-bq8wi
@Jade-bq8wi 3 жыл бұрын
Feeling very unsure about if I'm trans right now, I'm a dude and chill with being referred as such, but if given the chance to be a girl I'd certainly accept, you know what I mean? I don't feel particularly happy or unhappy with my current appearance, but I feel like I could be happier if I tried crossdressing in the future when I get more privacy. I've heard some people don't experience a ton of dysphoria till they're sure they're trans, making sure that's true by mentioning it here, feel free to correct me.
@alicepuccini2452
@alicepuccini2452 3 жыл бұрын
I don't have such a big disphoria, however I would prefer to be a woman, like you do. So yeah, experiment with clothing, growing your hair etc. Remember, only you can tell how you feel
@nefert8417
@nefert8417 3 жыл бұрын
No matter what you end up discovering, you're valid dear, take your time dear and btw, dysphoria isn't what makes you trans
@timothygibney159
@timothygibney159 Жыл бұрын
@@alicepuccini2452 The fact that both of you ladies changed your names over a year since posting shows you came out. Are you happy?
@seanhartnett79
@seanhartnett79 Жыл бұрын
Yep. That seems like my situation as well.
@impytheimperialist
@impytheimperialist 8 ай бұрын
same.
@justonepilot1018
@justonepilot1018 3 жыл бұрын
So I'm....insanely late but there's no harm in asking. So I'm a little bit confused about my gender now. I don't entirely feel comfortable as a guy. My throat feels like there's a massive weight in it, I hate my facial/body hair and I feel like their should be things about my body that should be different. My question is, could someone be/feel trans even though they aren't really *that* feminine or if they like girls as well as guys? (and vise versa of course) Thanks for educating people nevertheless :)
@AdAstraPerAsperae
@AdAstraPerAsperae 3 жыл бұрын
Well, sexuality and gender identity aren’t linked together so you can be bi and trans or bi and cis(cis meaning cisgender, aligning with your assigned gender at birth or AGAB). Secondly, the way you present as masculine and feminine isn’t indicative of your gender either. Gender is a fluid spectrum so anyone of any gender can present however they want to regardless of their gender identity, if you present as masculine and you enjoy presenting that way but think you’re trans then those two things would not conflict with one another. Hopefully this is somewhat helpful and makes some sense, I’m in the same boat as you with my gender
@justonepilot1018
@justonepilot1018 3 жыл бұрын
@@AdAstraPerAsperae Thanks, that helps. I think I was just going through a bit of an identity crisis really XD
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree with this statement more. As Aidan has said they do not need to conflict and also you may not subscribe to any normative ideas of gender or the binary constructs of being masculine of feminine. You may not even align with the societal ideas of what being trans means but whichever path you find is right for you should never conflict directly but its completely normal for them to feel like they do.
@dinahnicest6525
@dinahnicest6525 Жыл бұрын
I don't care any more. I'm me. I've always wanted to be a girl and I've been cross dressing since I was 5. But that doesn't make me one. Adding to the confusion, I've always been sexually attracted to women. I used to wonder if I had latent gay desires hidden in denial in my subconscious mind. But the obvious physical sign of arousal dispelled that thought. My mental and emotional traits are a mix of both genders. I know which side of the fence I want the balance to fall on, so the wishful thinking makes it too hard to see exactly where it is. I finally decided to present as a woman most of the time, but to keep my male disguise in order to simplify certain situations, and to quit questioning, and just say "I'm a woman."
@kc4208
@kc4208 Жыл бұрын
A woman is an adult female. Unless you are an adult AND ALSO female, you are not a woman, just a confused man (assuming you are an adult male). Being a woman is more than saying it and feelings are something we have rather than something we are. Feelings are not gender specific, but our bodies are. Being a woman has nothing to do with expressions or personal inclinations .... it is a biological reality that can not be altered.
@dinahnicest6525
@dinahnicest6525 Жыл бұрын
@@kc4208 Why do you care about MY gender so much more than I do? And why should anyone care about the gender of anyone other than their own selves and their mates and lovers?
@kc4208
@kc4208 Жыл бұрын
@@dinahnicest6525 i dont. I left my response/my observations and moved on. Sorry for your mistake. i am not that invested into you.
@wyldcardsam
@wyldcardsam 3 жыл бұрын
First second and third
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏻
@peaceandtolerance557
@peaceandtolerance557 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Steph !!! 😅❤️
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
Hello!!
@user-zv5qk8up6m
@user-zv5qk8up6m 9 ай бұрын
Hi Stephanie I have a problem sabotaging myself would you and could you make a video about that please,?
@jaygent2836
@jaygent2836 2 жыл бұрын
Really helpful xx
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 2 жыл бұрын
Oh I’m so glad!
@jaygent2836
@jaygent2836 Жыл бұрын
@@stephanielynnette rewatched this again now I know who I am and even more helpful!
@PullUpsPower
@PullUpsPower 3 жыл бұрын
Really useful
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so! Thanks for watching! x
@vioentertainment6051
@vioentertainment6051 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve done research, I’ve realised from this video I may be trans but I’m scared that I’ll go through the surgery and later change my mind
@adumneeli4966
@adumneeli4966 3 жыл бұрын
don't worry, you're totally not alone on this. i have the exact same fears
@graceygal2664
@graceygal2664 3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry You need to do what's right Just because anti trans bigots say detransitoning is inevitable it's not If you feel you are trans. Try and talk to a gender therapist they should help
@seanhartnett79
@seanhartnett79 Жыл бұрын
YepX
@SunIsLost
@SunIsLost Жыл бұрын
You don't have to do surgeries, you can still with social transitioning, then you can move to medical transition.
@thatbicuriousFictionkin18
@thatbicuriousFictionkin18 Ай бұрын
My whole life,ive hated dresses and skirts. And I always picked to be a boy in games and always wanted to be a boy. Now,I found out that I am a transgender man.(Closeted still.)
@vampireracheal8131
@vampireracheal8131 Жыл бұрын
I just really liked being called he and she
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette Жыл бұрын
That completely vail you can use she/his pronouns!
@jimmygarcia8213
@jimmygarcia8213 2 жыл бұрын
To steph good lucky to u I now u feel happy now
@davidglowacki8350
@davidglowacki8350 2 жыл бұрын
Hi I am david and am a boy thats is feeling different have been wearing womens cloths and shoes since I was I was in 4th and 5th but now it's I wanna try everything that ladies wear and but I'm scare to come out what should I do I want to change my gender but there's of thoughts in my mind. I wanna know more about myself someday
@jazzrodgers
@jazzrodgers 3 жыл бұрын
I played with dolls when I was 4. Always loved playing house and dressup with my sisters, even though I pretended like I was doing it against my will. Came out as bi in high school. Everything you said seemed to hit the nail on the head Still cis tho :/
@jacobharper4301
@jacobharper4301 3 жыл бұрын
Gender expression can be different than gender identity. One is how you project and the other is who you feel you are at your core.
@jazzrodgers
@jazzrodgers 3 жыл бұрын
@@jacobharper4301 "Still cis tho" is meme/joke about "yeah, I'm obviously trans but I'm still gonna deny it because I'm scared to be too open to the world." All the hateful comments I find in many of these videos, plus the fact that most people I know are anti-trans makes coming out a very uncomfortable thought, no matter how internally tormented I am by gender dysphoria.
@jacobharper4301
@jacobharper4301 3 жыл бұрын
@@jazzrodgers Oh ok. Thank you for letting me in on that. I only realized I was pan last fall so I'm kinda new to this... Lol. I replied to your comment because I found it relatable. I grew up playing with stereotypically boy toys, but I also paint my nails and wear skirts from time to time as an adult. I've had literal dreams about being female a few times and it was always very pleasant. (In one I was just walking around a museum as a girl.) But at the same time, I don't have any real problem with being a guy. I feel like the only reason I'd transition is to go from a male 7 to a female 9 and that seems really disingenuous and opportunistic.
@jazzrodgers
@jazzrodgers 3 жыл бұрын
@@jacobharper4301 No prob ^.^
@lordreega8994
@lordreega8994 2 жыл бұрын
For me, I didn’t think I was gonna be gay. I thought I was gonna be with a boy, but I didn’t think I was gay. It still took me awhile to figure out what that meant tho.
@jefrreyjeffery2192
@jefrreyjeffery2192 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know if I'm just feminine gay guy or trans woman. 😕
@unknown_person_1138
@unknown_person_1138 3 жыл бұрын
Can i Ask if a baby Can Be Transgendered?Because I grow long armpit hair and i like basketball.And also i don't like being a girl or somthing is saying that im a boy/Transgender
@awwtergirl7040
@awwtergirl7040 2 жыл бұрын
I always did a bit of cross dressing in private when I was I young child. I still feel unsure about a lot of things.
@teleamor
@teleamor 2 жыл бұрын
People over 20- do you remember even ONE "trans" kid growing up? ? Me neither.
@Lil_5_8_Cross_Eye
@Lil_5_8_Cross_Eye 2 жыл бұрын
4:20 I was a little bit masculine but more towards the feminine side when I was 7 or 8 probs even both I would wear my cousin’s heels and boots and put on a small blanket and wrap it around me like it was a dress and pretended I was Sophia from Sophia the first and I really enjoyed that and now I’m 17 almost 18 questioning if I might be MTF I like my male features and how I look as male but apart me feel like I could slay as female and I like their outfits and dresses like if I were to transition I’d buy a ton of dresses lol and I like my hair legs and armpits but I’d probably have to shave if It comes down to it but one thing for certain I don’t like facial hair or neck hair ew lol I might buy some wigs and a couple of outfits and dresses and heels and etc to see if I like the look but like I really do like my male features and how I look as one lol sorry for a long list of words :)
@COLINJELY
@COLINJELY 2 жыл бұрын
Before transitioning did you crossdress?
@donaldbaker6961
@donaldbaker6961 Жыл бұрын
You rock Gurl love you I wish I could be you you are everything I have dreamt of being all my life I do t know what I’m considered I’m just a guy that loves women clothes I don’t want to go the whole nine yards I just want to be able to wear the clothes not looking to switch teams I just absolutely love the styles cuts colors and comfort thank you for what you do beautiful 🤩
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette Жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much!
@zackmoore805
@zackmoore805 3 жыл бұрын
Hey um. My buddy thinks he might be transgender. I don’t really know how to help him figure things out. He’s not sure yet but it’s really stressing him. Can somebody help me a little bit on how to make him feel a bit better about this kind of stuff
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
Feel free to DM me on Instagram @iamsteffilynn and I’ll see if I can help x
@bryancrosby6709
@bryancrosby6709 2 жыл бұрын
Theory about Transgender DNA perhaps?!#
@Operator_V
@Operator_V 2 жыл бұрын
Me: **Searches "MTF Operatives field codes"** **This pops up**
@jamessenik4231
@jamessenik4231 3 жыл бұрын
U look very amazing in your videos on KZfaq
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you James!
@jamessenik4231
@jamessenik4231 3 жыл бұрын
Your welcome and beautiful to
@sydglover4842
@sydglover4842 2 жыл бұрын
I have a name. I'm using it now I have done my research. I really really want to be a girl and I want to try women's clothes but I can't because i'm scared and don't have access yet
@zeng58
@zeng58 2 жыл бұрын
Cross dressing helps but i am still not comfortable with my own body
@brightsideimperfection9740
@brightsideimperfection9740 3 жыл бұрын
Have u ever thought u were trans and compared what u feel like as a man and as a woman and really didn’t know is that normal?
@PrincessMihai
@PrincessMihai Жыл бұрын
I always wanted so desperately to be a lesbian
@kc4208
@kc4208 Жыл бұрын
What? Why?
@andreaam805
@andreaam805 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve never watched a video like this. You just know that’s how you know lmao?
@bryancrosby6709
@bryancrosby6709 2 жыл бұрын
I was told the soul never had a name or gender; it leaves me with the belief that in heaven you could be either gender you want; perhaps even transgender can exist in heaven#
@gavie9060
@gavie9060 3 жыл бұрын
im so scared lol
@rexaquaticis865
@rexaquaticis865 2 жыл бұрын
IF YOU LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND DON'T LIKE WHAT YOU SEE YOU CAN FIND OUT FIRST HAND WHAT IT'S LIKE TO BE ME. I dunno if the MCR reference was intended, but it's definitely acknowledged.
@sometimesawful
@sometimesawful 2 жыл бұрын
I thought kids know by time they're 4? I thought they just needed the language to say it? So how could an adult not know?
@tdadp
@tdadp 2 жыл бұрын
How would you not know .. you have feeling and your questioning your self or you look as the opposite sex and say wow I wonder how they fell wearing their clothes. Their is a good chance your transgender.
@sandoronest
@sandoronest Жыл бұрын
I simply think if I menstruate and able to get pregnant then I'm a woman. And if I have penis & able to ejaculate sperm then I'm a man. I think to identify ourselves/our gender particularly is very easy.. Also out of curiousity.. if (lets say) someday everyone or majority are trans, how could you know with which person you can have kids? I mean the possibility of human exchange their gender and make most of us confuse is real no?
@stephanielynnette
@stephanielynnette Жыл бұрын
I mean despite the transphobic undertones of this comment. What about bio-women who don’t have the ability to menstruate or conceive? Or bio men who naturally don’t produce seamen? Outside of just being a straight up bigot you’re also excluding huge quantities of cod-gendered men and women…
@Trans_Is_Beautiful
@Trans_Is_Beautiful 3 ай бұрын
I struggle with relationships but wondering if i am male to female as I'm trying to improve my moods. I love feminity and have dressed up female and enjoyed it. These videos help, though x
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