Seriously, I would be to scared even think about dating
@TheFactsofLife2376 жыл бұрын
6400 boc EXACTLY!
@sheilawitherspoon2957 жыл бұрын
"A man ain't got no business asking a woman for money!" ~ Dad (1930 - 1990)
@joliejohnson10986 жыл бұрын
Sheila Witherspoon yep
@firesign42976 жыл бұрын
Sheila Witherspoon 👏👏👏👏for..."DAD"'s....WISDOM!🙏🙏🙏 AND mind you he said a.... "MAN"! 👍👍....😊🙏
@sophisticatedmm36326 жыл бұрын
precisely I just experienced this a few days ago from an acquaintance off FB. I politely declined 😀
@tels96 жыл бұрын
Yes mamm!
@PhilDesigns6 жыл бұрын
that goes visa versa too I hope you know that.
@dianesorokac22604 жыл бұрын
A real man never takes anything from a woman!
@richagupta8344 жыл бұрын
Well it’s not bad to take in love but it’s bad to use someone just to take something and then leave them
@asgharakram3 жыл бұрын
When a guy asks you to do something go halfsy or use your car for it . Huge red flag he is a user.
@jeremysmith3563 жыл бұрын
@@asgharakram What if he support her and every, his car just broke
@bonitami_amor565 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately i felt for this 3 years ago. Ladies NEVER date a man that is below your level. Has soon as they get a come up they dispose you.
@deandremack34 жыл бұрын
ReaLlllll
@ceemac3044 жыл бұрын
never ever. he just gonna use u for a come up.
@yvonnemakori98694 жыл бұрын
True...I learnt it through experience
@cyyrious4 жыл бұрын
FO REAL
@CG-uy8dk4 жыл бұрын
Amen! Been there too xx
@raqueljasper59577 жыл бұрын
Hobosexual, a man who gets into a relationship to avoid being homeless.
@kaywisseh7 жыл бұрын
Raquel Jasper a what???????? Girl I had to read that comment over and over again!! Yesssssss!!! That's my new word! Hobosexual!! 😂😂😂
@angeliquesimmons65317 жыл бұрын
Raquel Jasper #hobosexual!!!😂😂😂
@phillygyrl347 жыл бұрын
Raquel Jasper the word of the day is Hobosexual...girl...I'm done! lol!
@lunar-raeintuition25017 жыл бұрын
I like it, perfect word to describe them
@nikki53607 жыл бұрын
Raquel Jasper LMAO, I love it!!!!😂😂😂
@ashleyemeana27857 жыл бұрын
if this ain't God giving me a sign, smh
@TheCarnivoreSoprano7 жыл бұрын
Ashley Emeaña you better take that sign
@ashleyemeana27857 жыл бұрын
SuperPhdiva it really makes me sad, smh...But I've always been blessed and taken care of by the Higher Powers...I am heeding this sign.
@TheCarnivoreSoprano7 жыл бұрын
Ashley Emeaña I know it is hard. believe you me I've been there. but you have to live this life for you.
@ashleyemeana27857 жыл бұрын
SuperPhdiva I ain't stopped living...lol. I'm just annoyed. Years wasted. I'm waiting on him to make his move... so I can do what I already know I should be
@delovelyday4307 жыл бұрын
Ashley Emeaña yes
@chattingwithaqueen4 жыл бұрын
If u wanna know how a man really feels about u, just make him mad enough & he will definitely tell u how he feels about u 💯
@urbanchynadoll5 жыл бұрын
I had a man try to do this to me. I refuse to be a man's boyfriend.....smh
@jessicajenkins2325 жыл бұрын
Me too. Driving a camaro but water getting shut off.
@sophiem77344 жыл бұрын
Same, I flipped the script and he flipped the bitch switch.
@amymorale13794 жыл бұрын
@@sophiem7734 They always curse us out when we stand firm on NOT accepting their BS, no skills, lies, stupidity.
@sophiem77344 жыл бұрын
@@amymorale1379 Yep, some of us don't want be sister wives. No man is worth fighting over, especially when he belongs to the streets.
@embermathurin57284 жыл бұрын
I'm eating Mac and cheese and chicken. I almost choked.
@songbird42127 жыл бұрын
It's crazy how far a man will go to ruin you if you let him.
@vanessaellis72896 жыл бұрын
RIGHT ?!!??!.. I LIVED IT. 😐
@asill.66686 жыл бұрын
Kea Bird Preach!!!!!
@Mztrue876 жыл бұрын
They'll go all the way in if you let them.
@Kendawg8416 жыл бұрын
Don't settle or allow that in your life
@eunicesantiago82236 жыл бұрын
Relatable! Learn that the hard way.
@nubiancoconut10876 жыл бұрын
Any man that's broke shouldn't be worried about looking for women he should be looking to get his life together
@asill.66686 жыл бұрын
nubian coconut Broke men are looking for women to take care of them in this day and age. Like Derrick Jaxn said in this video, this is the new wave now and it's sad!
@WhitneyAbrina6 жыл бұрын
Looking for a come up.not a girl
@clarissanm9186 жыл бұрын
Amen
@jennymoll4426 жыл бұрын
nubian coconut - Agreed. Any guy who’s broke should not be hooking up with women because, if they can barely pay bills, what happens when they get a girl pregnant.
@jamellemcraeobasi79136 жыл бұрын
Amen
@lisajamison19355 жыл бұрын
Got rid of my ex-husband who did that. Living my best life now! 😀
@rachelrodgers8205 жыл бұрын
Lisa Jamison me too gesh!!!
@ms74erika5 жыл бұрын
Me Too ..Lawd I Was In Misery...Now I'm So Happy
@yahairacope17264 жыл бұрын
Girl me too! Living my best life
@webuysellhousesaptscashoff94534 жыл бұрын
Same here after 20 years of marriage
@sheilamyers454 жыл бұрын
Me too girl!!!
@Sukuna_gout84 жыл бұрын
This is deep!!! He doesn't want me he wants my help.😔 Sad but true
@toolite1006 жыл бұрын
I believe a real man would never ask a woman anything.
@nicolebailey92305 жыл бұрын
Why do people put pictures of babies on their comments.
@toolite1005 жыл бұрын
Nicole Bailey I love her
@gree17235 жыл бұрын
Your King shouldnt have to ask his Queen. His queen know when to step in. For what action jackson is speaking of is Facts those are str8 clowns😳
@charmekiawhite36335 жыл бұрын
I believe that too
@ShotgunEDBOY5 жыл бұрын
HA!!!
@charnelleford25467 жыл бұрын
they are not looking for help, they are looking for permanent sponsorship. meanwhile Her life is falling all apart.
@rrayeclart77167 жыл бұрын
Charnelle Ford exactly 👏👏
@relaxitsnotthatserious70907 жыл бұрын
Charnelle Ford Yes sister you telling the whole truth 👏👏👏👏👏
@deej56087 жыл бұрын
HoneyBLuvly 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@NoelleMonroe7 жыл бұрын
Charnelle Ford 👍👍👍😂👌
@Dominiquem02227 жыл бұрын
Charnelle Ford this was me 3 years ago
@lovelight29195 жыл бұрын
This generation is full of them!!!! 2019 🤦🏻♀️
@mssavage55473 жыл бұрын
“They don’t want you, they want help” THIS! 🔥
@shethewriter5 жыл бұрын
Being a woman is exhausting. Male friends, love interests, colleagues, often trying to get something from you.
@cajnova86545 жыл бұрын
I think that goes for everyone. I can imagine it being more tough for women tho.
@natalieknight86955 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@ronnieevers51155 жыл бұрын
BUT ...ONLY IF YOU LET THEM....I CALL ALL THE PATRONIZING.".PANNY TALK"...YOU,,,,YOU LADY....HAVE WHAT HE WANTS,,, ..WOMAN...GIVES HIM WHAT HE WANTS,,,..BE A LADY,,,WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE A LADY,,,ACT LIKE A LADY,,,YOU TREAT YOURSELF WITH RESPECT,,,DON'T LET HIM TALK YOU DOWN,,,AND YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN,,,,CARRY YOURSELF LIKE THE BEAUTIFUL LADY THAT YOU ARE,,,IF HE IS INTERESTED IN YOU..HE WILL SHOW IT,,,AND HE WILL STILL WAIT ,,AND IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO WAIT TILL, YOU KNOW HE WANT MORE THAN A ROLL IN THE SHEETS...BUT HEY,,,IF THATS ALL YOU WANT,,GO FOR IT,,TELL HIM TO COME AFTER DINNER,,AND LEAVE BEFORE BREAKFAST,,,,AT THE RISK OF SOUNDING DIRTY,,,DON'T LET HIM TREAT YOU LIKE A TOILET,,,....
@realmaletearsaspatriarchys13515 жыл бұрын
@@ronnieevers5115 please go lay down in a park somewhere!
@DonnahhughesHughes5 жыл бұрын
You are making it exhausting! KNOW YOU, KNOW YOUR WORTH, SHUT IT DOWN FROM THE THE GATES. RESPECT YOURSELF! YOU ARE WOMAN..
@jenowens99906 жыл бұрын
News flash ladies: some of them will goes as far as to marry you just to get a nice place to stay! I’ve seen it done! 😒
@marsha17586 жыл бұрын
Jen Owens , that's very true. I've seen it too.
@TamaraGarrettAlpha6 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to say that is a situation I just got out of. Life lesson learned.
@marsha17586 жыл бұрын
Tamara Garrett, a least you wised up and walk away. You're smarter and stronger now and no other guy can pull that on you again. You'll see them coming from a mile away. Congratulations !
@blissbabe72966 жыл бұрын
or try and get you pregnant, LOL!!!
@couleuredgirl63146 жыл бұрын
Jen Owens word up 💯
@louislane165 жыл бұрын
Lots of men dont know their role as a man
@barbararichardson27474 жыл бұрын
Oh they know it's desperate women that don't know.Why blame mothers for another woman's stupidity.
@mizjohnson1233 жыл бұрын
The problem is the wrong mothers being blamed. Its their mothers that are dropping the ball. And then they think we are supposed to be their mothers and raise them. I don't think so!!!!
@rachelx24524 жыл бұрын
I once had a guy to start out telling me his financial hardships. I shut that down quick.
@therealynashah50034 жыл бұрын
😂
@cicikizable3 жыл бұрын
😂👌🏽
@karenpurdy32893 жыл бұрын
As you should💪🏽
@cooperdivine17 жыл бұрын
my entire perspective has changed since following these videos. I just ended a relationship with a guy who accused me of not being down because I think he should have his own apartment at 35. I'm sorry but ladies we can't allow men to guilt us about the life we have built because we are not willing to share our resources with them.
@rrayeclart77167 жыл бұрын
Shaunda C I agree and I also think there's been a shift in the fact that women are more equipped and settled by a certain point in their life so guys don't have to put in work to build themselves when they can walk into a situation that's fully set and just sit and scratch their ass smdh. I truly respect men who know what they want in life not just in a woman too many are seeking perfection and cancel out their own flaws. And it's even sadder the men I see around me in their 40's and 50's are falling apart they had so much in their 20's and have nothing now to show for it and so their kids see them at this low point and have no respect for them.
@melodyross96017 жыл бұрын
Shaunda C A-MEN!!!
@melodyross96017 жыл бұрын
Shaunda C It's not like i have alot. But apparently, i had just enough for him.
@PFPSocialMedia7 жыл бұрын
Shaunda C They like playing on our Hearts. We are too good & caring to allow anyone to take advantage of us. Forget that!!
@melodyross96017 жыл бұрын
PFPSocialMedia Right, right...
@BRITTWOODNESHIE5 жыл бұрын
They are not only looking for help, but looking for a second mom. Nothing but a user. But a lot of females allow it. Insecure men attract insecure women.
@msheidi28615 жыл бұрын
Nesha Britwood I'm not an insecure person , but I fell for a guy like that 2 yrs ago until I found out who he really is. We all make mistakes. Some people learn some don't . God is great.
@Prescotmills87325 жыл бұрын
Hey stop shaming some of us who didn’t get a very good start in life. I’m in school right now thus I’m broke. Currently looking for a lady to build with, preferably one with a stable job and nice apartment :)
@bxndo5ive4 жыл бұрын
You not lying, a second mom that they can sleep with. They want to move in with women and expect the woman to cook for them and clean up after them without them paying any bills. They expect all of that and sex while they have nothing to offer but dick🤣
@shymickey64 жыл бұрын
You're kind of harsh at the end there. I guess you never had issues in your relationships. Then again, you're here, so...
@HelloKitty-sq2jo4 жыл бұрын
@@bxndo5ive facts
@Ladyjojo835 жыл бұрын
Whew chile!!!! I wish I had heard this 5 years ago. I'm running to divorce court!! The worst part is that I allowed it for so long. To anyone else in this situation, let them beg until their tongues go numb but don't look back once you get the courage to let it go.
@vanessalandry97634 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!
@cassitout4 жыл бұрын
Sis, you ain't lied yet. Get that divorce and close that chapter in your life. Better things await.
@ThePhoenix37124 жыл бұрын
Common sense should've told you not to date down
@Ladyjojo834 жыл бұрын
@@ThePhoenix3712 and you're perfect right? People make mistakes. The important part is learning from them. That's where common sense kicks in!!
@barbiebee61865 жыл бұрын
So True 💯 . Then Get Mad At You When You KNOW THE GAME ! He gets Mad When you Cant Be FOOLED , Nows HES THE JOKER 🃏 !
@mrs2realauthor2703 жыл бұрын
Good one girl
@krys902105 жыл бұрын
This is so accurate! Unfortunately I fell into this trap... in my 20’s and now I see it coming a mile away. Ladies, if you got your ish together only mess with men who is on the same level!
@asill.66685 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!
@kamishaowens6205 жыл бұрын
Yes ma'am just recently disposed of a fuck boy that is no where near where I am at in my life ...and I thought I was being to judgemental not wanting to talk to someone that didn't have the same as me or more .....but I wasn't
@paristhequeen35035 жыл бұрын
Oh Yes, Amen.
@bonitami_amor565 жыл бұрын
SO TRUE !!!
@missarabia18754 жыл бұрын
I've fallen for it too.. I really appreciate this wise brother sharing his wisdom with us!!
@Th3lite7 жыл бұрын
I understand why some men don't like you. it's because you're exposing them.
@JustDoRight6 жыл бұрын
Th3lite Ha! Oh well, as he should. 😂
@glamourqueen48166 жыл бұрын
Th3lite was thinking the same thing while watching the video
@ladymarmaladea.24636 жыл бұрын
BUT HE'S A MAN TOO. IF YOU ASK ME HE IS PROTECTING WOMEN. HE OBVIOUSLY LOVES HIS MOTHER AND ADORES AND RESPECTS WOMEN, SO LET THEM BE MAD, THEY SHOULDN'T MISTREAT AND ABUSE WOMEN.
@MandyRichert6 жыл бұрын
Personally my thoughts on that comment. I Agree! To me THIS IS A REAL MAN! If I was his mama, I'd be proud as hell! The thing is, if a man feels like he's "against" men, then chances are, he falls under that category of "not a real man!" Yes, he's helping woman. BUT -I feel like he's helping men more! I'll explain: being real, A LOT of these dudes don't got it together and don't care. Take the advice gentleman, this man speaks truth to help YOU! Your going nowhere FAST! It's not cute! There isn't enough good men out there anymore (Personally at times, I feel like giving up, I'm a good woman and daily deal with losers) Stand out! Being a real man will definetly get you a good woman! Listen to this man...he's helping you!!!!!!!! If you CAN'T comprehend, then you'll remain a loser! That shit ain't cute, especially when all your boys are married/families, and you sittin on the sideline (secretly) wishing you had the same. Times valuable, don't waste it! AND stop wasting our time too!
@AVRALLC6 жыл бұрын
Th3lite yeeees!🎁🙌🙌🙏!But these r things we already saw😶..n knew...we m@y not have known how to articulate with certainty# round of applause to us who dont care how others feel..at the end of the day we have to protect our livelihood🐣coming outta our shells
@serenitydimitroth36655 жыл бұрын
Im glad i learned this by 29 and can enjoy my 30s. I got zero time and know the difference.
@KO-qo4uq4 жыл бұрын
Two years later and I still come back to Derrek’s videos for a re-fresher course.
@TheCarnivoreSoprano7 жыл бұрын
when a man is in dire straights the last thing he should be doing is looking for a woman
@QUICKNESSN37 жыл бұрын
SupeerPhDiva. Agreed! He needs to "get himself right" FIRST!!!
@jamiross55687 жыл бұрын
yes!!!
@QUICKNESSN37 жыл бұрын
HoneyBLuvly. Yes. It's disgusting how SORRY (and alright with being SORRY), and PUNKISH these men(?) of today are. Just had a conversation with a co-worker earlier today who asked me if I would get married ago. I told her 'no', she said I just haven't met the "right " person yet. I had to tell her ---I'M HAPPY and steadily GROWING! To EVERY female out there, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF RIGHT NOW! In doing such, YOU will build YOURSELF UP, so STRONG, a that YOU will not be WEAK and take BS from these(sad) a*** men(?) . GOOD LUCK LADIES. Take care HoneyBLuvly.
@TheCarnivoreSoprano7 жыл бұрын
SECOND CHANCE!!! thanks love. I am definitely on that. I am working on a masters PhD program right now. I am enjoying myself and my space. just got my driver's license and planning trips. I am excited for my life without relationship bs.
@TheCarnivoreSoprano7 жыл бұрын
SECOND CHANCE!!! yup. no buts
@stoneyb61837 жыл бұрын
I'm now married to a wonderful man who made it possible for me to go back to school,I pay absolutely nothing besides attention to my children and schooling!
@atlantaitgirl17797 жыл бұрын
Sharon Pointer congrats!!!
@stoneyb61837 жыл бұрын
AtlantaITGirl Thanks Boo
@CodyCole805 жыл бұрын
Stoney B Blessed! 💯
@roses4me4514 жыл бұрын
"What a man, what a man, what a man, what a mighty good man!" Praise GOD you got your King!!
@d_nuevo42464 жыл бұрын
That's what separates the men from the boys. 💪💪💪
@shakenamcauley77935 жыл бұрын
I met one....we've been talking off and on for about 3 years..recently we started talking again and he told me he just moved into his own place and his pay check was short and he had to pay his rent...So I changed the conversation on him...now he doesn't call me or text me back...gave a lame ass excuse say he's having problems with his family...I guess he thought he had a real genuine fool.
@tpbrowneyes7 жыл бұрын
I have come across a guy like that. I told him I'm not looking for a first born he needs to man up and take care of his responsibility.
@rrayeclart77167 жыл бұрын
tpbrowneyes 😂😂👌
@mandypandy76777 жыл бұрын
tpbrowneyes I tell them quick... If u looking for someone to take care of u, u need to go talk to your momma. Im not taking care of no grown ass man.
@omphilemoerane25697 жыл бұрын
Lmao "i'm not looking for a first born" I'm dying at this!
@tpbrowneyes7 жыл бұрын
Mandy Pandy That's right they want us to be their emotional toilets and ATM. They should go back to their mama and finish breastfeeding and grow up.
@TimidTheProducer7 жыл бұрын
I was eating a chocolate chip cookie when I read this comment. I started laughing so hard it pushed some of the cookie out of my mouth, lmao!!!!
@neekaloveyou51886 жыл бұрын
My ex husband just came back to me after not seeing me for years and asked me for Help!! No child support no NOTHING from him, I slam the door in his face!!
@freedom7685 жыл бұрын
Well done, well proud of you. Hope your happy in your life smile and thrive, bless you. Wishing you all the best for the future.
@sweetolives24675 жыл бұрын
Wow. What a disgrace to the human race.
@melanatedwoman37605 жыл бұрын
neeka Love you ...u should have kicked him in his butt too.
@MaritheBarbi5 жыл бұрын
Next time talk to the the peep hole
@dionice63615 жыл бұрын
@@MaritheBarbi 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@MzBentluvsluv5 жыл бұрын
It’s a major turn off when you’re talking to a guy and here he comes trying to put his issues on u.. like brahhhh I got my own shit to deal with.. we aren’t together and my problems is my problem
@nikiasublett89164 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard this from a relative . He’s been with his girl for almost 8 years and still haven’t married her. He only got with her for a place to stay
@bq-92384 жыл бұрын
Keepadagroov reason such as?
@user-yr1lk5pk7l4 жыл бұрын
😮
@phillove10153 жыл бұрын
That's my situation currently smh
@mrs2realauthor2703 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@maquillamelily2127 жыл бұрын
I want to be with a man that doesn't need me at all and I don't need him either, we are together because we want to be there
@chocolategoddess40566 жыл бұрын
Maquillame Lily every man wants a woman and ever woman wants a man. Ik those lonely nights in between different guys gets old. No man should be alone, everyone needs someone
@nopopparazieplz7 жыл бұрын
This must be a new trend because I have come across a few of these dudes. I'm not trying to be a foster mom to a grown ass man!
@Nekole17 жыл бұрын
nopopparazieplz I been noticing this to lately with guys.
@paulsambula49396 жыл бұрын
nopopparazieplz it's not a trend stop dating thugs and low lives that's y'all who you choose to date he just telling y'all what you want to hear
@kkgreen79466 жыл бұрын
+Paul Sambula sadly they are not all thugs.Some are well dressed,nice speaking momma's boys whose mom is in it with them since she is tired of being his sponsor to life.So the mom will be his bank as he' spoils" the new potential.My ex and his mom to be exact. The new victim.is of course of 40 , but he has the game down sooooooo good only ME with experience would ever see someone like him coming. He hates me since not only am I married I see right through him and let it be known on any occasion. It's a fatherless boy cycle and doesn't have a race or background destination attached.
@Kendawg8416 жыл бұрын
Karen Green I agree with you
@margaritabirgen4 жыл бұрын
That's all True! They just want another mother to take care of them...and offer no value at all to the woman! Single free and At Peace!
@3moon3764 жыл бұрын
Happens in a long distance relationships too , happens online. Happens when people are lonely. Men or women ,no matter.
@SaharaAP7 жыл бұрын
Women please watch out for these kind of guys. This sounds just like my ex narcissist bf. He goes around acting that he's a baller but in reality he's been sleeping on other people's couches for years and acts like their a helpless child. These guys get so angry and play the guilt card when you say "no"😒! Be careful just know these guys have other supply to fulfill their childish needs. Please I want everyone to look up narcissistic personality disorder. It might help someone out 🙏🏾😊
@scoobydoo73466 жыл бұрын
Sahara AP the guy was with he would blow up and get angry and he threw a temper tantrum and and yell and curse like a b**** if I said no to him so at one point I became afraid of telling him no but then I felt like s*** inside
@christinalane52806 жыл бұрын
I found out the hard way that my ex husband was a narcissist after investing 6 years and going thru hell with him. This is real this is serious stuff I wish I had known about that before!
@jennifercanonica61626 жыл бұрын
I felt like I was his mother because I was constantly cleaning up after him and did everything for him. My boys are 27 & 31, he's 50 and they are more responsible than he is. He did the same thing to me - blew up at me, get angry, call me a C... and F...... B...., turn everything around on me and belittled me all the time. I was afraid to say anything to him because I feared he would get angry. I suffer from severe depression so things like this would send me into my bedroom sleeping for days. He is TOXIC and I finally got the strength to be who I need to be and be a strong woman and kick him out. I've tried several times in the past but he just won't leave but this my friend suggested that I call the cops and UBER and have him picked up. LOL
@tiyahisrael6 жыл бұрын
Sahara AP I’ve always wondered how can you tell the difference between a narcissist and someone who really needs help,but using manipulation to get you to help them..I guess the only way you can determine the difference is to wait to see how they will respond if you refuse to give them help and tell them NO..
@ontoyoualways91836 жыл бұрын
Sahara AP. YES!!! If you are not very, very strong and can see this, they will destroy you. On purpose!!!!
@dang_keyonna97256 жыл бұрын
This goes for friendships as well! Complete users!
@vickiedias47154 жыл бұрын
When they still live with there mother. Is a major red flag
@GiselleLeger4 жыл бұрын
Why is it a red flag?
@sadepayne4 жыл бұрын
@@GiselleLeger Because its a sign that will not do for themselves. Now if he's their to help her that's different. But, if he's their mooching and not helping with anything as man. How can he be a husband to you.
@SunnySummer7774 жыл бұрын
@@sadepayne my boyfriend(33) (I'm 26) of 2 years moved back in with his parents after 8 years university-no degree. He helps around the house in ways(but his mom is controlling&hoarder) but is not paying rent because he's trying to pay off student loan debt. He wants us to "shack up" but my gut/intuition refuses until he can stand on his own 2 feet. But after 2 years...? How much longer until I get the Real commitment I want?:(
@audrymoore77574 жыл бұрын
Summer kay, don't let him talk you into Marriage.
@SunnySummer7774 жыл бұрын
@@audrymoore7757 of course not, but why would he want to marry me anyways? I want to break up with him, and what sucks is that he'll ONLY change if I leave him?!? Like, wtf?
@lorifuller40654 жыл бұрын
I dealt with someone exactly like this for too long cuz I have a good heart. He still tries to contact me but I don’t give him my time. It’s much too valuable to waste.
@MsAyoFashola6 жыл бұрын
These men first try to drain you emotionally and physically before they hit up your pocket. That's the first sign. Resist and desist.
@annanderson33905 жыл бұрын
Chocolate Divine yes
@lisapitter91147 жыл бұрын
Honey had to shut it down today. Talking about we should be together cause our money would be better together I said boy my money good all by itself. Had to laugh he was telling me all the things he going through and been through felt bad for him told him to pray and God will make a way but my house ain't the way.
@NisahPooh7 жыл бұрын
Lisa Worsley 😂😂😂😂😂
@aminahhope90407 жыл бұрын
Lisa Worsley 😅😅😅😅
@crystalwilliams64736 жыл бұрын
Lisa Worsley I laughed so hard
@smmackey6 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@JasmineStaceyy6 жыл бұрын
Yup! Dude I was dating did the same thing!!!! #Free
@prtysolutionsnmore5 жыл бұрын
Wish I saw this video 5yrs ago. I'm good now. And learned a valuable lesson from my experience.
My cousin just dumped a guy like this. He was living with her and don't help pay the bills, pay rent, he mooched off her food and pay-per-view and FINALLY, she came to her senses and kicked him to the curb. He even texted her saying she's a fat, ugly bitch, no man would want her fat ass and she need a relaxer because her natural hair is ugly. My cousin is a pediatrician and been having her own since she graduated from high school.
@keepthefaithwithtori7 жыл бұрын
LovelyMom 1981 So he mad because she came to her senses.....Boy Bye!!! He's a grown boy....Men don't do that....
@toombs62877 жыл бұрын
LovelyMom 1981 Sad Shit
@legslipsandlashes98317 жыл бұрын
LovelyMom 1981 If I was your cousin, I would be laughing at his ass right. He couldn't kiss my tail right now. Clearly, he is grasping at straws and he knows that she is finished wit his foolishness. Boy, sit your ass down.
@SagittariusQueen19807 жыл бұрын
***** exactly, her mom and I told her when he called her all of that he should his real self. She says she'll rather let God lead her to another man and she's only 29 and no kids.
@queennegus72397 жыл бұрын
LovelyMom 1981 what a bum! a 29 yr old pediatrician! he better thank his lucky stars that she even graced him with her presence,I'm glad she took that trash out.
@Tr3B3lla7 жыл бұрын
I've definitely come across dudes like that. They think because you have your ish together and have your own everything you're about to become their sponsor. "You better call Tyrone...call em!"
@smmackey6 жыл бұрын
“And tell him come on help you get yo shit!” Lol
@queenrocksradio26776 жыл бұрын
Tre Bella Lnao
@msheidi28615 жыл бұрын
Dear Derrick, you just described the guy I was involved with 2 yrs ago. I totally believe that God intervene like He always does in my life.
@jens39274 жыл бұрын
Just got rid of a guy exactly like this, saw the red flags but slowly started to make excuses for him instead of leaving when i should have
@vanaphill24547 жыл бұрын
His people put him out? he can't live with me. Kick rocks, homie. He stranded. Hit the homeless shelter. I'll give him the number!
@juliejuju74197 жыл бұрын
Vana Phill 😂😂👌
@taliyahthompson88917 жыл бұрын
Vana Phill 😂😂😂😂😂 bruh "kick rocks"
@asill.66687 жыл бұрын
Vana Phill LOL!
@wall472917 жыл бұрын
Vana Phill hahaha
@mixymonroe7 жыл бұрын
Vana Phill LMAOOOO.....IM DEAD 😂😂😂😂😂
@escah91507 жыл бұрын
When he cry broke so do I. I got bills.
@CodyCole805 жыл бұрын
Jesstine Exactly! 💯
@DonnahhughesHughes5 жыл бұрын
My great grand mother told me when ever a man or woman start giving you a sob story how broke they are. Turn it around and start saying how broke you are and how you need help. Keep doing it.. it works..
@almajones94475 жыл бұрын
*I KNOW THAT'S RIGHT*
@BluDrop54 жыл бұрын
Lol!
@bemiwuzhere8654 жыл бұрын
Those 488 dislikes are the dudes mad they’re getting exposed
@blissbabe56113 жыл бұрын
yep, they mad that they getting exposed, but ain't no body want to deal with their sorry asses.
@phoebeange-line73003 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@thelavishpartygirl5 жыл бұрын
Yes I’ve recently ended my long term relationship with my now baby daddy because of this. In the back of my mind I always knew he was using me but I wanted the companionship and I hoped my investment would eventually payoff since we were so young when we started. Unfortunately I realized he never had intentions of getting himself together. He’s an addict liar and thief. Who only cares about himself and his next high. But I got my baby girl out of it and she was worth the heartache. Now headed to my 30s and one day dating again i know to look for this type of man. My kind nature won’t be easily taken for granted again.
@lakiesha764 жыл бұрын
Have we been dealing with the same guy? Lol real talk....
@Ashley-ss4mb4 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same situation.
@thelavishpartygirl4 жыл бұрын
thannah2489 lol ain’t no telling 🤣
@thelavishpartygirl4 жыл бұрын
Naturallyash I’m so sorry
@Ashley-ss4mb4 жыл бұрын
Rated R-onda it’s ok I’m trying to get over it but I have to take it day by day.
@gladysalexander6377 жыл бұрын
I dated a guy for 5 weeks last year who was just like this. His whole life was a sob story and none of it was his fault . Tried to guilt trip me into doing things for him (from giving him money, to marrying him, and watching my kids. I don't even let certain family members around my kids). Final straw came when he was about to get put out by his cousin and he asked to stay with me "for a few days". I actually talked to my daughters' father about the situation. He told me something that his mother told him: Never set yourself on fire to keep somebody else warm.
@hasinabrinson82707 жыл бұрын
Glanedys Alexander #facts
@deborahhardaway89197 жыл бұрын
Glanedys Alexander smart lady
@dinam57136 жыл бұрын
Ughh so many guys full of sob stories as if it’s our responsibility to get their shit together. Good for you for kicking him to the curb.
@restorationbeautyfashions40896 жыл бұрын
Wow. I like that
@danitabrown15285 жыл бұрын
This why I stay single. A man or so call man rather use and abuse a woman than to love her down and cherish her abilities
@almajones94475 жыл бұрын
*PERIOD* 😔
@perciousgem15224 жыл бұрын
Trust I don't blame is best to be single than to be in a wrong relationship.
@gemini81584 жыл бұрын
Those are not men. They’re old a** boys!!!💁🏽♀️💚
@georgiemoran44424 жыл бұрын
True
@redpooh54 жыл бұрын
FACTS shi* is frustrating especially when you want kids!!!
@Dragoon40405 жыл бұрын
This is very true, as a man that is going through it at this present stage in my life I cannot talk to any woman in the hopes of saying let's have a life together or let's see where this goes until I get myself right. For any women that is talking to a fellow that is going through the motions of trying to get himself together and he is 21 years or older ... leave that "man" alone. He is eventually going to get better but right now he needs to figure out what he needs to do to take care of himself before he can think about taking care of somebody else. As I said before, I'm going through it myself. I'm 30 years old and I'm going through a divorce. I'm not thinking about trying to have a woman at this particular time because I have nowhere to go. I need to figure out what I need to do to take care of myself, and once I figured that out then I can bring a woman into the picture. Then and only then is when I can bring a woman into the picture. After that, the sky is the limit. So, heed Mr. Jaxn's but also heed my warning, never let a man who can't take care of himself try to take care of you.
@gregf76245 жыл бұрын
Brilliant advice...
@teresamccreary61124 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your side of the story. We won’t see this perspective very much 💯
@missmarladeana13184 жыл бұрын
It's nice to hear a man take responsibility and know it's not right. I salute you in making the right choice for yourself and not hurting woman in the process. I wish you the best and when you are situated I hope you find the woman of your dreams. God bless 🙏🌞😇
@dheemarieINC4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I needed to hear this now...
@vanessalandry97634 жыл бұрын
Keep striving young brother! Thank you so much for respecting yourself and showing respect for women. You will get it together and the next relationship will be a blessed relationship.🙏🙌
@lajoyce89085 жыл бұрын
Facts. Guys will not get to a point to ask me for something. Soon as he start talking about his problems, my phone calls will stop.He will get the message.
@tjaspire4 жыл бұрын
You. I like you. 😂🤣🤣
@veronicasmith72517 жыл бұрын
i find it completely disqusting when a man can fix his mouth to ask a woman for money...
@Nekole17 жыл бұрын
Veronica Smith I agree
@sophisticatedmm36326 жыл бұрын
especially. if they don't know that woman very well
@stephssings57205 жыл бұрын
I don’t want no scrubs 😆 ty TLC
@Arizona_lilly5 жыл бұрын
these men been doing thst... that's Y that song came out
@qmcrae155 жыл бұрын
I think TLC admitted to being broke on live tv. They were the real scrubs
@eva.maneva58435 жыл бұрын
Quinton Mcrae what lol??
@100realmoore74 жыл бұрын
Lol
@abby-hv6ll4 жыл бұрын
a scrub is a guy that can’t get no love from me🥱
@ladennayoung29394 жыл бұрын
She dodged a bullet. I'm sure he was homosexual on the low. Smh.
@niwe36313 жыл бұрын
man lol
@RoseClimbPaintC5 жыл бұрын
My favorite is when they beg you to believe they respect you while they are simultaneously getting handsy. Actions scream and words whisper.
@DominiqueBKADT6 жыл бұрын
I been saying this. Especially women who have their shit together be careful! These men are out here hunting for those type!!!
@blissbabe72966 жыл бұрын
msdominique and they will suck you dry if you let them.
@angeliquecook-hayes76055 жыл бұрын
Yesss......the worst and most worthless piece of shit man seems to put effort into hunting for good women that they can use. Nowadays it is a very sad but true phenomena!
@vedaam91895 жыл бұрын
Have been one of the target.. Can't believe he just used me out.. Omg very hard to believe. I still truly love him Just gave and gave him always.. Every now and then
@vedaam91895 жыл бұрын
@Robin D. Thanks Robin.. I tried to leave him but now he is not leaving me calls me from all different phone numbers n ol.. Should it be okay if i leave him abruptly.. It had been one and a half yr relationship and i have spent about 80000 giving him.. Pls tell me
@MsArleeneE5 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS! THEY ARE!
@mandypandy76777 жыл бұрын
I just stopped all communication with a guy because of this. Wont be using this girl. I mean he kept talkimg about how he lost his bank card and I kept changing the subject then he just came out and asked me for money. He was so mad at me for saying no. bye boo!
@rrayeclart77167 жыл бұрын
Mandy Pandy 😂😂😂 some guys are just so brave 😂
@legslipsandlashes98317 жыл бұрын
Mandy Pandy I was seeing a guy who had the nerve to ask to borrow money for attorney fees for a child support case. He wasn't even working anywhere at the time and I never even had the pleasure of meeting the precious son that he was not taking care of. I just told him straight up, "Um, no because you have no means of paying me back number 1 and number 2, we have enough problems. I'm surely not gon run behind your ass about my.money." Baby, he was hot with me. He really thought I liked him enough to go to the atm. He can go scratch.
@juliejuju74197 жыл бұрын
Legslipsandlashes "he can go scratch" LMAO😂😂
@mandypandy76777 жыл бұрын
Im telling u. He tried that.... The bad thing is we were only talking for like a month. I wasnt invested. I told him I can't do it. I can see if we were together and we were adding to each other's lives but dude, who the hell would u ask if I wasn't in the picture? What kind of shit is that? Then he always wanted to come over. Hell naw. Take your wanna be player, loser ass on to a female who will let u run them games. He's been blocked.
@ashleydominique73927 жыл бұрын
Mandy Pandy right. I met this this guy and a week later he got fired. He broke up with me after a month saying I didn't hold him down. Damn right I ain't holding you down!
@jayde_toca14035 жыл бұрын
THIS..... it happen to me and he still claim he gone pay me back and miss and want me smh... but has yet to do so...i just moved on n stop feeding in to IT and them guys that talk about how much they use to have for example I use to have my own place i use to have my own car... yada yada yah...smh
@scottdenise324 жыл бұрын
Yes! I had a guy I had met a guy and after the first date, tried to get me to cosign a car for him. 👀👀👀🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
@YanniBarnes7 жыл бұрын
This is my situation right now... and the crazy part is I never asked him to live with me..i just looked around one day and he was completely moved in...don't become trapped ladies, when u see a dude with nothing to offer, RUN... you're not being a gold digger, you're being smart...Don't find yourself home alone, with a bunch of kids, paying all the bills, while getting cheated on the whole time...Women are saints, the shit we have to deal with smh
@jennymoll4426 жыл бұрын
YanniBarnes Maybe not a bunch of kids, but a kid could come out of that situation, yes. If there is no protection being used.
@ThatssoRavenDeNai6 жыл бұрын
YanniBarnes right but he force himself on me because I told he have to leave and I told no a brunch of times too
@oldsouljs80426 жыл бұрын
Ravenna Morgan call the cops and get him out. No man can force his way to living in your house.
@dreamordo48976 жыл бұрын
Ask for help... and prepare to go out... there are dreaming of loving someone like you.
@catwithincreates77056 жыл бұрын
YanniBarnes Exactly would just happen to me ☹
@BLissEmpireQ7 жыл бұрын
I've met a few like this lately! After being married for 22 yrs and newly single, I hope this isn't all that's out there! When guys find out I'm not running a bed and breakfast they're gone! 😂 I'm enjoying my peace and reclaiming my time!
@sanctifiedgrl90sgirl6 жыл бұрын
Paula Garrison same here. Married 15. Newly single and I gotta tell you, there are some trifling "men" out here. I'm not swapping my new found peace of mind for a pair of pants. 🙅🏽 They can kick rocks! LOL!
@constancemorgan24626 жыл бұрын
It's not even worth getting a piece these days.....double AAs on deck 😂😂
@shaundasuber91286 жыл бұрын
Paula Garrison hi lady..my situation sounds very similar
@WhitneyAbrina6 жыл бұрын
Paula Garrison me too lol
@monicapearson22646 жыл бұрын
Paula Garrison f
@jaylanmcbryson47685 жыл бұрын
This video spoke to my soul. I'm so f*ckin tired of these types of dudes.
@kpthebyrdman43263 жыл бұрын
You must have been through a few to be able to make that statement 😏
@ttlovesyooh5 жыл бұрын
There’s two guys that tried to do this to me and they kept promising “I’ll pay you back” and “I can’t wait til I can spoil you” and when I called them out on their bullshit they play victim or ply like they’re not using me. One guy he wanted me to meet him at his job. I said for what? I’m not giving you a ride. He said did I say I needed a ride? I just wanted to show you something. 🤣🤣 dudes funny af and trifling as hell
@miahailey42007 жыл бұрын
Truth.. The signs always there. Pay close attention ladies.
@toombs62877 жыл бұрын
I been in this situation before and the bad part about it was he had a son. I call these kind of men BUMS!! It's sad that these kind of men exist. LADIES BEWARE THEY'RE NOT LOOKING FOR LOVE THEY'RE LOOKING FOR HELP.
@LylieRandale7 жыл бұрын
Loretta Toombs thannnnks
@tinydyira33843 жыл бұрын
Just met someone to that effect, my goodness, the sorb stories must stop. He finally said he wants to come over for a few days and I told him that I don't mind him coming to see me but not in my place. That was the last time he spoke to me. I listen too much to you kind sir, I have now embraced myself for single hood co I ain't helpn.
@Keyaunalee5 жыл бұрын
I wish I would've known better before getting married and wasting 😭 14yrs
@wendychanda88474 жыл бұрын
It's never too late to start over ma'am.
@tracymil13 жыл бұрын
14 years wasted here too.
@dzikomuah33037 жыл бұрын
That's why I love the block and delete feature on my phone...I had a similar experience...red flag....he ask if I lived alone...I'm grown...of course....then he was trying to create a scenario to come over...he wanted to show me how to cook a traditional dish....i said video it. After his sob story about he just lost his job....must have been the same day cause I ran into him twice at his job (my car dealership) the he starts telling me how handy he is a jack of all trades...every conversation he wanted to try and come over my house...I told him I know ppl for over 10 years and they have never been to my house so why do feel privy...block and delete
@rrayeclart77167 жыл бұрын
Dziko Muah u kno 😂😂👌
@ThatGirlBigLex7 жыл бұрын
Dziko Muah 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!!
@ayeshhas56417 жыл бұрын
Dziko Muah you go girl. if us women stop taking trash from men all at once, they will man up and realise is either fix up or die alone.
@catherineking27517 жыл бұрын
Girl you dodged a bullet, that fool was trying to move in!
@asill.66687 жыл бұрын
Dziko Muah So he was a "jack-of-all-trades" and probably a master of none! Furthermore, if he always wanted to come to your house, he most likely didn't have a place of his own...smh
@aprilmarie48787 жыл бұрын
Its so crazy that i came across this video today, I'm dealing with a guy like this right now, and i feel so played after watching this, i thought was just helping out, it went from can you help with my phone bill, to can you pay for my daughter recital, too something bigger like can you pay for me to move in a new place, just found he stayed with some girl after we been talking for almost a year and truth be told he dont add any value to my life at all, I am cutting all ties with him today!!!!!
@LovelyyyyyyDove7 жыл бұрын
Girl it was a nigga I came across like that and it all started with him losing his job first, then his car got towed, then he didn't have money for his rent..... So me being the nice mf that I am i gave him a few dollars cause I felt bad for him..(wasn't much but something)....so then he started asking for more talking about can i borrow 500.00 I told that nigga hell nahhh..... And brought up his job and he got mad...... Had to end that quick..... Next time I won't be that nice to mf's.... I don't give a f'k if we're friends or mf's I'm just talking to.. Won't happen anymore......I heard if a mf ever wants to borrow money or something get something of higher value that they OWN sorta like "COLLATERAL" then do a trade but never ever do shit just cause.... Cause Mf's tend to abuse that shit and have you looking dumb in the end.... KARMA will get that ASS tho so I ain't worried about nothing....😏👏🏽
@legslipsandlashes98317 жыл бұрын
markiya garner If he got collateral to trade with you, he needs to take his ass to the pawn shop and make things happen first. If he aint your husband, don't loan him a gotdamn thing. This fool asked to borrow money from me and he had absolutely no means of paying me back. I work from home so after I told him "Fuck no!" I explained to him that while I'm working, I watch plenty of court shows all day. The shows are made up of women suing men for loaning them money. I'm not participating in any of it. Let him sell his shit.... or call his mother.
@aprilmarie48787 жыл бұрын
Just to give you guys an update, I don't deal with him anymore, block his number, and made sure he can't contact me again. These past few days have been amazing, so I'm just going to focus on me for a while....
@professionalaccount88707 жыл бұрын
april marie go head sistar!
@LovelyyyyyyDove7 жыл бұрын
Temeka Nelson aslong as we learn from our mistakes no nigga ever gone try to run that game ever again.. cause we will be up on game before they even try to run it💯💯 real talk!!
@annieterry14075 жыл бұрын
Hunni Atlanta is FULL of men like that! Hell I'm thinking about relocating to a whole new country for a change. Please keep up the good advice to us💖
@Th3lite4 жыл бұрын
I'm here with you.
@reynellesspence48654 жыл бұрын
Girlllll PREACCCCCCCHHHHHH
@cnmuchina004 жыл бұрын
Black men. Try dating outside your race.
@annieterry14074 жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 unfortunately with all that's going on, no. I'm still stuck in Atlanta.
@Freespiritedqueen3 жыл бұрын
@@cnmuchina00 interracial dating / marriage is great!
@YANAMization4 жыл бұрын
"I don't want to be your sponsor." Periodt and walk away.
@septinawillis44746 жыл бұрын
You are so right.. I'm 59 yrs young.. That's why I stop dating.. Men will make you homeless.. Nobody drives my car.. I live alone.. And it will stay that way.. I like you.. Thanks for sharing.. First time watching your videos.. I will subscribe..
@vanessabayardo97885 жыл бұрын
My ex used to drive my car but it was always with me in it.
@mjparham64305 жыл бұрын
Smartest woman on this thread!Congratulations!
@lynetteharvey27165 жыл бұрын
Septina Willis 👌
@marvanewborn22876 жыл бұрын
1. IT HAPPENED TO ME! 2. I SHUT HIM DOWN 3. HE GOT MAD. 4. I LEFT TOWN FOR 45 DAYS (to keep my Son's from getting involved) 5. CAME HOME AND NEVER COMMUNICATED WITH HIM AGAIN, PERIOD! GET OUTTA HERE, USER!😔
@mzegarra385 жыл бұрын
I got out of a relationship of 10 years and the man that I was dating was an extremely narcissistic! He put me threw so much emotionally damage! And I did everything for him! To the point of where he wouldn’t need to get up for a drink of water because I catered to him! Well to sum it up it’s been a little over a year!!! I’ve watched your videos for help! And I am single and going strong! With an amazing career and future goals for myself! Thank you so much!!! You’ve helped me over come so many obstacles!
@Emilie1919893 жыл бұрын
This is true I’ve lived through it as well. They play perfect and once you fall in love they got you so they created a safe home with income and good 😻. Tough lesson but good experiences make u wiser and teach self love in the end. 🙏🏼💕💝
@jessicatobin77857 жыл бұрын
I started talking to this dude who said he had his own place, had a job that he loved, etc. Within the first week, he started telling me how he was short on his rent and his mom wouldn't lend him the money. The fact that his own mom wouldn't help him out was a HUGE red flag. Then he said that he lost his job and still didn't have his rent and kept dropping hints because he knew that I make a lot more money than he does. Then he asked me to be his girlfriend and said "I'll love you as long as you love me"!!! I didn't even bring up "love" because at this point, we were only talking for about two weeks. I'm not stupid so I just cut him off. I stopped answering his calls and texts. I knew what he was about so I didn't even feel like he deserved an explanation.
@Lady-br3zy6 жыл бұрын
Nothing more disgusting than a dry begging behind man. 🤣🤣🤣 I have blocked men ASAP, don't try me EVER.
@MaritheBarbi5 жыл бұрын
Nique Cherry show bet not attempt to put your lips together to ask for shit
@tiffanyhall92565 жыл бұрын
My ex boyfriend never wanted me, he wanted emotional help. One minute he tells me he needs me next thing he on some other shit where he stays home and be by himself. Plus I always pays for his food. I'm tired of dealing with these lame ass dudes. I'm glad I'm single.
@mariewalker90975 жыл бұрын
This hit home with me had relationship patterns of men who I nutured seems I was playing both roles in relationship always giving my all being their lifesaver but never recieved in return had to take deep look within to break patterns I guard my heart an working on myself etc good video
@grennie465 жыл бұрын
Looking into codependency/ Something in your past or childhood make you always want you unconsciously save or fix these jokers. Always spend all that nurturing energy on yourself. Spend time living you like you would a child. Hope this helps
@queenflore98416 жыл бұрын
Hats off to the queen who raised you! My first time watching your videos. You look very young to be so mature. Keep up the good work!
@shannonlilia5 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@EvonDee7 жыл бұрын
Don't walk, RUN, post haste in the opposite direction. But please be careful how you tell these fellas 'no', because your life is precious and some of these dudes are mental! I said some😐 Key words: feels comfortable. (asking you for things he should be handling himself) Ladies you know when something ain't right. Don't be guilt tripped into anything! Not having a man is better than this alternative! #rantover
@shararose71705 жыл бұрын
Thank God through my life I have discovered that I will entertain, date and be in a relationship with a man that inspires me than a man who exhaust me. Ladies be with a man that inspires you not one that exhaust you... and vice versa.
@MsNobody5 жыл бұрын
Lol... This happened to me a very long time ago. Guy asked me to go for lunch date. I end up paying coz apparently he accidentally left his wallet. I got home he called me & asked me if we can do that again. My answer "what so you can have free lunch again?, No thanks!" Hang up.
@enricat106 жыл бұрын
I divorced THIS GUY and guess who I ran into next...... You guessed it, another version but THIS time (Thanks to your videos) I peeped game and bounced him. I already have CHILDREN, don't need another one.
@SonjaElizabethTeal6 жыл бұрын
StartingOver2017 Good For You!!
@bonitahobbs20976 жыл бұрын
StartingOver2017
@byrd8135 жыл бұрын
You live and you learn! We really need a community that strengthens us, and creates success in the form of working on ourselves. Especially after dealing with people like that. That drain your energy, confidence, and self worth. If we all keep the same mindset of not dealing with this nonsense, they'll have no choice but to get their life together.
@SalomeBMedia7 жыл бұрын
what a way to turn me off is to start asking for money :(
@nikki53607 жыл бұрын
Salome B 👏👏👏Yasss
@mandypandy76777 жыл бұрын
Salome B yesss. A guy can go from being 100% attractive to not attractive at all for this move.
@SalomeBMedia7 жыл бұрын
Mandy Pandy yess and the guy i was dealing with was very handsome, the relationship was new the more i messed with him the more i found out how he was,about the third encounter he kept asking me to bring him food and asking for 10$everytime i saw him and i notice my attraction for him started to disappear, I learned i was attracted to the fact i didn't know anything about him the mystery had me until i got to know him,i found out he was a lier,he didn't live by himself like he said he lived with his parents 35 years old still at home, I went by one day his dad answered the door my attraction disappeared like a magic trick,had been going to his house for months didn't see no parents,it's sad when a man is super handsome and like this sad
@SalomeBMedia7 жыл бұрын
p.s I got the dick and never called his ass again no thanks i need all my coins :(
@DONT4GET_SUNSCREEN7 жыл бұрын
Salome B 😂
@kerynl.sanchez98914 жыл бұрын
My ex wouldn’t take a cup of “ice cream” from me when he was down on his luck, at least he was an honorable man!
@mishamcfarland88764 жыл бұрын
So true. I was with my partner for 10 years. And he lacked affection empathy didnt care about my feelings and made excuses as to why he did it. I was tired so i told him to get his stuff and get out because I can be alone and have peace rather than be let down over and over and undervalued
@tiffanygrant16067 жыл бұрын
I actually just broke up with my ex because that's how he was being. At first it started off with him losing his job and then I gave him some money to help him out, then it led to him needing more money to do this and that and he became so dependent upon me he knew when I got paid I pretty much was a sucker but then I figured out what was really going on and I let that fool go. Now he talking about he want me back and he want to to take me out and I told him I've been taking myself out I can continue and I don't need him.
@meowsash6 жыл бұрын
😆 "ive been taking myself out"
@vaniathomas88596 жыл бұрын
Mines told me that if I can't be with him at his worst , then I don't deserve him at his best. 😒. So when or what is his best🤦🏽
@sophisticatedmm36325 жыл бұрын
Adios you dodged a bullet
@girumzemichael7045 жыл бұрын
Vania Thomas He may have a point so long as his “worst” is a season and he’s doing his best to get his life right but if he’s comfortable and is taking it easy, that’s something else..
@kaoshi_kutie4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 what a lowlife 🙄🙄
@missarabia18754 жыл бұрын
Looooool
@sherriespencer24614 жыл бұрын
😃😃😃😃
@veronicastevens16145 жыл бұрын
I fell in my shower laughing at this. Lol I was cleaning it and I slipped and fell. Love this guy😂
@lacimason25205 жыл бұрын
Getting used is the worst. People take advantage of those with big hearts who will do anything for anyone